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Tuesday, January 21, 2014

The Imported Bride.




The sight that greeted John on the street was troublesome and a bit too much for him, Andy was laying on the cold floor with doctors working very hard on him. Shocked, he walked over to them and asked if he was dead...... luckily he was not!.

Andy is a known figure in town, always there in his wheel chair. Dirty, smelling, un-kempt, constantly smoking and begging for a euro or two from passersby. 
How did it come to this?  
John's mind flashed back to Andy before his predicament.


Andy used to be one of the happening guys in town, he was the attention of girls whenever he hit the clubs, he was hardly in short supply of babes whether whites or blacks....

  Then Andy decided he had had enough of the parties and girls, he wanted to get married and settle down so He took a trip back home to Africa and IMPORTED his bride. 

They lived together happily until she settled down and got her papers, then she left Andy and married another guy.

This was too much for him and since he couldn't take it anymore, he decided to take his own life. 
So,one day he went to the Train station and jumped in front of a moving train, but fortunately or unfortunately for him, he did not die but lost both legs. That is how Andy ended up in a wheel chair.

The pathetic part of this is how Andy now lives his life! 
He lives like a junkie, always dirty, smelling, smoking weed and begging passersby for money… of cause he gets money from the government but it’s obvious he can’t get past his predicament. 

The imported bride on the other hand has long moved on with her life and might have even forgotten she ever knew a person by the name of Andy. Well, while there might be nothing wrong in going back to Africa to marry, my question is "What is wrong with marrying where you reside?

At least such a girl knows how life is in the West, as opposed to a girl that might have accepted to marry you because you came from the West. 
On getting here… the culture shock! The struggles! The Cold! The Boredom! These and so many other factors can have a negative influence on a person that just came to the WEST with high hopes…. I praise and applaud all the imported brides that gave it their very best shot and worked so hard to make sure their marriages worked out at the end despite all the huddles..
  
   
NOTE: This story in no way supports the Idea that people can or should only marry from where they reside as each individual knows what suits him or her best.


*Are you an IMPORTED bride/groom?
Did you IMPORT your bride/groom?
I know of a lady who Imported the man she wanted to marry to America and today he is married to someone else.they had dated for a while before she left and when she wanted to marry,she went back to Nigeria for him,he proposed,they got engaged and she helped him into America.
After he studied the ropes and knew how to get around,he left her high and dry.
she did not say her part in what happened or what made him run but i do not believe that these people just wakes up and run.
Today she is never stops talking about that bitter experience and is always the first to advise anyone who wants to tow her line not to do it.
I see a lot of imported brides here who do not waste time in calling the Police on their men.I have seen imported grooms who come into the west and misuse the opportunity,chase anything in skirts and end up impregnating different women of different colour.
heard any real life imported bride or groom tales that went wrong?
Share!





By:   Lenny .A. Khiran
    (The Netherlands)

       Series   @ 2014

95 comments:

  1. No experiences...
    Dumdum shey u read this?

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  2. It's very simple. You are more likely to find a partner you can dominate in a third world country compared to the western world.

    Men sometimes get threatened dating successful females so it's necessary for them to get that woman who will make them feel like king kong
    a word of advice for those guys, many girls here in nigeria can't cook too, aren't that submissive, love expensive wigs, jewelleries, and clothes, so my advice stick with the devil over there u know, cos its hard seeing angels over here

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    1. M-amie, Where is your great grand father of a husband? Ashawo igbo girl.

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    2. Fuck you bitch! We don't need your fucking advices! Smelly pussy.

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    3. I think dis story is about m-amie. Am sure her husband came to Nigeria to pick her nt knowing he picked mami water. I can't imagine how he will be feeling now, seeing d kind of wife he married.

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    4. An open Letter to A-amie21 January 2014 at 15:59

      Dear M-amie,
      Is clear 2 me now u r not in any UK. Considering the fact u referred Nigeria as "here" (in the present tense which is Africa Nigeria)and west "there" in ur words M-amie "...a word of advice for those guys, many girls "here" in nigeria can't... And "...my advice stick with the devil over "there" u know, cos its hard seeing angels over "here". Lol! And I remember the post u said u ve been ill and ve called 911 for ambulance unit. (I doubt if such service is over there in Nigeria) than Again u said u were still @ the hospital in UK. I asked u which hospital u were in (was gona cum visit u)and why they r allowing u use ur device. Cos the last time I checked, some hospital here dnt allow such cos of one thing one thing. U chickened out and never replied again. Now what am trying 2 say is u need 2 slow dwn. U lie a lot! Plz stop!! U claiming 2 be what u r not is not a nice way of life 4 a lady like u. Is being Fake my dear. No one on this blog kws and I dnt think they wana kw u. so why hide in front of ur device and fake ur life. *smh* I think u r indeed sick. A-amie,A word of advice 4 u, Pride goes b4 a fall. And self deceit is the worst time tha can happen 2 any one. Plz plz plz and Plz Amend ur ways and stop day dreaming and painting a picture of what u r not.
      10x!
      Yours Truly...

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    5. Ha ha ha ha ,make una leave mamie oh, kikikikiki

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    6. Na una make Mamie change her picture oh, am begging on her behalf, u guys should tamper justice with mercy, Mamie is only human, pls forgive her.

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    7. Oliloloooooooo! Chai! This letter oh. No postmaster is needed for this. But I have a return stamp for the reply oh. Oya over to you M-amie. DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE SOPHIESLEEKED OH. I don talk am b4, I still de talk am again. Sha pipe low. SDKers can go far on your matter oh.

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    8. Lol....so many trolls on my case.
      I'm loving the attention but why contradict urselves u dat claim to know me too well.
      One is saying I'm an imported wife,the other is claiming I'm nt even near the border.
      Choi c painment!!
      Mamie rocks!!

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    9. UK doesn't have 911 btw

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    10. M-amie, they are contradicting themselves probably bcos they are different pple.
      I guess d open letter writer has rly busted all ur lies, just move on quietly instead of trying to form lol' wen you're actually sad.
      Mamie rocks? Lol. I guess yu rly wantu be popular on dis blog buh you didn't bargain for dis. Ndo ehn. Oh you've changed ur picture? Lol. Guess you're ashamed already. Mannerless girl.

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    11. Nope M-amie sucks!!!! You've been caught. You and that your flat head Hahahahahaha. Albino orangutan! Why did you remove the pic? Remember what they say about a liar?

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    12. M-amie, they are contradicting themselves probably bcos they are different pple.
      I guess d open letter writer has rly busted all ur lies, just move on quietly instead of trying to form lol' wen you're actually sad.
      Mamie rocks? Lol. I guess yu rly wantu be popular on dis blog buh you didn't bargain for dis. Ndo ehn. Oh you've changed ur picture? Lol. Guess you're ashamed already. Mannerless girl.

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    13. Lol.. Mamie, pele dear. Lol. U don jam. Be hailing urself. C how u r rcving insults on every post. Lol... that Anon said 'im sure this story is about Mamie'.. lol. i fainted. I no fit even abuse d girl again. Una don take over. Lol. The truth is, when u hv too much hate in you, you attract hate to urself. N dat is clearly d case here. U disgust ppl! Imagine, u didnt comment for some days, nobody looked for u. Meanwhile everybody has been missing d 'new' prince jobless because he changed. U will keep getting this kind of treatment till u arrange urself. U neva begin holler 'Trolls'..... this is just the beginning. Lmbao

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    14. No you don't rock, you are just fake.

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    15. you really believed she's based abroad. from the way people yarn here you can tell they lie. didn't that oracle lie she went to UNI until i exposed her. keep lying people are watching but please remember your lies. someone like luca his stories of being abroad are constant and you know he's not lying.

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    16. M-amie is a compulsive liar. She has NEVER been outside the shores of Naija! She lives in Egbeda oh! She used to be in Gbagada before but moved to Gowon Estate in Egbeda! Bloody liar!

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    17. None of this has any effect on her reali life!

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    18. Ok,what's the uk hype about?
      I've Neva mentioned 911 in any of my comments so what exactly is d lie u anons are trying to cook up.
      I bliv y'all seeing me being in d uk like I'm sitting at d right hand of God are prob timid.
      If u are living a good life in Naija,jand wldnt b an intimidation to u at all. I even can giv up my left arm for som hot sun right now.
      As for my pic,oh yeah I changed it cos I noticed my pretty face was stirring up so much emotions.so u shld b grateful I saved u from possible HPB.
      I see uve mentioned names of pipo uve succeeded in bullying out of dis blog but sweeties,I said it d first day I introd. Myself on this blog dat I'm here to stay n I mean it.
      Mamie ain't no faker!
      I'm very sure u guys wld beg to fly away cos uve met a stubborn mule.lol
      I've really stepped on toes n I'm loving it.
      Pls bring it on!!
      Beautiful Mamie

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    19. @10:28,,,u must be so pained bcos no body has ever gone to uni in ur generations!!!! Nd ur oracle mother left u to continue ashewo where she stoped!!! No body nd I repeat no body in ur family can have d kind of certificat I have!! Lai lai!!! Ur 20th generations to come no fit sef!!! Sdk post dis oh sharp sharp............OKIJA WIFE

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    20. Crazy bitch! Go suck some dick, and eat Jane's pussy! !!!!!!

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    21. Pls u guys should leave Mamie alone o! She is entitled to her opinion, I always look forward to her comment, MAmie pls ignore ok....
      @Dimma pearl

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  3. I think its all about the individual. The insatiable-lover-with-a-mission sees it as an opportunity to use his/her bait(supposed lover) to grab a better life (use and dump)

    While the so-in-love------lover is apparently happy that he/she is where they want to be....together/partnered to be a happy family.

    Different people, different intentions, different mission.....good or bad. That's life!

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  4. AMAKA EMEKA AKA ME-AMI ARE YOU STILL WITH THAT OLD MAN THAT YOU MARRIED ALL BCOS YOU WANT TO TRAVEL OUT OF THE COUNTRY AFTER YOU FINISH SPOILING YOURSELF IN ANAMBARA OR YOU HAVE LEFT HIM FOR A YOUNGER GUY

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    1. Only igbo girls can spoil themselves finish...
      Igbo girls! They can marry a toothless 100 year old man so that they can go and live abroad. (Ghana or cameroun) only igbo girls like M-AMIE. Tufiakwa!

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    2. Choi, spill more abeg. Btw, lemme google that name

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    3. So these ones are referring to me...
      Lmao,in ur dreams u know my name n locality.
      Better wake up n stop being such a classless troll.
      For ur info,my sweet yummy yummy,overcaring,understanding n super rich husband is just 28 n wld b 29 dis blessed new yr and av never ever bn to ur so called Anambra neither is my name Amaka Emeka.
      I'd keep reiterating- u gat nothing on me
      Keep on trying!!
      Lol

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    4. Pls stop the tribalism... Its shameful..

      *am out

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    5. You see yourself? You see how ignorant and self righteousness can turn you into a fool. You guys cuss this girl out everyday she does not respond. Today she did not mention any tribe. Guess who did.....?

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    6. buhahhahhahahahahahahahaha. this anonymous 1.44pm. i am igbo but guess what? i am not even angry. this thing wey you talk too funny abeg

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    7. Mamie-liar, ur husband is 28 ryt? Its just a mata of tym, dis lie will catch up with you again.
      You're calling sum1 classless, daz funny. You're d classless one here. I think ur name is d genesis of ur problem. How can they name U̶̲̥̅̊ mamie nd expect you nt to be like this. Change ur name to Amaka, dats if you're nt Amaka. D mamie name is affecting your sense.

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    8. Lol.. i love Julit even tho u can b off sometimes. Anon 3pm do u not read her comments? She's just getting bck what she dishes out! I'm ibo n im not offended. This girl is disgusting n filled with hate. No one beats her whn it comes to tribalism. She will keep getting served. Her own case is an isolated one. Dont even bother ur head about her. I called her out a lot before but one day, i saw her comment saying she had changed. Then i started facong people who abused her. All of a sudden, i saw another comment from her saying ' this can neva happen in ala ndi igbo' implying that yoruba's were d ones who did that. N guess what? There were 3 other posts that week in ibo women with poor records eg clarion chukwura. Mamie did not comment on those!!! Nah.... d girl is disgusting abeg n a full blown wicked tribalistic bigot.
      So pls leave ppl to cuss her out anyway dey can. She deserves it.
      How often do u see ppl abusing Julit or Memphis or other SDKers?
      She neva halla.

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    9. leave mamie. she's holed up in one village with internet access. can't you tell she's just a razz person

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  5. Lemme take a seat and wait for comments....Aunty stella abeg borrow me a seat

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  6. Lemme seat back, relax and learn...
    #doctorbobby

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  7. Hmmm life isn"t fair afteral.

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  8. In the case of Andy, it is called karma, after breaking so many hearts he went to his village to get what he thought was a "perfect" wife, i don't feel sorry for him.

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    1. God bless u moi! I always LOL @ those guys who go to Nigeria to marry dey keep talking about dia bitter experience with imported babe like say dem no friend babe for were dem reside. Karma ain't a bitch na result!

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    2. I wish dere is a LIKE button for ur comment Moi...

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  9. I am an imported bride Stella...My husband and I didn't really have a physical relationship per say. We met through his cousin, he started calling, visited me in Naija 2ce and proposed on his second visit. It wasn't easy especially in the first few years as we had to get to know each other better while married, but God has been good. We are Christians and we know the importance of commitment in marriage. We are committed to each other and even though we have our issues, we have managed to trudge along in the most difficult times (which was 1-2 years after we got married). God also has been faithful to us also and has blessed us with 2 wonderful children.

    So my dear, it is possible to import and be imported and still have successful marriages.

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    1. Dolapo, is the u?

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    2. Thanks for this comment. Am also an imported bride. We r in d rough times now. Knowing ur marriage got beta gives me hope cos right now i feel hopeless in my marriage.

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    1. U sound pretty stupid. C ur pure water bags in dat window? Go n sell dem. N u can kill urself while u r at it. U beta learn d codes of conduct here n dont come with stupid advice. Mumu. Mk u dey post picture to find husband so u too will be imported.

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  11. Me I don't knw any ooo. Msm

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  12. Serves Andy right.....that's karma for you....this story reminds me of a neighbour we use to have back then in SURULERE...he is an igbo guy that imported his wife from their villa in IMO state.....I can still remebr the first time we took her clubbing.....she was so local and naïve.....to cut the story short,ONYINYEOMA is now a full time RUNZ babe.....she dumped her hubby when he has a financial breakdown.........I saw her last week looking bleached out and old.....the guy has since moved on,dunno about him....I think its common among Igbos

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    1. From imo to lagos is not import dat one na 'insport'...*in igbo accent*i deal in insport n esport

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    2. Linda Eze onye akuko

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    3. Eje,ur joke is dry.try again later.I hv warned u 2 stay on ur lane

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    4. Lmaoooooo@ eje! That's funny

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  13. i think u should marry who you really know, ur friend, lover, brother and not someone u barely knw sometimes things work out but most times it does not, there is a diff with ur fiancee going abroad and later sending for u o what am talkin abt is the ones wen they want to get married their parents wld just arrange a girl they dnt knw

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  14. My sister in law wants to import a man she is older than to Holland. I just feel sad for her.
    Smile

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    1. Na one chance ur sister inlaw enter so oooo. D guy go begin reason how to build house and import cars except she get money if not d marriage ain't gonna work!

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    2. How old is she? Ple advice her not to venture into that suicide mission. The guy will ben Johnson once he enters Europe. I wouldn't mind introducing someone to here from Germany where I reside

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    3. How old is she? Ple advice her not to venture into that suicide mission. The guy will ben Johnson once he enters Europe. I wouldn't mind introducing someone to here from Germany where I reside

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  15. Honestly, I don tire for this man!

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  16. Love and understanding is all that matters.am an imported bride ,bin married for four years and it's bin beautiful can't stop thanking God everyday .

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  17. My ex-boyfriend was imported to d US by a lady who literally came home,got married to him and took him with her... We were near d end of our relationship anyways and we both knew it was headed no way... It didn't even hurt one bit when I got to know thru our mutual friend,I remember jst being alittle miffed dat he didn't deem it fit to tell me himself!!! Fast forward till today,he's still with her and dey have lovely twin girls. Me? I'm with d best man in d whole world. I have a kid and I jst found out last night dat I'm pregnant with another child(To God be the glory)! So, it worked for both of us....

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  18. My ex-boyfriend was imported to d US by a lady who literally came home,got married to him and took him with her... We were near d end of our relationship anyways and we both knew it was headed no way... It didn't even hurt one bit when I got to know thru our mutual friend,I remember jst being alittle miffed dat he didn't deem it fit to tell me himself!!! Fast forward till today,he's still with her and dey have lovely twin girls. Me? I'm with d best man in d whole world. I have a kid and I jst found out last night dat I'm pregnant with another child(To God be the glory)! So, it worked for both of us....


    INTEGRITY

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  19. My ex-boyfriend was imported to d US by a lady who literally came home,got married to him and took him with her... We were near d end of our relationship anyways and we both knew it was headed no way... It didn't even hurt one bit when I got to know thru our mutual friend,I remember jst being alittle miffed dat he didn't deem it fit to tell me himself!!! Fast forward till today,he's still with her and dey have lovely twin girls. Me? I'm with d best man in d whole world. I have a kid and I jst found out last night dat I'm pregnant with another child(To God be the glory)! So, it worked for both of us.... And we're still friends... On facebook at least,lolll


    INTEGRITY

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  20. I know of a guy that imorted a girl from Sierra Leone into the UK. She opened eye and left him for his next door neighbour. Cha! See gobe! She's got a kid for the guy now... the importer went kuku.. poor soul



    Ms

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  21. Imported bride ...hmmmmm...me I want imported bride groom oh

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  22. I am an imported wife and I thank God for who he gave me. He never lied to me . In fact he hid the most things that could entice a woman to him. One big problem is that some people tell lies to their spouses to be. When they eventually see the truth they take off. On the other hand, some are fraudsters whose intent from the beginning is to take advantage of people. I urge people to marry from where they are. I notice that those born in diaspora are more independent and hardworking because most homes do no have house helps. Many of them are far better than most of our women who have grown up with the notion that God has deposited treasure in their body as financial absorbers. Rose

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  23. Scary mehn...
    This is the reason why my friend is scared of coming for his baby mama who is already troublesome here. Scared she'll call the cops on him at any provocation...

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  24. My aunty imported her hubby after a fee years he dumped her and imported one of his gf's from naija and gave that one papers now my aunty is old and frustratrated and lonely. We are yoruba o. Some men are bastards sha that maga just pretended for all of us and my aunty for some good years then he dumped her sharply. Smh

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  25. with God all things are possible, but no b me wan come teach man how to cross road or show am d different between 5 dollar from 10 dollar abeg dia wahala Tu much jor thank God for d man/fiancee he blesses me with here jare.

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    1. Lolz..i love u chick Felix#no homo#. u so on point with ds comment..lmao

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    2. That's only the beginning of the wahala. To get DL, to get job, bring him up to par, then when he starts blowing small phone he'll start running after "akata" girls and "oyinbo" girls.

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  26. Hmmm! Stella,I will have to deviate from the topic at hand and tell my sdk family my problem! Plz and plz no abuse but advice. Am a girl of 28 who is in a relationship with a guy I don't love. I have been dating this guy since 2009 after I left university,in 2011 I moved in with him(which was wrong)cos I was having accommodation isues and didn't have a place to stay cos I need to pay my brother's fees with the little money I had. So practically I have been living with this guy till date and he has been making moves to pay my bride price, but I kept telling him to hold on pointing one reason or the other y we have to w8. Am not inlove with him,I see him as my brother and not a lover! I can't stand him touching me or cuddling me, I hardly allow him have sex with me under the pretense of I don't enjoy sex. And I have been making move to get a place of my own,but he kept saying is not necessary , I have discussed this with my family but they kept telling me that he is a good guy and if I leave him it may be difficult to get another guy with such xteristics. So,I might end up marrying this guy who I know deep down that I won't be happy to spend the rest of my life with ! Marrying out of pity is something I never 1ted. But the pressure on me is too much presently cos he want the wedding to take place by april ! Am so confused right now,I don't know how to tell him I don't love him enough to marry him. If I leave him and never find another good man like my family said,what will be my faith? So much on my mind. Again,there is a guy I met while I was in my final year in the university. But my friends discouraged me that he is too old for me and a divorcee with 2kids,we still keep intouch even after I told him I can't marry him and he is aware of my present relationship. But that is the guy I love,I will have to think of him b4 I can get orgasm when ever I manage to allow my bf make out with me. I always picture my life and his 2gether irrespective of the age difference. We havn't seen in 4yrs but a day won't pass without me going to look at his pictures on facebook! But ppl around me are not cool with him cos of the age difference and his position as a divorcee. They see me as a stupid person to choose a man with children and of age over a young man. Is so complicated! Btwn,famz plz don't mind the english o,Ijust advice to help a confuse sister. Tnx

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    1. don't marry out of pity...the earlier you leave that guy,the better for you....move out of his house asap and follow your heart....

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    2. If you can live with him for 5yrs, you can marry him. I am a married woman and I can tell you that it's better to marry a man that loves you
      more than you love him. I marvel at ladies when they talk about love. Just know that it takes more than love to build a marriage. Why saddle yourself with a man that comes with lots of baggage when you can have a fresh start with someone who wants you desperately? And how are you sure the older man will marry you, he hasn't proposed you know. Then again, who will want to marry a woman that has lived with another man for 5yrs? Girl, be wise! Maybe if you stop being selfish, you will actually find things to love about your live-in-lover. Try serving him for a change. Try going out in your way to plan things that will make him happy. Allow LOVE to come in.

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    3. You will rather b with a guy that is divorced with kids for reasons you havent investigated than one that treats you like an angel and is willing to marry you. The choice is yours to make but note that you cant eat your cake and have it.You have refused to give this guy a space in your heart cuz u love the divorcee.Maybe the divorcee is richer.Take your decision and be prepared to face the consequences darling.

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    4. The problem isn't the divorcee with two kids,but the problem is u dear,u have refused to love ur live_in_lover,ur eyes are still outside and roaming cos maybe u think u entered d relationship for d wrong reason so...ssearch ur heart deeply,u will be surprised u care abt him!
      But if u are sure u dont,pls leave him,many pple have tried marrying out of pity and have ended up Miserable,adulterrous or divorced!
      Have faith in God,u can always find a man,and even if it's d divorcee u wwant,fine!with love and understanding u can work it out.

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    5. My dear, I will not advise you to marry out of sympathy, but are you ready to carry the divorcee's baggage. Be sure you will be ok with it because a bird at hand worths a million in the bush o. My concern is that even after living with this guy, you still don't love him. Are you sure the other guy is not distracting you? I would rather marry a man that loves me than the one I love who does not love me, unless he is not someone I would be proud to introduce as my husband. Rose

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    6. U dnt hav to marry whom u luv but marry him that luvs u, luv is built n believe me if u. Leave ur bf u cn never find someone like him again! U tink luv is sex baa!! Who doesn't like. Been treated like. A queen! No make ds mstake ooh u. Berra stick wt him n. Thank me later am. Married, didn't luv my hubby at. First bt today I can't thank God enough for d kind of hubby I have! Aftrall bible says wives be submissive. N husband Luv ur wife

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    7. My dear better marry that guy! Someone that has carried ur xtra baggage for all these yrs and STILL wants u, obviously he loves u! And like the 1st Anon said, for a woman, its better to marry a man that loves u. Icant believe u even tink of a divorced man with 2 children over a "fresh" man! My friend arrange ur head, talk to urself and settle down! All u need is to be submissive to him. As for the divorced guy, push him out of ur head cos he'll only eat u like biscuits....and by the time u come back to this ur guy realizing u love him, it will be too late! Wetin u think sef? Love is a very conscious effort! U choose to love! U don't just "fall without control" into love, that's infatuation and that's useless! This plenty words shd be enof for the wise!!!

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  27. Hello Stella, i am an imported bride. My hubby and i dated for a couple of years before he relocated. We were engaged and he promised to come back for me which he did. After my travel documents were approved and i relocated....it was a cultural shock even though it was not my first time traveling to the west but i realized that vacationing is different from living there. it was a lot of adjustment on my part because i had to adjust to living in a foreign land and also adjust to d married lifestyle. I couldn't drive cus i had to go thru the 3 levels of driving test, at a point i asked my hubby, cant we get someone to arrange dis driver's license for me?...of which he still make funny of till today. bus was not d best cus we lived in an area where the bus circle was every 30mins....u missed d bus, na cold go kill u...my hubby was managing a small rickety car then, i remember telling him: if u had told me this is d kind of car u drive, maybe i would have imported my car from Nigeria instead of giving my brother
    ..yeah i said it jokingly....the burden of having to do grocery, cook and clean all by myself without a Sikira or Mercy to help was depressing. Remember calling my mum and crying dat i wanted to come home and dat i was going to run to d airport...she said, ur lil sis has taken over ur room oo, theres no space here anymore except u will go n live with ur mother in-law...of course u know my response to that. We had our fair share of fight, we fought one day and i left d house without my jacket, he ran after me on the street, screaming in yoruba: gba jacket e, ma koba mi o. The stress of getting a job, working the depressing call centre job and the sad event of a miscarriage....i just wanted to run away...no friend to gist with, no saturday weddings to attend, no sundays come chop...all of these i still miss greatly. The stress was indescribable...dont know how i survived it...its been 7yrs, we are still together, 2 wonderful blessings, a better life, more patient husband and a grateful me...it has been HIS grace

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    1. Looooool...your story sounds real and is funny too! Thank God you're adjusting and all.

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    2. Lol@ gba jacket e, ma koba mi o.

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    3. Lol@ gba jacket e, ma ko ba mi o'' ......yours, sounds like a marriage where love and understanding thrives.....bright prospects are inevitable! Hang in there!

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    4. Anty u left home in d cold without ur jacket?? Lmao...funny couple

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    5. yours is a truly truly beautiful story, i identify with how you felt when you arrived. Most of us to but gradually find our feet. blessing to your home...

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    6. Fuck that! I ain't importing nobody! No more! I learned my lesson long time ago, thank God I played it right, because of our pretty daughter. I don't want no bullshits, I just want my dick suck and get fuck real goooood, and I wouldn't send you a dime!! If I ain't fucking, I ain't spending, you not using my money to cook for your boyfriend. Mugu time don pass! I'm going bang that your pussy real good, I'm not cheap! You are going to be calling. Honestly, I like the runs better, they pretty, understand, and very respectful, our ladies are very smart and conning, just got to know your game. Don't get stuck, fuck and move on!!! Nigeria na number two for HIV!! Use a condom guys! !!

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    7. Fuck that! I ain't importing nobody! No more! I learned my lesson long time ago, thank God I played it right, because of our pretty daughter. I don't want no bullshits, I just want my dick suck and get fuck real goooood, and I wouldn't send you a dime!! If I ain't fucking, I ain't spending, you not using my money to cook for your boyfriend. Mugu time don pass! I'm going bang that your pussy real good, I'm not cheap! You are going to be calling. Honestly, I like the runs better, they pretty, understand, and very respectful, our ladies are very smart and conning, just got to know your game. Don't get stuck, fuck and move on!!! Nigeria na number two for HIV!! Use a condom guys! !!

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  28. Imported spouses can go both ways.
    Some Good and some bad.


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  29. one of my distant uncle imported his new bride from Nigeria to the UK. After three months the new bride left him and i feel sorry for this my 'uncle' cos age is not on his side and he has no kid yet. At least the foolish bride for give am one pikin to manage.


    CeeCee

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  30. My cousin in USA decided to import a man she never met only thru phone calls. Three months later the guy is exporting cars, the money managed by his family. Fast forward nine years later no child cousin in mid forties, man travels by self to naija, refuses adoption or ivf. Cousin deep in love. I am seriously praying for jer.

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  31. Heeeey I know one o,one guy like dat was fone-datin a girl n she imported him into america d guy got there,they got married n she n her family (who has been there for smtim) wanted to turn d guy into a slave n d bob nor gree o, he asked d wife to move out wit him n she refused cos her family didn't want her to n dat created a lot of tension btwn dem,long story short d marriage fell apart... so smtims its not always d imported person's fault

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  32. Stella... D way u talk eeeh.... I tire for you.... What do you mean by imported wife/ husband? Biko tell me what the big deal in living overseas is.
    I have always said it... When you are not too comfortable back home in Naija then living overseas becomes a big deal.
    So many people who live here cannot afford the expensive lifestyle back in Nigeria, inugo.
    I live abroad... Yes, Becos dat is where I found love... Been here for 9 yrs now with kids.... I even have got all my papers complete... I can tour the world without the need for a visa...Did I forget to mention dat I am very comfortable and live in my own house? We have our company here and to the glory of God, business has been very very good.
    But, there is a longing deep in my heart to go back home... It is cold here...there are no friends to visit... No family... I miss Naija like mad.... But I have chosen to remain here to be my husband cos it is a vow I took... I keep looking forward to a time when we would have to move the business to naija and then go back home.
    Please stop this shit about overseas abeg...it is no big deal.
    There are people I no who would never live here even if you pay them millions....stop the overseas hype.

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    1. I wonder oh! Pls tell this bush woman called Stella

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    2. Everyone I know wants to go back home, including me. Rose

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  33. Anon 4:37. I wish there's a like button to your comment.. Most ppl wish to come back to Nigeria if they can live comfortably. I think Stella should make a post on life in diaspora! All dat glitters is not gold.

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  34. i once met a guy through bb group friends,He added me and we got talking and he told me he likes me. Long and short i fell for him and we started dating,I gave him money to come to lagos and i helped him get a job too. He never really told me his age but i guess i was 3 or 4 years older. he met other women and moved on with them after been in lagos for a while. Still in shock thou.

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    1. At least you don better the person's life. Na wayo in diaspora be this one too. Rose

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