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Sunday, 20 August 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SOCIAL MEDIA BROUHAHA IN A MARRIAGE


Hello Stella. I have different chronicles to send in but I've been taking my time. But I just discovered something right now so I'm pissed writing this.

Please hide my ID. 


Was just going through my hubby's profile on Facebook now and discovered he has deleted all our wedding pictures on his page. We wedded Jan this year. I'm just sooo angry right now...coz even while we were dating till now, he has never used my/our pics on whatsapp or facebook. 


Whenever i ask him to he'll say he's a private person. Stella this guy is not a private person. I'm Even the private person but occasionally, like his birthdays, I use his pics. But he doesn't Even use mine on my birthdays, instead, he'll throw me a birthday party. 

A week to our wedding, i used our pre-wedding pics on my whatsapp and Facebook. When I asked him to make an exception to his so called privacy and upload the pre-wedding pics, he refused so I told him I'll tag him on facebook with the pictures if he refused to upload the himself. Do u know this guy threatened to call off the wedding if i dare tag him with those pics. 


After the wedding, it took him over a month to finally upload the wedding pics on his facebook. Only for me to check now and they're gone...like I said earlier, I'm a very private person. I don't put my life on social media but I make exceptions occasionally. Like uploading the wedding pics. I think it's saying to people I'm married but I don't go putting the activities happening in my marriage online. 

But my hubby who claims to be private puts his activities online apart from his marital life or pics. Plssss how do i handle this coz I'm so pissed now...



*Hmmm my dear you are looking for trouble ooooooh.Your hubby might like to put himself ot there but not his family,I am like that as well.Why dont you respect his privacy?

There is a possibilty he might be hiding something but please dont push it,enjoy your marriage and keep your eyes and ears open.

97 comments:

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Is that d only thing? Not everyone likes to put their fam out there....since he never did during courtship,might be his kinda person u knw

Rocky said...

I recently deleted all my instagram pictures, realised that 'social life' isn't for me... My facebook account too is dead.

I don't know what prompted your hubby to delete all your wedding pictures, could be nothing serious but I don't know

If he says he's a private person, believe him but leave your eyes and ears open

Anonymous said...

simple logic....
Hes cheating!!!

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

Abeg pack well,i personally don't upload pictures of my relationship on fb, respect his privacy or divorce him, what if there was no social media, u too should delete your wedding pictures since u claim u are a private person, u want all the girls in his friend's list to know he's married, will that stop them from banging him,carry your problem go abeg.

Blackberry said...

9mobile network is so bleh.
Madam calm down, he can upload ur wedding pic n still fuck whoever he wants if that's ur fear, some babes don't care even if the man has 6 kids, he uploads o,deletes o, doesn't mean jack to man who wanna fling his penis around.

Anonymous said...

My dear pls be patient.am married for 10 years.I have never used his pics n he has never used mine.I hard comment or even post anything or Facebook.our love is based on friendship.even son got price in school I don't post.if u don't know me personally u can see pictures of my family at all.pls watch him if u think there is anything he is truely hiding.goodluck

Chidinma Grace said...

I don't see any big deal there. But I don't know the type of man your husband is, so it's best you let it go except if you see any other evidence that suggests something else. Some men puts all their life and family out there and still cheat on a regular basis while others don't put out any pictures and still don't cheat.

Anonymous said...

Lol. You de vex because you no get mouth to do Instagram swag couple all over the place. You and your silly husband need to get off social media and get busy. You have too much time on your hands to be monitoring people's social media accounts.

Russian roulette said...

And if there was no social media. ..? What would you have done? How would you have expected him to show the world he's married? Girl, you bother over little things. Don't give yourself hypertension oh. Life is not that serious.

Sharon Aminu said...

U are funny
Because of pix???
My husband is not even in fb,and its just one pix of us that i uploaded with nobody to tag..
Abeg rest, leave him alone when his ready u will not even ask him to put it,he will do so himself

Anonymous said...

Your hubby has side chicks and he is trying to portray himself as a single and free man.

My ex will display our pictures on his whatApp after he must have blocked all his potential side chicks, he usually leaves it on for 2 days, he will remove and unblock them. I caught the bastard sexting 3 different chicks on WhatsApp after that.

Spanish Lantern said...

Well, I think the case here is simple. Your husband might be one of those men that go about deceiving single girls that he is not married. Pray hard. Coz such men are cursed on a daily basis.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

You're upset because your husband deleted your wedding pictures from his facebook account!
My dear, that's not enough reason to be upset. I believe your husband is the type that prefer to keep his marital life private.

If he has not given you reasons to feel insecure or to be suspecting, then you've gat nothing to worry about.

Since what he did upset you that much, you can stop uploading his pictures on your timeline too and also removed all your wedding pictures.

Social media wahala!

Elastic said...

Imagine! Because of ordinary pictures? You think putting the picture is a declaration of faithfulness??


#DontQuoteMe

Lipstickalley said...

Auntie, time to cry wolf never reach abeg.

Next Chronicle...........

Anonymous said...

An honest man should worship the ground you walk on and celebrate you always. Private person no concern WhatsApp naa.

Jeni_zee said...

I will advice u dont make this an issue, some people might be active on Facebook but won't put their spouse pic on social media, don't turn it to quarrel, u can watch nd see, snoop but for now don't quarrel about this, u can calmly ask him y

SANDY YO said...

Yeah I guess some people can be weird like that. This shouldnt be much of a probs except he dosent treat you well. Then press Ignore button and overlook that than trying to create probs where theres none.

SANDY YO said...

Pasting their pixes all over SM wont/cant stop him from cheating too na if he wants. So..

Anonymous said...

AngeΔΊray You Sound Very Bitter....Her Chronicle does Not require this Harsh Tone...its Sunday...Relax dear

The Lifted said...

poster ur husband has a side chick that he loves so much & not willing to let go hence the reason he doesn't like flaunting he's marriage on social media.
the funny thing is him threatening to call off the wedding & u accepting him like dat only to send in chronicles like u didn't know wat has been up since s beginning.
if u know wat is good for u better leave this matter & forge ahead,accept him d way u have been & enjoy d good things he does for u

Atheist ™ said...

Same here, im like a ghost on the internet, you cant find one single picture of me online, my IG account is about work & promoting humanity, i left Fb yrs ago & iv never been on twitter, too unecessary 2me.

Anonymous said...

You just got married in January and you are asking us to help you define "privacy" in your marriage. You are struggling so hard to be recognized as MRS on social media and trying to form attachment to your husband. Madam you want people to confirm what you already know by guessing for you. You claim your husband does not display your pictures on Facebook and whatsapp. Did you force him to marry you. You saw all the signs that he is not proud to show you off but you went ahead to marry him thinking as madam of the home you can change him. If he is a private person but shows you love and is proud to introduce you and take you out do you need social media to feel secure. Do you think he is cheating or has a side chic or Ex you are so determine to show that you won the trophy and she should go and die cause you are the Mrs in charge. I see all signs of insecurity and lack of confidence here. If he is your man and you are sure and confidence he is yours then why the social media attention. You are sounding like someone who hardly knows his man cause she was forced to marry a total stranger against her will. You must know if he is a private person or not. Am a private person but I celebrate my family in my own way which could be loud or silent depending on the occasion. My wife knows it and she sees a consistent pattern since we started dating and eventually got married. Be truthful with yourself and stop throwing tantrums. You forced him to display your pictures and he took it down cause he does not want to display public affection. You better live with it. If your man will not hold your hands in public while dating do you think he will start after marriage. It's what you got yourself into. Deal with it and accept it. He is not a man that is into PDA. It's going to even get worse before it gets better depending on how you handle it.

Anonymous said...

My dear came down ok let me tell u what u will be doing from now on when ever he uploaded any of his pictures on facebook go there and shower him with love words let who everyone that reads it know who u are to him example that's my cute husband in my next world I will marry over and over again lol

Anonymous said...

Is this the only problem?
You can get his password or hack his chats and snoop at your own detriment though.

I don't have a Facebook account, is there anyone else like me here asides Queen and Boss who also said she doesn't have?

Jojo Urenna said...

Uploading your pictures on Facebook, will that stop him from cheating?he never changed , you accepted to marry him like that,why are you now complaining?

LUCILE COCONUT OIL, CARROT OIL AND BLACK SOAP ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Might not

Anonymous said...

He gave you a choice when he told you that if you tag him he will call off the wedding, so why are you on about again? You know he is like this naa,

Motola Famojuro said...

You never mentioned if there has been any case of cheating during your courtship days so I guess it's nothing serious, my husband too did not post any of our wedding pictures too and I didn't attach any meanings to it but if you think there is something he might be hidding i suggest you keep your eyes and ears open it is too early for you to start any drama at this early stage of your marriage Yoruba adage says if eye put body down wella he go see nose so I suggest you should farabale daada and enjoy your marriage before social medial brohaha cause katakata for you. Happy sunday

Love made me said...

Enjoy your marriage and leave that issue of picture on Facebook....those are petty things...

sexy Daddy said...

Poster you don't have a problem dear!

If he shows you love openly,respects you and never abuse you physically or verbally why would you bother about "Foto".Madam go and cook oha soup with enough kpomo and enjoy because you gat no bams!

President D'Royalty (Stella's Original Blog Bff) said...

I think your husband is hiding something.
My sister, you may be sleeping on a bicycle ooo...

Start snooping osiso, the earlier you know what is happening, the better...

Hello Xoxo mystery!
Hello Chike Teflon!

Saw your shoutouts, I dey kamkpe oo.

Love made me said...

Lol...as in...women and wahala...putting pics doesn't stop the girls or him from anything....

Anonymous said...

Madam first and second to comment, do u guys leave on the moon or Pluto just asking cos of ur comments. Please madam poster there is nothing normal about ur husbands behavior. This is it, he is cheating on u, Oga has babes around, he does not want them to know he is married . It's either he got married without the other persons knowing or ur husband has lived a kind lifestyle dating wise that he has stepped on a lot of ladies toes he is not OK posting his marriage photos for fear of peoples response or he is not proud of u or something. There is just something off about it this has nothing to do with privacy. C the way he threatened u just cos u said I will tag u plus he removed the wedding photos after posting them. My dear some ladies are so naive if ur sixth sense says something is wrong my dear it is trust it.

Anonymous said...

And madam would u be saying all this if facebook doesn't exist? If u are a private person you wont disturb Stella with this Chronicle. If its about cheating do u know how many men have their wives and kids on facebook but still cheat heavily? If u have a problem with ur man, sit him down and talk.

Kiks said...

I get not wanting to put your life out there as I am very private myself (at risk of BVs saying we have all become private lol), but threatening to call of a wedding over facebook tag?! I smell a rat. My dear you have to carry your cross. You are already in the marriage. I hope I am wrong though.

#Miss Kay# said...

It's to early to cause trouble in your marriage because of SM pictures. Please watch him for some months, if you notice and strange behaviour like coming home late, lying or keeping he's phone or chats to himself, then you can think of how best to treat his fuck up, he is your husband so you know best how to handle him.
Back thought, maybe he's tilling the 'land' to lie to some girls that he is single...but get that thought out of your mind, that was me just thinking aloud#u hear

Enchanted said...

Gbam!!!
Don't mind her, and that's how peeps will draw unnecessary demons to their homes and tomorrow they will say their village people have located them.

Anonymous said...

Have you guys tried lookin at d issue d oda way round? What if he's running from something/hiding from(previous marriage,baby mamas/even promised gfs). I 1c had a guy i almost fooled myself for(tho he stayed in my area n stiΕ‚ come there frequently,neva knew he's married,even begged to com visit him in his house times without numbers until his wife picked his calls cos i was almost thinkin 2 b real, even his friends in d area didn't know abt d marriage until later, he didn't upload any pux on any media until after drama his wife displayed for me). He even denied at first that d girl was 4cin herself on him. Just a thought though

Heartbreaker loves TGW said...

People post a million wedding pictures on the internet and still cheat just in case that is where your head is right now. If he doesn't want to put his family on SM , please respect that. Stop making an exception too. He didn't ask you from what you wrote up there.

Stop looking for problem where there is none please

Anonymous said...

Me I don't know I too love my privacy I don't have my wedding pictures or even kids on facebook but my husband does I just hate people keeping tap of my progress and he doesn't have to put my pictures up on his dp it wouldn't make me better or happier cos am already a happy person and the show of affection at home is okay for me. If I were you I will delete all my social media accounts so I wouldn't be bothered about what he does or doesn't do so you can have rest of mind and have peace in your mirrage

Anonymous said...

Respect his view o!! Maybe he might be involve in some rough business and doesnt want his family exposed to kidnappers or robbers depending.. Must you even post that you are married?? Just change statues and move on mbok!!

Anonymous said...

Of all the things that people have to worry about, this one own is just pictures

Anonymous said...

Kwakwakwa @such men are cursed.
That is how a met a guy on S&M.
He didn't know I will check him on Facebook immediately. I saw his status reading married. Saw his wedding pics,baby dedication, his two kids and wify pregnant again.
Checked it the next day to save and send to him as I asked specifically if he's married or has kids. And he said No.
Next day it was wiped clean of any family pics and he had changed status to single. I just smiled.
I ask him again are you married. He said NO.
I deleted him straight.
Hope your hubby is not the type deceiving single girls.
I understand him not wanting his family on Facebook.
Put if he puts his own pic on whatsapp regularly and put up that of friends and not put yours or your kid. I don't trust that. You need to watch him closely.

mulika said...

You are looking for trouble where non -exist......Respect yourself,give yourself peace and shut your mouth and enjoy your marriage....

Anonymous said...

Madam let me tell you the truth. Your husband doesnt want people to know he is married.
He still wants ppl to feel he is single so he can deceive single girls.
If he is a private person he doesn't need to be on SM at all.

jelly said...

Madam there's no need to worry about your husband deleting your wedding pictures on Facebook....is better that way, not everybody likes to bring their family on social network

Anonymous said...

As in hen! Very wicked man

Irresistible dudu said...

Poor guy, this is the consequence of marrying an insecure and immature brat for a wife. With all the stories of Evans going around, you are busy worrying about social media pics. Don't you know it's important to keep your family private? I have no pics of my wedding on Facebook, I didn't even bother doing prewedding shit. I kept it simple, post my wedding pics for people to see and judge,...God forbid. I didn't even save them on my phone, if you want to see wedding pics come to my house. You just got married, more challenges await you other than social media show off.
Grow up!

Anonymous said...

badt guy, choi

Gigantic said...

God bless you dearie! Imagine him threatening her to call off their wedding as if her life depends on the wedding. Desperation alert, yet she ignored what should have been addressed then, only to come crying to us now that he wiped off all their pictures. I dare you to confront him, if you won't write us back that he has divorced you. Desperation hurts deep at a later date.

Gigantic said...

Well said bro

Anonymous said...

Must you advertise your life on social media? He is a private person, why not respect his privacy. Displaying everything about your life is not what tells wether a spouse is faithful or not. I don't have any of pics on social media,same as my husband. My kids inclusive. I feel you should be close to me to have access to my photos and life events. Don't worry yourself for nothing pls, enjoy your marriage, this is not an Issue.

Gigantic said...

I presume it would scare away those pests right? If a man ain't proud enough to flaunt you, you should know that a day will come that he will flaunt that woman after his heart. Receive sense

Gigantic said...

Did I type this? Anon, you finish work

Assertive Lady said...

Madam please be worried. I am speaking as a single and active girl on Facebook. True his putting your pictures there won't stop him from cheating because there are some girls who won't mind his status but still go ahead to date him but there are also girls who won't date him once the see that picture. Those pictures serve as a protection. I personally think a married man should have at least one picture of himself and family on his Facebook page. It serves as a protection.

A lot of married men on Facebook are very immoral. They are busying adding young single girls up and hiding their marital status. They won't mind even travelling all the way to see and sleep with this girls. I have personally experienced it. Don't listen to that crap of him being a private person. One picture of your family on your Facebook wall doesn't make you any less private. Married women shine your eyes ooo.This is particularly common among married men within the age group of 35 to 50.

I turned one married man down when I saw the pictures of his wife and kids on Facebook. Guess what he did? He went to delete them. Those pictures are no longer there. A man with no single family picture on his wall is cheating or has plans to cheat. Stop this privacy bull shit.

Gigantic said...

But he threatened her to call off their wedding and she still stayed nah. So, why is she crying all over the place like a weaned rat? I detest desperate humans.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Maybe his colleagues don't know he just got married and he's been collecting family allowances ever since

Maybe his business partners sleep with other women's wife and he doesn't want them to see his.

Maybe he is expecting a contract from one lady who has a massive crush on him and he told her he was single so that she can get it done fast while he disappears from her life (I didn't say he was sleeping with her ooooo)

I can paint a lot of scenarios but just don't start thinking it MUST be a side chic 😁 Not like I have a solution for you *scratches head* but I think it's important that your SM friends know you're married and no longer available. Esp when you're attractive. Keeps flies at bay. So ONE picture shouldn't kill nau....

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Don't go looking for trouble where there's non, privately enjoy your hubby and stop seeking public display of love.....

Anonymous said...

My dear wipe your tears, mine that I thought loved me so much, I found out he's busy asking one ajadu nurse, original auntie gwegs for pictures of her cunt, the idiot sent it. i wonder what he will use the picture for hes even a two minutes man in bed, I so hate my husband now, don't care about his life but I will deal with this and make sure I hurt him back, big time.

Anonymous said...

Do not have depression because of social media pictures.
My husband did not upload our wedding pictures on his FB.He doesn't put me on his social media.He recently blocked me on fb and claimed he did not .I have stopped bothering him about it .I am beautiful and well dressed and he doesn't put me out there.I was bothered before not anymore.Stop checking his social media and ignore him .

Angel said...

On my wedding day and few days after my friends and family uploaded my wedding pix on facebook which they tagged me on,I untagged myself from them reason being dat SM (esp Facebook) is not my thing, I LOVE my private life, hubby too is the type that doesn't like uploading pic on SM. He is the type that can use 1 pix as profile pix for a yr.

So Madam calm down, some pple are like dat.

chim_oma said...

Looking for problem where there's non. Ihe social media bu eje.
My dear not everyone likes putting his/her family out there for reasons best known to them.

chim-oma a.k.a. Miss Kapusu

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Your only limit is YOU*

Beautiful Eagle said...

Many commenters are missing the point here. I feel sorry for poster. She saw the handwriting on the wall when he threatened to call off the wedding because of ordinary pre-wedding pics yet she brushed it under the carpet. My husband is also a very private person but our wedding got him so excited that he quickly changed his status to married to me. I post our couple pics on facebooK but I don't tag him because of monitoring spirits. Poster I don't know what to say to you. It would have been a different case if you never noticed this attitude before getting married. Just speak to him about it and hope he changes.

Anonymous said...

So you lot are scared to tell this woman the truth or is it because Stella said there is no problem? Madam it is as simple as abc. Your husband is very cheating on you without any care in the world. To make it equal, delete any pics of him on all your sm and dont use his pics for anything. Haba mana! The signs are so glaring and you guys are not saying the truth

Beautiful Eagle said...

Good advice. The poster should just speak to him about it. When the man threatened to call off the wedding because of ordinary pre-wedding pics, she kept quiet now she's getting upset. I wonder why people marry who they're not proud of.

chim_oma said...

Looking for problem where there's non. Ihe social media bu eje.
My dear not everyone likes putting his/her family out there for reasons best known to them.

chim-oma a.k.a. Miss Kapusu

Anonymous said...

We all should be friends

sholetoga said...

Poster......stop posting his pics on social media again if you feel somehow sbout it and start behaving like you careless whatever he does with his social media life. BTW, he may not like putting his family pics on social media like I don't like putting the pics of my kids on social media too
Stop disturbing yourself over a man oh my sister. Live your life,and stop bothering your beautiful head over a man matter

Push up said...

Abe's stella yours is different, Haba, my dear all il say is that you saw the signs, he needs to sell his market well, what kind of man threatens to end a marriage just because of picture when he should be doing everything to please you, that there was a huge sign

Anonymous said...

Thank you o jare.

Ndi zombies never thinking with a mind of their own. Simply because there is none.

"I yam a private person." "I yam a private person." Then why are you on social media? You want to to keep tabs on people but you don't want them to return the favor? Why na?

Jeni_zee said...

So because of your own experience, you used it to judge her husband? That's very wise of u

Anonymous said...

Stella, this sounds like my ex's wife. She sent their wedding pics to social media and blogs. Wedding took place early this January. She even shaded me join in her declaration of love. Please note that I broke up with her husband long before they met. But I understood the shade and just laughed.

When a ghost of a previous relationship is haunting you... madam lovebird. Your husband has turn to lovevulture. Hahahahaha. Stella this man did not post one pic of them on all his social media. He is not proud of the lady. If not for desperation, guy can never marry a woman like her. As in the guy is so proud and rude. When she de hype herself I just de laugh. Me we de bring this thing with your husband over 20yrs. Na me you wan shade. Na so women de invite devil come enter their marriage. If to say I wan frustrate your life now, I go get blame? I sit jeje for my lane, you find my trouble. Me wey I no know you.

You marry you still de shout take am go social media. E show se that man no be your own. You marry another woman husband by fire by force. If you have to insult strangers and call the world into your life, it shows you are trying too hard.

My advice for you, close your social media accounts and focus on your marriage. Stop taunting the devil, no be everybody get chill or care about you. Then go crush that fake marriage ni. Either that or you leave the man. I no sey you no fit, Na until him chase you common. Even if he impregnate 10 women outside, you will still stay. Lolz. You just start. You never see anything yet with that man. Just stock up on BP meds. Goodluck!

Jeni_zee said...

I think that's her fear, y would he make such threats ontop pictures? Something isn't right

Red Wine said...

Poster is your problem displaying your wedding pictures on Facebook? If your husband is cheating then you would complain, if he is telling people he is not married then you have problem, If he is not taking care of you then you can complain but since the only issue now is he did not upload your wedding pictures babe chill and concentrate on better things. I recently dropped down all my wedding pictures on all social media just to be private I hardly post pictures this days let people don't know what is happening to my family and myself. You can as well drop down the wedding pictures you uploaded and see if he will make trouble with you you tell him for privacy too.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

One man's meat is another man's ponmo.

I dey here dey battle "don't post my pics on your wall" and some dey want make them post their own.

My sister's wedding photographer posted her wedding pics on his IG page, someone told her(She's not on any SM platform), she told the guy to bring everything down.

Madam, I understand your fear since he post other stuff but just ignore and focus on your marriage. I think you should also stop posting too.

orela said...

I think madam and oga poster should unfriend and unfollow themselves on SM

SWAG LAFRESH said...

You made a mistake too from the begining. When he told you he will call off the wedding if you tag him, you would have threatened him too.

Don't take whatever you can't take in marriage in a relationship

Anonymous said...

Poster my husband did not put our wedding pictures on Facebook, when I post he will come and comment like other people, his status us showing unknown, you cannot know he is married, he does not use our wedding pictures as dp, he stopped wearing his ring that is tight, I even asked at the shop we bought the ring was told it can be expanded, the guy refuse to expand it so I spoke to him severally about it but he refused to listen so I stopped wearing my wedding ring, all have hit sexy pix on my dp, I deleted all my wedding pictures on Facebook, I changed my status to single, I started caring for myself, Ignored him, I snoopped and saw where he told a girl gets was not married babe I lock up and decided to make myself happy, look young, sweet, beautiful, make my hair daily.

One day Oga came home with fight that I dropped all wedding pictures and deleted my status, he asked me to pack my things and leave, I pretended I was not listening till he reported me to my elder sister, we both took ourselves to her and I told her he refused to display our wedding pictures so I have decided to be married but single lady, case closed he has been displaying our wedding pictures using me for his dp, me I will not put our wedding pictures again till my mind is down. You need to deal with men small before they will have sense.

Chike TEFLON said...

Poster you are trouble maker

SDK's FIRST DAUGHTER (GIFT E) said...

You are not making sense.

Iphie dearie said...

Everything is shade to you people.
Someone cannot express herself on her own wall again without making it all about YOU.

She will be okay, Worry about your own life.

anonymous said...

So you don't know it's these 2 minutes men that cheat the most.

Iphie dearie said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Chikito.
Plausible reasons... But this man threatened to cancel their wedding if she ever uplaoded them pictures. Too extreme. He should atleast open up to her you know. I understand privacy on social media but he's is starting to get suspicious.

anonymous said...

Poster take this advice o! This is exactly how I will deal with the situation.

Anonymous said...

It cannot make sense to you. That is why because you lack sense.

Anonymous said...

Your husband told you to pack and leave because of social media? Hahahaha. Where una de marry these men from? God forbid

Anonymous said...

I don't even have the time to disturb my life over things like this anymore.hubby has Neva put up my pic nor his kids on any platform. Deliberately stopped using ring, cheats unrepentantly n unfortunately he is a pastor(end time pastor right).will I now kill myself untop man matter.i av a lot of people who admire me both male n female n so I've decided to look beyond him for hapinness. I'm fed up but hv decided to remain strong n focussed if not cos of m, my kids

Anonymous said...

Your husband is cheating on you. The time he posted the wedding pix, he blocked his side chicks so they don't see it. He then deleted the pix later and unblocked them side chicks and added them back. Even on Whatsapp that is what men do. Any day they want to post the wife of kids pix, they block the side chick and later remove the pix and unblock them.
This should be a lesson to all married women who feel their husbands don't cheat because he posts his family pics online.

DON™ said...

Woman leave your husband alone since you didn't caught him messing with another woman, hot everybody like putting their lives online. Imagine what you are stressing yourself for, because of online pictures? I can't remembered the last time I post pictures on Facebook.

You no get problem o but seems you are looking for one.

Anonymous said...

Atheists how will they find your pics on the internet? Wen you be ashawo nwoke

MrsB said...

Not true.
What about rose who boldly cheat even with their wedding bands on? You check every single picture of theirs online and its them grinning ear to ear with their families so what about that?
Poster, I dont think you have an issue. I'd use myself as an example. I have a business Instagram page, you won't find a single picture of my family there. The only reason i still have a Facebook page is cause its linked to my business fb page to it as well as my Instagram business page. Give him the benefit of doubt, he wants to keep his family private.
'If it ain't broke, don't fix it'

MrsB said...

Lol @ with nobody to tag. I dont think this poster has a problem at all.
Hi Sharon, glad you're back!

Naan Adams said...

Haba y will a man i want to spend d rest of my life with threatened to call of his wedding because of pictures biko, am a very private person too and Facebook is a no go area for me but haba wattsapp nko even if na jst her birthday, I had to beg my hubby to remove all our pictures on Facebook too but he still does his thing once is a while most especially on my birthday ..poster I know how u feel sha but don't let it border you..me sha love public display of love and affection once in a while...

TURQUOISE BLUE said...

One million likes

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 22.01 its so untrue, two minutes men don't cheat speaking from six years experience

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