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Monday, 29 May 2017

IHN- MONDAY

Hmmm....It is well.
Have a beautiful holiday today as you Observe Democrazy day...Kisses!





UGOCHI COVERS IHN



Hi Stells! Ndewo! My name is Ugochi.
My day is incomplete without SDK blog. I've been a BV for about 3years now.. But i don't comment cos I don't have a blog ID. I've tried to create one, but along the line, i get confused and stop. . I will surely get one wen i am done with school. Final year/semester is so stressful, jeez! And its worse in my dept.
Anyways, hope i qualify for face of IHN.
Keep doing your good work and more grease to ur elbows. I love u very much.
Three gboza with Beyonce hand for U!!!



Hey you okay 'gochi?or is it Ugo or chi?lol
Kisses to you babe...na me love you pass


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TOMISIN AND BRO COVER IHN

Madam stellz to badt...blogger toh gbayii all the way. The blog is now my second book. Attached is a pic of my cute brother n I. He's a photographer (left) and me (right, a beevee) a wardrobe consultant (fashion designer) lol. And greetings to all beevee dovie,lolo ideato, queen and boss TGW, galore d galore I duff my hat.


So pls patronise us so as to make ur events memorable
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LOL....Wardrobe consultant for real?wow kool..

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY ABIMBOLA

Kindly help me celebrate my wonderful friend.

It was very hard, to pen down my thoughts ;
I don't know how to say that I love you lots.

But, finally, I got myself to express how much I love you. 
Yes, we argue and quarrel ( that's how it should be,I suppose)...
In case you don't know,  I draw inspiration from your strength. 

 Abimbola, this is just a prelude of an eternal saga of me, 
Showing how over you, I've gone gaga.

I love you completely my shugalala. 
Happy birthday my human diary. Have a wonderful new age.


With love,

Fe Mi




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BV ROHDA REX SHARES HER BABY MAMA STORY BECAUSE SOMEONE IS TRYING TO CYBER BULLY HER
INTO SILENCE.

 I met this guy when I was in SS2. He approached me and told me he wants to marry me. 

 That he's been watching me for a long time. Well,  I told him to go see my grand parents. I was living with them that time.  I thought he wouldn't, but he did. My grannies just laughed it off. But we started dating anyway. 

Then, he took me to his place. God, I was dumbfounded. The guy's parents lived in a mansion. I didn't know o. And he was the only son.  We went in, he introduced me to his mom. The mom smiled at me, and told me she likes me,  and that was it. I took it as a confirmation and bared it all.

  I got pregnant the first time we had sex. Then I told him. He was so happy. Told the mom to start preparing for intro. That I was pregnant for him. The mom practically refused. That I came for the money. Don't  know how she convinced his son, the guy later came to me to abort the child. That he wasn't ready yet.  I refused. He pleaded with me to do it, that he doesn't want me to get pregnant before marriage, I refused. He gave me 30k for the abortion. I've already decided not to do it. But I collected the money from him and went to the market to got some baby things for myself.

 I got home and told my grannies everything. They decided to go and see the guy's parents. They went but came back dejected. There was nothing the woman didn't tell my grannies. She even accused me of coming to their son because of his money. I took everything with faith.  And I suffered because of my stupidity. When I was six months gone, I heard he has travelled out of the country. I cried eh, That was it, I didn't hear from him again until I gave birth.

 The day I gave birth, I was alone in the house. If not for God, and one other woman that was passing by and heard me screaming, I don't Where I would have been now. 


She came in, went to get help and they delivered me a beautiful baby boy.. A boy that the woman has been looking for. And u know what, this woman came back o. She came with few of her kinsmen and started crying and begging,  that she was sorry. And we all knew she came back because i gave birth to a "boy" . But my people refused. 

Till today, I haven't heard from my baby's father. I don't even know if he's alive, and u know what, I don't even care. my boy's 5years now and he's staying with my aunt...



*I have encouraged her to share this story so that she can be free,I know this is a blog but it begins from somewhere,the minute you show your haters that the weapon they think they have on your cannot hurt you,then you free yourself...they have been dropping these comments trying to firce her into silence and not be herself....


She is just a small girl who made a mistake but life goes on..We have other baby mamas here who have found their self worth and cannot be silenced with their beautiful mistakes..BV Trinity,please reach out to her and encourage her..please!


I also need us to show her love and ask on bended knees that whoever is trying to torment her to stop...
From now Rhoda,be free and mingle here as a baby mama..

We love you just the way you are!



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FROM SINGLES MINGLES TO INTRODUCTION


Good day Stellz,
With so much joy I write to tell you about our just concluded Introduction. You would recall I sent you a message when I proposed.
Will keep you posted about the wedding proper.
All thanks to God who gave you the insight to come up with this blog.
NB You know not where you'll find that special one so I encourage all not to give up.
Anonymous mode pls and attached are pictures for your viewing pleasure .
God bless You Stellz



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BUSINESS MEME



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MESSAGE TO LADY GBENSHING IN THE DREAM


Hello Stella,my heart goes out to the Lady gbensing in her dream,you posted on Friday IHN, had a friend who went through same bad dream like hers,but has her baby few months ago,

hers was even worse,as she also dreams of masquerades and always eating in the dream, sometimes it is not about praying,but finding the root,and knowing where to target her prayers to....please Stella post, she can send me a mail, gratefulheart507@gmail.com....



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RE-FAILED JAMB
So, I have not been online much for close to two weeks now.(went for my dad's burial). So, I was reading past IHN today and saw a post about someone that failed jamb seven times.
http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2017.

I wish to reach out to that person. Education is good, but in today's Nigeria, it is not 'wow'. If he or she is interested, I will train him or her free of charge to become a shoe maker. While waiting for admission into higher institution, no crime in being self employed.

If he or she is not interested, if you have any other person that needs the knowledge, I will be happy to train. I reside on the mainland.
send mail to mustardsshoes@gmail.com


if the person doesnt contact you then,choose from anyone of the people that would contact you



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PLEASE TREAT AS URGENT

I am a fresh graduate and just finished serving in one of the western states.the issue is towards the end of my service I started experiencing some discomfort in my eye and blurry vision I've been seeing a Doctor and taking medication but there is no improvement, I went for check up yesterday and he said he would refer me to see a specialist.


 I don't have any money for all that as I have spent all my savings on drugs et all, I struggled my way through school and hoping for a brighter future before this eye issue came up. Please I'm not begging for money all I need is the help of any BV that's an Ophthalmologist  who can check my eyes for free and prescribe drugs, I will buy the drugs .


 Also any BV that knows where they conduct free eye test in Lagos should also contact me. the doctor says it an infection I contacted probably from the water I used in the state I served. My number is 09031276171




Any Optometrist in the house that can help?

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TESTIMONY AND VACANCY


Stella oooooo, God don do am.
After God na you oooo.


Do u remember how I do plead with you to post advert for me when you still do free Advert?


I only count on sales I make each time you do the Advert.


Yes! I picked up pieces of my life after I lost my job in Mtn in 2015.

God has milliontiplied my hard work + your assistance.

To Mrs Orusa, she connected me with lots of her friends, all the way from Awka - Ibom, Fabmum, Princess and so many Sdk Bv's that encourage with Patronage, words of Advice, Thank You!

To any Sdk Naturalista gets 10% off their order this Month of May with gifts attached.


Abeg I need a Naturalista's bv as Sales Rep, qualification OND
Microsoft word, excel, PowerPoint will be an advantage.
Graphic design will be an advantage.
Must reside around Ikeja, Egbeda.
Send me a cover letter to bimfemnaturalhair@gmail.com and she should confirm Done via whatsapp 07032378915

Stella, Only God can bless you, but Trust me, he will Bless your Children more than your imagination, your cup will never run dry. My Hubby and I says WE LOVE YOU!

find attached my New Store in Ikeja





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Iman Give-Away For the Month of Ramadan(2017)

Hello Big Sister We like to assist four Muslim family for this Month of Ramadan..
We gonna pick 2 families within now to15th of Ramadan by giving out 5k to each of them..
and pickup the remaining 2 families within 16th to 30th of Ramadan..

Am Sure this will go long way for the Sahur and Iftar..
So any Muslim family here that Really Need it should Send mail to Engr.ayyub@gmail.com With Proved!!


Ramadan Kareem!!!


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SATURDAY IN HOUSE GISTS WINNER

Blog Visitor Miss Ess,your entry in the post touched Angle Beautiful,the sponsor of the post...she says that your story touched her.Please correspond with me via email.
Thanks...
As for the other comments post winner inside IHN.....I have received no word back yet.




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THE NON JUDGEMENTAL MUM
I went to see a friend that just returned from the abroad,  got to her house and the daughter opened the door.  We were both seeing each other for the first time though I have see her pictures on facebook.

ME: whoa you have grown o, you are such a big girl now 
(She didn't respond just kept staring at me. As I was about saying something else) 
GIRL: Men you are fat 
ME: (In my mind)  ehn?  This girl talk wetin I think say she talk or he fall from her mouth 
Then I started petting myself: na small pickin dey worry her,  me fat? Me wey Keto don help I'm even planning on sending my before and after pictures to my Keto facebook group . But the girl no rest o
GIRL: (In her yeye American accent) you are really fat. 
ME: (In my mind)  OK na slap you dey fine if I sound you ehn....
Just then her mum (a lepa ) came out laughing, started gisting and gist enter gist.

On my way home I was just thinking how I have changed,  the old me would have been critical of my friend on how she didn't reprimand her daughter / told her to apologize /how she didn't bring her up properly even quote "train up your child in the way..... " But being a mum now I have become less critical of other mums .

I Have had situations where l taught my kids certain things and right before my very eyes they do the exact opposite and then you will have those senior special adviser mothers dishing out advise on how to discipline them.

I'm not saying my friend did right , my question to mummies in the house is, has having children changed the way you judge other people's parenting skills? 
Has it made you more or less critical of other parents.


The Iya Beji 1



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229 comments:

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ola wealth said...

Girls.. What is your impression like, when a guy you just met for a Date decides to order Origin? Gulder? Star? Trophy?

Guys. what will you do if you meet up with a girl for the first time and she orders GULDER?πŸ˜‚

FLUFFYCAKE Lagos 07056157039 said...

Keep moving! You may be tired, fired, burnt out and don't feel like it...but keep moving! You may have stacks of bills and be stressed out about how to pay them....but keep moving! You may have drama or trauma in your life, relationships, children, or career....but keep moving. Someone you care deeply about may be ill or declining in health. It is their journey. You are here to love, support and/or accompany them...not to become them, so keep moving!

Life may hand you a set of keys that will not open any doors. Crawl out a window and keep moving! You will get past this moment. You will feel stronger and more hopeful than you are now. Resolve that you can and will do this. Just keep moving! You have something special. You have GREATNESS within you!

- Les Brown

Sweet Mother said...

Am I first? Made it early today.

Em jay said...

Kedu ndi yard😁😁😁😁😁😁😁...
I need gist in my life ohhh, Chiki baby fire anything for the girls?

Ibk baby I saw you inside SP this morning, 'my sneaker πŸ‘Ÿ lover sister'😁😁😁😁.
Edo/Delta when are we having our parri?

Pls who is behind instagblog9ja?

Flawlessbae said...

Welcome to lHN

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

In life, you will realize there is a role for everyone to meet. Some will test you, some will use you, some will love you, and some will teach you. But the ones who are truly important are the ones who bring out the best in you. They are the rare and amazing people who remind you why it's worth it.
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tetrina; kindly re-check & re-send. Thanks hunπŸ’‹❤
bloggie; sup wiv you dearπŸ’™πŸ”Έ
fab mum; hello dearieπŸ˜˜πŸ’š
TGW; heart youπŸ’‹πŸ˜˜

Micki C said...

How can one move on completely without thinking about hurt from family and those we called friends? Depression is real and it has taking away my happiness. Sending a chronicles may make things worse. Its well

Gemmie said...

IHN ☑

The Nigerian Dream: When Are We Going To Get There?


Feeling so bad on behalf of this country at the mo.






#Hope

Miss Ess said...

It's ankther democracy day IHN. Hope you are enjoying your holiday.

Istanbul said...

Its it just my phone alone or what?Am finding it difficult to open Stella's blog or phone engineers in the house what do you guys think its the problem, am finding it difficult to access this blog,it will just be there like there is no network and there its but i can open Fb easily. Am tired of this phone seriously

Madame koinkoin a.k.a 'peace lover" said...

Happy democracy day beautiful people

Lagos Babe Elegance said...

I don't understand all this talk about popularity and all that,what is there to be popular about on a blog,,If you come under my comment and I don't feel the need to reply, I don't!

Sometimes,I'm even too busy to go back to post to check for replies under my comments,must I justify your existence on the blog by acknowledging your reply,hell NO!

I saw Chikito's comment and welcome the idea of going there,the reason for my enquiry and hoping she comes back to read and reply, thankfully​ she replied,so what's the FUSS about!

Yes I'm lafresh,so save your time in doing something productive and quit the investigation job without pay you are on about!

Istanbul said...

This my phone is just annoying me

Flawlessbae said...

Happy birthday abimbola

Apples ( SDKBlog Shrink) said...

I see fine guys!

chubby barny said...

Wow so enjoying this holiday... pls someone suggest good series I can ownload.. just finished watching the big bang theory n parenthood... see me crying like a child when I was watching parenthood... someone help plsss

Anonymous said...

Bvs please do u recommend I use novage range of oriflame? If yes, please which of the range of novage products? Pls help me out if you know about it

Eka Joy said...

Rhoda, it is well with you and ur son. Your story really touched me.

Miss Ess, congrats.

sexy Daddy said...

Faces of IHN you guys are Beautiful.
Be careful not to spend more than your income.
Wishing everybody a blissful day ahead! Bee10 how are you doing?
SDK tell me my position in your booed list so that I will run before you break my heart.@ krix hummm our matter still dey God hand.Very busy right now,I will come back to troll

Sweet Mother said...

Rhoda Rex you're brave for not aborting that child. You made a mistake and took responsibility for it. Forge ahead with your life now and don't make thesame mistake again. It is for this reason we preach against pre marital sex.
No one is perfect.

Kayanmata (NATURAL APHRODISIAC) D623C11B... 08120062969...Order now! said...

Good afternoon Y'all

So someone cannot be single in peace again without all these ppl poking?

A married brother in church told me yesterday he'll like to know me very well...So as to tackle my condition, egbami, so I have a condition? Who knew!

MrsB said...

Rhoda!
Come here let me envelope You in a hug! God bless you for not aborting your baby, God bless you for birthing him, may he be a blessing blessing to you and his generation and may you never remember his birth for evil.
Stay strong, it can only get better.

Nora Nelson said...

I forgot today was mondayπŸ˜ƒ.
BV Rhoda Rex live your sweet life biko. People will always talk. Best thing is to turn a deaf ear πŸ‘‚ and a blind eyeπŸ‘€ .

Thinking of "dashing" some things out tomorrow to Port Harcourt Bvs.

Blackberry said...

Rhoda rex who dey bully you? They bully u since they won't give birth abi? Mbok chill, bully you into silence say u thief? No be pikin u born, no be mama born them? Relax n ignore that unfortunatus.

Falcon said...

I was hoping to see something like
..Falcon and X send your account number to me as winners of IHN comment. Anyways, happy democracy

Blackberry said...

That anony that said jesus loves me last yesterday, thank you, it felt good to know he actually loves me despite my skoin skoin..

DON™ said...

Rhoda who are the people tormenting you? You don't need all this explanation, just live your life.
You owe nobody nothing.

Mosiwomeka Mosirimomu said...

What's her business if you're fat? Children of these days. Mschew.
I think I'll correct the girl there and then. What nonsense.

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Bv Rhoda dont bother yourself about any bully cos they are mischevious people looking for someone to vent their frustrations on. Be strong and keep been you πŸ‘.

To the bullies what ever measure you dish out will be given back to you pressed down shaking together and running over πŸ˜’πŸ‘Œ

Anonymous said...

Please when are the best says to visit the cinema?

I want a quiet day when no one is around.

Cutiebee said...

Bv Martins Aboy, I dropped a comment on SP for you. Thanks for yesterday. Pls how do make Whatsapp to work again on my blackberry curve phone. I tried downloading another one from blackberry world but it showed error. I want to join the Lagos party whatsapp group and contribute something even if it is to clean the venue. Pls don't tell me to buy another phone as I cant afford it. You can mail me. Thanks.

Anonymous said...

Please when are the best says to visit the cinema?

I want a quiet day when no one is around.

isoko man wife said...

Rhoda Rex people will always talk o.
You born out of wedlock o,Na ashawo you be. You try marry a struggling guy o,they will say Na poor man she see to marry,you marry a rich guy and ttc o,they will say with all their money,Dem no fit born pickin. World people go talk o. If you like,you sulk,Na you sabi.

As for me,I never see wetin go make me siddon dey reason wetin world people dey talk.
I'm just gonna live my life the best way that I can live it.

Uzu Anwuli said...

First to comment?if yes,will share shoki

Diamond Stud said...

How some people hide behind their screen to spew trash about others is what i just don't get. What would you stand to gain by causing others pain?
Rhoda rex, i'm happy you told your story. Leave them to their God and conscience.

Goodday beevees!

Stella Igbokei said...

Welcome ihn. Rhoda Rex I love ur courage May God be with u and ur boy

NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN said...

Awww..Rhoda dear,I salute your courage.you are a phenomenal woman, no one can change that.
Hold your head up high, and just be you.
Like Stella said, you are loved regardless.


*Be kind to one another*

Genny said...

Please I'm new in Benin..I need a house in GRA..a room and a parlor..somewhere not far from government house...cos my work place is close to d govt house..d ones I've been shown are not to my taste at all..please if u have contact of anyone who can help find a really nice place in a good environment,kindly drop comment beneath mine..and if you want or know who wants to sell some stuff from d house due to relocation or otherwise, pls drop contact..thank you..

JOSTIFIED MOM said...

Using a laptop to comment can be somehow frustrating o, I can't reply comments directly again & I can't see people's replies under mine. @Martins please how can I change my browser to mobile version on a system?
@Oluwadarasimi my lil man is doing just fine, actually turned a month old yesterday.
@Lafresh you're welcome.
@Rhoda Rex just like I advised you previously, don't allow any anonymous to bully you. We're all not perfect but God still love us despite our short comings, so why should we play judge over anyone. I love you dear, we all do. So be proud of who you are & what you've become.
@Abimbola Happy birthday.
God bless the givers & receivers. Lemme stop here
#Motherhoodrocks.

Anonymous said...


Does anyone know any organic range of skin care lotions?

Istanbul said...

Bv Rhoda am so touched reading your story, don't worry the lord will strength you

Em jay said...

Rhoda Rex who the hell is bulling you, show us make we boot the person outta here now. Don't mind them dear.

Kayanmata (NATURAL APHRODISIAC) D623C11B... 08120062969...Order now! said...

PS... I DMed Pepi Sonuga and she friggin replied! Don't I just love her!

Micki C said...

@ROHDA REX Be strong, please put your email down, i want to send you a token for your son. Please don't listen to any advise from trinity. That girl is very good in lies.

miss priya said...

hello Simi

Flawlessbae said...

Use UC browser or maybe it network problem.

Bootylycious diva said...

sure word stella we dont meet people by accident they are mearnt to cross our path .

do people still bully people over single mother thing again . my best friend got pregnant at 13 ,today her daughter is married and my then bestie is now a gramdmother .Rx do not mind them be strong for your self and always be yourself .

BLESSED ONE said...

Heart break is not when ur love leaves you.

Heart break is when your newly wedded wife is in the kitchen preparing dinner and she asks "Honey how many maggi should i put in the pounded yam?"
πŸ™†πŸ»πŸ™†πŸ»
please shift lemme faint


#copied

Lagos Babe Elegance said...

Rhoda , there's nothing be ashamed of in being a mum , I really appreciate your courage in keeping the baby,many of who are always ready to bully single parent/baby mama are cowards with so many abortions performed.

They only admire you for your courage of keeping the baby they couldn't keep.

Rise up girl and look into the brightest​ future you've got😘😘😘😘

Em jay said...

That's not a new thing nau, is drinking gulder or star a sin?
Come see as warri girls dey take am wash mouth.

Flawlessbae said...

Lolz

Em jay said...

πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

Rhoda
I don't think the fact that they live in a mansion was necessary in your story,u could have just said they lived okay....
Well its ur story to share

President D'Royalty (Stella's Original Blog Bff) said...

Rhoda, but I told you not to pay heed to any bully na. It's a good thing you shared your story but you honestly do not owe anyone this explanation.
You should have allowed them to spill all sorts, when you show them you don't care about what they think they know about you, they will eventually get tired and move on to the next victim.

Ekwensu people.

Congrats o jare Miss Ess my Akwa-Cross soster.

Anonymous said...

Na beg I beg o. Where market dey for VI to buy foodstuff??
Yam, rice etc. Make I for no loss.

Flawlessbae said...

Nothing We happen because it normal for some girls .some even take small stouts so no big dealπŸ’ͺπŸ˜€

Em jay said...

Use chrome, or download Ucbrowser or puffin.

Em jay said...

Use chrome, or download Ucbrowser or puffin.

Lady Bug said...

Are you minding that anonymous with low self esteem😘😘😘😘😘😘

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

Em jay said...

Babe leave them, have you forgotten I was once ideato and NwaAmaka, I was even sdk sef?
Na confusion go kill them last last.

Lady C said...

Bv rhoda I am happy you didn't abort that child and for those bullying you dont be surprise about how many babies they have aborted,whoever without sin should cast the stone first.

Face of ihn,you is beuriful.

Minnie Rexpect said...

Cyber bullies aff start again. Rhoda rex It's good you said it all, let's see what the person comes up with next. Nonsense.
To the givers πŸ‘. God bless your hustle.

Most naija mums are judgmental esp the ones with typical Nigerian mentality. They only change when they realize that what they berate other kids for, their kids are also doing same.

Having a boring day at work. Can't believe I didn't partake in all the public holiday of this month 😒😒😒.

I just look forward to your sign out meme. Today's own is the truth. I have experienced it on many occasion.

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

As in ehn
Bully me bcos I born? That means say the person no won born be that

Flawlessbae said...

Having sex in the dream is not good.it use to happen to me them before I went to church for deliverance .since I was delivered I have never experienced it again.so I we advance the poster to go for deliverance. Because she has spiritual husband.

LOLO IDEATO said...

All I typed before disappeared

We love you RhodaRex

Much love to you tomisin n bro

Monkeynofine said...

Awwwww my baby Rhoda sending u lots of πŸ’“πŸ’šπŸ’œπŸ’›πŸ’—πŸ’˜πŸ’žπŸ’ŸπŸ’–πŸ’•πŸ’™❤❤❤πŸ’‹πŸ’›πŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’š

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

Nikki C,how u take know ? Jamitan

Kendrick's mum said...

Rhoda Rex don't mind those people,am proud of u honestly tho I don't know u in person.i have a son two he will be 2 in July tho was married but death took him 1yr later.people that don't know d story thinks am a baby mama I live wit it n try to be happy always for my son.have a nice day n stay blessed ok

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

Eka talk true,the story touch u true true? πŸ˜’

Jasmine said...

Ok. Seen

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Monkeynofine said...

She was was young and still very young now I think, u know those days some young ladies get move by how beautiful your house and room look.....

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

My brother I follow ur thoughts ,the explanation wasn't necessary but then....

Monkeynofine said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Tackle what? Hahahaha

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

Even if she wasn't a single mom,they would still bully her anyways.

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Good to know. God bless him real good😘😘

Just Glamour said...

Just for today.... I woke up by 5am went for Covenant hour of prayer,came back by 7am,slept till 11am,now I'm so relaxed and calm.
Rhoda Rex,your experience touched me,be strong and trust God to give you a name and fame in every place,you ve been put to shame,love you.











Cherry Wine said...

Aww, yes depression is real, it eats away ones sense of self and happiness, been there, still there.
It might me real but it is not bigger than you, you can fight it. E-hugs 😘

IJAY said...

Beautiful Ugochi, handsome tomosin and bro, happy birthday Abimbola, Rhoda Rex it is surely well with you, God guidance will forever be with you, congratulations to the Snm, may we all have a great day

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

Exactly!


Think whatever u want about me ,I no see am think

Em jay said...

Martins I can see bvs are really on to your neck, if you can do a detailed write-up on how to create id and how to resolve issues with blog nor opening, send to Stella, so she can post inside in house news, in order to reduce the demand, na suggestion ohh @Sdk and Martins.

Kendrick's mum said...

Lol@ skoin skion

The General's Wife said...

Iya Ibeji,good one there.

Bn a Mom totally changes u.
It changed me. I am more tolerant. More patient and almost non-judgemental. Infact I am not critical of Kids to the point of almost Bn called a "soft aunty"

But I am not soft at all. Soft in approach, yea,but very firm.I won't raise my voice but you wil do that which I need you to do. But with the Moms,I am more vocal when the need arises but also very sensitive and relaxed(I wouldn't want to make u feel bad while correcting u) I wouldn't judge. Just kinda like I am suggesting something to u. And I always start with an apology. Cos I mean I have seen someone that told me It's ok for her kids to not say "thank u" when they finish eating. So yea,u correct bearing in mind that it's different strokes for different stokes.

And again,Reason Bn that the woman may have done all she needs to do As regards the situation but u know how it is. Kids wil misbehave Sometimes. So u wouldn't want her to feel bad.

Though I must take exception to this particular incident. Calling u whatever was rude(in my own opinion) and I wouldn't want my child doing that to my friend or whoever for that matter esp when their opinion wasn't sought. I won't Allow it. And if I happen to over hear something like this. I would make the child apologise immediately. And apologise to u too. Then have a talk with the child later.

But then again,was the child taught the right thing? That's the main issue here. Not what she said. Even the way her mom reacted would show u that,to her,that wasn't a big deal. Yes cos she laughed.

So,letting it go for the moment was ok.

But again,we don't know it all. Calling her and telling her what happened won't be a bad idea. It's not about you. You are only educating her.

I was in a shop and this cute lady walked in with a boy of about 3 years,followed by a not so well-dressed-looking man carrying a beautiful toddler.I knew he wasn't her hubby cos I mean he was dressed poorly but her kids, nicely. The man sat and put the child astride on his laps/ knees. Oh my Goodness! 😳 I couldn't take it!
So I said Hello! Is that cute baby yours?

She smiled and said yes.And I said very cute baby😍And I told her to pick up her daughter. She wanted to ask why but maybe seeing the seriousness on my face,I mean a total stranger,she took the baby(who for some reason wasn't wearing anything under,meaning I could see her private part. So I took her aside and began talking to her.

Was shocked when she innocently revealed the man was his security. She moved newly into town and didn't know anywhere so she takes the man along to show her around town.

And that she doesn't know it's wrong. Infact,this is hard to believe but she told me she leaves the kids with him when she goes to the market.

I was shocked that day. Very shocked. I mean,in this age and time???😳

But then,the point is this: I was happy that I found this trusting mom and corrected her.

So,anywhere we can correct,teach and enlighten,let's do so.

No one knows it all. So yes,I stil learn new stuff about Motherhood. And about kids.

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

Aunty bootylicious,it means you haf old niyen
Pls always remind me to put a respeck on ur name

becky naka said...

Rhoda, don't let fools force words outta your mouth...there is no crime in having a child, it's better than an abortion......those that are cyber bullying her will definitely get tired.

Cherry Wine said...

Amen! You'd be shocked to know the people who bash baby mamas don't have a man, a womb and have done thousands of abortions. Smfh

Anonymous said...

Rhoda good you are saying this. Don't join people here that say rubbish about others. Be yourself though you lick asses sometimes but you have to stand on your own and don't hide behind anyone here.
Those you trusted here are the one calling you out. I have read it times without number on anonymous calling you baby mama but know you didn't do anything wrong and we all can't be the same.
Its the people you move with that are doing this to you. This remind me of Marion Jones.

You will be alright.

NaMe BeDis said...

Hello πŸ‘‹

You can talk to me.

Cherry Wine said...

*sips tea*

Hot Shot said...

They all need honey🍯 in their lives carry on jare.

Anonymous said...

u want to tell us say angel beautiful read comments nd she read the in house gist. be deceiving urself

KIDJO said...

Na wa o,Many re mad but few re roaming the streets. Many re mad with phones in hand trying to make others sad like themselves.smh.Rhoda Rex, Most of those bullies re murderers who ve removed all their babies in this life.Some ve no womb again hence the bitterness against you who kept yours. God will continue to provide you with help to cater for your boy.
Goodafternoon all.Sharon Aminu, where re you oooooooooo

Anonymous said...

Why do girls wear bra to snap pictures; in fact outside their homes; so distasteful.
That lady in that first picture is a shame!

Anonymous said...

ophthalmologist and optometrist are not the same. In fact they are not on the same level. Stella take note,lol.

The General's Wife said...

Simi Darling!πŸ’‹
I love u right back dear.
I hope ur birthday went well.

ThreeDoorsDown said...

Why on earth should you be forced to explain your private life to anyone Rhoda Rex???

You came to a blog to explain how you got pregnant? Whose bloody business?

It's 2017.

Being a single mother willingly or unwillingly is NOTHING new.

Have people found a solution to terrorism, corruption, global warming, poverty, etc that they are disturbed about what you did with your private parts?

I just don't understand this??? Wtf?

I want to know the bastard that will cyberbully me to talk when I don't want to talk.
Cyberbully that can't face me in real life?
That isn't worthy to chew sand from the bottom of my shoe?
How?

I don't know why I'm so so so upset sef but mehn you fuck up Rhoda by allowing faceless gutless people to make you cower.

Mehn I wish I could give you some of my liver, even devil dey dress back when I dey waka because I don't owe anyone jack shit and my crase na from another planet.

Like I literally don't send anybody. Ever.

There will always be cyber bullies. Just like there are bullies at school, at home, at work.

Homosapiens, who want to flex their idiotic ego because they feel very very inferior and small.
Babe, better go and buy thick skin if you really want to live o.
You can't go around explaining jack shit to anybody.
Nobody can bully you unless you allow it.

Take care babe.

Gemmie said...

How can someone bully someone cos she chose to give life rather than take it? Too much darkness in some people's hearts.

Rhoda, I salute you. You are blessed. Don't let any one make you think less of yourself.

My love to your son 😍 😍

Anonymous said...

Some people are ju#t funny,,crying on top replies from people th3y don't know.

Popularity contest on a blog, anonymous on so, you will be alright πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Just Glamour said...

Just for today... I woke up by 5am,went for Covenant hour of prayer,came back by 7am, slept till 11am,now I'm so relaxed and calm.
Rhoda Rex,be strong and trust God to give you a name and fame in every place you been put to shame,love you.

PASTOR'S DAUGHTER said...

yhoooo where the fuck have i been? and who the fuck are those stupid motherfuckers coming at you Rhoda Rex? yhooo before y'all motherfuckers throw stones at her hope you bitter assholes are better than her? she made a mistake and she has learnt her lesson so free her to breath fresh air joor. Rhoda boo boo dont mind them bloody idiots. they aint gat nothing on you. you dont owe them any bloody scallywag explanation. bunch of hypocritical motherfuckers thinking and feeling they are better than others in anyway. idiots mtcheeeeew am so pissed right now aswear.











*flips hair and walk away*

Kayanmata (NATURAL APHRODISIAC) D623C11B... 08120062969...Order now! said...

True!

SHAKITI BABY said...

Rhoda...it is well with ur soul,all the anonymous trolling her,pls let her be.

The General's Wife said...

Dear Rhoda,you have made the mistake but from that indiscretion came a child.
Don't let anyone bully you about something so beautiful. Don't give them that power over you.
Ignore whatever it is that u don't care about and keep going with the positivity surrounding u. You have the best gift of all: the unconditional love of God and your son.

Sending u loads of warm hugs baby girl.
I am cheering for u ok?

Anonymous said...

Rhoda rex, me I don't understand this your post.

You are scared because somebody is blackmailing you that you have a child??? Did you kill someone? Is having a child a crume? Child that came out of your womb? So what if you have a child?? Maybe the person is blackmailing you because you hide the child and you make it seem like a top secret?

Some people even with all their millions do not have children, tried IVF and it failed.

Flaunt that child, whoever will accept and marry you, will marry you. Yes, you were naive but there is nothing to be ashamed of.You owe no one an explanation save for your family .

Being a mother is a blessing, a blessing from God.

I don't know if you are a student or what you do for a living, please have your son come live with you in due time, it is very important.

All the best!!!

The General's Wife said...

Exactly!

Hello @ Tomisin and Bro!
Handsome guys!


Residential cleaner... Sparkling clean solutions to ur home... Pls call 08127791601 (Lagos only) said...

Inspirational words for all.

Omotola Brianna said...

This is really touching. Rhoda Rex, thanks for sharing your story. People will talk about you when they envy you and the life you lead. Let them. It affect them, don't let them affect you. It's well with you. Pls be strong for urself and ur son.

Thanks to those that wish my mom well this morning.

Anonymous said...

Some people take this blog so serious o,having headache on top another person blog persona,na wa o, anyway na Buari cause am.

Must they reply you?

SHAKITI BABY said...

How are you babe?

Stella Igbokei said...

Sorry try next time

Chummy cho cho said...

Rhoda Rex you did the right thing keeping your baby, don't let anyone make you feel otherwise. That's one of the reasons I respect Trinity, even when they tried to bully her,she stood strong, na them go tire last last. Remain strong...

Happy birthday Abimbola. I have a coursemate whose birthday is today,coincidentally, her name is also Abimbola. We call her 'Sister Bee'

And for the record, 'Save a Bv' post is for fun, the idiot(you know yourself) should continue...

Congrat Miss Ess..
#makeIgoreadsaturadayIHGπŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
#Amebothings

Not anonymous said...

Micki C why evils! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Stella Igbokei said...

Hmmm sometimes I feel that I'm invincible

Anonymous said...

BV Isaacson I love you oo, but please include the not so popular BVs in your meme about saving Bvees... Not hating or anything.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Every time that it seems like life is punishing you. Understand, you're only being prepared for everything that Is coming to you*

Anonymous said...

Are you the one to tell her how to narrate her story?You sound like a bully already. The mansion part scratch you for ear?

PASTOR'S DAUGHTER said...

In other news i just realised i have 27 bras and a dozen of pants i am not using oooh, why do i keep buying things i dont need. My eyes cant see sexxy lingerie without buying lailai. Thank God for this recession sha. I have learnt to buy things i need and not things i want.
Let me go and drink fura da nono this sun is capable of melting my tiny boobs.








*flips hair and walks away*

PASTOR'S DAUGHTER said...

Baba there is nothing there na, i will order my own Heineken sharp sharp. That na very normal thing na.






*flips hair and walks away*

PASTOR'S DAUGHTER said...

Hian who sent you on exile nne? Welcome back dear. hope you are good? Its good to have you back.







*hangs leg on the wall*

beeolah said...

Ihn kaabo

Blondie Thorne said...

Drinking star or gulder is not bad Jor... My first date with hubby, I ordered for extra plate of rice, cos I was very hungry ddat day, looool...

Rhoda ignore D nonentities Cyber bullying u, u were bold enough to keep ur baby even at a young age, ur son will not disappoint u, work hard and help him shape his future and u will never be disappointed,, d lord is Strength..

Not anonymous said...

But Ibukun do you know you misbehave some times? What's the big deal in her saying they live in a mansion. Over sabi don dey disturb you gaan

Anonymous said...

Ibukunoluwa,naaa wetin.girl don't ever tink u have a say in someone's life haba.
That was how u felt u were a fashionista giving some1 an advice concerning her dressing.
Take am easy naaa.

Bootylycious diva said...

Bia was it not the same Rx that says she has sneakers to last her a life time or what do i know

Micki C said...

Hater spotted.

Manna Bee said...

Happy Democracy Day. May God heal Nigeria for us all.

It is Memorial Day here also to honor veterans who fought so hard to have America be what he is today. I wish my government back home can honour all fallen heroes just like this.

Bee 10, hope you enjoyed yourself yesternight?πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Cynthia Iyede, thanks for your concern. Hugs

The sign out meme is for me at the moment. And I can't but thank God for everything.

God bless us all.



Stella Igbokei said...

Amen

Stella Igbokei said...

LOLZ#$€¥£

Manna Bee said...

Rhoda Rex please keep being you. Hugs

Anonymous said...

Amen

Suwa Nen said...

Can't we just lock all the politicians in a room with all the terrorists and get them to wrestle it out?

Anonymous said...

Non Judgemental Mom why would you want your friend to reprimand the daughter and asking her to apologize to you, when you know that you're fat or deceiving yoself Into thinking that you're slim?

slliky said...

Tuesdays or Wednesdays...it's always peaceful

Rocky said...

Stella didn't approve my comment.. I just said the truth to Rhoda

Anonymous said...

It was very necessary, dnt u see how the mother turned the whole thing around? Its to show they're rich, hence the woman ended up saying she came for money.

Annie said...

IHN welcome. Rhoda Rex, be strong dear. A lot of things led to a lady to be a single mother. But I know it's not easy. I am a single mother myself and my daughter will be 5years old next month. I know the shame, stigma and disgrace of having a child out of wedlock. But looking at my daughter gives me so much joy, just know that so many people want to experience the joy of motherhood. Having a child is not a disease. It is well with you

Hilary Clinton said...

Stella, the blessing God will shower on you and your family, is doing push up.
You don't know how many people you save from depression with this your blog everyday.
You don't know how many people you gave hope to their businesses when you were doing free advert (I hope you continue. If you will allow me, I volunteer to be compiling and posting it for you as a stand alone ihn everyday, for free!!!) Imagine the post from the lady that lost her Mtn job.
You don't know how MUCH we learn from this blog EVERYDAY. This blog has made me streetwise and more knowledgeable and those are just two of the numerous benefits.
God bless you Stella nwa Dimoko nwunye Korkus forever!!!

Hilary Clinton said...

Stella, the blessing God will shower on you and your family, is doing push up.
You don't know how many people you save from depression with this your blog everyday.
You don't know how many people you gave hope to their businesses when you were doing free advert (I hope you continue. If you will allow me, I volunteer to be compiling and posting it for you as a stand alone ihn everyday, for free!!!) Imagine the post from the lady that lost her Mtn job.
You don't know how MUCH we learn from this blog EVERYDAY. This blog has made me streetwise and more knowledgeable and those are just two of the numerous benefits.
God bless you Stella nwa Dimoko nwunye Korkus forever!!!

Ed said...

Simply Simi😘😘😘😘😘

Bootylycious diva said...

so IB you think me and you are mates i haf old well well ,life begin s at 40and sure have done well for myself ,just hoping to be a grandmother soon

Suwa Nen said...

There are times that I'd like to ask some certain people here if they have forgotten to renew their license to operate their brain.

Happy Democracy Day people.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Miki c you're an idiot! Tell me the lies I've told fool

Ed said...

Sharon boo where are you? Kisses to all ma darlings😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

slliky said...

Ibukun...u had to showcase you insensitivity as usual.

So she said that they lived in a mansion,Oya go and beat her #Ode

xxxTrinityxxx said...

@ibukun πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Justyswt said...

Congrats miss Ess.

Bv Rhoda, don't mind the trolls. Just be urself.

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Afternoon kidjo. sharon where you at??

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Afternoon omotola. Olorun a da won si, won a jeun omo pΓ©lu alaΓ‘fia

Anonymous said...

Rhoda listen I'm a baby mama too I was a victim just like you. Our story is exactly the same but I was in my mid 20's when mine happened. I have left my son's dad and his family to God. He was the one that trapped me with the pregnancy because he loved me but his mum changed his mind about me too. Shit happens that's life. My son is 3 and he is the best thing that's ever happened to me he is my twin and I love him to death. I wear him like a badge o and single guys won't let me rest because i yam a hottie don't get it twisted, they are dying for me left right and centre na me dey do yanga because I'm too ambitious das my problem. So keep your head up boo boo, your own man will locate you.


To the rest of you judges and judginas on this blog insulting baby mothers without listening to their story, most of us are a victim of love and circumstances. Don't judge people because they sin differently from you besides you don't know what may happen to you tomorrow.

I yam out, sorry I Kent use my ID no time.

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

Mnf yeah you're right though

Micki C said...

Ibukun, her lies pass Africa own, na worldwide. I'm not trying to bully her, just want her to change.

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

priya; sup dear. How you doing??
TGW; yeah! It did. ThanksπŸ’‹πŸ’‹. How've you been??

Aurora said...

One thing I have come to realize on this blog is, when you are being you and get noticed, they come for you and will do everything it takes to bully you into frustration, then most probably not commenting anymore.

Rhoda Rex,God's got you and don't let any bully put you down to make you go hard on yourself.Please keep being you and don't let any bitter soul, take your shine.
Even as I feel you need not have explained because you owe nobody, your story touches and I know that God will always make everything beautiful for you.
Please stay strong, I miss your stories.

Aurora said...

Glad to read from you again NDS, the Lord will always be your strength.

Aurora said...

Glad to read from you again NDS, the Lord will always be your strength.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Micki c bully me??πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„..my goodness. Nothing i won't see on this blog. Who is this one again? Pls I'm interested in those lies ive told. Refresh my memory i beg you as a liar that i am i cant keep up. Im waiting

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

Ehn ehn

Okay then aunty can u pls come and adopt me?πŸ˜‚

But first change ur name,diva is for those of us in our twenties bikoπŸ˜‚

Aunty Sabina said...

Happy democracy day Nigerians. Happy new week to you all too.
Stella I greet you too, more ink to your pen.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Rhoda i sent you an email. I am here to support you like you supported me in dec. You can choose to ignore me though like the newest idiot on this blog miki c said if you want to

IBUKUNOLUWA said...

Annon 15:21
U see Wetin I dey talk bah?

U get senseπŸ‘Œ

Anonymous said...

But you are a bulky Kidjo. You guys need to search yourself. Its possible you dont know what you sometimes say hurt ppl.

Kim Na Na said...

Just d way ur opinion is not needed... Do u actually have to say that....
Advise her if u want to... So from all she said πŸ‘† there... Natural d mansion u see...hian

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Your depression never start. Dey there. Useless people telling lies against others just to make themselves feel good

xxxTrinityxxx said...

God bless you and him

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Afternoon Ed. How's your day going??

Miss Ess said...

Thank you Eka....ibk, stoppeet

Miss Ess said...

Thanks justyswt

Vivilicious said...

Rhoda baby, keep your head high OK. No one can bully you, them no reach.
So what if you have a child? Last I checked, it's no crime. We love you like that shogbo. Kizzes baibay 😘😘😘😘

Vivilicious said...

The way some people take this popularity thing on this blog ehn....
I don't blame them sha, its just joblessness, cos if you are busy trying to earn a living, a faceless blog won't be your priority in life.

Uzu Anwuli said...

Mosi jubelo makes me smile and now you have changed your name ?is dis one swahili?I heart u

Miss Ess said...

Sharon baby please mind the bully less, they have got nothing on you. A child is a blessing from God. Be strong and keep your head up. God bless and keep him for you, amen.

Vivilicious said...

Ibukun by no go leave joy alone bah? 😝😝😝

Vivilicious said...

As in...I tire o

Vivilicious said...

Exactly. Shame on that person.

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Afternoon miss ess. Congrats

jelly said...

Bv Rhoda shine on with your son, happy democracy and enjoy the rest of the day, happy birthday Abimbola.

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Ed dear😘😘😘😘

Eka Joy said...

@ibukun, my record here speaks for itself. Do you know how many stories like that I've read here that I've jumped and passed. If it didnt touch me, I wouldn't say it didn't, I'd just not say anything about it. I'm not like people like you and that idiot that keeps laughing over any negative comment she sees with my name.


Miss Ess, uwc.

Vivilicious said...

You are so right nwunye G. You just echoed all my thoughts concerning the issue.
In fact you are an embodiment of wisdom and my respect for you just shot off the roof.

Mhzzbee int'l said...

I don't see any reason why you are being bullied because you have a child,when did it become a crime to have a child after wedlock.so because of them u come dey share your life story? You get time sha.children that many couples are praying,fasting and having vigil for.

Em jay said...

BootyπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ.
Weldonemaami.

rookies said...

Anon you even have time to address letter to judgenas hmmmm, most of them preachers are the worst fornicators and adulterers.
Wasn't it on this blog we read a story of a lady who was sleeping with small boys that where her neighbours while pretending to be a prayer warrior.
When I was in school back then, two deeper life best friends quarrelled one day and bu- lieve me, the exposΓ© wasn't pretty 'weren't you the one that that went behind my back to start dating chief' then the other replied 'how many abortions have you done for john'. I didn't believe my ears.
In all my years on earth, overtime I've come to realise that most people pretend especially those ones that carry big bible on their head.

Micki C said...

Lies like telling me you are from ABC state where as you are from xyz state. E.t.c Why the insults? Stop lying, it won't take you anyway. To tell you how bad it is, when you called me fool and idiot, honestly I taught it ones of the lies. Good day.

Em jay said...

😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
I love this woman.

Micki C said...

Insult me as you like, I won't trade words with you. If you want me to disgrace you here, it won't take me anything but I won't, I just want you to stop lying. I got prove. Intact proves.

Em jay said...

No.

Anonymous said...

Chummy Chocho Beggy Beggy you are active cos of Jaymoore giveaway your opinion is not important. when it is over you will disappear. Goat.
We know your style, many of you acting nice and hanging on to hear result.

Cynthia Iyede said...

You're welcome dear.

Single Mom said...

Rhoda Rex, I feel your pain we got your back anytime.



Long live SDK

Miss Ess said...

Million thanks Simi

Miss Ess said...

D'Royalty eyeneka, sosong.

Bootylycious diva said...

Ib the last time i check i still turn heads , and i bet you in your twenties with me heading to my big 40 still look like am 25 .I am a diva and remain a diva .

Anonymous said...

Stop rubbish comments Ekajoy, Chummy chocho and Ibukun. Idiot idiot idiot on in house news.

Ekajoy and chikito find a place and throw punches. Una resemble 2 kolo mentality.

Ibukun I know you reach house you are 33 adopt you bawo? Bootylicious senior you with few years. Go feed your hungry child fucklicant.

Chummy chocho you have come to wine mouth, you get power for quarrel. No run when kasala follow you. Cool down weather your name go enter list. I know you desperately want cash.
Ikwakwakwakwa

Ashley_Clothings call me on 09056688283 for ur fabrics, Jewelry, human hairs and beauty products. said...

I entered Mecca, and see the Iman,the meaning of her name! Lols

Mummy J said...

Today's sun can melt one's skin. Ramadan Kareem to all Muslims.

Ed said...

Going well dear thanks and ours?
The Lord is your strength Rhoda dear

xxxTrinityxxx said...

@miki c i told you I'm from one state when I'm from another??πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„....mstewwww

xxxTrinityxxx said...

@miki c pls disgrace me biko. I beg you. I need the proofs pls. Bring them out. Jobless idiot. I'm waiting..

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