So I decided to send my story and its a very long one....... A friend of mine asked if it was ok to give a guy that saw me at her wedding my number, I decided against it as i was dating someone at that time even though we were having issues , after so much pressure, i gave in, this guy added me via bbm pin and never chatted in the day time, if he says hi, it will be by 3am, when you respond hello will be when you wake up, it continued like this and i got angry and lost interest in the dude.
When he noticed i was no longer interested, he became serious and intensified chatting and calls, all the while i was having issues with my boyfriend so I would just use him to calm my nerves. His birthday was in 3 days, so he invited me to his state for it, i declined saying he should be the one to come see me first as a hot chick that I IS na...
He begged but it fell on deaf ears. The eve of his birthday, i had a serious argument with my ex that even warranted me to leave his house that night and sleep at a hotel, now the issue i had with him was that he loved porn and wanted me to be like the girls, but i wouldn't succumb, so that night he played the movie and said I must watch it and learn, i got angry and left his house.
I cried and asked my self what held me to this idiot, he was annoying but somehow I couldn't let go, maybe because he was my first. Anyway, the next day i packed my bags and headed to the new guys state with lots of pain and regret. Ok, so i got to the park and did scanning, saw a very cute dude and was like, i have been a learner o, I never bothered to ask for his pic during chats because I wasn't interested. So, I alighted and a tall, muscular guy with, so much beard, wearing slippers and socks wit jersey came towards me and called my name, (the cute dude was his friend) i was in shock just looking at him and prayed it was a mistake.
He came to hug me and said welcome, where are your bags? I wanted the ground to swallow me! What kind of decision did i make in anger? And so I concluded, first thing in the morning I'm leaving. So we got to the hotel, while relaxing, my ex called me and asked me where i was and i said it was none of his business, instead of him to beg, he told me he had packed my belongings for me and a fat ass girl was giving him what he wanted.
I cut the phone angry and a fresh outburst of tears followed. Party time came so fast and I decided i was going to have sex with this guy and give him my best, we went to the club and I refused to drink so he wouldn't think it was alcohol talking. On our way to the hotel he stopped to ease himself and I drank almost all the drink in the car just to give myself morale, we got to the hotel and i gave myself to him just like that, no need for too much talk, i was a porn star that night and at a point, he shouted " just kill me o" lol.
I was just doing it for revenge and it felt so good. The next morning before he even woke up i had my bath and dressed up saying i was leaving with so much shame in my soul,he begged but I insisted so he said we had to go to church first as it was Sunday, I followed but my mind was far away, he said, look at this long aisle, you will walk through it and I would be waiting in front, mtchew, see this one, i said to myself, i left and went straight home and deleted his number and pin.
He tried calling but to no avail, 4 months passed and i had moved on. My brother woke me up and told me i had a visitor, went to the gate and saw this guy, my heart froze totally, what and how did he get here?
Thanks to Facebook.
Anyway we went out, and this time we really got to know each other, right there at the eatery he knelt down and proposed to me saying "please meet me at the front of that aisle ". My story is too long abeg.......
Now I'm married to my soulmate and my best friend, prayer warrior and what i love the most is he never goes to bed and wakes up angry, it turned out he was coming from tennis practice the day he picked me,he prays 2-3 am at night and he hardly has time because of work, thats why i got midnight replies, we have twin boys ( the labor room was drama filled) and another on the way thanks to my ex.
I'M NOT ENCOURAGING SEX ON THE FIRST DATE BUT EVERY DISAPPOINTMENT IS A BLESSING, stop holding on to someone who brings you nothing but pain... Abeg no vex if i waist ya tym✌🏿️......
Thanks stella ""darling ""
*Frozen with mouth hanging loose*