She is really worried....but GOD is faithful to complete it.
THE CYCLE
Dear Stella, may God bless you for your good works. You are really touching many lives. I have learnt a lot from your blog. I got married in January this year and we have been trying to conceive. My period has been irregular until last year December when it became regular (29 days cycle). In March, my period became irregular (26 days cycle) all of a sudden. I had my last period on the 29th March instead of 1st April, I cried and became expectant that April will be my month. My period was to start on 26th April but I didn’t see my period. I was excited that I have taken in.
I was shocked when I went to toilet this morning to urinate and I saw blood. I have been so down and DH has been encouraging me. Am believing God for a miracle as we go to hospital tomorrow. I don’t know whether it is my period or implantation has occurred?
ABY.
This whole cycle thing is so confusing!
Keep Believing in God, he has never disappointed those that put thier trust in him, you will soon testify, beliee that
ReplyDeleteHmmmm, diff ppl wit diff problm, i'm pregnant bt jst 2weeks gone, my wedding is meant 2 b nov, I hav so many pressing issues nw 2 attend 2, dunno wether 2 remove it or 2 keep it cos i'm nt ready 4 it now. I never dreamt of using pregnancy 4 wedding @ all
DeleteGo for infection tests, you and your hubby. And also he should do semen analysis as well.. So you guys can detect and work on any issues on time. All the best.
Deletepls remove the thoughts of conceiving and your period from your head. enjoy your marriage and everything else would fall into place.
DeleteTHE SWEET DEAL
Olisa walked out of the house, like a gentleman. He had on a gray suit tailored by brooks brothers, bespoke for him. A Hublot Classic Fusion Haute Joaillerie glittered on his wrist, and black handmade Tanono Crisci shoes, completed his ensemble. When he got outside the house, he put on a pair of Chopard’s sunglasses, to protect his eyes from the harsh glare of the sun. He walked to his car port, got into a silver Bentley and drove out of his villa.
Nadia sat on the floor, and tried not to breath. The room still smelled of Olisa’s signature fragrance, Clive Christian No1, and she didn’t need a reminder of him. She looked around her, but her eyes didn’t see the luxury. All she saw was a cage, a cage into which she had walked willingly and gladly. Blood dripped from her temple, and her stomach and back were sore from the beating she had just received.continue reading
I rilly think u shld take a chill pill...I got married feb n am also expecting but am not losin my cool...though am a bit apprehensive with all dis sober story of ttc but I trust dat I'll b pregnant b4 end of dis month...its well---MRS AAY
DeleteYoung lady pls jst take it easy, ur worries about u conceiving might add more pepper to d injury. U sed u got married in January abi? Abeg take a chill pill oo wen it will hapun it won't give u notice. Enjoy ur husby biko, make una still dey do honeymoon. Ehugs
ReplyDeleteRelax, eat well, take folic acid and pray. God will surprise you dear
ReplyDeletePoster,you got married in January and you have started complaining...
ReplyDeleteBiko chill down...
Your baby will come when due...what of other women that have been trying to conceive for many years now,am sure you would have been dead by now if you are in their shoes...
Your marriage is still young biko continue enjoying your bobo...
I tire o. Barely 4months of marriage and ure already worrying so much as 2 send a chronicle? Na wa.
DeleteNice advice Queen, she's putting unnecessary pressure on herself
DeleteCan you imagine?
DeleteGo and rest biko
Go to God in prayer.With God all things are possible.
ReplyDeleteBaby cool down!
ReplyDeleteGod will visit ur home.
Hey boo boo
DeleteMay God make you happy @last, you will carry your bundle of joy this year
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
She can't carry her bundle of joy this year cos I reject any premature baby curse. Any belle from this period, na next year pikin.
DeleteIt is well...
ReplyDeleteMay God fulfill your Desiree.
ReplyDeleteIt is well.
Nawa o,madam calm down before u give urself high BP.U just got married this year and u are already this tensed? Take it easy pls
ReplyDeleteLook at dis Johnny Bravo.
DeleteSo you think I'll just up and call you names? My dear, have you seen your shape? Up down? Be hyping dat you want to reduce it. Smh. Na dis blog everybody be beauty queen.
Hope n pray bc u might be pregnant. Congrats in advance, but if it isn't den relax n wait, u just got married. Enjoy ur marriage n don't border abt such tins now so dt u won't av HBP pls. It will come at d appointed time of God.
ReplyDeleteWoman u need to chill ! Put your mind at rest, u only married in January . worrying too much about being pregnant can cause emotional imbalance . don't have sex with the mind of " na this one go be belle". Enjoy sex with your husband and be patient. U are not the giver of children
ReplyDeleteWorrying won't help at all but will rather reduce your chances of conceiving . Be strong, take your mind off TTC for a while, pray, have fun with DH and when you ain't even paying attention it will just happen by God's grace. It is well.
ReplyDeleteSo Cynthia u know ttc? Olorun ooo this girl don open eye
DeleteWhich one is "have fun with Dh"? Can't you say fuck, or sex? Holy holy no go kill you for dis blog.
DeleteLike sey u no dey fuck. Wit your wide pussy
I think we are all old ENOUGH to use the language we deem fit to use
DeleteDear poster I know what u are going thru.sometimes I ve 25 days or 26 days cycle sef.my son will be 6 this year and I ve been trying to conceive since he was 2.in sha Allah this year I will.May GOD help all of us that are trying to conceive.amen
ReplyDeleteStart taking folic acid, the pharmacist will tell u how to take it to help regulate your cycle and help with getting pregnant too.
ReplyDeleteI was five weeks pregnant and lost it two days ago and it's not been easy cause bea is accusing me of been careless and why should I miscarriage at this age? He stop talking to me and have cried my eyes out and frustrated,its our first and I don't know what to do.
ReplyDeletesoo sorry dear. take hrt. its well. hugs
DeleteSorry sweetie, another dat will stay is coming.juxx pray and God wil definitely surprise u b4 dis year runs out. Ur blessed. Dnt worry ur head off,DH will come around soon.
DeleteDon't mind your husband he is just sad and reacting you have no control over pregnancy the Good one will stay just trust God
DeleteSo sorry love....come get a hug...it's well....
DeleteEven in medicine miscarriages at this early age is termed as a blessing because studies have shown that most abortuses at this age of gestation have some form of chromosomal defects. It's nature and God's way of telling you that the best is yours nothing less than that....
Relax dear...and give God thanks because that healthy child that won't give you problems is on its way....
It's not your fault it's just God's way of telling you He has your interest at heart and has the best in store for you...
Dry your tears and smile cos God is on the throne
You Bae is a very stupid insensitive man! How could he stop speaking with u instead of encouraging and consoling you! He's a douche bag! Nevertheless, don't worry dear,God will do it for you in his time! Relax
DeleteSo sorry dear. Were u stressed? Sex could be part of stress too. You will take in again dear and register for antenatal immediately you are confirmed pregnant. God be with you.
DeleteDear poster.i feel u.don worry the lord will put a smile on u soon.dont blame yourself for wat happen.very soon u will smile.
DeleteMen sha! This is the time he should be strong for you. Anyway, sweetie calm down, getting pregnant, carrying the baby to full term and having a healthy baby is by the grace of God. I guess he's only anxious. Stop brooding, that one isn't yours and your own would come soonest. Xoxo
DeleteHe's a big fool! Idiat!
DeleteSweety,pls don't allow your horseband(he doesn't deserve to be called "Bea") to make you feel worse than you already do,ignore him and pray to God,he will do it again.Sorry.
DeleteSome men sef....mtchewwww!
Your husband is a heartless full.. What does he mean by you where careless? Did u jump from a cliff and landed tummy first? Gv me ur address lemme come and slap sense into his head.. instead of consoling his young wife and reassuring her that they will have more children he's busy blaming you.. Chai he is a moron..
DeleteStop crying my dear and cheer up.. Your womb is covered with the blood of Jesus.. Your next conception will bring Joy to ur life in Jesus name.. Go and collect two hugs from TGW..
Its not ur fault at all, google is ur friend, check google to see reasons for miscarriage at am early stage
DeleteOh dear! Sorry for your loss! At the appointed time your baby will come and stay with you. I lost my baby at 34wks due to preeclampsia in January, while i was still mourning my baby 2wks later i was dropped from work. But i'm still standing strong even though at times i feel bad. For being alive at all, I give God praise because it is he who is alive that can bear a child.
DeleteSorry dear...
DeleteWhy is your man behaving this way?how old is he??...
God will comfort you. Just relax
DeleteAccusing u of being careless?? Some men are so heartless. This is the time u need him most..It is well girl...
DeleteHow is it your fault? May God comfort you and give you double...
DeleteSorry love, maybe he had really high hopes. I'm sure he'd come around okay.
DeleteOh wow poster, God will console you. It's not your fault that you lost the feotus, dont ever let anybody mk u guilty of it. God is the giver of life amd he knows what is best for you. Miscarriage can happen through diffrent ways, stress, wrong implantation, infection etc. chanel all your cries to God, he will hear you. As for bae he's hurting too, give him time he will come around. Dont hold this against him, baby dust to you
DeleteSorry about the miscarriage. God will bless you with another one that will stay. Reduce all worries.
DeleteOh dear... I feel soo bad for hearing this..please stop crying, everything will be fine!!
DeleteSorry dear. Miscarriages are nobody's fault. This your hubby get stone heart oo
DeletePoster enjoy your marriage and it will happen soon
DeleteNawa oo.....that ur DH sef! He should be ur rock now na. Sorry about ur loss. God will surprise you soonest. Worry not. Same goes to u poster. It's too early to stress. U need to take ur mind off it n take care of ur self so that the baby will meet a healthy body. It is well with u both.
DeletePoster stop getting yourself worked up unnecessarily...c'mon u just got married in January aand the fact that u haven't put to bed barely 3months after shouldn't be a thing of concern habaaa. y look for tinz wen there isn't none. Mind u getting urself unnecessarily worked up can hamper ur hormones causing irregularities.
ReplyDeleteU are not pregnant yet and get that thought of implantation off ur head jare,if u are so eager to know,go get a pregnancy strip,it wld still be positive if indeed u were ever pregnant.
Just relax and u and dh should go about ur sexual life like every other normal couple,in due time nature would tk it's course
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ReplyDeleteDAY 2 OF THE FAST: (YOU ARE INVITED TO JOIN; see the LADY IGO comments here:http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/04/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_29.html#more )
We are reading John chpt. 2
MEMORY VERSE: vs. 1: On the third day a wedding took place at Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, 2 and Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding.
Jesus cares for all about you: He wants to come to your wedding in your father's house and even provide for the entertainment. He loves to see your dad take your bride price and hand you over to a godly man who will love and cherish you and not break your heart. He wants you to keep your body (which is his temple: 1 Corinthians 6:19) pure and not convert it to "a market place" like you saw in this John chapter two vs. sixteen. It is only when your bride price is paid that you can undress for your godly husband and enjoy sex and have godly kids. Jesus wants to come to your child's naming ceremony . . . Jesus wants to witness this ceremony like he did in that family in Cana in Galilee. Above all, he wants you to remain saved and be holy.
PRAYERr; talk to the Lord yourself to "grant me the power to keep my body holy for you and for my future husband (/wife). Grant me the patience and help me to discipline my body to obey your word. THANKS FOR BLESSING ME AND NO MAN CAN CURSE ME " etc.
PROPHECY/KNOWLEDGE: A "VERY BEAUTIFUL LADY" fasting with us whose husband is a banker (failed ICAN once and about to write another one which he will likely pass); you are being tempted by a "doctor" (who is wicked and means no good for you). Your little daughter is pregnant (b/c of your lifestyle) and you are going to abort it with this very doctor (he gives you wicked money). Do you want to lose your daughter to hell? Your husband loves you more than you know. Jesus forgives you.
Kindly check "in house news" and "chronicles" everyday for update on the fast. BE FREE TO JOIN . . .
FROM LADY IGO WITH REGARDS.
Dearest Poster, don't be too anxious. Getting worried over won't change anything jare. Over to God what did He say about this issues, search .... sister search, believe and it will come to pass.
ReplyDeleteIt will end in praise
But it is too early #JustThinkingAloud
U need not worry dear.....
ReplyDeleteDear poster I use to have my period some times coming out on the 28days some times on the 25days as a scientist and as I've hard from doctor it doesn't mean that am not line otherwise that that is just my nature, pls as far is its not less than 25day or more than 30days u are still on track, NOTE THESE: stress and too much thinking will make u not to get pregnant when it ought to come, just relax, fell free, and be urself baby will come when it's time and try to know the way ur period fulls, it MUST not full on the days u think they will but, it's not a bad sign, and also congrats in advance if u have already conceived.
ReplyDeleteYou got married in January and crying already because you want to conceive? Why are you like this? Should I call you ungrateful or impatient? My friend you got no worries. People have real life issues ok. Nonsense and ingredients.
ReplyDeletesis chiokike is the only one you have to look up to
ReplyDelete#GODWIN
Dear Poster, my period was as irregular as yours, but it doesn't affect fertility. Take folic acid daily and rest well. Your baby will come soon. For now, just have fun with DH and remove all worries.
ReplyDeleteMost people don't have permanent menstrual cycle. My cycle varies from 26 to 30 days so I use 14 and 15 as my highly fertile period and it work for my two kids.
ReplyDeleteHaba dear. Relax and enjoy ur marriage. Its too early to worry about bearing children..
ReplyDeleteWorry and anxiety delays conception.
Eat healthy, relax and not stress,stay happy, have plenty fun sex not boring I want a baby sex and trust & God to bless u with a child @ his own time.
My dear,stop worrying,enjoy ur honeymoon,it will come wen u least expected! I wnt to say thank u to zizzy,Iphie dearie,Jenny,Fotogeniki and Joyce A for ur word of encouragement..u guys dnt know ow much it made me feel.God bless u all@Jenny,to the Glory of God am a prayer champion,and i know God is listening to every of d prayers,one day,I ll receive answers to dem.thanks to u all
ReplyDeleteThat ur husband is not worthy to be called "bae"..anon 12:16, imagine blaming u upon all d trauma of miscarriage..who does that? He has no humanity in him? How wicked of him! He stopped talking to u? When he should b a source of comfort n solace to u at dis time? How selfish of him...he accuses u when he shuld hold u n make it better? How stupid of him! May God not give us such uncaring n wicked men as husbands and u, wipe ur tears and be Hapi.
ReplyDeleteThat ur husband is not worthy to be called "bae"..anon 12:16, imagine blaming u upon all d trauma of miscarriage..who does that? He has no humanity in him? How wicked of him! He stopped talking to u? When he should b a source of comfort n solace to u at dis time? How selfish of him...he accuses u when he shuld hold u n make it better? How stupid of him! May God not give us such uncaring n wicked men as husbands and u, wipe ur tears and be Hapi.
ReplyDeleteTake it easy dear,you worry too much.
ReplyDeleteU will have your baby at God's own time.
Have some more sex and enjoy ur marriage.
ReplyDeleteConception cannot occur wen u are tensed or anxious...Relax joor.
U won't even notice it wen u eventually get preggy...
Is it me or wat pple will say?...Steady nacking for a year + enof flexing after wedding is the koko...Y do women bother their heads ova babies just few months after marriage?
Marriage is for Companionship, love, moral support, financial Security ,social acceptance (cos of the pressure society mounts on single ladies) and procreation.
Poster,pls relax eeh...collect prick, stay on top and ride to heaven. A baby will come u hear?
Poster, trust God that it is implantation. I am also trusting God for you. I am also pregnant even though I had 3 pregnancy tests myself one and at my GP and one in the hospital(blood test) but I knew something was not right because even though I was on the mini pill my period started being irregular and stopped all of a sudden. Yes I am a mum of one already and was planning to give it a while before trying again but the pill even though I was told was very effective failed!
ReplyDeleteGod is at work and he will be at work in your life too. Trust him and come back to give testimony. I am now 3 months pregnancy, this was confirmed via a scan 4 days ago as my GP had to send me in for a scan to confirm if it was true or not! I saw the baby with my koro koro eyes o.
By the way my husband will look me and say but they said you are pregnant? You look so well o! I have not had one single morning sickness since, infact I dey run up and down, work and look fresher and kind of slimmer. I really pray I have a baby boy this time. It is well poster, God bless.
Dt ur Bae is either he is clueless or just an illiterate, who told him dt miscarriage has anything to do wt age alone? Nawa oo, dts y it's good to marry a literate person. Miscarriage can happen for any reason, fibroid, rhesus etc. So he should take a chill pill. Don't worry dear it's well.
ReplyDeleteWerin dey happen? Its well oh. Sha relax.
ReplyDeleteOP you are stressing too much. You can conceive regardless of 26,28 or 29 days cycle. Stop worrying too much... take Folic acid and Evening primrose oil and enjoy your hubby.
ReplyDeleteDoctors over to u. Its well
ReplyDeleteThere's no feeling quite like the one you get when you get the truth: You're the captain of the ship called you. You're setting the course, the speed and you're out there on the bridge, steering."
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@ Poster,please don't be too anxious...eat healthy (cut out junk food,alcohol and fizzy drinks) ,do the baby dance with le hubs,relax, it will surely happen. Another tip is not to get out of bed immediately after baby dance. I wish you good luck!
ReplyDeleteMy dear anonymous 12:16.its well.cry no more,just relax ur mind,u will take in again soon i had a miscarriage this year January,mine was 10wks and in march I missed my period.today am pregnant.did scan three days ago, am 12wks gone already. So urs will happen again,just relax ur mind and start taking folic. Acid(400mcg)pls. Foreign one. God bless u n keep ur home.Also read a book(U shall not be Barren)to lighten ur spirit.
ReplyDeleteMadam postal abeg go for fibroid scan
ReplyDeleteAnon 12:16. Stop crying God will touch his heart! It is well! Be prayerful
ReplyDeleteSweetsie it's well.... Worry won't get you pregnant.
ReplyDeleteDifferent strokes for different folks.. and here I am my husband is threatening to divorce me cos i mistakenly got pregnant for a third child!!! He asked me to abort our baby and I refused and reported him to his family they spoke with him but he is not backing down... He says we can never be together again since i decided to keep the baby. I have already started packing my things. The painful thing is that I resigned my very good job in Nigeria to join him abroad and now I am being sent away like a dog.... God I commit myself and my kids to you. You are are help for the helpless. Help me!!!!
ReplyDeleteGOD will help you
DeleteMy dear, let go of worries and anxiety, it never does anyone good.. same thing happened to me when I got married towards the end of 2013..
ReplyDeleteI thought I would get pregnant immediately but God had other plans..
After 6 months of trying, I began to worry.. Inlaws started to ask questions and make side comments.. there was no family function we went that people did not talk.. you know you can't do anything but manage to smile.. that's what I always did.. Anytime my period came, I would cry bitterly.
We lost friends because some of them that got married the same time we did and had kids were already making jest of us.. Imagine!! I told myself that friendship is not by force.. I let go of anything and everything that would make me feel bad and put my ABSOLUTE TRUST in God.. HE never fails!!!
I started to read books by bishop david oyedepo and Mary Abioye.. it helped!! When and how I became pregnant, I didn't even know and I'm still growing!!!
My dear, everything is well.. just have faith..
Sometimes, you pass through some challenges to make you stronger in His word and know who really has your best interests at heart...
The same way He did it for me is the same way He will do it for you IJN... *Cheers
Seems ppl these days just want to get preggers after marriage. Pls enjoy your marriage and husband now. Your period is erratic, same as mine and I got pregnant without any problems. The Worrying can even prevent the pregnancy. Download an app to help you predict when ovulation occurs. Fertility Friend is great. You Can still see your doctor and pray, but stop worrying. Wishing you baby dust.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, have a pregnancy test done to be sure whether you are pregnant or not. Before I got to know that I was pregnant with my first child (I have 3 kids now) I experienced some bleeding similar to my regular menstrual flow but much lighter. And that made me not suspect pregnancy. Some women bleed while pregnant. ..for some it's implantation bleed, while for others it's just their body's own peculiarities. Have a test done that's the only way you can be sure. If you are then you can stop worrying. If you are not, you can continue prayerfully trying.
ReplyDeleteYour worries will even make it to be longer, ma'am chill. Focus on God and trust in Him. Too early to start this. This is 11 yrs and my sister has not taken in. God dey!
ReplyDeleteAnon 12:38 pls don't remove the pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteMy sister removed her own preg prior to her wedding because her husband told her to and till today (11 years) after, she's still looking for it.
This worked for me and my friend but you are worrying to early I pray ur hubby sperm is good . Buy fertiilaid for women,ovulation kit,preseed,robitussin guaifenesin or benylin guaifenesin (cough syrup). Start the fertilaid asap,direction for ovulation testing is on d kit,if you know wen u ovulate you can start taking d cough syrup 3day before ovulation 3 times a day but if u don't when you ovulate once you get a positive ovulation test start taking the cough syrup and make sure to have sex with hubby using the preseed after sex lay on you back for abt 15mins DO this for 3~4 consecutive days ,wish you luck.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 and 2 God will see u both tru
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