I think you should move on from her.

You said she is jealous, and secretly hurting you, so what is there to discuss?

Dear Poster, do you know that not every friendship is meant to last forever?
Create distance from such a friend, because sometimes, the healthiest choice is to love and forgive someone from a distance. Setting boundaries is not unforgiveness, it is wisdom.
Pray and protect your marriage, and don't allow bitterness to take root in your heart. The right friends will celebrate your blessings, not hurt you or compete with you.
Please my dear take your marriage to God...
With God nothing is impossible.

Detachment is often overlooked, especially in traditional societies where relationships are prioritized over personal well-being. It is wild how people can be expected to maintain connections even when they are toxic. Detachment is a form of self-care that should be prioritized above all. No drama, no confrontation, no telltale, just you removing yourself from people's lives quietly.

Poster, make a powerful move by choosing self-care and removing toxic people from your life. No drama, just a quiet prioritization of your own peace. That's a win in my book. Someone who is hurting you deliberately should not be called a friend, not to talk of being your closest pal. Remove yourself, quietly!

Stellz said it all..

You still they ask questions? Please block the witch and never disclose anything about you to her.

I don't know why peeps gets jealous for what is never theirs. rejoice when good things happen to others, and same measures will be replicated to you in good time.

DOZZYBEST.

Poster if the friendship isn't helping you grow financially etc and all you both do is to gossip about things and people, please cut it off. I have a friend who all we majorly do is to talk about our relationship with men, watch movies, go out to get stuff or sit out and eat barbecue fish and things that doesn't really help my growth. I sat myself down one night and decided to put and end to it

Let her go. Cut her off.
A jealous person can kill.

Poster, friendship no be by force, zero your mind and move on.face your marriage.

Dem never poison you daz why you still dey ask shulai this or shulai dat. Mtshewwww

Until the jealousy turn into full blown hatred and she tries to kill you that when you will understand what jelouseness does..
Continue asking silly questions instead of running for your dear life.

If someone has repeatedly shown you through their actions that they want to hurt you and undermine your marriage, believe them. You don't owe them another conversation or an opportunity to explain themselves.

Quietly cut ties, protect your peace, and move on. Not everyone deserves continued access to your life. A true friend celebrates your happiness, they don't try to destroy it. Sometimes the healthiest response is to walk away without looking back.

Some One You Know Personally Is Hurting You Face To Face
Instead Of Running Away From Her ...
You Dey Ask Jamb Question....
Okay
Continue

Hello iya Boys

Discuss with your family but maje them promise never to confront her. No need to Discuss anything with a jealous friend, pretend she doesn't exit and move on. You will be fine, stop trusting people to much.

I don't know why you think she's jealous of you. This mindset is common among people who got married before their friends. Sometimes you people assume things that never existed. Until I hear about how she deliberately hurt you then I would know if you really know what you are saying or not.

There's nothing wrong in telling her how you feel about her actions and hear her out so you can get clarity if she's doing them intentionally or not . You should ask her so you would know exactly why she suddenly changed. Ask her if she truly was a close friend you. I don't like the idea of keeping a friend in the dark over a matter that troubles your mind . What you are assuming may not really be it.

Expect your kidneys dey her hand . If not please leave her.

Poster, according to Jordon Peterson, most people who go through post traumatic stress disorder, do not have it because they were hurt. They have it because they encounter someone who is very prepared to hurt them.

He went on saying that people go through all sort of horrible experiences and will not be traumatised until they entangled themselves with someone who is malevolent, they usually not the same after all.

Were eze gi guo ire gi onu.

You have to tell her so that 1. She will know That you know, and 2. So that she can help herself by becoming a better individual if she can.

What she is doing isn't so strange to us in Africa. That’s why we have a name in Igbo, "Ilokanuno", or the short form "Iloka", meaning that the enemies within are more than those outside

Yours is not an isolated case. Ceasar's friend Brutus became jealous of him. Joseph's brothers became jealous of him. The pharisees and sadducces became jealous of our Lord Jesus Christ.

But, as we have seen in history, it is not healthy

If left unchecked, it will graduate and start looking for your blood
That's why you need to talk to her
Use love to counsel her. Try to give her hope in the truth that every man has his own time of visitation from God. Don't judge her
But still let it be clear to her that it is Satan's spirit that is operational in her while she is manifesting the vice.

You need to withdraw from her first

Watch her as an outsider. Don't trust her, but still help her in any way you can.

If you both don't have the same spirit and your values do not align, there is absolutely no point in becoming friends again. But if these are one, you might reconnect in the future.
After talking to her, please, forgive her. It is for your own good.