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Friday, 10 February 2017

Man Whose Wife Is Asking For Divorce Tells Court “I Caught My Wife In Her Shop Cutting A Man’s Nails,”

“I caught my wife in her shop cutting a man’s nails,’’ 45-year-old applicant, Wahabi Sodiq, told an Igando Customary Court in a Lagos suburb on Thursday.



Sodiq alleged while testifying in a divorce case filed by his wife, Kudirat, 44, a public bar operator, seeking dissolution of their 24-year-old marriage over threat to her life.

“I believe my wife is having extra marital affairs. I got to her shop and met her with a man who placed his legs on her table while my wife was cutting his nails.
“Immediately the man saw me, he quickly removed his legs from her table but I did not say nothing and I left immediately.


“Since that day I became bitter because I felt cheated; I have given her Holy Bible and Quoran several times to swear that she was not dating the man but she refused,” he told the court.

On the allegation that he beats the woman, he denied, saying:”I only beat my wife once since we got married and i did that because she assaulted me.
“Anytime my wife goes to her shop, she will not come home for days; she prefer sleeping in her shop.


“She also loves going to parties without my consent and whenever she returns and I queried her she will turn it to a fight.
The husband, however, pleaded with the court not to grant his wife’s request for a dissolution of their marriage, saying “I still love her.’’
Kudirat, responding to the husbands submission, said:“My husband is always threatening to kill me and suffocate me to death with a pillow.
“I am always afraid to sleep at home and because of the fear, I packed some of my belongings back to my parent’s house.”

The petitioner also accused her husband of planning to sell the house she laboured to build.
“My husband called me on phone and threatened to sell my house if I refused to come back to our matrimonial home.”
Kudirat alleged that her husband was in the habit of chasing away her customers, accusing her of infidelity.

The mother of four, who said she had no emotion or love for him anymore, urged the court to dissolve the marriage.
The court’s President, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, ordered both parties to come along with three members of their families for a possible resolution and reunion at the next hearing date. (NAN)


*Is it in a Judge's place to settle a warring couple?Just wondering!


61 comments:

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Oga talk true and swear with Holy Bible and Koran, you self never cheat on your wife?

Why your wife no go cut another man's toes when you no dey play with your wife.

All these beer parlour women can do so many annoying things ooo. Any woman with a beer parlour i dey take corner eyes look them. Them dey flirt too much

Single Mom said...

Hmmm! Igando and divorce cases


Long live SDK

Anonymous said...

Kikikikokikikikiki! Sorry that I am laughing but .....kikikikikikjki. There is nothing I will not read on this sweet blog.kill me now....kikikijikuji

Isaacson said...

Hmmmm this case is funny and somehow,madam do I might be wrong but your ways are not pure as a married man,and yes your husband might be over reacting or being insecure but you should try and make him trust you by not giving him doubts or excuses to question your loyalty....if her mind is no longer in the marriage then the judge should dissolve the marriage before one kills another abeg

Bee10 said...

Igando Igando up Igandooo

BLOGLORD said...

Hahahahaahaha
Igando court and their funny marital cases.

Oga, your wife is tired of the marriage and wants out. Free her now!

Abi till you beat her to death?

It is obvious the marriage is dead, this one she is doing pedicure for another man. Lmaooo. Wahala de oh!.

Two opposite directions- oya! start walking both of you.

Istanbul said...

Anybody can do that Stella,if they can hear you out.

Yemi7up said...

This is kotu ibile so he can call for resolution instead of separating them.

Missprettyw said...

There's always a place for reconciliation but if it's the discovered that the relationship has gotten to the place of irreparable damage then divorce is granted

Oluyomi Odukoya said...

My people, my people.... You sha must show unaselves

BLUNT said...

"I have given her Holy Bible and Quoran several times..." All hail the sophisticated tribe. They are Christians and Muslims at the same time, they tell you "yes" and "no" at the same time. Their loyalty is to CAN and Sokoto all at the same time. They're found in the Northern and Southern parts of the country. When they meet you, they refuse to tell you their religion. They first watch you to know your faith first, then tilt towards what you tell them. Yet, they're the face of Christianity in Nigeria! They are always sitting on the fence. They tell you it's diplomacy when you get concerned about their lack of stability. All hail them. Our most sophisticated tribe.

STARRY LARRY said...

Nonsense




*Larry was here*

Miss Ess said...

Minds have been made up jare

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Stupid man!...
Useless Y....a D...n...
I'm sure the woman is the breadwinner!..
The court should dissolve the marriage sharply...
Lazy stupid pig!...

IVORY said...

I really think that woman is cheating right now and wants to leave that marraige to be in the arms of new bobo

Chike TEFLON said...

Yoruba people and breakup be like 5&6.
I don't blame them because they marry easily. Pregnant a woman give her family fruit, bam you are married.

Empress Educational Toys(Wholesale&Retail)call/watsapp 08095099392 said...

All sorts only in Igando.

Chike TEFLON said...

The only thing Yoruba women know how to do best is to fuck up and down. I don't blame them, I blame their lazy alaye husbands that the only hustle they know is to do "ogbeni, owo mi da"

Chike TEFLON said...

Just negodu nonsense talk from Yoruba demons

Eminado Onimisi said...

Despite all his allegation of infidelity he doesn't want the dissolution of the marriage, she is definitely the bread winner. The funny thing is trying to exercise control over his benefactor. If she was truly cheating, a lazy man should not expect his woman to be faithful. He should let her go in peace.

Chike TEFLON said...

This is how their Alhajas will be carrying drugs up and down, working their Ass off to put food on the table and their lazy useless horsebands will carry their prick up and down impregnating small small Yoruba girls

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Lol

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Kikikikikiki...
You can say that again!...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Exactly...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Correct talk!...
Gbam!...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahaha...

reemah said...

IgandoπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Daveen Laundry and Dry cleaning Services, Ajah, Lagos. 09072092853. Free pick up and delivery. said...

The couple have their individual faults, however if attempt to reconcile them fails then let them go their separate ways.

BeQuiet Instead said...

@Chike TEFLON....you are indeed a broken record.

Generalizing a case because of even 100 people in a tribe/nation, is an indication of "short-sightedness". And no, I'm not Yoruba.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Hahhhaaa very funny

Greenland hostel (add up 55979E98, Apete Ibadan affordable modern self contain for all) said...

E don do na. Wetin yoruba do you sef wey be sey u dey dis bitter. Pele o, make you no develop hbp

Petitesofynsofly said...

Bia,Chike or whatever you call yourself.Why are you littering this post with your hateful,tribastic comments? Is it that time of the month?

Anonymous said...

Fruit ke? Hahahajajajajahah

BLOGLORD said...

LMAOOOO @ ogbeni owo mi da.
As a bus conductor that they IS abi?

Anonymous said...

I know one that is married to a governor now,while she was single if she was saying a Christian she'll be a Christian but if it'a a Muslim she's dating she''ll become a muslim instantly, I used to wonder how someone Wil be comfortable with serving other gods.

Pipi Lee said...

Chike, oginikwanu???
Nna rapu ndia aka biko.

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Chike any yaraba demon break ya heart? why you carry their matter for ya head na. hahahaha abeg no kill me with laugh this afternoon

Anonymous said...

Oh silly Blunt. Story story .annoyingly dry blunt. Shut up

Anonymous said...

Huh? Why are you ranting? You dey mad ni stupid ibo ole!

Chike TEFLON said...

Did I forget to say that Yoruba girls like alaye?

If you see where Yoruba girls are bragging about their alaye boyfriend... They prefer them to the few responsible ones among them.

If you see where their men are beating their women you will know that the origin of domestic violence is from Yoruba land.

Tueh to Yoruba land

Gold said...

Yes, its obvious he wants to keep his luxury life style.

One trillion said...

End time nail clipper

Just Glamour said...

Choi!Chike Teflon Ozugo.

Ronalda. said...

Stells, I remember leaving a comment on one of the posts on dissolution of marriage, that courts, generally, are reluctant to grant petitions for dissolution of marriage. By practice, they usually explore the route of reconciliation where the respondent( the party who didn't file for divorce) shows the slightest sign of not wanting the marriage dissolved. Another factor for consideration is the reason(s) given for the petition to dissolve the marriage. If the court is of the opinion that the petitioner's life is not in any immediate danger, the court will try to reconcile both parties.

This is just one final attempt to see if the marriage can be salvaged. Remember it's a customary court, which means it's only a traditional marriage b‎inding the couple. The court will hear from family members from both families and see if reconciliation is possible. If the petitioner still insists that she wants the marriage dissolved because she's not longer in love with her husband, the court has no choice than to grant her petition and dissolve the marriage.

Dissolution of a marriage under the Act (marriage conducted at the Registry or a Church licensed to issue marriage certificates) is a lot more difficult and the process is way lengthier. However, even where the petitioner succeeds in providing the ground(s) for divorce, the court grants a "decree nisi". This is a 6 month waiting period. This is premised on the fact that the courts want to be sure there's zero chance at reconciliation before granting the "decree absolute", which is the end of the marriage. Some parties reconcile during the 6 month waiting period when "divorce nisi" is in place. When that happens the divorce petition will be struck out by the court or withdraw by the petitioner, and the marriage continues.

Ronalda. said...

This reminds me of a hilarious divorce case, it happened quite a while ago. The wife filed for a dissolution of marriage, citing irreconcilable differences and desertion. Apparently the husband ran off for about 2 years with some pretty young thing. By the time he came to his senses and rushed back "home", wifey was done! She already had a boyfriend and was no longer interested in the marriage. I'm not sure what was in play but hubby crawled back like a love sick puppy, his love for her seemed intensified, much more than before. Unfortunately, wifey was getting her "pipes" serviced so she couldn't be bothered.

Day 1 of hearing, it was like watching a low budget Indian movie! Lol! Jeezzz! Talk about melodramatic performance! The judge looked positively bewildered by hubby's theatrics! This dude rushed to where his wife was standing as soon as the court clerk called out the case. He went on his knees, grabbed her legs and started bawling like a little girl who lost her doll! The matter had to be adjourned because the court couldn't come to order. Anyway, to cut a long story short, wifey managed to get a "decree nisi" after about 18 months ( yeah, I know, I shamelessly stalked the case).

Apparently, as time went by, wifey started having feelings for her hubby. I guess he was able to rekindle the passion they once shared, but wifey refused to withdraw the divorce petition, not sure why. A week to when the court would have granted the "decree absolute" which terminates the marriage, the sly fox of a hubby managed to seduce his wife and invited her over to a hotel. Of course, with the natural progression of events, they had mind-altering and mind-blowing sex that wifey kept going back for more, 3 days straight. He begged her to withdraw the petition but she still refused, I guess she wanted the best of both worlds. Perhaps she wanted to pay hubby back for the pain and suffering he caused her.‎

By day 4, she ignored hubby like she didn't know him from a can of paint which only drove him wilder with passion. At this point, he was really behaving like he was seriously pu**y-whipped (excuse my French). His lawyer was wondering what the hell had taken over his client because hubby told his lawyer that he would actually kill himself if he doesn't get wifey back and he was so restless. It was during one of his wailing sessions that he let the cat out of the bag! The minute his lawyer heard that he has been having sex with his wife, I'm sure he must have grinned like the cat who swallowed the Cannery but his client had no idea why his lawyer suddenly seemed to enjoy watching him squirm in misery.

On the final day, when a "decree absolute" was to be ordered. The hubby's lawyer told the court that he has new information he received recently which could change the entire trial by showing cause why a "decree absolute" should not be granted. He told the court that the petitioner and the respondent had had steamy sex sessions for the 1st 3 days of the week! The silence which enveloped the court was deafening! The Judge smiled broadly and looked towards the direction of wifey. I'm not sure who was more surprised, her lawyer or her dutiful boyfriend who decided to accompany her to court. Her lawyer spun around to look at her...alas! her facial expression confirmed the lawyer's worst fears. After a few hopeless attempts by her lawyer, to defend the actions of wife, the court dismissed the petition because, according to the court, if the wife could tolerate sex with her estranged husband after all he put her through and knowing that a "decree absolute" would be granted in a matter of days, the "irreconcilable differences" has become reconcilable so wifey should go settle with her husband. That was the end of the matter, the court refused to grant her petition. I'm not sure what happened later but I wouldn't be surprised if they got back together.

Fan Emmanuel said...

Hahahaha...#Side eyes#

sholetoga said...

This one is marriage brouhaha......

Anonymous said...

Jealousy has done more havoc than good.

Mao Akuh said...

They need prayers

Chinny Baby said...

Lol

Nwa ndu loves IreneB said...

She is just learning pedicure init?

becky naka said...

Hahahahahaha, I so love this, I'm just imagining the man begging, they are both bad ass (the man and the woman)

Favourite Girl said...

Wow! This sounds like in the movies. The husband truly love the wife.

Tosin said...

Tueh to igbotic land, Na dem do asleep, lesbianism, drugs pass. Idiot, I don't mean to say this but I want u to Know all this tins are based on individuals.my dad has never laid his hands on my mom, never cheated cos he's Bible is always in his car and he fists us WATEVA happens den at his place of work, even staff attested to it,dis is his 36th yr in marriage. Shame on igbo for being too too realistic and yes I came down to ur level this night

Tosin said...

Tueh to igbotic land, Na dem do asleep, lesbianism, drugs pass. Idiot, I don't mean to say this but I want u to Know all this tins are based on individuals.my dad has never laid his hands on my mom, never cheated cos he's Bible is always in his car and he fists us WATEVA happens den at his place of work, even staff attested to it,dis is his 36th yr in marriage. Shame on igbo for being too too realistic and yes I came down to ur level this night ,Tueh, Kelebe, Oshi on all igbo ND igbo land and community

Anonymous said...

Exactly. She's clearly interested in someone else and he is holding on to nothing really. She's clearly the breadwinner

Gbogbo bigz girlz said...

So the only Yoruba mennthat you know are the owo Midas's.

Speaks a lot about who you are. Tueh.

Anonymous said...

Chike go Onitsha make u go see as Igbo boys useless all over d place. Before u leave there, they must steal something from ur bag, if they don't steal ur limb or carry u go sef. Their married women r sleeping with anything that has prick in Festac town, Isolo, ire-Akari n all those areas. Yet their men r d Most occultic in d world. Na dem dey carry drugs pass, 419 n everything. My brother those who live in glass houses should not throw stones!

BabyRichy3 said...

Chike..were alaso

Anonymous said...

You dare insult Yorubas? Igbo girls are so fucking materialistic it's sickening....Enugu girls are so cheap Walahi.....all they know is money...runs babes and abortion specialist.....Chike local rat stop fooling yourself...only few igbo guys are refined, the rest just local with nasty igbotic ascent... Always wearing high waist trousers and funny looking shoes....aba trader things like ChikeπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

You uneducated, ill exposed and tribalistic swines - chike, linda eze, blog lord and just glamour - would continue to live substandard lives in your caves till eternity. Never seen such senseless and crass comments! All of you are tribalistic swines and that is your tag, going forward.

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