Hey Stella and blog visitors,
I love my boyfriend so much, we have been together for 2years now, in the past, few of his friends made advances towards me,but we didn't place so much importance on them.recently, his brother just got back from America, the day we met, he couldn't get his eyes off me, later he called me n told me he wanted to talk to me (he stole my number from my boyfriends phone) and he was almost weeping, he said he has never been that attracted to a woman, he said a lot of things against his brother, that he's so sure he dosent love me as much as he does.
I've been avoiding him, infact I've been very rude to him but he's ready to fight his brother because of me,there re somethings he says to me that I can't even tell my boyfriend...please I need advices I don't no what to do? I don't want to cause a family breakup and I love my boyfriend too...but the brother acts like a beast n he's too annoying.
What do i do?
*you havent told your boo that his brother is talking to you?
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Serious emere n seductive spirit na em dey worry u, u better go for deliverance in mfm.
ReplyDeleteSingle and bored
Delete@Joan Joseph...you must have an IQ of an aluminum spoon. I've never seen you make any sensible comment. Tufia. You need deliverance form stupidity
DeleteHow can your boyfriend's brother be harrassing you and you refuse to tell your boyfriend? That absord and totally unacceptable! My candid advise is get a smart phone and record your conversation with the fool. Summon courage and tell your boyfriend everything.if he thinks otherwise play the recorded conversation for him. Then he will know who his worst enemy is.
DeleteSee Gobe! I think u should tell ur boyfrd my dear. Dnt let him find out on his own. We men reason one sided in things like this. Plz find time ad expose this American brother of his. Best of luck.
DeleteEverybody be acting all holy and shii... Lady measure which is best between the men and stick with your choice! He is your boyfriend not husband....#Winchester
DeleteRotfl!!!! Anon 10:03 I dig ur comment oh jare. But ope it doesn't bk fire @ her tho.
DeleteHeheheheh....maybe the poster likes the attention.....mbok tell ur bf and show him evidence.
ReplyDeleteStop giving him any attention.......
Single and in dire need of a man
DeleteBabes,u gats tell ur guy o. My bf's closed one startd liking me too nd I told him with evidence.. It's nt to put d family apart,no,instead,it'l help dem both if ur bf is mature like mine. E just told me to do what's right that e trusts me. I'l neva trade dt trust for anything. So I suggest u do d same. Guudlock dear
DeleteMumu girl & u've been going behind ur bf to listen to his jargons cos na America returnee shey. You luve ur bf & yet u kept something like this away from him. Simply cos u think u can still play smart! Isnt it. I wonder what advice u want from us. Leave & start sucking his brother too..Fooooolllllll
ReplyDeleteASUU is your problem #Single
DeleteAnon 12:08, you are just a sadist....phsycopath..if u have no advice for d individual why not stay still nd nt comment rada dan rain insults...must u talk shit from dat toilet seat of urs u call a mouth...
Delete@Anon 12:08 Opinions are like assholes--everybody has one. Why don't you shut yours, troglodyte?
DeleteRemember you are anonymous, Anonymous!
Anya - oku!
ReplyDeleteWit d way u going, u wld endup losing ur BF!
Bored and jobless
DeleteRoaming, attention seeking and jobless.
DeleteIt seems to me you are trying not to be the cause of problems between two brothers...but if this American returnee brother had any regards/respect/love for his brother( your man), he will not open his mouth to profess love for you not to talk of painting your bf bad before you. So he is the good one yea? Right!
ReplyDeleteRecord his persistent conversation(s) with you telling him off. Evidence in hand, tell your bf!
Whether its a prank or he is serious or its a test, don't bother to reckon, tell your boyfriend!
* sips coffee. sweerie come drink with me*
Married and Frustrated
DeleteHelp. I'm very beautiful but no man comes to me. What can I do
DeleteIf you love your bf like u said then tell him, record some of your conversations for proof. If the table turns remember they are blood related u will loose out on both sides and I am sure that's the least u want to happen to you. My 1p advice to you!
ReplyDeleteY haven't U̶̲̥̅̊ told ur BF yet? U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt kip such 2 urslf, it cld mare u
ReplyDeleteis a superstory ,hmmm ,sometimes things happen,sometimes u imagine if dey do really happen ,but strange things truly happen ,and when u find yoursef in dat situation ,honestly i just want to sit back and read comments,all your boyfriends brother and his friends have for u is lust.check yourself i think u give room for dat.
ReplyDeleteRunz girl and soooo jobless
DeleteWot's really ur problem?? @Na me
DeleteBabe, tell your guy. Because if it was me nd i found out by myself, i wouldnt take it likely with you>>>
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Lmao...the word is LIGHTLY!
DeleteLikely or lightly?
DeleteLikely or lightly?
DeleteDo all this naija movies really happens in reality? Mydear discuss it with ur man or better still quit d relationship..
ReplyDeleteDrama no dey finish for naija , advice don dry for my mouth.
Happens or happen?
DeleteThis one pass me...Fost to comment
ReplyDeleteHousewife *11th to comment*. Tongue out
DeleteLMAO... Tell ur bf and tell him right now!
ReplyDeleteIt could even be a set up. Some men can be silly you know.. Tell your boo and watch his reaction. I tire for some men jare.
ReplyDeleteJobless frustrated housewife
DeleteNa Me is a gutless keyboard thug. Show ur real identity let me keep u in kirikiri for 3 years!!! Idiot!!!
DeleteNawa oo! Na me so this is hw ur own pattern of comment is yeah! And from all the names is na me u take? Looolz... Plz na me is not me ooo y'all! What am I even saying, Stella and some "reasonable people" can see 4m where I comment 4m. And na me, u r also jobless and bored. It takes 2 to tangle. Curse me and it goes rite bk @ ya.
DeleteTell ur boyfriend quickly and don't go to the house again until the brother go back to America, if u have to change ur numb so he stop calling. U don't want this annoying elder brother to lie on u in a way dt u can't deny
ReplyDeletetell your boo about it,if possible record your conversation when he calls just incase
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ReplyDeleteHave been in a similar stuff before, i will advice you tell your bf. i wonder why some men think women can be treated as trash.
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Just be careful,it might be a plot between the two of them to see if you wud fall for him since he just returned OR u cud tell someone in our own family about it so dat they can tell your b/f but u've got to have proof maybe a taped convo or sumtin#myownopinion#
ReplyDeleteDis is a simple matter. Tell ur bf. #shikena it myt evn be a test sef
ReplyDeleteThis girl is stipid sha, u claim u love ur bf and u have nt told him of his brother, wat kind of bf do u have first it was his friends disturbing u now its his brother, thing is they don't have a single respect for u
ReplyDeleteThank you... I jst don't understand this poster
DeleteDear poster, wat advice do u want from us? Ashawo kill u , u don see Americana. Rubbish, do u even knw d meaning of love? My advice for u is to sleep wit d brother....Oloshi
DeleteProbably you look cheap. Learn to dress proper like a good girl so as to stop sending wrong signal. Be honest, I know you secretly enjoys the americana making passes at you of all people ( naija babe that always snatch our partners from us ) shior
ReplyDeleteOff point!
DeleteEnglish too
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Pealie....so u din finish school????
DeleteBeen noticing dt ur use if English is on the ZERO level....dts soooooooo sad
Hian,madam poster, I pity u all this is going to blow up in your face!
ReplyDeleteIf it were me,here's what I will do;
1. Warn him sternly and make it crystal clear that I don't want him to repeat that nonesense to me!
2. If he doesn't,I will tell my bf in his presence.
Bcos I feel ure entertaining his stupid ass even though I know some men are goats,this is just too stupid.
I also think its an insult to your person! That's d way I would treat it sha!
Infact,excuse yourself from that yeye family! (˘̯˘ )
Mscheeewww (long African woman type teeth-kissing)
Loneliness will not kill you sha. Get a man! Saka is still available though
Delete@ Na me, let's assume u are referring to me,=))º°˚˚˚°ÂºLmaoº°˚˚˚°Âº°Âº=)) ,ure so not funny!
DeleteOff point!
You that u have job,what are u doin here!
Btw,are u not d nuisance that left comments on the Emeka Ofor post saying ure frustrated? Its obvious!
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U probably like his brother already.but I cannot vouch for his intention,he might just be trying to lay u.
ReplyDeleteYou are jobless, frustrated, unhappy, housewife and annoying. Get busy already!
DeleteAttention seeker oshi.
DeleteFirst his friends,now his brother? I smell a rat,a real big rat. This might all be planned,be careful girl,but I think the first step to take is to tell your bf about what his brother has been up to,watch his reaction, and you'll know how to take it from there. NB. You might have to flee from them all.
ReplyDeleteGbam! @ flee from then all including that your Bf
DeleteHmm babe, v been there, but u gats to do what u gats to do, tell ur boyfriend because when he finds out himself, t might be worse cus u never told him, ur boyfriend might break up with u tho, but ts better now than later when d whole family will be against u, even the obsessed bros will not even side u... Some bros can be soo dumb to their bros girlfriend smh
ReplyDeleteGirl, it seems you are enjoying the attention if not you would have found a way to let your bf know
ReplyDeleteTell ur boo about d situation of things, if symptoms persist after 3 days, my sister, u gotta say bye-bye before u become d cause of a major family breakdown!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteFirst mistake is dat u vnt told ur BF abt wats going on,honesty saves r/ships, my advice if fr u to tell ur BF ns see wat happens cos I cnt tell u to run away frm him cos u guyz will still meet each oda again except u wanna break up wit ur BF which I knw u knw u cnt, so tell ur BF
ReplyDeleteShe better open her eye wella, the boy is obviously testing her.
ReplyDeleteBesides stella, hook me up with kalu ikeagwu na, that guy fine well well.
ReplyDeleteU better tell ur boo as soon as possible wit an evidence so he will believe u. @
ReplyDeletePls stay away from his bro, he's nt a good guy.
am having similar problem too and am so confused.
ReplyDeleteWhat is confusing you?
DeleteNa wa oh!
Are u considering it ni?
Really i agree with you stella, she needs to tell her brother ASAP, before this matter moves to seduction/ sex. Believe me lady it would be better now than later when all hell breaks loose.
ReplyDeleteReally i agree with you stella, she needs to tell his brother ASAP, before this matter moves to seduction/ sex. Believe me lady it would be better now than later when all hell breaks loose.
ReplyDeleteReally i agree with you stella, she needs to tell his brother ASAP, before this matter moves to seduction/ sex. Believe me lady it would be better now than later when all hell breaks loose.
ReplyDeletePls tell ur boyfriend about it. Its obvious he is tryin to ridicule his broda in order to gain ur love. My dear don't fall for his lies. Show ur bf d calls and msgs and try to record sum conversations. It will serve as evidence.
ReplyDeleteAnd stella did not post my comment....mscheeeew.....
ReplyDeleteI wil say it again.
She is enjoying d attention else she woulda told her bf with prove......*yawns*
just tell your husband
ReplyDeleteIt is wrong abeg
The Lord lead you tru....amen
@Galore
Something tells me your boyfriend is also into this game or he has questionable character or company. He must have been saying funny stuff when you aint there. If not, why would his friends be hitting on you? What kind of guy is he? Now it his brother from America next will be his father from the dead.....Check your guy's commitment jare,something is fishy here. I feel someone is trying to pass his girl around directly or indirectly. I am a guy by the way
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DeleteBest comment ever. If your guy respects you, his frnds wouldn't evn talk to you anyhow talk more of hit on you. He s obviously not committed to you or atleast gives his frnds that impression. Dnt be fooled that it has anything to do with being Sooo preTty. And besides, u re enjoying the attention, and that it just wrong.
DeleteD truth is u will loose ur relatuonship.just look for another relationship.cos u can't come between brothers .blood is thicker.tell ur boyfriend wats going on and be prepared to take a walk cos d whole family will be against u even if u have all evidence.like u said his friends were 1st and then his own brother? Just take a walk and access urself,maybe u are too flirtatious,too playful thereby sending Ï„̣̣Ñ’Ñ‘ wrong signals or u have a bad past to be seen as a easy lay.
ReplyDeleteLol.. All hail the goddess of' wat's ur village again??? Ur 2 beuriful nah, hence the chasing 4rm frnds 2 brova... Abi u don go do look and follow?? Lmfao.. Stella post abeggi
ReplyDelete@Joan Joseph...you must have an IQ of an aluminum spoon. I've never seen make any sensible comment. Tufia. You need deliverance form stupidity
ReplyDelete@anon 12:08. U are very daft!!!!! Abeg ASUU should unstrike let these bitches go back to school. Just becos you haven't been in a situation doesn't mean you should open your mouth and vomit nonsense. I've been in a situation like this; my bestfriend's bf was coming unto me...believe me it wasn't easy telling her. I kept hoping that the idiot boy would leave me alone but he didn't. Finally told her, she believed me but our relationship is no more the same. So dear poster, I know it's hard but tell your boyfriend..try and gather evidence too. like take a snapshot of your convos with the brother. And make sure the convos will implicate him.
ReplyDeleteTell your boyfriend ASAP!
ReplyDeleteMy dear all Na WASH!
ReplyDeleteHe just wants to get down... He will sleep with u n dump ur ass. Trust me, No responsible man behaves this way.
I'm worried about the vibes u send out though.
@ na me, u didn't get d attention u've bin seeking. Hence, u don park well beta luck nxt tym. *tonugesout*
ReplyDeleteAre u sure ur bf is serious with you? Bcos if he is serious with you there is just this respect hs frnds nd family will gve u naturally dear so maybe you shld reconsider ds ur rltnship or like wat someone said talk to ur man in d presence of d brother and clarify the issue together
ReplyDeleteto me i feel it could be a set up to test ur love for ur man, as long as am concerned your guy might even be aware of what is going on btw u and his brother, so if you claim you love ur man, tell his brother off, record ur conversation with him as a proof, bcos if it is not a set up, he might turn around to say dt u re trying to seduce him, and do not take any trash he is saying about ur man serious.
ReplyDelete#1 na wa for you o.
ReplyDelete@ Blog visitor
I honestly think talking with your bf is the best thing. And be prepared for any outcome. Whatever you do, keep away from horny bro.
Pls who's this unlicenced umpire running or should I say ruining this post? Am laughing cos an adult is either single or married..Now,scroll up and repeat the job.This time around,guess the sexes of commentators. We need more men here .off you go now. Yeah yeah,am trying too hard... I agree.Get busy while yawing. *waiting*
ReplyDeleteBored AF!
DeleteThey are testing you hun. And like the hungry babe they suspected you are, you have kept it to yourself and you are thinking about it. Know that if you open yansh the brother will bang. You should have told the bf immediately. Even if you tell him now, he will wonder why it took you so long to tell him. You considered the brothers proposal obviously. LOL.
ReplyDeleteThanks! You just gave me the 'aha' moment! My sentiments thro and thro.
DeleteNa wa ooo. he needs prayer. tell him.
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@pearlie..u go just dey fire bomb anyhow! Gosh u sure u went to schl at all? Na wa ooo
ReplyDeleteWhen I read comments on such things, I pity Nigerians. Our youth don't even think straight. They don't think,further than their village chiefs. What's the use of education, if u can't use ur brain to think of circumstances from,different angles? Haven't u thought about the possibility of her ending up as a bad egg btwn her bf and his brother? Most guys won't believe her, except she shows him evidence!! So its not about just reporting, she needs to show evidence. And she might loose her bf in d mix, cos his brother would reconcile and beg and then damage her rep. And if her bf isn't wise enough, he might believe him and leave her too. I'm sure these are her fears. It might turn to a huge family matter and she would loose the man she loves.
ReplyDeleteStella, please lets not kick ppl who are down. If this story is true, how would d girl feel after reading these hateful comments that are already insulting her without seeing things from her own side? Maybe there's actually no need for some of these hateful comments. Then again, maybe that's why we don't have CIA in Nigeria. People don't even explore full options with their minds!!
Dear writer, tell your boyfriend, for the sake of your dignity. Have your evidence on ground, then prepare yourself for whatever outcome. You might loose him, if he doesn't love you enough. Then again, he will be at loss for loosing a good girl. Sorry for the mix. I totally understand how u feel. Do what is right. Don't lie, approach it wisely.
Dear Poster, I will advise u tell ur boyfriend, with or without proof, just state ur case and stay away from both brothers, then stay away for the time being. Tell ur bf to sort d issue out with his brother, if he wants u after then, fine, if not, move on with ur life. Am saying this bcos if d two shud fight bcos of u, d other family members will only see d worst in u, they will see u as sum1 who wants to wreck their family and separate 2 brothers. There's no 2-way to it. Just be plain and take a back seat. What's urs will definitely be urs. Que Sera Sera!!!
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