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Monday, 16 January 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE::
PROS AND CONS OF MARRYING A BABY DADDY

Stellz of life. I raise Beyonce hand for you. I love love love our blog.. lol. Pls hide my email.
I wish we could discuss the d PROS nd CONS of marrying a Baby daddy...
There are about 3 of them asking to marry me. 

It's scary for me cos I don't like drama. I can't even deal but I love one of the guys already and d baby daddy title is basically what is holding me back. 

Would really appreciate it if this is discussed in the house and people who are married to baby daddies should please give advice and experiences or experience so far. Thanks Baby boo.... Kisses. 

Love you muchos. Would love your red pen.


*My Dear i dont know anything concerning baby daddy matters at all  but if the feeling between you two is mutual then go for it but treat the child like you would yours....Not all baby daddy situations are dramatic...For example Annie  and Sunmbo  are good friends even though they have kids for the same man...Sunmbo is a very peaceful woman and Annie realises that and returns it.....
Your Man's baby mama might be peaceful and if not just always extend a hand of friendship.

Note also that some baby mamas are still love with their baby daddys so nothing you do will help
Na wah!

135 comments:

Anonymous said...

Trinity and dewdrop show

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

Don't think u will ask this question if the guy was a millionaire.

LOLO IDEATO said...

My dear as far as he doesn't father a son, you can stay. If its a son. I pity the future of your own son.

Am out. Not in the mood

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Happy Married Life in Advance

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Poster,marry the richest of them...
With money,you can overlook some things but know that their baby mamas will always be in your face!...
Meanwhile,why is it only baby daddies that are asking you out?...are you above 35?..
FAT and a second hand woman like them?...

Anonymous said...

I went against my intuition and dated a baby daddy for 4 months last year. He told me he had issues with his baby mama and they were sorting it out. Told me I was the right one for him and he was so smitten. I cooked for him, we fucked every and anywhere, I was driving his cars, he treated me like a wife.You know what?





I just saw his wedding pictures on social media. I screamed till I lost my voice. I'm as stone-hearted as they come now. I won't advice you to make the same mistake.

nzube izuu said...

Let me read comments.This one pass me.

Chike TEFLON said...

This is the height of it all.
If you think you have read it all another one will surface.

I'm not a baby daddy, so no advice.

I will refer you to Doppelganger

Monkeynofine said...

What's the diff between baby daddy and a divorce man with kids?

becky naka said...

Depends on the man's attitude, if he loves you, care for you, disciplined (no longer sleeping with baby mama) and rich, go for him.

Anonymous said...

"I can't deal . . ." but you
"love one already?"
So what's the attraction; money?
If you love and deal with the child as your own; what about the child's mother; as what, your rival?
Do not bite what you do not like to chew and swallow!
Again, if you are in the "baby mama's" shoes, will you like another to "take your place and treat your child as hers?"
Will you fight her or go to mediums to deal with her?
If yes; then do not go along; do to others as you will like them to do to you.
Baby daddies should marry their baby mamas
If you cannot marry her, then do have premarital sex in the first place.

peace maker said...

U obviously don't love d guy enough. He must be a poor or stingy man.
U won't be asking this yeye question if he is a young rich generous educated tall handsome guy like me.

Anonymous said...

My husband has a son. That was the only issue i had. Every other thing was what i wanted in a man. Although i haven't met him since we got married...over a year now...i have it at the back of my mind that one day he might have to come stay with us and i dont have issues with that. i haven't experienced any drama. I even ask from time to time if he has sent money for his upkeep. It is really about understanding and communication btw u

Blackberry said...

Some still go in-between d legs of their baby mamas o, under d pretext of 'seeing my child'.

If d babymama is married to another man, no wahala, but if she ain't married, oga ooo you'll have competition.

ZIONA said...

i feel if u love him u should go for him,but do ur investigations to find out about his history with the mother of his child. ur concern should b if they still have feelings for each other and y didnt they end up together,once u find out these,then its safe to say u can continue.but if the mother of his child is a drama queen and holds grudges then that would not really be a sane place to stay.

Anonymous said...

Why do girls keep reducing themselves to "baby mamas?"
Why not close that hoe between your legs until marriage?
All these dramas are not worth it; that's why a lot of ladies age so quickly; no peace

Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Marry if you want to marry. Dont allow the baby daddy ish scare you. You might be lucky with him.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

How does your "baby daddy" boyfriends feel about their baby mamas?
If he respects the mother of his child, and the baby mama has moved on; you can consider the boy, but if not, let him be.

Can you treat his child like he or she was yours? (it's always easy to say yes, until they do something annoying, then you will release the monster in you).

Won't you get jealous one day that your boyfriend is showing too much care and love to his child, or even get upset that he's not spending enough time with you because he went out with his child.
Anyways, the ball is on your court! If he treats you right and make you happy and feel relaxed, then he might be for you.
Wish you luck.

Anonymous said...

@Becky Naka,
So where did he suddenly acquire the discipline from?
To greedy ladies like you, it's all about being "rich"
That is why a lot of men will come and lie about their financial statuses to trap you greedy foolish fishes in their nets as baby mamas
You will be sulking and bitter and attack anything that moves on the blogosphere and atmosphere
and write four chronicles in one month
Rich, rich, rich . . . and how does the money come?
You can also be the sacrificial lamb to keep the monies flowing!

Anonymous said...

You are so myopic and unintelligent! So if it's a son she should start inciting rivalry or what? Stop reasoning like an illiterate. So local.

Vivian Alaneme said...

Nothing wrong in marring a baby daddy.

Anonymous said...

@Blackberry, you made sense
If the senseless girls will think
I mean if a girl is an unmarried baby mama (even married ones who missed their dream man), how on earth will she sit quiet and watch another girl marry the baby daddy and be happy?

Cherry Topaz said...

Blunt. As e dey hot

amanda favour said...

Stop it please!
And I'm sure you're a regular B.V

Anonymous said...

Look out for the kind of relationship they have with their children and the mother. Never stay with one that doesn't look after his children, because he will end up abandoning your kids too. Pls always find out from neutral parties, what led to the break up. Not just fabricated stories from the man.

I pity the woman that will end up with my baby daddy, a man that wanted to kill his children and has not provided for them in months. An alcoholic...wife beater and verbally abusive man.

Anonymous said...

If d guy in question genuinely and sincerely loves u,no longer seeing or gbenshing his babymama,nne by all means,get married! My dear time and Tide waits for no one o!time no de again!just mk sure d guy sincerely loves u,its very very Godfearing, respect u and also he must be very kind and generous! If he has all dis criteria,den wat are u waiting for?go ahead and marry him!No Time to waste o! Wishing u all d very best! Ciao!

amanda favour said...

Baby daddy was never married to his baby mama
DivorcΓ©e was formerly married to the mother of his kids

Gorgeous Lilian said...

Whether baby daddy or not, if a man is serious about getting married to u and u have same feeling for him. Why not? as long as u are ready to accept his child(ren) as yours but u must know the reason why he did not marry the mother of his kid so u don't end up as a divorcee or baby mama too. Well, u can't be a baby mama if u don't engage yourself in Fornication, right? Hmmmm, be wise.

peace maker said...

I always LOL when some girls say they love their boyfriend but doubt marrying him bcoz of bla bla bla.
U really never loved him ,even if u did it's superficial. U r just managing him while waiting for a correct man to find u.
U don't know what love really is

Sharon Aminu said...

If the baby mama is not married and still alive then its a No for me,I can deal pls sunmbo is quite because she is happily married.

Sharon Aminu said...

If the baby mama is not married and still alive then its a No for me,I can deal pls sunmbo is quite because she is happily married.

Makason said...

Anonymous 15:01,regular or not,must you mention names.Who ask for your opinion, if you don't know what advice to give,please read comments..
To comment is not a do or die affair...




@ poster,may God give you wisdom..

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Makason said...

Some people don't have conscience at all.
Chai!!!!
Kpele!!!

Anonymous said...

I am not married to a baby daddy but a friend did.
It all depends on the situation surrounding the guy, no yardstick measures all!
His relationship with his baby mama, how often do they see and for what purpose? Will you be fine if the little one spends time at your place? When you love a man you must be willing to love his child! Will your hubby be cool with letting you handle the communication between him and baby mama going forward? I Remember it was the condition for Maje and Toke by their therapist! You need to use all your senses to sniff out the truth without being clouded by your feelings! You don't want to later find out they are both still into each other or the baby mama is a sick one that will steal the peace of your home.
As for my friend, she is lucky the baby mama isn't the trouble. But her hubby is really into his first child. Being a woman herself, she feels the baby mama is out smarting her by using the child to extort the man. When their is a misunderstanding in her home, it's either about how he spent the whole time on phone with his first child or how her hubby has given his first child 70% of his money. In fact the boy is in one of the most expensive schools in Lagos because the baby mama said that is where all her neices and nephews are!

MrsBee

Scarlett said...

There's nothing wrong with that. Even baby mamas also get to marry good husbands.

It's the risk is worth it, then take it. Ensure you treat your step kid right!

Makason said...

Referring her to Doppelganger as per adviser or baby mama.
Hian!!!!

Makason said...

If I hear

Anonymous said...

Many likes!

Eloho said...

Preach it pls....apparently, dy have turned deaf

oki royalty said...

u should make a research very well,why he didn't get married to his baby mama,n also,if the baby mama still love him,by the time u find out,then u will knw what to do

Anonymous said...

Chai Jamisi...lmao

Daenerys_targaryen said...

Fear no gree u mention "them"πŸ˜†πŸ˜†werey alaso!

diamond in d house said...

I really luv ur reply. It doesn't matter if d guy is a baby daddy or not, it all boils down 2 d guy's character 2wards u, if he is gud, den go ahead n marry him n do tk care of dat child. I dated a baby daddy he was so nice n gud 2 me, n wanted 2 marry me, but I didnt lyk his line of biz, n I didnt kw if he was ready 2 change his line of biz 2 something legal, so I quit. But 1st pray n seek God's face. Gudluck.

healthy ikpu said...

baby daddies are human beings like us. stop the stigmatization.
poster, marry him if you like him but know the kid is an important part of his life and he probably will be paying child support for the next 18 years or less and the truth is most times, you will be supporting him to pay for that..

Daenerys_targaryen said...

You're suffering from "caveman" syndrome.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 15:19 u knew all dis and still went ahead to hv a baby for him?u nor try at all!and d way u just sound,its like d guy had kids before u even had a baby for him! Na wa for u o! Hian! I wish u goodluck with ur title, baby mama! Mk una continue to de populate d world! Smh!

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 15:19 u knew all dis and still went ahead to hv a baby for him?u nor try at all!and d way u just sound,its like d guy had kids before u even had a baby for him! Na wa for u o! Hian! I wish u goodluck with ur title, baby mama! Mk una continue to de populate d world! Smh!

Toyosi Susan said...

Very risky if the baby mama is still alive and not married to another man, Sumbo and Anny are Frnds Cos Sumbo is married

Obika Anthonia said...

I think 2face wife has the right answer to ur chronicle...so Annie over to you...

Obika Anthonia said...

I think 2face wife has the right answer to ur chronicle...so Annie over to you...

Fan Emmanuel said...

Ideato don't pity them cos their case is deferent. There are legitimate children and it's only them and their mother who has legal rights over the man.
Poster if the guy truly loves and respects you,and will never for any reason sleep with the baby mama again,marry him with all pleasure.

redbotafly said...

Only you 3 baby dadies want to wife.
Well I don't see anything wrong in marrying one so long he luvs you and respects you.
His baby mama will always be in the picture so make up your mind if its something you can deal with.
Not that when he marries you tomoro you start maltreating that baby. If you kno you can't accept his son as yours, then don't marry him.

Anonymous said...

just be able to make him happy and do away with behaviors similar to his ex that gets him upset

beautiful godly said...

Marry if its the will of God for you. One of them might be your hubby
But learn to love the children involve ,always put them at the back of your heart that it might be your child that is the d baby daddy ish. In respective of the sex if the child protect your child/children from sexual molestations one another ,writing from other people experiences

Tiwa

Anonymous said...

They don't stop sleeping with baby mama, they r always sexually irresponsible,bcos they r national dick, they sleep with prostitutes,was married to one,when I was expecting my first kid with him, the baby mama in another country was expecting too, when he became deluded and started calling her wife, I moved sharpadly, a month after I left, bitch started introducing another person as her husband,sending pics to her so called in laws here, calling ex a thief, london boys sha, laughing seriously here.

Anonymous said...

Wow, is he getting married to his baby mama or to another lady? If yes then it is good for u. Next time don't take a baby daddy serious.

Anonymous said...

#word

Anonymous said...

This is science,it happened to me

victoriousehis said...

It all depends on the situation that led to him fathering that child and the situation On ground

some exes never get over each other so look well.

Classic Chic! said...

Anon:15:08
Whatever u r holding unto..just..'let it go'
Find urself, n its worth!

Anonymous said...

I love ur comment gal......

The widow said...

If his baby mama is not psychotic, is in a relationship, isn't still in love with him ,and If he is decisive and disciplined man, then go ahead and marry him(we all deserve love regardless of our not so pristine past) if 3 out of these 4 Things don't click then dont Pls. Future drama loading

Anonymous said...

Some baby mamas deserve the treatment they get... y'all can come and bleed to death under my comment. I am in a relationship and another woman wants him at all cost. Guys will enter any hole just like rat... and that is why they keep following everything on skirt. She was engaged to be married and he is also engaged to me. I saw their chat messages, that was how I got to know about their friends-with-benefit relationship. They had sex, she got pregnant and had a son. Did I leave the relationship? yes I did. I left both of them for almost 2 years. Now, I have every fact and proof that there is no atom of feeling from him to her... she even confessed it herself to me. They sleep in different rooms and he doesn't eat her food. She has refused to leave the house since she was invited to come for a visit with the child. She told me herself that she knew I was there all along but she acted out of desperation because her ex was not making plans to see her people. She keeps apologizing to me severally but has refused to leave the house. Will I leave him because of the child? Hell no, I won't. She wants him at all cost, he wants me and I want him too. We are planning our marriage and will move quietly and dash her the house. When the rent expires, she go know wetin time dey talk. The fact that you have a child for someone does not mean he must marry you. I'm sorry if this will hurt some people here.

MrsB said...

That's not fair. Haba

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Anonymous said...

Queen and the boss you are mouthed... after advice u come add insult abi na question?

FirstLady said...

If you two love yourself,you can go on and get married.

Anonymous said...

Listen to yourself @Anonymous 15:19. A Godfearing man will never make himself a baby daddy and even if it happen by mistake he will end up marrying his baby mama. You said if the man loves her she should marry him. Lol hope you know most baby daddies were once in love with their baby mamas. Sometimes I wonder how some people think.

Anonymous said...

Pls don't marry a baby daddy. If they were responsible men they won't become baby daddies. Why don't u chase them back to their baby mamas? Ask them to make up with their baby mamas. Go for single guys instead

Anonymous said...

It is hard for a guy who is disciplined to be a baby daddy.

Anonymous said...

Dating a baby daddy takes a lot of mental strength. You have to accept that the mother of his child will ALWAYS be in his life whether you like it or not. As long as he treats you with respect, wants the best for you and doesn't act like he is doing you a favour by dating you then it is all good. BUT, watch out for any drama, you do not want to be caught up in other people's drama. if there is a lot of drama between him and her, just bounce.

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

I hate baggages.......

Mao Akuh said...

Why baby daddies? Na curse? Pls start praying for single good guys o, not late dear.

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Typical igbo woman...... I use to think the same

Anonymous said...

I agree. Pls let go

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Nawa ooh

becky naka said...

Easy na, we are not querelling.

Anonymous said...

My darling i married a baby daddy and am one of d happiest woman on earth , since i was born
Its d best decision i took, i brought my chronicles here and someone advised me like 4yrs ago to follow my heart and i took it as if its word from my mum mouth today i cn proudly say its d best advice anybody can give. The baby mama was reigning fire and brimestone while she was pregnant for another man, we got married in August she gave birth in September. My hubby kids are twins and they love and adore me. They never believed two people can be 2geda wothout fight and curse. They see another sweet side and i force them to go visit her. I love them like mine and they respect me 2. They are 15yrs . Search for break up reasons and y they are not together if genuine my dear go ahead.

Beth said...

The baby mama best be married already....

EkaTre said...

Hahahahahaha who no like better thing

EkaTre said...

Why are you hiding, stupid anon

Sassy Meruche said...

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EkaTre said...

In other words, female children are animals? Please stop reasoning this way. I have a neighbour who married a man with two sons and they are living happily.

Chinny Baby said...

If you love him and can tolerate his baby mama, go for it.

EkaTre said...

That's your luck, some are Lucky.

Sassy Meruche said...

I wouldn't want to intentionally marry a baby daddy.So I don't even date thrm,so as to avoid stories that touch or me developing feelings for them.Once I know of your baby daddy status,I run as fast as my legs can carry me.I'm a very jealous person so I can't afford to share at all.Even if I ever were to end up with one,that child won't stay in my house.Call me wicked, I really don't care,but that's the only I can deal with it.

Anonymous said...

Thank God Trinity and Dewdrop did not kill their baby while in the womb unlike some people that already lost count of the no of abortions they've done

Anonymous said...

Not everyone is wretched like you that thinks money is everything

She-who-must-not-be-named said...

Anonymous 15:01 you must be very stupid for that comment. It's people like you that turn into EVERLASTING babymamas with drama. By the way, you might even me a male commenting. Don't let me curse your life this new year

She-who-must-not-be-named said...

1000 likes

Anonymous said...

Baby daddies never disentangle from baby mamas,divorces are even better

She-who-must-not-be-named said...

Tuface has 2 some from Sumbo even she married her pastor. She isn't dusturbing Annie o

She-who-must-not-be-named said...

Queen, queen. This woman eh! I fear who no fear your tongue. Choi!πŸ˜‚

She-who-must-not-be-named said...

They must have been signs dear. You 're not sharp

Anonymous said...

I dated a baby daddy for a year. The reason he broke up with her is because she left him for a richer guy and had a kid for the guy but not befre humiliating him and comeing with touts to remove her belongings. I met him broke and lonely. After I helped him with business and we both travel to ghana for vacations to celebrate our one year anniversary, i snooped and noticed he started talking with his baby mama after one year, they missed each other and she was begging to comeback saying she made a mistake leaving him. That he should adopt the boy she had for the man she left him for.I taught this guy won't go back, but after going back to my base, i woke up to see the picture of his babymama child she had with the other married man as his dp. I couldn't breath, i asked him he denied and removed it immediately. After 2 weeks he broke up with me. I let him go and swore never to date a babydaddy.I don't know what became of him, his sister and mum were very sad and disappointed, the babymama went as far as putting his dad in jail when they had problem and for this guy to go back to her? I learned the business collapsed and he's looking for a job as a driver. I deleted everything about him, no regret.I learned my lesson and God blessed me with a better job, i am happy.

Anonymous said...

My husband had his child when he was in his early 20s. The child is over 12 now. He and d baby mama hatdly even dated. They had moved on and he has dated people after her. It was a slip and he accepted the responsibility. The situation varies. Check all sides before u go ahead

Anonymous said...

Love his child like yours and make sure he marry u well, traditional church and court registry very important.simple

Dez Asanwa said...

My dear be careful o, I have met 2 supposed baby daddies. 1 has his son in America with babe, he travels every now and then to go see the son and the babe, I later found out he was still dating the babe. The 2nd guy is married and lied he had a baby mama. He told me he had to lie he has a baby mama so I don't leave him cos he is in love with me.
Poster please investigate and be sure there aren't loopholes. If u must date him it must be for marriage.

Anonymous said...

15:43 you are obviously a clueless single girl. He has no children besides mine. He was not all those things when I met him because he can pretend for Africa. In fact he had a sweet innocent face and drank casually. He also hid his addiction to porn and child sex from me. So.... There you have your answer.

Cherry Topaz said...

Epic truth my dear. But whatever you do, since you have the man's heart,don't let the poor child suffer. As for the bitch, deal with her!!

Anonymous said...

That's what you get when you base relationship on fucking only. The women in such situationship always lose out

oguike akudo said...

My dear if menopause is approaching do the needful by marrying him.But just know that situation will come up and prepare your self for such. But if you are still tear rubber my dear,try go know what the baby Mama feel for him. If possible have a discussion with her. Try to know her stand. If she is still interested then back out.

Anonymous said...

Nothing wrong in marrying a baby daddy if you really love him. As long Aa the child's mother is totally out of the picture as in married or in a serious relationship so her attention is else where. My husband has a 18 years old son and I don't have any issues with that. He told me at the very beginning and I was cool with it especially because nobody has seen or heard from the mother since the baby was 1 yr old. He lives with his grand parents but he is been with us for the past one month and we are cool. I m like a big sister or aunty to him. I m too young to be a 19 year olds mom abeg. I all have my son sons and daughters but he will always be the first son and I m cool with that.

Anonymous said...

You lack self worth. Did she tie him to the bed to sleep with him? H enjoyed it as much as she did. So wake up and realise he is a loser and let him carry his cross. It is women like you that make excuses for men hence their irresponsibility. Women train you boy child to be godly and responsible. He could fxxk her so let him marry her

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

Do not deceive yourself,if he cannot handle her now,then it will be worse when you people get married. Don't get into a polygamous marriage out of desperation,you deserve better. Let him go or wait until he is man enough to decide what he truly wants, if he runs away from her now because he cannot exercise his authority,one day he will run from you too.

Chike TEFLON said...

Please I'm referring her to Doppelganger as a good adviser that she is.

Abeg Makos nwa ezeigwe abi na makason or whatever you call yourself, please don't come and jam two heads together.

Please I'm a trouble free person.
I don't like drama.

She-who-must-not-be-named said...

Why won't women just have a little pride. You would have left him as soon as he put that dp up. Sooooo disrespectful.

Anonymous said...

Hehehehehee... it is you and your daughters that lack self worth.
I ain't leaving him for no baby mama.
Deal with it!

Anonymous said...

Becky, it's quarreling*
You're welcome.

ukwu dimond said...

If the baby mama is married nne go ahead but if the baby mama is still single biko watch your back. Most baby mamas hardly give up on their baby daddy, I'd say baby mama is single and also an understanding person that is not disturbing you and her baby daddy, you are good to go, else run for tour life. We women are dangerous and one cannot predict us at all times.

SANDY NEKY said...

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Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

If them call married women out now, now self go follow come out?

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

Oooh ooooh sorry didn't understand you initially

LOLO IDEATO said...

Yes boo @portable

TheBrownDahlia said...

Sorry about your heartbreak but your ex was not a baby daddy, judging by what you said about her leaving him and having a child with another man.

Dat awesome gal said...

You have a good heart.anonymous18:17

Anonymous said...

Yekpa! Choi! See story! Some men like torture ooo, they prefer bitches to good girls, so they deserve whatever they get.

Anonymous said...

No woman should look down on herself at any age, marriage or no marriage. Tear rubber my ar*e. This is the reason lots of women have low self esteem.

SouljaGal*** said...

For how long will this drama continue? You better leave that house for him to sort his shit out with the baby mama and come get you, after all he hasn't paid you bride price. Na you know sha, i kabash anything that will make me not to slp at night biko.

porch baby said...

So a baby mama is a second hand material to you right? You keep talking trash about a fellow human and woman like you, yet we keep seeking gender equality. better be careful of the seed you sow for your children.


I pity those who accommodate your kind

Makason said...

Na who drama help?

Anonymous said...

Oooh... Believe me he's super rich... Dey are all rich so my dear, their money isn't wat I am looking at. I want peace of mind in marriage dats my major headache and not d money... Tot u were smarter than ds

Anonymous said...

Anon 16:23 you sound dumb.

Anonymous said...

I know a baby daddy who is very much in love with his baby mama, pride would not let him forgive her, he would rather die in silence, after many relationships, he finally decided to marry but his people refused to support him and told him to go back to his baby mama.
My point? Go find yourself a man, and be in a marriage where you will build and have peace, for the sake of your mental health and a peaceful life for you and your kids.

Anonymous said...

I know a baby daddy who is very much in love with his baby mama, pride would not let him forgive her, he would rather die in silence, after many relationships, he finally decided to marry but his people refused to support him and told him to go back to his baby mama.
My point? Go find yourself a man, and be in a marriage where you will build and have peace, for the sake of your mental health and a peaceful life for you and your kids.

Anonymous said...

Olodo... He is ten times a man more dan u can ever be.... Super fine, rich, overly educated and more.

Anonymous said...

Triumphant Zion I think you are the one deceiving yourself. If you are desperate, I am not. Besides, who is talking about polygamous marriage? Who says he can't handle her? He won't throw her out, he will move and leave her there. Why will he run from me? It doesn't work that o girl. It's a lesson for people like you that want to trap men with pregnancy. Try to read and understand before you type rubbish. I didn't even seek advice or opinions... it's what I have decided to do.

Souljagal... I am staying with him, I would never do that. Like I said, I left him for almost 2 years, he came to get me and we have started our marriage process.

It's very easy for us human beings to give advice when we are not in the person's shoes. Unfortunately when we happen to find ourselves in that shoes, wo tend to do the opposite of the same advice we dish out. The worst of all we advise with insults and derogatory and deforming remarks. Y'all need to chill please.

Tessbaby said...

Amanda d qiestion is whats d significant difference btw the 2 situations?

Ralia the sugar girl said...

'He told me he had issues with his baby mama and they were sorting it out.'

Am sorry abt what you went through but I don't think he deceived you. Your statement above says it all. He just needed an affair for the moment and you fit into that.

Anonymous said...

My current boyfriend has 3 daughters from his baby mama I love him and I don't care


Amacastel said...

I rather marry a widower, Divorcee than to marry a baby daddy dy don't stop dating there baby mama oooo.eg tuface &pero Abi Pedro, sumbo moved on becos she is married if not she will still be fucking tuface ooo, having 2kids from 1 man is not beans ooo. The drama no be here ooo

Anonymous said...

Why do I have a feeling that I know you cos my son is ovr 12 n yes we dated n yes he stil ask for my punani so don't mk urslf look important if I wanna scatter ur home I wil sure do that

Anonymous said...

Choi!!!

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