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Sometimes we step out of the mirror line and we remove our gaze from the five fingers pointing back at us and we shift that gaze to our target/other people.
We judge them when they stumble,we judge them when they falter...
Some of us do not even know these people that we judge but just because we cannot stand to see them soar,we help them count their blessings,we remind ourselves of what a terrible person they are or could be.....
''You cannot marry him,he is poor,short,ugly...''
''You cannot marry her,my cousin dated her and dumped her,she is ugly,short,ill mannered and does not have a University education...''
''Oh i suspect she is frustrated so please avoid her..''
''Oh Stella is ugly,vain,brings others down and her English is so bad,please dont log unto her blog,she is a bitch...''
''She flaunts so much wealth yet there is no visible source of income,she must be a runs babe...''
''Oh they are broke and beg a lot,I only make friends with people with a future...''
''Oh,she talks too much,bloody gossip...''
Let me try this....''APC says PDP did it but PDP swears it is APC..''
Oh there's more and everyone has been guilty of something at one point or the other,I am not even exonerating myself from this,We are all guilty because we are only human.......right?.
Now let us stop and examine this again...Is it fair to Judge people when we have not had contact with them?When we do not know them?We judge them because others who have ''Rolled'' with them did,fair or not?
By their fruits we shall know them?...Really?..Check your garden,you probably planted the same fruits.
By their actions they shall by Judged? Really?..The same actions you performed in private and nobody saw you?LOL.
I am not perfect,infact I dont want to be and that makes me human....Are you?
Do you have any ''Casting the first stone'' story?..Please if you do not understand this,scroll back up and read again and again until you do and then join in the discourse.
This Writeup is not referring to anyone in particular,It just filtered into my Medulla Oblangata!..LOL
That is what makes us human. Life will be very boring without all this.
ReplyDeleteEven when people know us, out of pure envy and bitterness they will still judge lie and spread malicious gossip. I prefer outside house rat than inside house rat. Save us Lord.
DeleteLife wil indeed be totally boring and uneventful without all this plenty drama.
DeleteImagine if everyone on Stella's blog commented in the same line, same thots, same meaning, reading comments won't be fun nah.
The funny thing is that we all do it! Yes, every single human has judged a fellow human knowingly and unknowingly. Its all part of life.
DeleteThat is why we are just humans.
This blog is DEEP!
DeleteTrue talk@cynhams
DeleteStella, it's amazing how a born gossip will accuse u of being a gossip. Madam anonymous 2.31pm I see u. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree check urself. That outside rat u prefer to inside rat has opened all ur yansh and very soon we will play ur record. And yes I read stella's blog too Mrs KSO
DeleteI have a question to ask, how do u forgive someone dat says she will tell ur daughters dat u are witches whenever she sees them. How do u forgive someone dat u called a sis but she was busy trying to gather info from u to use against u. How do u forgive someone dat makes it a point of duty to look for anyone u have issues with and team up with them to push u out of ur home with lies. How do u forgive someone dat goes about telling people dat I am jealous of her sons becos I have daughters. And yet I hear things like, let it go let it go. If I catch u near any of my family members or inches close to me ehhhhh, na police go solve our matter.
DeleteStella spot on.....
DeleteQutie, Bloglord and Jayem are the number 1 culprits on this blog.
Jayem call every girl a hoe until her frieds told us otherwise.
A Lot of people were quick to condemn Ibinabo, but they have been with numerous men and have had several abortions
A Lot of us were quick to castigate Ini Edo eg. Qutie "I am better than runs girls"
I really don't know why people can't mind their business really, It's either She iz bleaching or she iz has a baby papa or she does runs etc
We should learn to face our lives, no one is perfect. People can live their lives the way they want to, as long it does not affect us directly. When I see runs girls calling Kim K a hoe, I'm like seriously? Look in the mirror.
Anonymous 7:41. Funmi is that you? I still have it in mind to send that memo...and if I do i'm going all out oh.
DeleteJayEm, U're so damn irritating!
DeletePls get lost!!!
Don't mind JayEm or whatever she calls herself. She's just a Mamie or Linda Eze wannabe!
DeleteThose babes gave earned their stripes on this blog and deserve max respect. She on the other hand, feels she has to tell everyone she's based Down Under before she can be noticed.
Okay, we've noticed you now buzz off!
In ancient Greece, Socrates was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem. One day an acquaintance met the great philosopher and said, “Do you know what I just heard about your friend?” “Hold on a minute,” Socrates replied. “Before telling me anything I’d like you to pass a little test. It’s called the Triple Filter Test.” “Triple filter?” “That’s right,” Socrates continued. “Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment a...nd filter what you’re going to say. That’s why I call it the triple filter test. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?” “No,” the man said, “Actually I just heard about it and ...” “All right,” said Socrates. “So you don’t really know if it’s true or not. Now let’s try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?” “No, on the contrary…” “So,” Socrates continued, “you want to tell me something bad about him, but you’re not certain it’s true. You may still pass the test though, because there’s one filter left: the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?” “No, not really …” “Well,” concluded Socrates, “if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?”
DeleteYeah. Its not always good to judge although sometimes we correct but we should never be too quick to judge and hate.
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BLOG ANALYSER: exactly
DeleteAll of the above points boils down to either of the following:
ReplyDelete*Bring down syndrome.- just hating for no reason hence trying to pull down
*Beef syndrome- has issues with the individual hence always attacking
*Complex syndrome- wishing you could be like the individual but you are far from it hence attack
*Truth syndrome - saying it as it is; trying to let the individual know that some things he/she does OR is doing is wrong hence calling to order
*Fact syndrome- truth is bitter. telling the individual the truth about his/her status
*Jealousy syndrome- not just happy @ the individual's progress or level of growth hence attack
Blog lord you have summarised this write up well!!!
DeleteWell Stella,i am actually very positive ooh...I never assume someone is lying just becos I see the person's comments on blogs..or just judge unnecessarily! I don't even know where I got this mind of no beef..anytime envy wants to creep in,i remember I am supposed to be happy for someone for good things to come my way! And once I reason that way,you will see me with genuine smiles!
This mind set has kept me going..even in the midst of challenges,never ending issues..i focus on how to deliver myself instead of getting angry that God is blessing my neighbour,friend or colleague!
Hate,wickedness,envy,frustration over people's success stories,back biting, hinders blessings
Biko life is indeed beauriful!
Spot on bloglord.
DeleteWell-said Bloggie!
Delete@ Iphie,dat's me right There!
U and I should Def hook up! *wink wink*
Bloglord spot on!
DeleteBest analysis, Bloglord!!Buh personally i dont know how to envy instead i will rejoice cuz bible says rejoice wit dose who are rejoicing!
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DeleteSpot on**
Well written @ Bloglord.
@bloglord;gbam gbammer gbamest!!!
DeleteThank you BlogLord
DeleteOh YES BL
Delete@Iphie I concur. Did u just say..."..I never assume someone is lying just becos I see the person's comments on blogs..". ??? Oh oh that's the issue with some of us here o. They assume shit all day.
Often times you share your stories or general talks, there are people on standby to say you are living a fantasy on sdk. Same way some married women share their marital bliss and are tagged 'forming happiness". Ahaha
Or the successful ones who share their success stories and append advice on how to be successful, they are also called show offs or whatever else. Ahahah
Yet when the aggrieved share their tales of woe no one ever says that they are lying or are forming sorrow. Choi
So you see what the society, or shall I say a select number of shallow readers/thinkers, expect to happen to the next person to them? More of sorrow and pity party things. Sadists
Some even call u an attention seeker if u share bitter or not so good stories here. Some say that they wish ur entire family bad or that u are struck with terminal illness just because they cannot stand what u make of yourself and personality on a blog. Trust me I have read such. It is that bad.
On this blog, it is never hard to deduce personalities and their defaults. I for one know when a person is joking, serious, or just using this space to discover another part of them that the real world have failed to notice or allow them exhibit to its full potentials. I therefore hardly take to heart some unassuming characters here. Everyone has the option to skip comments no be by force.
But to those whose job it is to sit all day and undermine the integrity of others or to hope that they can bully them to have the floor here are the ones I empathise with. You don't know these people or their stories so what the heck?
We have serious minded professionals here and those who are successful in their own rights, intelligent minded folks with analytical sense of reasoning, spiced with strong impressionable characters. If u admire them learn from them, if you do not like them ignore them. But hating on them only proves that you are lacking and frustrated. And this applies to real life too o, not only online.
For mee oooo as long as I have the time to open this blog I would always put my thoughts into writing if I can relate with the topic. And yes I will always share my stories no matter how long it may be. You have two options, read and say your own, or pass by and mind your business.
Immune to blabbers of any kind. Pointers of fingers abi wetin stella call am. I am on this blog for a mission. And that is to have mad fun. Life itself is already hectic. I read on.... Ok byeeeeeeee
Well spoken Stella.
ReplyDeleteYimuuuu! Stella baby, u sure say no be that Joy isi shit head babe on facebook with such nasty and uncouth mode of yarning you are talking about?
ReplyDeleteIf not then my bori is "inching" me oooo! Bring her matter here make we finish am na!
Madam Gagool,oh so u saw that post as well???
DeleteShe just showed what à bitter,malicious,foul-mouthed person she is!
Was gisitng wit ma friend last night and she agreed d woman was "high" on some cheap something!
Being long,very long i read such bitterness and venom from à lady to à fellow lady.
Did u see how insulting she was?
U read all d abusés she was spewing?
Cant deal mehn!
@ General's Wife I saw them o, I had to look at the lady's pic and I was like na wa oo, human beings are just unnecessarily extreme sometimes, deep biff o... arrant nonsense!
DeleteYou don't mean it?
DeleteYea I also read it and am happy stella did not make it a post cos it was obvious she wanted publicity for her up coming show this Dec. Uncouth lady with her followers like her men and women alike. SMH.
DeleteThese are gossip,ladies gossip a lot and some guyz can run someone down because she didn't fuck you that dose not make her a whore that you should rubbish her name,most of you nyash openers on this blog stella is asking you to repent and examine yourself
ReplyDeleteI didn't accept you as my bf dose not mean am rude,una too many so I Nur fit friend all of una
Even if you fuck her,does dat make her a whore,you dat fucked her 2 wat do we label you?BONOBO MONKEY or what,joor I tire for world people.
DeleteThis write up is just filtering in now??
ReplyDeleteIt filtered in a long tym ago!
I have learnt how to stop judging people from hearsay!
It all changed when I left skool and got talking with some school people I wasnt friends with and they all said things about what they knew of me and I cringed!!! It hurt!!!
I am still on the learning Journey to stop judging people or saying mean things about people/celebs. These are people you may never meet or you haven't met yet.
Lets live and let live!
Same thing happened to me. When I left school a friend of mine came to visit me in benin from the west, when she got to my house she was like 'Joan forgive me, so your parents are this rich? Ha! We used to think it was runs I never knew your parents really had money'. From that day, I decided that anything you call me I won't bother to explain nada! Just talk, I will walk.
Deletejoan just shut up. ur parents rich for where? babe no let me carry your house matter enter this blog cos u sabi wash ur family dirty linens outside with ur non stop potty mouth. my God, babe u disgust me and also make d laff at d same time looking for cheap fame on a blog commenting trash on every post and showing d world that u have nothing but air nd dust in ur brain. u even carried ur attention seeking character to dis blog. ur parents are not rich, please dont make me say more cos im really tempted to tell d blog visitors ur family history as told by u. stop forming all tush and posh. ur family is rich yet u attended a very cheap government school nd wrote ur waec at a cheap miracle center cos u knew u will fail woefully cos govt schls dont help their students. need i say more? liar liar pant's on fire
DeleteTruth be told, this JayEm girl is danm right annoying!!!
DeleteHian see yansh opening. Nor be pointing fingers wen dem dey preach us una dey do again? This thing dey some ppl blood like wetin. If she talk say Na her papa get MM1, u sef say ur mama get MM3 na. Abi una follow see her papa bank account to know? Nor be pesin wey never chop belle full knw say hin hungry? I tire for Internet ppl ewo. Dis una beefing na die
DeleteOh wow anonymous! You really know me! Oh wow!!!
DeleteI am scared!!! Lmao!
Lemme think about it!
ReplyDeleteGenerally we are all victims, sometimes out of anger we say things we are not supose to say but we a little restraint here and there,i have learnt to hold back sometimes..You don't know where the other person is coming from,their state of mind etc..Less I forget remember we judge these celebs o,we cast stones no be lie!! #Benin BVs anybetter?#
DeleteThanks so much for this post, a lot of people not only Judge other people from afar, but condemn others based on what they've been told about those people, which is soo soo wrong. I believe one thing "Before you judge someone, take a walk in that person's shoe and see if you can be any better". God bless you Stella for this.
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Hnmmm! Iya gbogbo, even Jesus said let him that is with no sin, cast d 1st stone. I digest it as, no human is perfect n we av flaws jare. Its better to stop castigating others but rather engage in minding our own biz
ReplyDeleteHi namesake.
DeleteTruth dot com #ifybeke#
ReplyDeleteMadam Stella, leave story abeg. you don talk the one wey pain you "Stella is ugly" etall. but you bring people up here and you expect us to make comments abi? do you think there will be traffic on your blog if we all just read and keep mute? i dont understand the import of this your Medulla jamming post.
ReplyDeleteNa true u yan ma sista. Stella Bia u sef, na amebo be ur work so u no follow dey among pple wen go complain say any pesin dey judge am. Cos na per second u sef dey hammer ppl personality for ontop ur blog. If I hia
DeleteHmmmmm! I know u'll reply, but sometimes silent is golden. Stella stop replying every dick n harry, they can't stop ur progress shikena!
ReplyDeleteoh yeah they judge, they wait for you to make 1 single mistake and hell loose, they carry your matter on their head like gala sellers, they judge you and say you did this or that, why what they do is worst, they judge you and feel afterall wetin she wan do for me, they are ready to point all fingers at u including their toes just to tag you a bad person for something you know little or nothing about, they judge you if their children go wrong so you can feel like a bad person... i hate judgmental people they make me sick. i had rather be bored for the whole day than get involved with a judgmental person or a judgmental argument.. Am going to share a story of a family i once stayed with, when our house was demolished we had nowhere to go so my parent moved to our hometown, i didnt want to go with them because of my work.. i told a friend about my situation little did i know i was walking into trouble zone.. she asked me to come stay with them, tho i had other people i could stay with but it was mostly guys, and i thought oh that's not nice so i decided to stay with this lady and her family.. i went through hell in the hands of the mother and brother they are always there to judge every little mistake.. the little way i could help in the house i helped, but my best was never enough the woman will always judge and the brother will always have negative things to say.. instead of me to pick a fight or say a word i buried my head and the whole of my body in work, i will work and do extra work just to raise cash.. i worked like crazy so i could afford an accommodation.. when the money was complete i started looking for house a friend at church told me about an agent so we went to see him together i did all the necessary pay the bills and "boom" the agent disappeared, it was like bad luck was just following me that period and va va voom the judging began double.. i was shattered and i will still come home to a judgmental set of people.. i almost went crazy, i will walk on the street and cry my eyes out, at any given opportunity the tears will just roll down.. the funniest part of it is i do not stay with this judgmental people anymore things got better for me and i later secured an apartment and plenty other things have happened after then and they still have something negative to say.. and the only way i have adjusted to it is by IGNORING. that what i am good at i can ignore people to the core. so when people bring up story of what they are going through on here i just hate to judge. someone built a mansion and abandon it while others does not have where to lay their head it really a weird world!
ReplyDeleteI honestly do not want to judge you. But if you can say all these things about people that gave you accommodation boldly, with your Id and face up here, then you my dear, are not a nice person. See the way you have negative things to say about them. Mcheeeew. People like you are the reason I don't help others with accommodation oooo.
DeleteYou be typist? you love typing long comments, kilode? Talk small remain for other people.
DeleteIf her tory too long u for try skip am like me nor read cos I tire. Buh una go read finish begin complain. World ppl sef. Hian
DeleteMany wil com out claimin d victims here, bt in real lyf, de ar d devils...nobodi holy pass in 2baba voice
ReplyDeleteI hate people that judge others without knowing them or at least taking time to observe them. I don't know why there are some people that are always waiting on the sidelines for someone to make a mistake and they start attacking the person and saying all sorts.
ReplyDeleteWhen I started work in my office (government agency), I noticed that people were avoiding me like a plaque! Even though I tried to smile and greet people, at a point I just boned. So one day I was very hungry and needed to eat something but I didn't know where they sold food around there, as I approached the cleaner she almost took off, I just tried to calm her and tell her my predicament and if she could tell me where I could buy food. She now offered to go buy it for me, I then gave her extra money for herself. When she came back I thanked her for the food and she left, the next day she came to ask me if I was hungry and offered to buy my food. Small small she started getting close to me and eventually told me that everyone in the office was avoiding me because they say I'm a snob and I feel too big, but that now that she has started interacting with me she sees it's not true, that I'm a really nice person. I just laughed and said Na so now!
Kikikikikiki Kikikikiki been think say u go say dem say u carry AIDS or ebola sef. Hian. How person go run from u cos dem say u be snob? **whistles away**
DeleteGaddammit Stellz! You took these words right outta my mouth!!! *stories that touch the clit*
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaha...as in...very funny
ReplyDeleteCasting first stone philosophy helps ♏Î tremendously in ♍¥ marraige. Any thing i want 2 do or scream at hubby,i ask ♍¥ self first if i would like it if he does d same 2 me- if d answer ÈŠ̝̊̅§ negative, i backoff pata-pata and hold ♍¥ tongue (its not easy do o!) Learnt dis in d course of ♍¥ marraige... Pls let's learn 2 apply dis philosophy in d course of our lives - men n women alike... Trust ♏Î... Life will be a better place for u... #datsall# In other news, ÈŠ̝̊̅§ dere any BV who can teach ♏Î how make beads??? i am a new mom who resigned have ♍¥ babies (distance work ishh)! i've not been idle... i knw hw 2 make cakes and i do that on d side but i want 2 knw hw make beads! i stay in Ikorodu... Pls if u cn help ♏Î o! PS- Money ÈŠ̝̊̅§ a bit tight o so cant rily spare much learn oo! Pls consider dis a good deed!May God reward u(#toasting tinzzz#Yes! i am begging ni o, no shakara) God bless!
ReplyDeleteWhich Kain typing be this no carry virus come this blog o.
DeleteMeanwhile y don't u spend the time and effort you want to use in learning bead making to perfect ur cake craft to the point where u can rely on it as an income source.
NewBie!
You are quite industrious!
DeleteWell am glad the post identifies everyone of us as being guilty .Its so sad the way we judge people we don't really know
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha! From your medulla ko from your medusa nii. Do you know how many hearts your have made sorrowful with the bring then down posts you put up.
ReplyDeleteAbeg eh your matter no be for here. By the way you ugly so live with it abeg and stop whining.
2;23
DeleteShe is also working on herself.
Next time u want to accuse som1 of somtin, kindly get an identity, so we can examine ur own life too. #Inugo!
2;23
DeleteShe is also working on herself.
Next time u want to accuse som1 of somtin, kindly get an identity, so we can examine ur own life too. #Inugo!
Lmao @ "you ugly so live with it"
DeleteLmao @ "you ugly so live with it"
DeleteKikikikikiki ki. Today wen I see free MB use ehn. The owner soon wake make I hurry
Deletewell said bloglord.
ReplyDeletestella i love u the way u are,ugly,short, bend i dnt care pls,u are doing a great job,nd thats ok.
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ReplyDeleteU are very correct stella, plz judge u when they know little or nofin about u, they only judge u based on what others said about u, bloody mofos.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Anytym i come across this judging stuff i remember my mum. that woman can judge lie crazy... Lolx...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
When I see individuals like this I wonder how it is possible not to judge. Always deviating from the matter at hand. Then again I compare him to man in his original homo sapien state n smile.
DeleteLOOL. Anon 4:53 just slayed me.
DeleteSome people don't put their brains to use at all (hey, I'm not judging').
Mrs. BitchBiko.
Best write up ever. Neva judge one bcos u are not in their shoes
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteFood for thoughts.
We are all guilty in one way or the other so no one should form holier than thou on this post...
casting the first stone.....line people use to justify wrong doings. please its wise to speak out when something is wrong but condemning or writing the guilty one off is what is absolutely wrong.
ReplyDeletethat phrase has been so abused of late. Go and sin no more. don't continue in sin and shout he is without sin. everyone does it still doesn't make it right .
Some people :died and woke up ,God made them judge ,example paka Nima ,ngwa paka Nima you have been noticed oya begin to walk on water
ReplyDeleteBwahahahaha.........
DeleteSee finishing ooo......
Chai!!
Paka is finished!
Stella abeg leave story
ReplyDeleteJudging is allowed in this life
We have all judged people before and also being judged
Me i like it when people judge me oh and i get satisfaction when i react differently from what they have judged about me.
I judge people but i always give them benefit of the doubt.
Hey!
DeleteWassup?
Ezenwanyi ukwu sugar
DeleteI'm good dear.
How is baby and omugwo(hope i got the spelling right)
Warm regards to them.
U got it right!
DeleteWe are fine and kicking.
live and let live!Only rapture will let you leave here alive
ReplyDeleteStella why u dey fall my hand na? You mustnt respond to that idiotic post biko. Ignore them and make a fool out of them. Silence is the best answer to fools. Biko next time just ignore. E hugs for u.
ReplyDeleteDo not judge so that ye be not judge. We are guilty of this, that's why we are human. We see ourselves judging others knowingly or unknowingly that also makes us human. Nobody is perfect and nobody is a saint , most times we pass judgement base on here say or one person's story without hearing the other person's version.God help me not be too quick to castigate and judge others knowing fully well I wont like that being done to me.Amen.
ReplyDeleteMay God forgive us all for judging people at one time or the other.But how does one handle a hubby that is a serial cheat?? It's really frustrating!!
ReplyDeleteHmmm stella,was there a glass of sparkling wine by your side when you wrote this inspiring piece? I ask because it sounds like you were positively upbeat. Did the world seem beautiful with each sip. Raise your glass ma'am. #cheers!
ReplyDeleteMy babe and I went to d bank to do transctions yest.I entered d banking hall to do sm other things while she went to use d ATM.
ReplyDeleteShe met me and was telling me that a guy was talking in yoruba to kinda abuse her bcos she jumped the queue.And i told her she ought nt to do that.She said d one she used was nt dispensing and no one was using it.And i said 'it's Ok,that one is gone'..On our way bk,it was terrible.She started saying that i don't defend her in public and sorts.So,when she was leaving my place,i did nt walk her to d bus-stop becos i was too tired.She started ranting again and left in Anger and bitterness.
I hv been broken since last night bcos all i can see is break-up.I'm one quite guy like that trying to be more open & aggressive.I don't like it that i'm gentle.I'm in tears bcos i don't want to her to be separated from me.My lv for her is deep.
My babe has so many repulsive attitudes but i've made up my mind never to judge or condemn her.Bcos i see nothing gd abt me also.
Same way,no one is perfect and hence,shouldn't judge anybody.The EXCEPTION to this are ppl that drop Unrealistic,Abusive & Insubstantial comments on the internet.Such i've seen on this blog for example are *One st***d Ewu guy or lady like that,Mami-e,Ezewanyi and sm Anonymous BV..However,i wl nt Judge.
G.BOBBY
Guy!
DeleteShine your eyes, you can correct your babe with love that is not judging buh if she is nasty and impatient and you dont find a way to deal with it, you will have a bigger problem in future.
Sorry, wasnt tryna be rude o
You're trying to be more open and aggressive ? You lost me at that.
DeleteAnd 'I see nothing gd abt me also'?
Have you told your parents ?
I think you're starting to have psychological disorders.
Mrs. BitchBiko.
Eeyah...
Deletesorry o..
@ G bobby,
DeleteWell done, for u just joined the abusive insubstantial comments by calling EWu stupid.
I can see u seek attention by mentioning oda blog visitors name.
Newbies want dia names to be noticed, and wld do anytin to see a comment underneathe theirs. I hope I md ur dreams come true.
Pink shell thanks for making his dreams come true.....Bobby congats oo..
DeleteKikikikiki
DeleteNice write up
ReplyDeletewell said Stella.people forget about the log in their eyes and try to remove the beam in the eyes of others(bible talk am)people do worse things but they are quick to point at others. ZAINIE
ReplyDeleteThat's what make life interesting Stella, however ppl take it to the extreme like ppl have to live for others. That's life, we all have to get used to it. It's not that serious abeg!!
ReplyDeleteWell said boo I love the realness in your tone. I second all that bloglord said.
ReplyDeleteI don't care what anyone says about me, the real people in my life know everything about me and they love me wholeheartedly and that is all that matters.
ReplyDeleteSo if you are going to judge, keep at it.
I couldn't care even if I wanted to.
U care honey, even if you try not to. Always washing your dirty linens on here. Love u 4 being outspoken but if I was to judge u based on the trash u spill , I would say u totally disgust me. Stop mentioning your friends name cos I think birds of a feather flock together. Btw I am Anon 7:41
DeleteI don't have dirty linens Anon or Funmi. I'm glad I disgust you, I feel fulfilled.
DeleteI'm on a mission, and it includes disgusting people everyday. Wow! I feel good.
Pls shut up already, U retard!!!
DeleteKikikikikiki Kikikikiki today na today
Deletehehehehhehehe @ Qutie, BLOGLORD and JayEm are the number 1 culprits.
ReplyDeletewetin? we don blast you before? fact/truth syndrome it must have been.
I see your acknowledgements people!
ReplyDeleteone love and big kisses to you all. one size fits all.!
people don't always judge out of beef or hatred all the time, sometimes its out of love/fact/truth...which I do
It haf do ma
DeleteJayem, yes it me Funmi. Bring out the memo or jump into the ocean.
ReplyDeleteOhhhh... sisi eko.....abeg chop double kiss for your epistle comment. everything you said is totally GBAM!
ReplyDeletenothing to add! infact triple the kiss for your chopulation.
Let he who is without sin cast the first stoneeeeee
ReplyDeleteStella this was on my mind yesterday. I just kept wondering why it looks like people like to take out their frustrations on innocent people who have done nothing to them.
ReplyDeleteThe vile and spiteful words people spit out as comments shows how dark and terrible the commenters are. They are a thousand times worse than the people they condemn and try to bring down.
People with ugly souls calling beautiful souls ugly. I can go on and on.
Nigerian youth, I implore you all to reflect deep and change and you will definitely begin to see changes in your life and in this our nation, nigeria
Nothing like an innocent post to make people bring out dia AK47 & start firing away lolz.
ReplyDeleteBack to the post... Yeah I judge but not all the time & only if you give me reason to. I try as much as possible to give everyone the benefit of doubt until the person messes up.
I don't have the time & energy to second guess, wonder, ponder & judge every body when am not been paid to do that. Moreover if your life is not an open book & full of contradictions, I tend to give such a person an ocean wide space.
Hmmmm blog Lord you correct. Sisi Eko tnk u. I don't understand and dats y sometimes I don't bother to comment cos no one ever believes in good stories. Hmmmm world people. I wrote my story here sometime last year and I regret it. Life o
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