HIAN!!!...Na wah!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE.. MARRIAGE AND PREGNANCY ISH
Dear Stella,
Stella, i have been following your blog since 2013 when lanre sued you and your epic reply and i introduced my wife to this blog.
Kindly hide my identity
Never would I have thought that I would be replying a chronicle, but like I told my wife, a chronicle is not complete without hearing from the other side.
Now back to why am doing this,
I love my wife with all I have and all I will be, but this does not mean I should stoop low to play childish games.
My wife reported sick about 2 days before travelling for POP, i went to a registered pharmacist, complained abt the symtoms my wife was feeling and i was given Proguanil for treating malaria
i had to even go online to confirm if it was the right drug for Pregnant women, came back home begged madam to take it, she refused till the next day, she finally took it
later that evening, she started feeling better, she even attested to it. the next day she travelled for POP but forgot to take along the drug. i called her throughout her journey,
she complained she was tired, journey was long etc, she finally got to there in the evening, told her to have some rest, go get food and get the drug (Proguanil) she said she would get it the next day.
i had my reservations but i let it slide, by 7pm she called to say she was going for the POP dinner and wouldnt waste time only for her to call me at past 11pm that she just got back to her lodge
i was furious but didnt react at least she was safe and oK, fast forward after the POP she came back on a friday, i got home with smiles all over my face, all she gave me was a blank.
, no hug, no kiss nothing Stella, na im i kon de think wetin i do again, i start to de ask madam, how far wetin happen, what i do? after like 1 hour, she said she is very sick. Ah ahhhh should we go to the hospital?
she said NO, it was late. Tor! i said ok , tomorrow we go. Now i was relieving my boss as he wasnt around so i told her that morning that between 10 and 11am i would take her to hospital, let me report and take excuse, she nodded ok.
Only for me to get to work and around 9am my dad called me to tell me my FIL was suggesting she comes back home since i dont have time to take care of his daughter.
Stella i no go lie, i went bunkers. My wife doesnt have a terminal illness, she is just few weeks pregnant, she just came back yesterday, we are going to hospital this morning, why would he call my dad? i was furious.
Wetin man go do na, i just coordinate myself got home around 11, babe oya make we go hospital, she no gree, beg am for 1 hour, she still no gree o, she say my work important pass, na beg i beg am o when i tire, i went back to work na.
Later that evening her younger sis called her to tell me that her dad said i should call him. She later woke me up around 11pm that she wanted drip!!! i had to call a neighbor nurse but she said she wasnt around.
Stella, na im dat last fuse blow, What???? Why should I call him? I told them off, i wasnt calling him and that i have lost the respect I have for him.
Now Stella, my questions were these?
1. why didnt he call me in the first place to confirm the plans i have for his daughter?
2. Why would he suggest she comes back home?
3. Why didnt he tink it better to send the younger sister or Mum?
4. this was the same man that told me more than 4 times he wasnt going to interfere in my marriage
5. This was the same man that called us 4am during our honey moon that he had a dream that his daughter was raped and how i should take care of his daughter and not allow bad boys do nonsense to his daughter meanwhile, we were in one of the best hotels in lagos.
Stella, honestly i just tire for this matter. Pregnancy is supposed to be a thing of Joy not quarrel. The matter plenty but i hope with this few points of mine i have been able to convince you and not confuse you that i didnt mean any harm (*side eyes*), i just dont like the way her father took it.
*Sigh*
wetin i wan talk again?so upon my red pen in caps,she still pass back drink the Melecin?..Please try to manage her well.Women are really funny and difficult during pregnancy.If you hear what some men went thru eh.
As for your pokenosing FIL,abeg take am easy,hes just worried about his little girl..na so e dey be oh,when you get your own you go understand berra.
Una don settle i hope? *side eyes*
Meanwhile stop self medication,especially during pregnancy oh...HIAN!
Not cool, remember poster you will be an in-law one day.
ReplyDeleteAlway respect ur elders
ReplyDelete22:09 I agree with you, that is why it is good to come from a good family who cares about you, if not some men will feel they have the license to treat you anyhow. Mtcheeew
ReplyDeleteMaybe I am the only one who feels the girl is overly acting up..
ReplyDeleteShe's probably a pampered spoilt brat...
Look at how she refused to take her drugs, refused to go to the hospital again etc etc... She sounds like a child who got pregnant..
That's why I believe 26/27 is the prime age for marriage..
Everyone saying she's pregnant so must be treated like a fabergè egg, I mean really?! I know everyone and how pregnancy deals with them but some women like to take piss during pregnancy... They think they are doing the men a favor so must be treated like gods..
She's not even working, what if u were working and had to deal with a difficult boss?
And yes I am a woman and yes I have been pregnant with all the hi's and lo's but I decided not to have a pity party...
Dude is hot headed but the girl is just overreacting...
I am a woman and what I want to say is this: Your wife made a huge mistake by bringing this petty quarrel to a blog and YOU, sir should make allowance for hormonal feelings now that she is pregnant and you should have just taken her to her antenatal clinic when she first complained of bn sick. You FIL made the biggest mistake by interfering, he should have called you instead of your father to actually know what's up, and your wife should have told the truth. I think your wife likes to paint the wrong picture. Oga pamper her she is carrying your future and estate. You both should learn to settle issues privately. All of you abusing the man, wouldn't you defend yourself when you are wrongfully accused. Free the man joor. And wife abeg be stronger you will soon be a mother
ReplyDeleteVery rude and disrespectful horseband how can u talk about ur father inlaw in that manner. Remember u have a father too and sisters as well and who knows whether that pregnancy will be a girl. Smh 4 u
ReplyDeleteNa wa o, which kind reply is this? I pity the woman that married this guy already. A guy that has no respect whatsoever for his wife and her family. A guy that is clearly illbred.See how he explains his nonsense away like an imbecile. Why do women open their eyes and marry men like this? The poor soul that married this thing is in for a lot of shit, real deep shit. If you have to try so hard to prove that you are a man, then you are not, your only claim to that gender is that thing between your legs. Nonsense!
ReplyDeleteDon't mind him. I am sure your father in law called your father knowing well how stubborn and proud you are. You should let your wife and stop self medications. Who told you she get malaria sef? You go school wt all? You are jobless sef, responding to the chronicle is the height of joblessness, pride she stupidity. Park well abeg! Plus I think your story is incomplete.
ReplyDeleteAssin ehn. Proud thingy.
ReplyDeleteI feel like slapping you. The mother or sister should come abi? They got her preggers abi? Sounds so much like my idiot bil. Just go hibernate in shame. I googled it..........o jebi!
ReplyDeleteMan know thy wife.
ReplyDeleteMake una take am easy, I beg. Na husband and wife matter be dis.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of man are you? Are you God? I wonder where women find men like you...disrespecting the parents of your spouse is a no-no...we're you not raised to respect your elders? Simply because they care a great deal about their child and want to make sure she's fine..does it matter who shows up to give her the care she needs at such a crucial time? Get off that dirty high horse you're on and MAN UP! Gosh
ReplyDeleteU brought ur story here,so be ready for sane and vile opinions of yourself from people who don't know squat about u. Did u and ur wife not listen to the pastor preach about no third parties on ur wedding day? U feel becus this is a faceless blog that makes it okay to air ur laundry here? U go read comments tire today. I wish u, ur wife and unborn child all the best.
ReplyDeletePoSter this one is small o. In ur free time read up on pregnancy hormones , don't say isn't it just a month pregnancy ? Also learn to treat ur FIL with respect , he gave birth to ur wife and trained her - he was part of what she is today. Isn't he's old enough to be ur father ? I'm sure if he was very wealthy , fear wldnt let u look down on him . Just remeber karma wld find you . And ur daughters hubby would reject ur opinions about ur daughter and equally spit in ur face .
ReplyDeleteEven this one has something to say. Nkita la cha gi iru ebe afu, ubulu akamu . Afumuife !!!!!
ReplyDeleteTwo of you are very immature, very very immature. That's why its good to marry a gwegz like me. Why would I wait to be begged before I go to the hospital or take drugs? why wont I jump allover my man when he gets back from work even if I am as sick as a dog? why on earth will I call my dad to tell him my business for pete's sake? what kind of stupid story is this? Mstcheeeeww all thi kain kroniku sef. Guys!!! find yourselves a matured gwegz and enjoy a blissful marriage!
ReplyDeleteDewdrop, in order words,u fucked and had a baby without being married.
ReplyDeleteHmmm.... What some of us don't understand is that: a father will always be protective of his daughters. I have three sisters and I know how my dad behaves when guys come around. This is a man who has known you longer than your hubby and is your first bf. Do you think he will let go like that? Even if FIL calls you on your wedding night to say he had a dream that this, you SHOULD know that he's just feeling that way cos he's insecure that his daughter is no longer where he can directly protect her. And his emotions are kicking in. What usually happens (in my case) is that the men assure and re-assure the father that 'I've got this!'. With time, the father will see and withdraw. And when you even ask him he will say 'ask your husband pls! ! I've taken my brideprice'. But it's juSt 2 MONTHS! You can't say she shouldn't call her dad or tell him she's aching. You want the man to sleep and say 'she's married' so they will call him 2 hours later and say she passed out and he will regret he didn't offer a solution? Abeg. What the hubby should have done is call the man and explain the situation and promise him his daughter is safe. Get home and make sure wife is fine and sound. Then sit her down and tell her he's the new man in her life and she should call him stead of daddy cos daddy has collected bride price and he is capable of being her guardian angel. Call FIL later, and update him on situation and tell him she's okay. Give wife the phone to tell him she's okay. Her dad will pray for you both and thank God he's baby is safe.
ReplyDeleteBut poster got upset. .... okay!! You dey vex for extended family? You never even start.
Thank you Elaine!! This poster will do worse to his son inlaw. Poster how will your mother feel if you call her that you've not eaten and she knows you have a wife? And she knows you can't cook? She will be worried!!!! Cos she would know that you should be fed given the circumstances. But you flare up.... you lucky say your wife no be me. Hehehe. I will give you the phone to insult my father in my presence. Then in less than one hour, you go know say khaki no be leather.
ReplyDeleteAwwww.... @trinity and dew drop. So sweet 😍 If you choose to finger yourselves, just call me video cc: Miss Anambra. 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteRetard alert!! 👆
ReplyDeletePregnancy varies and so do the reactions in different women. Don't talk until you've been there and your sis and friends have Been there and back. If you all act the same way with pregnancy, then you can run into this conclusion.
ReplyDeleteIPhie please thus man isn't a sir at all. Abeg.... as in na beg I dey beg.
ReplyDeleteI'm With you on this 101%!!
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteHe is egoistic, He thinks pregnancy is easy. Oga, every pregnancy is different o! I threw up daily for 5 months during my first pregnancy and the only reason my husband did not feel the brunt of my hormones is because he was outside the country. If he was around he would have seen the whole works. Oga be very patient with her and pls pls pls respect your FIL. Remember you will have a son-in-law one day and you would want him to accord you some respect no matter what
ReplyDeleteLol d queen the queen
ReplyDeleteHope this isn't my cousin and his wife o?
ReplyDeleteYou are a fool
ReplyDeleteYou remind me of my late sister's husband
This is exactly what the fool like u was saying until my sister died 8months after marriage, I swear if I find out anything happens to your wife, I will ensure you do not go Scot free, animals like u put on this earth to destroy innocent lives just based on your selfishness, are u a doctor? U r doing self medication, idiot like u, do u know what being married or being pregnant is like.
Guy u better behave yourself
Stupid idiot
Shameless goat
U even have the guts to reply
Do u realize she is someone's child
If they had treated her this way would she be alive for u to marry
Better adjust your ignorance
For your wife, my dear if the idiot is acting up, go home where they will take care of u and your child, don't wait for anything pls
Bottoming of this story..
ReplyDelete1. This mather is not enough for you send to a blog.
2. Learn settle your fights internally.
3. Please don't self medicate. Health insurance is not that expensive for a year and it would cover this type of expense.
4. You bother need patience. IT is too young for family interference
Oga please don't ever make the mistake of saying that pregnancy is not an illness, sometimes pregnancy feels worse than an illness... Atleast it was to me. I spent the first 6months of my pregnancy going in and out of hospital on a weekly basis, spending days each week as I survived only on drips. (a man like you took an excellent care of me through out the Period, cleaning up vomits, cooking, doing chores. He was my rock at those terrifying times.
ReplyDeleteSo Please treat that woman right and don't act like she is blowing her feelings out of proportion.
NB: check that temper and box it.
We are all not as deranged as you and your family are. Devil.
ReplyDeleteWILL ALL OF YOU KEEP QUIET?? THE MAN DIDNT DO ANYTHING WRONG. THAT WOMAN HAD STRENGTH TO GO AND FLEX IN POP DINNER TILL ALMOST MIDNYT UNA NO SEE THAT PART. TOO MUCH FEMINISM IN THIS BLOG ABEG. YOU ALL SHOULD SHUT YOUR DIRTY MOUTHS. THE STUPID GIRL CANT TAKE CARE OF HERSELF ABI. NANSENSE
ReplyDeleteThis is ridiculous. As a married couple never bring your problems out like this. Talk to yourselves and talk to God. Oga, stop bringing up what your father in law told you. He told you all that in confidence now you are telling the whole world. Never open your marriage to the world except in the case of abuse. Once your marriage is opened anything/anyone can walk in.
ReplyDeleteIf you waited 10years for a child you LL be more sensitive.rude and inconsiderate boy!
ReplyDeleteGbammesttttt......
ReplyDeleteBest comment so far@doppleganger
ReplyDelete@iphie dearie, u sound like such a warm person. Infact u made me ashamed of my own comment insulting the poster. Poster please read and be blessed💋💋💋 to iphie
ReplyDeleteOlodo
ReplyDelete😭😢💋💋💋💋 ehugsss
ReplyDeleteShut up bitch.....when the man treats you like trash y won't you act like that....u never carry bele before so u can vomit rubbish....if your wife is pregnant then the man should assume some other responsibilities let her rest more...do u know how the woman's hubby was treating her for her to make that comment? From the write up did he say she was the one who called her dad? What if the father called her and she told him how she was feeling? Family and not work is priority, and yes even if u have to go to work learn how to pet your wife.....pregnancy is not a curse but it tells on women's body differently
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