Kinda agree

He's right,repeating unflattering comments,is the cause of many family's feud.

And vice versa . Very true. This is what is called wisdom. You might forgive your siblings but your spouse will never forgive or forget. Let he or she who have ears let them hear

He's actually right. It happened to me and I learnt from it as well. Although mine wasn't something I told my ex, she mistakenly overheard my sister talking to me about her on the phone over something she did very wrong. When I dropped the call, she spoke up and told me that unless I end up not getting married to her, she would so deal with my sister and mother. Even when I was trying to calm her down so we could sort things out, she vehemently refused and was shaking her head.

Honestly, that was how I aborted that mission. A threat like that shouldn't be joked with.

When she noticed my commitment had dropped, she told me she didn't mean any of those words she had said. How would I believe her? Spoken words are powerful and the damage they cause most times can't be undone.

Aside from her temperamental issue, she's such a lovely woman and the best among the women I dated. Very sincere, industrious and caring. She can destroy something this minute and be apologizing the next minute. Sometimes, love is just never enough. Very pretty lady. I talked about her here sometime ago. She was married but unfortunately divorced after one year.


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What about the wife that talks about her in laws negatively and even told her own siblings and co wife that she doesn’t want her in laws in her house?

The thing is if you see your in law as family, there won’t be reason to talk negatively about them.

Yes, it goes both ways!