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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
MARRIAGE PLANS HALTED BY SNOOPING...OOPS!

Hi Mrs Dimoko, i enjoy reading your blog. you are doing a great job . Please i need your advice and that of the fellow blog visitors please.Here is my long story.

 I had just had a broken relationship when i met this other guy on a social media late 2013, he lived where you Madam Stella lives. I didnt really like his kind of job as a disc jockey but he kept pestering me so i decided to give him a chance. Made it known to him that i dislike his job as par it isn't decent but he said he was just doing it for the main time and promised to quit soon. 

We started a long distant relationship. At a point, he started sending gifts including a semi new phone.i went through his past chats(he forgot to delete) and discovered that he has a babymama which he's yet to mention to me till now, though they are separated.

He was very into our relationship, he arranged that i meet with some of his relations since he could not be home yet cos he was arranging to get his papers(he fixed date about 5 times to come but failed). The siblings liked me 

( so he said). He will swear that he ll never cheat on me, he  will be loyal, respectful, that i am all he wished for bla bla.i believed him. 

Whenever i refer to him as my boyfriend, he will get offended saying he's my hubby not boyfriend lol

My guy finally came home after over a year of dating. Met him physically for the first time. During a random discussion, i collected  his phone for a selfie afterwards, proceeded to check his chat history. what did i see? naked pics of girls, sexy chats with random girls, even got to know that he was in town 2times after i met him but he didn't make any effort to see me. I was so angry, i queried the naked pics and him being in naija without my knowledge but he said he only lied to the lady. That the maked pictures are just one of those things

Now, he's planning for us to go to the village for introduction but my trust in him has drastically reduced. Am i just being paranoid? He's a nice person though in his 40's.

*Side eyes at #teamsnoop members.

Anything concerning snooping i no dey house because if i say now i will be quoted and cussed out so i dare not ask you why you snooped on his phone.

Nigerian men in Germany, i raise yansh for some of them,if ladies back home know what they do here and how they prostitute to get money or papers,i dont think anyone will look at them..there are a few good ones though but the quest to survive is real and they are all over.

If you ask me,i would say that you do not marry him just yet but let me see what your #teamsnoop members have to say.

Make nobody cuss me oh...i don run...

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

CONFUSED BETWEEN TWO MEN

Good day Stella kork *cork* hehehe, I love you scarra, i'll go straight to the point.

I dated this guy for 3yrs, he was my first guy and he was all over me, over protective and possessive ( so I thought) because of this I had to quit the relationship, although people said I left him cos he had nothing again, but deep down my soul it wasn't true,although during that period he wanted to travel but because of me he refused to travel and followed me anywhere I go, I got irritated,i wanted him to be a man and the only option was to breakup with him cos advising him was a waste of time.

 it was a very difficult decision but I decided to do it and I said to myself that whatever will be will be. He cried, begged, was hospitalised but I shut my heart though I was dying silently. fast forward to 1 year later I met this other guy, we started dating, it was from him I realised that I'm destined to meet guys that are possessive and over protective, he is a very nice guy has his issues but loves me so much and I love him too, he penetrated my family members, calls my mum, siblings and all I wasn't comfortable with that cos I knew they will be expecting wedding bells as soon as possible, but I couldn't stop him. 

We don't stay in the same state but our love is so enviable. Now to the matter,this our relationship has lasted for 5yrs and Mumsy, siblings and friends are now asking me questions, and this guy keeps saying next year, his next year will never come because he wants to get the whole money in Nigeria

 ( he is very hardworking and always tells me he's doing it for me), late last year he managed to come to the house to officially introduce himself to the family and said he will come back February to do the village introduction ,till now he has not said anything about it if I bring it up he will tell me this dollar Issue is affecting him so much and he is thinking so much. 

though during the time we were dating he had some set back which really affected his business but I thank God he has bounced back,though not as before, but he can comfortably take care of his home.   

Secondly his Dad on the other hand is another case,he has been telling us to pray since last year he learnt his son wanted to settle down, I'm not saying its bad but after the prayer, his son told him he wanted him to meet me, so I will be coming to the house to visit, the Dad refused reason being  that that's not how they do in their church and that the pastor will be the one to tell me when to visit my in-laws to be, and mind you I don't attend their church.

 till now I've not seen his dad and it was his dad that has been putting pressure on him to marry o when he now brought it up, things changed and this has kept me thinking...(And this 5 years my Ex travelled and still did not give up on me, he still calls and cries for us to come back together). 

Now the question is should I continued waiting for this present guy until he acquires all his wealth and Daddy gives him a go ahead or should I go Back to my EX, he still loves me and I still feel something for him...( hope people won't start saying I'm a gold digger) I'm sorry for the long episode and gbaguns... I love you all like cray.

N/B I feel so guilty leaving this present guy, because all through this years he has been wonderful, if I must leave him, how do I go about it?..

Chei babe no send oh...serial heartbreaker..lol

you want us to tell you how to leav him?wear shoe WAKA!

Why are you even doing this?when you date and it doesnt go according to what you think,you leave and attach to the next available guy?

Please be sure of who you want and stick it out....Mscheeew!

Blog visitors i dey salute oooo.how far?

*tip toeing away*