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THE WRONG KIND OF LOVE

Hello Stella,
Could you please share this wherever you think appropriate? I need your feedback on an issue I'm facing. I've developed feelings for my therapist.
Four years ago, I was introduced to this man to help me cope with heartbreak and anxiety following the cancellation of my wedding just a month before the scheduled date. 

I struggled to recover until someone connected me with him. He performed his duties effectively, but during our sessions, I found myself falling for him. However, he didn't entertain or encourage my feelings. He explained that while it's normal to develop such feelings, it goes against professional ethics. 

He suggested that we could maintain a platonic friendship. Despite his stance, I've remained infatuated with him for the past four years. He's a single father who plays an active role in his child's life, and I admire his dedication as a parent. Although his child was born out of wedlock due to ethnic differences, he hasn't expressed a desire to marry anytime soon. 

Yet, I simply want him in my life because he understands me deeply.

 I've tried everything to make him see that he's all I want, but nothing seems to work. I'm starting to question whether he's even human, although I've never been given reason to believe otherwise. There's just something about him that doesn't quite add up.

He has significantly transformed my life, providing guidance that has shaped my present success. From being a broken single mother, I've become a confident, career-driven woman, all thanks to him. Despite my inquiries, he assures me that I'm attractive and any man would be lucky to have me, yet he remains distant.

 I've even offered companionship, but he's declined. He treats me like a sister, with no hint of intimacy, but I desire more—a deeper connection with him. We're both in the same age group, although I'm slightly younger, and our children get along well. I can't understand what his issue might be.

He ended his previous relationship two years ago due to genotype compatibility issues, but that's not a concern for us. He keeps saying that God hasn't revealed anything about our future together, leaving me in limbo. I've attempted other relationships, but they never last, especially once my potential partners discover I have a child. I'm deeply in love with him, but he's not giving me the chance to prove it. 

Our relationship remains strictly platonic, which I find dull. And no, I'm not promiscuous; I've only had three partners and less than seven s'xual experiences in my 38 years on this earth. 

We're both orphans—I'm an only child, while he has siblings who are quite accepting and open-minded. His family is lovely.
Should I continue waiting for him to come around, or have I unwittingly become the sister he never had?

*Why are you trying to force this thing? If you convince him to sleep with you, you will lose his friendship and the affair will be dead on arrival.

Maybe the trick will be when you begin to ignore him and treat him like a brother...Some men need brain resetting to realise they are in love.

if you brother zone him and nothing happens, please leave it so and move on emotionally......stop trying to force cos if a therapist who helped you heal breaks your heart na wahala be that oh......