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Tuesday, 24 October 2017

Nollywood Actor IK Ogbonna Redefines 'Cheating' And Says He Has Never Cheated On His Wife

In an exclusive chat with BroadwayTV, Nollywood actor IK Ogbonna says he has never cheated on his wife, Sonia Ogbonna before. According to him, he sees his wife as someone who has everything he desires and he wouldn't want to ruin that for anything in this world. 


IK Ogbonna is a nollywood actor, Producer, born in Jos, Plateau state but hails from Abia state and has been an actor for about 4-5years now.


If you find yourself in a position to cheat what will you do?


Cheating is not even having sex with a woman, that's one mistake people make. Cheating is when you find yourself developing feelings for someone.


Now let me explain this. If a man finds himself in some situation, sleep with a woman for 30 mins and it's done and dusted, and then you move on with life. That cease to exist the second it ended. You only just broke your Marital vows, that's not cheating. You broke your marital vows.


Now Cheating is, when you start sharing the 100% of you with someone else. Now I am not talking about sex, I am talking about giving that person the extra time, chatting moments. "I miss you baby", "I miss you honey", "When can I see you again", planning trips with this person, you know?



Have you ever cheated on your wife?



I haven't and I don't see any reason why I should. I looked for a woman with everything I want, from beauty to brains, companionship and friendship.


I am more about building my family, building my life, and building a future for me, my 'internal' family and extended family. So I really don't have that time. I am always on set. I am always working. And the little time I do have I spend with family.



Do you cook for your wife?



Yeah, you know I love cooking and the beauty of cooking is when you see somebody enjoying your food. The beauty for me is when I see the person I love enjoying my meal and she is actually smiling... I cooked for her. I try to do everything and anything to make her happy. And cooking is one of them. She cooks for me, I cook for her. You know....it's just beautiful. As far as I am concerned.


Why do you think Men Cheat ?



People think it's in every man's DNA. I don't think so. It's a mindset. If you hang around people that cheat, you probably become a cheater. If you hang around people that are faithful to their women, they will influence you to be faithful to your woman. So it's a mindset. I don't think every man cheats and I don't think it's a word that we should use 'that every man cheats'.


There are people that are faithful to their wives not just because they are happy with their wives but because it's a spiritual thing. There are people that don't believe in sharing their body with just everyone.


So let's take that word 'Every man cheats'; and let's have 'Some men cheat' because they want to cheat. Same way you can't say every woman cheat but there are women out there that do cheat and they cheat because they want to cheat. It's a personal decision.



Can you forgive Infidelity?


Well... I have not faced it, so I can't sit down on this chair and say I can forgive it. But if I find out that my woman slept with someone she had no feelings for, it just happened. She just had sex. My pride will be hurt but I will easily forgive her than if I find out that she is dating someone, like proper dating. Travelling, trips here and there. Seeing themselves every now and then, all of that.


But you can't really sit down on the chair and say you can forgive this or you can forgive that. That's the truth. Because when you are faced with this life situation, that's when you will know what to do. That's when you will really realize that, those things you felt you could tackle in particular are not really the way it seemed to be.

36 comments:

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

No comment

Alloy Chikezie said...

This is how they start to accept things that are a sin and ungodly as a norm and teaching the younger generations rubbish.

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ola wealth said...

Tin bagbo.... U follow man sleep, lock mind, throway key..... Shey e possible ni??

Na end of contract oo

Anonymous said...

So dissappointed.... was the wife not the one who once shaded Caroline Danjuma in one post about randy husbands and blaming side chicks?
See how this dude ruined his wife's "relationship expert" market.

I love Mrs Ogbonna, i really do, but she should focus on herself and her brand and never say "never" again. You date/marry a naija guy and you auto proclaim yourself a relationship expert??? What happened to others is now happening to her.

This open relationship things i hear about them, na true???? hmmm

I am king EZE said...

You haven't 'cheated' on you wife but you have 'slept' with other women and .....erm men. Ok.

HEYLEL BEN SHACHAR said...

Sdk point of correction, he is not an actor. This man that cant even do a primary school play is who u are calling an actor?

Miss Ess said...

Well done ik...good for you

Spanish Lantern said...

Ok Sir, technically you're saying that it's allowed to just screw anybody we fancy as long as we're not dating them? Teacher don't teach me nonsense.

Oh Lamee said...

So make we fry bread abi????🙄

SUGAR. said...

#Coughs

Errrrmmm​ brethen, our brother ogbonna does not cheat! Praiiiseee. Prai, praise, priaseeeeeee Tha lord!


#Radarada

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Ik is a confusionist
Cheating is cheating, whether you sleep with the person for 5 mins or you start developing feelings for the person, it's still the same thing...

Breaking ones marital vows is classified as cheating.......

The world and the people therein keeps bringing up new quotes to mislead the gullible ones....

But God's standard remain firm and the same...

A word is enough for the wise......

Anonymous said...

Is this one an actor?... Mtchew

You have never cheated on your wife,... Double RadaRada.. Who you dey deceive? .....Yoy wen be gigolo... You dey sleep with men dey collect money... You dey sleep with old mama's Dem too dey collect money.... Your case dey LUCIFER hand




@ANONYMOUS ORUBEBE

Anonymous said...

Shay you think say Na marriage Dem do so? That one na arrangee something.... The girl wen go travel go IFE go find people to fuck am give am money... Woo, if I woze both of Dem slap faa.... Shay person wen the husband sef go pretend bring guy give am collect him own share of money... Nonsense life.... @IK love money pass himself and him own life.. They just sit and keep up appearances, saying they are big girl and boy wearing fake designers upadan.... Awon smellos




@ANONYMOUS ORUBEBE

Anonymous said...

Abeg no waste your time comment jarre.... E even pain me say I comment... I know his silly self might be here or the wife. Mi just typed this, so they know that I know whats up



Fake people


Be forming Yeyebrities couple





@ANONYMOUS ORUBEBE

Anonymous said...

I used to think that this guy is wise
Really, my dad taught me that when a boy
speaks, you know his age

Anonymous said...

So he is saying that if someone visits prostitutes, he has not cheated?
Well Ik, God calls it adultery and it is idolatry
It is punishable by him

lovely amaka said...

LOL another excuse to sleep around
abeg where did he get his own definition of cheating
chai sonia don enter one chance


Anonymous said...

Hope when his wife opens her thighs for a man "just for thirty minutes"
"she has not cheated"
Only broke her marital vows
And Ik can absorb that and move on
All these Nollythrash talking trash

Anonymous said...

So in essence, Ik has been "drilling every hole" in Nollywood
and every brothel "just for thirty minutes"
and has not cheated on his wife??

Jane's Sparkles boutique said...

Hope when she have sex with other men wothout been attached to them she has not cheated too.long hissssss

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

hahahahahah Galore the galore, how far ooo. I just dey miss you plenty

Anonymous said...

So he hasn't cheated on his wife but has broken his marital vows.
So half of the cheating men on this planet are not cheats by his stupid analogy.
Men keep giving new names to cheating to cover their acts. Smh.

The Observer said...

In other words...lol

Anonymous said...

I dey jarre.

Na BOOK dey make me MIA


KIKIKikiki

Make nobody come tell me say I don dey school since 19DC I never still graduate


Hehehehe




@ANONYMOUS ORUBEBE

Ralu M said...

Wonderful! See his mentality 😩

Ezenwanyi said...

I actually agree oh it's the emotional attachment that hurts most

Miss Juliet said...

Once i see him in movies i just change d channel sharp sharp. Nigga can’t act to save a life. Tufiakwa.

Miss Juliet said...

Doesn’t even look like he can last upto 30 minutes 😞

Anonymous said...

What a wawu!!!! His head like yam

Anonymous said...

Only you understanding Jo.........or I no know wattin bvs dem read sef.

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Na wa

SHAKITI BABY said...

Yeye dey smell

jelly said...

Okay

Phenomenal woman said...

As in eh. Dude looks sexually feeble to me. Plus he's just made Nolly history by being the worst actor in Nollywood so far .
Anytime I see you on my screen, I feel I just turned on the wrong channel.
Better up your acting game guy cos you no follow.
Meanwhile from your comments above about cheating, you have obviously had two many one night stands with them girls and because you don't love them, you haven't cheated on your self acclaimed relationship expert wife. Dude thinks he is smart with his banana head...

***Uhonmora finest*** said...

I meant Naija celebrities

Anonymous said...

He has not cheating but he has broken his marriage vows. Smelling rhing

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