Its time for the Couch Session...Please sit down and enjoy the cold drink
You know it's easy to date anyone but when things get serious, people become picky....Yes,picky!
So my question is, would you marry someone with a disability? Does your answer change depending on severity and type? Physical, mental, sensory?
What if the disability was hereditary and you wanted kids, and this meant
there is a possibility of having children with a similar disability?would it take that step of Faith and marry this person?
Don't be this goody -two-shoes kind of person and say "oh yes, i love disabled people, they are human too"..please let your answer be honest... consider your own needs... your own level of toleration....
So does disability really matter when one finds love and wants to settle down?
What if you marry and your spouse becomes disabled?Would you stay or look for an excuse and leave?
I remember one time that a BV called me in tears,we spent a long time on the phone.She had a disability and thinks her boyfriend is only with her because of her money.he avoids public outings and is only comfortable when they are inside.
Okay let me paint another scenario...''they met online and fell DEEPLY in love,dated for about a year and then it was time to meet physically.he travelled back home and after she had given too many excuses on why they couldn't see,he demanded to see her and when he did,he got angry and walked away.
what did he see?Her two legs were like tooth picks and she could only move around with the help of crutches.He RAN....''
NB- This post isn't meant to ridicule disabled people as they are humans who deserve to love and be loved as well but society has placed them in a spot where we need to bring them out from...