Hmmmm...
BLOCKING FOR NO REASON
What could be the reason? this man came and made me believe he was serious only to find myself blocked 1 week after traveling to meet him.
I got the vibe he didnt like me, but it’s not enough reason to block me like that.:.....Never a good experience wit Edo men.
You travelled to meet him? why didnt you make him come to where you are and control the Narrative? Did you gbensh him or not?If he has blocked you, please block him right back and forget about him......Did you say Edo man? I have been played before by an Edo man when i was in Uniben oooooooooooo....ahahahahahahahhaahahah The bro was married and didnt tell me,and wanted to marry me as Nigerian wife without my Knowledge, it was his cousin that decided to toast me and let the cat out of the bag...God saved me and my kinikan.......My dear, move on
Did you have xes?? If yes, that's all he wanted. Block him, and move on. Do not try to call him with a private number o.
ReplyDeleteMove on, wake up from your sweet dream, you gave out the koko too fast. Guy man eat and cleaned mouth, you should not tag it on the tribe but the individual oh. I am married to an Edo man and i don't have any regret. Someone will come here and tell you Yoruba, someone will say Igbo, some will say Hausa. Is not the tribe but the individual.
ReplyDeleteLearn from your mistake, face front, your own will come. Is better he ended things now than later. Pele.....
When someone 'blocks ' you ,it means that the person has moved on.
ReplyDeleteYou fell short of his expectations... life goes on and you will meet a better person in future
ReplyDeleteBlock him back and move on.. Your own will come.
ReplyDeleteMove on na shuo, he has tasted and seen that it ain't all that!
ReplyDeleteEdo men too proud. but on this case i think you were not his spec. i know it's hard but try and move on. some people don't know how to break up nicely. not that they are bad people. it's just their nature.
ReplyDeleteAll the best
Why are tagging it to tribe?
ReplyDeleteHe doesn't like you, simple, block him back..
You may even end up with an Edo man ..
Just move on. If someone doesn't like you there is not one thing you csn do to change tgeir mind. Find who value ,respect, and love you and nourish those relationships. I do not know why some ppl love to force on themselves to ppl who clewrly do not like them. He block you, take your block and move on with your life.
ReplyDeleteEveryday our Creator has to live and know that the humans He created, hate, block, deny, sin and speak ill against Him. You better than God that you can't get rejected. Please take your block and channel hourself into positive pursuits and go find your God.
That's just it. She should move on. He blocks you instead of killing yourself block him also and move on. Give him the same energy since you didn't offend him.
DeleteTo love someone is not a crime and shouldn't be hard on you.
If someone doesn't like you, just stay away. Love is not hard.
Poster, so sorry to hear about your ordeal. That means you traveled inter-state to see this person without him coming to your base to see you first. It's not a good idea to travel to another state to see a man you have not met in person (before). Anything could have gone wrong health wise, even your life being threatened...
ReplyDeleteFrom your post, you sound disappointed... When on the contrary, you should be thankful to God that you came back alive and well. Not all were luck to to tell their story. Please, don't take such risk again; it's not worth the value of your life.
More so, see the experience as a price you had to pay for the lessons learnt. Sorry, inu go
Try and forget about him. He has moved on. He is a player.
ReplyDeleteThere are bad people in every tribe and every race, the stereotype is not necessary. Just try and move on inugo? Don't even try to contact him to find out his reasons for blocking you. Pele.
ReplyDeletePoster block him too so the day he will unblock you he will find out you have blocked him
ReplyDeleteGbam! Block and delete his existence.
DeleteNo need asking about what you did. it's not about you it's about what he wanted. He might have gotten his filled so just move on
ReplyDeleteLong distance is. not for the weak
ReplyDeleteYou can talk and talk and meet in person and everything just falls apart
It’s not even about xes. Sometimes you just don’t like the person
But blocking seems a bit immature
I would find a way to reach him and ask
I don’t like things that linger so if you’re really want to know the why then try calling him from a different number
He has gotten what he wanted so what remains nothing .Move on and be careful next time
ReplyDeleteI can’t fault you for traveling to meet him (if you’ve done all safety checks) because some of us have been guilty of same thing but if he blocked you right after, it clearly shows he doesn’t want to continue. Try move on! I know u are looking for closure but don’t do that to urself.
ReplyDeleteI hope the one for u locates u soonest!
Thank you, Eka.this is kind of you. Amen.🙏
DeleteI noticed you said he blocked you one week after
ReplyDeleteWhat did he say after the visit
Sometimes you’re trying to let someone know you’re not interested but they keep trying so you block them to send the message across
We never chatted Again. It was radio silence I didn’t want To make him think I liked him.
DeleteWomen, please do not travel (Long or short journey) to go meet up with a man. Let the man travel to meet up with you. Habaaa... Women who does this shows desperation or low self esteem. Let the men woo us as it used to be back in the days. Now, why did he block you? Did you guys gbensh? Or he simply doesnt like your physical attributes, character, mental intelligence, or etc?? Look inwards and decipher. Then next time do not make the same mistakes.
ReplyDeleteIn genersl, I agree the guy should come to the lady but Sometimes you traveling to him is the more reasonable option
DeleteLet’s not be too rigid
There are other ways to know if he’s taking you for granted
Women, please do not travel (Long or short journey) to go meet up with a man. Let the man travel to meet up with you. Habaaa... Women who does this shows desperation or low self esteem. Let the men woo us as it used to be back in the days. Now, why did he block you? Did you guys gbensh? Or he simply doesnt like your physical attributes, character, mental intelligence, or etc?? Look inwards and decipher. Then next time do not make the same mistakes.
ReplyDeletePlenty reasons Dey wey fit make man block woman like that but these two na automatic for a lot of men. If your puna/mouth get foul odor, and if you dirty
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry about that poster.
ReplyDeleteIt hurts, I know. Deal with it the best way you can and move on.
Wether sex happened or not, don't dwell on it. If he didn't like you, not your fault.
That guy is an immature idiot. If he feels you are not his spec, there are ways to handle such things. What he did is painful and very harsh but it's okay.
Block him everywhere too and try to let go of the pain. You didn't do anything wrong so don't bother questioning yourself. He isn't worth it.
You'll be fine soon and I'm sure you'll meet a nice man 🤗
🙏 thank you slutty.
DeleteHe has collected what he wants and has moved on from you. Wether ordinary collection or the other type of collection, what ever collection it is, mission has been accomplished.
ReplyDeleteSorry about his childish behaviour. He has stylishly moved on... you too block him & move on sis. God will compensate you with a good man 👏
ReplyDeleteAdunni
His character changed when you visited. I hope you don't have mouth/body odor and I hope you guys didn't gbensh? If your answers are No, please block him back and move on. Your own man will find you
ReplyDeleteI wish you all the best.
Dear Sister,
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't matter what personal trust was stolen from you; you gave love a chance, and it failed you. But don’t let that failure define your worth. Only a few men walk this earth so devoid of dignity. You are good enough for the truest kind of love - and when the time is right, it will find you, pulled close like magnetic bodies.
Keep tending to yourself, nurturing your inner beauty impeccably. That quiet glow, when fed right, draws peace to you like incense in a still room.
Stop mistaking presence for promise. Some ghosts wear skin, dressed to the nines in borrowed affection, promising closeness they never intend to honour. Cowards like these wear silence like armour, thinking it shields them from accountability, not realising it only exposes their lack of self-worth. Disappearing without a word was his muted dialect - he simply didn’t have the substance to handle the treasure he stumbled upon.
Even if you gave him reason(s) to walk away, it's only emotional infants who hide behind block buttons when they can't provide closure. Or perhaps that block saved you from a deeper, more scripted exploitation you could have been exposed to. Don’t chase shadows, or fan your hurt with more pain. It wasn’t your vibe he disliked - it was your wholeness he couldn’t hold.
But next time, please - don’t stitch hope to your chest and travel across cities for someone who hasn’t crossed a street for you. Please, never again!
That you even went, hoping for a story and got a footnote, is all the more reason to rewrite your pages with patience. Don’t let his episode become the plot of your next chapter. And never tag a tribe for the crime of one man’s character - that’s like blaming a forest for one rotten fruit.
Mourn the illusion. And let this bruise remind you of when a man-child was star-struck by you. Then heal, not for him, not to prove anything, but because your peace is too precious to pause for someone so undeserving.
You don’t chase a man who silences you mid-story. You let him return to the nothing he came from - unread, unremembered, unworthy. And yes, your light will continue to shine, even brighter, steadier, and this time, on someone ready to walk in it with grace.
Block the son of Ahab in your heart and move on, he blocked you to kill your ego but don't let him win.Get your face off your palm and movvvvve it.
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