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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED
Oga, are you trying to tell us that your wife is a...... say e get winch? I am in shock eeeeeeeh.......Have you discussed with her and asked her what is going on? I dont have any advice eeeh, please let me read.
Hello Stella,
I am the same chap that mailed you a chronicle on the 20th of May 2023.
My dear fellow BVs please i need your advice.
On three different occasions at the middle of the night when on my way back from the loo to ease myself i do take a look at the second room where my wife sleeps with the children. I will see my wife with her two feet placed on the bed and the knees face the ceiling while asleep. Immediately, i will grab my bible and start to pray and she will adjust to sleep properly.
On 02/04/2024 at exactly 01:47am i heard a sound of a cat in the compound, i got off from bed to my wife’s room, to my surprise i saw her with a feet on the bed as usual, i grabbed my bible for prayer and few minutes after she put her feet down. Again at 04:49am i was in a trance saw my wife completely naked in the midst of the children in the living room, i called her attention to it and she covered herself up. Some few minutes after that i saw something like an arrow coming towards me but i was unconscious felt like something was pressing me down but i managed to shout the name of Jesus the arrow disappeared and i woke up.
Moreover, i noticed that anytime i made love to my wife the whole of my body system will be feeling sick. After three different comprehensive test was done on me and nothing was detected, doctor will tell me that i am hale and healthy but inside me i dont feel fine.
My dear fellow BVs please i need your advice.
On three different occasions at the middle of the night when on my way back from the loo to ease myself i do take a look at the second room where my wife sleeps with the children. I will see my wife with her two feet placed on the bed and the knees face the ceiling while asleep. Immediately, i will grab my bible and start to pray and she will adjust to sleep properly.
On 02/04/2024 at exactly 01:47am i heard a sound of a cat in the compound, i got off from bed to my wife’s room, to my surprise i saw her with a feet on the bed as usual, i grabbed my bible for prayer and few minutes after she put her feet down. Again at 04:49am i was in a trance saw my wife completely naked in the midst of the children in the living room, i called her attention to it and she covered herself up. Some few minutes after that i saw something like an arrow coming towards me but i was unconscious felt like something was pressing me down but i managed to shout the name of Jesus the arrow disappeared and i woke up.
Moreover, i noticed that anytime i made love to my wife the whole of my body system will be feeling sick. After three different comprehensive test was done on me and nothing was detected, doctor will tell me that i am hale and healthy but inside me i dont feel fine.
Several times i tried all possible best to abstain from s#x with her but failed. I found it hard to take my eyes off her, within two weeks her body will be calling for me and before you say Jack i have entered Jerusalem.
She is a woman blessed with a banging body after two kiddos. Being the breadwinner that really wants the best for the family since 2013 when we walked down the aisle till date i have applied for visa to USA, Canada, Finland and France for 12 good times in total but none was approved despite my travel histories before i met her.
God, with the love i have for this woman why is she treating me this way upon all my efforts.
I am weary.
I am weary.
HA!!!!!!!
Osanobua, my imagination is running wild, what manner of queer position is that?
ReplyDeleteGod abeg o
Gifty
I am a man. Not queer - I sleep same way. Africans are too superstitious. I'm sure if it were mum that sleeps same way, he will attribute his "misfortune" to her too. Young man, quit the senseless reasoning and thoughts. You are doing well but you think non granting of visas to those countries are your misfortune brought about by your wife. You better borrow sense and take care of your peaceful home.
DeleteThank you. I am a woman and I sleep in the same position too. One of my son sleeps same way too. So one doesn't sleep that way all the time. It happens sometimes
DeleteSometimes I sleep like that, when I can't sleep on my side.
DeleteHead to MFM, and pray for yourself and her, even your children, she might not even know something is wrong, you both need to be involved, one person alone cannot do this, you need her to join too. Watch word, show her love and care,
DeleteI don’t know. This writer sounds like a vision seer is talking to them. Do not destroy your home by labeling your wife what she is not. Why do you guys sleep separately to begin with? Have you spoken with her about any of this?
DeleteOsanobua, my imagination is running wild, what manner of queer position is that?
ReplyDeleteGod abeg o
Gifty
You no well sir. Check your mental health inukwa.
ReplyDeleteAswear, what's this nonsense..
DeleteU just concluded she is the one against ur progress,..
'Her body will just be calling u'which body should call u before?
My inlaws said the same about me
DeleteThe man has been listening to prophets and seers
I practically ignore everyone now
Oga take a rain check of your life and take responsibility and make necessary changes
Leave the poor woman alone
Nawa o.
ReplyDeleteOhhhh Jesus mighty name 🙏🙏🙏
DeleteSomething isn't right here. I think your wife might be in a strong spiritual confraternity going by your narration. Such women exist but they won't hurt their husband and kids. In fact, they'll go any length to protect their own but you dare not hurt them..
ReplyDeleteLet me give you a tip to work on. Have you ever ask her to join you in prayer?. If no, then try that. Tell her to read the Bible and lead in prayers. You might get the answer you need from there.
Again, study her very closely, she might be going out spiritually at night. Yes, I know someone in my place who does that. In fact, he's the head of a strong fraternity. I will share the story one of these days and how the daughter found her.
© TEEJAY
Teejay, this your contribution no make too much sense. Why are you like this? Strong confraternity??? Have a complete paradigm shift in your thought process - such a mindset always attribute personal failures to innocent others, instead of doing a self reflection and making amends to self deficiencies.
DeleteAnon 15:54,
DeleteE no make too much sense that means it made some sense abi?
Thanks anyway.
©TEEJAY
And let me ask you, when you lie down to sleep, do you wake up in the same position?
DeleteThis one na serious matter o...I leave it for the elders here
ReplyDelete🤣
DeleteThis man you’re sick in the head. Are you indirectly calling your wife a cat? You refer to your wife as this woman! Why is she even sleeping in the kids room? What kind of bondage is that woman into in the name of marriage! Why is she treating you how? Oga ipubagokwa ala you know? You need serious psychiatric evaluation.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
Nne ehn! Ike gwuru!
DeleteE be like say you go divorce your wife make everybody rest. Gosh! I hate this African attitude of attributing everything wrong in a marriage to the wife.
By the way, the May 20, 2023 chronicle was written by a woman
Martins pls post the link to the first chronicle abeg.
ReplyDeleteI dont understand sha, I sleep in the same position, I put me legs on the wall atimes. Does that mean Ayam a witch?
Yes oh.. According to Nigerians husbands
DeleteBecause I come dey think whether I be winch! Which kyn wahala be this?
DeletePeople many o
I tire o.
DeleteHi @Miss Aboki;that said date was when the chronicle was mailed to SDK;and not when it was posted..
Deletehttps://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2023/05/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_01507155944.html?m=1
The link above is the chronicle for said date,which was that of a BV whose hubby gbenshes her knee..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Dear poster, you have many spiritual battles to fight. Know this and know peace.
ReplyDeleteMaybe remembering his first chronicle might help us know the kind of man this man is and how his brain works cos to me, this dude is frustrated and mentally unstable
ReplyDeletePls what is wrong wt the sleeping position? I thot if u ain’t sleeping on ur sides, u wud dfntly be sleeping face up, and if u r face up, ur knees are supposed to also be face up na, pls is it me that isn’t understanding?
ReplyDeleteOp, my boss is the head of a strong govt agency, recently, he applied for Uk visa, despite his travel history, guess what happened, he was denied. Sometime ago, ordinary Cairo that he wanted to go wt his wife n kid, they denied him visa, abeg who should he blame? The wife or the kid?
See how you absolved urself of all blames, why didn’t you think u r the prblm, y r u passing the buck?
Finally, i am a Muslim, and the tenets of my religion teaches me that i should totally believe that no man has power over my affairs, only God has that total control, i do not know the tenets of ur religion, but i believe you also blv that man no reach God, if you are as spiritual as u portray in this write up, why then do u blv that she is the one holding ur destiny, why is the position of God in ur life?
He is not spiritual. He is just a religious man that thinks he is spiritual.
DeleteI sleep on my stomach with my two legs up backward till dawn and no i am not a witch nor from the marine kingdom lol
ReplyDeleteI don't know how i came about that sleeping position and i don't know when i do it.
Poster i hope you dont have a prophet deceiving you at one corner?
Una go abuse the man as the accusation is against a woman.
ReplyDeleteMaybe his accusation is totally baseless.
Maybe his accusation is well founded though he has no credible proof.
The fact of life shows there are married men and women who are involved in spiritual activities that are detrimental to their spouses.
But here, a man's chronicle against his wife is trivialized unless it is supported with proof beyond the shadow of doubt. On the other hand, a woman's chronicle against her husband is truth from the second line.
No need to abuse the man.
Whether at the hands of his wife, by his own hands, or the way things are worldwide today, he is facing challenges. He needs solution.
Some married men face what he narrated.
Leave the sleep patterns of the wife aside, once a man becomes un-progressive after marriage, both the wife and himself needs to introspect.
This is beyond me o, but the coincidence is enough to be worried. I think you should go with Teejay's advise, tell her to pray along with you and watch her.
ReplyDeleteAre you Christian? If yes, how does she behave in church. How close are u both to your pastor or tell her you want both of you to do family deliverance including the kids and see her reactions.
Deliverance that they will put more demons in them abi?
DeletePoster , nobody can deliver you except yourself. Focus on knowing God's pattern, get your mind off the pattern of your prophets and soothsayers and follow the pattern of Jesus, you will see how this unnecessary thoughts will flee from your mind.
I can't find the first chronicle.
ReplyDeleteI would love to read and understand .
Hmmmmm this life is deep o, oga just be prayerful... We can't come to conclusions that she belongs to high powers....... Why not you both pray together always, why don't you sleep together too, life is deep i can clearly tell you there's a problem but its beyond me . I wish you speedy solution
ReplyDeleteThis is serious
ReplyDeletePoster, thanks for letting this out because your help has come.
ReplyDeleteThis is obviously not normal. Your wife has a spiritual husband and if you don’t get her and yourself delivered, you can’t progress in life.
I’d recommend you and your wife go on YouTube and listen to the following messages by Apostle Joshua Selman.
1. The altar of prayer.
2. The mystery of Deliverance. Part 1-4
3. Any other message concerning deliverance and progress.
I promise you’d be grateful you did. The messages may be long, but in there lies your freedom from the devils grip.
I wish you the very best.
P:S: I’ve been busy with Saturday cleanup but my spirit prompted me to visit the blog and read this story.
I listened to number 2 and i was chased in the dream when i slept is a poweeful sermon.
DeleteMay people like you be far from my generation in Jesus name amen. Everything run to church.
DeleteThe devil will not want any body oppressed to listen to the mystery of deliverance. I have heard so many testimonies of deliverance from listening and engaging in the prayers and instructions in these messages.
DeleteAmen 19:17 . Which kind yeye help is that. You are advicing him to be listening to those messages that will make him more night mares?
DeleteWhen they say feed your minds with messages that edifies the spirit you people won't listen. You keep looking for what is not looking for you.
Read your Bible and pray, asking God what you want. If he doesn't give you,it means it is not time for you to get it, but still, you don't have to stop praying in faith. Do your part and leave the rest to God. No need to be going from Pilar to post looking for whom to deliver you. Deliverance is from the mindset. Any message that puts fear in you is not a message from God. The word of God will always calm your spirit even in the storm.
19:05 I say a resounding Amen.
Deleteslim shady you are not a christian nor a believer. you just take delight in attacking the church...if you know the pastor he recommended you will not talk about messages putting fear in him. judging what you dont know. no true believer engages in being so judgemental like you
DeleteMaybe she does not want you to travel out alone. How about you guys traveling out as a family?
ReplyDeleteSomething is not right
Something is not right with you too
DeleteOga, you may be going through a mental crises. You are exhibiting delusions (false beliefs), hallucinations (hearing and seeing things that other people do not experience). You may be going through financial or economic hardship, like many other people, but what sets us apart is how we cope with these struggles. Some people have good coping mechanisms while others struggle to cope. You may be projection the cause of your financial difficulties on your wife. For instance, because you have not been able to get a visa since you got married, you've blamed your wife. People have different sleeping positions, but because she sleeps differently from you (with her feet flat on the bed), she is evil. You heard a cat meow, OUTSIDE your house at night ( its normal for stray cats to roam at night abi?), you accuse your wife of witchcraft. Because YOU do not have the willpower to abstain from sex, you blame it on witchcraft. You have thoughts of an arrow attacking you and your wife being naked---your own THOUGHTS-, yet your wife is responsible for this. You believe your wife is making you sick despite tests that show you are in good health. Oga, please, go for a psychiatric evaluation first before taking any drastic action. We hear stories of how these things turn out. Please, make sure you are mentally sound, then go from there.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for this contribution. I hope poster will at least see a therapist if not a psychiatrist. Meanwhile people are here egging him on and telling him what is wrong with his wife.
DeleteNawa ooo,it is well
ReplyDeleteThere’s nothing wrong with your Wife!!! You’re just looking for who to blame for your failures in life! If you let her know your suspicions you’re done because she will leave you! Abeg park go one corner jo!!!!
ReplyDeletePoster l think you and your family needs prayers. Please join Dunamis command the day programme every night @ 11:30pm. Victoria ascerta
ReplyDeletePoster change your negative mindset or check what you are not doing right before blaming an innocent woman because of a mere dream.
ReplyDeleteWhat if your wife has the same negative view about you whenever she encounters challenges?
Negative mindsets always think bad, evil and see negative in every good.
O ga ooooooo
ReplyDeleteWell, you have not stated anything about her personality, mind or heart. It is obvious that you were only attracted to her body and still is. You blame her for your misfortunes and she is sleeping in the kids room instead of with you. I do not think you are making her life easy. I get a control and dominating vibe from your chronicle. You probably think because of being religious you are the most wonderful creature on two legs.
ReplyDeleteIf you believe something else is happening spiritually then speak to your wife. Why have you not told her about your dreams and visions? Have you checked out your own self to make sure you do not have an unholy ancestry. Those dreams and visions could be deceptions if you’re the one with that ancestry. Going to church and reading the Bible will not erase the past, so check yourself and lineage out to make sure it is clean.
This man is schizophrenic. Poster, you need a good psychiatrist and don't forget to pray to God to remove any ill thought from your mind.
ReplyDeleteOga i have seen such sleeping posture. Don't let your imagination run wild.
ReplyDeleteAwon Elders. Iba oh. U better follow ur wife yarn, all the things, whey u dey see. Wake her up 4 midnight and pour out your mind to her. No go para or beat her oh, at the same time, no go show fear oh. GOD be with you and guide you. Amen
ReplyDeleteThis story might not be related but things dey happen. A guy called me early morning one day asking if spirit husband of a girlfriend fit carry one from bed throw am to ground. I laughed and asked if it is him, he lied na a friend.
ReplyDeleteThis guy started facing alot of challenges as he start to recount when all these started ,it was when he slept with a particular babe.
He called the babe to question her, she told him ah she thought it is only the man that she is living with suppose dey suffer am( the babe lives with her bf and this guy knows ooo but gross irresponsibility made him chop her in his small mind they are not married just co habiting)
The babe confessed is only that live in bf suppose dey suffer am, reason she is scared of marrying him cos she already knows highest he can reach in life and she wan enjoy life.
Me just warn the guy to stay away from any other man's woman before any long talk. That alone reach to vex anyone spirit or human.
Thank you.
DeleteLeave us make we dey woke.
Even Oyibo pipu call am paranormal.
As you said, that does not mean the woman's sleeping posture as described is diabolical. In fact, her sleep posture is very normal.
The real issue is that the Poster is facing challenges he has attributed to marriage.
We have heard of bitter In-laws attacks. Jealous Exs attacks. Wicked family attacks. Spirit spouses attacks. Etc.
If an independently successful man or a woman marries and things become retrogressive, the person, the person's spouse, and both their families should be under the radar.
The Bible says a man's "best people" are members of his own household. That's where the old saying "home trouble" and the new saying "village people" originated from.
The Bible is ever true.
I'm confused, what's wrong with the sleeping position? Or is it that I don't understand the position you're talking about. Is it not sleeping on ones back with knees up and the feet down on the bed?
ReplyDeleteHer banging body is attracting you, no be jazz. I sleep nude too, with my legs wide apart, 😩 my husband is tired of complaining, he said it creeps him out.
ReplyDeletehmmmmm... nkan nbe !!
ReplyDeleteYour fears are valid oga. Very very valid. lemme stop here.
Some witches know the Bible and can pray very well. So, the test of seeing how she prays may not give you needed answers. Your wife might be a blind witch, i.e. she might not be aware she's one. Or, she might be a conscious witch. Whichever the case, I suggest you take her to MFM prayer city for deliverance. Don't let anything hinder her deliverance. But she has to accept Jesus as her Lord and personal Saviour first. The coincidences are too many and too spot on to be called mere coincidences.
ReplyDeleteShebi if your parents gave you a second passport, you won’t have the fingers to accuse another man’s daughter of nonsense. Next time, try to be born in a first world country ok?. Try to beg your guardian angel. Mtscheewwwwwww
ReplyDeleteDear poster, are there any other reasons for your assumptions other than the ones mentioned?
ReplyDeleteI am by no means trivialising what you are going through but i wish you domt creat more problems in your family and i hope these ideas are not being planted by so called prophets.
Women have suffered in this life. Tufiakwa. Something you should be blaming your country’s leaders for, you’re blaming your wife. Mumu man. FYI, Nigeria is on the same level as Sudan when it comes to passport strength.
ReplyDeleteOther countries are tightening their borders and you have the audacity to query it. Lmao. Delulu.
How much in dollars is in your account that those countries should let you come?. Abi , you think they don’t know you’re not planning to come back?
Oga go to Ghana. It’s visa free. Na you wan go first world country
ReplyDeleteUnderstand that these so called prophets can destroy your home if you allow them. Your wife's sleeping position might be a habit. Your feeling ill after love making might be your mind playing tricks on you and that visa denial might be life happening to you.
ReplyDeleteI am just saying that except you are convinced beyond reasonable doubts that your wife is behind your problems, then you shouldn't be quick to place the blames on her.
I know what these fake prophets are doing tou husband at the moment and i can't help but feel sorry for him. Thank God things are not going bad for him even though he fails to see that, he could have as well said I'm responsible as i don't fail to let him know every now and again that they are using him as their meal ticket.
Bottom line, if these ideas were planted by "prophets" , quickly get out of their clutches, face life squarely and let go of what you can't change. If you can't travel out, let it go and focus on something else.
Selah.
Poster,pls search for mfm on u- tube, pray the prayers ,do this especially in the midnight hr,a lot will be revealed to you,visit mfm fraternity for deliverance, your home is under siege but God will deliver you. Check Dr Olukoya- Mfm on u- tube, give your life to Jesus Chrst as the first step to salvation. You will testify.
ReplyDeleteOmoooooooo na so so haaaa God abeg I just dey shout as I dey read dis chronicle. Chai I’m lost for words and honestly don’t know what to say cos if you say make you begin ask your wife now she fit say you dey accuse am of being a witch
ReplyDelete***mfm prayer city at mowe ibafo express Road....ignore typo error
ReplyDeleteWhy are you guys sleeping in different rooms.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you vibrating under her comment? U dey ment
ReplyDeleteYou need a lot of spiritual prayers/cleansing ooo
ReplyDeletePoster, it's unfortunate that you've drawn your conclusion that your wife is the cause of your predicament. Most africans have become so superstitious that they attribute any negative thing happening to them they always attribute to the devil especially in this era of different prophets and prophetesses. You and your wife should talk about what is happening and pray to God. I bet you, you will see God at work in your life.
ReplyDeleteThis issue is very simple since she is your wife and you are suspecting her just let her join you in prayer anytime you want to pray ,she might be an unwilling captive in this world of wickedness ,so by praying with her she will soon loose her grip and you can have your wife back,so simple ,the name of JESUS IS powerful than you think.if you want to go ahead tell her before she sleeps that you will wake her up for prayer for the family for maybe 2 to 3 hours in the night.
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ReplyDeletePoster hope your wife didn't know all you have been thinking about her. That's how you will use your negative mentality scatter your marriage by yourself.
Your mindset is poor, I didn't mean financial poor. If this is how you reason, I wonder how you make a decision , bring ideas or solution when there is an issue.
This is the same way a member of my extended family accused and tortured her children, sisters, maids, basically the finger was pointed at any person close to her as the source of her problems. One goes, the next one is accused. It completely isolated and ruined her life. You are going down a very dangerous path. Life has peaks and troughs. Sometimes things go well and other times we have rainy days. That’s just the way life is. You hustle until things breakthrough. You will get rid of your wife but the next person to be the witch will be your sister, and then your mother and you’ll continue going further down that rabbit hole.
ReplyDeleteYou need to be sure of what you are saying before you destroy your home with your hands. Go gor deliverance, visit pastors that can see vision and make sure you don't tell them anything till they speak about it.
ReplyDeleteSome people sleep like that, it means nothing. Who is feeding you people with this trash. You are imagining those things that's why it seems they are working on your. Lol, you didn't see any arrow, that thing happened as a result of the things you conceived in your mind . If you continue like this you will continue casting and binding for the rest of your life. Which prophet is feeding you with all this beliefs that are not biblical?
ReplyDeleteGo abeg o, may I not marry a local, unexposed man who has used religiosity to block his brain.
ReplyDeleteThe day my breathing is plus 3 breaths he will still read meaning to it. God abeg o.
Am going through something similar to the poster. One of my blood relative is dating a girl who is a witch, but Stella you will never know bcos she looks so innocent and beautiful. I got to know through dream. I went for a prayer for that my relative and she appear to me there in the church that since I know her secret I should not reveal it to that my relative or she will destroy him. I went to for places to confirm and I was told the same thing( that I should not disclose her secret to the person that she will leave him when the time comes . She is a confirm prostitute and diabolic. She tried to separate me and the person spiritual but I always used prayers to fight her. I was told to let her be that she will leave the relationship on her own. I kuku mah avoided her completely. If you see her with this my relative you will thing that she loved him . I fear oh if not for God and spiritual people around me she for don show me shege
ReplyDeleteBut this man's case is different from your story. He is falsely accusing his wife because someone religious people has told him that anybody that sleeps in that possible is a witch.
Deletehow do you know he is falsely accussing her? some witches sleep in that position. the issue here is how is he sure? witches use different means to pepetrate their evil and yes we get that information in the place of deliverance. the issue here is not all persons who sleep in that position are witches so he needs to be sure before he comes out to accuse his wife
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