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Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

''I need to find closure Stella''

''How does one find closure in a self induced 'heart break' situation''? Stella turns to ask blog visitors with arms wide open.....






NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
LOOKING FOR CLOSURE
Earlier this year (2014), I met a guy. He is a Muslim, I’m a Christian and we are both in our late twenties. Initially, we din’t set out to date because of the religious difference, but we became attracted to each other and hung out a lot.  

It soon turned into a friends-with-benefits type relationship, which at first, was fun and exciting but left me feeling confused and used. In the first place, I never wanted to play around so I asked that we get more serious but he said no.  I then tried to break things off with him but he din't want to let go and continued to come after me. I myself continued to see him because I really liked him a lot and believed he felt the same way.
 There was a particular girl who called him often and when I asked who she was, he said she was just a friend. At that point, I had managed to convince myself that we were not an item, so I chose not to make a fuss over it. A few months later, I found out he’d been engaged to this girl since last year, being 2013, and he never told me. I confronted him and he said it was not a big deal since I knew we were not going to marry. He also said he din’t want to throw it in my face.
 We quarreled over it but made up after he further explained that they were broken up when he met me.  At what point they reconnected and got re-engaged, he refused to say. I chose to believe and forgive him, but vowed to keep things between us strictly platonic from then on even though I still had feelings for him.
 He left for Hajj the following day and he never called me while he was away. Yet, he was busy updating his social media accounts and posting his engagement pics on BBM. He came back a month later and got married. I was heartbroken and miserable for weeks. I'm still struggling to put this incident behind me and move on. Should I contact him and let him know that I was deeply hurt by what he did to me coz I feel I din’t say it enough and maybe that's the reason I still feel bitter about it? Please how do I get closure?



Contact him for what?honey,The guy made it known from the beginning that he didnt want a committment with you.you were the one who gave him all.
Please have some respect for yourself and move on already!

The closure you find is with you,you need to look into a mirror and promise yourself that you would not hold unto a man next time he says no,come one girl,love yourself cos no one else can do it better than you.
MOVE ON!


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
VIRGIN MARRYING JUST TO MAKE BABIES.

Hi Stella and fellow bv's, before we enter the new year I will like to get something off my chest. ‎In all my life I never expected I would end up with the man am getting married to in 2 weeks. Financially he is OK. Even though I have money I did not contribute one kobo to this wedding. 

He footed the whole bills without complaints but He is everything I have despised in a man physically: he is really thin (has Nkem Owoh kind of suffer head body), facially he is the worst looking guy I have ever dated. When he holds my hands i shiver and I can't imagine how I am going to have sex with him after the wedding.. let me be honest with ya'll, if I were 22 -25 years old I would never have accepted him. 

Yes you would probably say what was I doing while I was in that age bracket. I was busy praying, hoping, sowing seeds in church wishing I would get married before 25...but for some reasons that did not happen. 
I know I may be partly to blame though...growing up we were always restricted in going out. No parties. No hang outs. No birthdays. So yes I grew up withdrawn. I hardly talk. 

My friends are all on SDK blog..as in online unseen people. When you walk into a gathering am that pretty girl you see sitting by herself saying nothing. Yes am not blowing my trumpet saying am pretty because I am. On a scale of 1-10 I give myself 8 because the only thing I lack is height.  ‎


Please bear with me,i am going somewhere with this.


 So I ask myself what if on the wedding night we are finally going to do the thing and he ends up really small down there.."i feel he will be tiny because he is really skinny"..like did I keep myself all these years from guys to end up being disvirgined by a man I don't even like all because society won't let me be?
 Like would God really punish me like that?

If I could go back in time I would have let that dude I was in love with 4 years ago disvirgin me even though that wouldn't have kept him by my side but at least I would have lost it to someone I loved and on my own terms.


I know they must have been talking because that's all world people do. Enh Wunmi never marry till now? All her mates are gone oh..what is she waiting for?


People marry for different reasons. Some, because the guy is cute or rich or comes from a good home or lives abroad or he is TDH or because time is going or because of love or for financial security..yes so many different reasons and my own reason for deciding on this man even though I don't like him is because I want to have my own kids for God's sake..


if I lived in a society where I could have kids without a man and stil have respect I would gladly have done that..and also my younger sister who got married two years ago just put to bed. My younger brother has done introduction for his fiancée. 
So in two weeks I will walk down that aisle with a big fake smile plastered on my face (after all if actresses can have sex with guys they are not in love with I should be able to do that with my hubby)‎.




Wow!.....At least you know why you are getting married.....Forget the size,all blokos' contains sperm to make pregnant,isnt that what you want?

You just might fall in love with him....his ugliness and thinness will vanish when you do...if not,face your kids when they come!

Happy married life in advance oh




246 comments:

  1. Poster 1- you were a f**k buddy from the beginning and the guy made it clear. What other closure do you want. Please cry your heart out, wipe your tears, flip your weave, dust your ass and move on

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    1. @poster 1, my dear, you have now learnt your lesson that putting up with everything your man says will automatically turn you to his fuck buddy can be very dangerous. It's not worth the heartbreak. In as much as, Stella and all the BVs here will tell you to suck it up. I have been down that road before and it's not healthy. You need to release the pain you feel in your heart. Dating another guy can not take this away. Send your ex-lover a message pouring out all your mind, let him know he is a coward that he truly is. Do not forget to take your own part of the blame. Then you can move on! But be wiser! Be happy! If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. I hope this helps.

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  2. Poster 1 ...hmmm...I don't think he his to blame and please move on and let him be with his new found love.
    Poster 2...You will eventually learn to love him and I will give you a 5 nor based on beauty!!! Why are u blowing your horn??? Abi u fine pass me!!heheh lol

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    1. Lol..We are all fine in our own way dear

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    2. Mmmmh u will finally fall in love with him and what if u don't. U'll be miserable o.

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    3. Learn to love? How can you learn to love someone? U either love or you don't.
      Little wonder why 90% of Nigerian marriages are a sham.

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  3. NO.2
    Chaiii and the husby will be totally in love not knowing the reverse is the case. There's God

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  4. To the 2nd bv, you can't ge it all, don't worry with time you will fall in love with him.

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    1. Awww thanks so much

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    2. Hiss... Anonymous 2 I feel sorry for you
      If you don't love the man now you will never do, In 5 yrs time you will remember this

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  5. N1, pls respect urself and move on. U deserve better. N2, can u be contented pls? So many pple r still waiting in line to get married. U're here complaining

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  6. I don't think I owe anyone an explanation or apology about d comment I dropped a few days ago n d previous ones but I'l explain/apologise nonetheless...a lotta ppl misundastand u wen u say some things,like d person dat said I was bragging about sleepin wit a minor n some of my previous comments...far from it,I wasn't bragging about it,dis blog gives me d chance to blow out some steam about some past episodes in my life...d girl in question had d body of an adult n she told me she was 16 n'l be 17 in a few months(still too young I know)..it was later I discovered her real age...I knew I messed up n I regret dat act...I apologise to all dat got offended by d comment,I av a 15year-old niece I care so much about n can't imagine any guy coming close to her..d last time I saw d girl(used to call her juve)I apologised to her n she even said I did nothin wrong to her cos she was d one disturbin me n dat was wat she wanted @ dat period. I apologise for d insensitivity of my comment(s). Happy new year in advance y'all.

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    1. Awwww.

      I was disturbed by the comment because obviously, I like you.

      All is forgiven.

      Happy new year darlin..

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    2. Heyyyyy.
      I love your comments.
      It's good to see some one hold no bars when giving advice and you stand up for the guys in this predominantly female bv's
      Lol
      I always look forward to them. Keep them coming.

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    3. Awww !! We forgive u, entering into the new year with a clean Slate.

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  7. P2 if u don't like him, shift abeg let some other babe take over. P1 u like giving urself problems, leave d guy alone, u were fuckmates,nothing more, a man can profess love to u just to get in between ur legs if u don't know.

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  8. 1] Babe just move on already...
    Closure this closure that..abeg go find ur own man jare msheww
    2] Nne the man might end up with the biggest blokos u will eva see, u neva know. I just pray u fall in love with him...btw Osuofia is a very handsome man oo dunno why u think he's not lol

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    1. Lol..
      Thanks
      I always love your comments

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    2. Lol..
      Thanks
      I always love your comments

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  9. N1 just let go, look for something/someone to take your mind off him. You will be fine with time. Consider the religious difference and console yourself with that.
    N2
    Did you just finish your husband to be like that? Wow!
    You are going to make that man miserable with this mindset, common on! He must have something good about him, he's rich that's a plus? Se you like money?
    Having an "Nkem owoh suffer head body"kai! Doesn't mean he would be thing down there, it doesn't work like that.
    Maybe when u start feeding him and he puts on weight, that dryness will fill up and he wouldn't look so bad.
    If he treats you right, respects you.. please give yourself a chance to fall in love with him. Beauty isn't everything, a very Handsome hubby can get involved in a accident that will mar his looks, look beyond physical attributes ok.
    Good luck

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    1. Buahahahaha
      Poster u don hear ni?
      Feed him oh.
      Infact every two hours sef and he will be rotunda in 6 months
      Buahahahaha

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    2. I can't shout. dear post don't underrate tin men o. I am talking from experience. Their third led is as long and big as Benue State yam. I once dated one like that. Na me run o. Eh. They get power pass horse. Did l hear you say the man ugly?. I pity u. Your neighbours go soon gather to beg you to stop shouting at night. **wink**** Hahah. On a serious note. Pls make up your mind to love him. @2. You honestly don't have a case. You were his bedmate. He now has a wife. Pls free him.

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  10. Nar 1 please don't call him,save yourself the remaining respect
    Nar 2 I heard thin guys come with better Mac 7(I heard) moreover women fall in love gradually so give it time.he might be loaded down below and u will love him wholly
    God is ur strength


    **lululiscious**

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  11. @poster 2, pls pardon me let me laugh small--hahahahaha. u just made my day lol

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  12. Today's Chronicles sef....
    I wil try and be as Nice as i can cos i not one to be pissed buh really ur stories make me just that!

    Póster 1,sorry.buh i think nicely Put ,u are suffering from acute "Mmegheri"
    it loosely means stupidity.....hehhehehehe
    The Poor guy told u from day 1 wot u guys were to each other and u accepted.
    I think along d line u tot he was gonna change and fall in love with u. Abia!
    why are u hurt Sweetie?
    that he was uploading his engagement pix
    U are jelly? U wish it was u.
    Nne biko Move on.u knew d deal from day 1.
    Dust yaself and Move it! Someone else wil come ok? Bear hugs blog sis.

    Bia Póster 2,Take a day Or two off and go to Prayer city Or any Church for that matter.esp today 31st.dere wil Revivals and all sorts.and witness wot goes on dere.how women throw demselves on brick walls and concrete floors asking God for life partners.i actually Over heard one spinster like that whispering to God "please even if he is like Uwaezuoke,send to me.

    Be grateful!
    Thank God for this Man he gave u.
    Go somewhere n Mark ma words....one day,u wil be d one looking for dis Same Man's Face.....LMAO
    U Wil be Falling over urself to give him blow jobs and handjobs.....Hahhahahahahha
    You wil Soo love dis Man dat once Its 30 mins before d close of work and he is due home ur heart wil Soo beat u wil wonder wots happening to u...

    Nne relax! U r also Going through wedding jitters and i perfectly understand.buh u just dont know that yet...
    As akpuobi as i am,as soon as we Came home from ma house after the dowry,i burst Into tears.i Soo cried eh!the Trad,Same thing too.

    Relax darling.Its a wonderful journey...
    Go with God and go easy.
    Sending u warm hugs Boo.

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    1. General wife nne u write with so much wisdom, spot on!!!

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    2. Awww. Thanks so much. I love your comments and I would have called you biased if you hadn't given me hugs..lol
      I will feed him well. And I will try my best to have a happy home

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    3. Hahah! TGW , so u cried when you went to hubby house eaya!!!
      I rem when my sis got married , when we were ushering her to meet her hubby and her people with her possessions, come and see cry !! Infact we wailed!!! As if someone had died

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    4. Awwwww....u wil darling.u will.God bless u two and ur home in Jesus name.amén.

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  13. Narrative one: Clap for yourself. You just won the award for the most stupid in FWB category.

    Narrative two: Clap for yourself even harder.

    The two of you don't even know what you're both talking about. You put yourselves in totally avoidable situations and few months later, gave us Chronicles to read. God bless you both.

    Abeg make I go shop for New Year's gift for BF.

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    1. Please address that man with the right title.

      BF bawo?

      Diamond ring is not easy.

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    2. Buahahahaha.
      All these claps Jay is sharing so
      Mmmmhn Mmmmhn

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    3. Goldscent i'm sorry, fiancé. It still sounds strange.
      *repeats fiancé 10 times in my head*
      That name has got to stick!

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  14. Poster #1, move on already. You can't start from friends with benefits then decide you want to become a girlfriend, that's something that should have been sorted out when you guys met or started dating. You are just wishy washy and confused, you don't know what you want and still don't know.
    Poster #2, I'll advise you to get out now, you'll just end up resenting this guy for no reason if you marry him. Everything he does will irritate you to the bone marrow even the lovemaking. If he tries to talk to you sef, you will be irritated by him, so why do you want to put yourself through such.
    A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.

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    1. Get out ke? I know what I signed up for when I carried on with the wedding plans. I will try my best to make a happy home.

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  15. I honestly have no comments stella has said it all.....maybe i'lld learn from n2 n start coming out of my shell

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  16. Stella., your comment are epic! They already knew what they were doing, hence no advice for them...

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  17. @poster 2!trust me 75percent of skinny guys v big dick,if his poor would you have married him? Pls dnt go into that marriage for a wrong reason o

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  18. Wow!
    Gist2: I like your spirit. You know what you want and you are going for it.. you must be above 30 from what I can deduce. It's good you settled on this one because who knows the next might have been a cripple.
    God forbid tho.. love is a beautiful thing to get married for but if you don't get that then get the next best thing.
    In 2 weeks I will raise a glass and drink to your wedding.
    Cheers

    Gist1: pls for the live of God and Immanuel don't call the morrafuca.
    Y d hell is he still on your social media? Block him. And move on.
    Forget he ever existed. It's hurts but with time most wounds are healed.

    *goes back to eating my chicken ukodo
    Stella u dey miss oh

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  19. Poster 1 Stella has said it all.
    The guy made it clear to you that he won't marry u , why then are u heart broken?
    You could have left the relationship since but u dint.
    I wonder what u were thinking.
    Get hold of yourself sweet, better men are out there.

    Poster 2
    Hmmm, you are marrying a man u dint love cause age is no longer on your side.
    I understand.
    The reasons u gave is not enough, his ugly, slim bla bla bla.
    Is he a nice man, have a good heart, most especially does he love you?
    If the answers are yes, then my dear learn to love this man.
    Good men are hard to come by, forget all this good looking men must of them are ass and won't treat u with respect.
    Learn to love your man.
    About his "thing"
    I heard slim guys has the biggest thing down there. Lol.
    Happy married life dear.

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  20. Wow!
    Gist2: I like your spirit. You know what you want and you are going for it.. you must be above 30 from what I can deduce. It's good you settled on this one because who knows the next might have been a cripple.
    God forbid tho.. love is a beautiful thing to get married for but if you don't get that then get the next best thing.
    In 2 weeks I will raise a glass and drink to your wedding.
    Cheers

    Gist1: pls for the live of God and Immanuel don't call the morrafuca.
    Y d hell is he still on your social media? Block him. And move on.
    Forget he ever existed. It's hurts but with time most wounds are healed.

    *goes back to eating my chicken ukodo
    Stella u dey miss oh

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  21. Hian
    Poster one pls get a grip already.
    Exactly how do you people still get to hangon to someone that clearly shows he's not there to stay?? Well, my imagination. After he has married someone else you still wanna call him and say more whaaaat?? Abi you think a goodbye xes will do you any better?
    Let it go pls; love urself henceforth and make a determination never to do 'friends with benefits' again until your man arrives.

    Poster 2. The description of that Nkem Owoh suffer head made me laugh. Sorry
    But seriously are you sure the way you feel abt this guy will even let you part ur legs on the wedding night?
    I pray you develop some feelings for him later because you will just be living in self hate. All the best.

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  22. Poster 2..you are a virgin and yet you are afraid if he's thin down there..I can't stop laughing at your stupidity...ahahhahahahahahaha...maybe your virginity is a film trick#theprison

    Son of Solomon

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  23. Poster 2..you are a virgin and yet you are afraid if he's thin down there..I can't stop laughing at your stupidity...ahahhahahahahahaha...maybe your virginity is a film trick#theprison

    Son of Solomon

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  24. Wat a pity getting married to som1 you don't love....manage him

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  25. N1 : d hand writing was boldly written on d wall for u to see clearly, but u decided to use ur own eraser to clean it off! Sorry sha, u were dating urself,
    N2: God be wiv u! Amen

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  26. Madam, thin guys have fat, horse-sized "carrots" o! Better start praying he dowsnt scatter your virgin totoh with oversize tin! U can make yourself love him. Remember that your kids may end up looking like him o

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  27. poster 1
    You were his side chick who refused to read the handwritting on the wall! when you found out that he had engaged another girl, why did you confront him? you should have just walked away! I dont blame him for using and dumping you, I blame you for thinking with your heart! Abeg move on and forget about him jor, is he the only man on earth?

    poster 2
    I dont know why some ladies love men who dont love them and hate men who love them! Am sure you were busy selecting men while you were still in your 20s.You are even lucky a man wants to marry you at your age.My 40 something years old rich aunt is looking for a man to buy, she hasn't been lucky because they all end up using and dumping her inspite of her money.God has blessed you with a man who loves you and you are here complaining about his "ukwa" looks and how tiny his dick would be because of his thin and suffer head body! How come a virgin prefers a big dick to a tiny dick? You sure say u be virgin at all? Pls, if you dont love this man, call off the wedding and let him be, you dont deserve him!

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  28. #1..u don use totoh do bonanza,move on...but make sure u don't do promo wit d next guy(s) u meet.
    #2 Na wah o...dat's why dey say women don't know wat dey want...so ur own concern is d guy's physical appearance? U don't deserve a good man n u r very selfish..n ppl'l be blaming d man wen somtin goes wrong in d marriage...and slim guys don't have small blokos,I know dat cos am slim...n my own is far far far from small

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    1. @poster1, comment: Very true!

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  29. I really feel for narrative 2. getting married due to what the society thinks. Your happiness is key and if you not getting it then its sucks. With time you may get to love him.

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  30. Lest u are deceived...actresses and actors do NOT have sex in front of d camera..its just make belief and perhaps d most awkward moment in hollywood. Hwevr should u go ahead marrying a man whom uv described as very ugly and obviously have no luv for...U my dear will live a miserable life.Pls maintain your dignity and stay single till the right man comes.Yes u are ageing...so what if you are?Yes family and those witchy friends of yours..not forgetting those rude strangers out there who are equally miserable in their own marriages pressure u into marrying reminding u age isnt on your side,right?SO WHAT? Pls stay happy and single..find your joy and stick to it.And if d man is destined to come,fine and if he doesn't..So What!

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  31. N1 honestly i dont know what to tell you. Are you that desperate? There are many things you ought to have considered before makin yourself cheap before him. Today is new year's eve,if its possible get your phone and delete his contacts,erase him from your mind completely. Let him be part of your new year resolution and move on. Your re feeling used and dumped because you didnt define your relationship from the onset.
    N2 hmmmm am scared ooo. Re u sure this is what you want? Can you handle it? You re bowing to societal pressure? Anyways i want you to forget this impression of marrying just for the sake of children.
    Have you asked your self,what if a child fails to come early? [God forbid] how will you hold on?
    Look beyond his small stature and all the things you dont like about him,you may be surprised that he is a wonderful person afterall and may eventually fall in love with him.
    Please try to connect with him even if its pretending, you can do it. You may be feeling this way because you ve not really given him any attention.
    I wish you all the best

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  32. Poster one : you both has fun! At a point u kept trying to believe that something would come out of the relationship, because ur feelings grew stronger!! But this guy gave u all the signs, u refused to tell urself the truth !!
    It is time to move on dear !! Closure!! U ve gotten ur closure ! He is married! I'm sure to someone of same religious belief .

    Poster two:: I can recon with your story and how u feel! But me I have told myself that my happiness is paramount!! I won't yield to societal pressure and marry someone that I'm not attracted or not in love with because time isn't on my side and end up with regret or in a loveless and unhappy marriage!!! Made that decision last year,
    Last last! I will get someone's sperm and do artificial insemination!! But all these my craZy male friends says lie lie!! If they are to donate their sperm they must straff me in the conventional method!!! Lmao!!

    Well poster two!! U be made ur decision , so pls live with the consequences ! It would be bearable too if he loves u. All the best

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    1. * had
      I meant had fun! Before the grammatical double checkers unleash !!

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    2. Both comments cracked me up!

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  33. P1 .....Show some self respect girlllllll.....P2 Honestly i dont advice pple to marry someone they dont like...i like that u r sincere to urself..but wat if babies dont strt coming on time....from the way u sound u dont seem to like or be attracted to this man.....den anger starts creeping in comparing him to other husbands and all....just looking at him u gt angry n disgusted ..den it turns to hatred den fighting n picking up quarrels.....there are really untold stories to when a man just picks up a knife and stabs his wife....for the love of everything good rethink....but den u knw wat u want...

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  34. Tiny guys always have big rod. .... ...............PEACE

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  35. N1, but why blame the guy? That's one honest gut out of the thrill ion liars we have out there. He has told you from word go say him no do so why get angry with him! N2, you come across to me as one queer woman, you better sit down jeje and marry him or leace the gentleman alone. You no see husband you cry you pray you fast, you see now you don't he's too thin, he's too ugly, but you decided to date him till this level. Babe you would be surprised to see ladies 100% preetier than you hands down drooling over him and treating him like a king in marriage.

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  36. Poster1, hope you've learnt your lesson.
    Get a grip on yourself..you can only find the much needed closure by moving on.
    Don't venture into a friends-with-benefit, fuck buddies kinda relationship, if you sure you cannot keep your emotions in check.
    Ultimately, the girl ends up feeling used rather than the guy. It's always been that way. Be strong okay?
    Cheers..

    Poster2,
    If you're unhappy, why go ahead? And why did you even begin preparations?
    The choice is yours. You alone know where it itches. Do whatever you feel is right. BVs cannot help you here.
    You only Live Once.
    All the best!!!

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  37. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    NUMBER ONE: call him yu hear and get the greatest embarrassment of ur life..... MUMU.....
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    NUMBER TWO: those pastors locking there daughters indoor this is for yu.... May God be with yu....
    *GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  38. N1, stop feeling heartbroken over someone who never felt anything other to lust for you. You never dated Sis

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  39. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    NUMBER ONE: call him yu hear and get the greatest embarrassment of ur life..... MUMU.....
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    NUMBER TWO: those pastors locking there daughters indoor this is for yu.... May God be with yu....
    *GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  40. #2! That he is skinny doesnt mean he will be tiny down there o, u will be surprisd wen u find out all his fat is hidden down bellow.. and most skinny slim guys end up being chubby with time after they must have been fed by their wives! Just make up ur mind and look for somethin in him and love him for it, gradually ur love will blossom.. i just wish u have not fixed a date yet but all d same, God will see u tru.

    #2. I have no much comment for you o!
    I dont just like wen girls wait on guys to validate themselve!! The bobo made it clear from the on set, u held him tight and be wishing either of u switches religion or what?? Just grow up and love urselv first..

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  41. Poster 1

    Please are you a BV here?
    I am ashamed of you.
    I feel our efforts here have been in vain!
    You mean a BV here can cheapen herself so much?
    Chai. You are a goat and I have not an iota of pity for you.
    By all means, call him and collect the mother of all disgrace you have been craving for.
    You are obviously a glutton for punishment.
    Shior.
    So this is how you plan to enter 2015? Shame!!!

    Poster 2:

    You are very silly for addressing Nkem Owoh in such a derogatory manner.

    Did anyone point a gun at your head, forcing you to marry this guy?
    Why didnt you test the dick before marriage if that's what is giving you headache?
    You are entering the marriage with a terrible mindset and I won't be surprised if you get divorced within a year.

    At least you have marked the marriage register which is all you seem to be concerned about.

    My sympathies are with your poor groom.

    It's new year in Australia.
    Happy new year 2015 Australia.
    Tongue out to Italian JayEm.

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    1. Wow!
      You have entered the new year already?
      Congrats
      We dey come behind.

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    2. Goldscent D,i think d Poor Girl is just suffering from marriage jitters.
      Pls excuse her for using Nkem Owoh.i think she only wanted us to get wot she meant.

      Pls calm down honey Boo Boo.

      Happy new year to u too.
      abeg send me invite.i wan come Australia.

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  42. Poster 1: you're a slut, a hoe, a sex object for the mans sexual desire and you accepted it. Just try and be a better person.

    Poster 2: do not get married. Or better still pray to God if its the best thing to do or not. Don't spoil the institution of marriage.

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    1. This guy, GROW UP. Grow up. Your face is plastered on your ID and you can not even try and comment like an adult. Aunty Stella sorry pls, he just goes around commenting like a child. How can you insult someone like that. Pls on this blog, we are more mature than that. N1, you deceived yourself but you are not a hoe ok. It is people like this Lord Flacko that go around insulting women because they dont give him the time of day.

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  43. My goodness Poster 2, you're setting yourself up for disaster even before the marriage has begun (it's so obvious you detest the man). If you can live in a fake marriage , then good luck on your journey.

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  44. Last Chronicles for 2014..... Y'all who need closure before 2015, its barely some hours oooo.....hurry!!!

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  45. Narrative 1, I am so sorry, but obviously, the man never loved you. You were just a sex toy for him. Dust yourself and move on. If it's any consolation to you, good riddance to him cos if he could cheat on his wife to be, he'd do same to you. Focus on God, love yourself and you'll be amazed at the wonderful man God will bring your way. Narrative 2, well I honestly don't share your view. I'd rather have kids out of wedlock than get married to a man I don't love. That's my 2 cents though.

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  46. Poster 1: u let urself be used and dumped and used all over again. U no sharp at all... Sadly I have friends that think and act exactly like you.

    You knew there was no future because of the religious differences , u still spread ur legs and even after he told u that ur only his fuck buddy, u still continued to spread ur legs..pls what do u want from us now?

    Contact him again so he keeps fucking you oo.stellla forgive my language but some girls no get sense at all.

    Poster 2: it's for better or worse ooo.
    Cook him enough fatty foods,and thin guys I hear have long rods. You might eventually fall in love. After all those before and after pics u see of our stars are real. U saw how skinny and ugly dbanj was? Wats about the okoye brothers? My dear ur hubby be fine. Tell God to open ur heart so u can love em. Congrats darling

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  47. Narrative 1, I am so sorry, but obviously, the man never loved you. You were just a sex toy for him. Dust yourself and move on. If it's any consolation to you, good riddance to him cos if he could cheat on his wife to be, he'd do same to you. Focus on God, love yourself and you'll be amazed at the wonderful man God will bring your way. Narrative 2, well I honestly don't share your view. I'd rather have kids out of wedlock than get married to a man I don't love. That's my 2 cents though.

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  48. Poster1. Abeg giv3 urself small shame haba!forget abt d dude and hold on to God bumper to bumper, dats y some guys give girls a bad name. Poster2, u beta change dat ur mindset oh, do u tink every one married got 100perc3bt wat dey want? U wud kill urself one day if u keep dat mindset oh and as for sex my dear, pray he isnt too big down there since u said ure a virgin else na so so pain oh, all u need is a change of mind.

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  49. Lmao. Wetin person no go hear for this blog.
    Poster 1 you brought it upon yourself oh because he made it known from the onset. The deed has bn done and my advice for you is too move on. Forget about the guy and get your life back together.
    Poster 2 I am seriously rolling on the floor with this your story. At least you have a reason for wanting to get married to him,so keep you using that to make yourself happy. + I think you should just try to love him,give him the attention, look pass all these ugliness and all who knows you both might make a great couple but your message sounds more like you despise him with everything. What is the essence of getting married to him them? Think well before you act sha. Stick to any advice you think pays you. HML in advance.

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  50. Poster 1..abeg dnt call the guy...you were both friend for benefits...he did nothing wrong since you both were in agreement

    Poster 2 happy married life in advance....hope you have heard of beauty and the beast...dont worry the prince in him will manifest as you grow old together

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  51. Poster1 you mumu sha,hian Wetin be this na?pls respect yourself and leave that man alone when you still have small dignity left that is if any is still left,mtcheeeew, so you want to call him and tell him what and he will later apologies and keep fucking you as a side chick,shey you want to remain a side chick forever,pls leave him alone,you said friends with benefits that was what you had,you where aware of your relationship,why are you feeling used now?oh because he got married abi
    Poster2 sometimes I ask people what is their reasons for marrying this particular person,because I feel am not getting married for love cos my heart is so cold,it is long I have been in love,most skinny guyz have big dick,although I don't fancy skinny guys but you are already getting married,it is too late now because you are still marrying this man,dont worry when the kids start coming you will have too many things on your mind

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  52. BLOG ANALYSER: @ 1 please let go. It is not worth it. It was fun but now it is ova move on dear. Some one ur hubby is on the way. Calling him means rekindling ur love. Pls let go okay. @2 hmmmmm urs is critical my dear u have accepted it. Yes, just marry nd make ur self happy. All that glitters is not gold. Fine boy might be the one that will treat u bad. However, if this annoys u much u have the right to call off the white wedding. I know u will be happy in the marriage. Again marriage is not all about children but it is also about companionship. It well dear

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  53. @ narr 1 n 2, jst follow what SDK said...
    She hs said it all...

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  54. Hmmmm. Story story, once upon a time. ...

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  55. Gaddammit!!!
    Poster 1: the guy know say you be much and yes a user
    Contact him at your own risk!

    Poster 2: how old are you? Don't let pressure force you down the aisle with the wrong man o
    The rest of your life will be pure torture
    Hmmm....
    Lemme read comments biko

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  56. Will i sound awkward if i say N2 cracked me all up.looool

    N1---remind again d kinda closure u r looking 4;u allowed urself 2b USED so deal wv it...if i b d guy sef,me ma 4no marry u...he told u he doesn't wnt u guyz 2tk it serious and yet u went ahead and fell in love...u try

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  57. Poster 1- You have a low self esteem, you need to work on yourself- that's the closure you need.
    Poster 2- If the above reasons are dealbreakers, you need to call off the wedding, its not fair to the guy- you need to make him marry the woman who will love him for who he is. Don't make the society decide for you, they will soon forget.

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  58. Hmmmm. Every aboki to him kettle. Some have all d money to marry but no love then some have genuine love but no money for d wedding or mange to so it. Well, make I siddon read comments na. Poster 2: didn't u know this will happen? What do u want to call him for. Abeg allow peace is someone else marriage o.

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  59. @poster1 why are complaining? It was a settled case.i don't blame the guy for anything cause you choose these for your self.@poster2 marriage is much more than these and won't be surpriced if this marriage pack's up in no time,what if the kids looks exactly like these man what wil you do? Please have a rethink.

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  60. Don't understand why I can't view more than 200 comments. Help needed here ASAP!

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  61. Guys pls say no to friends with benefit.its a sin.

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  62. Thin guys dey gather blokos oo lol, dear u might end up liking him, lots of women marry fine guys they love but d guy ended up turning to a monster and a mistake , d man lives u that is y why he is marrying you and taking shame from ur head cos that's what d society we live in makes it look like , just try nd love him, he might be a nice nd caring hubby u wnt regret, even d one u love might not live u bck nd treat u badly, just try and mk it work nd pray , u might end up falling inlove with him, I have seen worse enemies love each other, lik d bible said all things work together for our good , if u believe that would be ur portion my love . Sometimes what we want is not wat we get and wen such happens what do u do? U make Tobs happen and make ursef happy

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  63. N1; keep moving on,never look back. He is not worth you. And he made it clear he wasn't gonna marry you.what more?
    N2; what you feel is a state mind built up with fantasies or reading too many mills and boons. Go ahead with your marriage . In years to come you will feel differently. In my world a handsome man is a man with good character, who loves and treat you well. Most importantly pay his bills hundred percent. Look within,deep inside. Marriage is more than physical or aestethic qualities. I have travelled that road and am speaking from experience.

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  64. Lwkmd @ ur comment stella. U are really a funny woman. I await comments

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  65. Poster 1:
    Biko, pick up self esteem wia u dropped it and stop cheapening urself...
    Most times,we allow emotions to overshadow reality...

    That guy never loved...he was just after the "free sex"...obviously like u affirmed it was jes "friends with benefits" kinda rship.

    Don't call him joor,delete all his numbers or u can as well re-edit his no on ur fone to "idiot,mumu",stupid boy" jes so ur subconscious can register it dt he's nt looking ur way again...it worked for me den wen I encountered one "oloriburuku" like dat.

    U deserve better...don't u think so?

    Poster 2:
    A thin man may nt have a tiny dick ooo...Most times God compensates thin men with HUGE dicks....wait ooo,u've nt seen ur hubby 2be urinating before ?since u dey claim virgin and dat means una neva knack yet.

    Hian,personally,i cannot marry a MAN I dnt love no matter the pressure...Is having kids the ultimate in marriage?

    That's nt enough reason to get married oo if u ask me...wat abt for frndship and companionship?

    Those pleasurable feelings u have wen u look into ur hubby's eyes or d sweet love making bouts? Or the sweet cuddles?..u can't possibly feel dis way with a man u dnt love.

    Seriously am confused on ur behalf in dis matter....Meanwhile try small sha and develop small love for him before ur wedding in 2 weeks or else you'll jes be frowning all through the wedding event...

    *nagging headache**...ooo


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    1. "Hian,personally,i cannot marry a MAN I dnt love no matter the pressure...Is having kids the ultimate in marriage?

      That's nt enough reason to get
      married oo if u ask me...wat abt for frndship and companionship?

      Those pleasurable feelings u have wen u look into ur hubby's eyes or d sweet love making bouts? Or the sweet cuddles?..u can't possibly feel dis way
      with a man u dnt love."

      B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L Comment Chysugar. Just too beautiful.

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    2. Tnx Rubynnia darling
      E-hugs 2u bae

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  66. poster 1: so sad darling, you kept the relationship believing all will end in marriage, truly there is nothing to say to the guy because he just had his fill with you and off he has zoom,brace up ,be strong and dont be desperate for marriage when you are in a new relationship, take time to know the guy and have fun. Marriage will come at the right time .
    N2: was on a similar tot 2yrs ago, contemplating marrying a guy that was very ugly but loaded, i spoke to myself and said this tin na marriage ooo for how long will i continue like this, when you are married you get to go out a lot with your husband and by so doing ,you will be shy moving with him while others will be flaunting their spouse, is this truly the life i want for myself, am working i can get my own money someday but husband i cant change while rush all cos pple are getting married,i was in my early thirties.Thank GOD today am blessed with a good looking husband.Please take the tot off your mind that all ur mate are married let that be the last thing on your mind,God is the giver of husband let him direct you to your husband and to all single babes with all the life lesson on this blog God will give everyone of them a man they deserve and 2015 this blog will have a wedding post in IHN INSHA ALLAH.

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  67. You'll end up head over heels for that guy, life has a funny way of giving us what we want.. in reverse. Most skinny dudes are packed under o, don't let their skinny frame fool you. Besides, if you don't love him don't get married to him, simple! Don't make marriage be miserable for him please. Leave him so he can marry a girl that loves him or that isn't irritated or ashamed of him.

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  68. Poster 2 God has a way of punishing people like you, mistcheewww! You better leave the man alone. You think you can decide when to have kids? Oh mehn you're in for a long thing!

    Society is not the problem, people like you are the problem of the society.I can guarantee you that you're going to fall in love with mister and he won't give you the time of day. I hope you get those kids you're looking for immediately because omo you will hate yourself if God keeps you on the waiting list.

    Everybody always calling society like they are separated from it and have nothing to do with how society is structured. I'm sure you're the type that would encourage homosexuals to marry and make their straight partners miserable just to keep up appearances.

    I really doubt you're that pretty, pretty women always have a plethora of suitors to choose from and sometimes irrespective of their characters.Just so you know he might feel the exact same way about you, lol.On a brighter note, this might be your God ordained husband that you might come to enjoy later, so have that in mind :)

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  69. jeez why would you marry someone you dont like and why would you let someone you dont love disvirgin you......am so not in support of getting married to someone you have no ounce of likeness for.....@least if you like one thing about him itz different but itz obvious everything about him isnt to you liking....

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  70. I dated these very slim guy for 4 years him penis length no be here oh! The thing long no be small.He was filling,and we were always careful for him not to tear me.your man may just be well endowed down there.

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  71. Hehehe! Where do I begin? Yes poster 1, you've really made a fool of yourself enough, calling him and telling him your mind does not solve anything, rather it opens a fresh wound. Why can't girls have self respect bikonu? You allowed yourself to be used cos you saw the handwriting on the wall and you still want to make a bigger fool of yourself. Abeg have self respect and move on Biko. Poster 2, your case is a bit ticky cos of your age, if you have not fixed a date, would have adviced you to leave him cos you will be miserable all your life, but you just have to move on with the marriage cos a date have been fixed. Goodluck

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  72. Sdk readers, please I need a durable android phone within the price range of 10k to 15k. Which will u advice I buy?

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    1. Blackberry passport
      *coversface

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    2. Go for Tecno considering the amount u have.
      You'l get a gud android fone with @ least 4.0 jelly bean android version or even 4.2...
      P5 is about 12k-15k
      Dias M3,H5,D5..etc

      Buh if u hate tecno devices,u can go for a UK used samsung galaxy grand or galaxy core(still android oo)...u can get it @ 15k if u bargain well.

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  73. Poster 1. Helloooooo??? D relationship was spelt out in d beginning. U shud knw dat a friends wit benefit kinda relationship wouldn't lead anywhere. Get over it mennnnn. Poster 2. It shouldn't be abt his looks n physique alone. Try to love dat gentleman. FYI, 80% of skinny nigga's re not tiny down there. Lol

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  74. @poster1..I think u're forcing urself on him! The guy had told u right from time that the relationship wasn't going anywhere! Pls have some respect for urself joor! Poster2..aww I feel really bad for u ooh! I don't know how to advice u on this one sha! all I can say is that, all will be well in the end!

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  75. Poster 1.U diserve slap from me to wake up o!Aunty Stella God bless u jowi.U have told her d whole truth....if u want listen if u want dont.
    Poster 2.In CAPITAL LETTERS! NEVER U GO INTO THAT MARRAIGE IF YOU KNOW YOU DONT LOVE DAT NKEM OWOH GUY ENOF O!!!!! If not you will leave the rest of your life in regret.If u swear d oath wit him God is involved but if u call it quite and look for who u wil love at least a little b4 marraige dat is cool.ONCE U CROSS OVER TO MARRAIGE GOD WILL NEVER ACCEPT INFIDELITY or DIVORCE FROM U.GOD HAS SPOKEN O.

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  76. Poster one:u were playing with fire and u did not expect to get burnt?he told u rite from time dat he won't get married to uuu but u decided to still row with him so y are u getting hurt now.... did u not expect something like dis to happen someday??just give ursef some prestige by letting him go.....and have it in mind dat u deserve better
    Poster two:cant blif is ur Hubi to b dat u are talking abt in such manner....if u think dat u can't manage him u better don't walk down dat aisle with him but u will b surprised dat dis guy u talk abt in such way.... dere are gals out dere praying for dem to have dat kind of guy....but u mite get to love him wen u get married u never know how tinz wud work out.....all d same HML to u in advance

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  77. Wow!!! @ Narrative 2

    First of all, slim guys have the biggest 'johnny'.
    Second, feed him well. He'll look healthy when you take good care of him and maybe, he'll look handsome to you.
    Babes, pls try and like him(i can't force u to love him), even if na small. And do your duties as a wife.

    God help and bless your home abeg.

    I wonder what will be on the poor guy's mind. And how he even feels about you.

    This your story really got me thinking.
    God abeg o!

    Let all these years not be in vain.

    I will be swept of my feet and it will be a night to remember. Amen.

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  78. N1, you have nothing on this guy at all. Please face your front jor, rubbish! The guy told you what he wanted from day one and you agreed now you want to start blaming him. Mtcheeew. I beg waka comot for my face. *long hiss* Most of you will know a guy is with another lady you still open your ugly legs for them, It serves you and your type right. N2, lol at Nkem Owoh kind of suffer head look..hahaha…Don't marry this guy it is obvious you don't love him.

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  79. Two extra stories 4 d gods. Poster one, pls dnt put ursef in a situation u wld regret. Poster 2: HML

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  80. Better marry him and leave your father's house, you might be surprised what he's carrying down dere u never can tell o, love will come.

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  81. Poster 1: go on ur knees and thank God, because break up from another faith is a way of God protection
    Poster 2: thin n tall guys usually have it down there. Lege lege can destroy

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  82. Uhm...
    Well...
    Poster2...Dude may be well loaded. I have seen for a fact that thin guys are well packed.

    Poster 1...Can someone explain to me what this narrative is about.


    XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. Really?
      Thanks for d encouragement

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    2. XOXO my XOXO where ve u been? Happy new year dear.

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  83. Some pipo just like to disturb us with annoying stories shaaaaa

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  84. Poster1 I can't belive u don't reason well at your age u are christian and your marriage with the muslim guy was never going to happen my advice is make sure u r d boss of your rship next time let a guy worship you and not the otherway round carry yourself like a queen that you are and stay away from sex it makes one blind when it comes to decisions

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  85. The pressure to answer 'Mrs' tho. *kmt
    Poster 1 pls gather the Lil respect u hav left & move on. Delete that dude frm all ur social netwrks.

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  86. Nothing to type to the both of you jare.

    Aeegurl...

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  87. Well today chronicles made me lol... Truly both of u are suffering from self hate, I don't know how else to sound, Poster 1 he told you he was not interested in a relationship and you thought he would change his mind? See self love is very important, even the good book says love your neighbor as you love yourself, so you have to love yourself first, pls next time don't open your eyes and let someone put pepper in it.

    Poster 2 you hate the guy you are about to marry, hmm let me spell it out for you, if you don't start loving him immediately the rest of your marriage is going to be a living nightmare and you will cheat on him, so it's not too late to wait for Mr right and pls stop blaming society....

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  88. Poster2...thin guys generally have long blokos oo.lmao.i wish u well.poster1,i dont even no wat to say to u.no nid to waste my mb

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  89. @Narrative n1;the deed has been done...he cant come back to you again cos he even made it known to you that your friendship with him was just for the benefit,and now he is just with the exact person he wants to be with..
    Soo to help yourself;start up the new year with no regrets..i wont advice you to call him stating how he hurt you,but if calling him would ease the pain you feel;then do it today and just dont allow any of these exceed 11:59pm today..wish you all the best..

    @Narrative N2;you have to understand what you need out of life..never go into marriage with deceit..
    First of all lemme ask you this;how would you feel if the table was turned around and it was your husband doing this to you?? Azin him getting married to you simply because he wanted kids from you and never loved you at first?? Wont you feel used and betrayed??
    My advice to you is this;forget society and what they would say..if you dont love this man and you need kids;while not get a sperm donated to you and you carry your baby yourself?? Or even adopt or try surrogacy?? You have a lot of options which can make you stay happy forever than going into a marriage where you know there isnt love for you on the long run...believe me you arent the first single mother who is to be out there..just consider this mans emotion and opt out now before its too late..cos what you are about to do is much more than betrayal..
    Note:Do what makes you happy and forget about wagging tongues or society!! Cos no matter what;there must be something to be talked about...
    All the best to you!!

    PLS CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD MY LATEST NAIJA PARTY MIXTAPE

    @MARTINS ABOY

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    1. Surrogacy and sperm donor in àfrica?
      Wake up honey...
      I don't live in the us

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    2. Anon, which bush in Africa do u live? Lol. FYI sperm donors abound here, surrogates are always arranged, if u want a white baby via donor egg,u can do it in africa. Ask abt it in any fertility hospital inugo?

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  90. poster2 I feel your pain..after waiting faithfully for dat dream man dat will make u feel on top of the world u find yourself in wat you didnt bargain for bcos of circumstance beyond ur control.pls sista,since you have accepted to marry him do not furstrate or vent your anger n disappointment on him...with time you will love him..God b with you.

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  91. Na skinny guys carry big blokos pass oooo..... Don't get it twisted.....

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  92. Dats d society we live in.try and let ur marriage work,with time u might fall in love with him.and saying cos he is skinny his tin will be small is a big joke cos u might be surprised.lol.there are skinny guys dat have d biggest dicks,no be by body weight them dey measure am oooomu go see ogbunikwe and u go fear fear itself.hahaha

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  93. THELMA ENEMUWE said...
    Steaming hot chronicles...
    Poster1---u berra dust urself and wake up from ur self inflict hrtbrk,you brought it all on urself,u acted like a cheap classless bitch and now ure trying to suck after he dumped ur cheap pussy...ure berra wake up for ur own gud before life passes you by and also,make sure you don't call d guy cos he's freakingly married to his diamond......
    Poster2---this is the worst tin dat can ever happen to anyone,entering a loveless marriage and to say ure gonna walk into it with ur two eyes wide open is beyond me,anyway,since age is not on ur side,u just gat to manage nooni,,i wish u d best of luck and may u grow sudden love towards ur hubby as u walk down dat aise....
    *faithful BV enemuwe thelma*

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  94. Poster no 1, You brought it all upon yourself. Dance to your own music.

    Poster no 2, I dont even know what to say to you. You should never succumb to pressure to get married. And to think you dont even like him, let alone love him, has thrown me into a state of confusion oo. Well, lets see how it turns out, Stella might be right, you might even love him after marriage. Until then, dance to your own tune.

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    1. Not every one gets lucky to marry for love.
      at least I wont marry for money which most girls do nowadays

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    2. Not every one gets lucky to marry for love.
      at least I wont marry for money which most girls do nowadays

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  95. Stella biko where is that your seat when we need it! Narrative 2 isn't a small something.

    For narrative 1, I'll be honest with you. Why do women really put themselves in these situations? I met a guy in June whom I liked. We hung out a lot and even did the deed only for him to come up with they story of not bsing ready at 33? How I was a great girl and deserved someone better. But guess what still wanted us to keep hanging out and acting cool. I gave myself sense and moved on. Guess what not soon after that I met my current boyfriend who is way better, smarter, more prayeful and focused. From the first day we met he told me straight up he wanted commitment and made it official. I was even the one who told him to give me time to think about accepting his request. My whole point is even you don't make an effort to move on you'll never know whether something better is waiting to happen. His married now so let him be in peace. Calling him to tell hI'm how you feel won't change a thing. He chose her. Accept it, learn from it and move on.

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  96. Poster number 1...ur case na sorry...u put urself inside one chance...such is life.

    Poster 2...I have a word for u...just hang in there...av been in dis exact same situation...this time last year to be precise...if u dint think it was bad Enough for u to have broken up d relationship don't worry...na wedding fever dey do u.
    I too tot my husband was too ugly, in fact he was...so skinny and stressed!....he dint even have money too cos we contributed for the wedding...I paid more cos I was earning more. Truth is,I could not actually see the love or whatever...I tot I was goin to have a plastic smile on my wedding day, I was almost depressed.
    But I knew he loved me like mad, he was committed to me, he could give his life
    I actually loved him too, I was a virgin til marriage too...but bcos I refused a lot of rich handsome guys with better prospects cos they did not have same values, ideas and future goals as me, the devil was just playing on my mind telling me I short changed myself. But I was convinced he loved me too bad.
    long story short , we got married last year, he is my best success story ever. One year of bliss it has been, one year of being treated like a queen in my own home, one year of being loved and I have loved him in return.
    Come to think of it wat do u want to do with fat body and fine face? A man who was disciplined enough to keep u a virgin all these while, my dear, marry ur man. Feed him, make him a fine boy. Love him.
    My bobo is now fresh and cute, am even beginning to feel insecure...lol
    Forget it, slim guys are more endowed than fat or full guys.. My guy is well endowed...the sex is out of this world...and did I tell you he was a virgin also... Too disciplined and principled.
    Those friends u r looking at that are making you feel this way, a few years down the line where will they be with their fine boys.
    Some of my friends are divorced already, yes o less than two years marriage... Infact I thank God everyday I wake up to see my Prince Charming by my side.
    Summary of my story, u wl be fine, as far as he loves you and u love him ( I know the devil won't let you see that now, but trust me you do), hold onto what you have and make it grow. Don't be deceived, the grass is not always greener on the other side in reality.
    I pray God be with you , guide and bless your marriage. Don't give in. I wish I could talk to you. If you leave your email here il contact you.

    And believe me baby, God has blessed us so much since we got married we can't believe it. We had no money dis time last year , in one year our millions are almost in double figures now. Stay positive!

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    2. Thank God for your story my dear, poster 2 I have been in your shoes too and it was not an easy decision. Just pray to God for direction and go with your Man if he has other good qualities apart from the physical attributes. I don't know why good things are not packed in a flashy attractive containers.

      One and Only Ada David Omobabalanu

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  97. Poster number 1...ur case na sorry...u put urself inside one chance...such is life.

    Poster 2...I have a word for u...just hang in there...av been in dis exact same situation...this time last year to be precise...if u dint think it was bad Enough for u to have broken up d relationship don't worry...na wedding fever dey do u.
    I too tot my husband was too ugly, in fact he was...so skinny and stressed!....he dint even have money too cos we contributed for the wedding...I paid more cos I was earning more. Truth is,I could not actually see the love or whatever...I tot I was goin to have a plastic smile on my wedding day, I was almost depressed.
    But I knew he loved me like mad, he was committed to me, he could give his life
    I actually loved him too, I was a virgin til marriage too...but bcos I refused a lot of rich handsome guys with better prospects cos they did not have same values, ideas and future goals as me, the devil was just playing on my mind telling me I short changed myself. But I was convinced he loved me too bad.
    long story short , we got married last year, he is my best success story ever. One year of bliss it has been, one year of being treated like a queen in my own home, one year of being loved and I have loved him in return.
    Come to think of it wat do u want to do with fat body and fine face? A man who was disciplined enough to keep u a virgin all these while, my dear, marry ur man. Feed him, make him a fine boy. Love him.
    My bobo is now fresh and cute, am even beginning to feel insecure...lol
    Forget it, slim guys are more endowed than fat or full guys.. My guy is well endowed...the sex is out of this world...and did I tell you he was a virgin also... Too disciplined and principled.
    Those friends u r looking at that are making you feel this way, a few years down the line where will they be with their fine boys.
    Some of my friends are divorced already, yes o less than two years marriage... Infact I thank God everyday I wake up to see my Prince Charming by my side.
    Summary of my story, u wl be fine, as far as he loves you and u love him ( I know the devil won't let you see that now, but trust me you do), hold onto what you have and make it grow. Don't be deceived, the grass is not always greener on the other side in reality.
    I pray God be with you , guide and bless your marriage. Don't give in. I wish I could talk to you. If you leave your email here il contact you.

    And believe me baby, God has blessed us so much since we got married we can't believe it. We had no money dis time last year , in one year our millions are almost in double figures now. Stay positive!

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    1. Poster 2 please come and read this comment and be inspired

      Poster 1 abeg get some sense of self worth and move on with ur life.. Step into the new year like a boss and welcome and that new and better relationship that will definitely come ur way..

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  98. #1; Awwwwww! Sorry baby.The 'friends with benefits"  ish is normally played by people who are sexually attracted to each other but emotionally detached from each other. It's done primarily to "scratch an itch". Never condescend to that level just to keep a guy in your life. I'm not applauding the dude's actions but his intentions were pretty straightforward from the start. You couldn't bear to see the writings on the wall boldly written in neon green because it reveals the fact that you were never an item. Honey, I keep saying this, men are wired to detach their emotions from their penises. A guy can have sex with you and not even want to know your name. To him, sex is just a sport but we, women "make love" to a guy having sex with us and we go in body and soul and release bonding hormones which make us feel attached to the guy.

    You kinda saw this coming but your denial got the better of you. You know you've got it bad when in a sexual relationship, you're the one asking for a more serious relationship. In your case, the dude actually turned down your request, still you held on. Probably you even tried to up your sexual prowess. I feel sad because I keep seeing young girls repeating this mistake over and over again. A man should beg for your time and attention, carry yourself in a way that he will feel privileged to have you in his life. You have to know your worth and treat yourself   with dignity. Darling, why do you think a guy will respect you when you, obviously, don't respect yourself? 

    Closure should have begun the minute you found out he was engaged, unfortunately, you thought you could "love him up" strong enough for him to choose you and love you in return. Awww! Sweetie, love doesn't roll that way. You can't force your heart to beat for who it doesn't want. As a matter of fact, you'll end up irritating a guy if you try too hard to win his heart which belongs to another. There are no shortcuts to the pain you feel. It's part of growing pains, you have to wait it out and hopefully learn from your mistakes. 

    Please, my love, lose his number. What are you calling your married ex for? No closure can come out of it, you'll only end up reactivating your "friends with benefits" relationship and whatever shred of respect he has /had for you will go down the drain. Please salvage what's left of your dignity and wait for a guy deserving of you to come looking for you. In the interim, please keep your thighs closed. #e-bearhugs.‎

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  99. Babe, this "ugly, thin guy" married you despite the fact that he never slept with you. This "ugly, thin guy", paid every kobo for your wedding even though you have money and did not contribute... 5 years from today, please come back with your testimony of being in love with the BEST MAN ON EARTH. You are lucky!!! You got a man with a good heart and that's you all you need for a happy marriage. Check out poster no 1's story; the guy who broke her heart is most likely a cute guy... You don't know how blessed you are in a generation when women are now paying their own bride price. BTW, most skinny guys are huge down there...thank me later.

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  100. P2. You made the decision to marry him not because you were forced, but because of pressure both perceived and real. Please be good to your hubby if you go ahead to marry him, don't make his life miserable or push him to be unfaithful or turn to wife beater. Also remember what the bible tells us about the duties of a wife, since you're a Christian follow these principles and leave the rest to God.
    Hope the man loves you at least, because where there no love, impunity and chaos reign.

    P.S. Even though you have your reasons for getting married to THIS man, also know that marriage comes with its own baggage.

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    1. I won't be bad..
      Will try my best and feed him six times a day so he gets body..lol
      Thanks so much for your advice

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    2. You're welcome. Am sure you'll be fine, please update us in a year's time. God bless your union.

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  101. You shouldn't marry this guy out of desperation and age,and stop blaming yourself,trust in God,don't give up,imagine the kind of miserable life you are about to begin with a man you despise,remember this is till death do you part,God never fails and is never too late,revaluate your life,most times people think they have done all they need to and deserve God's blessings,its not that way,God chooses to show his mercy on whomever he pleases,consecrate your heart and cry out to HIM for mercy ,asK him to remember you,he never sleeps,HE never slumbers,HIS ears are not too long or HIM to haer YOU,nor are HIS hands to short to Bless you but your SINS are the barriers,search yourself my dear poster and ask for GOD'S mercyand HE will surely see You through

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  102. Wooowwwww!poster 2.

    Firstly, your sole reason of marriage should be because you want to spend eternity with the man. It's a selfish reason to want to marry the man you're marrying because of kids. What if your hate for him grows and you both eventually break up? what then happens to the kids? they'd be scarred. See, it's the heart that matters not physical attributes.

    You best be happy you have such a beautiful soul(if he is) to spend the rest of your life with. So many ppl wud kill to have what you have.

    Do not let vanity hinder you from the true joy God has prepared for you. If you cannot look past this man's physical attributes, please do not marry him. You are not doing him a favour.

    Poster 1: If you truly want closure I would have said call him but he's now married. So find closure within yourself and move on. See it as a blessing in disguise. You'd find someone much much better who would love appreciate you.

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  103. Poster N2 u are not serious oooooo haba, try to love him, u may end up loving him hopelessly, HML in advance. Poster 1, have some dignity will you. Please move on already, its gon be alright okay, enter 2015 with smiles and hope that someone better is gonna come your way, so hang out more. Meet new people, look beautiful, smile more okay. Love

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  104. Poster1,closure Ke??d guy didn't do anitin wrong to u ooo,he was plain from d beginning...its kinda hard cos u got attached Buh u haff to move OK,Broz Don marry,don't be tagged a 'homewrecker or a stalker'!!
    Poster2,Na wa oooo!!!try and overlook d bad sides of d man and focus on d gud side OK??or beta still,call off d wedding....marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured and its for a lifetime,no be say tomao now,u go write anoda mail telling us of 'wat u're passing tru'....Take some time out and think abt wat u really want,love Urself first cos if u do,u wud knw Dat u deserve d best and shudnt be 'settling' for anitin less......Enjoy!!!

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    1. Nope...I wont write another mail saying what am going through that's why i wrote this now ..
      I know why I am getting married not all of us are lucky enough to get the chariots and fire kinda marriage the some people have so we should make do with what we get..
      I will do my best to be a good wife and the rest will fall into place by His grace

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  105. Madam
    Skinny Men have the Biggest D__k !

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    1. Seconded!!!
      Anaconda DICK infact

      *shines teeth**

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  106. #1 Nne kindly move on just like Stella said, calling him might make him come visit you one day and the 'using' continues....I know you don't want that.....so now, hang out with ur girls a lot, avoid staying alone so you don't think of him.....with time you'll find closure....sh*t happens,.....move on dear, move on!!....when you finally do, you'll see he aint worth it....*e-hugs*

    #2, not like you dislike ur boo, you just don't like his 'looks'.....(Na God image oh)....ehen, to the matter now, why don't you make out of him the kind of man you want.....feed him with a lot of veggies, fruits, healthy carbs and body building exercise...that will be fun you know.....maybe na 2much 'hustling' no let am eat well. Also get him a good moisturisers and make him dress well too, you'll see how 'Denzel Washingtoned' he'll come out...good skin equates 50% beauty......nke eji ka oh!

    Choi na me be this? See epistle!

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    1. He dresses well
      In fact he even get cloth pass me see. .lol
      What gives me hope is dat if Will Smith from the days of Fresh Prince ( you know how reed thin he was) can have body now then all hope is not lost

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  107. Wummi, pls find something in him to love, like d bible says that there are 7 gifts of d holy spirit, but no one possess dt 7, u hv at least 1, so find one thing in him to love, and cherish, forget the physical attractions, look inside, I bet u , u ll smile at last. Happy married life, smile it is well.

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  108. Wummi, pls find something in him to love, like d bible says that there are 7 gifts of d holy spirit, but no one possess dt 7, u hv at least 1, so find one thing in him to love, and cherish, forget the physical attractions, look inside, I bet u , u ll smile at last. Happy married life, smile it is well.

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  109. God have mercy on ur pple oooo come dis 2015...

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  110. God have mercy on ur pple oooo come dis 2015...

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  111. God have mercy on ur pple oooo come dis 2015...

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  112. poster two,
    u'd be surprised @ the number of ladies that married 'the next available guy'... All i can say is, just put your best into it, u might ending falling head over heels in love with 'the wowo man'. Lol.
    Poster 1
    theres an igbo song that says.. Have a relationship with a good person,in case of marriage. Next tym u go was ur eyes with hypo before jumping into a relationship.

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  113. I second Stella for dis o. Good to you poster 2. Poster 1 please move on DON'T CALL HIM AGAIN o na u cause ur problem so give yourself time you will heal.

    HAPPY NEW YEAR Bv

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  114. It's clear you like it big dear, the fact that your man is punny doesn't make his d*ck small. If he got height, be assure he got 7-9 inches. The worst will be 6" plus but very fat. So, let the size of his dick not be a barrier... I assure you, you will like his dick in two weeks.
    Please come back to tell us the experience after your wedding night.


    My Birthday loading... January 5th...#TeamCapricorn #TeamJanBorn

    »»Jealous SDKer««

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  115. Poster2 ..Why marry someone you don't love..Why not find a reason to love him instead of criticizing him..Was the marriage arranged?? Why no think about the future and that of the kids.. You wanna end up been a single mother or what? Please you need someone to live you and make you feel like the woman you want to be.. God bless you

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    1. Love shouldn't be the only reason to get married Na. .a bit?

      At least am not getting married because of money like Dabota
      *lips sealed

      I will try and make it work.don't worry

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  116. Poster 1, what is your problem? Kilo de? The guy didn't make any commitment and u didn't put your mind there, so why are u forming vexation ? I feel u love this guy and want him to date you and leave his fiancèè . Just forming issues when it isn't necessary. Abeg relax joor
    Poster 2, marriage isn't by force no matter the age u are, women these days find their love at age 50 . U too relax

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  117. E no go easy at all...
    Narative 1: all d signs were dere that d guy is not serious, you were obviously forcing urself on him. Please move on and dont sell urself so cheap again

    Narrative number 2: I like that you are honest about your self and your feelings and not living in denial. You know wat u are about to walk into. My only advise, just know this is a man you are supposed to be with forever. Maybe, you can learn to love him

    2015 will be my year of answered prayers

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  118. Stella of life..... lmao @ all blokos contains sperm. Choi! What won't I hear on sdk o?
    P1 pls move on. U don't need closure 4 nada, u only feel used
    P2 at some point I see U loving dis skinny guy sha
    Happy new year people

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  119. 1: y will u call em abi u nva tire fr d sex,d mallam tell u sey em no want serious fin n u de busy de v feelings... Deal wif ur demons ursef n leav em alone to face his new bride.
    2:I wish u well cos many pple marry fr dis same reasons n end up loving d guy.love ur kids wen dey come sha evn if dem fit look like ur husband wela.

    ~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~

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  120. Narrator 1: You deserve much more, stay clear of your ex, he has nothing good to offer you.

    Narrator 2: God is your strength.

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  121. N1: your hurt comes from the fact that you feel USED! Sex always complicates relationships. Pls do not contact him. There's no point. Just close that chapter of your life.

    N2: no comment!

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  122. Poster 2;Stella that came out in a sarcastic way,I know that's actually what you intended sha.anyways,babe there are somethings one can't stand,I can't stand worms,so I must not go to hell,if you can't stand this man you are about to marry nne eh,the life you feel is miserable now will be ten times worse.but like our mothers will say then when we had suitors we didn't like..'Marry him first,love will come later' if you can't,don't! If you are sure you can, just bear it and give all your love to his/your kids,its the life you have chosen. Beware of how life sometimes works,once you marry this suffer-head thin man with maybe small shrunken blokos..your knight in shinning amour may appear from nowhere and ask you;where have you been all my life. Goodluck.

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  123. Poster 1, reading through SKD's comments I had to smile as I imagined her wearing the headmistress glasses. My dear, move on the guy is married and has moved on, take it out of your mind. So what if you were really hurt, when you tell him, what are you expecting from him? to say sorry? ok I say it on his behalf. Heartbreaks are hard, but they make you stronger, think better, and you are the better for it. You said you are a Christian ask the Lord to remove it from your heart. Its the dawn of a new year, prepare yourself for good things, including a guy you would like. If it comes fine if it doesn't still fine but have fun. And enjoy life. You never really how much of it you have. Stop mourning for a guy who is married. you are probably far from his mind.
    Poster 2, There are 2 sides to a coin. On one side what if you end up not being happy with this man? what if you don't have the babies you are hoping for, I hope you know that is a possibility? Its clear you are marrying this guy for the wrong reasons, and he probably knows. Its not fair on you or the guy. There are no guarantees in a marriage. Cos you really don't have the aces in your hand. Sit down, take a deep breath, ask yourself do you really want to go down this road? A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. I know a lady who broke up her engagement a week before the wedding, I don't know the reasons, but today she is happily married and has a baby. I cant imagine lying beside a man I don't love. Its not going to be a one time thing. ITs for LIFE. Pls, sit down and instruct yourself. it wont be right for you to come back here and tell us tales of your married life and you can see clearly now. All the best.

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  124. N1...you played yourself hun. I cant understand your hurt. Bobo told you right from jump but you thought you could change his mind right? Wrong. Learn a lesson and move on. This guys only offense is that he cheated on his wife to be, he did not for one day lie to you. You lied to yourself. If a man is not giving you what you want,leave him. Playing cool will not win you points, it will just keep you as a side chic ok...ok!

    N2...It is better to be a single mother than deceptively marry. But we live in a society where fake marriages abound, I hope you fall for this man and I hope he stays nice. Also, when you do make friends please do not make the mistake of mouthing off that you married him just for kids ok...ok!

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  125. P1. Respect yourself and let go of him and his memories. Why would you call him and tell him you are hurt? So that he would know he still care? To hell with him and he feel the pain the pain that you feel. May he be used as he used you. May he be led on as he led you on.
    P2. Welcome to the club hun.
    My case isn't as bad as yours. At least he is good looking and has an average size dick. But he's got no money. Lol.
    I married for society. Am I happy? WelI, I think I ve resigned myself to faith. And frankly the boredom gets to me a lot. So good luck. May you find everything you went to look for in that marriage. But pls, I implore you to try and respect the poor man despite that fact that you are not in love with him.

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  126. Poster 1 -which closure again? the guy is married case don already close,what else do you want.
    Poster 2 -I understand you and I wish u d very best.
    Happy new year in advance to all BVs snd to Stella

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  127. Poster 1: stop showing yourself cheap before that man..if you were important enough he would have married you. So MOVE ON before it will be too late.
    Poster 2: you said you are a virgin right? How then did you know that is pennis is small? Please instead of hurting him in future, just open up to him now, let him go for who will appreciate and love him the way he is. And you, go and wait for fine boy or long or fat prick.

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  128. Wipes tears from eyes** poster 2 your story got to me,but your husband to be's my spec o,I like them thin and sle sle,na dem dey sabi fire pass. I have warned my husband that he better not get fat on me or else he will eat only once a day and sleep in the gym *shines teeth* learn to love him since he's in love with you,it won't be that hard to love him. I wish you marital bliss. Poster 2 you saw the farm full,yet you went ahead to plant your groundnuts on it (yoruba proverb). You thought bedmatics would make him love you,but it doesn't work that way. Dust your self and start over. Ndo.

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  129. All these "situation-ships" pass my head oo.

    But seriously, Poster 2. How can you think of walking down d aisle with a man u detest so much? Even in marriages where there is love, love is just not enough to keep the marriage. A time will come when the love u have for each other will pass thru hard times and at such times its d "friendship" between the two of you that will help you sail through.....now my question is, when such time plays itself in your marital journey, how do u intend to survive/cope(cos i can see u there's no friendship bond btw you and this man)? All the same, i wish you well and i hope you just have reasons to love this man at least for the sake of your unborn kids who are d primary reasons for this union.

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  130. Poster 1: You sef, why will you lead yourself and the guy on when you know fully well that it will end no where? Common! As christians we are highly jealous seeing our hubby taking a second wife which you know this your muslim bf will do if he even marries you. What I'm I even saying, all ladies ni jare...
    I wonder why you want to call a married man. Wetin you want tell am? That you are angry he left you which you are sure will happen if not now, later. Sorry to say this but you cause your heart break my dear. Pelee.
    Poster 2: hnmmm your story sounds painful to me and I hope you won't regret your decision in future.

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  131. Poster N1: you have to move on and forget about the guy..it can be painful but from the onset you knew it would be like this.
    N2: Marrying for this reason without love hmmm when the children grow up and leave for school what would keep you people going? I really wish you get to love this your hubby..

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  132. Poster 2: you want to make babies right? Do you think your babies will be handsome or beautiful when you marry him? Please leave him and wait for fine boy, then you will see the pretiest lady that he will get married to. You are a virgin and you are saying his thing is small, please how did you see it and when?###fakebeautifulvirgingirl### longhisss.....

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  133. Poster 1: You have answers to your question
    Poster2:what your Man has down there will shock You!!!! Try to Compliment people, see their beauty and not their flaws Only!!!

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  134. Poster 1: Did he browse . . .I mean, did he browse under your skirt? That is most likely the reason you feel used and dumped. When you were "hanging out" with a man you knew from the very beginning that he will not marry you, what were you thinking? Well, dust yourself and let him be; he's married. Seek God and have peace and he will fulfill your life

    Poster 2: My fear here is that you might end up in adultery! Yes, you'd have your babies but what of affection and companionship -the first essence of marriage? When tomorrow you meet someone like the guy you talked about 4 years ago, in a secluded place, will you not allow him "dis-virgin" you again? Will you not willingly "open your website" for him to browse . . .? It's just the fear I have. Well, let's also say that husbands are not only found in parties and clubs and hangout. . . what about fellowships . . . schools . . . etc. I met my wife in such a place.

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  135. Hey dear, will tell you my story.
    Am a very tall girl even with my height I love wearing heels. I have always wanted a tall guy with a broad chest and six packs. A sexy guy with a pink lips and the rest of it all.
    But at last my dear hubby came my way but is the opposite of me, he smallish in statue not fat at all even after four years of marriage I was scared of even telling my friends he is the one it took me time to accept him but dear with prayers and all he is the best man I have ever come across in my entire life, with the best of heart with time I don't see the difference again am so proud of him and today we are blessed with three beautiful and handsome kids. He loves me and the kids to a fault and we are happy.
    Love your man yes do love him, don't see yourself more beautiful than him, he is your hubby be proud of him with time you will forget his appearance but see handsome ness in him good luck dear.

    Zibah.

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  136. N1: How could you reduce urself to such level? You sounded so uncultured. Biko, add value to ur life and move on. You need to work on ur confidence level.

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  137. poster 1
    You were his side chick who refused to read the handwritting on the wall! when you found out that he had engaged another girl, why did you confront him? you should have just walked away! I dont blame him for using and dumping you, I blame you for thinking with your heart! Abeg move on and forget about him jor, is he the only man on earth?

    poster 2
    I dont know why some ladies love men who dont love them and hate men who love them! Am sure you were busy selecting men while you were still in your 20s.You are even lucky a man wants to marry you at your age.My 40 something years old rich aunt is looking for a man to buy, she hasn't been lucky because they all end up using and dumping her inspite of her money.God has blessed you with a man who loves you and you are here complaining about his "ukwa" looks and how tiny his dick would be because of his thin and suffer head body! How come a virgin prefers a big dick to a tiny dick? You sure say u be virgin at all? Pls, if you dont love this man, call off the wedding and let him be, you dont deserve him!

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  138. Poster 2: funny thing once you are married ur Hubby wd change. He wnt be so skinny cos he wd eat well. Lol. C ehn u wd even be scared of girls outside sef. Just make an effort to tolerate him and grow to love him. It's apparent he likes u too. Pele.

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  139. Bitchplis if you say you have repented i forgive you, I read your comment and was too disgusted to attack you. Go and sin no more.

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  140. Poster 1$2 follow stella's advise, I can't write any epistle.



    *Rmn blessed*

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  141. ummm for the first poster..u sold urself cheap so dnt be disappointed jos move on wit d little dignity u av cos he saw ur weak point (dat u luved him) dats y he exploited u emotionally..while d second poster pls erase all these complaints frm ur mind n open a clean chaste for me at least av d likeness of human being 4me then wit God being d bedrock of ur marriage wit time luv will grow.just make sure u do tins in common (lyk go shopping, visit frds,take a stroll,worship in same church etc) so dat u will nt end lukin urselves like morons wen there is no lite to kip both of u engrossed.umm 4 d dick,i lack knowledge in dat but u can sprinkle him water on ur honeymoon nite b4 d main action.there is nothing God can't do*winks*

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  142. Poster1:sorry u r to blame not d guy,pick up ur heart n guide it jealously until u find d right guy.
    Poster2: person wey get head nor get cap,person wey get cap nor get head. U should be grateful that u have a man to call ur hubby n pray to God for things to work out between both of u...above all make him ur best friend,hangout a lot, perhaps d feelings may develop from there.

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  143. Poster 2, if you torment that man, i pray he sends you away as soon as possible cos people like you don't deserve to get married.

    Poster 2 get lost!

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  144. Poster 1$2 follow stella's advise, I can't write any epistle.



    *Rmn blessed*

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