Amidst the squabble, the man could be heard saying
"Your son is in the hospital and you're here..."
How will you weigh in on this matter?
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Watched this video on Fb and can only say both Man and Wife did not do well. That embarassment was not necessary. There are better ways of dealing with family Issue. As it is now if that marriage survive na by God's Grace. Jesus take over the wheels 🙌🏻
ReplyDeleteI still stand on my point..
DeleteThe critical condition of the son must have ignited that action. No main his well arranged hormone will do that to his wife
Very true, two bad heads! The man should not have confronted her publicly nor try to drag her out. He should have, like they say, stand in the gap and taken care of his son, then wait for her to come home before confronting her, she too should have left the hall when the man came to confront her, she should not have replied fire for fire, all those people there will judge her for not making her son a priority, not respecting her husband (Who did not respect himself) and not respecting her home. She was high handed in her response to the situation. I believe she doesn't want the home again. For a woman to behave that way, she is gone. Woo this generation's priorities are different from the older generation. This may be a woman who leaves her children to be tended to by maids, so no personal feelings of guilt about leaving him again in the hands of the maid in the hospital
DeleteNa leader isonu, very crude man
DeleteNa leader isonu, very crude man
DeleteVery crude bush man. So if she spends a few hours Upskilling herself, will the boy die?
DeleteThe best he could do was go interrupt a business event and disgrace himself barking like a dog.
He as a man cannot fill in the gap for those few hours?
Oh I forgot, his own contribution was to contribute sperm and an empty head.
These empty things that you lot marry will still be the end of you.
Na content ooooo, it is just a drama.
DeleteShe no try
DeleteI watched the video and couldn't close my mouth for the woman oooo.
ReplyDeleteThe man's action might be due to the bad situation the son is. If the situation wasn't that worse, I'm sure the man wouldn't have behaved in that manner
So if the situation was critical, would going there to cause a scene have solved it? The time he spent acting out that drama would have been better used managing the ‘critical’ situation.
DeleteHe’s a father and a leader. Two people in a marriage shouldn’t be angry at the same time. There are better ways to react to a woman’s behavior, especially if she’s your wife. Public disgrace is never the way. I’ll never do that. The day you disgrace your wife in public as a man, you kill the respect and love she has for you.
©️ TEEJAY
Nice one Teejay
DeleteWhen I saw Teejay under Pinky's comment I knew you came to counter his opinion and you didn't disappoint me. Na only God know wetin Pinky do for you. Hian!
DeletePinky, I understand your point dear.
There were better ways the husband could have handled all of it. Going there to create a scene wasn’t the best. The scene outside just made everything messier.
ReplyDeleteI also didn’t get the part where he said “Your son.” What happened to “our son”? Is the child the woman’s alone? The child belongs to him as well.
Since the wife prioritized what she felt was good for her, the man shouldn’t have bothered going there to cause drama. He should have risen to the occasion and handled it himself. The woman would eventually come home and they would sort it out at home. I’m not justifying what she did. But couples shouldn’t wash their dirty linen in public.
©️ TEEJAY
Hmmm 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteWhy did he leave his son in the hospital and went after the wife. Is he not the father? So who was with the slck child when he went after the wife.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteTaking care of the child is the responsibility of the woman alone, yeye dey smell.
DeleteWhat's So Important In This August Meeting
ReplyDeleteNa wooo
Hello iya Boys
They both didn't handle their issues well.
ReplyDeleteYeye meeting.
ReplyDeleteContent stella
ReplyDeleteBoth are at fault my opinion
ReplyDeleteEasy does it.. he shouldn't have acted like that publicly...
ReplyDeleteFor me both of them are wrong.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of a mother would leave her dying son in the hospital to go attend a meeting she could easily stream live? We heard the husband saying "is it because you earn more than me?" I don't think she has any iota of respect for the man or whatever they hold dear. Her spirit has left that marriage long ago.
ReplyDeleteNothing about this said the son was dying.
DeleteThat aside, I don’t see what will make me leave my child in the hospital to go and attend a meeting.
Na dat one dey pain the man all these while!
DeleteIt's content
ReplyDeleteDo people not have children in hospital and still go about their business depending on what is at stake. When one of my sons was hospitalized, my husband, my mother and myself, ran 24 hours shift around him . I did the night shift and i was still going to work. I came home one day from a party to meet a son of mine with full plaster cast on his hand. When i asked, i was told that what would be the point calling me all the way from where i was ( i was in the same locality and one bike would have bought me home). My husband had taken care of it in my absence. What we saw is the manifestation of issues they have in their home. I like Teejays take on the matter. Is it that he was not aware she went there. How are we sure she had not left someone with the child and dashed off to attend this meeting. For her to come to the meeting whether August or whatever means that it must have been important. He said its because she has money...maybe its from the networks she makes that she gets the money. I wont be surprised if she is the one paying the medical bills. Nigerians, we always expect the woman to put her life on hold for everything. Him saying the child is critically ill may just be a way of gaslighting her to make her look bad. if the child was really in a critical condition, will he see road to come and be fighting the woman? would he not have been at the hospital ensuring all goes well with HIS SON? His approach was even wrong... come up to her, whisper in her ear and excuse her to come outside but as i said, what we saw is a manifestation of issues beyond the immediate matter. I don't know why men always attribute money as a reason for a woman's "misbehavior". She should be poor/wretched so he can be the one misbehaving without being regulated. This is why i hate social commentaries.... too many angles and its so difficult to capture it all in words.
ReplyDeleteAptly written.
DeleteMy dear, I didn't bother to read all you wrote just the first or two lines. Please, business is different from meeting. Even at that, it depends on the kind of business and the state of health of the child.
DeleteBoth of them did not handle the situation well. Am sure they had underlying issues before.
ReplyDeleteAdunni, I love you o. But chai, I have to correct you.
DeleteI am or I'm
If a man can do this in public, imagine what the woman is coping with in private
ReplyDeleteDoes the man have excreta on his body?
What is stopping him from taking care of his own son? All this derty Nigerian beasts always looking for how to traumatise and subjugate women. I like how they bundled him out like the trash that he is.
Nigerian woman can marry faeces just to answer Mrs. Tueh kelebe.
I thought it was content I never knew it was real
ReplyDeleteMy Wife went for this same August meeting last year alone, it was her first time going to the village alone.
ReplyDeleteI stayed back with the kids until she got back so if any of the kids had gotten ill while she was away I would go there and drag her back home......
Some men sef
1. What of single mothers or widows with a sick child? Won't she still attend to business or important meetings ?
ReplyDelete2. What if the wife is the enent planner/ caterer for the August meeting and that's part of the reason she attended ?
3. What if the wife has been with the son in the hospital for days and was advised by the medical professionals to go home for a break so as not to breakdown ?
4. What happens when she has to leave her sick son's bedside to go grocery shopping and prepare food to take back to him ?
The questions are endless.
The bottom line, don't marry trash.
DeleteIf the wife was dead, would he dig grave to go and drag her to the hospital.
What are his hands and head for?
The man did not do right and the woman shouldn't have left her sick son to attend the meeting. They are both in the wrong
ReplyDeleteI was just shaking my head. I love my kids too much to leave them alone, talkless of leaving them in the hospital.
ReplyDeleteAs it should.
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