Abeg after reading these two Chronicles,i suddenly understand how carrying another mans headache feels like...shuo!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
A REASON TO BREAK UP...
Please I need some advice from my fellow BVs!!!
My boyfriend of a few years proposed and we fixed end of this month for the first introduction, both families are aware cos we have been dating for quite sometime...Deep in my heart,i love him but am scared of marrying him but I just felt I was probably overreacting ( Reasons are based on some shitty stuff that has happened in the past,i just feel it will get worst if I dare marry him but am being beclouded by love and the fact that we have been together way too long to let go) what broke the Carmel back,was on Wednesday ...
He was ill,he went to the clinic and called me. I was kind of busy and told him to give me sometime that am coming, (bearing in mind that I work and also have my own business) by the time I got done and reached out to him,he was very angry and paranoid...That I don't take him seriously, but if it's my business I will take it serious.I apologized, begged and begged...Even shut down my business for the remaining part of the day and stayed with him but he didn't talk to me till the next day.
I woke up and went to him,i said I was sorry for the previous day and truly I was really sorry and started begging him again but he refused.I had to go to work,so I left....Much later he kept on sending me messages, saying I don't care and I kept on saying sorry and even lost concentration in everything I was doing that day. Later that same day,i went to church and dropped a message that am attending mid week and will check up when am back.When I got back from church there was no message from him so I called him he didn't pick up.I was worried and went to his house,his gate was locked so I called and called but he wasn't picking...The next thing,he came out and said I should go home, that I don't care and walked out on me.
It was late already and I kept calling him on phone but he didn't pick. Fortunately his neighbor came back and open the gate so I entered and knocked on his door only for me to discover he was with a woman...
I was mad cos this was someone that has made me felt bad the whole day and made me miserable, and here he was frolicking with another woman...I told him it's late and I can't go back,he boldly told me from his window that I will sleep outside if I don't leave...
My heart was shattered and my emotions bruised....I just sat outside and kept sending him messages that if I leave, this is it for us and he said no problem. I felt wounded,i almost made problem, knocked on his door and window and one of his neighbor said I should leave him and offered me to sleep at her own flat but I just refused and sat outside cos I didn't even have strength to go back to my car and drive. I was scared, I might hit someone or even ran into a pole...I couldn't believe that someone that has fixed our introduction will shame me like this!!!
We kept chatting on Whatzapp and he called me all manners of names and I replied same cos I was feeling so betrayed...After the shame and embarrassment, I just managed and left...Now his telling his family people that I embarrassed him...Please I have made up my mind to move on, but please was I wrong in what I did???i just don't get how our men reason these days,its epic but am still kind of down...
Stella, please your red or any ink is needed please
Confused BVN
*That is all?Because you didnt provide yourself at his beck and call?My dear all i have to say is that you should move on,he didnt shame you,he just saved you from going into a Marriage full of chronicles..PRAISE GOD!!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
CHRONICLES OF LE BOO
I reunited with a family friend via social media, thru the social media he professed love to me, didn't asked me to be his girlfriend but rather asked me to be his wife, he was in Nigeria and I was in US, when I came back to Nigeria we stayed together for couples of month, later told me he doesn't have any natural feelings for me...
This is the same guy that left his parents and fled with me when there was a misunderstanding between me and his parents. He said he doesn't have natural feelings for me but yet anytime we spend the night together we go intimate even though it doesn't last long and he will claim that he is sorry for putting me in the mood that his current situation his affecting his performance, but if I turn down his request of going intimate with him, he feels bad and asks me why?
He said he doesn't have natural feelings for me yet he gets upset when he sees me with another guy, he doesn't want to go when I visit him, he sends me on errands on all his private affairs, complains about my dress sense, my communication skills (not interacting with his friends when we are out), tries to change me to his own type of lifestyle (be active in church, socialize). He also get upset with me at the slightest opportunity I mess up.
Whenever we communicate 99.9% is argument and we end up getting angry at each other. The most painful part is I was warn by friends and his family never to entangle myself with him. Am also being told that he is a chronic womanizer, even though I know about some other girls he is dealing with, when ever I approach him about the matter he will deny it even when the evidence is clear enough. Whenever he wrongs me instead of saying sorry he tries to get intimate with me. Whenever I do him a favor he will appreciate and later try to go intimate with me. When he is angry he will ask if thats the way my mum treats my dad.
Behind my back he say am his wife to me but introduces me to those people as his friend. The last time we had a misunderstanding he said he loved me so much and those word came out of anger and not planned. So please I need advice on how to handle this. Also does he see me as a tool or does he have natural feelings for me and his just pretending.
Please do not put my name because his an active blog reader
What kind of messy relationship is this?You need to reset your brain to factory setting....WHAT IS THIS?
My dear,move on,this isnt a relationship and your mail shows you dont even have your own mind,how can a man use you to play chess like this?His cheating on you is not even the issue here,he doesnt treat you right,dont settle for less oh...If he ends up marrying you,I hope you know what you signed up for?NA WAH OH!...I have run out of words,infact i get headache!
you say he is active?I can imagine him siding his own on this blog anytime there is a cheating post.
HISSS!
Chronicles
ReplyDeleteThere are two MUMU sitting on @SDK chronicle
DeleteOne name Narrative one
The other named narrative two
Abegi
@Galore
They don't ever learn
DeleteWait, like people don't learn from previous Chronicles?? Abeg I developed headache while reading through, especially for poster two's narrative.😔😔😪
DeleteThey should be singing halleluyah
DeleteDiscover it NOW! Is Chocolate Good Or Bad For You?
Poster 2, is his name Segun Seriki? If so, reply make I give u full gist.
DeletePoster 2 please which part of US did you stay? Your writeup is worrisome due to usage of tenses.
DeleteAt galore.. Chop knuckle
Delete@GALORE. U just made my afternoon with ur comment. Lol
DeleteLet me finish up galore's poem.
DeleteFly away poster 1,
fly away poster 2.
Come back common sense.
Come back common sense.
Poster 1...
Deletemove on dear.. Just like Stella said see it as a deliverance not a disappointment...also don't fell embarrassed to tell the story to whoever is expecting a wedding..they would understand..
Poster 2..
Old chronicle.. Stella why you dey repeat nau...chronicles don finish for this blog ni
@galore kikikiki....
DeletePoster 1 u beta run for your life. U honestly don't want to b in my shoes where u become punching bag. If my husband wrongs me wahala if I wrong him heaven must fall. Worst part is I have no one to fight for me. My mum is always on his side n all she says is it's me dat brought him home dat i want to marry. I Don chop beating dis morning. So pls run n save us future chronicle dat touch
Delete5 minutes of my life wasted. Both of you should receive sense. Nonsense.
Delete@ Onyijay, you better run from that man before that man maims or kills you. Remember Ronke; may she rip.
DeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Shortage of men is causing all this.How can women of this day be so desperate not to notice when a man is only playing games with them.tufiakwa!!
DeleteStella D'Kork, you have said it all.
DeleteOmo the guy lucky say the babe show her real self. Which kind money poster 1 they find? Some one that ur to get married to is sick yet you went to open ur shop rather than come to the hospital to be with him? And Stella dey adise her to run? bark who suppose run the guy or the babe? Poster 1 abeg go marry money and leave mean alone.
Delete@Galore, u got me laughing out loud .
Delete@Onyinyechukwu aka ONYIJAH, try & talk 2 hubby on d wrestling matter, if him no soft peddle, next time he tries hitting you take something knack him head, and lock him up in d house.
DeleteTwo stewpid girls
DeleteBoth poster should take a walk.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of chronicle is this biko?
DeleteAnd is it only women that have to always send Chronicles? What about the men?
Abegggi.
Poster 1- *shouting* praaaaiiisseeee da Lord!! Praaaaiiisse da living Jesus!! Father you are good! There is no one like you. The almighty revealer, the unshakable shaker. The one who troubles the waters so that his own can be set free!!
Delete.......If I were you Na this kind testimony I go give on Sunday.
Una done hear?BOTH OF U RUN
DeletePoster 1-am so very happy for you,congratulations,cause God in heaven just saved you from unending sorrows,i bless God for you.
DeletePoster 2-its like you are using someone else's brain or else I can't seem to rap my head around your chronicle. Ok,see,if you go on with this excuse of a man/boy,you will not only end up as a statistics of a once married fellow(divorced) but also a DV victim,so choose,cause you happen to be a meal ticket to/for him.
Poster 1-good ridiance to bad rubbish,abeg dump the idiot With swag as he dey hot and plss anytime,anybody or any of his family want to settle this asunder God has put in this Relationshit,,feel free to contact me so I can borrow you my strong Ijebu Curses.*dont thank me*what are member of bvn for?
DeletePoster 2-too many drama,dump that idiot
Poster 2 don't be a Fool now how can you allow a guy to be playing checks with your heart
DeletePoster 1 I deserve better
Both posters have one thing in common....poor grammar!!!! Where did y'all study?? Oh and BTW,poster two is just STUPID!!!!
DeletePoster 1 you haven't even though introduction, so you should be glad. He has no respect for you and he is immature on top of it all.
ReplyDeleteA man like that will push you out of the house at night during an argument and wouldn't care if you get lynched by a wild animal.
Be happy you got saved at this early stage, walk away hard as it might and don't look back.
You have something good going for yourself do not settle for a man who will make you lose your self esteem.
Poster 2 well done and keep sharing your body like small chops. You think making yourself available to him would make him change his mind towards how he feels about you which is a sex buddy.
Matters of the vagina..kai
DeleteFriends of benefits. ...free pussy
DeleteGirls... Girls... Girls... If not for the sake of God, at least for d sake of ur peace of mind and the health of your pussy and already sagging breasts, please stay out of premarital sex. If you can just follow these mermaid rules, 50% of SDK's chronicles will reduce. Doh!!!
DeletePoster one pls just be strong and leave him. He is a controlling arsehole. U did the right thing. Pls don't go back even when he comes to be u( he will). Poster 2 pls just get lost
DeletePotable Viv it's friends with benefits not friends of benefit.
DeletePoster one: Living with a man that hasn't paid bride price? wrong step! He has had his fill of the vagina you offered. If the only thing you can give a man is vagina; prostitutes can do better? So why marry you?
ReplyDeleteWhat er u saying? Did poster told u she is leaving with the guy? Read well b4 u comment.
Delete@ anon 15:06
DeleteDid you even take time to read what she wrote?
Must every thing be about vagina when it comes to a man nd woman issue???
#Jeezz#
Did you understand the 1st poster's chronicle at all?
DeleteDid she tell u she was living with the guy? You're adding salt and maggi to spice it up Abi? Enjoy! Movie producer
DeleteAnon 15.23...'Did poster told you?' I'm dead officially!!!! And Anon 15.06...Did you understand what you read at all?
DeleteAnon 15.23...'Did poster told you?' I'm dead officially!!!! And Anon 15.06...Did you understand what you read at all?
DeleteAnonymous 15:23, proof read before you post next time.
DeletePoster 1, leave that man and run. DV is your portion if you go ahead with that wedding. It's no curse, it's just glaring.
Poster2, another DV in the making.
It's official. All these women are confused.
ReplyDeleteFantastically confused. Lol
DeleteI tell you!!
Deleteposter 1 and 2 have the same kind of man , indecisive BOYS.Poster 1:This guy knew u will catch him soon and needed to scare u into believing u r the one at fault,u know why?he has seen u finish, u were too available for him.A man who"s into u can never treat u this way and did i forget to mention le boo is a NAG .You should be happy and move on these days because man has talked engagement a woman becomes foolishly foolish and tolerates all sorts.
ReplyDeletePoster 2:Ogini ka i na ako? in ur mind u have told urself u have a relationship but u shud know that saying one thing and doing a differnt thing are not the same.Who knows he might have his girlfriend somewhere and u r here imagining things.Intimate,intimate when they say close ur legs una no go hear now ur mind is doing u d more u look d less u see.
Recharged voucher and chewing gums boyfriend
DeletePoster 2:
ReplyDeleteAll I see in your mail is "VAGINAL OFFERING". The brat has received the offering and has gone. He "has no natural feeling for you"; no feeling of love. All he felt was "LUST" and "sexual urge" and he had fulfilled his feeling. So who is whining? Who is dumped? Who is downcast? Why not close your legs? If it is too difficult for you to do; ask Jesus to help you girl.
Poster one the choice is yours
ReplyDeleteMEN WANT SEX, WOMEN WANT MARRIAGE AND KIDS. THE TWO DO NOT MIX.
ReplyDeleteSOLUTION: RESERVE SEX TILL MARRIAGE.
Gbam,I concur.
DeleteYour last comment got me.
DeleteExactly.
Anon 15:18: high 5 ojare, ur brain is dia....
DeleteTrue talk!
DeleteTor
DeletePoster one God just save you from a user, he was looking for a way to back outta d relationship n capitalised on that flimsy thing. Babe sorry!
ReplyDeleteYou are right @ blackberry , my dear poster please move on with your life am glad you work and have a business. God will definitely bring a decent and better man your way. My ex was like that, thank God I had the courage to leave him and let go. God has blessed me with a wonderful man that is far better than my expectations.
DeleteConcentrate on your work, God is not asleep, your special Rib will locate you. E-hugs
So Poster two, if this dude has errm "natural feelings" for you, you will actually date someone like that?
DeleteI ask because you guys never even dated,you know right? You were just sex buddies.
Does a man that complains about every single thing you do turn you on? There is a difference between constructive criticism aimed to improve one and this violent,condescending way of putting you down.
My prayers for you today is for God to direct a good man your way. Till then, love yourself.
Poster two,not much to type. You already borrowed yourself sense. Abi?
Poster one. You did the right thing, in short, you just dodged a bullet.
ReplyDeleteDon't go back to him if you love yourself.
Poster two. Leave the relationship and never look back. That guy will keep messing with your head.
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteLike seriously???
This is someone you've set an introduction date with and he allowed you sleep outside while he was in with another woman! Omg! It's not like you didn't go to him at all,you only got there late.. Wow! This is really serious! Thank God for you,you just got delivered!
Poster 2
I'm too disgusted to type!
Both of them sound like gwegs
DeletePoster one i have jst one thing to say jst leave,leave n neva look bck, him getting angry at u is one thing bt running to the arm of another lady is it biko, does it mean that he will alway find another lady to run to wenever u guys hv a misunderstanding. Think abt it n ask ursef if u cn deal?
ReplyDeleteposter two. Your affair wit him doesnt hv a name m to be able to go through this u need to give that relationship a name, r u friends or friends with benefit, r u jst sex mates or ur lovers, r u dating or not. This is wot u need to knw inorder to knw wot to do,as at now biko nne to me ur r definately single.
ENTERING VAGINA IS EASIER AND CHEAPER THESE DAYS THAN ENTERING A TAXI OR MOLUE. CHAI, ALL THESE GIRLS SHARING VAGINA, THERE IS GOD'S JUDGMENT 000
ReplyDeletePoster1: You did no wrong, pls carry on with ur life leaving that boyfriend of burden & baggage behind, the introduction he has done dont mean shit, just be glad his mask came off b4 u walked down the aisle with such an ingrate.
ReplyDeleteAfter taking my time to give u this advice, id be so pissed if u eventually go back to him. Any human without empathy can easily hurt u & sleep well knowing ure outside in the cold.
Poster2: You should know when ure just used for sexual healing.
Poster two, u sound like u r nearing menopause! Dude is obviously using u. He wanna get married for papers, a guy can fuck u without having feelings for u if u don't know. Ur story is as confusing as what I just typed.
ReplyDeletePoster1 & 2 what are you still waiting for?abeg take a walk frm both guys and neva look back...God has just saved you from a life time of chronicles smh
ReplyDeleteall i saw was stella praising God . will go back and read will the comment.
ReplyDeleteWho is dumped via whatsapp, Who is shattered, whose emotion is scattered, It is she whose vagina is butchered.
ReplyDeleteAnd the toyboy moves to a "fresher, more juicy vagina". All girls that offer vagina will not be married by the very men that receive such offerings. Point.
Who told u its fresher? Guys just thibk dey r smart.. anytime I meet a new guy I tell him hes my 2nd and he believes hook line and sinker. Bcos I have an innocent look and homely personality. Make we dey deceive ourselves dey go. Oloshis
DeletePoster 1.. U deserve better..
ReplyDeletePoster 2.. U deserve better..
Ladies pls try to know when to have headache for a man(if needed) and when not to.
Poster 1. Sorry but move on already.
Poster 2. The nigga is using u, dump him already. This isn't a relationship.
No long stories
ReplyDeleteBoth of you should keep it moving
DON'T LOOK BACK...
Y are chronicles always abt relationships? And men all the time, cant it b abt career goals, how to achieve or even how to cook sef? Who man epp biko?
ReplyDeleteIf they write a chronicle about these listed things above, will it sound interesting for u to read? Be sincere!!!!
DeleteThank you ooohh!!!
DeleteThank you lesbian!
DeletePoster 1, hmmm do not allow your name to be sorry at last, this man has saved you from mess, move on with your pretty life. Better man go come your way darling
ReplyDeletePoster 2. What kind of questions are u asking blog visitors, can't you see the handwriting on the wall? I only asked one simple question oo. If you get better eyes please used them to see now there's day.
POSTER 1
ReplyDeleteWhy should this man marry you? After he has scattered your vagina and your womb with abortions? Nay, he has moved on to a fresher stupid vagina. This is what happens when girl reduce themselves to vagina.
MUST IT BE ABOUT VAGINA???? Did she say she did abortion?
DeleteAH! I give up
Some people here ported from Sodom n Gormorrah!!!
AH!
Poster two you are dating yourself, why do ladies always allow dudes to rubbish them in the name of I want to marry you, I love you?
ReplyDeleteYou need serious slap to reset your block and dull brain. The signs are all over and you are still asking stupid questions.
Sit down there and be giving him free totoh, let him cabash you and finish all the sweetness before you will learn your lesson. Are you that fat and ugly that you cannot get great dudes to love you?
Is only a lazy, fat and ugly girl that will try this shit, go and sleep joor.
Poster 1,what exactly is ur reason for writing this ?
ReplyDeleteU fucked up and he dumped ur ass.
That should be it.
Go and look for a woman wrapper.dat can tolerate any rubbish from you in d name of nyama nyama love.
I pity the sort of idiot gals that have anything to do with you becos they are dealing with a retard. Where did poster 1 fuck up? Obviously you dont know what it means to be busy with work and business or even one sef not to talk of both at the same time.
DeleteGrow up already, your mentality is depressing
DeleteJames u too get sense, the girl
DeleteIs writing cos inside her she knows she messed up. James no mind world people o! Including Stella most people on this blog done see worst, but them still they inside. If poster 1 boy friend writes this same story on this blog people would still ask him to run from her, but because she is the one writing, they are all asking her to run. She was after money. How can you go open ur shop when u man is sick in the hospital? Like say buhari appoint the guy minister she for no wait make work close before she run go him house.
All I see is a man who has a 2 year old brain in James. It's either you are outrightly stupid or you have a head without a brain. James might be the boyfriend to poster 1
DeleteOf course you'd be down @poster one:
ReplyDeleteNARRATIVE 1:
WHO opens legs for sex?
Who get's pregnant?
Who bears the guilt of abortion (the man shares in the consequences though; see Proverbs 6:16) and cries every second/everyday?
Who is heartbroken and shattered and confused?
Who has insecurity and low self esteem?
Who is seen as the whore?
Who has suicidal thoughts (yes you murdered a human being or more see Gen. 9:6)?
Who sulks even a decade after the man has moved on, married and had kids?
Who is dumped?
On and on and on.
LADIES, WHY NOT CLOSE THIS HOLE CALLED VAGINA UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED? THE TEST THAT A MAN "LOVES YOU" IS THAT HE IS ABLE TO RESPECT YOUR BODY TILL HE PAYS YOUR BRIDE PRICE.
When the man finishes with you he moves on to the next "gullible victim"
Leave such men who are only interested in you body (no; just interested in your vagina and breasts) alone and face your life and make it right with God and do not kill kids etc.
Jesus says; "whoever comes to me I will not cast away". Matthew 7:6 "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.
Pearls to pigs. Preach!! 🙌🏽
DeletePowerful! my last boyfrnd quarrelled with me bcos I decided to stop sex nd bcome celibate. I eventually gave in nd continued jst to make him happy. D ingrate just broke up with me for no reason recently. Thank God sef, im tired of sex, it is not love at all. No more sex until my wedding night.
DeletePoster 1... seems you are desperate. Begging a man for what now. If you offend your brother or any family members, am sure you wont beg like this. DESPERADOS everywhere.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... The same desperation is written over you too.
Anyway i have said it before that i am tired of prick and totoh matters here for this blog. I need exciting news not chronicles at all
There is nothing wrong in begging your man if you offend him
DeleteAnd she did well by going extra mile to make things work after the misunderstanding
She is not a desperado from this narrative.
The guy is just the a** hole that he is...
Move on poster 1 and 2. Both of you are not in a healthy relationship at alllll.
ReplyDeleteI just love Poster one's (ex)boyfriend.Zero chillzz.No time for nonsense.
ReplyDeleteHi James, you are FOOL!
DeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteThank God and move on
Might not be easy,just know u just dodged a bullet. You will heal with time.
Yes o, Poster one it is well move on. Don't feel bad about it and don't accept that ingrate back when he comes begging and crying. God has a better package for you. Be brave and patient.
DeletePoster one:
ReplyDeleteThe brat has moved. He will be telling that new girl as foolish as you that "a lot of girls are throwing themselves at me, I don't know her bla bla bla".
If you kept your vagina closed, you will not be hurting now. You will be thanking God for a prospective marriage. Hope you have learnt your lesson; or will you?
Na wa ooo d second chronicle got me laughing sayin ure wife behind u and says u are a friend in ur present shoo dd man is even confused himself who does that biko my dear such guys are timme waster ooo
ReplyDeleteAnd d one one dear God loves u so much that he allowed d guy to show u his real face (lol). Just pick up urself and shine again
I think poster 2 is naive. She's confused!
ReplyDeleteShe doesn't know d difference btw love and infatuation
And her self-esteem has been bruised badly.
Sweetie, you need to love yourself
Be confident in yourself
You are a blessing to any man who finds a wife in you
You should see yourself as a special woman
Do not date a man that cheats
This one even cheats and rubs it in
He doesn't respect you, let alone love you.
Leave him, move on and put yourself out there with confidence
Your own man is out there
Give him the opportunity to find you...
Poster 1: You wil be fine........ do not allow a fool reverse psyche you. Gather yourself and move on like you wish. This guy is totally not worth a tear. Not only is he selfish, domineering, cheating, he is also wicked and heartless.
ReplyDeleteSo petty and remorseless.....he also had to leave you stranded in the night where anything could have happened to you. Looks to me like he never loved you, he probably wants the convenience of a wife that can allow him eat his cake and have it. Trust me, his going round to tell people how you embarassed him is probably to paint the victim and get people to convince you back into that dead relationship.....after which he will eventually break you, then go live the worthless philandeering life he wishes. Don't be that woman please!
Your independence threatens him and he knows your financial security and clear sense of priority which you have shown is an ultimate plan B for you.
Ignore this niccur and move on. Do not listen to anyone , allow no one convince you back to hell. You did nothing wrong babe. Cut this guy off......RIP him in your heart. Here, sending you the tighest hug and the noisiest kiss ever.........Congrats for liberating yourself from a miserable destiny killer. Thank God for saving another woman from a life of misery. Get ready, light has come, prince charming is close. Heal and grow......Cheers!
Poster 2: You really need a seer to tell you the obvious.......doll, the dude is USING YOU. Please stop wasting time, feelings and money on this guy. You are only good enough to sleep with and be his plaything. Look in the morror, aren't you better than that?
Girls who date better men or are in drama-free relationships, do they have 2 heads or 34 teeth? Why should you allow a relationship make you feel worthless and destroy your inner equilibium and peace? Why give such power to a mere mortal to mess you up? Has this guy your brain and placenta?
Please stop being an enabler of rubbish, giving a guy the go-ahead to mistreat girls. You have absolutely all the blame for what you are going through presently.......Have you no sense of self-worth. Have you learnt nothing coming on this blog......gosh!
We all came to this world alone.....yep, even twins.....someone came first. Nobody owns your life except God.....you will not die if you cut silly people out. Come on girl, get a grip on your vagina. Give no one license to treat you like trash. Cut him out.....you are precious and no one.....absolutely no one is indispensible. Except for charity, always put yourself FIRST! Be justly selfish, that's how to reduce drama and regrets.
Who go read all this?
DeleteI read all of them.
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
I did
DeleteLove u empress, go on girl
DeletePoster 2:
ReplyDeleteYes, he sees you as a TOOL; a tool for sex just to satisfy his lust for you.
Poster one and two- did you write your respective chronicles yourselves? I doubt you did because if you did, there would have been a proof reading time. Okay, you were in a hurry and couldn't proof read, please go back and read your own chronicles, reading what you have penned down would give you the answers you need. Trust me, you don't need Stella's red ink. Me that is an outsider, is reading and feeling your shame, pain and self deception of being in love. You are still asking questions. Anyway, our people say that it is when you wake up that your morning begins.
ReplyDeletePoster 1&2, Jesus didn't die on the cross for anyone to treat you like this....cos of love?? Pls pls pls. Better talk to ur legs n hearts n move on. Unnecessary drama
ReplyDeletePoster1: be strong dear. I thank God for you o and NO you have not done anything wrong!, walk out and never ever look back!! you will find sm1 better. God has just shut the enemy outta ur life! you will find love again soon. I wish I cud be ur friend o...I have been there and know how it feels.
ReplyDeleteposter2: you are just his sex doll. move on already and do not let him use your head, like doppleganger sed, u have turned ur body to small chops that ua now sharing upandan, iyam sorry for you. You better be careful
Poster 2....this guy is using you...Pls if you know you are too weak to deny him requests (i know there are some women who feel that way about a man) just avoid him completely....stop picking his calls...ignore him!!! He is a USER...he is with you because you are always there for him...you have to either find a way to keep telling him NO, or just avoid him altogether.
ReplyDeletelol d secnd chhronicle got me laughin says wife behind u and called u friend in ur present choo na wa ooo my dear that guy is on a cheap drugs and guys like thatare time waster and u deserve more than that.
ReplyDeletefirst chron it so obvious d guy doesnt love u and i called guys like that emotion blackmailer God loves u so much that he allowed u to see his real face so dear pick up d pices of ur life and shine on
Just Negodu!
ReplyDeleteBoth of you are confused.
ReplyDeleteMove on already.
Love will surely locate both of uuuu.
@james do u even have brain at all? if yes why do u always sound stupid? poster 1 go and give testimony in church for God has rescued you from one big mistake that could have cost you your happiness.
ReplyDeleteposter 2 how long have you been visiting this blog that you have refused to get sense? are you new here? how old are you? why let a man play you like ludo? are you ugly? are you fat? even if you are thats not a reason to let a man treat you that way.you desreve better dump his silly ass fast.
By the way Stella....... Your response to Ronalda yesterday was a total let down. Cerebral B.Vs like her aid the quality of your blog....trust me, the likes of james and the billie jean lover littered all over here wil make your blog no different from the rest. You owe her an apology. I totally love you but i do not ass-lick. You were wrong!
ReplyDeleteShame the devil......do not come at me....... i know that warri blood can be volcanic.
She don chop knuckle with RoRo.... You go like quarrel pass fight oh.
DeleteStella's blog is different from the rest. James comment makes it more fun. I love both of them. They are both unique in their own ways.
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
I read in house news very late. Pls queen of d blog, if it's true u have nwa amaka's hubby's pictures, Pls I take God beg u, dont post it as ur dp abeg. Don't bring the innocent man into this mess nwa amaka has created for herself. I want to believe she has learnt her lesson and will stop telling lies for whatever reason.
ReplyDeleteHmmm.. Poster 1, take a loooong walk and PLS don't look back, dude is a NAG and clearly doesn't deserve u at all. Let him GO. see all his flimsy excuses o gini??
ReplyDeletePoster 2.. Sis receive SENSE, Amen. Ogbeni has seen free food. Inukwa m intimate upandan. Odiegwu
These Chronicles are getting excruciating nowadays...
ReplyDeleteIts like saying,"I've been having running stomach but don't know whether to poo or pee,can someone advice me?"
You don't need to be an astronaut to know what to do.
It's simply obvious.
The both of you are rocking the same boat, leave them now.
ReplyDeletePoster one, I'm very happy you said you are moving on please do it with immediate effect. What a child gosh!! This kind of people will so kill yourself esteem when you marry them + destroy your life and render you useless. Stella has said it all so follow that advise and never give him any chance else, you love drama and want to continue sending in more chronicles.
ReplyDeleteWhat a useless son from a........ M.
Poster two, Just wake up from your stupidity. Bounce that fool out of your life.
Poster 1:
ReplyDeleteA man that locks u outside is heartless and he would continue to do it when u people marry..Pls flee from such relationship
Poster 2: Maybe he loves u but if he doesn't treat u right I think should walk away
James you are such a fool cus poster one's ex boyfriend describes your character in person. James Akinola olupona
ReplyDeleteI tire for James o and his gullible comments. Don't you have a sister you James?
DeletePoster 1,kindly forget about this guy and move on.He will come back and beg you,please move on.Forget about the disgrace,the man who will treat you right and support you will locate you soon.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,can you please love yourself and move on...
ReplyDeleteI hate this Le boo thing people use on this blog....sounds really annoying.
ReplyDeleteThis ones are Le Dont
DeletePoster one: thank God you saw this before getting married to him. Just move on, he wasn't your man.
ReplyDeletePoster two: you weren't in any relationship, he was just using you to run errands. MOVE ON!!!
#1- Move on to avoid another humiliation.
ReplyDelete#2- A guy is using you as sex toy. I know it will hurt you but please leave him alone. Travel to another city and focus on God. Stop being foolish.
Poster 1: keep walking, dont look back..just leave. Secondly never ever beg a man like that again..do u beg God like that? So y should u spend 2days begging like u ve nothing else to do. Maybe this Nigeria economy is not affecting u.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: I dont know what to say to u. Are u like 20 years cos u sounded really confused. Please dont allow any man make u feel less worthy. U re beautifully made by God and you re going to be treasured by the man God has made to be ur husband. So my dear..u see that nonsense u re doing with that dude, it has to stop now..like ASAP.
POSTER: PLEASE DON'T GO BACK TO HIM. IT's FOR YOUR OWN GOOD!.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2: YOU'RE BASICALLY IS SEX TOY. NO MAN THAT LOVES A WOMAN WOULD DENY HER IN PUBLIC. HE IS NOT TREATING U RIGHT, HE DENIES U IN PUBLIC, U BANGS U WHEN HE FEELS LIKE BECOS U ARE ALWAYS THERE TO PROVIDE YOUR PUSSY..HONEY, EVERYTHING IS WRONG ABOUT UR SITUATIONSHIP (REMEMBER IT IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP COS HE DOESN'T CLAIM U IN PUBLIC). U'RE IS SEX TOY AND TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE, HE ISN'T EVEN GOOD IN BED..HE IS LYING TO COVER UP AND U STILL BELIEVE HIM.. WOW U ARE SO DUMB. EVEN HIS FAMILY WARNED YOU TO STAY AWAY, WHAT MORE DO U WANT..?
KEEP OFF..COS THAT NIGGA DNT GIVE A HOOK ABOUT U.. OR MAYBE HE NEEDS U AS A TICKET TO TRAVEL TO THE STATES THAT'S WHY HE'S STILL KEEPING U AROUND. I BET HE DON'T GIVE U MONEY..RATHER U GIVE HIM??
Poster one,Walk and never look back.
ReplyDeletePoster two, you're overfed honey child. Get out of that mess.
Poster 1&2,take a walk, you deserve more than that,the one that deserve you will come.
ReplyDelete@anon 17:10 then get the fuck out of here.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Please move on, leave him alone,he will definitely come begging, dont be fooled ooooo.
ReplyDeleteposter 2: some Le boo are like, he is not into u at all, he just using u n wasting ur time.u better advice ursef before its too later,its hard sha bt u just have to put ursef together. mehn....... most girls are not just in an healthy relationships, we all just pretending. God help us.
both of you should just walk away
ReplyDeletePoster 1... move on and tell the idiot to fuck off.
ReplyDeleteIts the way we treat these men that makes them act like jerks.
Eeeeyahhh... you will be fine.
Poster 2 : Your too desperate.
ReplyDeleteWhy are there too many desperado on this blog.
I am tired of reading desperate stories over and over again.
How many times will somebody give the same advice....
Poster please read back your chronicle and ask yourself what exactly are you gaining from the relationship... dude is even a one-minute man... SMH.
May God give us all wisdom.
poster one, God has saved you from going into a regrettable marriage and you are here talking bullshit. Leave him my friend, what other confirmation do you need to know he is not the one.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 and 2 please move on and trust in God
ReplyDeletePoster 2. How old are you? You're a typical example of a fish brain.
ReplyDeleteWomen need to have balls of steel
ReplyDeleteAnd do the right thing
Don't settle for crumbs
Marriage is not a race
When women don't tolerate shot
Standards go higher and men sit up
Desperation has never and can never be a good reason to condemn yourself to LIFELONG BONDAGE
Society will not live with ya in the marriage
Only trust GOD to absolutely lead you aright
Women need to have balls of steel
ReplyDeleteAnd do the right thing
Don't settle for crumbs
Marriage is not a race
When women don't tolerate shot
Standards go higher and men sit up
Desperation has never and can never be a good reason to condemn yourself to LIFELONG BONDAGE
Society will not live with ya in the marriage
Only trust GOD to absolutely lead you aright
Please what is this with both of u and church activities. Our churches are congested with sinners. No wonder things aren't going right in this country. The first one went from church to sleep in a man's house? Com'on, you need Jesus. Not trying to be judgmental here but if you want to be for Jesus, just be for Him and stop all these nonsense. Truth is if you can't advise yourself, esp the 2nd one, all what pple write here would be a total waste of time. People like u end up going in marriage with that same person regardless of what advice you get. Some even make their friends enemies cos they choose to tell the truth. Just do what you want and carry the cross.
ReplyDeleteHmm My dear Poster 1 and Poster 2 the answers are lying right in front of you. the more i read chronicles the more i see the answers staring at them in the face.
ReplyDeleteMy dear you did not come to this world cos of man, there is a lot out there for you to achieve. Please ladies stop being desperate for marriage and you keep receiving bullshit....**off with James bond on a mission**
@EMPRESS CHO....I see you Sis!!!
ReplyDeletePoster 1, that was how the guy i was with since 2011 also left me early this year and i did him no wrong. i wanted to send in the story to the blog but i just got tired of the matter while typing and stopped. This was some one i could do any thing for, loved him and meant him no harm. that idiot anonymous will soon come here now and say i gave him vagina for your information i did not. Maybe that is even the thing i did wrong because he left me for another girl and RUBBED it in.kept using her photos as dp even on valentines day.I asked him about it, all he could come up with was that i did not love him, we dont go out,am i supposed to take myself out?? Rubbish excuses. I am glad i didnot sleep with him. It was the only victory i had over him in the matter. I was very hurt, i cried for weeks. That same idiot anonymous who says its only when you open your legs that you feel the hurt is just talking rubbish. you dont have to have had sex with the person to feel hurt when he abandons you. You feel that way when you truly loved the person and he just stonmped your heart and left . i lost weight and was very depressed . My friend told me that it is the first best thing that has happened to me this year, that i should cheer up. i intend to hold on to that hope because frankly he treated me badly .. how can you walk out on someone who is crying like that???.. he was inhuman.. with each passing day i see it more clearly
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