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She sent in this blog visitor SOS a while back titled STELLA I AM PREGNANT FOR A PASTOR AND HE HAS DENIED IT
When she sent in the second mail below,i remembered her and asked her what happened to the pregnancy she had for the pastor and she sent in another response thanking all blog visitors for helping her end the relationship with the Pastor who is now begging her for a come back.
Read both mails.
I will make my story short, i have had a lot of disappointments in relationships with single guys, i met a single guy a week ago, he works with an oil company, we see each other everyday after work cos i work too, we talk and behave like we have known each other for years, he has never asked me for sex unlike most young guys that will meet a woman today and they want to take her to bed if possible that same day.
He respects me, although a week may not be enough to judge him but from the time i have known him he doesn't sound like a player, he's gentle by nature, he doesn't drink or smoke, he said he wants to settle down with me, that sex is not he's problem for now, he's planning to for us to go to the UK this Christmas, we are going for Visa application next month, he introduced me to he's friends as his wife to be, everything is like a dream to me, he's taking me to meet he's mum and cousins tomorrow, Please Stella do u think this is for real, could this be the man i have been praying for?
I ASKED HER ABOUT THE PREGNANCY AND THIS IS HER RESPONSE
''Good day,
The advice i got from your blog visitors helped me end the relationship i had with the pastor, that is why i met a more responsible man, just wanted to know if this love he's professing is for real cos i have had i can't remember when last i met a responsible single guy that treats me the way this guy does, that is why am finding it so difficult to believe and open my heart to this new guy.
Do u know that up till now he has never mentioned sex, all he talks about is how to raise a family with me, how many kids i want and how much he loves and respects me, he shows me to everybody as he's wife to be, he was suppose to take me to his mum last weekend but he didn't mention about it again and i did not ask cos i don't want him to think am desperate, he comes to my house every evening at the close of work, maybe he wants to know me well before introducing me to the mum, Stella, there's serious confusion in my head right now, please if u don't want to publish my story just give me your personal advice, just wanted it published so that i can read negative and positive reactions from people cos that will go a long way to help.
For the records am done with the pastors after i read comments from your blog, the pregnancy is gone and am happier with my life right now, although he's still begging but he obviously knows that it's over.
Thanks so very much for your response.
*all is well that ends well.God bless you sweety,hope he turns out your dream man.
Too bad. FTC thinz,ok make I read d tory.
ReplyDeleteHe could be for real....my dear sister pls after he has passed all the necessary tests that's if u subject him to any. Abeg sample the goods before u marry him to avoid stories that touch. E.g my wedding was wonderful but my husband hasn't "made sweet love" to me, Ayam confused am I not beautiful enough?....His bulala can't stand, I don die......my hubby iss impotent Stella help!!.....My hubby can't last for 5mins, am beginning to like my driver, deliver me stella!.....sex with my hubby is hell advice me....my hubby can't kiss he always fills my mouth with saliva, I need your prayers stella..... my hubby doesn't like foreplay, save my life!!......my hubby makes love to me once in 2yrs, I want to kill myself!.....my hubby's bulala cannot rise until he beats me, help!!!!!.....stella dey worse don hapun o, my hubby is gay, am going to drown myself now!......my hubby can't have sex with me until his boyfriend or girlfriend is with us, helep me!!! sample the guy o.
DeleteYou're desperate for marriage and that's why what you want to see is all you're seeing. God why don't people learn? One week and you don love up like this. Mschewwwww. Someone who wants sex from you can wait for 5 yrs honey. open your eyes and your mind......use your brain.
DeleteLmao you are crazy I swear down. I can't stop laughing.
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DeleteNne u dey make me laff
DeleteNa me talk am lmao u dey crase well well. See madness lwkmd!
Deleteit may be for real....I just got married and it was the same way with us...Some men are really different from the flock...However,you know him more than anyone else,and am sure you are a smart girl that can discern when a man is playing and when he isnt.Use your number 6...Goodluck to you.
ReplyDeleteQueen C dear ure newly wedded so its too early 4 u to give advise. Men r 2 snakeish so if u like smart pass solomon as long as a woman is in luv she will be a fool.
DeleteYou sound like a child.....he says he will take you to his mum and he didn't and you don't want to mention it, my dear that's your first mistake........mention it, after all you were not the one that asked him to do it in the first place.........my dear life is too short for games, if marriage is what you want then tell him, if he's not ready let him go, stop acting like a child and be a woman........he's obviously just taking his time and playing you gradually so when you fall you won't know how to get out........have you gone to his own house or even know where he works......you better wise up.
ReplyDeleteMate, she said she only met the guy last week! Now who's being childish ?! I'm all for taking the bull by the horns but this is ludicrous! This "advice" reeks of desperation.
DeleteBabes , abeg slow down n study the guy jor . You only met him last week ; there's no need to meet his mother yet. Remember the mistake you made with the so called Pastor. Now is the time to fast n pray . Study him like you are going for an exam. Wedding is for a day ; marriage is for a lifetime. Take it from someone with 8 years of marital experience. Good luck
why didn't he take you to his mother like he said? don't allow him play you. he may be responsible and he may be forming responsible. there are lots of introduction that lead to nothing sef so shine your eyes. go with the flow but don't have sex with him until it's very concrete, that is if you must.
DeleteShut up! The advice doesn't reek of anything! He said he will take her to meet his mother, why didn't he? Abeg keep your damn legs closed. Met you one week ago already bringing up his mother.
DeleteAnon 4:39 the lady is talking visa Her problem is obvious. Na awoof go kill am. 1 week and he's promised her a trip abroad? She's an idiot.
DeleteSo happy for u but I ll rather implore u to be very observant and prayerful.that was my kind of relatnsp wen I met my man,everytn was so fast and Glory be to God,we are one,wt 1 issue.One other thing is this,at dis point in time,u must be very sincere,dis is wen u ll be seeing series of men that ll be very serious buh my sister,they ve come to destroy u.
ReplyDeleteAlso,on the issue of the pregnancy u got rid of,I guess,hope the pastor is not aware?and don't mention it to ur man that u ve aborted for sm1,don't also mention to him about series of diappointments u bve had.don't tel him more,don't tel him things dat ll make him have pity for u,just be urslf.All the best.
I met my guy and he proposed in two weeks! Did our traditional marriage a yr later. It's been 5 yrs and still going strong! So sometimes it's not how long but how well!!!
DeleteDont rush, study him.
ReplyDeleteHey young lady, ask every lady who's married or in a relationship right now, and even ask those who've had relationships.
Delete**The common answer you'll get from everyone is that it is common with men, when they signify interests on first contact, they will ALWAYS make promises.
**While some will endure the relationship to fulfill their promises, some others do not have d intention to make happen those promises.
And majority of these men have even forgotten what they told/promised their girlfriends when they were still pursuing her.
What am saying is that this young lad may tell u he wants to marry u, and that he'll do this and that...etc. My dear, a week in NOT enough time to validate any human being by his character, not even a co female.
**Your accolades of this boy is not yet founded my dear, so relax. All in one week he's called u his wife, promised u a trip to the UK, promised to take u to mama, comes to ur house every evening after work...? Pls correct me if am wrong, aren't there just 7 days in a week???
What he's told u is no different from what my maiguard will promise my house girl this evening,when he wants her to serve him a big piece of meat. **Until ur new bf brings his words to pass pls do not celebrate him just yet.
Yes he may have good intentions. But a guy who is very serious minded and profound will NOT say this much to u in ONE WEEK!
Believe me, guys are more scared of females when it is time to pursue marriage. It is easier for a female to wait and hope that he proposes, but the man is the one who has to select whom to propose to, makes it harder on them cos they don't wanna screw up. A guy who'll take a lady home to mama would have done his homework to the letter, he'll scrutinize u like crazy.
This reminds me of SDK's post a few days ago. The lady who complained that her bf only proposes marriage when they are having sex. After sex no more serious talks.
So dear, While I won't ask u to pretend like u don't want marriage or whatever, I suggest that u spend more time investigating the dude without his knowledge. Ask where he schooled, where he worked, where he lived..etc. These are the infos u'll need to ascertain whether u should date him or not. Corroborate his stories bcos it is necessary.
**Lastly, that he hasn't asked for sex yet doesn't mean he's diff from others o, he may be playing the time game too. So don't flatter yourself just yet. Above all, ask the all knowing GOD...He's the only One who will NEVER lie to you. Godspeed!
U r so rite! Patience is all u nid @ dis tym! And also dnt tink of marriage all d time it jst makes it worst...occupy ur mind wif oda tins Dan marriage n u Wld c all Wld work well n b4 u knw it,he has proposed or som1 beta Wld come arund! b very prayful! Nd neva tell him u aborted 4 any1 Cus really it in d past but he might not c it dat way.
DeleteMrs Zulu, my husband knew he wanted to marry me in a week. I was d one who was scared by d quick proposal & told him I wasn't ready for dat. A week later, I felt I really liked him & gave him a tentative yes. A week (exactly 3 weeks from wen we spoke on d phone), I told my mom I was going to marry him. Everyone freaked out! It was like, u haven't even met this man face to face (I was in Abuja, him in Lagos). It was very surprising for me cos I had been quite selective with proposal. My family were d one pressuring me, saying I shldn't get used to being young bla bla bla. So really, there is no formula. Some take ages to decide, some do it quickly. We ddnt get married till d 10 months after tho, giving us both time to decide weda to continue or back out. Thankfully, despite all d issues we had, we stayed in there & now married for 5 years
DeleteTime spent married dnt mean squat. Wots the quality of the marriage? U forgot to add that part.
DeleteLucky u Ugo. Congratulations. But ur case is prolly 2/100, if u would agree. See, most of us know what we want on first contact, no doubt. But many of us, eventho we were certain we wanted a certain person, we couldn't endure the little clauses that came with them. Which rarely is the reason we date for a bit b4 marriage. The poster's scenario may be like urs, who knows..but the question is this, can the guy or even her (d poster), endure d clauses like u or ur now hubby endured it? That's the diff here. Each to his own. But I think proposing marriage in just a week of meeting urselvs is just to give hope that it will be worthwhile. A lot more comes with the package. And patience is of d essence
Deletethat he is taking you to meet his mum does not guarantee your marriage, i have taken so many girls home that my mum must have lost count... i even have a friend that buys cheap engagement rings and propose to girls anyhow.... babe enjoy ur new guy while it last. *wnik
ReplyDeleteU & ur friend are losers! FOH!! Disgusting fellow
DeleteAnon 6:50 u don fall victim for dat kain tin b4?
DeleteThis is all kinds of wrong. Haba! Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you. Don't you have sisters? Won't you have daughters? This kind of deceit is too bad. Fear God oh
Delete"The pregnancy is gone". Really? No judgement but you freaking aborted a child, show some remorse.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, don't you have a mind of your own, can't you think and decide for yourself? Do you really need a bunch of strangers to decide/decode/decipher everything for you?
Thirdly, take a deep breathe madam. You come across as DESPERATE. Come on, you met this guy just last week and already you're in jitters like this? Calm the fuck down.
Stella maybe I'll mail you to help me ask fellow blog visitors what I should have for dinner. Smh.
VALERIE.
Ur reply is on point
DeleteWow! Best reply I've ever seen on ds blog! Val,u rock!
DeleteValarie,yes indeed to all counts!
DeleteValerie (which is obviously not ur name!) Chop knuckle!!! Ur response makes absolute sense..1week and all this drama is going on in her mind.. Wohooo....calm down luv!! Let's see what the story is after 3mths.
DeleteValerie (which is obviously not ur name!) Chop knuckle!!! Ur response makes absolute sense..1week and all this drama is going on in her mind.. Wohooo....calm down luv!! Let's see what the story is after 3mths.
DeleteVal,u have said it ALL!
Delete@ anon 3:46 u just echoed my thoughts. Dear girl, please ask him abt the visit to his mum. Be clever to decipher if ur going to be a bed warmer or his wife. Ask questions and stop being naïve.
ReplyDeleteYou are obviously desperate. Just one week and you want heaven and earth to come down. Just take you time and live your life to the fullness
ReplyDeleteO geh, shine ur eyes o.... You've known him for just a week, study him patiently don't be too desperate
ReplyDeleteGone???? to where? was it like a disease or cold that just goes? You are heartless and without remorse.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, as a player, let me tell you that this your new guy is a pro. Thats the game. You are used to hunters but now you meet a fisherman and you think he is real? What a joke. You are being played and well.
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DeleteReally I remember you very well for I did contribute to your discourse. Why am I afraid for you? "The pregnancy is gone". Why not put it this way; "I killed the child; in spite of all the warnings I received, including scriptures". Do you remember this scripture;
ReplyDeleteGenesis 9:6 Whoever sheds human blood, by humans shall their blood be shed; for in the image of God has God made mankind.
Exodus 1:18Then the king of Egypt summoned the midwives and asked them, “Why have you done this? Why have you let the boys live?”
19The midwives answered Pharaoh, “Hebrew women are not like Egyptian women; they are vigorous and give birth before the midwives arrive.”
20So God was kind to the midwives and the people increased and became even more numerous. 21And because the midwives feared God, he gave them families of their own.
And of course Proverbs 6:16-17 which talks about the Lord "hating hands that shed innocent blood". You did it? I am indeed afraid for you; that you will marry but not have a home (no child, no husband, no happiness -the very things that make a home). Girl, you blew it. When troubles come, remember the things you did. The solution is simple; repent and the Lord will forgive you for he said in John 6 that he will never drive away anyone that comes to him. The thief on the cross did come to him in repentance and he forgave him. Have you mourned for the "kids" you killed? I do not wish to read in this blog that you are running from "pillar to post" looking for kids or that your kids died "mysteriously" or that you "quarreled with your gentle husband and he murdered you" or that you become another "domestic violence case". Beloved, repent!
Righteous prick!!!! Hv u heard of d path of d bible" judge nt....".
DeleteDear preacher,God is not a man and can never think like men.
DeleteEjor taleleyi?? All the plenty plenty Herod and Moses gist on top wetin?? Pls park well
DeleteShut up very fast over righteous character. Who are u to speak such annoying words into someone's life? Hahaha I laugh @ you in Spanish! Do u seriously think God is like u or you think judging someone is not sin...smh...EEE!!!
DeleteAnon 4:30,u ve said too much,the good lord ll forgive her,dis God is merciful and it won't repeat itself.are u trying to place a curse on her.God doesn't think d way we think and also d fact dat u ve aborted doesn't make u a saint.it doesn't mean God appreciate u dan her.don't rebuke her,u ve urs u re doing too.how are we sure u re not 1 of d choristers that habour keyboardists in ur room,claiming u are casting evil out.we are all sinners,u having sex b4 marriage,u ve committed a big sin.abeggggg.nobody is a saint.
ReplyDeleteAnon 4.30pm. You have no right to say/write those resentful words because you are not GOD. Leave judging to God. Only God knows who a true Christian is. For all we know you might just not be one. No one even you knows the mind of God. Holier than thou attitude oshi!
ReplyDelete''The pregnancy is gone''
ReplyDeleteWaoh.... na wa oooo, you just use belle do catapault abi?
Na so belle dey take waka abi???
Sweetheart, show some remorse at least but then who am I to judge you! I wish you goodluck but not Jonathan. Enjoy!
@ anon 4.30pm re u God?? wat do u mean by she ll get married nd nt ve a chiid?? wat abt d bible verse dat says do nt judge
ReplyDeleteSTELLA THANK YOU for recognizing her! But wishing her "happiness", that's the problem (wahala if you like). How can she be happy? She is rather afraid; yes for killing an innocent baby. It is baby that she will seek for tire; if she does not repent in fasting and weeping. Omo see o na real lesson for those "who kill and cover with sand (of time if you like)". She had forgotten the preggy, so she thought but Stella (being a mother she is has not; yes). Na so igo be when you ladies (and the men who persuade them to "kill and burry in their wombs"), when you close your eyes in death and appear before God (without repenting from your murders), you would have forgotten it but GOD WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER!
ReplyDelete@valerie nice comment!
ReplyDeleteAnon 4:24,who made u a judge over her life and deeds?
ReplyDeleteThat means u too do not deserve forgiveness in all the ways u offend God(abi u think abortion is a more grievous sin?sin is sin!
am sorry to disappoint u btw,our God does not judge like that cos he's full of mercies and love unlike u!i have seen where someone dat did 7 abortions,still married the sweetest husband and now has 4beautiful healthy kids for him while another friend dat married a virgin 6yrs ago is still going from pillar to post looking for a child,her randy wife battering husband makes things worst for her always,what do u have to say about dat?
We all have seen in the holy book who God's best friend is David!;the murderer,adulterer,wife snatcher and all,but God still chose him,?it shows u God's mercies and kindness is not by our righteous acts(btw d bible says our whole righteousness are but filty rags before him)but he blesses whom he chooses!
I do not stand to say abortion or sin is a good thing,but our God is a merciful God and will forgive her if she asks him and never count it against her,and she will go ahead and have a beautiful life (contrary to ur opinion)bcos of the blood of Jesus!
So chill!
The way u said the pregnancy is gone like u are not remorseful. Pls no one she come and say 98% of girls have aborted. U killed a child. And for those not u who think its just blood,no its not,at 6weeks there is a hrt beat. If u miss or period for 2weeks,then by pregnancy calculations u are already 4weeks,so when u are 4weeks,u are already 6weeks pregnant. So at 6weeks(4weeks)there is a hrt beat... People shud fear God abeg.
ReplyDeleteAnd pls stop shaking,its just a week.......
babe ure desperate and he can tell. my wife? after one week? hes playing u! everyone is perfect during the first week. be careful
ReplyDeleteThis is interesting. All these folks who are cursing "anonymous 4:30" @ no 12 simply for quoting the word of God. I tire o! Even when he wrote that God does not cast away anybody that comes to him; even the thief on the cross was forgiven. Abegi free the man/babe shaa. If you like carry water pour for your petrol tank begin drive. The Bible is the manual of this life and nobody can justify abortion. The word to you girl (poster) is same here; REPENT! Jesus will not cast you away if you go to him okay! Even in your conscience, do not tell us that you're "happy", na lie. You know deep down within you that you did the wrong thing by killing that innocent child who never asked you to bring him (or they; yes, it could have been 2 or more) into the world. Abegi . . . Truth remains truth no matter how it is spoken. You can't clean the word of God!
ReplyDeleteThank you @ anonymous 4:30 for speaking the truth. Even Jesus was killed for speaking the truth. John the Baptist was beheaded for telling Herod that it was not right to snatch his brother's wife. The fact that he was killed did not make Herod's action right. Micah was imprisoned for speaking the truth . . . Paul suffered the same fate. Daniel was put in the Lion's den for standing for the truth. . . and his friends Shedrach and co were put in the burning furnace for telling the king the truth. See, even if Jesus should come back again, he will still preach that "killing babies in the womb is evil". These same folks that are stabbing this guy/babe here for quoting the word of God will still murder him (Jesus) if he comes back. Well, that is why "mega churches" are filled to the brim; they tell you everything without the word repent. That was the first word in Jesus' gospel. What happens to the "narrow and broad way". Waka for broad way if you like; it's easy but do not prevent anybody from expressing himself. Do not curse anyone who decides to speak the truth.
ReplyDeleteWell spoken; very well spoken!
DeleteNowadays, people don't want to hear the truth.
They only want to hear what will favour them.
#to each his own#
Omo why everybody come chill for this babe wey murder an innocent baby. What happens to giving birth to the baby and handing him/her over to orphanages if you don't want it? Wahala dey o!
ReplyDeleteBabes sabi kill clean mouth o; choi! Tomorrow now dem go dey go from pastor to babalawo make im impregnate dem. Make una repent o o o!
ReplyDeleteOl boy, see gramma. "Gone" just like that? Fear catch me #Ideytremble. Human life to worth shishi to these babes. Na make up them go use cover everything sha!
ReplyDeleteAll of us are sinners . . . but girl why now. Why you carry daga slaughter that pikin. O Lord have mercy for us. #weeping. You for born am dash me #weepingseriously. O Lord please bring across my way babes wey no wan dia babies but wey go gree born am give me, make me I raise a child; Thank you Lord IJN.
ReplyDeleteStella Dimokorkus abeg, use this your blog to save the lives of kids like this one. Like connect these chicks to couples who are looking for babies to adopt and let them be encouraged to give birth and give out instead of staining their conscience with blood. Thanks and God bless you
ReplyDeleteYou just met a player! Let me not even go to the issue of the foetus (na btw u n ur God). But trust me, that guy is with prolly cos you earn big too. That's guys for you! Please try and know where he stays, did I mention 'don't spend your dime on the guy'? Now you ve heard it. Please you too, follow the guy in a slower pace and watch him do the spending. I repeat, don't spend a dime on the guy just yet, pls don't!
ReplyDeletei met a stranger on ma way to an interview. in 1 week we were at Dubai, In 3 months we were married. 5 years now with 2 boys we laugh bout ow fast we rode. we are very open, always state ur want, no shakara and don't say no when u want yes. omo yoruba
ReplyDeleteWhen katakata burst na u go come meet SDK. Men r sneaky. zm says so
DeleteNaija babes n dia likely stories. Its always 5 yrs marriage n 2 boys. Shiooor.
DeleteY don't I believe your story anon 9:07pm?
DeleteThe pregnancy is gone. Just like that, like deleting a file from your system. May God forgive us.
ReplyDeleteOkay, about your new man. He seems real and serious from the little story you gave. He is still trying to study the real you and understand you. Just be real with him and discuss about each other lifestyle in marriage. It all take mutual understanding to reach agreement.
Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?
ReplyDeleteTherefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things. We know that the judgment of God rightly falls on those who practice such things. Do you suppose, you who judge those who practice such things and yet do them yourself that you will escape the judgment of God?
ReplyDeleteLet no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
ReplyDeleteAs for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions. One person believes he may eat anything, while the weak person eats only vegetables. Let not the one who eats despise the one who abstains, and let not the one who abstains pass judgment on the one who eats, for God has welcomed him. Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand. One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind
ReplyDeleteMy dear u no hear as d babe talk say her pikin don gone? Like missing air time.
DeleteNa wah o. "Gone"! God is merciful. Really merciful.
ReplyDeleteOh for fuck sake! It's 'his' and not 'he's' based on the context here. I just can't... You sure gave me a headache #rme
ReplyDeleteif anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.
ReplyDeletemy sister, you need to carry God along this time with submissive, and ask for his forgiveness of your wrong step so that the past will not stand against your future. he is a merciful God and your mistake is not an unforgivable sin so he promise to forgive and point you to your future success.
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:9)
besides, you never can tell the forces behind the challenges you’re facing and that is more reason you need God to decide for you.
even the so called pastor needs prayers more than you because he is not free from the sins he put you into as a result of his refutation, and everything happens to your soul both then and now the judgments await him before the presents of God in heaven.
prayer is the key. I love you
You dey craze, you big dummy, you just met him, and the same shits that happened when you first met the dumb ass pastor. Please go and get a life hoo
ReplyDeleteThis guy MAY just be the perfect one God made for you for weeping endureth for a night and joy cometh in the morning.
ReplyDeleteBut! Remember to Ask him for forgiveness , be remorse for your actions, be prayerful in ds relationship, be wise n let God take the wheel
All the best!
@Chibuzor Igwah. Thanks so much for quoting the word of God from Paul's writings. The folks you are referring to also quoted the word of God. When did it become wrong to quote the word of God to correct someone? How about this?
ReplyDelete2 Timothy 3:16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness,
Beloved, did you see "CORRECTING" (even "rebuking") THERE? Please if someone does what is wrong, correct him/her with the word and show her the way out (exactly what those guys did above); that does not mean judgment.
Thanks Chibuzor for your well thought advice at No 52. God bless you.
ReplyDelete@anonymous 1:10 PM # 65, I’m not supporting her misdemeanors, I mean, they shouldn’t be unsympathetic in their (Corrections). Secondly, repent therefore, and turn again, that her sins may be blotted out according to (Acts 3:19)
ReplyDeleteas it is written in Romans 3:10: there is no one righteous, not even you and I. so, instead the Scripture should be use to condemn a person, who has gone astray, it’s better to use it to help her faith. that is our duty as Christians to save souls and not revile.
I welcome your perspective as well. Thanks and remain bless.
I think this relationship is too young for u to conclude he wants to settle down with u.You barely know this guy.Take ur time my dear.U've known for just a week and he's already concluded he wants to marry u...be careful!!
ReplyDeleteA lot of guys are gentle when they are searching for somethg but once they get it,they change. All i'm saying is that u study him for at least a year.Find out about him from people that have known him for long,find out about him from church members,old school mates,coleagues,etc.I don't expect u to ask the friends he introduced to u cos i'm sure they'll say nice things about him.Open ur eyes wide please and don't try n sleep with him.I wish u all the best!