Is it wrong or right to get emotionally and sexually involved with someone who dated someone who was close to you.....Involvement after they break up oh!
You want to marry the friend of your ex? OMG,you might gain a spouse but lose a friend!...come inside and lets trash it out please
MARRYING A CLOSE FRIEND'S EX LOVER.....
9 years ago my Friend broke up with his girl friend and after that he moved on, went to the UK and got married afterwards ( he has two kids now and his wife is in the Uk and he stays here in Nigeria).
I was a friend to his girl friend even after they broke up and maintained contact with her though we were loosing contact in between then.
Fast forward to 3months ago we started seeing,hanging out and enjoyed each others company, maintaining the fact that we are good friends..... Of late we both have recognized that we have got feelings for each other and Love each other. She is all i want in a woman.
I haven't proposed her yet but when i think of proposing to her I have mixed feelings about letting my friend down. Question is.....
- Should i let my friend into the know?
- Should i go ahead and propose to her or not ?
Advice Needed.
NB: My maintaining friendship with her caused a rusty relationship with my friend. Though we still see and hangout whenever it is possible .
*The woman your friend married must have been someones ex.not so?
I would just advice that for old times sake and so that you are not tagged anything,have a talk with your friend and tell him you are about to propose to his ex and that his reaction would make no difference.
After you tell him,two things will happen,he will either give you his support or cut off entirely and bad mouth you all over town....who cares?
Abeg go ahead and propose to her and contact sparkles jewelry when una wan buy the rings oh.
Congrats in advance.
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oh...dear I love u always.I can't leave without you...
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