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Friday, 5 August 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

OH MY GOODNESS!





STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
MARRYING AN EX SPOUSE' SIBLING

Good day Stella. My girl is one of your greatest fan. She has lots of good things to say about your works on here. I have come across your website before now but I rarely have the time to visit it. But she's a regular visitor and she reintroduced me to it again sometime last week... I will appreciate it if you can keep my email private 

I became a millionaire at the age of 27, by 30, I have already built a standard duplex of my own. I had 3 cars, I bought 2 for myself and one was my official car. Life was good. I married my 26 year old girlfriend of 3 years at 31. We met in church. Im from an average family. She was from a below average family. By 35 we already had two boys. I brought all her siblings and mine close.


 My cars were free to use except the official one. Only her twin brother was hard to get along with. He was a menace to everyone including their parents. But her immediate younger sis (Ifeoma), a brother after her, and another timid youngest sister were like a family to me and they lived with us. Though her parents were already training them in the university when we met, but I still contributed to her and her troublesome brothers education. 


When she got her degree, I was trying to secure employment for her in the firm where I work (a major oil company), but it just didn't happen, so I told her to try her hands in business and I will fund it. She came up with funny ideas. Then I told her I would open a travel and tourism business, while she manage it and do as she pleases with the income (my first job was in a travel agency so I had a good idea of it). I then enrolled her for training courses at the appropriate institutions.In 6 months she had caught up with making bookings and all.


 I drew the whole business plan and simply put every other thing in place. She was just like a hired hand that came in solo. By 3 years, based on previous experience, connection, strategy, goodwill, hard work and Gods grace, the business was going very well and we had a staff strength of 10. Mind you, aside from the money to keep the business running, the income was hers to do as she pleases. Anytime, we needed to hire a staff, I do the interview and hired them.


 I think for the business, plan and strategize the marketing- everything. I just tell her her own role. And every night, she simply gave me verbal feedback. In the course of the business, she bought jewelry as she wanted, aside from the car I bought her, she bought 2 extra cars. She went shopping abroad multiple times. Though the business was registered in our name, all the customers contacts were hers

10 years on the job, I had bought another property and was already developing it. Life was good.... then I was told to resign due to some internal problems. My world came crashing down. The night I told my wife I had left chevron, that was the last time I ever saw her smile. Then the disrespect started pouring in. It later became outright verbal and emotional abuse. She won't cook anymore, and since we couldn't afford maids any longer, her youngest sister that was still with us would do the cooking. 


She went out and came home as she pleases. No more lovemaking. Our sex life practically died. Even the kids began to resent me. She traveled to S/A one time, and when I confronted her about it. She bath me with abuses of my life. I could easily beat the living day light out of the insolent child but I kept my cool, and would take long walks, cry and pray to God for a miracle instead. 

I thought with my qualifications I would land another job in a short while even if it wasn't that juicy as the previous one, but for where? Two years down the line - nothing. I also made the mistake of keeping up appearances. Instead of cutting down fast, I still maintained the lifestyle and external responsibilities I had before the job loss, claiming man of faith. My savings ran down fast. Then I started to put eye into the profit of the business I opened for my wife, but she would have none of it. I say ye! 


She said I should go look for a job, the business was hers and if I pushed too hard she would quit the marriage. I told her to quit. Family meeting was called, she was adamant and I also maintained my initial stand. We broke up. 

Few months later, I heard that she has moved in with my children with one big popular Auchi man who used to be one of our customers. About a year later divorce was finalized. She just couldn't wait

Things were dwindling fast on my side. Because she had the customer contact of the business, I had to start from the scratch. She got the new guy to open a bigger outlet for her. Forgetting that I was the brain behind the business. I sold the house, and 1 of my cars to pay off debts, complete a small portion of the other property and invest the remaining into the Travel business, but I believe she put some jazz on that business, because it just never grew. It got so bad that I sometimes didn't have money to feed nor shave.

 I would just be home alone for days. Somewhere along the line, my dogs died. 


I am the type that isn't used to demanding from family and friends. Instead I give so I didn't know how to ask. All the while, that timid sister of hers who once lived with us had graduated (I funded her university education) and gotten a job in a telecom firm. This sister would call me and check up on me, send me some small change to keep head above water. 

During weekends, she would come over with foodstuff and help me with cooking and washing like she use to do then go back to her base. She bought shaving clipper for me, toiletries, slipon etc. Aside from my mum and only brother in England, she was the only other person that was there for me. For two and half years straight, that girl fed me. And she did it with genuine care and respect till the very end.

All the while, I didn't relent, with the help of a childhood friend, my pastor, and with my experience in the oil and gas sector. I got a Government contract in Abuja. I made 150M overnight. In my excitement, I called that timid younger sister to come over for a celebration, I told her the good news, we went celebrating that very night, we got really tipsy and I didn't know what happened but by morning, she was naked on the bed beside me in my bedroom. We didn't say a word all day, she just stayed in the bedroom, while I got dressed and went shopping. 

By evening, I came back she was dressed and ready to leave, but I told her to have one last drink with me, as thank you, I gave her some cash and the I bought for her and... well, we did it again. From brother Victor, brother Victor, sir, sir, e enter baby, boo, bae. And Stella, I have no regret about it at all. 

On the contrary, I think I have gained more. She looks, 'feel', and sound similar to her older sister. Just that she's younger (now 32), firmer, fresher, darker skin tone, far less aggressive, less materialistic, more selfless and more sacrificing. And I like it this way. During lovemaking, it seems as though I'm with the sister. Hahaha it seem funny now as I think about it, I don chop 2 sisters be that o.... unplanned. 

Anyway, the reason for this message is because she has been feeling guilty and scared. I have tried to alley her fears in many ways, I have bought her a car and numerous luxury gifts, taken her on trips abroad, and bought a land in her name, just for her to feel at ease, but she can't seem to get over the fact that she's with her elder sisters ex. Also, she says their parents have been nurturing a reconciliation..... one which will never happen. So she wants to know what the world thinks. 

As for me, I could care less what anyone says, when I was roasting, what was their contribution? He who was with me when hope was lost is he who I am with. Moreover, that marriage is dead and buried, she has been sleeping with another man, divorce was finalized 6 years ago... how can I go back to that? 

I have moved on to something far better. By Gods grace, today, I can boast of a solid oil firm with over a dozen filling stations around the country and still counting. With choice properties everywhere. My liquid cash is in 9 figures. While my ex wife's travel business didn't last 6 months because of her ignorance and aggression. And I hear her man has married another younger wife. I see she's been trying to add me on a social media platform I belong to but you see, what's the point?

I will be having my 45th birthday in September and I plan to do it big with my girl and kids by my side. I want to introduce her to the world as my woman and give her a little surprise package that very day in the presence of everyone. And I'm going to do it big. Is she doing anything wrong? Whatever advice you have for her, kindly use your infamous pen if need be. I know she'd be watching. I got to get back to work.


Nagode.



*HMMMMM!!!!
What a sad/beautiful story.
I am one of those people who have the mindset that you can find love anywhere and i dont see anything wrong with you both being together if that is what it is.A lot of people will say ''why her sisters man''? but i will say WHY NOT?

Both of you are in for a tough battle if you care for what people say but if not then if being with each other gives you both peace with man and God then do it.
I think you want to propose to her on your birthday right?Do it if it feels right and if you are not with the sister to spite the sister.

And if the younger sister who is a BV is reading this then babe read here and this is STELLA TALKING TO YOU ''happiness and peace of mind is man made and if being with Victor feels right,say Yes when he proposes and dont look at their faces,they will Judge you but will do same if love finds them''
Congratulations to you both.

Nigerians are pretenders and a lot of people will cuss me out for my advice but my mindset is different from yours so please give me a break.Love is love,doesnt matter where or how it comes!

If you insult me in the bid to state your own opinion,i will not approve your gutter comment!

329 comments:

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stunning slim shady said...

Oh noooooo

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

The deed is already done or what else do you want to do.
If you both love each other as you've painted then I don't see the big deal there.
I don't see a problem here though unless marrying a second sibling is forbidden in the lady's family then you both are good to go.
Just be ready for the many tongues that will wag and the many battles to come.
But you both could have come out with it since instead of hiding. Adults shouldn't hide how they feel or what they are doing.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Wow your story is just amazing. The wife was not a good woman at all. Probably had bad friends who also decieved her. I don't even know what to tell you. I don't know how you can marry one sister when you were married to the other before. I think this is is taboo if you at igbo. I'm not sure but I believe so. Are you sure you really love the younger sister cos you said making love to her is like making love to. Your ex. Hope you are not confusing your feelings and doing this to rget back at the ex

Quiksilver said...

At some point, you began to sound silly & unserious.

TF you mean by from brother Victor to boo, bae, etc? And I don chop 2 sisters unplanned? Childish mofo.

stunning slim shady said...

Kikiki @ if you insult me in the bid to state your own opinion,i will not approve your gutter comment!



Stella nwunye Korkus u b case, u don charge b dat,....

Bianca BRUNO said...

Oga a beg wed d youngest sister. She deserves it. She tried abeg. Sisi if bros propose to you gree oh. I use God to beg you. Forget the world . salvation is a personal race d last time I checked.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Which kain nollywood movie is this?...
Poster,are you for real?....
Abeg I don't believe this story but if it's true,ride on...
But that your ex sister you are gbenshing is a devil!...

Ada Nwanbueze said...

Nolly wood movie abeg wey prt 2?

Pure Nigerian said...

Victor's babe, please say yes to victor when he proposes, as long as it is what you want. My fear is in your sister instigating the children against you.

Victor, I hope your intentions are sincere oh. Remember, she will be risking all to be with you.

Miss Ess said...

Hian! Her family would not allow it o and its a stigma that would trail that family forever. How will your ex wife kids see her, what would she calk her sister's children? What kind of love would she have with her sister? It is complicated abeg. But at the end of the day what is bad is bad. This is bad o.

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It is well....

Anonymous said...

I love you so much Stella. You've spoken well. Dear narrator, whatever makes you happy, whatever makes you live longer, do it. Life is too short to live in regrets. I wish you well

Atheist. said...

Yup she should feel tons of guilt heaped like dangote cement on her head, some lines shouldnt ever be crossed, be it by liquor, weed, private jet or parachute... some lines should be avoided like a field of landmines waiting to xplode, you both know its all just for fun huh? no right thinking father will accept bride price from same man that once came for the elder sister, well maybe in Indonesia. Glad u got back to ur feet though, that was a happy ending massage. kudos.

#RoslinFrey: Lord Edmure...
I hope i'm not a disappointment to you.
EdmureTully: You're a delight to me, my lady.
Priest: You may now cloak the bride & bring her under your protection.
In the sight of the Seven, i hereby seal these 2 souls, binding them as one for eternity.
Look upon each other & say the words.
Father, Smith, Warrior, Mother, Maiden, Crone, Stranger...
I am hers, & she is mine... & he is mine from this day until the end of my days.

Anonymous said...

Why does this story sound like a work of fiction

PLATINUM said...

Okay poster in as much as im happy that God lifted u again, u really sound arrogant. No judging. Bt if its wat u want, if ur happy then stay happy with her. I wish u all many more years of bliss. Bro victor turned bae lol.

Anonymous said...

Am on Stella side on this matter. If what Victor has narrated is true and not lies to get us on his side.i wish both of you long love filled relatiinship.

BECKY'S DIARY said...

Choi i was smiling all through as i was reading this.

Bia oga poster this one you keep referring to her as 'timid sister', i hope she gives you better slap for that oo lol

Back to your story;
If indeed you truly love this girl for her, and not bcos she helped you or just to spite the other sister.. then i give you guys my blessings biko

Nnem, this one is for you
To Hell with what anyone else has to say mbok!!!
If he proposes, shout a big, fat Yes and marry him joor. Who cares what the f**k the world people has to say?
Your parents will come around with time, after all the money dey come with the whole package lol

As for your elder sister, ntooor to her! See how she finished her life all cos of greed! Don't mind whatever she says to you, marry your man. He is yours now!!

NB: Abeg me sef i wan meet better man like this oo hehehe

Anonymous said...

uhmmmm I cant just deal,will be waiting to read comments

Oscar Moses said...

Settle her with cash and let her go. Don't make that mistake of marrying 2 siblings cos its a taboo that will affect ur generations yet unborn.

The mistake have been made, don't make another one, pray to God for forgiveness cos that gal is not happy anymore, it could be loneliness that made her do it with you. Now her conscience is beating her so fast.
Go get another gal and fall in love, marry her and forget that ur ex-wife's younger sister.

Just Glamour said...

Victor and Ify HML in advance.

God chic said...

What Stella didn't include is that once u accept Victor's ring, be ready to cling to God like ur life depends on it,because once your elder sister hears,her next stop is a dibia or babalawo's place. A woman like your sister,who could do that to her husband, would stop at nothing to destroy you. women like that,have a false sense of entitlement and would only listen to people that tell her u had been trying to steal her man all along. She would still feel Victor is her man o. If u don't believe me,just wait and see. I think that at 32 you don't need the drama, i dont condemn u in anyway for sleeping with him,but please,leave your sister's ex husband and find yourself your own man All the best!

popeyes said...

The poster is just so full of himself and what he's achieved. Kilode? na you be the first? As for your sleeping with your ex wife's sister, Im very sure you both were lusting after each other while your marriage was still on.(that's if una no been dey fuck sef) Shame on you both! Shame on the family that would even accept you again as a son in-law. As for u the sister who is a BV, na your niece this idiot go end up with last, last.

Anonymous said...

U will cause problem in that family,pray u won't be the scapegoat.

stunning slim shady said...

Waste no time poster, wife her already afteral she wasnt shaghing u whilst u were married to her sista. I see lots of resistance from her family sha but Ur happiness is key. Embrace d present. If her family proves stubborn, kindly elope wt her.

Sharon john said...

Hmm,is this for real but if it does,do this kind of guy exist,I was just reading and enjoying myself thought I was in anoda word ,only for me to finish reading and see myself Herr in my room,oh gush,my dear have a rethink but If your mind go for your wife sis so be it,which I can see such a guy like u

Mary said...

I usually press control P on issues like this but for once I see a different side. Bro now bae Victor please go ahead. I am married to a man that loves me and I do too and that's all that matters. See u divorce the sister so what the heck? Be happy jare.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm! Very sweet story,you guys never betrayed anyone,in fact I love this story but the problem is love isn't just about you two what about the kids?,will they not clash in future? SAME FATHER AND DIFFERENT MOTHERS WHO ARE SISTERS,MY DEAR MAN YOU MUSTNT COMPENSATE PEOPLE WHO STOOD BY YOU WITH MARRIAGE.IF YOU GUYS CAN WITHSTAND THE FAMILY PROBLEMS YOUR DECISION WILL BRING IN FUTURE THEN GO AHEAD BUT EVEN THE BIBLE IS AGAINST SLEEPING WITH 2 SISTERS. I wish you guys well and that your sis in law has a good heart but she is too fragile that is the reason she fell for you because people help others without even thinking of marriage.

Anonymous said...

Abeg de chop de go, nothing do you.
Rihanna said we find love in strange places, if her hands and money can help u in time of need, why cant her pussy do the same in the time of konji?
that her ungrateful sister will surely crawl back with regrets... materialistic women all over the nation blaming Buhari.
Am sure that BV queen n boss can definately act like the materialistic sister, only difference is that she will soon be dead, a painful death and her kids will be the surving victims which pains me sha, sins of a mother, arent we all suffering from someones past in one way or the other?

Anonymous said...

Oga o, this is dicey! Please think it through o. I understand this woman stood by you and you're divorced but your children are her nephews! Chai! This one na some head cracking chronicles. Be ready for WAR!!!!!

Bheem Ekesi said...

Why did I read this piece of falsehood. Complete Sh!t

Anonymous said...

Well.. since your ex wife was careless and d divorce ish has been long settled, den i would say you go gurl. Lyf is simple to those who undetstand it and happiness is the key mehn. 😊

Loveme Jeje said...

Oga enjoy ooo. Your first wife was a foolish woman. Her idea of marraige is for better to stay, for worst to go.

Enjoy your wife sister nothing do you. Seems your star is with your wife's family. nagode to you

Anonymous said...

wow......... i am speechless but in the end its love that previals i think this current sister was your original wife but you had to go through the first sister to meet the second. but please dont take it further into marriage just let her Go and find someone else God will heal you both of the pain that it will bring.DO NOT GO BACK TO THE FIRST WIFE PLEASE

Anonymous said...

My dears as long as her sister did all she did with a clear mind (even if it wasn´t a clear mind) then go for it. She did not snatch anybody´s man. Imagine if the guy had died in his sorry state, or if it was another girl? Guys just be prepared for the backlash from hypocritical Nigerian friends and family, family especially. I would suggest only one comeback for both of you to all of them. "This woman here was and is still my backbone through it all".
If her elder sister has any self respect she should just be happy for both of you and STHU.

Anonymous said...

Do what makes you happy mbok,this life is too short.. Congrats Vic and ...

Anonymous said...

Bros please extend an invitation to me as you celebrate with your woman and introduce her to the world. I want to witness this magic.

Hypocrites and pretenders can cry blue murder all they want, but so long as both of you consent to this, then it is done. The thunder wey go fire that elder sister and her band of stupid people wey gi criticise you or your sweetheart, is taking certificate of authorisation from Amadioha Sango and Egbesu juju.

Go and enjoy your life in bliss...

Please don't forget to invite me. Yes invite me.

Blackberry said...

D younger sis try o!
I for no fit at allllllll...marry my elder sis ex husband? My liver never strong reach. Lol
Congrats oga! Marry her if she agrees!

Anonymous said...

I was so scared Stella would disapprove that I had to rush down and read her red pen before going back to finish the story. For once Stella, I agree with you.
Dear BV, if you allow that man slip away from your hands because of the opinions of worthless peopl, you will regret it forever and ever.
You better go get your man and hold him well.
Everybody be damned!
The love story is beautiful sha.
*goes back to re-read*

Anonymous said...

Well said Stella...all those kicking against that advice are the worst ooo

tictoc said...

IF CULTURE AND BELIEF PERMITS IT, THEN GO ON WITH IT..IKAN TO BA WU ANYBODY LO LE FI ENU E SO. THEN BE PREPARE, FAMILY TIES MAY BREAK

white Berry said...

To be just settle her or leave the settlement of things you've done for her and move on with another lady. It's not idea because you will still be meeting up with same families. Don't you know they can use her to poison your enemy. Remember they say blood is always ticker than water. Get in with another lady. And my lady don't go further, am in hast would have add to this

Bootylycious diva said...

Blood of God ,this is a sad beautiful story for real ,should i say yes ,should i say no

My simple advice do not marry her ,they are blood sisters ,give her every good gift you can let her go .

Anonymous said...

If the story is the way you put it.then you should both settle down and be happy

Anonymous said...

Nne for what na, abeg sharp sharp marry Victor oo. No dull 1 bit oo. Leave your gold digger sister. Her eyes go clear if e never clear. The truth is Victor will never go back toyour sister. This is men for you no mattter what. Even if you say no he will end up with another person who is not your sister. Abeg stay put, enjoy and reap where you have sowed. Those times you were helping him out were was the world. The world gbakwa oku.

There is one thing girls don't understand about guys. Guys never how randy they are never forgets who helped them when they were really in need.

But brother u dey dull, shoot sharpaly and score better goal. Let me know the winch that will talk again.

From a guy who wouldn't mind doing same.

Chief TeePomping said...

Lol Stella yaff vex. Buh truth be told, bro no big deal. Where were those people that would eventually "talk" when u were suffering? To the lucky bae, pls enjoy the fruit of ur labour! Wishing you guys happy married life in advance.

Mrs T said...

Which insult Stella? Abeg I agree with you 100 percent.the babe never wronged anyone .her sister threw away and she found and nurtured.
Believe their parents will be super happy if you two should get married. I'm place place sef,a man can marry two sisters mostly if one died but this instance should also be acceptable.

excellence precedes me said...

I love this story. Stay strong and be happy with each other inspite of what people will say and how they will act. everyone deserves a right to happiness, and if the ex wife raises her eyebrows as regards this issue she should know her opinion holds no power here because she may try to bully her sister. I wish them the very best.

Mrs T said...

Which insult Stella? Abeg I agree with you 100 percent.the babe never wronged anyone .her sister threw away and she found and nurtured.
I Believe their parents will be super happy if you two should get married. I'n my place sef,a man can marry two sisters mostly if one died but this instance should also be acceptable.

Jade said...

Truly a bitter/Sweet story,as i read through your story,what came to my mind was ,'oooh this man,settle this babe and let her go' but reading to the end,i can only say this;both of you owe no one an explanation.
People will talk,people will judge but if your conscience is clear,then you have nothing to fear.
6years is a long time and your ex-wife behaved so shabbily. Be ready for opposition especially from her parents,may be relocated from your former area to give her a new start.
All the best

1nigeriangirl said...

This post was the best ever. How to revenge on your enemies? Suceed. Pls tell ya gurl not be afeard, carry go, we dey ur back.

But you aff money sha oo. Send in shoki to my email o lolsssss.

Stella post my comment o

Anonymous said...

Abeg Jacob married two sisters and he did not perish. Please go forth and prosper and be happy together. Be wise this time and begin saving.

Mey said...

gbam! when it comes to love, do it if it feels right.

Anonymous said...

BIG HMMMMMMM and INTERESTING story, poster I wish u guys the best.

J.Ice said...

Na wa ooooo
I felt so sad, bitter and down at d 'down' phase of ur life in d write up.
I became lifted when God lifted u up.
Choi! See True life story.
My guy u don't need advice. But bros, u no talk wetin u must ve done to make a woman who u claimed to show much love leave u in time of need. (wish to hear her side of d story cos marriage is deep. But it's over by divorce). U sure say u no ever beat her shege or flaunt infidelity for her nose?
Ur SiL is d one who needs d words.
Sis is it possible ur elder sister neva got a hint of ur caring for her ex.husband?
I am not a fan of friends dating dia friend's ex but I stand wit u on this. I'm maried, mature n now see life d way it is.
Go to ur dad and tel him dt all d while u ve been caring for uncle victor and along d way, u ve fallen in love wit him. Dt in short u guys ve had sex and u r not sorry abt it bcos u love him wit all ur heart. Dt u know dis can cos strive in d family but u want to live ur life and make ur own mistakes. Tel ur mum d same. Pls do so face-to-face so u can read feelings n hear replies.

Depends on d role ur parents played during during d divorce n how dey saw 'victor'. Shame fit catch dem. And dey wil say na so God want am.

Tell ur BiL dt u want to talk to ur si sis abt it but please do so in a public private place. Get ready for any reaction. If truly she did all doz stated in d chronicles, na shame go catch her. She can only beg 'why him'?
But deep down she knows she did bad and victor desavs beta 'compensation'. U wud ve a good case if all thru ur growing up, u were neva rebellious, wayward or wild.
Life na wans oo. Happy dey go!
But Stella y u talk d name? U want d elder sis to know before hand ba?
Hmmmmm thank goodness I don't ve blood sis.
I'm being objectively realistic here. No time for religious.
Let me read other comments.

lastborn said...

This is African not obodo oyingbo
Let me as a qns" has d babe confided in her mum joking or truthfully to have an idea of what her family's reaction will be.
Husband or not ,family is an essential part of life.
All d best lovebirds
Least I forget d girl better watch her back becos d thunder dat her elder sister might fire her,will either come in min or midi or max or combined Mini Midi Maxi

Anonymous said...

Wow! I just had 2 comment. I c nufin wrong with dis union joor. Aunt Stella has said it all. Anyone dat'll cuss dese couple is just a sad n unhapi soul.

Mhzzbee int'l said...

This is a very difficult situation. War just wan begin in their family.

La'creamie said...

All this women wey them papa no get money,when they see money them go dey misbehave... Abeg make she gree who her sister "EPP"

Anonymous said...

Na only 2 sisters u fuck n dey feel like a boss? Try to fuck one more sister if there's any and if there's none,fuck their cousin.continue to fuck d sis,take care of her but don't marry from that stupid igbo family again

Joe

School Life said...

There's nothing wrong in this union bro. I pray she agrees to mawi you... You both deserves each other irrespective of the shit people r gonna say.

Anonymous said...

Hollop stella...hafa nau, this advice get k leg abeg
This rlnship is bound to breakup...if you dnt feel right about something den it isn't right (dis is to d sister) listen to ur inner mind
Poster thank God you bounced back but ure towing a very dangerous path and I hope you dnt go back to poverty!
Wat do you tell ur children...ow do dey refer to ur ex sister....d offspring frm d proposed union of d sister will call ur kids wat?
As much as you want to please urself,it's no longer about you, ur kids are involved, ur family, infact ur new love...wat kind of rapport will you have with her family
This is just messed up
Jesus fix it!
#pam πŸ‘„ #

Anonymous said...

you owe no one an explanation, where were her parents when she moved into another man's house. My dear congratulations on your marriage plans. Your girlfriend genuinely loves you, for her to have taken care of you financially for two years. please invite me to your wedding to dance shoki. If the family pressure is too much, abeg send am go Canada to live. Please be true to her, this one that you painted yourself as a sinless man during your first marriage.

La'creamie said...

Your EX wife na "ophor" if am her sister I will marry u ASAP afterall she has divorced u since 6yrs.

Shugarbabe said...

Stellxxx..... i luvvvvvvv your comment!!!!thats exactly what i think they should do (GO Ahead and be together) its gonna be tough though but hey Life generally is tough... You both deserve each other. @Oga Victor you get oil for your head sha @Youngest sister.... you better dive that ring if you know whats good for you ooo dont dull yasef!!!

School Life said...

I also hope to become a millionaire before 30.

Ibukunoluwa said...

Bros carry on...but abeg share some of ur oil money reach here biko

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Woooow
Bros,abeg marry her if u wish to
Weda you marry her or not,people will still talk....where were they when u were struggling to feed.
Just go n see her parent first n explain to them....take it from there
I wonder how ur ex wife is feeling now....ntoooor to her.
Oga,money too much ooh

brown said...

Na wa o

HR BABE said...



I dont know what to say oh.... I dunno oh....

When will the trumpet sound again?

Anonymous said...


I hope you are not infatuated with your SIL out of spite for what your ex wife did to you. Indeed, this woman really cared for you when you were very down and if your feelings are genuine, i say go for it. Make this woman your wife against all odds and look at the sacrifice she will be making to be joined with you. Her family and sister in particular will most disapprove of your union and not bless your marriage. I don't know how you will handle it, but be a man about it. Put that princess on a pedestal and make her not regret loving you cos she will be losing her dearest as a result.
Make it happen and keep us up to date!

Anonymous said...


I hope you are not infatuated with your SIL out of spite for what your ex wife did to you. Indeed, this woman really cared for you when you were very down and if your feelings are genuine, i say go for it. Make this woman your wife against all odds and look at the sacrifice she will be making to be joined with you. Her family and sister in particular will most disapprove of your union and not bless your marriage. I don't know how you will handle it, but be a man about it. Put that princess on a pedestal and make her not regret loving you cos she will be losing her dearest as a result.
Make it happen and keep us up to date!

Pearl said...

Hmmmmm.......Bros Chevron, despite your arrogance, If I was in your shoes, I will marry the TIMID, FRESHER younger sister I TRAINED IN SCHOOL, Its double joy if you are doing it for love, but I suspect you are doing it to spite your ex-wife. I wish you marital bless.

Madam Timid younger sister, kontinue, I pray you find peace in this and NEVER to have to send-in a chronicle.

Anonymous said...

Awwww beautiful story... poster I'll advice you to follow your heart... though alot of people would condenm you.. but is she makes you happy and vice versa ..you should go ahead and propose.. I wish u all the best.. your new girl is a rare gem.

Anonymous said...

Lmaoo Stella took it P sha. Lmaooo don't insult Stella o hahaha

em jay said...

You can't keep a hen as a pet, bcos you will eat it someday.
Mr Victor traditionally it is unacceptable, your in-law will never bless that marriage, unless they are the type that can be shut up with money, I know you are in love, but the bitter truth is, it's not cool, what do I know, Chizoba oya come and advise them.

MaX RoWmEu said...

hiannnnnn!

Anonymous said...

Beautiful story. Please go ahead. I like the sound of you together, my brother is married to his ex girlfriends' sister and they have 4 kids now.
What is the big deal? I don't see anything wrong with it.

PROUDLY IGBO said...

***MY DEAR SISTER (VICTOR'S SIS-INLAW) U'RE *ABSOLUTELY* DOING NOTHING WRONG. BLOCK YOUR EARS FROM PEOPLE AND MARRY HIM IF HE PROPOSES. THAT'S WHY I ALWAYS TELL GUYS, IF U HAVE MONEY WHILE FINDING A WIFE, DISGUISE URSELF - I REPEAT:*DISGUISE URSELF*. MOST LADIES FALL IN LOVE BCS OF WOT THEY'LL GAIN. BE CAREFUL IN UR CHOICES PLS.
MR. VICTOR, I FEEL UR PAIN BRO. THANK GOD IT'S ALL WELL WITH U NOW. GOD BLESS U MORE.

SuperMom said...

wow i like. pls say yes o.
we find love in strange places.

SDK FIRST SON said...

She was there when you had nothing, please go ahead and make her your queen.

The only hard storm i see there is your Ex that's her big sis but biko crush her she no get conscience at all

LAS GidDY said...

@Stella, What a counsel!!! I really can imagine those you counsel and the lives they live as a result. Stop living and advising "the oyibo lifestyle"; come back home to our tradition. If you approve of this relationship, has the girl's parents? Or is it you that will grant consent for her marriage rites? Com'on this is absolute TABOO...and no reasonable parents especially the igbos will allow 1 man to marry their 2 daughters on separate occasions, it's not done...not in Igbo land.

3 options for the man
1. Look elsewhere
2. Reconcile with his ex-wife
3. Or remain unmarried for the rest of his life.

Mama Afrika said...

This story is made up. Not true!

IJAY said...

Waooo I don't even know were to start, may God lead u Nna.

Anonymous said...

first to comment yaaaaay. ok, some women are terrible. how can u shoot your marriage to pieces bcos of money. PLEASE THEY SHOULD GO AHEAD.

MISS TRUTH said...

Dear poster, if things happened the way you said it did please please and please don't you ever settle with your ex wife. SHE IS EVIL. Now about you marring your ex wife's sister I say WRONG MOVE. The only way you two can enjoy that marriage if you eventually marry her is IF you two were not eyeing each other and were not intimate while still married to her sister ( nah your side of the story we hear so ) My dear poster God Almighty see's everything. If it is as you stated then....But if not There is DANGER, I see serious spiritual battle ahead. I see danger and it won't end well. #beverycareful.

Blossom said...

Dear posters, I support your decision one hundred percent but just get ready to do battle with family and your ex inlaws cos they will strongly oppose.

The true character of people comes out when there is no money as we saw in the case of your ex wife.

Abeg propose to her and may you both have enough strength to face the coming challenges and come out victorious. I wish you guys well.

Omasiri said...

Chro Chro has landed. Lemme read comments.

nnukwunwanyi said...

I don't even know why,but am with u victor, if all u wrote up here is really how everything happened then,please wife her sharperly and damn any human creature that has negative opinion on ur stand,congrats to the younger sister,one man's food is another man's poison,...But the elder sister get mind oo,i will never dump my husband,cos his down financially, unless he starts wickeding me oooo

Anonymous said...

I say you both get married. Yours wouldn't be the first of such marriages. Life is too short to be unhappy. Your marriage to your ex is dead and it should not determine what you do with your life. I wish you both a happy married life in advance. NB: If your ex wife comes close to the both you, do not hesitate to put her behind bars. She is bad news.

JACINTA MBACHU said...

I agree with Stella, Mr victor just go ahead and propose. Just mind wat d world will say. Congrats in advance 😁

Stella maris Baby said...

What a sad story and a beautiful and Lovely ending..
Good luck Oga..
Congrats in advance..


But Oga the two sisters will be enemies forever.
Na wah oooo
I wonder what will be the reaction of the family mostly your Ex wife.

NwaIgbo said...

Oh! Now some girls will go situate themselves by their Ex-brother-in-laws. If you try it eh the THUNDER...

Iyke Emma said...

Bros go ahead with your plans biko! Who cares what people will say? Where are those people when you were suffering and that girl Ify Baby was there for you? Ify plz say yes... In fact say yes in advance sef. God bless you too.

Anonymous said...

One on of the few times Stella has made sense on chronicles lol..poster go with Stella''s red pen

Mrs. Romas said...

A seed of discord has been sowed in that family, things will never be the same again.
I don't know why some people can not control their sexual desire; call it whatever you like! You see your ex's sister like your younger sister but you went ahead and made love with her. Oh, i forgot, you both were tipsy.

The things that could be avoided. You want to marry your ex wife younger sister! My dear, that joy, happiness, infatuation that you both think you have now will not last.

Anyways, no matter what people will/may say, your mind is already made up. I wish you luck.

bukky said...

Wow luvly story,babe u better hold him tight,never let anyone come between u guys nt even ur parents...

Anonymous said...

Stella,iwe di gi noobi,ha ka osimirri

Anonymous said...

This is a Rachel-Leah and Jacob story. Wow. You guys might be in love but honestly parents blessing is important. Can you fall in love with someone else pls?

nonye jennifer said...

** WE FOUND LOVE IN A HOPELESS PLACE** WE FOUND LOVE IN A HOPE-LESS PLACE!!! I Think Love just happens sometimes..I am happy for you, I would have thought this was straight from a Nollywood movie but then that's Life...Am always in for whatever makes you happy and beautiful...**stella I agree with you** I know a Story My mum Told me about a former neighbor, he said he used to send the younger sister of the gal he intended to marry to give love letter to her elder sister (old school's love now)she was more of an errand girl but at the end of the day, he married the ''messenger'' instead of the ''messagee''.

!!Life! Oh Life!! Oh Lifeee!! (**in Desiree voice)

Ralia the sugar girl said...

Sister to ex wife, if you are reading this, don't do it. God will give you your own man. Don't send your parents to early grave, biko. Ahhhh. Serious taboo!!!

Chiamaka L said...

I just love, Love too much to not love the end of this story... I am with Stella on this (believe me, this is one of the few times I share her opinion). Please love away. You both should be ready for a battle, I sincerely pray the elder sis is not into jazz o. yaaaay... Are BVs invited to the big birthday party? team #MoGboMoYa

Sparkles said...

My fear is that the elder sister may go the primitive African way which is diabolical, it's a sweet story that may spell doom for both of them and what should have brought happiness would not. What a pity!πŸ˜‚
I will read comments...

Anonymous said...

Pls go ahead, there nothing wrong with it.

Anonymous said...

Pls go ahead, there nothing wrong with it.

Anonymous said...

this is the first time i'll ever comment on this blog...Good job i must say Madame Stella....this would be hard for both parties coming out trust me...you dont wanna know how people will condemn the lady in question but then if the one who was called the 'WIFE' who read the vow in poorer and in riches(whatever the word is, im not sure) could act up when He needed her assurance the most, and the new baby was there for him, damn seriously i would care less what the world would say... please enjoy your new life and dont let her go..EVERRRR

Anonymous said...

Pls go ahead, there's nothing wrong with it.

Anonymous said...

Please go ahead. I am married, no big deal baby. You Didn't do anything wrong. You Didn't snatch anybody's husband. You did what God asked us to do. Please please please go ahead and marry her. I know you must read this. I wish I will make it to your wedding. Congratulations!

beautyvile@gmail.com said...

WOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWW, THIS IS HILARIOUS, I DID NOT KNOW WHEN I STARTED CRYING READING THIS CHRONICLE, THE MAN WENT THROUGH HELL, BUT WHY ARE SOME WOMEN LIKE THAT ONLY LOVE WHEN THE GOING IS GOOD, DESPITE THAT THE MAN IS EVEN THE BRAIN BEHIND HER FLYING HIGH, THANK GOD FOR THAT LOVELY SISTER OF HERS WHO STOOD BY THE MAN, I BLESS GOD FOR HER, HONESTLY BECAUSE FRUSTRATION WOULD HAVE KILLED THE MAN. I AM HAVING EQUIVALENT EXPERIENCE IN MY MARRIAGE BUT STALK DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT AND HOW TO GO ABOUT IT, VERY DISHEARTENING THOUGH. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU VICTOR AND YOUR BABE, IT SHALL BE WELL WITH BOTH OF YOU. WHEN I SAW 150M I SHOUTED IN PETE EDOCHIE'S VOICE JESUS MIRACLE STILL HAPPEN. SO HAPPY FOR YOU VICTOR, THE LORD VINDICATED YOU AND MADE YOU VICTORIOUS AND VICTORY. ENJOY YOUR NEW UNION , THIS TIME NO MORE GOING DOWN. ALL THE BEST.

beautyvile@gmail.com said...

WOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWW, THIS IS HILARIOUS, I DID NOT KNOW WHEN I STARTED CRYING READING THIS CHRONICLE, THE MAN WENT THROUGH HELL, BUT WHY ARE SOME WOMEN LIKE THAT ONLY LOVE WHEN THE GOING IS GOOD, DESPITE THAT THE MAN IS EVEN THE BRAIN BEHIND HER FLYING HIGH, THANK GOD FOR THAT LOVELY SISTER OF HERS WHO STOOD BY THE MAN, I BLESS GOD FOR HER, HONESTLY BECAUSE FRUSTRATION WOULD HAVE KILLED THE MAN. I AM HAVING EQUIVALENT EXPERIENCE IN MY MARRIAGE BUT STALK DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT AND HOW TO GO ABOUT IT, VERY DISHEARTENING THOUGH. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU VICTOR AND YOUR BABE, IT SHALL BE WELL WITH BOTH OF YOU. WHEN I SAW 150M I SHOUTED IN PETE EDOCHIE'S VOICE JESUS MIRACLE STILL HAPPEN. SO HAPPY FOR YOU VICTOR, THE LORD VINDICATED YOU AND MADE YOU VICTORIOUS AND VICTORY. ENJOY YOUR NEW UNION , THIS TIME NO MORE GOING DOWN. ALL THE BEST.

Adisa Akomolede said...

Dear Poster,

She is your missing rib, you deserve the very best. You two are in for a long battle but yes you will definitely overcome. Your ex-wife doesn't deserve you a bit, moreover your new girlfriend (ex sister) actually likes you. But now that it is mutual she is just afraid of the out come. Wife her she deserves it.

Iyke Emma said...

I forgot to add that this is one of the reasons some Nigerian men don't want their wives to be working or doing business. Once they start seeing money no RESPEK again, if God come punish you by not having anything doing, Ewooo! Nnaa iwuzi papajassman. You will become the wife.

beautyvile@gmail.com said...

WOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWW, THIS IS HILARIOUS, I DID NOT KNOW WHEN I STARTED CRYING READING THIS CHRONICLE, THE MAN WENT THROUGH HELL, BUT WHY ARE SOME WOMEN LIKE THAT ONLY LOVE WHEN THE GOING IS GOOD, DESPITE THAT THE MAN IS EVEN THE BRAIN BEHIND HER FLYING HIGH, THANK GOD FOR THAT LOVELY SISTER OF HERS WHO STOOD BY THE MAN, I BLESS GOD FOR HER, HONESTLY BECAUSE FRUSTRATION WOULD HAVE KILLED THE MAN. I AM HAVING EQUIVALENT EXPERIENCE IN MY MARRIAGE BUT STALK DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT AND HOW TO GO ABOUT IT, VERY DISHEARTENING THOUGH. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU VICTOR AND YOUR BABE, IT SHALL BE WELL WITH BOTH OF YOU. WHEN I SAW 150M I SHOUTED IN PETE EDOCHIE'S VOICE JESUS MIRACLE STILL HAPPEN. SO HAPPY FOR YOU VICTOR, THE LORD VINDICATED YOU AND MADE YOU VICTORIOUS AND VICTORY. ENJOY YOUR NEW UNION , THIS TIME NO MORE GOING DOWN. ALL THE BEST.

NwaIgbo said...

Oga if all you said is true then I do not see a problem in you wifing her, but I do not trust Naija men. When we hear your wife's story it might be a different gist altogether. Anyway, may God guide you as you make this tough decision.

To the sister-in-law in question, are your ready to be compared to your sister every step of the way? I am no soothsayer, but life has taught me that the grass is truly not greener on the other side. Pray wella girl, because both of you need backing of God to stand firm on your decision. It is well!

ilaka said...

Stella, why do i love you so much? at times ehn, i am tempted to think that you're an angel that is pretending to be a woman. i love your advice sha, keep it up gurl

tiwa said...

Poster, be ready for physical and more of spiritual attack from your ex and her family. Am very sure your family won't like it, eating from the same pot! Anyway,i will advise you be more careful and prayerful this time, so affliction will not come a second time.
Wish you the best, I wish it was a cousin or friend not same blood. In my place where I come from it's forbidden

Anonymous said...

wow. what a story. I see nothing wrong in marrying your Ex wifes sister. she's such a wonderful and nice girl. May Almighty God continue to prosper you.

Musingsofjudgejudyjudy..... said...

Mehn, I agree with Stella o, but she also needs to be prayerful - I have a feeling her sis will go diabolical on you two so both of you should be very, very prayerful.
That's all.

Omah Cindy said...

Stella boo, I'm with you on this one. I once read a novel like this "something borrowed". If it feels right, go ahead and propose and babe, you have to accept his proposal.

beautyvile@gmail.com said...

WOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWW, THIS IS HILARIOUS, I DID NOT KNOW WHEN I STARTED CRYING READING THIS CHRONICLE, THE MAN WENT THROUGH HELL, BUT WHY ARE SOME WOMEN LIKE THAT ONLY LOVE WHEN THE GOING IS GOOD, DESPITE THAT THE MAN IS EVEN THE BRAIN BEHIND HER FLYING HIGH, THANK GOD FOR THAT LOVELY SISTER OF HERS WHO STOOD BY THE MAN, I BLESS GOD FOR HER, HONESTLY BECAUSE FRUSTRATION WOULD HAVE KILLED THE MAN. I AM HAVING EQUIVALENT EXPERIENCE IN MY MARRIAGE BUT STALK DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT AND HOW TO GO ABOUT IT, VERY DISHEARTENING THOUGH. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU VICTOR AND YOUR BABE, IT SHALL BE WELL WITH BOTH OF YOU. WHEN I SAW 150M I SHOUTED IN PETE EDOCHIE'S VOICE JESUS MIRACLE STILL HAPPEN. SO HAPPY FOR YOU VICTOR, THE LORD VINDICATED YOU AND MADE YOU VICTORIOUS AND VICTORY. ENJOY YOUR NEW UNION , THIS TIME NO MORE GOING DOWN. ALL THE BEST.

Empress CHO said...

Dear Poster, thank God you bounced back. I hope you learn to keep off false life and appearances. Live the life you can afford. You were doing well before but you easily got complacent, bow you are about doing the same thing again. You are mildly obssessed with rubbing it in on your ex. That is a miserable way to show gratitude for your new breakthrough.

Learn to invest, multiply your streams of income and live prudently else you will fall back again. About your love interest, i have no time for epistles today. Let Leviticus 18:18 guide you. Live by what is right in God's sight not yours. Goodluck!

Gbogbo Bigz girlz (GBG) said...

Nah wa o.
I can't do this for all the love and money in the world.

He's not the only man in the world biko.

Shola Ojelade said...

As much as I hate to say this and with the available facts u present to us, I think she probably know what she wants and what she is after. Let's say the first sex was a mistake, what about the second one. So uncle, go ahead and marry her she probably deserve you more than her hoe sister.

Anonymous said...

It's going to be a tough battle I really hope u bothare ready. In fighting battles like this the 2 of u MUST stick together while the war is on going and be on the same ship. Good luck to u both. Hope it works out. As for the EX- Hmmmmm no words for u. What goes around comes around

Musingsofjudgejudyjudy..... said...

On a second thought, if your parents in law have been hoping that there would be a reconciliation between your ex and yourself, then I think you should put a stop to this affair- whether the reconciliation takes place or not. It just shows that they had hopes so you doing this will be causing a whole lot of damage and rife in that family.
Please let it go. It is not worth it at all. I think you should settle her and be satisfied with the memories you both have now but, family is everything, the upheaval this will cause is not worth it at all. Please.

Anonymous said...

Pls Oga victor. How can I get a oil and gas work please

Anonymous said...

YOU STILL REMEMBER HOW HER TOTOH TASTES/ABI FEELS LIKE...YOU EVEN COMPARE. HMMM I AM JUST FEELING SORRY FOR THE TIMID ANGEL, I WONDER IF SHE WILL COPE WITH ALL THE COMPARISON YET TO COME.

Anonymous said...

'He who was with me when hope was lost is he who I am with'
This got to me.
Nothing happened between you and her sister while you guys were married. You hit a rough spot and its not like you guys weren't still doing okay, the situation would have been managed if your ex wife had done the right thing but she chose another path. Please do YOU and be happy. Just make sure you talk thongs through with your children. Let them know this isn't a revenge mission, but their mother left you years ago. This wasn't planned, it just happened and you're both very happy.
Who get head nor get cap.
Something similar happened to my husband few months ago and all I know how these things are but despite how overwhelming it gets sometimes, despite how many times i cry and feel so helpless about it, I keep it all away from him cause I cant afford to let him see me weak. It would just break him and I know it wasn't his fault. He was just an unfortunate victim of office politics. However, we have God and I have faith that thongs would work out... Feels so good to open up even though I had to go anon. Lmao.
Thanks for this story poster, I will hang in there. Its darkest just before daybreak!

Anonymous said...

THIS WILL BE MY FIRST TIME EVER COMMENTING ON CHRONICLES BUT I JUST HAD TO BREAK PROTOCOL AND DO THIS! Dear lovely girl, please forget what the world has to say and be happy with Victor!!! You are a rare gem and it is clear that Victor knows this so please don't let him go! Victor, you too, make sure you continue to show your girl love all the days of your lives together and keep God the center and head of your Union! The bible says a man is free to remarry if a spouse commits adultery, it is clear that your ex was committing adultery way before your financial troubles. Ask for forgiveness for the fornication aspect (you and her sleeping together before marriage) but please, propose to her! Babe, accept his proposal. People will say all sorts but like I said, forget about them and focus on both of you! Like Stella said, some Nigerians pretend a lot; they will come now and say all sorts of negative things but in their heart of hearts, they are (probably) wishing they have what you have.


This is just what I feel!

Nicole said...

And that was how everything I typed disappeared! It is well.

Adibuah Felix said...

Oga de, please keep a low profile. Take the smallie for yourself. Marry her. But don't throw it in your ex wife's face.

Trust me; Your ex doesn't think she did anything wrong in the way she treated you. Pls keep a low profile. You have nothing to prove

digileee1 said...

MARRY HIM!!!!! No need to feel guilty

JACINTA MBACHU said...

Just follow Stella advice. Dats all

BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'* said...

All I read was the million million
Chai*jesos*help me God
I have a different mindset though ,but who my mindset epp?hahhahhahhahha*

Spirit said...

Awwhhh this is beautiful. Please marry her, she is a good woman and I love your union.
Please take my spiritual advice .... Poster's sweetheart... please accept his proposal.
Nothing makes me more happy that seeing two beautiful people in real genuine love. Thank you lady for been a good women and been there for David in his time of need. God bless your union.

ZIONA said...

I am with you on this stella, the sister luved him unconditionally, that elder one is pure evil. Marry ur angel jare.

chidinma ujo said...

My dear go ahead and marry him but please be very prayerful and also look for a real man of God that will also back you up anytime.

Pamela Shuga22 said...

live ur life and enjoy ur marriage. do not spoil ur present and future because of someone else's past. HML in advance to u both

Chidinma Grace said...

Pls marry her bc she av a heart of gold. Don't mind any stupid cmment here saying otherwise. Ur ex may cry wolf saying how deceived and jazzed she was bc remember that a thief will always be a thief. That's my own o. Do what makes u happy n from ur write up, ur ex sister makes u happy.

redbotafly said...

Get ready for war o cos ur ex wife wnt give up she mite even resort to jazz so u shud pray real hard.if her parents r in support of u marryin anoda of their dota den go ahead but if they r nt beta leave dem alone o cos blood is thicker dan water.ur kids wil nt only be siblins but cuzins too.

pink lady said...

Dear poster,I thank God for your life.
I hope you want to marry your SIL out of love not because she was there for you when you were down?
I seems you have not gotten over your ex wife. ...wetin concern me sef?

RICHBEE said...

Poster, I will advice you leave her and let her long for someone else.this is not right... Think about your kids(even if you don't want to think about the society) what will you tell them?.. Your step mom is your Aunty?

redbotafly said...

Anon 16:08 God wil suprise u real soon just hang in there.

Stella maris Baby said...

@ Empress CHO,i just read Lev.18:18 and I felt goose bumps..
The Bible condemns marrying your wife's sister why she is still living..

@ Poster it is not easy.
You will surely face battles & challenges with your in-laws.

What do I know.

Anonymous said...

What do you know? In the part of Igbo land where I come from, this happens a lot and it is not a taboo. Yes, sisters from same mother and father marrying same man on different occasions. All this "igbo" foreigners will not ask questions before they talk.

Pearl said...

I agree with stella 100

kinky said...

Lwkmd, how I love dis part of Stella's statement 'If you insult me in the bid to state your own opinion,i will not approve your gutter comment!'. Now to my comment, dis story is very touching and an eye opener to all those fake babes who marry for cash only. Few days ago a lady sent in her wnb on how she n hubby could not afford an hotel for their honeymoon, I remember most of u tongue lashed her, those that abused her are those who will never marry an average guy, they will grab a rich guy and as soon as d money dissapears they are out of d marriage, awon olori buruku somebody. Abeg, oga victor marry d girl o, and bae if u re reading dis biko marry Victor if he proposes. As far as am concern you both deserve each other, u wey don follow am suffer suppose follow am enjoy. Babe, damn whatever people will say, damn your sis, do whatever makes u happy. babe, if u have another side guy that u love more than Victor then say no to Vic but if u no get another boo and u really truly love Vic, marry him. My dad always say "self first is not selfishness", so bae, satisfy yourself First and I can only wish u and Victor a happy ever after. #idropmygoldenpen#

onyeka nnabugwu said...

Omg this is the sweetest story ever.. Victor's babe, you're very lucky biko. Your family may disapprove, but love is love.

Anonymous said...

It is only a taboo on your head. Are you saying it is not God that gave her this one. How did you know that? Educate yourself and stop thinking through your nose.

Cynthia Iyede said...

Mennnn! This is a difficult thing to do. That family may never remain peaceful again. Goodluck to you both.

queen ene said...

Stella I love u so much for dis comment. Naija people with pretend

Ajebo Confidential said...

Okay poster, on your side, nothing do you. Carry on ojare. Divorce finalised and ex already moved on. If your account of the story is 100% honest, no wahala. BUT, I don't trust your SIL. I don't think she's as timid as you assume. She got to know you and you paid her fees through her sister and now, she is sleeping with you. Is she trying to pay her sister back for how she treated you? What's her own business biko? Same Sister that welcomed her to her home and allowed her to receive school fees and chop from her husband. Men have not finished in Nigeria, why you? You think she's timid? Stella, you need to stop romanticising this situation and view it from a more realistic lens. Oga Victor has no fault at all, na that SIL I fear pass anything.

Anonymous said...

Exactly... Especially the 150 million contract 😁😁😁

Anonymous said...

I agree. With you πŸ’―πŸ’―

Lee Josh said...

Stella!!! You killed it with your comment,you spoke everything i gotta say on my mind, and did i hear someone say it's a "TABOO"?? Fvck that shii. Poster please go on with the proposal and enjoy your life. Go for your happiness. Fuck what anyone says about you both.

Vickie Finest said...

God bless you aunties Stella for speaking the truth. Poster, congratulations in advance. Please be prayerful biko.

Adisa Akomolede said...

Can you imagine, someone met a downfall in his triving work and bounced back in ten folds and you are saying he is proud. Please he has bragging rights over his present situation, he deserves to brag a little. He deserves it.

Ajebo Confidential said...

Thank God you read it from a novel. This is real life my dear.

Pearl said...

Their kids will now be cousins+ half siblings....hmm twisted

Obianuju Baby said...

OMG STELLA I LLLLOOOOOVVVVVEEEEE YYYOOOUU. MY RESPECT FOR U DN INCREASE BY ANOTHER 100%,BEST ADVICE EVER

JACINTA MBACHU said...

Don't i mean to say

ukwu dimond said...

If poster you are for real, go ahead and marry her and never you accept that your ex.

congrats to the both of you.

Adisa Akomolede said...

All of you shouting culture and beliefs, are you are this same afformentioned said you should stay with your husband, never divorce even if he mixes tape on your head everyday all because our mothers endured it. Damned be to culture and beliefs. Culture that will want to to remain in abusive relationship.

Obianuju Baby said...

OMG STELLA I LLLLOOOOOVVVVVEEEEE YYYOOOUU. MY RESPECT FOR U DN INCREASE BY ANOTHER 100%,BEST ADVICE EVER

IVORY said...

And I present to you ........ A LEAH-JACOB-RACHEAL story.

Man are u sure her sister isn't the one you see when you guys are getting down? If she is,man! You still love your wife. Anyways,enjoy.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Divine connection, that is what i call this.

I think she or you should go see her parents first before doing any proposal or whatever.

Be ready for all obstacles on the way to this great union.

I just pray it works out fine.

I dey go investigate that your ex wey move on with Auchi man.

All the best

Anonymous said...

Well,in my own opinion, your ex-wife was the architect of her own misfortune. A lot of women are like that.When the man has little challenges,they will speedily desert him, irrespective of the good time they have shared.

Tuscany said...

I totally agree with u stella. At the end of the day, maybe if she wasnt there for you, you would have lost hope. So shes the wife you didnt have and dont make any mistake by letting what people will think stop u. U owe it to yourselves to be happy

Cissy said...

#Eddard Stark: [on Robert Baratheon] You've always hated him.
Cersei Lannister: Hated him? I worshiped him. Every girl in the Seven Kingdoms dreamt about him, but he was mine by oath. And when I finally saw him on my wedding day on the Sept of Baelor, lean and fierce and black bearded was the happiest moment of my life. And then that night he crawled into my bed, stinking of wine, doing what he can, what little he could do. And whispered in my ear "Lyanna." Your sister was a corpse and I was a living girl, and he loved her more than me...

brownsugar said...

It won't last. I agree

badt guy said...

Chai!!!.. U ve no sense of humour.. U be sadist??

Ajebo Confidential said...

Thank you. Me too. No matter what my sister does to her husband I will never get that close to him, even if the first one was a mistake, I won't repeat it. Even if my sister cuts her husbands organ and uses it for rituals. Let her go to prison and my family will handle hospital bill. But I cannot come and go and marry an ex BIL. Hian.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry but this your option 2 and 3 is out of it.. You,can you go back to someone that left you years ago for someone else while you were suffering? Van you? Some pple be advising what they can't take. Rubbish!

badt guy said...

Hahaha.... U don just turn the man to family fucker...lol

Jennifer Lawrence said...

It's not bad abeg.....they hooked up after the divorce

badt guy said...

U don hear 9 figures liquid cash why u no go want man like am?... Come date me... I'm nice like him only without the money

Martins Aboy said...

I dont know about others;but i cant and will never be with an "Ex's" friend,sister or cousin;soo long as i got to know them through the said "Ex"..

To me,its respect!! And that is what i do really care about...

#my opinion...

@poster,we all see life in different ways;and if you really do care less about the world or what they say;then go ahead!! So long as it is owkay with her as well..

Afterall;people would always see/understand things in their own perspective/perception..

#Goodluck

@MARTINS ABOY

Jennifer Lawrence said...

Which taboo?my neighbour married 2 sisters as 1& 2 wives and they are igbo....abeggii

Drealbarbz said...

U're wise!

DonMayor said...

Oga ! Go ahead and do whatever you like. Welcome back to life.
#SecondRoundKnockout

Anonymous said...

I can't even read comments, i want to quickly say that i'm so happy for you both. She deserves you and more. Hey girl, i love ur good heart. Don't even feel guilty one bit okay. I'm so happy for you like i know you. Both of you should make sure u invite Jesus into ur lives so what happened before won't happen again. All i want you to care about is how God feels not people. No other girl deserves the ring other than this girl here. Wish the both of you all the happiness God has to offer. If ur family don't agree to ur marriage, just do a church wedding, better still Mr Man, use money and buy those village uncles and watch them speak in ur favour.

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

I have seen and heard about men who marry their wife's sibling some even without divorcing the first wife- and they all live sadly ever after. Stolen water is sweet and bread eaten in secret is pleasant. Give us wisdom Dear Lord!

Anonymous said...

Where were they when their daughter packed into another man's life with her children.. what role did they play when the divorce proceedings were on? Abeggi!!! Victor should go ahead with the SIL jare..

CHESKA said...

Hmmm.... Am just imagining the eternal battline that will be drawn between the children of these two sisters. Do you both have the strength to withstand the generational hatred that will be grown by this union.Its a beautiful story and i wish it didnt come in such a package. Just think of the cousins that will share a father forever SMH....

Anonymous said...

Love is not jealous, it is Godly. So reflect your actions in the light of God's word and determine if what you are doing or about to do is right.

JAMES ADE said...

Bros, I tell u. They fall in love when things are fine and when things are tough, they will give the world a reason to leave. Bro infact if U need me to help U propose to her, holla me

ufeedoh said...

Poster abeg do it already. Love is a beautiful thing, love is patient, kind. From reading this I felt the love you have for your girl. I personally hate women who run out of guys that got broke thinking they are God. You are on the right track and I wish you the very best. Enjoy the good woman God has blessed you with.

Jennifer Lawrence said...

God has given it to her already and it's victor.....Poster if u re reading this marry her and neva look back ur union is blessed already.

Miss Juliet said...

Stella has said it all..marry d girl already,don't mind wat ppl will say...if d papa no gree accept bride price make he forget am..u will be 45,better enjoy your life cos u never start..leave d wicked woman with her customer,she will still come begging

Drealbarbz said...

Huh?😞

Now I'm convinced we have very few believers on dis blog. Imagine d comments? Eww!
Dear Sil,pls do not go continue with dis unhealthy relationship, it is all shades of WRONG! In the eyes of God and man.
There are a million & one other single guys with no baggage out there, go for them. Forget about Victor, u won't find peace with him. Also get ready to be alienated by your family, dats for sure.
This impending union is doomed to fail, it just won't work!
Pls seek the face of God concerning this with a clear conscience, u'll get the answer u seek. Sometimes love isn't enough.

ZARAM said...

Because Stella said marry her. Everyone is saying marry her. Are you for real.

Dear poster. Please look for another woman and marry. She is not the only woman in the world. If her sister is dead, it will be a different case, but the woman is alive for Christ sake. Can I remind you that her sister was your reason of knowing her family. I agree to the fact that she has been good to you when the going was tough but you have also compensated her with gifts and kindness.

Let her go.

Life is too short to allow stress becloud you where there is suppose to be peace. Even though the elder sister has left, I tell you she is still part of you because she had children for you. Think of how your children will feel about your action tomorrow. If you are leaving in Nigeria, Be ready to face the society with hatred.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

I tried to be angry, but I can't be.
Biko, you guys can marry if you make yourselves happy. I can't shout.
The wife no try at all. See better man?!! The sister likes you from the onset but she didn't know how to covet you because of respect for her sister. However, the fact that she stood by you through trying times makes me cut cap for her.
Na wa oh! This life.... Be ready to fight a tough battle sha. It is well.

Anonymous said...

Was it not Jacob who married two sisters?

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

I'm still honestly trying to feel bad, but I can't. Really. Marrying two sisters I don't supports but what's one to do in this situation?
Abeg.... Let me make a cup of tea.

Anonymous said...

It's a criminal offence to write in all CAPS. Stop it or face the law!

Drealbarbz said...

As u read to the end or as u read Stella's comment?πŸ˜’
"Follow follow syndrome",SMH.

kuluwa ibrahim said...

HMMMM!
Decisions to be made and repercussions that would follow:-
1) Dear Victor has made up his mind but what will be the relationship between your kids and hers(sister in law)
2) As the kids get older (from former wife)they can be fed with stories that will in the long run cause bad blood between you and your kids
3) In laws can go diabolical on you and her ...are you all ready for this
4) Cultural acceptance and how it's being treated

You all are getting older and wiser, hopefully weigh your options as I cannot say /write how you both feel as I have no idea but feel sorry for you Victor being that the period you needed your ex-wife the most she truly messed up.

Take the wise words of all who make sense and please ask The Almighty to guide you both. God bless, will be praying for you both.


King Mary said...

@poster, employ me in one of ur firms....

popeyes said...

I wonder how all these people screaming 'Wow! Love story!' would feel if their younger sister or brother starts a relationship with their Ex? Una go like am? Be careful what you wish for others, cos it may just as well happen to you. This story is totally WRONG!!!! If the woman was dead, it could even be tolerable but she isnt! Are you all now saying, it is right for your sibling to date your ex boyfriend/girlfreiend who broke your heart????

Drealbarbz said...

Very childish and conceited. Mtcheeww!
Victor pls settle that lady(ex sil)and move on with your lives.
Ahn ahn! Of all the ladies in the world?πŸ˜•
Dis is pure retaliation, nothing more.

Mrs James said...

Abeg.. Please go on with the younger Sister. The elder sister wasn't meant to be. .

I guess this is how God wanted you to meet your missing rib..

Happy for you both...

Learn to be more prayerful cause the sister will retaliate

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