Magnificent Monday hailings..
Monday Memo...
How is everyone doing? Today has been a good day for me, very fast and very good...How has your day been?
Enjoy the rest of the day and live and let live oh..
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
There's this chic who is a popular influencer on Facebook. We were classmates in secondary school and also attended the same university, in the same faculty but different departments.
Although, her kind of content is different from mine, we mostly share some of the same audience because we're in the same geographical location. On a few occasions, I've seen some of her followers comment on my posts and vice versa. I'm into feminism and gender equality, while she's into pick-me content and male validation.
Honestly, I never had a problem with the kind of content she creates because I genuinely believe the sky is big enough for everyone. That was until she started making snide remarks about feminists and divorced women, portraying them as toxic.
I understand the need to stay relevant and seek validation, but when it gets to the point where you start seeing another creator as a competitor or opponent, it stops making sense.
We haven't spoken since our university days, and I have no intention of dignifying her remarks with a response on my platform. However, her actions continues to leave a sour taste in my mouth and made me reflect on how the internet has become a tool for attacking and tearing one another down.
It's okay not to agree with someone or approve of their choices. However, when you resort to undermining another person just to feel better about yourself, that, to me, is toxicity.
She is on her lane, nah you dey go pokenose oh..She did not refer to you or anyone you know so you have no right to be so upset over what does not concern you at all my dear...Live and let live!
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
There's this chic who is a popular influencer on Facebook. We were classmates in secondary school and also attended the same university, in the same faculty but different departments.
Although, her kind of content is different from mine, we mostly share some of the same audience because we're in the same geographical location. On a few occasions, I've seen some of her followers comment on my posts and vice versa. I'm into feminism and gender equality, while she's into pick-me content and male validation.
Honestly, I never had a problem with the kind of content she creates because I genuinely believe the sky is big enough for everyone. That was until she started making snide remarks about feminists and divorced women, portraying them as toxic.
I understand the need to stay relevant and seek validation, but when it gets to the point where you start seeing another creator as a competitor or opponent, it stops making sense.
We haven't spoken since our university days, and I have no intention of dignifying her remarks with a response on my platform. However, her actions continues to leave a sour taste in my mouth and made me reflect on how the internet has become a tool for attacking and tearing one another down.
It's okay not to agree with someone or approve of their choices. However, when you resort to undermining another person just to feel better about yourself, that, to me, is toxicity.
She is on her lane, nah you dey go pokenose oh..She did not refer to you or anyone you know so you have no right to be so upset over what does not concern you at all my dear...Live and let live!
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
This is the longest I have gone without being pregnant or going through the new born stage since I got married.
I am finally getting my groove back little by little. The pain in my c section area has reduced drastically and I am feeling better. I am planning a solo date soon and I plan to be gone for most of the day, just some time out to celebrate my new freedom and finally crawling out of the new-born/ toddler trenches. ( I barely survived).
I am trying to decide if it should be a spa day or I should just go and hang out by the beach quietly where I can avoid interactions with other people as much as possible.
I am eagerly looking forward to my alone time and I am counting down to the day.
Go the Spa and thereafter, go shopping and go out to eat…..
Enjoy yourself abeg!
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WHAT EVERY MAN NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT WOMEN
---. The woman is a person of high and frank emotion who needs emotional interaction and conversation.
----. Respect and trust are the cornerstones of a well-built relationship.
---. Women's feelings can be interpreted only by listening skillfully.
---. However shy or low-scale actions, thoughtfulness works wonders among the women.
---. They have verbal as well as non-verbal communication.
---. Confidence has an attractive glow to it but Arrogance has the potential to repel.
--- An empathetic nature forms a huge portion of the ingredients of great relationships.
---. Women need honesty and authenticity in their communications.
----. Women appreciate being encouraged for her aspirations and targets
---. Every woman is unique, and that needs to be understood for meaningful relationships.
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MOST EFFECTIVE FINANCIAL ADVICE
1. Buy assets, not liabilities.
2. Buy things that make money for you: stocks, real estate. Don’t buy things that don’t make money: clothing, fancy cars, etc.
3. Don’t buy assets you don’t understand.
4. When your friends at the bank try to sell you a complicated financial instrument that you don’t understand, chances are it’s a bad apple.
5. Make more money, not save more money.
6. No one increases their net worth by saving. They increase by making more money.
7. People who drive fancy cars and flaunt their supposed wealth are probably not that wealthy.
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Number 7 reminded me of someone...lol
WHAT EVERY MAN NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT WOMEN
---. The woman is a person of high and frank emotion who needs emotional interaction and conversation.
----. Respect and trust are the cornerstones of a well-built relationship.
---. Women's feelings can be interpreted only by listening skillfully.
---. However shy or low-scale actions, thoughtfulness works wonders among the women.
---. They have verbal as well as non-verbal communication.
---. Confidence has an attractive glow to it but Arrogance has the potential to repel.
--- An empathetic nature forms a huge portion of the ingredients of great relationships.
---. Women need honesty and authenticity in their communications.
----. Women appreciate being encouraged for her aspirations and targets
---. Every woman is unique, and that needs to be understood for meaningful relationships.
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MOST EFFECTIVE FINANCIAL ADVICE
1. Buy assets, not liabilities.
2. Buy things that make money for you: stocks, real estate. Don’t buy things that don’t make money: clothing, fancy cars, etc.
3. Don’t buy assets you don’t understand.
4. When your friends at the bank try to sell you a complicated financial instrument that you don’t understand, chances are it’s a bad apple.
5. Make more money, not save more money.
6. No one increases their net worth by saving. They increase by making more money.
7. People who drive fancy cars and flaunt their supposed wealth are probably not that wealthy.
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Number 7 reminded me of someone...lol
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LET US GO DOWN MEMORY LANE AND DO THIS
As a well brought up child... How do you tell your parents that.....
---. They stole your Math's Set
---. You can't find your 4 figure tables
---. You need new school uniform because the charcoal iron burnt the one you have..
--. You want replace your Cortina
--- You broke a conical Flask during chemistry. It was not you but that fine girl, Kemi said it was you
---. You cant find your inter-house Sport dues
---. As you and Gozie were playing police and thief, he pulled your shirt and it tore from that place you patched it before
----. You cant find the 2 James Hardley Chase you borrowed that they said you shouldn't be reading again. And the owner has seized your Economics and Biology text books....
Create a scene of one and go and tell your parents.....
As you greet Afternoon, your father thundered.What do you want?? I hope you are not here to complain''.....You looked well and saw koboko by his side....
Oya talk!
While growing up, if you are bold enough to talk to my Papa, you go chop cane tire...I was chopping cane like sugarcane but every whip made me even more stubborn and i never stopped.my Papa got tired and officially signed out of whipping me....
Goint through that list, there is none i could have told my dad...Argh!!!
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WEIRD FACTS
---Protect the part of you that still believes effort can change the outcome.
---Not every day will move you forward, but every day can teach you how to move better.
---A study conducted by Harvard Researchers found women are happier when their male partners open up about being upset.
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PARENTS, PLEASE READ THIS BEFORE YOU SAY “THEY ARE JUST CHILDREN”
Sometimes, the biggest en€mi€s our children will ever face are not strangers — we unknowingly create them under the same roof.
The constant comparisons…
“Why can’t you be like your brother?”
“Your sister is more responsible than you.”
“Your younger sibling is doing better than you.”
The preferential treatment.
The quick judgments.
Always taking one child’s side without hearing the other.
Making one child feel loved while another feels like a burden.
Parents often think these moments will pass.
But they don’t always pass.
Children grow up, but the words they heard and the way they were treated stay with them. And siblings who once shared the same room can grow into adults who can barely stay in the same room.
The painful part?
Many parents never realize they were the beginning of the problem.
Dear parents, raising children is more than food, school fees, and shelter.
Teach them to love one another.
Celebrate their differences.
Avoid unnecessary comparisons.
Correct them fairly.
Listen to both sides.
Let every child know they are equally valuable.
Because one day, when you’re no longer here to settle their disagreements…
they will only have each other.
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STELLA DIMOKO KORKUS PROFILE PLACED NEXT TO CHAT GPT ON INSTAGRAM
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WEIRD FACTS
---Protect the part of you that still believes effort can change the outcome.
---Not every day will move you forward, but every day can teach you how to move better.
---A study conducted by Harvard Researchers found women are happier when their male partners open up about being upset.
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PARENTS, PLEASE READ THIS BEFORE YOU SAY “THEY ARE JUST CHILDREN”
Sometimes, the biggest en€mi€s our children will ever face are not strangers — we unknowingly create them under the same roof.
The constant comparisons…
“Why can’t you be like your brother?”
“Your sister is more responsible than you.”
“Your younger sibling is doing better than you.”
The preferential treatment.
The quick judgments.
Always taking one child’s side without hearing the other.
Making one child feel loved while another feels like a burden.
Parents often think these moments will pass.
But they don’t always pass.
Children grow up, but the words they heard and the way they were treated stay with them. And siblings who once shared the same room can grow into adults who can barely stay in the same room.
The painful part?
Many parents never realize they were the beginning of the problem.
Dear parents, raising children is more than food, school fees, and shelter.
Teach them to love one another.
Celebrate their differences.
Avoid unnecessary comparisons.
Correct them fairly.
Listen to both sides.
Let every child know they are equally valuable.
Because one day, when you’re no longer here to settle their disagreements…
they will only have each other.
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STELLA DIMOKO KORKUS PROFILE PLACED NEXT TO CHAT GPT ON INSTAGRAM
Someone big sent me this and says for my profile to be put next to ChatGPT is big deal and that i should celebrate.......I dont even have up to a million followers but my handle has over 30 million views every month and now this....Chai!!!..I feel so good to know that a lot of people view my page and that i dont have paid abi bought followers......
So, i said i should show you guys so that we can CLICK glasses of champagne....
In my world, when one person wins, everyone is a winner!
So, i said i should show you guys so that we can CLICK glasses of champagne....
In my world, when one person wins, everyone is a winner!
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Good hot afternoon Ndioma
ReplyDeleteFirst IHN of the week has landed
Lord from my Heart I want to say a very big thanks, for all you have done for my family.
ReplyDeleteMy 2 Younger Siblings will be going for NYSC Camping, Lord I commit them into your hands and everyone going for NYSC, they will go and serve their father's land in Peace and come back in Peace. Amen.
Congratulations to You Dr Chilaka Agnes.
Congratulations to you Scientists Chilaka Lucy.
Congratulations to D Chilaka's.
And Congratulations to everyone going for NYSC.
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CONGRATS TO THEM FROM THEIR BROTHERS BOO...INFACT CONGRATS TO THEM FROM CO SHARER AND I..................where is France????
DeleteCongratulations to you and yours ππ
DeleteGod's guidance and protection upon them all π
Awww πππ big congratulations to your family & sister’s π₯³π may God safeguard and protect them π
DeleteI’m here & ACTIVE Stella ❣️
Amen!
DeleteA huge congratulations to the Chilaka family and your siblings. Wishing them all the best at the NYSC camp and a very safe journey there and back.
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Congratulations to your family.
DeleteCongratulations to your family π
DeleteCongratulations to them :)
DeleteCongratulations π to your family
DeleteCongratulations to you and yours. May God continue to bless your family.
DeleteCongratulations to your household.
DeleteCongratulations to the family. May the Lord be with them.
DeleteCongratulations to them.
DeleteCongratulations to them!
DeleteThe heat is too much. The person wey dey in charge this time around wicked baaje.
ReplyDeleteI dey come fess
Lol π
DeleteOga Pinky, didn’t you read about the El Nino heatwave? Rain still drizzle in my area this morning though
LoL. The heat dey true true.
DeleteVery π₯ π₯ weather
DeleteKiller heat oo..
DeleteNo be small thing. My hand fan always to the rescue when the power is out.
DeleteIt's the beginning of a fresh work week and hey, go get them! It's November already and y'all have gotta be careful with your transactions as thieves or scammers are unrelenting at this point.
ReplyDeleteDo have a smooth one!
Quick One
Are you going to use a spoon or fork or your hand to devour a meal of boiled yam and well fried eggs?
#MotivationalMonday
#ManCrushMonday
#MagicMonday
#MagnificentMonday
#MoneyMakingMonday
#MarvellousMonday
I DONT EVEN USE MY HANDS TO EAT ANYTHING EXCEPT I AM HOLDING BREAD TO CHEW...........food on my hand is the biggest irritation ever
DeleteHappy new week, Vincent! Thanks for the reminder to stay safe from scammers this November. Wishing you a great week too!
DeleteI'm using a spoon for that yam and egg abeg!
Solid food,hand yeah,
Deletefriend plantain and Irish potato,hand yeah.
Suya,shawarma,pizza and co,hand yeah.
Every other spoon or ferk(writing as it's pronounced).
Hand
DeleteCorrect yeah..lol
DeleteI use fork anytime.@Disco , its actually pronounced fawrk.
DeleteHuh @SDK. I use my hand that eat most times sha.
DeleteSpoon it is then and it works @GBaci.
Interesting much @DD.
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. Congratulations SDK. World best blogger. ❤️π―ππ
ReplyDeleteSDK TO THE WORLD π
DeleteGreetings beautiful babe π how’s your day going?
DeleteCongratulations Stella ππ₯³ you have come a long way
So all my life ,I never knew this song was sang like this
The Most Excellent King is Jesus, until last Friday during the grand finale of Hallelujah challenge
I used to sing my own like this
The Most Excellency is Jesus
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Lol you're not alone Paris dear, that's how I sing my own too π
Delete@Paris. You are not alone in this o. Na so me sef dey sing am. π
DeleteChai..same Whatsapp group lol..na now I know..π
DeleteSomething happened to me this morning I thought of something and it happened instantly, it made me feel very good and optimistic ☺️ that dreams come alive .
ReplyDelete@Stella have you tried pistacchio latte?
LOL
DeleteYOU ARE LOOKING FRAU EVERY TPYE OF LATTE AND CAPPUCCINO OH.....
Yes dear, Dreams still come through and true π
Delete@Stella way to go big sis you're doing a good job ππΌ ππΌ
DeleteHahaha @ looking for every type of latte π€£ π
I know that type of feeling, savor every moment Choc π« π©·
DeleteEl nino is really el nino-ing guys!!!
ReplyDeleteIF YOU CARRY BELLE THIS TIME JUST NAME EL NINO OR EL NINA
DeleteThis El nino is somthing else
DeleteCouldn't sleep last night
Today's footnote is the koko π―
ReplyDeleteA very good weather today π
Good afternoon lovelies π
Oh wow. Congratultions Stella, that is definitely a big deal o πππ
ReplyDeleteI celebrate you our mega Star Sdk πΎπ₯
Beautiful people, it's a sunny afternoon here π
Its cloudy here but still hot π₯΅
DeleteAuthentic always wins! I go lie for you? This is what we call quality over quantity.
ReplyDeleteBeing recognized alongside ChatGPT proves that real engagement and quality content always win over bought numbers. You don't need a million followers when your actual reach and engagement are hitting 30 million views organically. You’ve built something truly impactful here.
Keep shining, we are definitely celebrating this with you! ππΎ
Congratulations, Stella! π₯
Cheers to your well deserved success! π₯
Sign out post π―
Congratulations Stella. Every win leads to more bigger win. The blog is highly read across Nigeria and beyond.
ReplyDelete©️ TEEJAY
Congratulations Stella
ReplyDeleteThe sign out message is so true.
I love the cool weather.
What baffles me most is this now trendy selfish notion that everyone must live by our personal standards. We have normalized shaming people for their beliefs and values, and seriously, it’s appalling. Especially this recent trend of labelling women "pick me" or accusing them of seeking male validation simply because they choose not to be hostile towards men is exhausting. Yes, some views may seem dense, but that never justifies insulting or demeaning others for thinking differently. Feminism was never meant to be a tool to bully women into conformity. You don't like men, fine. But shaming other women because they don't side with women in situations or they are not nasty to men like you do? That's not feminism. That's bullying. You can not preach freedom while policing how other women choose to exercise theirs. We can disagree, we can debate, we can even educate, but the moment we resort to name-calling and public shaming, we lose the plot. Sisterhood should feel safe, not like a battlefield where you must agree to belong, seriously.
ReplyDeleteAnd to you, this NFJ poster, you come across as really hostile, and I have to wonder why. You are so focused on judging your friend that you never stop to consider how your own content makes other people feel, and yet they still leave you to it. Honestly, you are the one competing with your friend. She is not competing with you. Leave her alone! Live and let's live!!
Reading through that piece irritates me so much π. Mtsheeeew!!!
What do you expect from her, she is a very judgemental person. That's why I don't bother reading her post, acting as if she is better than other people.
DeleteWho is NFJ poster?
DeleteThat one fit hear word?
DeleteStella, blow your trumpet πΊ. When you are big, you're big. Keep soaring, Ogbonge Blogger. God is just starting with you.
ReplyDeleteThere is this pain that am having in my mouth, I can hardly open my mouth wide. I have taken drugs still no relief .
ReplyDeleteGo to the hospital na, shuo
DeleteThe sun is sunning guys, avoid it if you can.
ReplyDeleteThe sun this days can melt someone .
DeleteGood Afternoon
ReplyDeleteRemember tp drink plenty water
Good afternoon family.
ReplyDeleteFor social media now, na perfume sellers full everywhere. Both fake and original fake. that is the very real fake. And they will be advertising it with big money as if the are selling the original or something close. Yeye dey smell.
ReplyDeleteWelcome IHNs.
Lolsπ but ABIO that's nice beacause it now help us to mk more sells oo, that's why everytime they will be sending me pictures of perfumes anyone dey hype there and I will be selling them sharperly π
DeleteOn and off cloudy weather but still very hot π₯΅ God have mercy
ReplyDeleteHello everyone π
Good afternoon my people,how are y'all doing?
ReplyDeleteHappy new week guys and happy new month, I pray for God's, grace and favor in all that we do this week and month.
Remain positive guys!!
God is working.
WE KEEP MOVING!!
Good afternoon everyone. Sign out meme is food for thought.
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ReplyDeleteEveryone
Wellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
Will Be Back
Hello Iya Boys
If you don't have sunscreen before, the best time is now o. Don't go anywhere under this hot sun without applying one on your face and Neck.
ReplyDeleteWishing you all a wonderful new week!
NFJ, you say you are into feminism when you have no idea what that means. You come off as one that acts like she minds her business, but you don't. Imagine you saying she is into pick me and male validation content, even if nko, how is it your business? You are noy a good person, kai.
ReplyDeleteVery very funny. Una just start to dey hear the word "pick me"
ReplyDeletePeople cannot drop their opinions without labeling them desperate or pick me. Y'all want everything done and expressed your way.
Truth is most of you chanting "pick me" are just miserable. Y'all will heal at the end of the day.
Congratulations Stella.
Have a blessed week everyone.
Wow. Congratulations, SDK. This is the true definition of 'Ariwo ko ni music'. You've come a long way and you deserve whatever accolades and recognition you're getting. Keep winning.
ReplyDeleteI just want to rant about my personal problem majorly marriage issue. Have been married for almost a decade now but have never enjoyed or feel happy in it aside the first 3 months after the marriage,it has been regrets all through for 9 years plus now. Every day I see this man I just feel disappointed in myself for the kind of decision I made that made me end up in a situationship like this. Aside getting married to a man that has all the characteristics I don't want in a man on top of that he disgust me. I keep asking myself why I would settle with someone I dislike,seeing him every day infuriates me.am much happier when his not around but the moment he comes home I feel sick,my mood changes like his a sadist that makes me miserable whenever his around. How do I spend the rest of my life with this kind of person that I can't even stand. I feel miserable and trapped in this marriage because I can't move forward neither can I go backwards. Because we already have kids I would have left a long time ago, unfortunately am handicapped financially,if I leave I can't take care of my children alone because if I leave with the children he won't take care of them and I don't have money to be fighting court case that is why am still miserable here. I don't even have strength to type all the things this man has done to me and yet he still carries himself as the victim. I see him every day and wish I don't have to see him because I will feel much happier without him,I don't even want to talk to him because I feel much better if we don't communicate because communicating with him only aggrevates issues and makes me more angry with him because nothing good ever comes out of his mouth so I prefer we don't ever talk unfortunately we're in the same house so I have no other choice than to relate with him just majorly on house and children expenses nothing more.he doesn't talk to me about any matter whether related to him or anyone and I decided to do same too,we don't gist or laugh with each other,we just like strangers living together. He relates more with outsiders and more friendly to others than me his wife,he can keep malice for eternity and also weaponizes money because he knows I don't earn much so most times he chooses to be wicked and reduces the feeding expenses in the home. A very immature man that cannot make decisions alone,his family especially his mother controls him. I am just miserable in this marriage that I so much want out not just for anything but so I can have my peace of mind because I feel much at peace whenever his not around,his presence makes me miserable,how long will I continue to be in a marriage with a man that don't value me or makes me feel invisible, doesn't care about my feelings that feels everything should revolve around him alone. Someone who keeps hurting me all the time and playing the victim making family to force me to beg him always for peace to reign without anyone thinking about my feelings,or am I not a human too. How long will I keep begging a man I didn't offend or hasn't told me my offence, will I keep doing this all my life. His not even meeting up to expection because I feel am the one been used,am not benefiting anything in the marriage and my mind have long gone out of the marriage,we are just cohabitating but I want to live,I don't want to be seeing him again,I want my peace of mind. His just making me bring out the worst in me,I don't see myself as a good mother or feel worthy to raise kids because I can't control my emotions whenever his around me so it brings out the worst in me. I have prayed and begged God for years for a change but seems things are even getting worst so am tired. How do I get out of this mense, how do I get back my life again. 9 years plus wasted years no achievement, nothing to fall back to.no family support because they re only telling me to endure and keep praying for the man. I just want my peace of mind,is that too much to ask? I rather be single than be in this type of marriage
ReplyDeleteBig congrats to you Stella.
ReplyDeleteGood day everyone,hope your day is going on well...
ReplyDelete"when one person wins,everyone is a winner!"sure,congratulations to you dear SDK wishing you more win always π