In this day and age of wills and enlightenment??? They never born the person wey go try this with me , God forbid should the unfortunate happen!!
Stella good morning, please check your spelling of "wife" and correct it.The Enenche's already denied the report.
End time TF
Common! This isn't fair at all. Some in-laws sef. I believe the pastor will do something about thism
What is this world turning into. This is so sad. Widows are always persecuted in our land and it has got to stop. My prayers are with this woman
Seriously, people seem to think someone calling himself a pastor means he is humane, kind, compassionate or even an average human being with conscience. The plight of women in Nigeria, is a terrible thing. Pastor make true your calling O..... On a lighter note:This is what being thrown out of your matrimonial home looks like. Not all those Nigerian movies where two hand luggage are thrown out with the woman. That is after she had been wearing all the high heels, gele, Senegalese and all what not and strutting round the house before then.
Stella how can the pastor intervene when he's dead??? 😑😑
OYANU ENENCHE, COME AND EXPLAIN TO BVNS BEFORE WE MOVE OVER TO ABUJA.
This is wrong!The woman be there doing all is well when she should be fighting for what is hers Because there's no child between them so what? Oh this is annoying me in a very personal way.
Please leave my pastor out of this biko,must he respond sef,haba himself na human being na abi na only him dey the family,cos na pastor now na him name dey go first call.mtcheww
What will warrant such a treatment from inlaws apart from outright accusation of murder.This is all they always come up with,"she killed her husband" Even when they don't have proof.Or maybe they don't just "like" her(which is irrelevant here).I don't know the head and tail of this story,being childless should not even be a reason for throwing out her things.Were they not legally married? Is the sole reason of marriage procreation? Was she not a companion to him? A builder,a gatherer....This is why having a Will early is imperative.Let me just wait for Pastor Enenche's response.
This is sad/wrong.The man no write will, abi him no show am love for him will?.... Any which way, this is wrong
Is this an attempt to soil Dr Eneche's name or what? This writer deviated from the issue at hand and kept mentioning Eneche's family, pastor Paul, was she married to pastor Eneche or his brother?
Saw it too on fb,
Nawa o. This is sheer wickedness
She shld sue them immediately. O ga o
Women always at d receiving end. Lets see what Dunamis go talk,since there are always 2 sides to a story.
This is certainly not true. Read somewhere that the woman decided to leave on her own. I can't judge but there are two sides to the story.
And they are all orokam people ooo,people don't act like this in this place.Enenche Paul should call his evil sister to order,she is a woman too.
And they are all orokam people ooo,people don't act like this in this place.Enenche Paul should call his evil sister to order,she is a woman too.mother to babies or not,they both worked for almost all the properties,so she should be taken care of.
This is unfair naWhat if the cause of the childlessness was from their brother I thought things like this only happen in nollywood They had better put a stop to this nonsense
Why must it be d woman's fault all d time, abi they've not heard of low sperm count. I doubt of this is true, I think there is more to it... that
Quite sad and inhumane . Maybe they are afraid she will fall in love and marry another man that will take over everything their son had toiled for
Na waoooh,a man should leave his mother and father and cling onto his wife.it doesn't matter if there is a child or not.what did I know sef?
What they did is so wrong and unacceptable. The woman herself was not smart . She did not safe guard her future in her husband's house . Since she had problem having a child, she should have gotten a younger sister or a close relation or her friend to marry her DH, someone she is comfortable with. I have seen many places where it was done and everyone live happily ever after.Her only hope now is to go to the Nigerian courts.
*shakes head * if this can happen to a pastors wife then what is the faith of the common wife. I do hope she has a job or business she is doing. Its because of issues like this that I do not support women leaving their jobs to become full time housewives. It never occurs to the family of the man that the house could as well be the woman's sweat.
This is why I hate pentico churches,they are just business centres founded by money seeking individuals
Is this not Pastor Paul Enenche of Dunamis Church?I don't know how true is this story shaa.
The family released a statement saying its not true. They said the rent in that house expired in July. Nobody will throw you out without a 6 months notice. Somebody is lying o. I'm thinking the family.
Read this story on Facebook. It is so sad...there's no justification for this wicked act!😠😡
This is not nice at all.
Benue people are very unforgiving and wicked. With their backwards customs and traditions. The hate and envy in those people is out of this world. The three tribes Tiv, Idoma and Igede don't even love themselves to begin with. They hardly marry one another. Tiv marry Tiv, Idoma marry Idoma and Igede marry Igede. Very few people like Pastor Paul who is Idoma married outside his tribe. So I am not shocked at this news. No be Idoma people again?
The family have responded though. I read their response and they have debunked this story. Na wa
I listened to this stuff on d radio yesterday and what annoyed me the most was the presenter was busy saying women should insist on court marriage so as to ve a right to thr husband's property. This is what u get in a society whr marriage is everything, instead of them to advice women to work hard and acquire thr own properties, married or single. The family should not ve thrown her out, however since there is no child between them, it ll be very hard for her to get anything cos death has parted her and the man and there are no further ties. I don't know what the law says tho
Paul eneche is aware, I can bet on this. Shame to the Eneche family. Enemies in the household. The woman should fight for her right. I wonder what he will tell his members when he mount the pulpit to preach. Shame again to him and his family
This is really sad. It's rather unfortunate but if a woman lives or is married to a man and does not have any children in such a union, the woman should prevent such an occurrence by building her own home or preparing for eventualities like this. If she was in a developed country, she would have been entitled to the house, being the wife. Since this is in Nigeria, it's sad and she needs to find alternative accommodation because the people who did this to her are baying for blood and her life is more precious than some dilapidated house. I feel really sorry for her and wish her a better life.
Anon 8.27 you share my view somewhat. Even in a developed country, once there are no children, it's over. Probably a huge pay-off and a rented place for a year or so. I feel sorry for the woman. At least the family should have had the decency to rent her a place for the time being.
Anony, apart from the fact that he is the leader of a massive church like Dunamis,he is also the surviving brother to the deceased. Will he fix issues of others and leave his own hanging?He is a man I respect totally, I'm sure he will definitely intervene and tell their own side of the story justly.
This is the height of it! How can they pack her things outside her home; the home she built with her husband. They have no right!And the brother inlaw who is also a pastor is aware of this. I don't really know what to say about this.
Lemme call my friend who is related abeg...can't be believing these online stories cuz their family seems calm n trouble-free..
*Heaves a sigh of relief*
Who told u d pastor doesn't know? U do be surprised hun
What is this one talking about ? Swetin concern work and what d coupled worked hard for....doesn't matter if both or one of them was working. So you think death parted them for the man's family to take everything. Like you said you don't know the law so zip your mouth.
It's so unfortunate that l am from this part of the world where widows are been treated like slaves,when a man dies it's always the woman that should be subjected to ill-treatment from her so called in laws,this is a hopeless situation but this poor widows needs to be supported. That's why people should check the culture of any one they want to marry,is the woman God that gives children...arrant nonsense.There was a case of an esan man that passes away,his family members could not wait for his funeral,came to his house which when he was alive never came to,packed all his belongings,bank cards and leaving the poor woman with pregnancy,people are so callous.this babaric act needs to stop.
Lol even the make up bag and the soup pot spoon.
Imagine! Because she didn't give him a child? What if it was him who couldn't give her a child? By the way, madam ur loads plenty o, all na clothes???😱😱
Fool. Ode, idiot James.
Bitter mother, does the above picture look like someone that's leaving on her own? May u leave like that on your own.
Wicked people everywhere.God is nt sleepin n wil judge everyone accordingly.
She was referring to the deceased brother who is also a pastor.
Yes they will call his name because he is a man in that family and nothing can be done without him knowing, if he was not part of it he should have fought for her.
You must be very myopic in your thinking.How can Nigeria move forward with this kind of thinking?Tell me where in the world there is no hate?For your information,there are lots of inter tribal marriages in benue,so get your facts right before spewing rubbish.
My dear, thank you o. Benue people no be am at all. Very wicked set of people with zero reverence for matrimony.
Hahahahahaaaa in nollywood they always have 1bag (ghana must go)!
Read and comprehend mumu...., go back to the post and read again
@James, the man was a pastor.
That's a blatant lie. Sometimes you need to ask questions before coming up with comments a silly as this. You are obviously not from benue hence your reasoning.
Yes they should insist on a civil marriage.
so dis on nairaland earlier dis week...i was shocked....pastor paul is one man of God i really love listening to...He should sha act fast before his reputation is dragged in d mud...he silence on d matter sha is wat i don't really understand...
Otukpa generally will always take everything from the wife once the husband dies not minding if the woman has children or not. I was thinking since the enenche family are Christians such will not come up but I'm not surprised. God forbid otupka husband abeg even if he is a Pope.
It's well in the well
This woman again? I fear you madam I really do! Madam were u thrown out or you parked out yourself? Is it a lie that your rent has expired n so this is you trying to make sure your in laws pay the rent? Madam fear the God you serve ooo fear him. Na wah for people.
I don't believe this story pls. Pst Eneche will never be part of this. Will wait till he responds biko.
its not true she wasn't thrown out,her rentage expired nd d owners of d houz ask ha to liv not d enenche's family
I don't know why most pastors suffer from childlessnes I said it Here before.
Your pastor is as fake as any thing wasn't he aware there were going to throw her out,? You think they would do such a thing without his concert.
I dnt know what happened but as far as it has to do with God's servant rev paul enenche, this issue is resolved...He is a true man of God
Rolex Retard may the wrath of God visit you for speaking against his anointed,and I'm not the anon above,cussed English.
If this story is true, then i don't think Pastor Enenche is part of this callous act. What if the late husband had azz
If this story is true, then i don't think Pastor Enenche is part of this callous act. What if the late husband had azoospermia? This is just wrong.
Please is not the same in every part of Nigeria. All family are not the same! A lot of women in Nigeria have loss their husbands and still lives in the home they built with their husband.Lets be honest and stop targeting and generalising all Nigerians as one. Things like this mostly happen in the Eastern part of Nigeria (although this people happen to be from Benue).Many women lives in their husbands house peacefully after their husbands demise.In the abroad that most Nigerians always refer to; (I live in the abroad and i am married to one of the abroad people) a married woman who loss her husband without an issue, usually leaves her husbands house but with an agreed settlement.They will settle the woman and she can only take what they acquired together during the time of their marriage. Except if the man willingly willed the house/properties to the wife.
Please people should stop dragging Pst Paul Enenche's name in this story. Stella, she was not thrown out of the house, she decided to leave on her own,do u know that the family had to pay off debt incurred by the church and all,in short the five bedroom flat rent expired since July.Besides,the family is not poor in anyway they are blessed. If u look at the pics very well,u would know there's an atom of foul play. Let God be the judge though,but please let them take Pst Paul's name out of it.
Please anon, understand that he has a moral obligation to settle this. No one is saying he lead the people who did this or was even in on this horrible plan but he has to step in and settle this. You cant settle issues amidst your flock while your own home is on fire.
Rolex please dont say what you dont know, how sure are you that he is fake
Rolex oooo 😅😅😅😅😅😅Concert = consentThere = thatI love you still
As BIG as your head is,not even a small brain rests in it. ODE.
As BIG as your head is not even a small brain rests in it. ODE
She confirmed the story her self. All he doubting thomases
It is well. Can't judge coz we don't know the real story . Plus I don't think pastor Eneche will be involved in this kind of thing
I find this really hard to believe
MY NAME IS OYANU ENENCHE and this unfortunate story is about my wonderful, loving and compassionate family the press have been misrepresenting due to someone's selfish and unprofitable gain. I would have loved to answer this call out in a more official way but of what need would that be when the family have released an official statement and the world wide Web have taken a stand. People needs to carefully understand a situation and ask for clarification before passing a judgement that could be termed bias. THE ENENCHE's are not poor, the ENENCHE's have built houses for the less privileged, The ENENCHE's have fed mouth that needed food and clothed those that needs clothing's. I have not seen anyone in my family who would go and throw a widow out of her husbands house,not to talk of our own late brothers wife. Wait why would any of the ENENCHE's do that? I wouldn't like to repeat what my brother has already put out but like he said, and I am still saying and will continue to say, NOBODY DROVE GRACE ANNE or put her loads out. All this was carefully put together to rubbish the good name of the ENENCHE's. Forget about the ENENCHE's for now, just the great grand children of Chief DE ENENCHE are well enough and blessed by God's grace to take care of needs. Why would they drive her out and what property are they talking about? Please don't let misinformation and misrepresenting of fact blind your sense of true judgement. We are a family already blessed by only the grace of God and Satan can not pull us down. Please the information passed to the press is wrong. Am replying to this because I am a blog visitor with my name showing in full, and already I can people's comments who have already fallen for this cheap cooked up joke. This is orchestrated from the pit of hell and like the bible said, this too shall pass. It is up to anyone to believe whatever they want to believe. It's not going to be too long, truth will prevail over all the lies. Don't be in a rush to conclusions, all the accusations against the ENENCHE's were deliberately cooked up to tarnish the good image of the name. I wont be replying on this issue again.Please pardon my typos. OYANU ENENCHE.
This is the experience of Anti-feminists. While other women demand respect and liberation, some others allow themselves to be insulted. Pick up the pieces and start over ON THE RIGHT FOOT!
People just stay chatting rubbish....what do you mean by parted ways?where was the family when she was building with her husband?rubbish tradition of grabbing properties.God will judge them!
Mrs Romas kindly try and register in Night school in 'the abroad' you live.Your English can give one migraine. Good points you gave there, but ur reading and understanding it was a challenge.
Women without children are always victimised in this our continent.If it is true then this is so wrong!
Ure a fool...dats all I can say.
Shame d family and stop being tribalistic...see ur shitty reasoning
@ oyanu eneche. Thank you for coming to clarify. But you cannot simply deny the allegations without any explanation. You have said 1. Your family is not poor2 your family did not kick her outBut you have not told us why bags are outside and what really brought about the whole story. You vae only denied the story. So what happened. Has she left the house? Did she leave of her own accord? Why is her load outside?We Nigerians know that it is not only for money in laws can maltreatment a widow. So what really happened. Thanks.
James please what kind of stupid solution is that? So if you marry and can't give birth your sister or relative will marry as second wife? What kind of backward behaviour is that? They should have adopted children there are so many in motherless babies home. WHAT IF SHE DOES NOT WANT TO SHE HER HUSBAND? OR BETTER YET the man should have had a will and willed it all to his wife. Period.
Story, that you are rich doesn't Change the fact that you are greedy, wealth and greed are two different things. Return the house to the lady, why didn't you guys drive her out when the husband was alive
Hahahaha e Don pain them, anon no worry na we get dictionary I dey feel you
Only a fool will believe dt response from the family rep.
Rich family.Built houses for others.Lives in a rented apartment.#iammotunderstanding
I don't usually reply to call out because i can't be replying to faceless people on net.@anonymous 11:28, since Speaking English is your problem, continue to break, lunch, brunch and dine with it.As for me, i don't need English to succeed. By the way, where i leave, i need the language more than English. #Hiss.
@Oyanu please explain the pictures, what happened or add a link to the statement released by the family. I could not really get your explanation, how is ur late brother's wife, are u guys in good terms?
At anon, where is the evidence that she built with him?
Pastor enenche not involved? But it happened in his family and he kept quiet? Pls his silence is because it is okay with him.
He already did up there, saying his family is rich bla bla but greedy enough to rob a widow of she and her husband's sweat.I am so pissed off.
Waiting for pastor enenche'a reply with you dear,that is if the "holyspirit"will not ask him to keep quiet.
To think the reply I saw was signed by the man's nephew(sister's son). A supposedly married sister and a son born elsewhere.
The rent expired and the pastor Paul enenche's family are now the new landlord to evict the tenant?
I read it and the story did not make sense. The rent expired and they took up the duty to throw her out of the house like she cannot afford to pay her house rent if she wants to,Go home and stay with her people for 6months in mourning like she is a child who does not know what it means send a woman home.I hope pastor enenche remembered what the bible said about treating a widow bad,I hope it does not take him experiencing it before he does what is right.
Oyanu, would she be insane to throw her things outside? Meanwhile, you addressed nothing; you only praised your family which shows you are arrogant and I doubt if you aren't part of the team who did the throwing out
Pay for rent you mean? When her source of income which is the church was taken, how then is she expected to pay her rent? Let the people who took the church and asked her to stay away from her source of income pay her rent.I so hate to see where people are being maltreated for something they can't help.
Was the church taken away from her? How then is she supposed to get money for her rent when they have no other source of income but the church? I know because you guys love pastor Paul enenche,and you don't like that all this revolves around him but our sense of reasoning should not depart from us. I love pastor paul but this is about humanity and we should not cuddle another and throw away another.
Fear God abeg. Rent expired in July. A woman mourning and owners asked her to leave less than a week after burial biko shut up.
Part of the lies.
oyanu u better shut up,we all kw wat happened,pst enenche. is. not involved but all of u daat re step brothers n sisters to. pst enenche incluudg u re all involved,chief eliagwu enenches cildren re very many,pst enenches mums children re oonly 4,so just shut up!did u say y'all re rich liar,ok y was late pst odiba living in a rented apartment n his ministry owing according to d press release byy ur family,u just kip quiet let grace mourn hher hubby,remember he married her whhen she was just in ss2,and u pple treated her like dis,feaar God oh
Oyanu, did she throw her own stuff out? You write up makes no sense
let me tell you..true storyAfter a long battle with cancer, a young man of 40 years old died. The wife went through a very difficult time..because they had traveled every where. She left everything to take care of him for years.. The man decided to come home to die. They ensure they had good quality time with there baby they had waited on God for years after marriage. The man told the woman where everything was and who is owing him money...about the business etc.Then the man died on a friday, the sharp woman did not tell anyone...although very emotional she decided to be practical. She called a trusted friend..they packed all the documents..cars and valuables to hide somewhere else.Then she called her inlaws. Fast forward to the day of the funeral..the inlaw came to there house and started ransacking the house... asking her..where she packed the car. The woman feigned as if she does not know what they are talking about...Women you need to get wise. No one should have the audacity to chase you out unless your husband will state so.
This excerpt is from the FAMILY RESPONSE ON NAIRALAND. Sammoses Odiba Enenche, a promising and fast rising man of God suddenly met his death without illness. Glory to God for a family who without doubt and suspicion received the sad news of their brothers demise from his wife at mid night and decided to make all arrangements to lay his body to rest in peace without medical procedures of autopsy as required in our present times.WHAT DO YOU MEAN WITHOUT ANY QUESTION..OR AUTOPSY YOU BURIED...YOU ARE ALREADY ACCUSING HER! ALSO IN A COUNTRY WHERE THINgs ARE WORKING..YOU DONT HAVE THE RIGHT TO ASK FOR AN AUTOPSY..only the wife can give a consent.OUR PEOPLE ARE VERY IGNORANT...THERE ARE MANY REASONS WHY PEOPLE DIE SUDDENLY. ISCHEMIC HEART ATTACK..MYOCARDIAL INFARCTION..PULMONARY EMBOLISM.. MULTIPLE ORGAN FAILURE AS A RESULT OF INFECTION....many many.. MOST NIGERIA WITH BLOOD PRESSURE DONT EVEN KNOW IT TILL THEY HAVE AN ISSUE.Women need to fight back...Recently a woman with 2 chidlren was chased outside of her maltrimonial home..and the only house her children ever lived..no money..the only thing she got to take care of her children was an account the family did not know about..she had to plan with bank manager to get the money..which she had to share with the manager! Please start calling out any family that does this!
Pst eneche and his family cannot do a thing like this.
Thats very bad a woman dt spend her 23yrs of her life with her late husband should not be treated dis way. God is watching everybody.
Ohhh my! They did not even allow her time to grieve her husband! Too sad. I pray it all gets sorted out
Dear Oyanu; Obviously, you are the daughter of this so called senior sister that slapped a member for crying during the burial... Also, it is your brother that responded on behalf of the Eneche's when he is not an eneche... You guys both your mum and siblings should stay away from causing conflicts in other people home in the name of being an Eneche as your relationship with them is through your mother, you are not a direct Eneche. Also, it baffles me that you as a lady is watching such undesirable scenario playing out and you support it... Do you know what it takes to get married and stay in marriage ? Obviously you are not married.. The evil men do today... Follows them directly or indirectly; today it is your uncle's wife being maltreated.. Tomorrow ... Whose turn will it be... Pls say No to the maltreatment of your uncles widow...
Charity begins at home... If a widow is passing through this drama in a renowned Christian home; then, where dies the hope/salvation of women married to unbelievers or church goers lie...??? This is sad in deed
Exactly, they forget that this death to have happened to anybody including their mother... How can nephews/nieces from mother's be causing problems in another man's home... It is well
Walahi this James is just a retard. Deplorably moronic retard.
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