STAND ALONE NARRATIVE.. MARRIAGE AND PREGNANCY ISH
Stella, i have been following your blog since 2013 when lanre sued you and your epic reply and i introduced my wife to this blog.
Kindly hide my identity
Never would I have thought that I would be replying a chronicle, but like I told my wife, a chronicle is not complete without hearing from the other side.
Now back to why am doing this,
I love my wife with all I have and all I will be, but this does not mean I should stoop low to play childish games.
My wife reported sick about 2 days before travelling for POP, i went to a registered pharmacist, complained abt the symtoms my wife was feeling and i was given Proguanil for treating malaria
i had to even go online to confirm if it was the right drug for Pregnant women, came back home begged madam to take it, she refused till the next day, she finally took it
later that evening, she started feeling better, she even attested to it. the next day she travelled for POP but forgot to take along the drug. i called her throughout her journey,
she complained she was tired, journey was long etc, she finally got to there in the evening, told her to have some rest, go get food and get the drug (Proguanil) she said she would get it the next day.
i had my reservations but i let it slide, by 7pm she called to say she was going for the POP dinner and wouldnt waste time only for her to call me at past 11pm that she just got back to her lodge
i was furious but didnt react at least she was safe and oK, fast forward after the POP she came back on a friday, i got home with smiles all over my face, all she gave me was a blank.
, no hug, no kiss nothing Stella, na im i kon de think wetin i do again, i start to de ask madam, how far wetin happen, what i do? after like 1 hour, she said she is very sick. Ah ahhhh should we go to the hospital?
she said NO, it was late. Tor! i said ok , tomorrow we go. Now i was relieving my boss as he wasnt around so i told her that morning that between 10 and 11am i would take her to hospital, let me report and take excuse, she nodded ok.
Only for me to get to work and around 9am my dad called me to tell me my FIL was suggesting she comes back home since i dont have time to take care of his daughter.
Stella i no go lie, i went bunkers. My wife doesnt have a terminal illness, she is just few weeks pregnant, she just came back yesterday, we are going to hospital this morning, why would he call my dad? i was furious.
Wetin man go do na, i just coordinate myself got home around 11, babe oya make we go hospital, she no gree, beg am for 1 hour, she still no gree o, she say my work important pass, na beg i beg am o when i tire, i went back to work na.
Later that evening her younger sis called her to tell me that her dad said i should call him. She later woke me up around 11pm that she wanted drip!!! i had to call a neighbor nurse but she said she wasnt around.
Stella, na im dat last fuse blow, What???? Why should I call him? I told them off, i wasnt calling him and that i have lost the respect I have for him.
Now Stella, my questions were these?
1. why didnt he call me in the first place to confirm the plans i have for his daughter?
2. Why would he suggest she comes back home?
3. Why didnt he tink it better to send the younger sister or Mum?
4. this was the same man that told me more than 4 times he wasnt going to interfere in my marriage
5. This was the same man that called us 4am during our honey moon that he had a dream that his daughter was raped and how i should take care of his daughter and not allow bad boys do nonsense to his daughter meanwhile, we were in one of the best hotels in lagos.
Stella, honestly i just tire for this matter. Pregnancy is supposed to be a thing of Joy not quarrel. The matter plenty but i hope with this few points of mine i have been able to convince you and not confuse you that i didnt mean any harm (*side eyes*), i just dont like the way her father took it.
wetin i wan talk again?so upon my red pen in caps,she still pass back drink the Melecin?..Please try to manage her well.Women are really funny and difficult during pregnancy.If you hear what some men went thru eh.
As for your pokenosing FIL,abeg take am easy,hes just worried about his little girl..na so e dey be oh,when you get your own you go understand berra.
Una don settle i hope? *side eyes*
Meanwhile stop self medication,especially during pregnancy oh...HIAN!