SOMEONE READ ABOUT TITLAYOS STORY AND POSTED THIS.
'I'm married, but left home abt 2 months ago due to issues similar to this lady's. I refused to go back and my family supports me. His family wants me back and my church (Pastors) are preaching against divorce and advocating forgiveness. But they cannot guarantee my safety, from someone who was verbally threatening to kill me, he said it several times, each time he got angry abtsomething. they say he was just joking, he didnt mean it, i shldnt take him seriously, etc. but who knows. i wld blame myself if something actually happened to me, and the world wld blame me for not taking the threats seriously. seeing this news this morning has convinced me NOT to go back there, because my life is still precious to me and my family. so i'm sorry pastors, maybe its a sin against the bible or against the church to leave one's husband, but no one can protect me if i dont at least try to protect myself''....SHOULD THIS LADY GO BACK?watch the movie trailer.read about the man who killed titlayo his wife and let her know what you think.. |
nice concept stella.tell this lady to keep running and not go back otherwise na die!!.
ReplyDeletestella,linda has stolen your style of writing name on pics.lol
I can't wait to watch this movie.when is it out?
ReplyDeletei was in a similar situation,i wanted to leave but i was ask not to by my mother(her reason was that.... it is not good to just leave after 1 child..so i stayed big mistake...he nearly choked me to death in front of our child..if i haven't fought back then and there. what would have been my story?
ReplyDeleteThank God for this person oh. At the end of the day it is your life and no one else can live it for you. May God give you the strength to do what is best for you. God bless you!
ReplyDeleteI grew up in an environment were domestic violence was tolerated cos Mum believes she is married and has nowhere else to go, thankfully she aint dead now cos when i grew older i stood up to my Dad and gave him a stern warning not to ever for the rest of his life physically abuse my mother or my siblings. But we still live with the psychological trauma of physical abuse.
ReplyDeleteIn a nutshell " the man wey go beat me for marriage dem neva born am"..... no woman should stay in a life threatening relationship at least if not for her live but for those of the children :-(
I grew up in an environment were domestic violence was tolerated cos Mum believes she is married and has nowhere else to go, thankfully she aint dead now cos when i grew older i stood up to my Dad and gave him a stern warning not to ever for the rest of his life physically abuse my mother or my siblings. But we still live with the psychological trauma of physical abuse.
ReplyDeleteIn a nutshell " the man wey go beat me for marriage dem neva born am"..... no woman should stay in a life threatening relationship at least if not for her live but for those of the children :-(
7Gbosa! for the chick wey no gree stay so dem go wack Suya for her burial. Who want Suya, Pammie and all the Wackies wey dem dey see for Burial must find money go buy his or her own. I apluad the lady in concern. Tell Pastor to concentrate on tithe and the rest thing wey dey make dia belle big.
ReplyDeleteTruth be told this jombo get sense, damage is coming to cinema at right time with what is going on. Nollywood is taking their place, love the trailer and the site is what a theatre movie should have. Emem must be proud.
ReplyDeletePls dont go back!!!!!!!!!!!!! Because you have stayed away from him for sometime now and also that the church and family are heavily involved, he will only have more reasons to make you 'pay' for 'humiliating' him. I have been there, I left with my 2 children under 10 years about 16 years ago, I went through all the pressures to return but didnot. It was harrrrrrd financially and otherwise but I persevered, mainly because I didnt want my 2 children thinking that this type of behaviour was normal. I am now remarried to a wonderul man who was a widower, he is gentle, kind and loving to us all ( including his wonderful children by his late first wife) and looks after us all very well indeed. God is merciful, compassionate and understanding.....stay away from him, it will help your violent husband too as the trauma of your leaving could make him go and seek professional help and assist him in turning over a new leaf, hopefully...if you die under his violence, he will probably get off with a prison sentence and when he comes out he will remarry and get on with his life...all that people will say is 'oma see oooo!'
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