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Sunday, 31 July 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

WTH...Jesus Christ!





STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
MARRIED TO A SERIAL ABUSER WHO IS SHIELDED BY HIS MOTHER

Good day Madam Stella. I have being reading your blog for a long time now (of over 5 years), and I've read many chronicles, also read advises (Mostly good ones). And I must confess, those advise really go long way for the writer.So, here's my own wahala. I'm scattered, just flow anyhow I write it.

I am a woman in her very early 30s. I got married to a man I loved. we dated for 2 years. I'm from North Central part of naija while he is from the eastern part. But getting married to him is the greatest mistake of my life. while we were courting, DH was all over me, if I'm not around to cook, he won't eat, be it 12 midnight, he would come knocking at my door, that I want to kill him cos I visited him everyday. 


Everybody in our area then knew us together. they all looked forward to us (me and DH) getting married. DH insisted I got pregnant b4 wedding, I was so in love, so I agreed.


fast forward to after wedding day. The 1st trimester of my pregnancy was something else as in I was so sick, emaciated, no strength to do anything. DH started beating me on Tuesday morning (that is 3 days after wedding). before leaving for work, he'll beat me, when he comes home he'll beat me. To an extent I said I would abort the pregnancy so as to be strong to do the house chores. he refused abortion and as a novice, I didn't know what to take or where to go to have the abortion done.


 I had to tell his eldest sister, she was angry and said she was going to talk to him. I forgot blood and water are different. The whole case turned against me. MIL said I was not the 1st to be pregnant, if I was well trained, Her dear son won't lay hands on me. so I kept to myself. I kept bearing the series of beatings.


 I also told my siblings about what I was going through. I'm an orphan, so my elder brother stands as my parents. My family talked and advised him several times. At times , DH cries when they talked to him, everyone felt he was remorseful.when I gave birth to my burden of joy, since I'm an orphan, it's my MIL that should do omugwo for me, we went from hospital to her house. MIL is a BIG and RICH woman in Abuja. Therefore, she won't come to my house for omugwo, instead we went to her. On that very day, DH beat the hell out of me, his reason is I stained his mother's bed sheet with blood, asking whether I'm the first to give birth. 

Oh! 

I cried like my world should end at that moment. MIL supported him. they both said if he (DH) kills me, nothing would happen. DH beat me everyday of my 2 weeks stay in MIL's house, and MIL was fully in support of her son. this is the same woman that goes to Tv and Radio stations preaching against violence against women. the more I watched her do that, the more I hate her.These series of beatings went on, even when I took in the 2nd time, he felt no pity for me, he continued, even when the pregnancy was big, he used kitchen stool to hit my stomach. i just left myself to die. maybe that was why I ended up in cs. 


Aside what he does to me, His family is another bigger problem for me. they call me witch for reasons best known to them.
I now have 3 kids for DH. Don't crucify me for still staying with him. I have nowhere to go as a orphan, if at all I leave him, I work, MIL is a very bad woman, she will come to my office and embarrass me and collect my children from me. with the kind of government we are in, once a person has connection, he wins no matter the situation. I love my kids so much, I've gotten used to my kids and I cant stay without them. I've even reported him to human right commission, but when they heard who MIL is, they asked me to just keep praying.

I so hate DH, he only pays house rent, since his sister sent me foodstuffs list totalled N1,920, he now gives me only N1,500 monthly for feeding, pays only 1 child's school fees. I shoulder the remaining responsibilities.



Dear Ma and fellow bvn, I need advise, insult me where need be; I'm confused, I want to run away, but how to go about it is one challenge, secondly, how do I leave with my children? Fear of my almighty MIL has filled me.



*WHAAAAAAAAT!!!!!

You use the word ''Beat'' loosely and frequently in your narrative...was it so bad?
If your MIL is preaching against violence and letting her child beat you then you need to let me help you call her out... ah ah!

182 comments:

Anonymous said...

CALL HER OUT!
DAMN ALL CONSEQUENCES!
U TALK U DIE, U NO TALK U DIE, TALK!!!!!!!!!

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Prayer oh!! Prayer!!
BVS let's organized prayer and fasting for BVs with domestic abuse issues. The same way God answered TTC he will answer all of you. Jesus!! Ewoooo. Chei!! You need to pray oh madam. You MIL is a stumbling block to your happiness. I can understand her person. I'm sorry but in this case, as long as she's alive and well you won't have peace. Hian! See bondage

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Prayer oh!! Prayer!!
BVS let's organized prayer and fasting for BVs with domestic abuse issues. The same way God answered TTC he will answer all of you. Jesus!! Ewoooo. Chei!! You need to pray oh madam. You MIL is a stumbling block to your happiness. I can understand her person. I'm sorry but in this case, as long as she's alive and well you won't have peace. Hian! See bondage.
violent prayers and dry fast. God is just judge. He will judge it for you. He has to judge this one oh.

DoppelgÀnger said...

You can't leave him but you want us to tell you what to do?
I don't think a family can be that powerful enough to stop you from lraving since as that Is the only option you have.
Should we tell you to fast and pray till he stops beating you?
I'd advice you to leave alone, you can always come back for your kids or they'd look for you.
Children always look for their parents no matter the lies you feed them with about a parent.
You need to first be alive though for them to find you and with all you've explained the longer you stay, the less you chances of getting out alive.
If you're scared of them coming to harass you at work. Please dust your CV and start looking for work in another state. Don't you have friends? Go and stay with one of them who can accommodate you till you can find yourself again.
Leave and see him start taking responsibility for all the kids. It's because you're still with him and he knows you won't stay and watch your kids not go to school.
So you use 1500 monthly to cook for him and not once have you tried poisoning him? You're too kind for your own good.
And women learn to fight o. Pick up something and stop crawling into a ball when a man hits you. If you scar him once or twice he'd think twice before raising his hands.

cakes by Bella's, Abuja. 58DA8ADF, 07080305132, instagram @cakes_by_bellas said...

Hmmm,is it till they kill you? Better run away to a far state. Hope you won't go back to him after all the advise you'll receive here.

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

Abeg abeg abeg this story is too one sided. Your dh just started beating you 3 days after your wedding. If you are really serious, you will drop real names of your mil but you didn't even drop any clue! Go sort yourself out pls!

STARRY LARRY said...

I wonder o, the first thing that came to my mind was, next time he beat you, snap the pix and let's call out your hubby and MIL here, but it must be with concrete evidence.

Also, you already said you can't divorce him as you're an orphan, so what should we advice you on now? Don't you have relatives? What's your brother's advice on this?




*Larry was here*

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

You are a fool!,..and I don't pity you!...
How can you stay and give birth to another two children after the first one?...
Mumu woman!...you are an orphan my ass!..
I know an orphan like you that left her marriage...worst is she is not even working yet she borrowed her self some brain and left!...

Leave the kids for him and leave!!!...
Your life is at stake here...Ewu nmee be there asking us stupid question untill you die!.,.
You can even watch that nonsense war room join!...

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

He has been beating you since 3 days after your wedding and through out your first pregnancy but you some how had 2 more kids and you still siddon for his house. I'm tired of reading all these fake ass stories mehn

jane okudo said...

Exactly ur MIL is a mean human being!!!I second the call out biko... Imagine hitting u a stool on ur stomach!!God wat more will I hear again on this earth!!the process of child bearing is stressful nd painful, then Somone will cm ND lay hands on me, just go ND write ur will!! Rubbish...my brothers will so beat the hell out of you..

Sharon john said...

Yes I agreed to stella advise ,since your mother in-law is so well connected ,disgracing her publicly will be the next thing but just be ready for the outcome ,I don't know much,I will have to wait and see what others have to say about it.

Jennifer Lawrence said...

Mumu stay until u die ewu.....dis chronicles is jst so annoying rubbish

Anonymous said...

Why do people marry wrongly? Seek God's face before entering marriage

Moncoeur behbeh said...

You never ready.

Krix said...

If u are sure of this then your solution is here, let's know who she is, have it in mind that this present nigeria can't even shield Aisha buhari if she overstep her boundary. Rich woman ko.

Last to comment Na devil pikin.

Krix via iPhone 6s Gold!

Ada Nwanbueze said...

I don't even know what to say to you. like seriously? So after the first pregnancy and beating you still went ahead to bear more kids for you "DH" Smh. Chia woman borrow sense even if you don't have and run for your life. Wait oh y do u want to die there? Is there something you are not telling us? Cos form your narratives your "DH" is not even responsible for your kids upkeep, you sound like you are scared of your mil.

chioma ihieri said...

Seconded by I, she needs a call out asap

plenty money said...

A useless woman. cus of greed you have refused to move out. continue. we will soon read about your obituary announcement here.

Anonymous said...

The problem here is the same mistake ladies make in the name of love; why get pregnant before your bride price being paid. You could see that the foundation got destroyed there and of course no righteousness and nothing . . .the respect vanished!

What do you do? Only repentance and turning toward God can be of help at this time. Use love to meet hate and in the midst of it all, be persevering.

Ibukunoluwa said...

Poster leave your kids and run for ur life!
I repeat run!
If u die,ur kids will survive without u
Run
Run
Run
Gather money and move to another state
I've been in a violent relationship befr for four years
I thought he always get mad cos I didn't allow him have sex with me (was a virgin then)
When I understood how bad it is to hit ur woman,I hated myself for allowing it for that long and I fled
My dear I fled
I will accept any shit from my man so far u don't lay ur hands on me!
I detest violent man
Pls run
Jenny Ekwe pls where is my coconut riceđŸ˜©

ExoticEyez MiMi said...

Simple, lets call her out but with evidence of pictures if possible videos too. Justice is not for the poor only. Human rights commision I raise nyash for una sha.

PLATINUM said...

Poster i dnt even pity u bcos u dont pity ursef one bit? Wat do u think ur life is worth, n u say u hv been on this blog for five yrs yet u hvnt even learnt anything.
I kept on hearing that u r an orphan again n again asif thats all it takes to allow someone treat u like filt, u dont hv anyone, dont u hv God? Do u think if that man kills u one day those children won't still blame u for staying and allowing this?
You dont even need an advise bcos u dnt value ur life, go to a court and seek for divorce, if ur scared of ur mil,then go to another state.
Na wah 4 u sha.

Weed Chic said...

Who is this mother in law

Anonymous said...

The issue here is that TRUST VANISHED after sex before marriage. Learn from this lady who was beaten like you severally. Here is her story:
A lady was enduring beatings from her husband. She began to hate her husband of barely half a year. One day after she was told the truth; that her prayers (which she claimed to be praying for the repair of her marriage) was not going beyond her lips. . . for the scriptures says forgive us our sins as we forgive those you sinned against us. She resolved to persevere in love in the midst of hatred. The next time her husband beat her was the last time. Unlike formerly, she did not utter a word. She did not call anybody to report. She went into the room and lay down quietly on the bed. The man came in and lay besides her; no word. In the morning, she prepared his meals and helped him iron his clothes for work. . . after which she headed to the church and the floodgates of her tears were opened before the altar. The man came back before dismissal and was obviously troubled. She smiled (she have received strength; yes love to overcome her hater) and put his meals in place . . . but alas, the man could not eat anymore. Ma . . .(her name) tell me what happened . . ."nothing" was all the lady told him. The situation continued for two weeks; the man was confused . . . he couldn't predict his wife anymore. It was his own turn to cry and he wept like a baby . . . the lady rested him in her bosom and allowed him to cry, after which she told him; "this is what happened; what I do each time you beat me and go to work". The man admitted that he had endured the greatest torture of his life those two weeks . . .

"BUT IF YOUR ENEMY IS HUNGRY, FEED HIM, AND IF HE IS THIRSTY, GIVE HIM A DRINK; FOR IN SO DOING YOU WILL HEAP BURNING COALS ON HIS HEAD." Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. (Romans twelve vs twenty)

Anonymous said...

Woman I hope u know u can't fool us, u married for money
As u lay ur bed u lie on it

Orphan my foot

Atheist. said...

How some ppl sleep at night & wake up in a bondage surprises me, in the name of being in a marriage, hmm.. its hard to stay in such toxic home, & u cnt also leave with ur kids... you need to start gathering concrete evidence against them, so u can eventually win custody... invest on a hidden camera & takes pics of bruises on u as u report to social services, start building a strong case, goodluck

#LadyMargaery: I don't believe he was interested in the company of women.
JofferyBaratheon: What makes you say this?
Lady margaery: Whenever i wanted to make a child with him, he had so many excuses, so many late-night war councils. He never wanted to try.
Except one evening, after he'd had far too much wine to drink, he suggested something that sounded very painful & couldn't possibly result in children.

kelvin happiness said...

it's so pathetic to get married to sum1 d devil sent to kill u...its like inviting d wolves to dinner but my sis I hv nottin to say but I wud try and burn incense on ur behalf,,, I heard it works in aladura churches # mind u I'm RCCG.

Miss Cute said...

What are you waiting for? Write her name, her position in the society, bring evidence of the beatings and if possible have a record of her in support of the beatings or even a voice note of her insulting you n all d names calling. Don't use because you are an orphan and endure this misery even with all the wealth. If you die, and meet your parents in the after world, am sure they will be disappointed. They didn't give birth to you to become a punching bag. Start keeping evidence. When you have had enough, Stella will help you out to reach the right authorities. I don't think you understand the power of Social Media. Wise up gal and challenge God.

Lady T said...

Dear poster, what changed him? If you were good together before marriage? Pray and hold yourself together while you plan to leave with your children. If you leave without your children, you won't you will loose them.
Plan and relocate out of the country that's one option. Another option is to fast and pray. Tell God you've had it, let him intervene in your case.
what about your brothers can't they do something for you?
@sdk, if you call her MIL out won't that be another problem for her.

kelvin happiness said...

but if I may say somtin madam why not go to any television station in ur state and mke ur claim...dis way d public will no,which will render ur MIL & DH powerless infact na dem go dey beg u say e nu go happen again..even those so called commission u mentioned wil gt behind u wit bride frm MLS.

Jade said...

I feel so sad for you poster,you sound like a very timid person naturally, and you sold your self short from the very beginning. Its going to take some serious/healthy dose of will power to break you from this mental prison you have found yourself.
Meanwhile when eveu you are ready to call out your MIL ,just let us know.If 100 persons can use thei IG/Twitter handles ,tag all the tagables,i am sure something positive will come out of it.

Adaorah said...

My dear brace up. Send her name. You'll be surprised at the number of Nigerians that will help you. Even if it's through cursing her or through badmouthing her.

yasmeen s said...

ha.. poster find ur way out oo.. leave the kids with him n establish ur life well then if u r sure u r strong n financially stable enough then I advice u go for ur kids else dem go kee u n still b the ones to raise d kids so y not let them have d kids just till u r fully prepared? make hay oo.. no time to dull leave that mofo n him mama asap.. or u cud just give stella d mil name to publish n call out that might help with her n hubby's attitude towards u. all d best but make a move asap

Blackberry said...

Is your husband jobless? Why would he just be beating you everyday? What is wrong with him n you? I can't say anything cos it looks like he normally wakes up from sleep, comes to u n start punching u for nothing, get outa dat house if it's horrific as u painted it, u r working so move.

Chidinma Grace said...

Pls send d MIL fucking pics n evidence so dt we can rubbish her here. What nonsense! Stella am so pissed right now.

Empress CHO said...

Okay, i think you simply seek a pity party here as a form of therapy for your horrific situation. Sorry, i would not indulge you. True, stella has given you the total way out....public call out, an opportunity to leverage her reputation for your freedom. I hope you are brave enough to take it.

Please, stop rationalizing the reasons you can't leave, coz they are all rubbish compared to the bigger problem. Your life is at stake, i would take a wild guess now and tell you what the game plan is. Run you down till you lose your mind or maybe be killed....And conveniently bring in an Igbo lady quickly so your kids do not grow without a "mother."

Stop holding on to the memories of the past... Dude never loved you. All that coming around was terribly possessive and controlling of him but you thought it was romantic. Get your head in place, there is absolutely nothing to lose leaving. Do not join the statistics of women who have died for nothing. Society will term you a cowardly orphan who should have been strong to leave and live at least knowing her parents are dead, nobody would care about who remains in your Father's house.

Any man can give a ring, wedding, house, kitchen, last name, babies....there is nothing spectacular about that just incase someone is panting about all these. Selfishness is key in marital choice. Be convinced of the extra before you say i do. Frankly, i'm not a keen fan of inter-tribal marriages.
It's difficult!

Open up to your siblings about your predicament, even if it means squatting somewhere. Gather your evidences and keep. Prepare your mind to leave that sham of a marriage. I know many NGOs in Nigeria are useless anyway, but i believe there are active ones that can help. Get their contact. I pray they reach out to you. All that beating and abuse you taking is insane. But If you are not taking up stella's offer or you go ahead with the advise that urges you to endure, be more submissive and fast and pray...well, try not to get pregnant. Learn how to dodge the blows especially to the head, increase your hustle, Fall on the ground at the sight of your hubby, stay out of the MIL way till you finally cave.
God help you madam to make the right decision.

Anonymous said...

What the actual fuck ? Leave that marriage ASAP! Run for your life...what kind of brother do you have? How can you have 3 kids for such a man...after the 1st one you should have closed your pussy but anyways I no go cuss you but seriously you need to give your MIL details to any authority that you think can help you. Mehn we women dey hear am Oo nawa I feel your pains ma'am

Anonymous said...

Hmmm!
I really don't understand you. You said you love your children dearly and wouldn't want to be separated from them, right? I guess when u re been beaten to death you and your Kids will be re united.
Be wise....

Jennah said...

This is serious.

Sine said...

The longer you stay, the more difficult it becomes to leave.
When next he beats you, take pictures. Delete the pictures after sending the pictures to a new email account. Make sure to delete all traces of the new email account.

Do you guys travel out of the country on vacation? If yes, when next you go, visit the the nearest women abuse center (take the pictures with you), you might be granted an asylum.

If not, you have to find the strength to leave. Leave the state or the country sef. You are already paying most of the bills, so money should not be the issue delaying you.

Then again, I doubt you will take any advice on this blog about leaving.

Anonymous said...

Get a back bone. Give your MILs name but before that record conversations, take pictures and then release it. Stop acting like a child ma. You have children to protect. This man will kill you. STOP GETTING PREGNANT FOR HIM. These men are used to controlling women and to him you are just that...property.

Anonymous said...

Nollywood movie

popeyes said...

Please post her name in the comments let's take her to shreds on twitter.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Waoh,why not call them out so that shame will make them stop

Anonymous said...

Hello Stella u have been reading your site as a guest but this woman story has driven me to comment for the first time. Please let's try and help her. Call the woman out please. This is very devastating.

Flakkie Chris said...

Una know wetin DH mean at all? A man that treats you like this na in you still dey call DH? My friend go and rent an apartment in a state they will never think to look for you in, and move with your children...... on your way to the apartment, send him and his witch mama a message with your line and throw the Sim card away.
Join a good church and become active........ See as I dey carry the matter for head. Whatever you do, just get out of that place.

LOVE BEAUTY said...

Hmmm I will read comnents

North Dakota Siobhan said...

This is unbelievable..
I don't want to believe a woman in her 30s can be this dumb.
Nahhhh!!
Say what?

Vickie Finest said...

Madam sorry about what you've been and is still through. Please next time the beast lays his hands on you please take pictures, when your mother in law is talking in support of her son beating you please record it and forward it to auntie Stella. When they're called out no one will take your kids away from you because the whole nigeria will be watching...please do it for the sake of your kids before they kill you.

First time commentator said...

Since you are in Abuja please go to Brekete family radio and I'm sure Ahmed Isah would intervene. Your story doesn't necessarily have to be aired on radio. He has more influence than National Human Rights Commission and all those fake agencies.

Vickie Finest said...

Madam sorry about what you've been and is still through. Please next time the beast lays his hands on you please take pictures, when your mother in law is talking in support of her son beating you please record it and forward it to auntie Stella. When they're called out no one will take your kids away from you because the whole nigeria will be watching...please do it for the sake of your kids before they kill you.

em jay said...

This one pass me, but no man born of a woman can beat me like that, aswear, them neva born the man, I remember one chronicle I read sometime ago that is similar to this, where the woman finally fight bad, she beat the DH mercilessly and later travel outta the country with her kids through the help of her younger sister. Woman I nor say make you go fight ohh, especially when the strength is not there.

Flakkie Chris said...

Una know wetin DH mean at all? A man that treats you like this na in you still dey call DH? My friend go and rent an apartment in a state they will never think to look for you in, and move with your children...... on your way to the apartment, send him and his witch mama a message with your line and throw the Sim card away.
Join a good church and become active........ See as I dey carry the matter for head. Whatever you do, just get out of that place.

Anonymous said...

I'm trying to picture the scenario of the beatings- both what leads to it and how often it happens and I can't make any sense of it except to think that that man is a beast, WT*?
My goodness, and you seem to have your hands tied abit too... can you not run away to the East with your kids? You actually need some support- please anyone in one of these Women Emancipation groups should help this lady I beg. I don't even know what to say.....
I'm so sorry you have to go through this madam, I'm just shocked at how he changed immediately after the wedding and started with the beatings, my gosh.....

Anonymous said...

Stories like these just weaken me. How does love turn to violence?!

Women, pls be empowered. Be independent, financially and emotionally regardless of any circumstances.

Anonymous said...

If u have a job and all. Quietly work out your application to be a permanent resident in Canada with your kids. Do not mention that you are married.

queen hadassah said...

Madam since the beating u receive from your husband is a daily experience, why not buy a hidden camera and place in 2 parts of d house where he normally beats u, so u can record him. Make sure u record him beating u like on 4 or 5 different days. Then take the video to human rights commission and any NGO against domestic violence. Your case requires a lot of wisdom. If possible record ur MIL when she's supporting her evil son, an audio record will do.

Ibukunoluwa said...

Seconded

queen hadassah said...

Madam since the beating u receive from your husband is a daily experience, why not buy a hidden camera and place in 2 parts of d house where he normally beats u, so u can record him. Make sure u record him beating u like on 4 or 5 different days. Then take the video to human rights commission and any NGO against domestic violence. Your case requires a lot of wisdom. If possible record ur MIL when she's supporting her evil son, an audio record will do.

Anonymous said...

Firstly that man never loved you,no man who loves you will ask for pregnancy before marriage,you are just his baby making machine sadly that is what most wives are,if you cannot expose this woman through the media then save enough money and leave to another state and start life afresh,Remove you kids from private school to public school so you pay less you can enrol them in private lessons after school, I know a woman who was in your shoes,she wasn't working and she had 3kids,She raised money,and got a U.S. visa and ran to the U.S. but she never told any family member which country she was in. MANY GIRLS MARRIED TO RICH MEN ARE STILL SUFFERING,ONE POLITICIAN IN LAGOS IS TREATING HIS WIFE WORSE,INFACT SHE PAYS ALL THE SCHOOL FEES.

Jemima John said...

When the beat don bellyful you, u go waka nobody go tell you that time. It's either you go or you die your pick. Remember when you die life goes on trust me your kids would be abandoned.

Anonymous said...

so he beat u when u cam hom frm hospital after putting to birth n u stil open yansh for d idiot to born two more?

Anonymous said...

so he beat u when u cam hom frm hospital after putting to birth n u stil open yansh for d idiot to born two more?

bumble bee said...

Stella what struck me was the part where she said blood and water are different..Stella I didn't believe this till it happened to me.... trust me ladies ur MIL isn't your mother and SIL and BIL aren't your sisters or brothers... cos when push turns to shove trust me whether their brother is right or wrong they would take their brother's side... be very wise

jane o said...

Rent with wat money???? Dnt u read

Dominic Okeke said...

Lol......sorry to say o but this sob story is a joke and please Stella,no call anybody out. I noticed a few inconsistences. First and foremost,your "DH" was all over you and three days later you turned a punching bag? It never happened before and you never saw signs? And we should believe you? Well I don't.
Secondly,he beats you under no provocation? Are you that mole in that "hit the mole game"? Not like I'm supporting domestic violence but I also wonder what you want to accomplish labelling your husband and mother-in-law as monsters.
Thirdly,it seemed like you saying your MIL is a "big woman" in Abuja you say it with repulsion. I guess when you were marrying the guy it was a plus for you?! Sweetheart,you probably saw signs at the initial period of your courtship but you saw the incredible comfort of the "big woman's" money and stayed or any other reason you might have seen as an excuse to stay. So if I might finally add,kindly think of ways to change your ways and don't come out here and gave us waste time(just like I did)typing stuff that you probably don't even need.
P.S:- my two cents.......Peace.

Chinyelugo Esther said...

Please this lady needs our help. Her Mil is very influential. The only way is to take the kids to another Location and start all over

Spirit said...

You are a weak and lazy woman.
DH beat you 3 days after wedding, you still stayed to have 2 more kids for him ontop the one wey you carry.
You are very silly and lazy. It is now you want to leave DH and you are looking for help.
You need to help yourself before anyone can help you.
Receive sense please. they have been beating you since so the reality is that you are now used to the beating.
You better start planning your exit because you are already teaching your kids how to be useless like their useless father.
Very annoying chronicle. A story of when women pretend to be victims due to there desperation to remain MRS.

James said...

Madam, I am not sure you are a good woman yourself.
I did not think anyone forced your horseband to marry you that he will always beat you up.
I sincerely think you are economical with the truth

Samantha Tuoyo said...

Human Rights Commission is a farce,she should not try it. NGOs are only out to make money, they don't care. She should call their bluff and leave! Damn the consequences. Please poster, that you are an orphan does not make you defenceless and weak, stop giving that family power over you...you are over 30 with 3 kids so u can't keep playing that orphan/victim card. I know it would be difficult but grow balls and match them fire for fire, shock and awe.

DoppelgÀnger said...

*curling

James said...

He started beating u just 3 days after your wedding. And u still stayed behind and had 3 children.

Why didn't you leave immediately after he started beating u for nothing?
Are you a tree? Are you disabled?
I guess u are among those Nigerian women that want to stay married at all costs.

Anonymous said...

Madam, if you are on Facebook ask any friend of yours to add you to a group called Female In Nigeria (FIN). You can start from there. If your MIL thinks she's influential, she will see more influential people that will trample her life to the ground and lay her soul to the dust.

Adetoro Abisoye said...

He beats you always,yet you had three kids for him. Meaning,after the beating you still allow sex. Madam you could have protected yourself instead of bearing children for him. Now you could have just been wondering how to take care of one child instead of three

Anonymous said...

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew! All I want to know is who is your mil?! Namsense! Pls gather sense and run away with your kids. You can do it!

Anonymous said...

Chikito! Kai, you know I rooovee you don't cha?

Miss Ferragamo said...

This might be spiritual. Are you sure your MIL isn't diabolic? Could it be that she brainwashed her son?why the sudden change? This is serious oh.

Anonymous said...

See nonsense talk! Is that the issue here? Abeg get away jor, annoying thing.

Anonymous said...

Not all my dear.,till date my family is still angry with the way my brother dumped his ex fiancee.

Miss Ferragamo said...

Calling her out should help, but the poster would be in serious trouble. Poster,if you can damn all consequences,let's call her out.

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

Mtcheeeeew can't believe you are still there in that house typing this chronicles. Na curse them curse you? Even if na curse you no fit borrow yousef sense leave the marriage? You will soon die in that house stupid woman with no sense. Live the abuja sef if need be. Leave the kids with him when they grow up they will understand. Don't you value your life? Meanwhile drop her their info here let's call the wicked witch out. Useless mother and son.

Miz Attractive said...

Please say her name. But stella make proper provisions first o, make them no kill this woman once they find out she did this

Miz Attractive said...

Assin ehn! Is been an "orphan" a disability? So you let this man fuck you after beating you?

Chummy cho cho said...

Leave her oo. Using her children as excuse like most of them do. What happens to those children if he kills you?? Ur spirit will take over ba?? Give urself brain, if you cant cater for them now leave them with him, and when you are ok you can then go pick them up.... I hope you know that if you die those children will be left in the hands of ur wicked mother inlaw and senseless husband.

Madam abeg borrow sense.

Cissy said...

#Bronn: You promised me a lordship, and a castle, and a highborn beauty for a wife.
Jaime Lannister: And you'll get all three. "A Lannister always - "
Bronn: Don't say it, don't fucking say it!

Miss Juliet said...

Poster I don't understand u one bit...u want to die cos of marriage? Nne whatever it takes take your kids nd RUN!!! It's better hunger kills u dan a man kills u with his hands..wat are u even saying..,,connection my ass!!! Looks like u no love your life...hit u with a stool on your tommy? U are Jst crazy shaa..y did u even allow d 2nd pregnancy enter? If u had one child ds could ve been easier..there's definitely no way u can run away nd won't find help..but no u gave birth to 3 nd now u are talking abt embarrassing u in your place of work..u are a joker

Mitchelle Uchendu said...

My dear sister, all I can tell you is to keep putting everything in prayer, my prayer is that God will see you through

Miss Juliet said...

As in ee..started beating her 3 days after wedding nd she still gave birth to 3 kids for d bastard...i tink she's enjoying d beating...Nne stay there nd born more ok

queen hadassah said...

Poster if u are stranded financially, u can take your children and run to SCOAN, TB Joshua helps people like u, he can even sponsor your children's education up to PHD level. Forget about your mother in-laws's connections. There are members of SCOAN that once they take up your case everything would be settled.

Anonymous said...

Who this your story epp? Poster ignore this person ka o naa kogheri

Anonymous said...

Cissy we dey wait your own ooo

Dominic Okeke said...

True! True!! True!!!

Anonymous said...

Madam leave ur kids nd run for ur life coz if he beats u today nd u drop dead, they will still carry your kids. And if 2day ur husband dies, his mum will collect those kids nd still chase u out.
I know it is not easy bt you need to be alive for your kids,trust me they see how their dad hit their mum.

Anonymous said...

Madam leave ur kids nd run for ur life coz if he beats u today nd u drop dead, they will still carry your kids. And if 2day ur husband dies, his mum will collect those kids nd still chase u out.
I know it is not easy bt you need to be alive for your kids,trust me they see how their dad hit their mum.

Miz Attractive said...

Somehow I think you married for money. Because since you are n "orphan" you can't get a job, or money, or sense. You aiint got self pride. So being an orphan is a stigma? I just dunno why I have this funny feeling about your chronicle. Just thinking about it

leah said...

Good Advice,take it poster.

Anonymous said...

She is a slave to the man . Yes a sex slave !!! The man knows she enjoys sex after beating her that's why he does it !! Nigerians need the bitter truth and the only person that tells them how it is queen and boss ,she's very merciless with her advise especially for foolish idiots like this poster . So what do you want stellas bvs to do ??!!! He's a bad man but you birth three kids for him cos his prick is very sweet and beats you while fucking you not so . Idiot that prick will eventually kill you . Ur an orphan but your pussy is not an orphan . Idiot . Stay there and die. If ur really suffering do we need to tell you to run ??!! You want donations from stellas bvs and continue where you stopped. Style style beggy beggy !!!!

Emperor Julius Caeser said...

There's just something about this chronicle...

I'm not saying you are lying but I think this is not the whole truth.

Wish we could hear the other side of the story

Anonymous said...

She is a slave to the man . Yes a sex slave !!! The man knows she enjoys sex after beating her that's why he does it !! Nigerians need the bitter truth and the only person that tells them how it is queen and boss ,she's very merciless with her advise especially for foolish idiots like this poster . So what do you want stellas bvs to do ??!!! He's a bad man but you birth three kids for him cos his prick is very sweet and beats you while fucking you not so . Idiot that prick will eventually kill you . Ur an orphan but your pussy is not an orphan . Idiot . Stay there and die. If ur really suffering do we need to tell you to run ??!! You want donations from stellas bvs and continue where you stopped. Style style beggy beggy !!!! Haven't your family and friends advised you ??! Why didn't you take their advice?! Idiota.

Workaholics Anonymous said...

I cannot believe that I am in total support of your comment but this poster's weakness ( I'm trying not to use stronger words) beggars belief.

Dear poster, how can u keep sleeping with a man who beats and disrespects you continuously? Abi another thing de wen you never talk?
So much that you bore him second and third children...SMH

See ehn, if you like, stay there with the children, as per na you be the only mama when love her children.
One day, he will beat you till you die and then marry the girl he's eyeing outside who will come and maltreat those precious jewels of yours in their own father's house.

You have to be strong for their own good. Leave them and go find your feet far away. Gather your armoury and prepare in EVERY way for battle.
Then come back and make war with your hubby and his family for your babies.
This isn't just advice from the wind, it is what I saw my own cousin do. She got her two children back from her ex-hubby, after almost two years of separation. They are comfortably and happily living in Canada now and she's even remarried there.
But she paid a price for it. Every day she was apart from my nieces was like torture for her, thank God that those are only bad memories for her now.
So, know that except you're hiding some crucial details in your story, you cannot afford to continue in that weak stance you've taken. Better wake up and stop playing the victim, or else you will truly be the victim.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Your husband is being controlled by his mother poster. She's probably a witch. She can't bear to see another woman with her son I guess. There are women like that. As for you, why have 3kids? Or he will beat you and beg with sex?? I don't get it. Y keep getting pregnant and trapping yourself the more?? If you really wanted to leave you would leave. Maybe you are afraid of leaving the little comfort you have now but isn't leaving better than staying there to die?? Speak up about your almight MIL. A scandal will arise and she won't dare touch you since she campaigns against domestic violence but encourages her son to beat up his wife. The shame that will come upon her won't be here.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

I'm telling you. Y keep getting pregnant to the point of having 3kids. I don't understand the woman.

LE prestige cream world.COO32848F .08034205152 said...

She has a low self esteem with her belief that she can't leave the marriage using her kids as excuse

Anonymous said...

Everytime!marry rich guy marry rich guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Una see...?make una kwantinu advising!isssssshhhhhh.

Dream said...

Please when you dream and see money in different places and you pick them what is the meaning? Can someone explain this. Thank you.

Anonymous said...

A real man never hurts a woman. be very careful when you make a woman cry, because Allah counts her tears, The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal under the arm to be protected and next to the heart to be loved.

St.FranKooL.... said...

I do not support domestic violence but how can someone be beating you everyday just like that without a cause?.......Is he a mad man? If he's not mad,then there's something you do that triggers that spirit of beating in him...

It's either you stop or avoid doing what evokes that spirit of beating or simply pack and leave the marriage in peace not in pieces.Two of you cannot agree and not compatible anymore...

And again,you said he works and from a rich home.So why does he pay only one of your children's fees?......or does he suspect the other two kids are not his? which could be the bone of contention here. You are probably not telling us everything...

But whatever it is,the best option for you is to end the marriage before it ends you...

Sensa Greene said...

Don't refer to him as DH. He doesn't deserve the dear in front of husband o. Just call him H, horseband or anything. How can a right thinking human being beat up his wife 3days after wedding, where did he even get energy for that. Beat during pregnancy. Ahan beat because you stained bed. Oh my God. Stella needs to call out your MIL, my only worry is the repercussions if they get to know its from you. Please explain everything to your siblings maybe they can profer a solution as they are familiar with your inlaws and this entire situation. Whatever you do, I wish you Gods speed.

Ajebo Confidential said...

This chronicle doesn't have head or nyansh. You're saying that the Tuesday after you got married, he woke up and told you "oya kneel down make I knack you beating". No sign of this violent character in the man and his family before this particular Tuesday abi? There are vital missing links in this story and it is important that you tell it all so that people can learn.
In the Nigeria we are today, there's no kind of connection that will save a person doing what your MIL is doing. Fact. Who was more powerful than Patience Jonathan? The Madueke's? Na Remi Tinubu wey dem wan impregnate? Stella Odua? Msheew..Even Aisha Buhari no fit. You're the only person who know why you're still hanging there. Tell us the full jist ojare..

DonMayor said...

Woman, why allowed yourself to be turned to a punching bag all because you don't have where to go.
You have to be strong for yourself so as to be there for your kids. Be ready to leave the family or be beaten to death.
Na wah for you o. E dey beat you, dey gbensh you get belle. How do you look at him in bed after beating ?

Anonymous said...

Bumble bee, that part struck me too. Thank God I keep my in-laws at arms length because I already noticed that about them. They can never love you like their own....

Pure Nigerian said...

The problem with these 'moral' stories as every other story is that, it is not applicable to everyone and every situation

Ekunie Ify said...

Aaaaaaa who ever you are please do not wish her death na

Anonymous said...

Very sensible suggestion

Anonymous said...

install a hidden camare in the house, make sure u get enough evidence to nail the bastard, take the video to Berkete family in a abuja tell them ur stroy and all ur problem would be solved

Otaswifey said...

Call out is my thought too

Meanwhile if he kills you one day your kids will live their lifes

You are doing those Kids more harm than good by staying with the monster, the emotional effect on them is not what you want to imagine

So do the needful
Google project Alert for help

Otaswifey said...

Even if she does anything wrong, is beating her atall the solution

Anonymous said...

install a hidden camera in house, make sure you get enough evidence to nail the bastard, take the video to brekete family in abuja I bet u, u will get justice.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry to say this but after all this beating you still have time to have sex and get pregnant with the 2nd child? You lost me there. You don't love yourself at all. Continue receiving the beating and getting pregnant.

Anonymous said...

War Room is nonsense? Thought you are a Christian. So sorry for you...

Anonymous said...

Shut d fuck up.

Mrs James said...

I don't even understand how the foodstuffs total to 1920

Anonymous said...

As in ehn. I tire ooo. The only other thing that could be at work here is jazz. E fit be say they have spirtually caged you and are using your star. Both mother and son. This world is deep ooo. Leave your kids and run. Shebi they are his as well. They will look for u when time comes. But I always advise women, before you leave your children, gather enough evidence of all your in laws have done, plant videos, voice recordings, mails, pictures, etc. the day your children will find you, give them and let them see the animals that raised them. Good luck!

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Nawa oooh
Sorry ooh

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Nawa oooh
Sorry ooh

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmm... The Lord is your strenght. Pls run far away from those devils. Because if he eventually kills you, your chukdey will get another mother. Get a job and flee. It is well with your soul. Hugs

BECKY'S DIARY said...

Doppleganger made sense today, i agree with you.
The kids will always look for their mother, just save yourself first!
Your children will be fine, they will look for you no matter what. Save yourself first

Anonymous said...

I remembered when my ex boyfriend punched my right eye, my brother flew in from d US, no bastard can try dat shit wit me.

Tessbaby said...

Jane didnt u read the part that says she works?

Erelu said...

As much as I want to believe this story is fake. I also believe the world is strange and cruel. I can't leave, I can't leave. Why? See, death can make you leave. All it takes is for you to bleed internally one day and that's it. You have children, do you want your sons to become like that man? Do you want your daughters to end up thinking that receiving beating is ok? I'm an orphan, I'm and orphan. My dear, you are not helpless. See why I encourage financial independence. You have a brother, you have cousins. You have a brain. Use all this. So many people have less and they make the most out of their condition. It's time to be strong. Don't let violent and useless death separate you from the kids you love. Don't let "I'm an orphan" decieve you. Honey,be strong for those kids. Don't let them grow up to become that man you hate. Don't let them become the woman you are right now. Be brave and make a decision

Anonymous said...

Madam install secret camera in the house, get evidences of the beating, take pictures of your scars, record mother in law conversation of her supporting her son's violence, then call her out. NB: Get plenty evidence.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Anon haha! Rove you too! 💋

Inabeto said...

The fear of my mother Inlaw has filled me. That's just deep
She needs to be called out. Stella let's help our own

Inabeto said...

She should drop real name on blog? So they will kill her abi? She needs help but let's be diplomatic. The only person that needs real name at this stage is Stella

Anonymous said...

DH - Devilish Husband (a word or abbreviation can hv more than a meaning)

Anonymous said...

My aunt was in a situation like this
Omo she ran away with her 3 kids without the man'sknowledge
The case was taken to court na 4 SAN dem take defend them self, who my aunty know? Nobody, but she won the case and her kids are with her
Abeg mention the name of your MIL for comment section
She no be God o

Cissy said...

Lol @ anon 17: 03 it's already been done. Kisses darl #mwah#

Anonymous said...

Anon 16:34, I hope you are not her in-law? because I see no need for this your comments. the last time I checked, the poster's in-laws are bad people. I suspect u.

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

I don't even know what to say, but that marriage is a suicide mission.

Anonymous said...

She has to leave to stay alive. How can someone beat up a woman not to even imagine a pregnant one. Oh God my father hear your daughter's cry.

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

I don't understand, that you are an orphan doesn't mean you should die in the arms of a wicked husband na. Gosh, am so angry right now.

Anonymous said...

Do you know what the process entails, oh please!

CrazyHornyWife said...

Are you for real??? Prayer for DV??? Please wake up to reality,she had the opportunity to be a mermaid after her first pregnancy and face her life. Yet she decided to be a baby maker and enjoy d beating.
FYI I do not and will never support DV,but if a woman decides to not take charge then am not sorry for her.
Madam how does your husband wake up and start beating and your still in the marriage???
If truly your scared,you 'll call out his mom in law.
Enjoy d beating till it's too late and you leave your kids in this cold world.

Anonymous said...

I don't understand this woman honestly. This man has destroyed your self esteem. But it's up to you, to overwrite it. Start afresh you deserve better.

CrazyHornyWife said...

The only part I don't agree wit you is for her to leave the kids. Trust me it's not easy to do that.
As for those advising prayers,pls wake up and smell the coffee

Anonymous said...

Dumb-minic seriously?

Anonymous said...

Lmao... Anon 18:49, what did your brother come from the US for? To fight?

Cissy said...

@ anon 15:17, I dint see anything about wicked cum devilish mother-in-law in this your story. Enough of this stories please...someone's life is in danger.

Anonymous said...

You are very stupid for this your comment. What can she do dt will warrant his beating her? Is she his slave? You must be an Abuser yourself foolish person. I pray all d girls in your generation will marry dt kind of man,Useless Idiot. I thought James is d only retard we have on this Blog, James come and see your brother. I'm sure dts how your father beats your mother,Omo ale jatiti. Can you imagine d rubbish he is spewing to say you r born by a woman. Infact you r a disgrace to your mother. Useless fellow I just pity the woman dt will marry a nonentity like you.

Anonymous said...

Woman. Go to sherrif plaza before bannex plaza ask of embele office. Go there an lay your complain. Your. MIL willl regret that she is famous by the time they are thru with her. Ask of Ordinary Ahmed Issah. First floor. Thank me later.

Anonymous said...

Woman. Go to sherrif plaza before bannex plaza ask of embele office. Go there an lay your complain. Your. MIL willl regret that she is famous by the time they are thru with her. Ask of Ordinary Ahmed Issah. First floor. Thank me later.

Anonymous said...

Mama na please get the hell outta that house oh. For the sake of your children.

Anonymous said...

Anon 16:34, hope you're not one of the poster's SiL? Cos I see no correlation of your comment with the write up. Why I said this is because i'm one of the women following both sil/mil, and I know the lady in question, I see how you people behave like almighty, and nobody can say otherwise. Since u people believe nobody married to your brothers is anything, don't forget God is more than you people. I can't talk back at you face to face but i'll use this platform to tell you, wicked people.

Anonymous said...

Anon 16:34, hope you're not one of the poster's SiL? Cos I see no correlation of your comment with the write up. Why I said this is because i'm one of the women following both sil/mil, and I know the lady in question, I see how you people behave like almighty, and nobody can say otherwise. Since u people believe nobody married to your brothers is anything, don't forget God is more than you people. I can't talk back at you face to face but i'll use this platform to tell you, wicked people.

Anonymous said...

Idiot which other truth do u want? He beats her, are u saying its her fault?

Anonymous said...

Such fuckery!

Anonymous said...

DoppelgÀnger you are an idiot... Dnt u read? Always making judge mental comments...read her last paragraph she says she wants to leave and how to do it with her kids

Florence Huttons said...

Nawaoooo what some women go through just to stay married.. he started beating u some days after ur wedding nd u still went ahead to open leg for the 2nd- 3rd time? with all the beating how where u still able to f*ck? Even secondary school gals no how to terminate pregnancy tlk more a woman in her 30s..

Women always using their children as an excuse to tolerate rubbish.. u say ur an orphan don't u have relatives? stay there till he kills u hear... hope this is not another sister of Florence okwuosa or whatever? mtcheeeeeew!

Anonymous said...

The did has already been done. Proffer a solution to the current SF situation pls

Anonymous said...

Did you use fetish means to marry that guy ? Look' like his eyes cleared after marriage. Y'all should think in that direction too

Anonymous said...

Mother witch husband cage am.. Poster you sure you no Jazz DH suya before e marry you? The thing go don clear oohh now he's regretting and asking himself wetin happen.. So you born more children to finally hold am down .. Igboman from wealthy family marry North Central ?? E get K leg Shaa

mary imbusuh said...

My dear run for ur life u even tried to give birth to 3kids daz cool oh its like u enjoy it

kokolet Bee said...

Every one is saying call her out! Call her put!! No one is saying I will keep you in my house and,provide and protect you and your kids before calling her out. As you all read she has no where to go and her MIL is so influencial..Please you guys should think of getting her out of that house first and,keep her safe before calling out the MIL and her son. The lord is your strength woman.

Princess Charming... The only crown princess on this blog since 2010. said...

I'm just trying to wrap my head around this chronicle.

Linda I'm fully in support of you.
The poster does not deserve our advise one bit, cos even if we advice her, she might stay put on that marraige cos of the title mrs.

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.

Fine the first pregnancy wasn't planned, you saw the signs during your first pregnancy, but no, you chose to remain there cos you're an orphan.

Is being an orphan a "stigma"?
pls enlighten us.
Cos I don't seems to understand this your orphan this, orphan that...

You opene your tortor with your eyes widely open, the man discharged on you, you had the 2nd and 3rd pregnancy where you hypnotised?

I don't think.

You are still in that marriage because of his family name.
Yes admit it.
He's from a wealthy home, you've no option but to stay put in endurance

In summary,
My advice for you, leave your kids with him/the famous MIL and RUNNNNNNNNN!

Go and stay with your elders brother, yes go stay with him. Tell him to assist you with little money, then start a little trade. If you're a graduate, use your certificate to get a job. Go to employment agency, register with them for a job replacement.

Least I forget, do not inform your horseband or SIL your resident.
Change your phone line(s) as well.

Your kids will be safe with him, when they re grown, then you can always visit them at school.

If you love yourself, RUN from those family else we might come here to read your burial plans
Godforbid!

Anonymous said...

Please, this Ahmed issah, is he a lawyer? Because he might in position to help with other issues besides domestic violence! Thank you.

Anonymous said...

I replied someone who said all in laws are bad.

Kbear said...

Sweetheart, pls, since you say this MIL is that powerful, install security cameras in your house and also stylishly record this evil MIL. Get it on tape or whatever and use this as evidence against them. That is the only way out except if God steps in fast.

Anonymous said...

He is the voice to the voiceless. Case wey pass her own self them solve am. No big Human for there ooh na only Big God dey. If yu re in abuja listen to 104.5 fm 7:30am evry morning.

Anonymous said...

There are many great inlaws.

Funky baby said...

First, ur MIL may be powerful in Nigeria buh who is she before God? you need to present ur case to God honey. secondly, you need to record some of ur beating sessions and times where she supports her son, post them on all social media handles and tag everyone that needs to be tagged. I hate stuffs like this, that's why i had to comment.

Anonymous said...

Dear Bvn, thanks for your advise, I'm very grateful, I'll go with most of the advise, but as of calling out names? No way, I don't want to die now, pls. Just keep praying for me. Thanks

Nma said...

Everyone insulting this woman is not different from her husband and mother in law. That's emotional and verbal abuse. She has been so abused that she does not reason like you. Lets be careful with our words. Its easy to seat and insult her but proffer no solution. All you saying prayer, who told you she has not Prayed? Woman, please find a house and move out for your life first. Even if its idu or nyanya or your brother's house, move out. Give the details of your mother in law with evidence of battery to Stella Dimoko so we name and shame her in Abuja. Report her to her Parish priest or reverend where she worships. Go to her town union and report her. We will help you post it on face book and twitter and all social media because there is no point hiding nothing at this stage. Be strong so you don't die and leave those innocent kids that you love. I feel you because I was a victim but i had family support and i left. I am raising 3 kids alone for 5 years now. God has been too faithful. Their dad is gathering sense small small and lately he has started contributing to their welfare. I am still living on my own but they hang out with him since his brain started booting a bit after his family destroyed our home. Gain strength in Jesus name, Amen.

Jasmyn said...

I understand what u have bin through... And won't judge u...we all have made mistakes time in and out.. We learn from it and move on.. Steps to meeting ordinary Amhed.. Above all u really need to pray harder PUSH... Pray until something happens.. U write a letter addressed..
ORDINARY AHMED ISAH
THE VOICE OF THE VOICELESS
THE PRESIDENT/FOUNDER
BREKETE FAMILY
SUITE F9, SHERIFF PLAZA
WUSE 11,ABUJA.
then u swear an affidavit in a any court near by, that what ever u have written is the truth and nothing but the truth.. Take along two passport of your.. They will then get back to u and investigate all u have said...the radio station is at mpape hill.. Am giving u all this information so u don't start running around without motive.. Forget human right in abj, though they r beginning to wake up, cause ordinary Ahmed has bin on their case. It is well with u and ur kids.. No matter the reactions from other members of the brekete family and stress u would go thru, don't give up... That the only place u can get real help and remain with u kids.. If u can meet Bro Joshua Igila of champion royal assemble, he too cab help but it require patience.

BeQuiet Instead said...

Poster, your story sounds incredible to me. How can he just start beating you 3D after your wedding and you went ahead to have 3 children for him? Being an orphan is not a death sentence. If you have endured all these for so long, I don't know what you really want us to tell you.

I think you are coping that's why you stay put. You are working, so if you really wan to stay alive, you know what to do.

MOTHER NATURE........ said...

Na wa oh! I had to sign in bec this is not funny at all. Madam Stella please "Call her out". This is the only way we all can help her bec our advise won't work and the said lady will continue to live in fear and under the believe that she is powerful and untouchable.

Once she is out on press, her powers and connections are gone. The case becomes the public's case and not just family case alone. But come poster, with all the beating you still open toto fuck for three kids what rubbish!! You like it that is why. If possible leave the kids for them and face your life jor! your kids will still come and look for you but you have to safe yourself first.

Na why I like myself... That man wey wan do this nonsense them never born am well. I will poison the whole family and move or set the house on fire. Wicked men/family need very tough women. I no blame parents wey dey send their female daughters to karate school.

Poster you just got me angry. You are a woman oh! show that your stupid MIL that there is no monopoly in Revenge Market. Haba!!

Anonymous said...

This poster your case is small compared to that of my elder sister. Her husband will beat her on top of pregnancy while heavy oh! There was one he hit her head on bathtub and she was rushed to the hospital. Emeka Uzowuru is his name stupid fidelity bank manager. I'm not afraid to call him out because the day of judgement is close for him and his family members that abused my sister emotionally and physically. This guy is more than a beast. He beats my sister and bite her on her breast, forehead, and hand. There was a day my other elder sister went to visit and they started having problems, this guy lifted cutlass to cut his wife it was my other sis who visited that held it and it sliced her hand.

My own here is that, most of this agencies that were set up for such purpose should seat up. People die not because they don't know where to go or who to report the case to... is just that the victims already know that those people are not productive and won't proffer a solution. Imagine when My sister took her hubby to Human Right over their 4 months old baby. This stupid Human Right with their clear eyes handed the baby over to the father because he bribed them. My God! I died and woke up.

Years after they have 5 kids but she is no longer with the man. He sent her out with her 1 year old son outside the cold at 10:30pm just because she went to church and came in late. She went to Human Right again and as usual same story. They just go his office collect bribe close case.

Human Right and Public Complain Commission need to wake up or better still, they should close it because as long as I am concerned, those people are not working.

Anonymous said...

This poster your case is small compared to that of my elder sister. Her husband will beat her on top of pregnancy while heavy oh! There was one he hit her head on bathtub and she was rushed to the hospital. Emeka Uzowuru is his name stupid fidelity bank manager. I'm not afraid to call him out because the day of judgement is close for him and his family members that abused my sister emotionally and physically. This guy is more than a beast. He beats my sister and bite her on her breast, forehead, and hand. There was a day my other elder sister went to visit and they started having problems, this guy lifted cutlass to cut his wife it was my other sis who visited that held it and it sliced her hand.

My own here is that, most of this agencies that were set up for such purpose should seat up. People die not because they don't know where to go or who to report the case to... is just that the victims already know that those people are not productive and won't proffer a solution. Imagine when My sister took her hubby to Human Right over their 4 months old baby. This stupid Human Right with their clear eyes handed the baby over to the father because he bribed them. My God! I died and woke up.

Years after they have 5 kids but she is no longer with the man. He sent her out with her 1 year old son outside the cold at 10:30pm just because she went to church and came in late. She went to Human Right again and as usual same story. They just go his office collect bribe close case.

Human Right and Public Complain Commission need to wake up or better still, they should close it because as long as I am concerned, those people are not working.

Anonymous said...

Trinity whoa you remind me when a Pastor warned me about a manipulative mother. That I should not dare marry. First off I didn't know whom he was referring to. Months later I even forgot about the Pastor caution. Toaster hoovering did my due diligence. Red flag from God. Observed for myself ah no fit shout!

Anonymous said...

Seriously it was written on the wall he was and always a manipulator

Anonymous said...

Spot on. The lurk for victims! You did not c the traps. Making you feel like your indispensable then sealing the trap to b pregnant. PS 91

Heaven's babygirl said...

Before you do anything, I feel should get evidence first, Mount a secret camera, video and take pictures. Make sure you have evidence!. If you are calling them out you have to be sure you don't lose! Please do what's best for you. Leave as soon as you can! Stay alive!

Anonymous said...

Which greed? Did you not see that he doesn't contribute anything to her care or that of 2 of her kids? If you don't feel compassion that's fine but do not project your own insecurities on someone else.

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