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Tuesday, 20 December 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE.
WHEN THE EX THREATENS...

Good Day Stella


Nice job you are doing, what made me share my chronicle is because of the Chronicle Of December 8th. Although our situations are different, it was encouraging to hear a man seeking advise. Without wasting your readers time and yours , let me get to the point.


I'm 35yrs and work as a mariner based in Lagos, I spend months away from home/ my country due to the kind of work I do come back for 2 months and leave the country again. 


Most of my time is spent at sea, some of your bloggers who are familiar with this profession will know. I was involved with a girl I was serious about proposed to her and she accepted, before we got engaged I prayed about this and asked God to make her understand the kind of job that I do, that i would not be spending a lot of time with her but will make it up when I'm home. 



We discussed this at length and she agreed and everything was going well. I did everything humanly possible to make sure that she was happy. I would buy her gifts from all the countries I was going to, send her money, skype , phone, bbm , call. We communicated everyday but still I started hearing rumours from friends about the kind of life she was leaving when I was not around. Being the gentleman that I am I refused to listen to anybody wanted to see things for myself. One time a friend who was in Abuja for a weekend saw her at a club with some guys, took pictures and sent them to me. Stella I was shocked, there she was smiling from ear to ear wearing one of the dresses I have bought for her in one of my travels. I asked her about being in Abuja she denied it....I was crushed and my love for her changed.


Fast forward we were on our way to one of the countries and I became seriously ill in the ship (we were in the middle of nowhere). The captain arranged that I be taken to one of the closest countries for medical attention. The nearest country was South Africa and I was airlifted to Cape Town. 



I was discovered that I had appendicitis so they had to operate immediately. While I was there I was sharing the room with one old man, the first day I was there the man's visitors came to see him. One tall beautiful lady came with them and they gisted with the man, I was not paying attention because I could not understand what they were saying, the tall lady came up to my side of the bad and asked me how I was doing and if I was feeling better after the operation. After that day when ever she comes to visit she would also come to my side and bring me some minerals, which i thought was very kind.




I was due to be in hospital for two weeks and the Oyibo food that they were giving me I did not like, I asked her if she knows any Nigerian restaurant around and she promised me to find out. I gave her a list of the food she would buy for me in case she finds one and gave her some money, which she refused and said let her find out first. On that evening when she came to visit her relative she came with my food, boy was I happy and grateful. We became very friendly and I started liking her very well (she was not aware of this) till she came to the hospital with her fiancee and introduced him to me, the guy was not interested in me at all infact I felt he did not like me.


Before I left the hospital to join my crew where they were, we exchanged numbers and I left South Africa. We started chatting everyday I could not keep her out of my mind, her voice, her laughter, hips (come see figure 8) and her overall beauty and pure heart that cared for a stranger. I was so deep in love with her that I invited her to Nigeria for the two months I was going to be home and she accepted as a friend ooo. 


I convinced her that this was the least that I could do for her, for all the care she showed me and she agreed. It was her first time here and the best time of my life since my heartbreak. I was the envy of my friends everybody wanted to know how come, how did I score such a gorgeous lady who has class and poise.....meanwhile they did not know that we were just friends sleeping in separate rooms. My stupid so called girlfriend was so angry and telling everyone who cared to listen what a looser and a cheat I am.


 About 6 months after my SA friends visited my company arranged for us to go on a course to SA Cape Town.....my people the joy I felt was out of this world I felt God was in control of this whole situation. My SA girl was no longer with her fiancee and there I was going to SA again. Before then i have started telling her about my feelings which she refused, saying that she saw me a friend and a brother. 


As soon as I landed in SA things started to change we were spending a lot of time together and she would sleep at my hotel and we made the sweetest love ever. My people are coming to SA this January to ask for my lady's hand in marriage and pay the pride price......I don't wan't to waste anytime before someone else snatches her away from me. She is all that I have ever wanted in a woman and more, intelligent, kind , God fearing and a good heart.


Now my ex Fiancee has heard about this probably from one of my family members and now she is threatening to kill herself or do something bad to my SA babe.....my people did I do anything wrong?. I don't love her again I have told her this and she has told me before she found out about my plans to move on with my life.


Your Red pen is needed here Oooo Stella I don't want to put the love of my life in danger.....


( Excuse typing errors and bad grammar)



*My dear your story na open and close case,i dont know what to say or ask if you are painting her bad to get support from us...I would love t know her own side before i conclude...please send your ex this chronicle if your hands are clean...if you lied she will contact me..lol


164 comments:

xxxTrinityxxx said...

i dont know what you want us to tell you. you ex wont kill herself. she obviously just wants attention but you should ask yourself something. was she really cheating on you or you allowed your friends and insecurity come btween you guys? seeing her at a club does that mean she went there with a man? i dont understand. anyways congrats

Becky Divine said...

Love nwantiti
Like they say 3 sides to every story yeah? I won't start cussing your ex or judge her yet till i hear her own side.

But if all you wrote is the truth, then your ex lost out and should leave you guys to get married in peace! If your hands are clean then you have nothing to worry about

Ignore her! Go ahead and marry your SA babe! Finish
Una congratulations

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

I know you hid so many details.. once dated a mariner.. he wasn't so into me then... After I broke up, few months later, he started calling again, but this time, I realised he was a baby dada and didn't want to marry the mama but me.

Of course I can't take the place of a second fiddle, to a baby dada and a ale child at that...

He got married to a naive girl after that... And we are both happy at first..

Poster you didn't properly break up with her, you were only accusing her of visiting Abuja and lying... Why should you listen to outsiders in the first place? Why didn't you wait to return for the 2 months before confronting her.

Am sure you're a man with a lot of insecurities....

She'll move on, but it will be hard at first

Anonymous said...

Which God is "in control of the whole thing" in a fornication case? Which "God fearing woman" has premarital sex? Did you find out why this lady broke up with her "fiancee" (sic). Young man, you can't come to equity with soiled hands; can you?

Anonymous said...

All I see is fornication everywhere and hypocrisy from this poster. Repent! Premarital sex can never be a virtue.

Emmanuella Marshall said...

Biko is dat the threat?? She should kill her self nd die nd answer to God.she won't do anything to ur new gf, are u not d man?? U should b d one threatening her

Doppelgänger said...

As far as I'm concerned the cheating story about your girlfriend cheating is to score points with us and favour you.
Please the picture you saw, was she on top of another man? Was Abuja written on the her body as the location?
Anyway, all the best in this your new found love since your mind is made up. I'm sure she is just angry and sad she won't do nothing.

Anonymous said...

A person that engages in sex before marriage is not "god-fearing"; knock that into your head!

Loveme Jeje said...

Waiting for robust answer from your ex-fiancee. Abeg tell her to write her chronicles here.

My boss and I had a fruitful discussion today. chai good to get a good boss but i still need something from him. Let me go and pray about it jare.

STAY AT HOME DAUGHTER said...

Make peace with your ex before your move on Make she no swear for you cos for her to be vexed like this you've done something which you didn't say here.

marriedchick said...

sorry I can't type with this Amala in my hand.. I will just read comments..

Atheist ™ said...

I don't care if you're lying or not, or if you're painting her black or green to gain support, what matters is you've found happiness & that's it...... We're all in pursuit of happiness, if money makes u happy, pursue it, of its hip & bomb pussy, pursue it, if its good cook or bigger dick, so be it... Either way someone always gets hurt in the process, that's life! If she plays in villain & breaks the law, na she sabi.

Lady C said...

Pls get tested before getting married to her cause I dnt trust south afican girls.

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

Please prescribe otapiapia for her, let her kill herself Na, who cares, go ahead and marry ur babe, she's a bloody losser and she can't do anything to your girl, block her number from your phone, she did play her game well at all, 11th commandment says, steal but thou shall not be caught.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Mr. Man, go to the nearest police station and report your ex! Don't allow her destroy your happiness.

Since, you're no longer with her, make sure you cut every means of communication from her.
She had a good man, but she made her choice. Some women prefer to eat with dogs with unclean hands than to to eat with kings with clean hands. (same applies to men).

Make yourself happy and make sure you inform your girlfriend about your ex and her numerous threats.

Report her to law enforcement, don't take laws into your hands. Don't forget to be prayerful too.
Wish you luck.

Anonymous said...

Poster please help my hubby with a Marine job even if it's within Nigeria. He has been without a job for 2yrs.He has all the necessary certificate to sail. 55F4C4C9

Uranium Beauty said...

Patch it Father.

Beloved said...

This chronicles no straight for eye ni

temmy yemmy said...

@poster, please report this case to d police incase she wants to act funny and also tell her parent abt dis maybe they could tame her as well.
Gud luck to you n ur SA babe.

@Tee_y

Blackberry said...

One sided story! Anyway, she didn't wanna put her eggs in one basket.

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

I'll pray with you. Then you'll sow seed

Candice said...

The "bad eggs" nigerian girls be spoiling market for us the good ones. This matter just tire me walahi. Poster I beg, don't mind that girl. She is psycho.

chibuzo lilian said...

make I wear 3d glasses first. Brb

Lady T said...

My love for SDK no be hia, their are two sides to a story jor

Anonymous said...

Oga chronicle writer, have you asked yourself this question-
That the SA lady had a fiance when she was coming to your bedside to say hello. don't you think That could make him mad too? Just the same way you are angry your girlfriend was clubbing without your consent?

What your so called ex did to you is what your SA babe did to her ex. It's easy for you to write your ex off and commend the SA girl.

If you ask me, I will say I think you are just looking for an excuse to move on with your new interest. it's not like you caught her fucking another man. Mschewww

The Sexy Queen of Queens. said...

Oga,so she left her own man in SA and came to visit you in Nigeria right? What did she tell her man she was coming to do in Nigeria? The same lie that your ex lied is the same lie that she gave to her own man. Both of you were in the same room and nothing happened according to you, and you believed your ex was misbehaving cos she saw her pix with guys at the club right?
I remembered years ago I left my ppa to another state to party with my secondary mates both boys and girls and I didn't know hw my then bf got to know abt me, he asked me and I lied abt travelling, later I told him he wouldn't have allowed me to go if I had told him. To you now she is a saint and your ex is the devil, I wish you can get the stupid lie and explanation she gave to her man b4 flying to 9ja as a friend. And I pray she won't lie to you just to please another man same way she did to her man. 4give my typos

Anonymous said...

POSTER,
pay your ex off nicely. then move on with your life.i'm still waiting for my santa to buy a vibrator for me
BV Staphylococus aureus,.

Anonymous said...

.....But una de say in all situations give thanks to God na.

Anonymous said...

I hope ure a virgin oh

olaedo said...

This story is one sided.

Atheist ™ said...

Threaten her say wetin happen??

Atheist ™ said...

Ask urself, which God??
The god of tits and wine??

Anonymous said...

Read ur mail.

GenevieveNwa said...

Really poster, didn't u start seeing all dese faults in ur 'ex' bcos u met the SA girl?! U did a very big wrong bros nd u are painting d story in ur favor, u were 'engaged' to ur ex not jst dating nd u went ahead to spin a girl in S.A, nd even invited her to Nigeria to come slp over in ur house as "just friends'? Bros u cheated on ur ex! U disrespected ur ex! From d first day u saw the S.A girl, u knew wat u wanted, as u de exchange numbers sef, u had it all figured out,Mbok! Bcos she went clubbing, u painted her a bad (wayward) girl, go read today's meeting point mehn!

Anonymous said...

Bro you didn't do anything wrong. NOTHING! After all a lady on this blog came, on her way back from her introduction, met another guy and dumped her husband-to-be.
Double-standard-girls on this blog (Stella inclusive) would insult, curse, call you names but trust me you owe your ex no apologies (not one).
Move on with your life and be happy or stuck with your ex and regret all your life. Enough said!!!

EARN OVER ₦30,000 IN TWO(2) WEEKS.. WHATSAPP : 07052298017, FOR DETAILS. said...

there are pictures supporting the claim of infidelity on the woman's side...at least for the fact that she denied Being in abuja at a time is a big red flag....my conclusion is simple.dear wife found to much freedom and money thrown at her so much that she decided to catch some little fun while hubby was away, obviously, she got horny some times and in that fit of adventurousness, she must have had sex with someone else,maybe an ex...and also given him some money from which dear hubby had sent her..its not wrong dear hubby moved on...my only concern is...I hope the new southy girl wnt also chop and clean mouth

Shyla said...

Seems a not enough reason to break up with her. Not like she was caught sleeping with someone else. She just went to club with friends. She probably had to lie to cover up. Oh well, she needs to defend herself cos you painted yourself as a good one and she is a bad one. Good luck on your new choice. Na survival of the fittest sha.

Anonymous said...

He owes her no apologies, she denied being in abuja and she was clubbing. She lost her loyalty with all that.

Anonymous said...

The best comment ever👌

Candice said...

Abi o. Someone will always get hurt

Anonymous said...

Be mindful of S.A girls o. HIV is real. They are sweet, Have nice skin and big boots but.....

finest said...

She won't do Nada.some women sha. You have a man who cares for you nd provides for you yet you mess up?

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

But she denied going to Abuja, why did she lied if she was not guilty?

Please, the guy deserve to be happy too.

Olabanji Olajide said...

DZ GAT ME ROLDOING ON THE FLOOR... SO FUCKING FUNNY @ANON 15.40 ABEG WHR WATER OOOO..

Bla bla bla said...

Akuko ifo

Rocky said...

Lol... Sharp

World People said...

Poster , you are an insecured man .

And your are dull .

You love the SA girl cos of her shape ba? Do you know sex is nothing to them ? When you are on the sea for months at a stretch , she will cheat on you ! Take that to the bank

Instead of rushing and asking your people to see her family , why not take ur time and date her ? See how she handles ur absence ,and if she goes out to the club and sees other people like your ex . Don't be blinded by beauty and shape, almost every South African girl is very shapely . You should study her well instead

Is she domesticated , wld she clean and tend the home when you are away ? Is she the promiscuous kind , is she humble , a christain ,does she truly love you or is this just the honey moon phase . Wld she stay when the going is tough and you get broke ? Would she support you . You can only know all this through proper courtship . How do you know she won't rekindle the relationship with her ex fiancée during the long lonely nights you are at sea .

Ngenti, the devil you know ....

Anonymous said...

All the things you have mentioned can never make anyone completely happy. Hence the reason why we go through phases before we eventually get to the truth and I feel you are going though a phase, but I don't know nothing though.

Fine gal no pimple said...

Don't trust anyone with your life, regardless of their nationality.....

World People said...

Furthermore , the same reason you left your ex is exactly what enamored you to the SA girl .

Your girl went to Abuja to club with friends
Your SA girl travelled for 6hours to be wth a man when she had a fiancée .

Pls which one heavy pass ?

Infact you could have been the reason she left her fiancé , because you kept showering her with ur stupid gifts , I know SA men are lazy ... and that would trip her .

Brother see, I've been to SA many many times , I've got friends and family there . Their girls are nothing to write home about . They see sex as nothing . You that u will be at sea most of the time . You need a cultured calm girl to keep house while U away .

Rex said...

Ehm Mr Chronicles, this is a one sided story, ur ex has another part but if yours is fully true then go ahead and marry ur S.A babe..ur Ex can't do nada

Anonymous said...

To the ex: please let this man go. He is not worthy of your love and your life. Please just let him go, let him go... 🎶🎶🎶

Fine gal no pimple said...

Mrs Romas....I raise hands for this your comment oooh!

Olabanji Olajide said...

Hey madam.. There ar proves na, wetin u want again... Must he see dem "extravaganzing".. Cmon.. Its not everyone dats james bond... Oginakwa..

MamaZ O said...

Both your ex and the new babe are both birds of a feather. The only difference here is that you are no longer in love with your naija babe. By the way you sound like you where just dating her to have kids for you not like you really loved your ex initially.

Uniq Gem said...

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Olabanji Olajide said...

Hey atheist abi kilon pe e... Have Yu ever thought of your existence before.. How things in d world came into place... Don't question history, live by it. God is Real.

Anonymous said...

Sister your hubby will get the job come 2017 in Jesus name amen!

Anonymous said...

Tell ur bishop na! He wld sort it out for u

Uzoigwe Oluchi said...

@ atheist, the God of heaven and earth. The creator of the whole universe. Your maker

Rex said...

Mr poster, shut up there! Na figure 8 yansh and breast dey deceive you abi? naija pussy don taya u, na "in the abroad" own u want... Have you taken your S.A babe for HIV test????.. Enough said

Olabanji Olajide said...

Must hé catch thèm... Haba.!!!

Anonymous said...

THUNDER FIRE ALL THESE BIASED GIRLS ON THIS BLOG (no offence stella) BUT IF IT WAS A GIRL THAT WROTE THIS EXACT STORY....GBAM! THE GUY NA CHEAT! NO BODY WOULD WANT TO HEAR THE GUYS SIDE. biased human beings

Anonymous said...

Why didn't she fly with her man to Nigeria if the visit was truly based on friendship?

LAS GidDY said...

Mariners are dogs!!! Period.

Anonymous said...

Thank you Stella for posting my chronicle, I thank God for your life and those of BV's. I'm truly grateful...With enough digging I found out that my now ex was cheating on me....I'm so happened and so content With my SA girl...what makes it even good is that she does not even know how great she is....I'm so in love, it's not even funny.....God bless you all this Xmas!

Anonymous said...

God bless you for this comment.

onomebonny said...

Bros you did nothing wrong. And I understand your kind of job and what it entails. Ps leave ur ex alone, she will not die or kill herself after all she called u a loser bah. Pls marry ur SA babe and have fun.

Anonymous said...

Lol

Lora said...

You didn't do bad o,carry on!

Gi Coco said...

Anonymous 15:46, take it easy abeg. No one is insulting him, Stella only asked for the ex side of the story due to past experiences of male bvs always twisting the story to gain sympathy before the lady came out to say her part. So we're only making sure, ok?
Poster, it's all about your happiness. If you believe the South African lady is your wife. Go for her. Wish you the best!

Anonymous said...

oga go and marry your SA girl make we hear word. you know what you wanted from her the very first day you saw her. you are saying all these about the other lady to justify your actions, do you care to know what happened between the SA girl and the erstwhile fiance. that lady should move on with her life ,no man is worth taking it for.

Gi Coco said...

Poster, make peace with your ex.

Anonymous said...

U read my mind. Better go for hiv test make ojukokoro no kill u

Eminado Onimisi said...

Poster, you may not be in love with your fiancé but love the idea of her. You are at your fantasy phase now, so you may not be thinking rationally. How well do you know her? Why was her engagement canceled? At least it takes an engagement to be a fiancée. As for your ex, she lost at her game, your fiancée may not be better than her anyways. To her ex, she may be a cheat but to you a good girl. Also your ex may be a cheat to you, but may find someone else who will swear that she is a faithful and good wife material. So life goes on.

IamJustMe XOXO said...

Jesus take the wheel. Poster don't underestimate your ex o. You can't predict what humans can do. Fast and pray about this. This is what u call facing the Giants

Original Gangster said...

Be sure to carry out HIV test BTW

Priceless Jewel said...

Ha off shore guy wey dey get money like mad na him this girl throway just like that? Hmmm , serves her right! Because she lost she's now playing the blame game. Pray, fast & hold unto God, she can't do nada, shit she can't do! Call her bluff & make your hold on Christ VERY STRONG! Happy married life in advance bro!


... Jesus is my worth!

Adanne said...

There wasn't enough evidence to crucify you ex, but you did already.

Let's wait for her reply joor.

Okafor Cynthia said...
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Adanne said...

Maka why

Adanne said...

But wasn't smart about it...hehehehehehehe

Anonymous said...

@Poster, you have done absolutely nothing wrong.

But know this:
Your new bae left SA to hang out with you here in Nigeria, of cause her guy at that time must have been fed a cooked up story. So to the guy, she too is a loose woman. That's all
Each and everyone of us is always a demon to somebody in our past.

I sincerely wish you guys the best together... And yes, this may just be how God planned your meeting your best half.

You are not wrong

Dre said...

Gbam.

pink lady said...

It seems you are carried away by this new chick's beauty,kindness and intelligence. ....you really love her.
I don't care if you are saying the truth or lying to justify your reasons for dating another girl.
If the other girl feels dumped,let her move on and stop threatening to kill her self or planning to harm your new babe!
That shows how guilty and manipulative she is!

Blossom said...

From your writeup,you have done nothing wrong so my congratulations are in order but I won't judge your ex till I hear her own part of the story.

Rex said...

Thumbs up to your comment

Chidinma Gift said...

Poster what exactly do you want us to tell you just do whatever pleases you

Chartered Accountant said...

You are right

Dre said...

Lol @ Stella's red pen advice.
Sorry to sound biased against guys but the story sounds fishy.
Did you properly end things with your ex? Or did you string her along even after her cheating discoveries? You invited a woman in a relationship to your place with no motives? I hear you. There's just sth about you that sounds deceptive I'm sorry.
But to your question. I think you need to sit and talk with your ex. Apologise for any ways you may have wronged her and make her understand that you both have to move on. Maybe that's just what she's looking for to move on coz she feels used.
One more thing - If you desire God's blessings on your marriage, are you doing everything you can to keep His word and honour His temple?? Ponder on this.
Goodluck

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Make sure you made better woman of her!
Enjoy your life, be faithful to her and cut every means of communication from that your scorn ex.

Princess Iyabeji said...

@poster, Hope what you are calling love is not Infatuations due to the fiqure 8 shape?

Do you know this SA babe very well and would like to spend your entire life with her?
You have total listened to what your friend told you abount the other girl, hence your reasons.

Please think and pray before you take final decisions.

I wish you luck.

Anonymous said...

I have stayed in SA for 7 years and i can tell you that you are making the biggest mistake of your life. You will die in fustration by the time she start sleeping with your friends and neihgbours. They don't value ses, they sleep around and worst you go on sea for months leaving her alone. Do you know that she will be going to visit males friends just like she visited you too, because in SA male friends are normal and they don't like domestic work. She will be going to SA to fuk and be careful with HIV.You are in a lng tin, you think shape is everything?class you said? because she is a foreigner? you are very naive and i pity you.Why the rush? why don't you date her first for at least 2 years.What wrong with you? the envy of your friends? dont' worry by the time they will start helping you service her, you will know yourself. You didn't ask why nigerian men there only date them and cohabited together without marrying them? they even go as far as having children but they don't take them home! they always come home to marry nigerian wives, i truly pity you,by the time this fluctuation clear, you will know.Take it from a man who knows much more about them girls especially if she is xhosa.

Anonymous said...

Southie babe? with ur kinda job? Did you do your findings well? Well, I can't say about your babe, but south African ladies will cheat on their hubby with other men( even their hubby's brother) all in the name of he is not always around and they can't do without having sex in a week,Only 1 out of 10000 may be different.(Bros shine your eye and beware of HIV).My 1 rand advice.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Firstly, it's normal for a man who is weeks on and weeks off to be insecure about his babe. It's very normal. So a woman in that situation should try as much as possible to manage it well and kill all doubts. I don't support a guy policing her but if you wanna go to abuja let him know you're gonna be out partying in abuja with friends. That way if anyone sees you your boo already knows your whereabouts. When he starts making a fuss out of nothing is when you can call him insecure.

As for me I can't take lies and I'm sure it was the lie the poster hated not the fact that she was out. Who ties a woman down in 2016? It's a relationship not bondage. The high possibility of her bumping into his friends is the more reason why she should have told him where she was.

Poster she can't do nothing to your new babe. Don't post her pictures on SM and try to protect her. And warn your ex that you will make it a police case if she doesn't stop. Even if you're at fault, Haven't we all been hurt at one point or the other? It's not a reason to start throwing threats around nau. That's very childish. People should learn to move on biko, it's the surest way to arrive at your destination.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Plus go and do HIV test for that your new babe oh. SA has a high rate of people living with HIV. As them fine so na so the thing dey spread.

Anonymous said...

@world people, you are so so so on point! Poster, don't be deceived! Go and listen to good woman by solid star and re-decide

Jagaban said...

Stella you being sentimental....if it was a lady that sent this chronicle...you wouldn't want to hear the guy's part of the story no matter how bad they paint their husbands...
Bro you did natin wrong...She cant do shii...Just be at alert...watch ur back tho...

Atheist ™ said...

Anon16:14....
You're right, you knw nothing!!

Jagaban said...

Does that mean all mariners are the same??? Some one that denied the fact that she was in abuja while there was evidence that she was there...and u saying this..

SANDY NEKY said...

Was trying to get kinda emotional when I is read but I think I concur with you Mrs R. The part where the girl denied that she wasn't the one the guys friends saw in abuja says a lot about her already. Shes not ready to settle, runs was more in her head. She will see another person someday cos obviously, this dude has already been lost.

Jagaban said...

Why most are most of you ladies/women being sentimental...kick out sentiments...hes painting her black cause hes a mahn..smh..

Anonymous said...

Bros, abeg follow world people's advice as my 9ja bro wey you be, make you no go dey post another chronicle after 2 weeks wey una marry

Loveme Jeje said...

hahaha Anon 16:23 that is a small matter for him ooo and that has been done already. You think me and him discussing and laughing was like that. It was not like that. Favour of God was just too much on me and he had no choice at all ooo. We are best of friends.

That is the wonder of God.

Anonymous said...

Word!!!

Hadey Halaba said...

Done and dusted .....

Perfect ending kinda Hollywood story.

Anonymous said...

All i see wrong is that you did not make a clean break with your ex. You kept stringing her along in spite of the fact that you knew you weren't in love with her anymore. Her reaction now is the backlash of that stringing along. If you had broken up neat and clean with her,then she wouldnt be threatening fire and brimstone now.
Goodluck with your new love. You sound happy. When a man finds what he wants, he knows! May your joy last. And dont listen to people who say SA girls are loose. There are a couple of Nigerian men married to SA girls and loving it! Pastor Taiwo Odukoya is one. So go ahead where your heart has picked. Happiness in marriage is hard to find and once you feel you've struck gold, dont let it go...

Shy Artsy gal... said...

Most reasonable remark so far... "Koni man kill am, koni man bury am..." Tread softly Mr poster. Time is a revealer of someone's true nature. Test her like you tested your ex. This is more than her going out o her way to buy Nigerian food for you. I think because you were sick you over amplified the favour she did for you and the attention she gave. I guess you must be a sight for sore eyes.

Anonymous said...

Abi oo, best comment ever

Anonymous said...

Dis is the best comment ever,, over rushing go kill am, bcos of ukwu

Candice said...

Gbam

Bisola said...

Orishirishi.
Who do we now side? Poster or his ex?
Because the way he tells the story, he is innocent of all wrongdoing. As a lawyer, I can tell you for free that that isn't always the case.

When God says No

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ukwu dimond said...

Poster your story is too sweet to be true, is better we hear from Noth side before one can conclude. Figure 8 is what you are looking for abi? Make sure that figure, 8 is for real.

ukwu dimond said...

*both

jasmine said...

Lips sealed no comment @ all bt am with stella on dis one cos ur story no too pure

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

This man has issues!! See how you made yourself out to be the victim,while painting your ex bad. The S.A lady isn't so perfect as you paint her FYI.You said she came to visit you in Nigeria AS A FRIEND? NONSENSE!! Who does that? Who travels all the way to another country to visit JUST A FRIEND,especially when she still had a fiancé? Abegii!! You said you only get two months off work yearly,how sure are you that the S.A lady can cope with that kinda arrangement? You didn't properly break it off with your ex before starting something with someone else and you expect her not to be angry? Just gerraway abeg!!!

juliet Is Bae!! said...

Hmmmm

Fairrose said...

A few days ago, a guy wrote in and told us of his predicament with two women in his life. He said his first girlfriend was all shades of amazing but he didn't love her, and we all quickly advised him to make a clean break from her. Now we're doubting this poster and asking to hear from his ex girlfriend. What does it matter anyway? Let's assume his ex was the opposite of what he described. Bottom line is; he's no longer in love with her and wishes to move on. His only crime MIGHT have been he didn't make a clean break. So, dear poster, if that is the case, pls make amends and move on with your life. Your umbilical cord is not tied to hers.
Good luck with your new woman.

Anonymous said...

A few days ago, a guy wrote in and told us of his predicament with two women in his life. He said his first girlfriend was all shades of amazing but he didn't love her, and we all quickly advised him to make a clean break from her. Now we're doubting this poster and asking to hear from his ex girlfriend. What does it matter anyway? Let's assume his ex was the opposite of what he described. Bottom line is; he's no longer in love with her and wishes to move on. His only crime MIGHT have been he didn't make a clean break. So, dear poster, if that is the case, pls make amends and move on with your life. Your umbilical cord is not tied to hers.
Good luck with your new woman.

Atheist ™ said...

Ok no problem

Anonymous said...

Thunder fire that your x she must be very very mad. Marry your babe and make another country your base not naija or sa o because of your crazy x. Hml in advance and may God protect you and your bride.

Go in peace sir

Cisca Chesca said...

Akuko!
Abeg Oga e don do.

I wish you what you wish yourself.

#CaseClosed

Anonymous said...

A woman was returning from her introduction and met another man at the airport. She left the other man to follow the new guy. I didn't see anyone conmmmdemed her. Hypocrites

Anonymous said...

You people are horrible. I once read a meeting point here. A woman went for her introduction on her way back she met another man and dumped the other guy that have done introduction on her head. I read every comments that day including Stella's there was no condemmention. Hypocrites

Anonymous said...

Aww I love that....thank you very much...you are right

St.FranKooL.... said...

#The seeds of low self-confidence are planted in childhood*

Vivilicious said...

The only sensible comment so far

Vivilicious said...

Thank you very much for this comment. God bless you.

Vivilicious said...

World people biko chop kiss.

Vivilicious said...

Yes, your ex might have cheated on you, but you should also be careful of the SA girl and study her well before marrying her cos it seems like she's birds of a feather with your ex.

young FOREVER said...

Atheist is just playing with you guys. Check out his/her spellings of God and the context it was used. Atheist is just a blog name.the person behind the moniker believe in God

Anonymous said...

For the fact he (@atheist) used capital 'G' n small 'g' shows he knows there's a God.

Anonymous said...

Godbless you for this comment Sexy Queen

Anonymous said...

This wan na meeting point torey. I no know wetin you want make we tell you.

Anonymous said...

Don't mind poster. Na shape dey shack am. Mtcheew. Go and do your HIV test jare! Godfearing ko, God fearing ni.

Anonymous said...

Thank you, Ayam sure na the money wey she dey miss. Nonsense orishirishi, mtcheew.

Anonymous said...

Yep! Poster you attract a certain kind of girl that is not really healthy for you. You need to look inwards and dig deep, to know why this is so, so you can find how to attract and keep a healthy relationship. Don't rush with marriage, study her a bit more. But hey it's your decision.

Anonymous said...

Ayam redirecting all the thunder you fired on your head! Mtcheew, namsense!

Anonymous said...

Na love abi na lust dey shack you? Carry go, as long as you are ready to face the consequences of your actions, good or bad.

Anonymous said...

Because we know Naija guys, so do not offended.

MARY AUSTINE said...

Imaoooooo......I wanted to ignore but water wey dey my mouth no gree.. hahahahah

MARY AUSTINE said...

Abeg come chop kiss.....the truth Is that when our heart start playing with us we look for excuses .....your S.A. girl ain't no saint man .....LOOK FOR WHAT NEVER FADES.....AND THAT is God ....when your relationship is rooted in God it's bears fruitful seeds ....no come back cry oooh.....Shalom

SANDY NEKY said...

Ist*

nkechi susan said...

Poster, Hiv is real. Beware of people from south Africa

oluwatoyosi said...

Chikito you've given the best advice. Poster please follow this. And stella so u need to hear from the lady because a guy wrote this shey. Welldone

Anonymous said...

*be offended

Anonymous said...

I always believed Mariners see the world from a different point of view. You need to fast and pray, marriage isn't abt shape or class. Marry whoever u want to marry but it is advisable to marry ur 'friend'. You aren't a saint either.

Anonymous said...

Condemn,condemning.

Anonymous said...

Akuko mike ejeagha!
Continue basking in the ecstasy of the new *P,and being so 'happened' with her until the novelty of the new *P wears off!

Just don't come back Here with another chronicle.


#Flygirl

Anonymous said...

We mustn't all give an advice,especially when you are going to sound more confused than the one seeking for advice.

brownsugar said...

Thank you Mrs Romas. You've said it all

Anonymous said...

Chikito I deny tire for you na, HIV not dey for Nigerian again? Hian! You people be careful oooh....Na me talk em!

brownsugar said...

God bless you o'jere

brownsugar said...

Yet another sensible comment

brownsugar said...

@ poster how sure are you that your ex was in abuja?
How sure are you that it wasn't your friend that took her to the club(abuja) then set her up? Things be happening

brownsugar said...

Another sensible comment. You're blessed

brownsugar said...

Receive a kiss on the other cheek

Chiamaka L said...

Your friends are such cheap gossips and you just believed hat your fiancée was cheating because she was at a club with some guy/guys? what if there were/ are co workers or friends from university. Anything that one done pass. Since you said you broke up and she already said her farewell to you, I truly wonder why she is putting up the drama now. Waiting for her "right of response"

Anonymous said...

My fellow mariner, you have done nothing that is abnormal.
I met current bae in similar fashion and shes Liberian.
This work sweet o....
Of all the countries i have docked, I think Italian girls are the most beautiful and give the best head, French girls the most classy, Belgian girls would make you suffer to even get common kiss, SA girls are cheerful giver (But, yes there are still many good ones. 9ja girls arent different once they see money). Ghana girls, cheiii... they ass is out of this world. LOL
Anyways good luck brother.

zinny uwalaka said...

Before we jump into.conclusion Stella we need the ex version oooo. If she f up we give her faults. Hmmm bros brosssssss men are not to be trusted ooo

MUVA said...

10000likes for this comment

Anonymous said...

some people can be big hypocrites, because he mentioned that they have sex now, the girl is bitch and not God fearing ,ARE YOU GOD?, my brother please move on with ur marriage plans and for ur ex I will gladly prescribe a good poison for her nonsense!!!!!!!

Glow MOnAT said...

Hmmmm bro you no be God nahh! Don't judge her that way ooo

Mo said...

I concur @world people.. this guy is obviously still in the honeymoon n smitten stage of any new relationship.. don't be so carried away cos that ex u trying to portray as wayward may even make a better wife.. Also, hope you have considered cultural differences , SA gals act like white women o so u better know wat u jumping into

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