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Wednesday, 15 November 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ABOUT TO RESUME BEING A RUNS GEH


Good day Stella, keep up the good work you are doing. Checking this blog is like a daily routine for me though I barely comment. I don't know where my story fits.


Am a student, my final year. Almost a year ago, I found out about my real dad(stayed with my step dad all my life thinking he was my biological father), I understand why my mum kept it from me and honestly, am grateful I didn't know before that time.


 Now the issue is(or has been) my mum, I feel like a burden to her, because whenever I ask for money to do stuff(like make my hair, or money for handouts,pad etc), she begins to complain about how I disturb her too much and she doesn't have money, it has always been like that. My mum doesn't earn anything less than 150k, and honestly am not a materialistic person, I only ask when I need the money, when I have sef, I don't ask her.



 She could collect salary today and still swear she doesn't have a kobo. She can buy shoes, wrappers, gele etc and even collect on credit but once I ask, na problem. At a point I stopped asking, I started begging outside it even got to point I started sleeping with men for money to buy handouts and stuff. During my i.t, i started learning how to make beads and i used the money to take i gain to take care of my self cos i was receiving almost nothing from home. Fast forward to this year, I have been begging her for over 6months to get me a laptop so I could use it to do my project, she didn't anything, when I pushed hard she said she doesn't have money. 


Stella, this is a woman that sold one her landed properties for almost 4million last month so I don't really understand. I begged her to help me with capital at least so I could establish my business in school so I won't be 'disturbing' her every time, she refused. I just left her office some hours hours ago, its the same story and they were just paid salary.


 Honestly, I am so tired of it all, I don't want to go back to being a runs girl but it seems at this point, I don't have a choice. People outside feel am well taken care of since am the only child but I am dying inside. And I feel like am going to wake up one day and commit suicide if I don't speak out. Bvs, please forgive my typos. God bless u Stella.




*From your writeup,I can deduce that you assume she has and probably the manner with which you ask is wrong....If your mum has the money to give you and she is not giving you,then you need to find out why....She probably sees you as not serious..
There must be a reason- find that out!!!

About Returning to runs...All runs girls always return to that day Job when they become really stuck financially,so you need to go for deliverance on that as well.




55 comments:

Miss Ess said...

Hmmmm....you need a daughter mother sit down with your mom, or involve family members.

Anonymous said...

come saturday..apc tony nwonye will be the new governor of anambra...

Dada Toyosi said...

Once a runsgirl

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Poster do you mean you dont have your mum mumu button? You dont need to go far to do runs. Press her mumu buttons you go get money. stop complaining.

Everybody get mumu button, so press yours well

Blackberry said...

You wanna go back to runz?
Last time u did it, you got a car out of it?
If your runz don't make u hammer, what's d point getting fucked for peanuts? If u wanna do runz, do it big n cash out, no be to dey fuck family men for money dat can't get you a hair from mizwanneka.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Poster,since you are a RUNZ girl,why haven't you gotten enough money from the men you see?...
Abi dem dey do you Osho free?...
Stop doing fucking local men!,.
Change your cycle of RUNZ babe friends and upgrade!...
Most RUNZ babes I know are doing very well for them selves!...
They have houses,good business,cars etc!...
If you wanna chop fish,chop correct one!,.

Anonymous said...

I don't agree with you Stella, some people are stingy to a fault. I have seen a man who fed and lived like a pauper. It was after his death that millions were discovered in his bank account

ola wealth said...

Stella there is no amount of way she would ask that her mum will give her..

She asked very well na..
If truly she's her mum, no matter how she ask even grumbling, na mother n daughter matter b this now.

The thing is common among men too (Yoruba men).

You will ask for money its another story entirely.
Because of confrontations you decide not to ask again, but if people see you, they will think you are being taken care of very well.

Mtchhhhhheeeeeww.

Na because of this asking of money, person travel/smuggle himself enter another man country..

If them catch person doing runs or Yahoo Yahoo, they will come n be shouting that DIDNT I GIVE YOU WHAT YOU NEED, DIDNT I TAKE CARE OF YOU, DIDNT I SEND YOU TO SCHOOL, (yimu😏).
All na wash..

Make I just stop here jare... Vex Don dey catch my belle.

So Stella make d girl just pray n hold on. Those people no go hear word.
Na there mind dem go wan do, as if paying school fees is everything...


Mttcheeeeww

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Since your mom does not want to share her money with you,stop begging her!...
Her husband might be manipulating her against you!...
Some girls are the ones seeing themselves in school...
Face your life,leave home and forget about your mom!...
When she gets old,make sure you treat her the same way she is treating you kapish!!...

Anonymous said...

Once I read that "she buys gele" etc. I knew where she is from. That is how those women behave. They can borrow to do owambe buy not give a dime to their kids. I don't understand it. Yet they exercise a lot of control over their kids.

Girl, you are almost through. do not go back to iniquity. I did my project and I did not have a laptop. You can.

Eleganza said...

must you do runs to survive? y cant u steal her gold or any meaningful stuff and sell it since is like dis.

Anonymous said...

Poster abeg if you wan resume your ashawo work, just pass jeje go do am make we hear word inugo?
Once an ashawo, always an ashawo...EOD

Anonymous said...

Wrong at that last line
There is no benefit in revenge

Curious cat said...

So it's either runs or nothing right? That's crap.

Concerning the laptop, you can do your project without owning a laptop ma. Not everybody had a laptop while they were writing their projects. U say U're not materialistic but I think u are ma'am.

amanda favour said...

Poster must be one of those mothers in the other post ...hehehe
But why will a parent feny his/her child her necessities or even wants? Who is he/she making the money for? Is she punishing you because of the sins of your runaway father? Na wah oh!

Anonymous said...

Stella always thinking people are good. There are parents that spend to show off but won't give their children. That's why in the states there's process for disowning your parents so you can get government financial aid. We have parents making good money but won't pay school fees. Time for wedding now, they will say you should go and bring the idiots

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a Ugegbe Chike Teflon said...

I agree @facing her life. Ignore your mum. And who is your biological father? Is he wealthy? Maybe they expect you to go to him now that you know.

Just face your life squarely. Your help/miracle can come from anywhere. She's your mother and even if you ask wrongly she should caution/correct you and give you. So you know where the problem is coming from.

Hope she's not trying to push you to the streets too? Cos some women do that to their pretty daughters esp if that's what they did when they were younger.

As for the runs part.... no one can really convince you. But i promise you that you can have a boyfriend who will support you waaay more than runs can.... unconditionally sef.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

*frog!...

St.FranKooL.... said...

Please what happened to your step-dad, real dad & the bead business? Why would you want to go back to runs? Are you studying Runsiology in school?...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Chai!...

DON™ said...

Abeg go back to prostitution, who care ? Your mama don see through you, that's why she can give you money. So you expect her to sell her landed property and hand the money over to you?
You are a Bastard child, your mom is yet to tell you who you Father is.

Justyswt said...

Stella some parents are so mean to their children. They would prefer to do for outsiders than for their family.

Anonymous said...

I don't know some mothers are like that event though she was working and looking fly. If not for my Dad who was there 247 for me even though he doesn't have much. I wouldn't have gone to school.

Some mothers are just like that.

It is just irresponsibility and nothing more.

Sort yourself out the way you can, you will be fine last last.

Anonymous said...

My dear I understand you. I had to leave school because I didn't have anyone to help me. Now I feel like going into runs to take care of myself. I know one girl who is into runs, she is building her house in Nigeria, have her own apartment and enjoying with the finest things in life. I have parents but they don't want to help, always saying they don't have when they own a store and school. One thing I know is that if I ever have children I'll never make them lack. Many Nigerians girls here are into runs and they are living well. Me that I kept my virginity till now and I always pray I'm still suffering. I know God exists but it seems he has forgotten about me. Sometimes in life you have to do what you have to do. If you want to get into runs make sure you find big fish. As for me as soon as I can I will get into runs and make money.

Push up said...

My dear, you don't need to go back to runs, you are writing your project so classes aren't so serious, you can look for a job that is within or not so far from the school, use your capital to start up no matter how small, if you think going back to runs is your only bet then you will never make it in life Cus you will always rely on your Punani. What if you don't have parents? I dint use a laptop to write my project, so honey it can be done, except you are too proud to do some kind of jobs as a hot girl that you is, but like I said what if you dint have parents? Contact your real father and see if he can help

NaMe BeDis said...

Scam alert!!

Anonymous said...

This chronicle sounds like galore. Their women are the ones that marry plenty husbands. They will always say I don't comment so no one will decode them

Anonymous said...

During your runz days where you sleeping with married men? Could it be their wives curses that are following you???
Do you work in your mum's ministry to know when they pay? So you know if her husband has igbese where she was a guarantor that they deduct from her source?

Anonymous said...

Stella, I understand her.
My mum was a business woman doing very well for herself... She used to buy all sort of expensive aso ebi... All her money was for herself, when I was in school, whenever I ask for money even 150 for pad then, she would complain and swear she doesn't have... I had to resort to using tissue and clothes for my menstration then... At a time I wished she ha no money and my wish came to pass, she is so broke now that she can't even make her hair...
Even though I have forgiven her,
and know she has learnt her lessons... I only wish she can start having money again....
Don't cuss me out...
Mothers should show their girls love
She's even friendly now to me....before now she wasn't accessible

Anonymous said...

I hate it when people come here to THREATEN to commit suicide or go back to runs or abort so people will tell them not to. Since you have these options, why are you writing in? I guess they threaten so people will offer to donate to them

SheriKoko said...

Clap for ursef👏

Anonymous said...

Babe if u wanna go plz do Biko who good girl epp. If u see a guy that is ready to care for u Biko do nails hard.

Anonymous said...

Hope am not dreaming, because this is my mum attitude but u said u are the only child.

Madam Estateowner said...

Hmmmmmmmm!!!!! Some mothers are not qualified to be called "Mother" but " murder". You are the only child and yet she finds it difficult to give you money. You don't even need to ask before she will provide for you.I believe the bitterness she had against your biological father is affecting her affection towards you. Look for your real papa and reconcile with him and see if he can help you out. Give your mother space and stop asking her for any form of help.
Please don't go back to runs because it's not the best option for you. Focus on your beads making business and use cybercafe to type your project and forget about the laptop for now until when you are financially bouyant. In all, pray and ask God to help you and touch your mother and also behave well

amanda favour said...

"poster's mum"

amanda favour said...

*deny*
Choi see gbagsuns!!

Anonymous said...

I wonder why some mother are like that, I remember when I was still in school my mum will only pay for my tuition fee and nothing else. I will have to do labour(bricklayer) for 2 weeks after school resumes so as to gather money for food stuffs and other necessities. She always told me she was building one house or another. I wonder how she expected me to manage in school knowing my father is an irresponsible man. But today the story has changed.

Ezenwanyi said...

But NNE calm down you say your mom earns 150 thousand and you want her to remove within 70 to 100 thousand naira to buy you a laptop you WANT not NEED I put it to you that you are very materialistic. Checking your mothers salary, how she spends HER money etc.NNE be careful oh na this kind atitude dey make person thief oh,greed, be careful ohhh!!

Red Wine said...

poster if going back to runs will make you happy and not commit suicide why not?

talk to your real dad about capital to start business, have you spoken to your step father about it? is time you make money and forget about asking for money from your mum.

Anonymous said...

My dear please do!! Is your choice and personal decision!! During my project time i used my phone to type my project, then took it to business center for setting and printing since I don't have money for laptop and to give business center people. Typed it within 3days both those that requires graphic drawing.

Anonymous said...

Since when did people start needing a laptop to do project? You mean everyone in your school got a laptop for their project. Babes... the outside world isn't smiling oh so u better calm down. Those without parents in your class nko? Or those whose parents are struggling in the village? Wouldn't they do project? You better think deeply on how to survive this small wind and graduate well. Life is full of storms.When you are married and your husband doesn't give you money, you will start sleeping around irrespective of whether he is working on a bigger project. There is a solution if only you can look deeply.

Anonymous said...

Just a few are like that silly Anon but then you won't comprehend.

sholetoga said...

Poster.....The ball is in your court because you sound like you have made up your mind to do runs before writing in . You didn't even consider little jobs you can do to gather money.....hian

Anonymous said...

Chikito you always agree with queen and bus and comment under her comment. Is it so she will like you???

My two kobo said...

Deliverance from What? A girl is making a decision with eyes wide open on returning to runs and you're calling Deliverance!...Devil has nothing to do with your decision to prostitute yourself. Find out why your mum refuses to help and work from there...Deliverance ke! *smh*

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a Ugegbe Chike Teflon said...

My mother can give me her last money to make me comfortable. 100k out of 150k is nothing.

Anonymous said...

Once a runs girl/whore always a runs girl/whore. If you make mistake marry them OYO .

Chyluv! said...

Is it possible that your mum has gotten to the point where she feels you can fend for yourself, probably cos you were already doing so with runz? Some parents can be selfish to their kids though. Why not ask your dad n step dad for help. I'll advice u don't do runz after all the ones you did before didn't get you anywhere, kukuma find a rich boyfriend, not a married man please, who is willing to sustain you and help give you a push in your business. All the best.

Chyluv! said...

I have a mini laptop the battery just packed up probably cos my brother overcharged it. I wanted to even discard it, but I could give it to you poster u would just change the 🔋.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Jealous anony!...
You are an Asswipe!,..
I like Chikito and I will continue to like her...
Now can you go and hit your head on the wall?...
Pig!!...

Anonymous said...

@18:40
So your folks are really like that? So the anony is really right? Wao! Make una change o.

Nonish said...

Once a runs girl always a runs girl...take it to the lord,pray about it...I guess she never wanted you to meet with your biological dad ,but since you are now grown and you've met with your real daddy I think she feels she has done so much for you through school and all so I think she wants your daddy to take up some responsibility now..please ask your daddy too for money secondly check if you are not rude to you mummy since you found out the truth about your daddy and you are not taking sides with you dad...advice go back to runs it might just be your last post on sdk because the next man may use you for blood money this season okaybye

Anonymous said...

@Chyluv can I have your email add pls?

charitybino said...

Whatever you do young lady, don't go back to runs.

Amacastel said...

Sorry ooo everybody has his own palava

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