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I randomly checked young sons WhatsApp group chat with his school friends on my phone and one of them was sending n#des emojis of men with gbola to the group.
I warned him not to try it again. I'm thinking I didn't do enough maybe report to his mum cos she's an acquaintance of mine . Or to the school?
I randomly checked young sons WhatsApp group chat with his school friends on my phone and one of them was sending n#des emojis of men with gbola to the group.
I warned him not to try it again. I'm thinking I didn't do enough maybe report to his mum cos she's an acquaintance of mine . Or to the school?
I'm just angry!! Parents please stop chasing only money keep a watchful eye on your kids. I should I call the boy and warn him?
My dear there is no need to embarrass the parents of one which in turn might affect your son....All you need to do is yank your boy off that whatsapp group and seize his phone until you have had a talk with him and he shows that he understands.....The whole group is guilty and your son may have also posted such before.....
That is agege vibes and it needs to stop....
Please send in your Chronicles
Report to his mum since she's your acquaintance. And also be worried about your son, too. May God help us.
ReplyDeleteI still don't see the reason why kids should be given phones, especially internet enabled phone without restriction or close monitoring.
ReplyDeleteWhy not join d group as a parent and pass information down to your lads?
This kind "woke" generation dey weak me ooo.
The past generations produced the best, like ngozi Okonjo iweala, chimamanda etc, the best of brains and great people in our society today, without being in WhatsApp groups (which didn't even exist then) and all those shenanigans while in school. So please cut it down with the "freedom"
And most importantly, parents pay attention to your children. Not about the financial support only. Raise good children. Parenthood is deep. It requires sacrifice of time and attention and prayers. Being invested in all aspects of their lives, having deep communication and relationships.
So daddy and mummy can't be both busy chasing money.
One has to step down or take a flexible job or remote job, to pay attention to the kids. Otherwise, dama.ged kids loading
Report to the boys parents so they can caution their son. if you ask the boys parents now they can swear that their son is well behaved because he doesn't show those traits around them. Make sure you show them evidence but if you have discarded it, you can show them the place you deleted it from the chat. God save our kids on parents, please look for the app that can be used to monitor your kids activities on the internet. If you say you won't give them phone they will go and start sharing a phone with their friends and aslo watching nonsense from their friends phone.
ReplyDeleteRaising kids with TikTok, Whatsapp and Facebook devices is one of the undoing of this generation. I know in about 20/25 yrs time, the remaining moral values we have been managing and trying to keep in the world would have been gone. Thanks to the olodoness (illiteracy) of woke parenthood.
ReplyDeleteWas it not two days ago, I saw a video of some teenager's twerking on Facebook? There was even a baby of about 2 yrs old. Guess what? An adult was recording them, and it is one of them who posted it online.
This idea of giving kids gadget can never fly no matter how we try to package it.
They call it young sons Whatsapp group. I call it enablement. The school is just trying to help the kids destroy themselves. It has started already.
You ma'am, should take away the phone from that child. It has more disadvantage than advantage. There are so many things our children will still do. We don't need to start their lives with them.
I concur. I don't intend giving my kids an android phone till they're mature enough. There are simpler options. It's already a lot monitoring down to even their cartoons with all the Woke contents. The battle for the children's sensibilities is intense and constant vigilance is needed.
DeleteLemme tell a story so we understand- as a kid, junior secondary, I was a voracious reader, read all and every. Read a 'stolen' novel once where the protagonist described watching someone performing self fellatio (on himself) and in my ignorance, I actually thought of attempting it to see if it was possible.. Curiosity. Thank God I never had the opportunity to because weieks later I read and learnt that was homosexualism. Question now is, what if I had tried and succeeded?? Plus, this was the era of no GSM nor Androids.
Watch your kids people.
I understand you want to protect your children’s innocence but hey, you can’t do much about their growth and curiosity that comes with adolescence. Talk and guide. The most you can do is pray and hope for the best. Whatever you think you are shielding them from, they will still see it. It’s the age and kids grow.
ReplyDeleteDon’t take it too harshly when you talk to your child about it. Reporting to the school is a no no.
Stella have said it all, just do as she has said. Please prayers and love is key here when you want a great result.
ReplyDeleteIt is well. We need to really be family oriented and reduce the money chasing
ReplyDeleteThank you everyone. We really are a community here . The phone actually belongs to me he doesn't have a phone yet for obvious reasons. I'll keep monitoring, praying and hoping for the best . ❤️🙏
ReplyDeleteI pray God should keep guiding you to nature him well in the way of the Lord....it can be really difficult sometimes! because of pressures they face out there...substantial monitoring and guidance is needed for their development. Talking to them is very important than shouting at them always, meanwhile most parents are just too woke now that the moral values and how to behave properly in the society have been watered down. Creating time for them is key too..one parent shouldn't get too busy that they are left on their own for long hours...it shouldn't be a regular partttern in raising them. It won't be ok that all the money is made at the detriment of the children. Don't let them visit friends you are not sure of, or your values don't align with their parents!
DeleteTelling the parent won't be of any use unless their morals and values are the same as yours. Things happen in every household that is only known to the ppl living in them. Yes, households have their secrets. Before cellphones kids were doing other things. Keeping a good close relationship with your child while living up to morals and values you deem important to you is the most powerful thing against having them go astray.
ReplyDeleteAsk yourself why your son did not come to you and let you know what was happening in the chat and even telling you he felt uncomfortable? You better be a parent your child trust and can come to about anything. Many parents blame phones, media, and 'wokeness' instead of asking themselves why their child is keeping secrets from them and not coming to share things that others are doing that do not align with their family values.
Report him to his parent ,covering their sins won't help all of them and in addition remove your son from the group and seize the phone until sanity returns to him
ReplyDeleteI have teenagers and I despise all these social media apps, they are destroying so many lives.
ReplyDeleteCrazy things going on with this generation.. porn is sooo easy to see
ReplyDeleteNow we see kids watching homo porn.. and we expect this boys not to be when they grow up.. for me I will not give my kids phone until they are mature enough
Such a scary world we live in now
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