TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Tuesday Hailings

TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS MEMO

How una dey oh....

How this Tuesday be for your side? My side pam well well but the sun dey too hot for outside and dem fit use the heat fry groundnut or roast bole (Plantain).

I dey for my kitchen office dey work.........

Someone said i cannot seem to ignore the haters dropping comments.....Naaaah, i cant ignore them ......Its seasonal for me,sometimes i feel like and sometimes i don't....

That particular hater still lurking around in the comment section and dropping comments commanding me around, dey play!!!.....I don't need your help or guidance, heck i don't need anything from you.....

I used to think that you have sense but you dont at all........ 

Kevin my fake cousin is a very playful person so the anon trying to tackle him in SP today, I deleted your comment becos you are very childish and hateful....Please leave him alone.....Abi you wan pursue my fake couz?

I may not say this all the time but i bond easily with men and Kevin is one of the family i have found on the cyberspace.....I cherish him a lot and even though i shy away from using the word LOVE; I feel it for him in a fake family way......He means a lot to me and i have started loving his babe too (Wink)

hugs to you all...

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Married but Available? Open Letter to Married Women.

"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled..." Hebrews 13:4

Today’s message is for married women and maybe some married men hiding in the comments

There’s a growing trend I’ve noticed during my counseling sessions and social media scrolling… and we need to address it before it gets out of hand. It's called: “Married but available.”
Yes, sis. You wear the ring. You posted the wedding photos. Your Instagram bio says “Mrs. Somebody.” But your vibe says, “Applications are still open.”

What is “Married but Available”?

It’s when a married woman starts acting like she’s in a relationship with her husband for public records only, but her heart and sometimes her phone is open to external applicants.

Look, I get it. Some of you feel emotionally abandoned. You married a man who used to look like a full-course meal, now he’s just a tired snack. From 1 hour man to half second man.

He used to be romantic. Now, his idea of intimacy is snoring louder. Before marriage: six-pack. After marriage: family pack. Before: “Let’s go out, babe.” Now: “Where is my white singlet?”

But hear this: emotional neglect is not a license for moral escape. Being unfulfilled is not the same as being unmarried.

Temptation is real, yes. But you’re more powerful than your feelings. You’re not an object of attention; you’re a woman of covenant. And your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

You made a vow, the honeymoon is over, but the commitment is not.

So What Should You Do?

Talk to Your Husband. He’s not a mind reader. If something’s broken, say it before you stray.

Fix Your Gaze. What you focus on grows. Stop meditating on what he’s not, and start watering what you still have.

Keep Boundaries. That male friend who “just checks in”? Tell him to check out. This is not a customer care line.

Marriage isn’t perfect. No marriage is. But choosing to stay faithful in a world full of options is a superpower. And God honors that.

So please, for your home, your soul, and your future, don’t fall for the “married but available” scam. You’re not a “maybe.” You’re a wife. A whole one. Not on trial. Not in the market.

Close the door, Lock it and give only your husband access to it. And if your husband’s lost his spark… don’t go looking for fire in another man’s house. You might burn your own to the ground.

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This message is for all of us oh...As e be say Eva the crazy high waisted  lady that dragged me to Instagram was present in the room when one short man gbenshed me kpa kpa kpa kpa left, right and centre- Allegedly.

Madam Eva sebi u don marrynow? What you did to me will happen to you before forgiveness will come..I wanna see if your marriage will survive and become even stronger like mine..Hahahahahahahha

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WICKED SISTER TALES

I got this email from my inbox from a BV with Blog ID, I cannot reveal the ID cos the intention is not to shame her

I don't know who to talk to as I lie down here crying my eyes out. Last year me and my elder sister agreed to run a joint food business and I agreed because my business was very slow and I did not have enough capital for the business which was also affecting the business and I was already in debt so I agreed to her proposal with the hope that anything I get at the end of the month I will put it in my business to help grow/boast my business. 

I got a sales boy that will be staying in the shop while I go to the restaurant to work. it's 3 months since we started and anytime you come to our restaurant it's always busy. Now, from the one set I told my sister I don't have the capital to start this,we should wait till next year as I'm already swimming inside debt but she said she will bring the money for the start up,I said no problem anything I get it's fine by me as long as I get something at the end of the day no matter how small,I'm very ok with it.

 Now, at the end of the first month she gave me some money,I was very happy cos to be honest I've not made that kind of profit in a very long time from my business. After that first month,my sister started making coming to work a nightmare to me,at every slightest opportunity she will insult and humiliate me. I live home very early and return late. I'm the only one that cooks all the meal until recently that we got a helping hand. 

Second month came and passed,I did not see a dime not even transport,she came up with stories upon stories and everyday sales keeps improving. Today I went to work and my sister started her usual insult and humiliation over something that is not an issue ,I believe she's just trying to get me to leave by all means and then and there I told myself I'm done. For the sake of my mental health,I'm leaving before she will derive me into depression. 

Please Stella,I'm not sending you this to ask for money but to please beg you cos I know your blog is like a family. If there's anyone that is into my kind of business that is willing to buy what is in my shop so that I can start up a small cooked food business that can be giving me small money no matter how small everyday. Right now what is inside my shop is not more than 700 thousand and my business is capital intensive,I don't have money to pump there but if I can get someone that will help me clear them, that money can help me start my food business that will be giving me daily income no matter how small . 

I can cook very well and if there's anyone that is willing to invest in my food business I don't mind,I can provide all the necessary evidence with video call to be sure it's my picture, the person can call me out if I breech on our agreement which I will not. 

Please Stella,help me I'm not lazy at all. I've advertise the shop here but buyers are not forth coming, please help me 

 I left today without a dime but I don't regret it cos that work space has become too toxic for me.

This kind of wickedness severes blood ties!!!....how can someone treat their sibling like this? I dont get it.

Whatever you do,just make sure you dont go back there.....

What is the thing inside the shop that you wanna sell off? You did not indicate it..

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WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?

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WEIRDFACTS

----If someone sticks by your side through your worst times, they're the ones who deserve to be with you through your best times.

---Psychology says, the best things in life are usually found when you are not looking for them.

----Cuddling before bed helps the brain to relax.

----Most people dream in color, but those that grew up watching black and white television often dream in black and white.

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