Hmmmmm.....
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PULLED DOWN PANTS
I recently got promoted in my place of work. Something that I have been praying for so I called my best friend and told her the good news.
She was so happy for me.
We had both been praying for this promotion. She invited me to her place for a celebration dinner and sleepover.
This is not the first time I am having sleepovers at my friend's place.
Although she's married, her husband usually gives us space on sleep overnights, he calls it the girls night.
After work I went home ,changed and carried some clothes for work, for the next day and went over to my friend's place. We had so much fun. I drank way too much. After the dinner I thanked my friend and her husband for hosting me and making me feel very special.
I am so grateful for having them in my life.
I went into the guest room to sleep. I was very drunk, so I passed out.
I woke up around 3:00 a.m. because I was pressed. When I woke up, I realized that my pant with my pad in it and Jean trouser has been pulled down just above my knees.
Like somebody was trying to pull them down but stopped when they saw that I was on my period.
Somebody entered the guest room with the intention of raping me, but stopped when they saw my pad.......So my period was my saving grace.
Who could have done this? The only male in that house is my friend's husband. Since I left their house I have not been myself.
I don't want to think that my friend's husband could do such a thing to me. I feel violated and depressed.
Should I say something to my friend? or I should just avoid having sleepovers at the house forever?
Hmmmmm.what if it was you that was trying to undress and passed out while doing so? You cannot just be accusing people anyhow cos the damage you will cause will blow you away as well....
It is not your first time of spending the night there and nothing of such happened........You cannot ask anybody about this because you are not sure and you were drunk.....
Why are you just talking about r3pe? what if some of your blood was taken for ritual?ehen!!!....You see how easy it is to make up stories from our thoughts?
Just stop getting drunk in peoples houses and imagining things
Nice advise from Stella. please don't accuse anyone because you were drunk.
ReplyDeleteThere was a time I accuse someone of theft but later saw the money. I felt bad and apologize
please be careful next time
Poster,please stop the sleepovers. Rape is a very strong allegation. You cannot accuse someone,without a credible proof.
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteI will advise you tread with caution....Since you said you were drunk, you may not have any recollection about the events of that night......What if in the process of undressing yourself while you were drunk, you forgot to pull your pants up and drifted to sleep....
Please before you accuse anyone innocently, always think in diverse scenarios that may have happened before you blame anyone.....Unless you want to visit the hospital to request for a r3pe kit to ensure there is no foul play just to clear all doubts...
Going forward, drink responsibly wherever you are so you don't loose guard.....
All the best....
Dear Poster read this comment up here twice and then read the red pen 10 times.
DeleteFrom experience getting drunk and doing shit we can't remember are like 5 and 6 so drink responsibly.
Stella you nailed the response Gbam!
ReplyDeleteEnough of the sleepover stuff.
ReplyDelete@Stella don leave the poster put fear for my mind with the "what if some of your blood was taken for ritual? God abeg o. poster stop getting drunk in houses where there are men who are not your brothers.
ReplyDeleteA lot of wicked people abound now. Sincerely, my thoughts didn't even drift to rape attempt until I read that part.
DeleteStella, I love your response today 👍👍👍
Nawa this thing is very serious,
ReplyDeletewho shifted our sister’s pant? Make una come swear now o
Stella got it right. You were drunk and did not know what actually happened, so let it go. Avoid being drunk or sleeping there altogether
ReplyDeleteIf you know you do not have the drinking stamina, don't embarrass yourself outside your house.
ReplyDeleteMaybe your friend was trying to undress you and help you get ready for bed, saw the pad and she gave up. If you have no memory of being touched, hearing your room door being opened or anything else it is hard to say what really happened. It could also be as you assume, but with no proof you cannot accuse.
ReplyDeleteIf you’re too disturbed by it then stop doing sleepovers. Unless you want proof, then go back over in some months, pretend to be drunk, and setup hidden camera in the room, plus put chastity belt on and you will know what is up. Seck offenders never give up, so if you want to setup trap you can do so. Send us update if you choose to go this route.
Who readjust poster's pant bayii? VAR is needed oo.
ReplyDeleteA drunk feels violated 🤣🤣🤣is your drink not the first to have violated you because your senses are lost ,better do something about your drunkenness before it landed you in the gutters naked
ReplyDeleteYour mind went far oh
ReplyDeleteThis is why I don’t like people sometimes
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