Hmmm seperate bedrooms? It is well.
Thursday, August 14, 2014
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Wunmi is right. Was shocked to read that it wasn't the wife that discovered his corpse. I mean hw can u leave d house 4 work without checking on someone u live wit? Pls save us the crocodile tears.
ReplyDeleteThis is exactly what crossed my mind when I saw I have lost my best friend yinmu, no matter what had gone down before they both went to separate rooms, she knew he was depressed so should have been monitoring him. Sorry but I smell a rat and I don't trust madam best friend one bit. She is in that marriage for money, they do not have kids. Even if they are fighting why did she not check on him before she left the house that morning knowing he is suffering depression. Smh
DeleteThe had depression, leave husband matter Abeg. Wunmi you fit sleep for room with persin wey don dey craze? Please let the truth be told, the guy for don display wella before them decide to sleep for separate room.... I haff talk my own. Bolokis abi how una talk am.
DeleteA depressed person is NOT CRAZY!
DeleteGET EDUCATED!
Don't mind the idiot. talking trash.@ anon4:35
DeleteI'm a little disappointed with you Stella and BVs for your judgemental attitude. Do you all have perfect homes? You have a misunderstanding with someone who dies the next day and everyone starts blaming you for the death. Hmn. Widow's plight. I'm sure Stella saw pepper when her brother died.
DeleteTrue that!
ReplyDeleteWell, good point
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts too Wunmi…Hmmm..Some marriages ehn!
ReplyDeleteI see no reason married couples should stay in separate rooms. Remember when I was younger I used to tell my mum if my hubby makes me angry I will go to my room and lock *lol* she laughed and told me not to worry that time will tell. Hmmmm...... RIP Robin.
DeleteWell, there are lots of married people who sleep apart due to various reasons, paramount among them is suspected adultery and domestic issues, women stay in marriages bcos of children, finance, societal respect et al and therefore will be termed married but in actual fact they will be co - tenants or roommates....so its not a surprise...
ReplyDeleteBut why would she leave the house without checking on her husband? Why did someone else have to find him dead. Even if you are just cohabiting or living together as tenants cos of the kids which the white don't do,they don't have a problem with divorce like we africans
DeleteI see no reason why a married couple will choose to stay in separate rooms. Na hausa people sabi do this rubbish well well.
DeleteSome old couples like staying separately tho, dunno why sha.
DeleteI guess my hubby is Hausa and I don't know...lol. He refuses to sleep in the same room with me. I'm done trying...4yrs of marriage both in our early 30's
DeleteAnonymous 3:05 perhaps you are dirty.
DeleteThus mama should mind her own fucking business. Are they a young couple? Is she judging them for separate bedrooms? Do you know if he snores loudly or farts all night? You shut your ponmo lips that tunde has agreed to suck on all these years. Business minder!
ReplyDeleteSo what if they are not young couples.. My parents still sleep in the same room till tomorrow,my sister and I owned one which she now uses alone since I am married,my brothers have 2 and there is a spare room so what are u saying... So what if he farts or snores...
DeleteNot a valide point biko.. Learn to disagree without violence
Looooooolest at farts all night..
DeleteLmao @ farts all night.
DeleteBut dear anon, Tunde loves her just the way she is. I hope you have someone that loves you too.
Attitudinaly yours! I LOVE you girl
DeleteAnd you just can't resist cussing her and her husband? Are you a pained side chick?
Delete@ Anon 6.02.
DeleteLove you right back doll.
Chop kiss *winks*
shes right. i had the same thots wen i read it. separate bedrooms after just 3 years of marriage? and then went out without a word to him. dodgy marriage for sure. but at the same time it is possible they were best friends.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm!
ReplyDeleteIheneme.
Wumi is right though. Some married peeps sleep in a separate rooms but not checking up on your husband whom you know is suffering from depression is really not right at all.
DeleteHnmm!
ReplyDeleteHian! Depression has got to be worse than Ebola.
ReplyDeleteThis must have been part of why he was depressed. People suffer loneliness and depression in more ways than we can imagine.
I've always said that marriage is not a final solution. Many people are very lonely even in marriage.
Nobody can make you happier than you can make yourself. People need to find happiness in themselves first.
Men are so annoying sometimes..maybe they had a fight and the woman went to a seperate room to cool off..
ReplyDeleteWunmi,talk true do you check up on your husband each time you had a fight with him?..abeg free the woman jare..
I tire my sister. ... shmm celebrities don suffer. ...
DeleteThank you... 1million likes.... Who made her a judge.... I have alot to say to wumi but i no get strength type.
DeleteBLOG ANALYsER: hian!
ReplyDeleteIhekire Tony
ReplyDeleteand who made you the judge..........??
Am not a fan of seperate bedrooms,but can't judge his wife,you dnt know what went down before the incident.
ReplyDeleteIts a devastating loss.RIP Robbin.
@Wunni obe...face ur GYM instructor n see how u wl shed some pounds
ReplyDeletestop callin anoda woman Bitch
As for sharin room or seperate home,i think its d couples decision
Rip William
@Galore
the problem with Wunmi is that,she talks too much,she talks through her teeth
DeleteAnon 2:06 why evils
DeleteThank you Galore. She should face her gym instructor biko. See her mouth like 'I'm not buying it'. Who is selling to her before? Nonsense onise. Expert on other people 's lives. Kmt
DeleteRIP robin williams. I don't even know the man sha
ReplyDeleteHow old r u, is it only nollywood movies u watch, smh @d fact dat u dnt knw robin williams
DeleteWondeful matter!
ReplyDeleteSo many pretencious marriages.
ReplyDeleteSo perfect in social media but the real deal? Lifeless! Dead!
Hahahahahhahah na so ppl dey come here pretend.
DeleteYou can say that again dear. We don't know the half of it. Never believe anything you see on instagram o.
DeleteSo i thought....... 'some' women can be so frustrating. Guess she pushed the man to a depressed state.
ReplyDeleteHe suffered depression and drug abuse for 20yrs. Wunmi is just chatting shit.
Deletewunmi's "shit" makes sense
DeleteMrs Wunmi Obe d evil genius, mind your own damn business!! what are you fEeling like now, d f***ing CIA? Who died, woke up and made you presiding judge of the matter? Say RIP and move on?
ReplyDeleteThank you.!:she need to stop chatting nonsense. In sensitive bitch.
DeleteCome Anon 11.55am I hope ure not stella damaturu o. Take it easy on d name calling biko.
DeleteAm nt yet married but i hate separate bedroom wt passion. Why r we one if we hav t stay in separate rooms. Snuggling esp @ nite makes couple bond so much.
ReplyDeleteHaving seperate bedrooms is cool. Women can sabi to gather load,clothes, shoes e.t.c. But every night, I must be in my husband's room oo. *sipsgreentea*
ReplyDeleteNaah,have same room with your husband and use the room you want to stay alone as your wardrope,make it very big and spacious to accommodate your clothes,shoes,bag,jewelry and what have you then put small chair in it cos if you put a small bed,you would he tempted to sleep there if oga gets your angry...
DeleteNo matter how angry I am at hubby,we must sleep in the room together and even make angry love if the occasion calls for it..
@ fab mum,your head dey there. When I got married newly, my hubby always complained about my ngwongwo from clothes to shoes to bags and toiletries. so when we moved to a bigger apartment I wanted a room and he refused !
DeleteHe said having separate rooms gives space for couples to grow apart and he didn't want that but all he was begging was for me to arrange my akpola shoes well. Now I can appreciate what he meant and I won't advice couples to sleep apart.
We are closely knit, gist ourselves to sleep, watch movies till we sleep off and our fights don't last.
Fab mum I love ur style jare
DeleteWell said fab mum
Delete@fabmum, what is "wardrope"? I can't just deal with pretense or fake life on blogs. You'll claim to be posh or middle class yet you called/typed wardrobe in that manner. It is only children of illiterates(not their fault) that are guilty of the gaffe you just committed.
DeleteWhy so passionate about the way she spelt wardrope instead of wardrobe? What has her class got to do with spelling? It could be she spelt it the way she pronounces it or it could just be a mistake. Honey please calm down, if BBC can keep her cool after correcting loads of grammatical and typographical errors, I guess you too can unless you have a personal grudge. Just so you know, class or status doesn't prevent people from mis-spellings. Even some of the greatest minds still proof-read their articles to correct errors.
DeleteNa wa º○○○••º
ReplyDeleteWunmi is right, maybe she is the reason he committed suicide in the first place. May God continue to rest your soul Robin.
ReplyDeleteWunmi is right.I don't think Robin williams wife of 3 yrs was truely in love with him.
ReplyDeleteThat's true, why sleep in different room ??? why didn't she check on him before she left the house???? And yet she sounds caring.......
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with Wunmi..
ReplyDeleteOluyomi Odukoya.
Busted!!!
ReplyDeleteSame with you wunmi y'all be forming perfect marriage indeed !! I'm Neva fooled .
ReplyDeletesame angry anon a li'l bit of sugar sweetens the soul
DeleteWell that's white man life for u, I think they're already separated but still live in same house. My landlady also live in same house with her husband but they're divorce too,I can remember wen she take me round her house/apartment she show me her room and d one of her husband too and each time I ask after her husband she jokely say I can go have him if I want. So I think is not a new thing they do all dis because of their children.....
ReplyDeleteNa one flat una dey share.
DeleteYou can go have him if you want????? Hum!
DeletePepper ose oku!
Nawa.
ReplyDeleteOh wow.there was trouble in paradise. EVE E UME
ReplyDelete#wordlesspost
ReplyDelete#wordlesscomment
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Seriously some women are just the devil themselfs..... May his soul R.I.P.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Why are some women devil themselves? ?? 'Expanciate' Mr. Doodie!
DeletePepper ose oku is not a devil herself!
My thought exactly... who knows, he would have had a change of heart if events were different. A simple "I love you" that morning would have saved his life. RIP Mr. Williams
ReplyDeleteHaving separate bedrooms is not bad neither is it absurd...Wunmi mind your business and leave the grieving woman alone.
ReplyDeleteWunmi need to take a seat in a corner! How dare she call this woman a bitch? Who freaking care about her opinion? This is a man that suffered from depression for 20yrs. He just came back from rehabilitation. Maybe he was not sleeping well. Am sure he was on medication. Am sure she had her reasons for not wanting to disturb him in the morning. Robin Williams was determined to kill himself. He tried to kill himself with a knife first before hanging. So abusing her is just irresponsible. When wunmi brother died and rumour then was that she gave stella a hard time I did not believe it, .now I do.
ReplyDeleteDont mind that elete kpomo woman. Seems she is always judging widows, forgeting she is a potential widow herself.
DeleteWhat mariage is in d West is not what it is in Africa. Here in the west they will tell u, u dont own pple in mariage. So wunmi pls take several seat.
potential Widow? How angry can you be? You must know this woman personally. This rage is crazy
DeleteAm not angry just saying the truth. Believe it or not all married women and men are potential widows and widowers. Death is a price we all owe and must pay someday.
DeleteNigerians are funny. Of all the houses I have worked on, only 2 couples had shared bedrooms. It's the norm now to have Master bedroom and Madam ' s bedroom. An utter load of crap. Robin's depression would have made the separate bedrooms move inevitable. The first thing depression requires is a separation as it's a jealous mistress. Wunmi Obe can like to shut her hole please.
ReplyDeleteArchitect Beanz pls be civil
DeleteEvery marriage is different so don't judge
ReplyDeleteawon aiye they weren't separated oh. how do we know that wasn't where he was doing his coke, his stash of meds or getting drunk? like peaches geldof a separate room for bad stuff. shut up Wunmi ITK
ReplyDeleteLets not tear her down yet
ReplyDeleteDey could have had a fight d previous night and she decided to leave d room for him
And we know how d devil works...na dat day, dat day of all days d thing will happen
M not a fan of seperate rooms
A wise aunt once told me "Never ever sleep apart from ur husband no matter how bad it is"
She said cos wen u have issues and u sleep apart,u widen dat GAP
dere won't be room for any reconciliation
And again she told me,even wen u r fighting,make sure u talk to him before u go to bed
She said I can tell him "I am stil angry wit u,buh I wil try and forgive u
Odiegwu!
M not dat forgiving jare
And in d beginning,I didn't take her advice buh later I said ok,lemme try dis
So what I always do is pinch his nose n tell him I am stil Soo angry wit u
And I realised dat wen I do dat,although initially I was angry,my nose pinching takes away d seriousness of D whole thing
And trust me,magically,u r calm and all d anger goes away
And of course he responds positively...
We can now talk Abt whatever nicely and calmly
Anyone can try dis too if u wanna
Just put ur mind to it...
RIP Sir...
Well said but talking to him before going to bed is a no no for me...infact odiro possible...
DeleteWhere is d like button for dis comment.... Well said....
DeleteNice one nwunye General!
DeleteWell, to each his own. I sleep in a separate during the week cos the MRS junk is too tempting to say no to and I've run out of reasons for running late at work... Lol
DeleteWunmi is jumping in2 conclusion and I hope it helps her weight.
ReplyDeleteMy father leaves for his work place sometimes very early and doesn't see the need to wake anybody up.
It doesn't question the fact that the man isn't her best friend.
Not sleepin 2geda is a tin of choiz, every1 craves 'alone time' once in a while.
Wunmi if ur hubby is ur bestF,2 of u shld gaan reg in a gym, too many mobidities attatchd to being overweit.
Dis Pink Shell eh,ur mouth wicked gaan
DeleteLMAO @ I Hope it helps her lose weight...lol
Separate bedroom or not, quarreled or not, the MAIN matter is that COURTESY demands that anybody leaving home should let the others know. Either by peeping into their rooms for them to register their presence or have a special signal to let them know they are going leaving. Would a mother leave home without checking on any of her children? Even If she is annoyed with them? Esp when there is a sick person at home? Lets be truthful to ourselves, she DIDN'T do right.
Delete@bitchplis...thou u nor be beta person cos u don talk rubbish abt me 4 dis blog b4,bt as my ibadan broda cos dats where my mum comes 4rm,I will tell u d truth! I pity u or any man wey go marry ishan girl! I hope u are ready to face gbege?? If any ishan or person come yarn okpata under dis comment ehn,may EBOLA visit dat person's families!!....................OKIJA WIFE
ReplyDeleteAhahahahahahahah...
DeleteNo be lie u talk okija wife!their witchcraft na to dominate their husband o,and them can flirt for husband house ehn....my brother can never marry an ishan woman,tufiakwa
DeleteEbola? Seriously? Well u Cnt evn have kids or generation tht ll die of ebola bcos u ll definitely die of it bfor hvin kids.
DeleteEasy way to get flat tummy go to www.lifeasvira.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteShut up Wunmi..Do you know how things are done oversea??..so many couples stay in Separate bedroom and it has nothing to do with not loving or caring...and so many couples go to work without waking or disturbing wife or husband in another bedroom..
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly. Who leaves a house without saying hello to 'your best friend'.
ReplyDeleteWunmi, So you mean Tunde sleeps in same bedroom with you?/..You must swollen his tommy with farts..You wey sabi mess...I now know why Tunde face is always squeezed and bloated cos you don kill the guy with mess
ReplyDeleteChei u wicked o. Lwtmbfh
Delete@Okija wife,pls take it easy..ds is nt d right time to wish anyone EBOLA
ReplyDelete@Galore
you wont mind your business now, when ur time comes pls remember that the same stone u cast ll come straight back. my parents live apart for economic reasons, they love each other deeply and it is obvious. there are many reasons that may be responsible for this. be casting stone there, ugly idiot like you with ur belle like bread soaked in toilet water. fool
ReplyDeleteThe issue is not that she slept in a different room or that she left the house without seeing him the following morning. A lot of caring wives do that, especially after a quarel. No problem with that.
ReplyDeleteThe issue is that Robbin had chronic depression, neighbours have said how particularly withdrawn he was that weekend and he had been in rehab as lately as 3 months prior. There should therefore had been better monitoring by his wife.
May his soul rest in peace.
Wunmi, did you call the wife bitch? Please put a sock on it! You don't know the circumstances here.
When my hubby leaves the house very early say maybe he has an appointment or meeting, he does not wake me up oh.He tiptoes and doesn't put on the light ,uses a torch or so except I wake up on my own, he doesn't like to wake me up.. Same goes for me, if my hubby is on leave and I am leaving for work, I try not to wake him too.
ReplyDeleteWho knows? Maybe he has been having troubles sleeping and she dint want to wake him, or they had a strained relationship, only Gods knows.
I'm surprised @d fact that some people are supporting Wunmi!!! Who is Wunmi by d way? Is ds any of her brother's marital issue? Abi she thinks she can open her gutter and yarn nonsense always. Overweight chimpanzee, dnt go and lose weight, instead of u to concentrate on ur over weight body u re making mouth n dishing out opinion of social media. Co's u re a William? U stay with them abi? U know their family structure n what went down? People jus feel they have opinions in other people's lives, while in actual fact they don't have lives themselves. Wunmi keep on feeding on sugar n cholesterol daily n keep meddling in people's affair, don't concentrate on how u will lose that baggage u re carrying around! U sef too de talk? People have opinions, u too have.....oriegwu (in Linda's voice).
ReplyDeleteoh shhhhhhhhhhhhh pay attention to the issue at hand . Discuss dont Diss. Focus. Jahbless
DeleteAbeg me sef support Wunmi...even if they slept in different room overnight she should have still checked on him in the morning or better still @ intervals all thru d night....he was suffering from depression...depressed people need others around and not being alone!
ReplyDeleteThis wunmi is a nasty fat bitch . She is as ugly as she is nasty. May you not be unfortunate , same way you accused your sister in law Stella and ensured you kicked her out of your late brothers house . Wicked woman
ReplyDeleteStella Damaturu how body?
DeleteSeparate rooms for married couples isn't cool at all, don't stretch the quarrel for long even if there was one...as for Wunmi...1st of all women who use the word bitch in such degrading manner are turnoffs for me. RIP Sir.
ReplyDeleteALL OF U CURSING WUNMI OUT ARE ALL FOOLS. WHAT SHE SAID IS DAMN RIGHT.. IM SURE MANY OF U CRITICIZING ARE EITHER NOT MARRIED OR IN AN UMHAPPY MARRIAGE.
ReplyDeleteWHY WOULD ANY WOMAN WHO CLAIMS TO LOVE HER HUSBAND AND KNOWS THAT HE IS SUICIDAL AND SUFFERS FROM DEPRESSION SLEEP IN A SEPERATE ROOM WITH HIM NOT TO EVEN TALK OF LEAVING THE HOUSE WITHOUT CHECKING UP ON HIM? SERIOUSLY I DONT GET IT. IM SURE THERE MUST BE SOMETHING THAT HAPPENED IN THAT HOUSE THAT MADE THAT MAN KILL HIMSELF WHICH THE WIFE MUST SURELY KNOW ABOUT.
BUT SHE JUST CANNOT BE BORTHERED. AND I'M SURE ALL THAT WOULD BE ON HER MIND NOW IS THE LIFE INSURANCE MONEY/OR ANY MONEY THE MAN LEFT BEHIND WHICH SHE HAS RIGHT TO BECAUSE THEY ARE LEGALLY MARRIED.
HOW I WISHED THE MAN LEFT A NOTE BEFORE HE DIED. OR MAYBE THE WIFE HAS TORN THE NOTE WHO KNOWS...... THEY ONLY VICTIMS IN ALL THESE ARE HIS 3KIDS.
SO TO U FOOLS CONDEMING WUNMI, MAYBE IF THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOUR BLOOD BROTHER, YOU WILL THINK RIGHTLY.
Ekabo Wunmi...
DeletePlease Google Robin Williams' wives and divorces. Robin Williams was a great actor no doubt but he had his struggles like everyone of us because at the end of the day he is human. I think he should have stayed with his first wife. He cheated on his first wife (with a cocktail waitress) and married his son's nanny a few years later. Wife no.2 (the former nanny) divorced him in 2006, and wanted a large divorce settlement. He had a lot of money troubles because of the divorce. Then he married wife no.3 still plagued with money problems. Men please learn from this o.
ReplyDeleteNone of us know what he was like to live with. Some of you on here ain't easy to live with yourselves, so remember dat.
ReplyDeleteI am all for separate chambers, I do not think I can deal with someone up on me all the time, need my space.
Lies he had no money problems
ReplyDeleteObviously the people condemning this woman have no idea what it means to live with a depressed spouse. I do, and i can say it's a daily struggle. No matter how much you love them there's always the tendency that you will get really upset by them and over react by not giving them the attention they need. So I think it's unfair to judge Robin's wife because we really do not know the circumstances she had been dealing with.
ReplyDeleteRIP Robin