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Friday, October 11, 2013

Olatunji Okusanya's 91 Year Old Mum Is Inconsolable



The aged mother of the late MIC Caskets and Undertakers boss, Olatunji Okusanya who died in the ill-fated Associated Aviation plane crash, Mrs. Juliana Olayemi Okusanya is still in shock, says a family source.

The late Okusanya who would have turned 60 in a few weeks, died alongside his 30-year-old son (also named Tunji) in the Akure-bound plane conveying the remains of the former governor of Ondo State, Dr. Olusegun  Agagu for burial last Thursday. The plane crashed shortly after takeoff from the Lagos Airport, killing 16 of the 20 people on board.

When newsmen visited the Bariga, Lagos home of the Okusanya matriarch, the 91-year-old bereaved mother looked pale, fragile and speechless. She managed to respond to greetings from the crowd of sympathizers who thronged her residence endlessly.

By her side were rolls of tissue paper, which indicated that she had been crying herself to stupor. It was just a matter of minutes before she excused herself from the sitting room and was led into a nearby room.  For the next two hours, it became obvious that grandma, as she is fondly called, had retired for the day.
During the two hours of wait, it was gathered that the late Okusanya was the rallying force of the Okusanya kindred. Okusanya, who took over his father’s business, was until his death a philanthropist, another thing he inherited from his late father.
A family member who would not like to be named told the reporters that: “Grandma has been taking it as a Christian, since the Holy Book says that we should not mourn as the unbelievers because we will see our dead on the resurrection morning. But I can tell you that it is not easy at all. Mama keeps shouting ‘two generations at once.’ We are taking solace in God. Grandma is still greatly in shock and disbelief,” she said.


It wa gathered that Agagu’s casket had before the ill-fated journey ‘refused’ to get on board the plane, but was virtually forced into the aircraft by the MIC boss, his son and his staff members who all died in the crash. Members of the Okusanya family lamented that if they had known that their loving Tunji and his son would not come back alive, they would have prevented him from accepting a job, which they said had caused them so much pain and anguish.



“It is sad, very sad,” another family member was heard lamenting. “Why would they use another casket to bury Agagu? Why not the one from MIC that was used initially. It is sad. The rate at which lives are being lost in this country is becoming alarming. It is only God that will console Junior’s mum,” he lamented.

*This just breaks my heart.God please give this woman Grace to bear this irreplaceable loss...oh!

37 comments:

  1. Eh ya soooo painful. Its nt so easy to get over a loved one. I pray God helps her and gives her d grace to bear it.

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    1. My God Stella, just when I was starting to take this man's demise off my heart, u bring another heart wrenching news that'll stay in my head for a bit again. I am still so traumatized by this man's and his son's passing. I pray the Lord to release His soothing balm of Gilead upon mama's heart.

      But lest we deceive ourselves, it will just be a matter of time before this mama will...u know what I mean. Tho I don't pray death on her, but its inevitable. Even me as an outsider is pained by it, much more this poor woman. Yes 2 generations at once. No thanks to fucking Agagu's body.

      Why won't they force the casket to board? They were pre warned not to take his corpse to Ondo. Those who should know told the family why they should NOT take Agagu there, but it fell on deaf ears. But the painful thing is that innocent pple had to die for another man's misfortune. Continue to rest in the Lord Uncle Tunji and son.

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  2. What's the relevance of the coffin's refusal(?) Or the use of another coffin when MIC's own was seriously battered?

    All these frenemies of the family should desist from rolling out mischievious tales that will hurt this poor Mama further.

    Only God can console you Mama for the brutal loss of your son and grandson. Too too sad. E pele Ma

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  3. Awww! This is so sad. I can imagine the pains this old woman is going through. Take heart grandma, such is life. The Lord is thy strength.

    Eemm, please how did the casket "refuse to get on board the plane"? Is that even possible? Please explain...

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  5. God into your hands we place their souls. May they RIP. May the Good Lord give their family members the fortitude to bear this loss. IJN. Amen


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  6. I cannot imagine her pain :-(
    Take comfort mama!

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  8. Yorubas will say: 'O ye Olorun bi ko ye Eniyan!'- God understands all Mysteries. Its well

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    1. Nzube, Omo Ibo, a a de da fun e.

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  9. that was the greatest mistake ,if at all this statement is true,as an africa they would have performed the necessary rites if that was the situation;the dead might have seen it all,in an Africa setting such omen means a lot,no need crying over these it has happen it has happen.Mama may God be your comforter and your strenght ,RIP to the dead ones and wishing the casualties a quick recovery IJN

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    1. Absolutely, u are very correct. I am a believer of Christ in all ramifications, but there are certain things that God Himself allow within us as par tradition. Especially with those who still align with the full practice of their respective traditional rites. Albeit Agagu's pre burial had a lot of traditional/spiritual undertone to it, and like u said, they refused to observe the necessary rites on his body, hence the tragedy.

      My grandmother is still alive..but she's told a few people that when she dies, certain people she mentioned should be the ONLY ones to be allowed near her corpse immediately, as necessary things have to be done (I don't know what). And that after that her children and others can take charge. So if her kids do not oblige her requests and the unimaginable begin to happen, who is to blame? I tell u that all my grandma's kids are staunch born again christians, with one a full time pastor...but they'll all comply to this.

      So I think it is relative to this Agagu's story. Some people may call this shallow mindedness or whatever they like, but the fact remains that God Himself released certain powers to the men of the world, and until God Himself puts a stop to it, there's no going back!

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  10. SDK my anger is the changing of casket. That is a metal casket and if u ask me eh, d casket wil range btw N7,000,000- N10,000,000. If they go into the rural settlement, they will empower a lot of pple wit this money. Nothing happened to the casket except the lil dent it had after the crash. No be 6ft the casket dey enta? Which kind annoying behaviour be dis na? Must dey show dey have excess money to waste? Rubbish...#alinko

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    1. Pple too dey yarn dust abeg!!! "Your anger is that they change d casket" can you imagine?? Are you d one dat will dictate to them which casket they will use to bury their dead?? Shuo!! Nawa oo.
      Mama may God console you.

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  11. What can i say??? it is well with u,,ma!!!

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  12. @ madam stella of life
    early friday morning you have started again. why did you embolden the last part lol
    back to the topic though this just shows how selfish and self centred some people can be.
    first they went ahead to bury their own dead without caring about the others who lost their lives,they could not even extend a hand of help towards the ladies in the hospital looking for money to pay their bills now its this.
    upon all the millions spent to buy the casket he will still swell up and blow and eventually turn to dust leaving the casket.i really wish someone will remove the casket leaving the body

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    1. Thank you for ur comment, those ladies are still on hospital beds, bills are there to be paid, family members worrying, While Agagu's sent their Son & Son-inlaw abroad for further treatment! God will judge. Mama B!

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    2. Nawa ooo.. You must be rly wicked. Are d agagus nt victims of d plane crash too??
      Nd y ar pple just talking like dis? Is it nt beta to bury d dead nd attend to oda issues. Are their own children nt still in d hospital?? Wuld they av taken d body back to d motuary?? Are they nt still mourning?? Wat about d owners of d airline?? Should they nt be responsible for all d victims?? Is it their fault dat d sad invent occur on dat day? Do they own d plane?? Did they crash it??
      I think pple should just think vewi well b4 talking.
      Postponing d burial will nt resort to anyfin, they can now av time to d necessary things afta d burial bcos postponing it will only divide their attention.
      May God be with d okunsaya fams nd grant all d departed eternal rest . Quickest recovery to d injured

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    3. Jane the only point in ur comment that I agree with is that the airline should be responsible for the survivors' treatments being that they are their staff. And for the non staff they should pay them some insurance policy for the accident that happened aboard.

      And also, everyone that was aboard, living or dead, are also entitled to death insurance/injury insurance, as the case may be. There's no way in the world that they'll tell me that aircraft was not insured.

      That said. I really don't have a take on the casket matter, it is the minutest of all the grievances in this matter. My contention with the Agagus is that they didn't deem it fit to wait a few days before going ahead to bury their own. That was gross & insensitive of them.

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  13. Jesus!!

    So he left his mum?

    What a greAt Loss indeed.

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  14. this reveal that agagu's spirit was restless, they could have buried him in Lagos,I cannot say I feel the pains of the okusanya cos is only the person that wears the shoe knows were it pinch,it is well God Almighty knows best.

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  15. Yes its possible that the body might not want to get on the plane. Some bodies even make sure the hearse, that is carrying their body stops working and you "beg" the body(mystery, i know) Ask undertakers, they see a lot of strange things that cant be explained. Also remember this Agagu man said they should bury him where ever he dies and he died in Lagos. Also the guys name is Kokumo, meaning he was an Ogbanje. So he has died three times officially and God knows the unofficial ones to warrant the name Kokumo. Mysteries of Life! Mama take heart. God understands it all. That was his appointed day. How, why, when,time is a mystery that only God knows. We are all going someday too

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  16. Let me get this;
    The coffin refused to get into the plane
    They forced it into the plane
    then the spirit of the dead was angry and
    went and turned off the engine as the plane was taking off
    Making sure that those that forced it to fly died
    While sparing the lives of the son ( who indicated he didnt want to enter the plane but was forced)
    Na wah o!
    Remind me again why they are called DEAD?

    May the Good Lord grant her the fortitude to bear the loss

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    1. My dear, they call d DEAD, DEAD bcos deres no life in it again. He no longer knows things happening around him. Can neither talk, move nor see.

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  17. But why do yoruba ppl like jazz too much! Them swear for u na?!!!

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  18. Stella what happened to ur column in Ecomium, I miss it.

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  19. Quoting the text "Members of the Okusanya family lamented that if they had known that their loving Tunji and his son would not come back alive, they would have prevented him from accepting a job, which they said had caused them so much pain and anguish"....this is sheer greed and wickedness from the Olatunji's family. Their sons have been burying other people and making money from this for years and they didn't complain so what is this mess they are talking about! If nothing had happened to him, they would have gone away with the money paid to them for their services and continue their business of burying other people as usual. Would their son had lived forever? Besides, the man was making money from other people's sadness. They should stop this madness and face the reality of death....it is inevitable. However, I feel the old woman's pains.

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  20. Topdawg, it's clear you have no actual interaction with M.I.C. Mr. Okunsanya was a professional, who understood the delicacy of his role. He was too nice and always provided so much comfort to grieving families. One of the common things people always said about him is how understanding he was, it extended to the prices he charged for his services, many people will tell you about the discounts he extended to families who couldn't afford the full amount and steered people to more sober options. This death is painful

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  21. How so sad. we will all die, no matter how, where and when, it can't be avoided. God comfort you mama and everyone affected, HE sees all and knows all. it is well!

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  22. My ex neighbour's coffin refused to enter the ambulance, after some incantations n pleadings. It finally did. But refused to move. Y? Because his brother that killed him was in the ambulance.

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    1. Eeya. That brother will die too.

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  23. Whoever that person is that said them swear for yoruba pple,ure not only an imbecile,ure terminally stupid and probably brain dead.

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  24. Hmmm..So his mother is alive???!!!...Hmm..

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  25. Top dawg u obviously don't know the MIC boss that's why your talking like this , he was a wonderful man ,very humanitarian and consoled people who were in grief over loss of their loved ones , pls if you don't know him donot say a word , he used to go around burying dead bodies thy were left to rot on the road . He is a great loss to this country .

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  26. @ anon October 11, 2013 at 11:32 AM best comment. He wanted to be buried where he died and his society people said the same. The family bypassed his society people and his wishes and decided to take him to Ondo. Disaster struck. It means even if he went by road there may have still been an accident. If his family was spiritually strong they could have stopped the disaster. I also think the Okusanyas had very strong spirits and that may be why they perished. Very sad all over and may Mama be consoled.

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  27. Hmmm..d most amazing thing abt all dis is No1 has actually said anything Bad abt dis MIC boss..on several blogs..I mean its rare..I believe that Man is in a better place right now,we shud allow him rest in peace..I saw his interview on 'Teju baby face's show' and he said they dnt even collect money to bury som1 unda 18..I mean dis Man is resting..u all shud let dis issue just be..May God console his mom! And for d Agagu's God knows best..

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