Some people stay in your life without adding a single drop of value. They drain your energy, disturb your peace, and take advantage of your kindness. Yet you keep holding on because you don’t want to look like the bad person who walked away.
But the truth is simple: Some endings are blessings in disguise.
When certain friendships end, you suddenly breathe better.
When certain friendships end, you suddenly breathe better.
When it ends, your mind becomes lighter ,your spirit becomes calmer and you start seeing how much you were forcing what should have flowed naturally. You realise you were the only one showing up, the only one caring, and the only one investing.
When life finally remove these people, you feel relief and not guilt.
Not every friendship is meant to grow with you. Some are meant to teach you. Some are meant to warn you. And some are simply meant to end.
So let’s talk, BVs:
Have you ever felt secretly happy when a friendship ended? Did the peace that followed make you realise you should have let go earlier?
Share your experience. Let’s Gist!!!
When life finally remove these people, you feel relief and not guilt.
Not every friendship is meant to grow with you. Some are meant to teach you. Some are meant to warn you. And some are simply meant to end.
So let’s talk, BVs:
Have you ever felt secretly happy when a friendship ended? Did the peace that followed make you realise you should have let go earlier?
Share your experience. Let’s Gist!!!
Wow..
ReplyDeleteI felt peace of mind when I ended my friendship with a long time friend. He almost reported me to witches and wizard.
He would have been my best friend ever but the guy just fuck up. Could remember someone still asked after him from me two days ago but how I wan take reply. Person wey we no see again since 2019.
I found peace ajeh
True friendship is a rare gift. Not everyone gets it. Some people don’t have genuineness, trust, or sincerity in them. For them, loyalty is tied to what they can gain. But here’s the truth; One selfish move writes a check that loyalty can’t cash.
ReplyDeleteYou can be forgiven, but you won’t always be trusted.
Some doors close quietly. And they don’t reopen.
One selfish move is all it takes to turn years of loyalty into permanent distance. People will always forgive. But forgiveness doesn’t always rebuild what broke. In all honesty, I'll advise, guard what matters, even when your ego says otherwise. Be careful what you show people. Moving on from bad friendships is finding calm in the chaos. When everything you offered wasn’t enough, I'll say, please offer your absence .
No regrets. Just lessons.
I will take responsibility when I’m wrong. I will never apologize for responding to disrespect. If you started the fire, don’t stand in the flames pretending to be the victim. Most people who start fires in others lives will always avoid accountability and shift the blame.
I’m glad I left some people behind when I had to. At that point, peace was all that mattered to me.
©️ TEEJAY
Yes oo Mammi when the wrong person is in your life she/he will just drain your energy,disturb your peace, but immediately you off from that,fiam... you will have a breath of fresh air and the happiness no be here oo, you see that PEACE 🫛 i can't tread it with anything else 😘
ReplyDeleteNo gist for now biko😅
The relief I felt when my friendship with a lady I met on this blog in 2015 ended was beyond imagination! Girl dealt with me, went diabetic, caused me pain. The fight in my shop was messy. Hmmmm, I hope God forgives you
ReplyDeleteThere is no friend like Jesus! He is the one who sticks closer than a brother and understands every struggle. 🙂↕️ #Truedat
ReplyDeleteGbamsolutely💯
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ReplyDeleteOne of the things I hate so much is ending a friendship but I ended one friendship few years ago and God! I was relief.
ReplyDeleteThough it wasn't like we fought but she relocated to another state and I knew that was the end because I was already feeling exhausted. We lived on the same street and the friendship was choking me, like she was practically my second skin. I love her and I appreciated our friendship but sometimes you just want your space, just your space.
When the opportunity came for her relocation, I felt a sign of relief and I knew it was the end of our friendship.
No need for unnecessary celebration. Move on in peace and grow in learning
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