New week hailings
MONDAY MEMO
I salute everyone oh......
Friday last week was not nice at all cos of whatever it was that happened....My darling blog visitors could not comment but only read for 24 hours or more.....
Guess what? I experienced blogging without comments and while my traffic remained the same, there was no stress of comments or filtering or trolls.....I was unreachable and it was bliss!
Honestly i believe that God has taken my brand to the level of still doing this job without being dependent on comments......
I felt so much peace!.. It was an eyeopener for me!
I also apologise for whatever happened, there were many theories and i dont know which is true but we are grateful to Blogger for fixing the problem as soon as they could.
Trolls could not comment and i kept praying for them to survive..LOL
The meme below is for trolls, we remember you care about your mental health....
Enjoy the rest of your day my people....
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THANK YOU TO BV ZARAM
I was looking to get a Lawyer to help me fix something at CAC that my lawyer that died started but did not relay the finished info to me.....
After one failed attempt with another beautiful lawyer. Something told me to contact BV Zaram and this woman got me a direct contact inside who is fixing things....I was told i had to pay some more money and while i was complaining BV Zaram went behind and paid half of the amount...Was i shocked? Oh yes and pleasantly so!
I am also pleased to know that our small Zaram here has taken giant steps and now someone to be reckoned with......She may comment here but she has grown in so many ways....
Please BVs help me to thank Zaram oh...She didnt need to pay but she did....
I have added her to the list of people God blessed me with on this Blog.....
Thank you my dear Zaza...where that money came from, may your store house be refilled and reloaded....God says ''I got you Zaram, I got you for helping out my daughter Stella.''
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
There’s this piece of land at the back of our rented apartment where plantains grow. For context, it isn’t a separate plot of land; it’s essentially part of the compound that had been left undeveloped and overgrown, but it happened to have some plantain trees growing on it.
We got the apartment through one of the landlords in the street because the actual owner doesn’t live there. The man we got the apartment through used to harvest the plantains growing at the back.
When we moved in, we informed the actual owner that we wanted to cultivate that part of the compound. He agreed, so we cleared the bush, planted crops, and have been maintaining the area ourselves.
One day, while we were at home, we heard some noise coming from the back of the house. When we went out, we saw a young man there. He said he had come to cut the plantain, but he couldn’t find it. He then asked if we had cut it.
We asked who he was and who had sent him. He said he had been sent by the man through whom we got the apartment.
I was dumbfounded. From my understanding, if we had paid our rent, were living in the compound, cleared the overgrown area, received permission from the actual owner to cultivate it, and were the ones maintaining it, then we should be entitled to whatever crops we planted and cultivated there.
So we told him that we had cut the plantain because it was now ours.
Four days later, the landlord came to our house and pleaded that he had never sent anyone to cut the plantain. According to him, the young man had acted on his own accord.
We knew that wasn’t true. We believed he had actually sent him. He only came to deny it because, the previous day, he had had a confrontation with the neighbours in the next house. They questioned why he kept going onto unoccupied pieces of land in the area and claiming the fruits and crops growing there.
As far as we are concerned, we are the current occupants of the compound. We cleared and cultivated that neglected part of the property with the owner’s permission, and we have been maintaining it. I don’t think someone who doesn't lives there should feel entitled to come and harvest crops from the compound simply because he used to do so before we moved in. Abi how una see am?
Just be careful oh, make the man no go put poison for the thing for una....you can be sharing with him for peace sake please.....Doesn't cost anything and please dont believe he will let the matter rest just like that, some people are evil and it is only love that disarms them....
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
My son asked me what a boyfriend and girlfriend was and I simply said a boy or girl who is your friend. He paused and answered back so Gold is my girlfriend and Oba is my boyfriend.
The speed at which I shouted God forbid confused him, so he asked again if it meant what I said why can’t he call them his boyfriend and girlfriend and I was stomped at the best way to answer him.
So after I ran away pretending to be busy, I came back to explain that another meaning for the terms was that it was used to address someone a person was in love with and in a relationship but not married to yet.
Then this started another round of questions about children with two daddies and two mummies and how some boys had boyfriends , I was surprised he had already seen all this despite my efforts to shield him, so I just took the opportunity to educate him about the existence of homosXxuality, how we as Christians are not allowed to entertain such lifestyles but also how we are not supposed to be homophobes at all.
We do not condone the sin, but we don’t hate homosXxuals, non binary, drag or any other people who fall under the LGBTQ umbrella. We see them with God’s eyes and that’s with love.
This is because I believe sin is sin.
Wait first….If you are Homeschooling your kids, how are they learning these things? Inside the house? who is informing them? too much TV time or too much Internet? I am just curious...
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HOW TO VALUE YOURSELF AND REMAIN CALM ALWAYS
- Remember, everyone has problems. You’re not alone in facing challenges.
- Life has ups and downs. Only someone who isn’t alive doesn’t have challenges.
· Every problem has a solution. You can find answers to the difficulties you're facing.
· How you see yourself matters. Think of yourself as valuable and special. Don’t let low self-esteem bring you down.
- Don’t worry about what others say. Some people say mean things to make others feel bad.
- Make friends with kind people who uplift you. Avoid those who tease or make fun of you.
· When you have free time, enjoy your favorite hobbies like sports, movies, or games.
· Don’t let anyone scare you with their money or things. A poor person today can be rich tomorrow. Change happens.
- No matter how tough things get, don’t give up. As long as you are alive, there is still hope.
- Pray often. Prayer can help bring good things into your life more quickly.
· Be brave and go after what you want. Life involves taking chances. If you don’t try, you won’t reach your dreams.
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THOSE WITH WHATSAPP ON THEIR PHONES
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WEIRD FACTS
----Biggest lie ever... "I have read and agree to the terms of use."
---We live in a world where there is more and more information and less and less meaning.
--Remember the five simple rules to be happy: Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.
----Jellyfish are considered biologically immortal. They don't age and will never die unless they are killed.
:-----It takes 9 hours, 36 minutes, and 10 seconds to reach the 1,048,576th row of an Excel spreadsheet by perpetually pressing the down arrow.
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Believing in miracles is choosing hope even when life feels heavy.
It is trusting that God can step into any situation and turn it around in ways no human effort can explain or achieve.
When you believe, you open your heart to unexpected blessings, divine help, and breakthroughs that arrive exactly when you need them.
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It's a start to a brand new work week and hey, go get them! How una dey? Something happened some hours ago but it has been resolved. Ah! I for fear o..Losing anything at this point is not a good thing ni o.
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Thank you BV Zaram
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DeleteThanks @Zaza 💞 for helping Stella , God bless you
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----Biggest lie ever... "I have read and agree to the terms of use."——- lol 😂 so true especially when downloading or installing an app
Thank you.
DeleteGod bless you too
😂😹😹 That Friday was something else plus boring to the core. I kept on trying to drop my comment on IHN but it wasn't going and I had to stop at some point.
ReplyDeleteUnrepentant trolls must have been starved of their daily food on that fateful day. Haha!
Good looking out to y'all!
Lol you are trolling the trolls abi?
DeleteReading the headline and comments here........
ReplyDeleteSaying Regina.... Da#iels don finally return home to pa Ned...( happy for them)
Pov: if I be your boo better hold me tight .. husband material no plenty oo
nothing dey outside...
For the whole of Nigeria na only 3 husband material dey...
Myself, pa ned and portable
I hear you dear Jellybean 😅🤣🤣
DeletePortable what? 😂🤣
DeletePortable 🤣🤣
DeleteLovely afternoon to you all amazing people.
ReplyDeleteHow is September threating you.
Thank you zaram. You are amazing.
That WhatsApp thing, what's d way forward ooo. My account has been restricted twice in less than 2 weeks. I was really shocked.
This is affecting me ooo.
Who knows the way out please..
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ReplyDeleteThanks you BV Zaram Nwa,for helping out,God bless
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God bless you bv zaram and replenish you all year round...
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon family... sleeping and today's dull ... sometimes when it's dull it affects the mood and all.. in all I'm grateful 🙏..we keep pushing 💕
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DeleteGreetings dear
DeleteGod bless you too
DeleteGood afternoon everyone,
ReplyDeleteThank you bv zaram,chukwu Gozie gi,
Prayer never fails, Keep praying even if it seems like nothing is happening,God will answer in his own time
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DeleteNFJ💕
ReplyDeleteMy dear, it is painful when you put your time, strength, and resources into caring for something, only for someone else to suddenly feel entitled to it. But please, don't allow this matter to steal your peace or turn your heart against anyone.
Being a Christian means choosing peace even when we feel we have every reason to fight. Let the actual owner clarify the matter and leave room for God to judge every heart and every intention.
At the end of the day, it is better to lose a plantain than to lose your peace, your good name, or your relationship with your neighbour. Let love lead. ❤️
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GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY 🌹
Amen
DeleteGod bless you too
Trolls this, trolls that.
ReplyDelete😂😂😄
DeleteSimply Divine, the anon is shading Stella and you are laughing? Did you forget to go anon or what?
DeleteIf it was IR now, foolish anons would have lined up here to accuse him of being the one trolling Stella.
Stella , you see what I have been telling you about IR? Others laugh too but in anonymous mode. The fact that IR laughs with his full chest doesn't make others holy. They switch like chameleon
let her laugh abeg, she no kill person...
DeleteOh!
DeleteTruly speaking, where are those anons that line up to accuse IR when something like this happens?
You guys do selective trolling?
The anons troll IR because of his past deeds here, they don't like him.
DeleteDo you see anyone of them here accusing and insulting Simply divine for laughing at a troll's shade directed at Stella?
That's life for you
Good afternoon everyone 🌹
ReplyDeleteThat Friday wasn’t funny at all.
Thanks BV Zaza
God bless you
DeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs. It's a rainy Monday. God bless Zaram. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteIts cloudy over here
DeleteHello beautiful BB 🥰
Just drizzled and it's sunny..confused weather
DeleteGod bless you too sis
Delete🤣🤣🤣 that plantain cutter is Anini brother, because why will you still be comming to a compound paid for and occupied by another person?
ReplyDeleteJust be careful because one day he might show up when no one is around and pick up something valuable 🤣🤣🤣
Zaza of the most high 😘
ReplyDeleteThank you so much 🤗
Chukwu gozie gi Asa.
DeleteHow old is your son again @motherhood poster? Please check what your kids are exposed to, I know kids can be inquisitive and we all know kids say the darndest things, but I still want to believe there are questions or statements kids shouldn't be asking or say at a particular age.
ReplyDelete@NFJ, plantain no bi waterleaf na, somebody planted it, and someone has been harvesting it before you packed in, kindly yield to Stella advice.
@Zaza baiby, your purse will not run dry, may God bless you more.
Lol @ anonymous trolls, I hope una no get HBP last Friday. But Stella, not being able to comment that day was frustrating.
How are you holding @Waju? Sending loads of 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗.
Hello everyone, much love: it's a raining afternoon from this side.
Last Friday not funny at all.. reading posts without reading or dropping comments nor be am..
DeleteYes, I was shocked too. Like how old are her children again? Hmmm, life
DeleteAmen.
DeleteGod bless you
Well come IHN 🥰🥰
ReplyDeleteZaram thank for helping SDK, God bless you
God bless you.
DeleteGod bless you immensely Blog visitor Zaram 🥰❤️
ReplyDeleteGood Afternoon Blogfam
Trolls be running helter skelter on Friday 😁
Lol@ helter skelter 😄 The thing go confuse them.
DeleteGod bless you baby girl
DeleteAww BV Zaram, thanks for having Stella's back.♥️
ReplyDeleteNumber 1 weird fact is so true and so me lmao 🤣🤣
Keni nice day 👌
You see those tiny terms of agreement? Na Dem dey later bring wahala o 🤣😄
DeleteGod bless you
DeleteMy husband and I are ready for our first child, I ovulated last week and we gbensed all through, so we are waiting to see if I'll miss my period.
ReplyDeleteThe issue here is I am a serious intermittent fasting girlie, should i pause for a while or just continue until I miss my period to know if I've conceived.
Just read intermittent fasting is very bad for the fetus especially from the point of conception to 2nd trimester because it deprives them of major nutrients which can cause deformity etc
Please I'd appreciate replies even from our ogbonge blog mama SDK
Continue until you're sure of being pregnant, but in the meantime, take more fruit
DeleteIt is like you are not ready. 🙄
DeleteSince you know that fasting affects that and you are expecting,why can't you stop?
DeleteYou should suspend your intermittent fasting for now and eat nutritious foods for the sake of your baby.
DeleteMy advice to you is; put the fasting on pause, don't deliberately diet for weight loss, eat nourishing food, take your folic acid, stay hydrated and wait for your test. ❤️
DeleteAnd congratulations on entering your TTC era.May this be your positive-test month in Jesus name 🙏
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ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
Happy Men Crush Monday to all the amazing men here 🥰🥂
Thank you Zaram 🙏
God bless you
Delete@ BV Waju, my deepest condolences to you and your family please.
ReplyDeleteMay the Lord comfort you and give you the strength you need.🙏
Good afternoon all.
Keep holding strong@waju
DeleteGood morning everyone.
ReplyDeleteThank you Zaram for the amazing love shown to SDK, God bless you.
God bless you
DeleteThank you Zaram for putting smiles on Stella’s face
ReplyDeleteGod bless you.
DeleteWelcome IHN
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Bv Zaram may God replenish your pockets🙏thank you
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Amen.
DeleteGod bless you
Thank you zaram
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ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people and how're you all doing.
Lol 😂 that troll meme is so funny aswear. Blogger comot oxygen for them on Friday 😂 I pray they survive.
NFJ poster, the landlord is like many people out there, they won't know the value of something until someone else make good use of it then they'll cunningly come back for it. Just be careful.
Zaza baby God bless you and replenish your pocket in million folds 🙏🏼
Y'all enjoy the rest of your day.
E go surely be ✌🏼
Amen and amen to your prayers 🙏
DeleteGod bless you too dear.
DeleteThis question is for the motherhood writer. Stella said you homeschool your kids, does it mean that your kids don't go to school and you teach them at home? If yes this is not good and scary. Are you not bothered about their social lives and for how long do you intend to do this.
ReplyDeleteIm scared for your children.
Guess the kids are not of age to be in school.
Delete17:29, they are of school age
DeleteShe just prefers to teach them at home
Anonymous 1729 I think they're of age. Her first should be 7 according to her narratives here.
DeleteGood day Stella and everyone.
ReplyDeleteHii guys!!!
ReplyDeleteAww@zaram
Thank you
DeleteStella I noticed the change, the publisher is faster than before.
ReplyDeleteYes I noticed this today..super fast
DeleteYeah I noticed that too, it's very fast now.
DeleteThanks Zaram for helping SDK out.
ReplyDeleteNFJ, pls be very prayerful and also share the plantain with the man because he may bury juju for you in that land. Greedy people are wicked.
Motherhood poster, I would also love to know how the kids knew all those stuff cos you homeschool them and they don't play outside without supervision.
God bless you
DeleteStella does it mean that you didn't miss comments here last week Friday. Comments make here to be fun aside ' trolling ' comments
ReplyDeleteYou're right,.. reading alone felt somehow
DeleteSpeechless.
ReplyDeleteStella, you really did this one! 😭😭 See me here in tears. You that can lay your life for someone is thanking me for an amount you have given me more than 1000 percent of it
See you in tears bawo
DeleteOna too dey dramatic.
You want bucket?
DeleteGood afternoon everyone,pls I have a question for the woman going through motherhood,How do you homeschool your kids?
ReplyDeleteMy son is 1yr and 9months old ,I don't have money to put him in school now,until next year by God's grace,pls where and how do I get materials to start homeschooling him?I want him to start learning now.Thank you for your reply.
You can download homeschooling ideas for toddlers on Pinterest and print them out.
DeleteAt his age it's advised that you go for a play base curriculum and you have to be very patient with him.
His attention span at that age his low. So he might not be able to sit still for a long time.
You also have to work on your own mental and emotional well being so that you don't get frustrated on time.
Read up about homeschooling too,
Good evening all. Thank you Zaza, God bless you more
ReplyDeleteNfj, I think you should agree to sharing with him
Motherhood poster, watch your children closely and know what they are being exposed to. It might even be from all these cartoons they watch, you never can tell
God bless you too
DeleteGod bless you Zaram. @motherhood lady, thank you for sharing. I think I need to start preparing myself for these type of questions. I never thought of it
ReplyDeleteGod bless you too.
DeleteI told someone that when you tell some men to use all the money they spend, sacrifice and invest on their families to take care of themselves.
ReplyDeleteYou will see them looking fresh, looking younger, looking healthy , looking clean and so on. They toil day and night just to put food on the table.
To all the responsible hardworking men out there, you guys are my 'Man crush Monday'..
Cheers 🍷
Good evening beautiful people ❤️ 💕 blog Ma'am Zaram,God bless and replenish your account 🙏
ReplyDeleteI believe. Thank you for so much.
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