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Thursday, March 05, 2015

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PROBLEM NUMBER ONE
WITHDRAWAL METHOD VERSUS BILLINGS METHOD ADVICE

I had my first baby late 2013 and since then,DH and i have been using withdrawal method as our church doctrine prohibits us using artificial family planning.
We have been succeeding until we mistakenly did skin to skin last week as a result of highness. And for some very important reason i can't afford to get pregnant now.

Please i would like the doctors and fellow blog visitors in the house to shed light on the calendar or billings method as we did it two days after my period and i'm feeling preggy symptoms already.
Thanks.


Church Doctrines interferes with how a couple has sex?OMG!

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PROBLEM TWO
PRENATAL TEST FOR AS COUPLES

 i am genotype AS and my wife is AS too and we just found out and
a doctor told us about prenatal test,can you please tell me where it is done
in Edo state?


Couples should endeavour to take genotype test before coupling as man and wife,una no dey hear!


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PROBLEM NUMBER THREE
CLOSED CERVIX

Hi Stella,

Please I need advice, prayers and help. I write to you with a heavy heart and tears. I'm burdened. 

I got married 2011, ‎got pregnant 2012, had miscarriage after three and half months went through the normal procedure of scan and evacuation, since then nothing happen again.

 My husband encouraged me to believe in God,but humanly I'm worried, so I decided to go for check up, I was told to do H/profile and HSG.

H/profile was Ok but the with the HSG, I've got serious issues because the radiographer said cervix is closed and referred me to see a gynaecologist.
The gynaecologist confirmed same and said she can't do anything unless I when I see my monthly period, the date came and the blood refused to show up, did pregnancy test and it came out negative.
What can I do? I need help.






118 comments:

  1. To all the problem, "God will see you through" all this these shall pass.


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    1. P1. Una Church dey against any form of contraception but them no dey against highness abi?

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    2. @Creamy Bella, same thing I tot of too

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    3. I thought I was the only one who saw the highness part! Hian!!!!

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    4. Poster 1 is obviously a Catholic. Madam, study your menstrual cycle very well to know when you are FREE and FERTILE (this works for those with regular menstrual flow).

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    5. All these yeye churches and their stupid doctrines, am sure it was alcohol that lead to the highness, so ur church is not against that abi, my friend stop deceiving yourself and gerrout from this blog cos I ve no advice for u.

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    6. Hahahahah Angel Ray say gerrout of this blog....Lmao

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    7. @AngelRay4SDK: u better shut your stupid mouth and stop insulting churches! If you gat nothing reasonable to say just shut your dirty mouth! Msheew

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    8. LMAO. I think the "highness" Poster 1 talked about may not be alcohol related....maybe she meant they were so horny **my opinion though*
      Poster 1, are you a witness? I ask cos na dem dey give all these rules and regulations....
      If ur church is against contraceptives and u're pregnant....what miracle do you think billings method will do for u? Since ur church is against "prevention of pregnancy",,it will be against termination of pregnancy too. So, if u're pregnant....i say congrats and wish you a very smooth nine months journey....lol

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    9. Make I perch under yourcomments abeg...
      Poster 1...billings way and withdrawal have almost the same failure rate though billings way is still better..
      Poster 3....who's that radiologist??? Disown am sharperly! Your cervix is supposed to be closed except you're about to deliver a baby. What's your cervix doing open.? That place na sanctuary site na...God will answer you soon...amen

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    10. I thought that withdrawal method was done skin to skin before without CD? So why did u say u did skin to skin because u were "high"? Haven't u been doing skin to skin before ni? Na question I ask o. Confused.com.

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  2. Oh Lord help our land.

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  3. Abeg this one pass me. Let me read comments.

    Narrator 1 am sure your church might be catholic.

    Narrator 2..... Painful but there is nothing you can do except God intervene in your matter. Prayer is the key ooo.

    Narrator 3 --- God is still on the throne. He will surprise you still

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    1. I wuld hav insulted u bt its nt necessary, itz doctors in d house section nt predicting section, if ur nt a catholic, dnt jst conclude on tins u dunno. Give a suggestion n move on wit ur life bae.

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  4. Your church doctrine prohibits artificial family planning methods, but you guys are allowed to drink and get high, abi??
    Jokers!

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    1. My thoughts exactly!!!

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    2. Same thought crossed my mind. Since you are allowed to get high, better go and buy packs of condom. Since you can't afford to get pregnant again, what if you are pregnant now with the highness involved? Na question I de ask.
      Still didn't know that couples stil don't learn. @AS vs AS. Sont let love muddle your brains when it comes to this abeg.

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  5. Nigerians and religion sentiment... The way they carry this church things for head ehhhee,I tire..
    That's how someone I know die out of this nonsense religious ignorance...

    Poster 1,
    Go back and ask your church people what you should do and stop disturbing us....

    Poster 2,
    You and your wife need to be flogged...
    I have no word for you....carry your cross alone....

    Poster 3,
    Keep praying my dear...there's nothing God cannot do honestly...you are even lucky your man is not even bothering you...

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    1. The contraception thing is not only in nigerian churches oh! I'm guessing poster 1 is catholic, my catholic Oyinbo colleagues were telling me same thing and I was like are you kidding me?! What concerns church with how you and your husband do things in your matrimonial bed? I was raised catholic for a while growing up and I never heard of such, maybe because I was too young/ wasn't yet married to be discussing sexual practices. My other colleague who is also catholic and married said that is the only catholic doctrine she disagrees with. To each his/her own abeg. Poster, you might want to go to church and speak to someone about it there. If that's the doctrine, then they might just have other alternatives for you or they might have helped other couples with similar issues in the past....... Just Me

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  6. God is d healer......
    Poster one: ova to d doctors...but I feel withdrawal method is d best

    Poster two: I feel bad wen I hear about dis problem in dis 21st century......plz men and women planning to get married Shud go for all d necessary tests

    Post three: God will surprise uuu

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  7. The only thing is your church should sew your pussy and cut off your husband dick mtcheeeeew

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  8. Hmmmm!
    Let me read comments and LEARN.

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  9. 1. I need to learn something new on this one.
    2. Still surprised that church doctrines also affect couples in area relating to xes.
    3. It is well.

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    1. Spell d sex well na! Ain't no problm wit spelling it.

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    2. Cynthia spell it well, You and Ake.
      SEX is SEX....!!

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    3. Don't mind this stupidstupid Cynthia, I hate her cos she pretends a lot, am surprised she didn't ask them to pray about it, foolish pretender.

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    4. Why spell sex the wrong way?

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    5. Why the attack on her? Just because of only typing error... so you all think she can't spell "sex"? You all should be sensitive enough to know it's typing error. Please you guys should just free her.


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    6. Anon, you are a very terrible person. You hate her??? Why refer to her as stupid? Someone you dont know and may never know all ur life? Would you prefer she advise people to curse rather than pray?

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  10. Hmmm! My dear God is your next right now oo seriously.

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  11. Jesus is the only way





    #GODWIN

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  12. Stella i thought you are enlightened. There is nothing wrong in AS and AS getting married provided they can do the prenatal test. Isnt happiness and fulfillment all that matter in marriage? Also dont forget the God factor. Always pray to God to bless you with healthy kids.

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    1. So when they have the prenatal test and baby is SS they abort right?

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    2. You guys don't get it? Don't defend what is wrong, maybe because you are in this situation? What is wrong with you guys? So when you do the test and the baby has the sickle cell problem, what do you do? Flush? Baby one, two, three????? Till when do you intend to stop? Do you think everyone has that kind of resources or even awareness to prenatal tests? Save yourselves the agony and emotional trauma. Biko.

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    3. Mister man,u don see sickler child b4?

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  13. Poster 1 I dnt believe u r pregnant, mayb it's all in ur head cos 2 days after period there is very little probability that u hv produced another egg sef unless hubby's sperm stayed alive till 6 or 7 days after period which is also not very probable. Dnt conclude u r pregnant yet.

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  14. poster one...Ur church forbids any other method of family planning but allows 'highness'? biko leave church outta dis matter. If u wanna follow church doctrine follow it in totality. I don't think ure pretty as u had sex just two days after Ur last period. na dare my doctors degree end.

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  15. Poster 1.....Ur church doctrine prohibits family planning? I'm sure u are a roman catholic..Pls go to ur reverent father and ask him to shed light on billings method for u..Do we look like ur church members? #Hisss#

    Poster2.....U better file for divorce now dat u havent started having kids..Something tells me u knew both of u are AS genotype but went ahead with d marriage out of selfishness..Dont bring SS children into dis world to suffer..Why are some adults very stupid?

    Poster3.....The lord is ur strength.



    #YourFrustrationLivesOnSdkBouncer*
    *PrayerForAuntyGwegwegweSdkBouncerToFindaHusband x10 daily*

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    1. I look foward 2 a day I wuldnt c an atom of insults in ur comment

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    2. Lmao. Do we look like your church members? ROTFL

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    3. Reverend and not reverent.

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  16. AS n AS in dis 21st century? Wonders will never cease. N1, for me church shouldn't interfere in d way u av sex or go abt ur marriage. De can only advice u wen called upon n shouldn't be d bed rock of ur marriage, so d decision is solely on u n ur DH. If d baby eventually come, accept it in good fate bc it's already late to take contraceptive now. N3, it's obvious u re pregnant or maybe ur period is a little late due to anxiety, just wait a little longer, pray n av faith, it will surely be well.

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  17. Doctors!!! Your attention is greatly needed here

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  18. Poster 1.why will your church interfere with husband and wife sex life,hmmmmmm.let your hubby use condom instead Poster2.pls read comnent lots of benin BV's do comment,I pray u get ur help fast. Poster3.let me sit and read comment,doctors in the house were u @

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  19. P3: OMG! I'm so sorry you're goin through this. Pls go back to the gynaecologist & inform her that ur period has refused to come. Perhaps surgery would be carried out on you to open your cervix. Don't forget to PRAY!
    P2: really? At this modern age. I have no words for you. How could you be so careless? You should both be flogged.
    P1: looool. Orishirishi doctrine. So ur faith prohibits "family planning" but not "highness". Pele ehn. I see this as campaign after election tho. Go & register for ante-natal, dear.

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  20. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    For them married couples though....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  21. Poster 1: U may not be preggy, 4get about those signs. The signs sometimes comes from ur state of mind. one can ovulate from d 8th day but if possible dat it is real, it will be a baby girl..... goodluck. Lol!

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  22. poster 1:your church forbids contraceptives? well by now you should know your cycle but sex 2 days after period wont result in pregnancy.d symptoms you feel are psychological.
    so chill.
    poster 2:AS couple? are you Christians? I ask cos most churches conduct blood tests before marriage, so saying you both did not know you were AS till now sounds somehow. we are not stupid here you know(you cant say you have never done blood tests before except they were giving you wrong results all along).
    In fact I don't know what to say...
    Poster 3:pleaaaaase relax so that 1)your body can respond appropriately(either through pregnancy or monthly cycle)
    2)so that you and the gynaecologist can work together to find a lasting solution
    ...And don't forget to take it to the Lord in prayer.
    It is well with you.

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  23. P1: church doctrine prohibits artificial family planning but supports highness abi??P3:prayer is d key

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  24. Silver nor gold I ve none buh I have just a word of prayers frm my heart. May d healing power of Christ heal n provide answers to evry questns! Amen!

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  25. Let me just read comments



    God go help all of una.



    Because upon all our advice for una here.....una no dey hear....una no dey give feedback..... The thing wen dey una mind na I'm una go still do





    @Kehinde ake ur ministry is here




    @Galore

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  26. Also interested about d natural family planning o. Jst got fed up wt d IUD implant. Make I grab popcorn to read comment

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  27. Hmmm! This is serious. God is in control.

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  28. God help u all..

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  29. Yes o...catholic church don't preach abortion,birth control pills,pre marital sex e.t.c,rather,they teach abstinence for unmarried couple and natural birth control for married couple.."billing method"

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    1. #2, is it now u want 2 involve church doctrine? Am very sure such church may ve requested ur genotype statues bf wedding, plzz what happened then, did u n ur hubby present ur result to church n they stil went ahead on d wedding? Or u wedded against church advice? In al nothing is too hard 4 God, pray n wait on him! And alwayz Seek medicals and stick to the advice. GOD wil surely see u tru, amen!

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  30. Sex is not food Poster1

    Poster 2...take postinor 2

    Poster 3...i have no idea.

    Cee, i understand why you had to steal part of my ID, your face looks like a little part of my face.

    XOXO MYSTERY

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  31. poster 3 like seriously nothing wrong with a closed cervix. its just annoying how some medical professionals lack 5 mins to explain things to patients. Yes your cervix should be closed except during menses when it opens to let out blood. u do H S G around that period because whatever dye that is used has to go in light up the womb and the tubes. radiographer couldnt do it that day cos cervix was closed. it doesn't correlate with barreness or anything like that. it just means the test wasnt properly timed. please dont get all paranoid!


    pinoydoc

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  32. Over to the ddoctors and baba God who is the greatest of them all.


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  33. Poster 1: If it really two days after your period you had Skin to Skin, Mama u are SAFE (no shaking), rock till the lets say ninth day after the beginning of your cycle.
    Till four - five days before mid of your cycle (14th days), if you have 28 days cycle.
    That withdrawal method I don’t trust, for a drop of semen in the process can get you pregnant.

    Yes Catholic Church is again any form of contraceptives,
    Though if you pass through a marriage class in the Catholic Church dedicatively, they will teach you thoroughly about Natural Family Planning.
    Well explained in the book: Billings Method by Reverend Sister you can get in any catholic book Shop.

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  34. I'll keep saying this,the thing killing Nigerians is Religion
    Why will your church forbid you from using condom or any other means of avoiding pregnancy
    Na your church go follow you carry the belle? Will they pay the bills when it arrives?
    Or do you think it's easy to raise a child in this present Nigeria situation eh!
    Please poster 1 next time use a condom! Your pastor no go hold torch for una wen una get down.
    So what if you're pregnant now and you don't want to keep it,no be big sin you dey commit?

    Please people should learn how to separate sex life from church life especially if you're married.

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  35. THElMA ENEMUWE said...
    Poster1----why on earth wud a church interfare with the way and manner in wx u and ur hubby go about family planning eh kwa??is it till you give births to trailer loads of baby before u and ur hubby will shine ur eyes and do the necessary f.planning since ur church prohibit it....!!!
    Poster2----the lord is ur muscle...peeps kip taking this AS issue lightly as their detriments..
    Poster3---it z well with ur soul,keep keeping on.
    S/O to sterra the KORK mistress
    *faithful BV enemuwe thelma*

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  36. Poster one
    your church doctrine prohibits
    using artificial family planning but isn't against the consumption of alcohol?

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  37. Chukwunna onye Ebere com and wade into all dees health issues especially dt of d closed cervix. Nawa ppl really go thru a whole lot...

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  38. Church doctrine prohibits using artificial family planning BUT allows highness? Oh wow!!

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  39. Couples who don't check their gen type before birthing kids smh for una . If u have a child with ss gene love will just fly out the window giam . Smh for una .

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  40. Stella, Catholics don't allow family planning. That's what I heard o. .

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  41. Stella ,see your small mouth like "Church interferes ...Omg"

    I can imagine u as u d type am!

    Catholic Doctrine forbids the use of condom and contraceptives for marry couples,,,,its advised the use Billings method (proper Ovulation timing.



    BUT truth be told,not so many of us follow that....I will explain later why its SO!

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  42. Church against family planning or whatever but not against highness????

    I yell......HYPOCRISY !!!!!!

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  43. @ problem one: this thing you are talking almost caused a fight between my uncle and one man in church. according to him, "taking pills is same as abortion". na every year this man dey born....now he has 6 kids and expecting another...the most annoying thing is that he is always complaining of cash...BV, please biko, you know the right thing please do it.

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  44. Stella bae church doctrine does not interfere with how they have sex but with contraceptive method they use. Catholic church believes in the natural method of contraception which is the billings method. Although people that use it say it's easy to master, I haven't been able to understand it and am not willing to do try ur luck with pregnancy so am using another method convenient for me o.
    Poster 1, both withdrawal method and billings method are skin to skin. The difference is dat with withdrawal, ur hubby does not release inside u but with billings method, as long as it's ur safe period, u won't get pregnant but then again, some women do not have safe periods o. I know of a nurse dat got pregnant so many times using billings method. She had to quit trying to understand it. But I know people who combine both methods. If u are pregnant pls don't abort it o. Subsequently, try to either understand the billings method or just use permanent withdrawal. Dats if u sure u don't want other contraceptive methods cos there are so many others. Good luck

    Sassy Mum.

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  45. Poster 1: when u do withdrawal method,is it not bcos its skin to skin? Abi u dont know what withdrawal method is? Ur post get k leg. Plus u will not likely get pregnant 2 days after ur period.

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  46. Couples who don't check their gen type before birthing kids smh for una . If u have a child with ss gene love will just fly out the window giam . Smh for una .

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  47. Poster one: Na wa for you.

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  48. We women are suffering o.
    This is why I don't envy any woman cos most are carrying crosses heavier than the one my saviour carried.
    Thank God I'm alive!
    Bless

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  49. I wish all three posters all the best.
    I have no medical knowledge so i can't provide any advice to you all.
    May God grant all your hearts desires.

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  50. Wating for comment to know the unknown.

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  51. Wating for comment to know the unknown.

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  52. Most catholics tailor their faith to suit dr taste. Do same!!!
    Closed cervix be opened in Jesus name Amen.

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  53. ***HEALING-RAIN***

    @3ple o
    How dey reverend sister take know billings method when dem no dey fuck for convent?


    Poster1
    No church on the surface of this earth has a say in how married couples conduct their bedroom business or birth control artificial or natural. Who made the natural method they are against a law for married couples?
    Which bible taught them natural method? Ignorant twats.


    Poster2
    I no even wan talk too much for una head
    A stitch in time saves nine.


    Poster3
    Me l believe in miracle o,God na Jehovah break and bypass protocol. He overturn any negative report so #Believe that is preggo.
    Amen.

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  54. Talking about feeling preggys,you may not be preg oo,I once felt that way,after I had raw "yabia" with my boo,chiaa,my boobs seem soft,I felt nausea, and @ last when my period came I didn't know when I screamed "Hallelujah",my mum even ask y I was so excited!

    Chiaa,it was like I hit a Jack pot!


    Chiaa,but now am happily married with a kid and I look back and smile!


    My Name is Chizoba (not ibebuike please)

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    1. I'm d only Aunty Chizoba on dis blog..Find another name biko.

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  55. Hmmm,Chizoba the Sex expert (abi na wetin make mayor no wan leave your pus.) Please come and lecture virgins like us on birthcontrol!

    Haha,chizoba Akwuna ike

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  56. Poster 2: I pray the Lord blesses your home with AA genotype children. When you do your tests may that be the result.

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  57. Hope ur church tells u wen to nd nt to av sex Goodluk.

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  58. Docs, pls come in here right now!

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  59. Poster 1,u r not pregnant. It is just your Psychology playing a fast one on u.
    As regards the billings method,first u should have a regular menstrual cycle with your ovulation date/period known before it can be effective. your Ovulation date is usually 14 days 'before' the onset of your next Menses/cycle ie if you have a 28 day cycle,then your ovulation date is on day 14, for 25 day cycle,day 11, 30 days cycle day 16.
    Now the 'unsafe ' days (ie days pregnancy can occur) include: 2days before ovulation+ovulation date+1days after ovulation.It is usually 4-5days. The reasons being that the sperm can survive 48-72hrs in the female genital tract and the female egg(ovum) can survive 24hrs. That is if your ovulation date is 14th day of your menstrual cycle,then unsafe period for Sex would be 12th,13th,14th,15th and 16th; if 9th day,then unsafe would be 6th 7th,8th,9th,10th and 11th day. The billings method isn't 100 percent effective Buuuuh when used accurately has been effective.

    Poster 2- No idea of a place in Edo state

    Poster 3-A detailed evaluation is needed. See a gynaecologist again.

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  60. Dear Poster, please answer this important question, have you seen your monthly period since the miscarraige? Have you observed any significant differences in your flow? The amount or the colour of blood? Very important you answer before I give my opinion. I suspect Asherman's Syndrome (especially after you mentioned that your cervix is closed). It is well.

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    1. Yes, I have being seeing my monthly cycle regular after the miscarriage, the difference I observe is that the 1st and the last days are drops of blood while the 2nd, d 3rd days are heavily ( 4dys cycle), the color is red sometime dark.

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  61. Dear Poster, have you seen your monthly period since your miscarriage? And have you observed any significant changes in terms of the quantity or the colour of your blood? It is very crucial you answer these questions so I can give you further advice.

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  62. Dear Poster, have you seen your monthly period since your miscarriage? And have you observed any significant changes in terms of the quantity or the colour of your blood? It is very crucial you answer these questions so I can give you further advice.

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  63. Anonymous 12:59 --------- How dey reverend sister take know billings method……????

    Truly, I didn’t know you will ask me this today
    I would have asked them for you (during our marriage class back then).

    Loooool, I debated this with mai hubby back then.
    Who was their defending champion then when he was a Catholic.
    The author is Nurse/Rev Sis

    Well the Billings Method/ Natural Family Planning Works.
    It is as sure as day and night if you know your cycle well (well explained in the book).

    No be for mai mouth you go hear say “Rev Father they wear trouser”
    *run out of here*

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  64. Wait. You don't use protection for religious reason YET you both got HIGH? Dafuq did I just read?

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  66. Closed cervix is normal even during pregnancy its suposd to be closed.its not causin any infertility abeg.they should give u a right time to do hsg.dont lose hope ehn.

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  67. For the couple who are both AS.speak to your doctor about birthing and research online. There are new methods of checking a baby's genotype in the womb at 3 months.i know a couple who used this method and they were lucky they had 2 AS children and they have stopped at that

    Goodluck
    Nwanyi Owerri

    And pls don't forget to pray.There is nothing too difficult for HIM.absolutely nothing.

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  68. @poster 2- The only place I know PND test is done ( prenatal Diagnosis) is at sickle cell foundation in Lagos opposite teaching hospital, Idi-araba, surulere
    surulere. Also believe the test is genuine as they send the blood samples out to the UK for reverification. It is quite expensive ( about 250k) but reliable.
    For people critizing AS and AS. Marriage, I don't see anything wrong with it as long as both parties involved are aware and fully ready, besides in marriage there will always be issues, will you prefer to marry someone you don't love cause of genotype and suffer the rest of your life?
    I know quite a number of people In that situation and they are doing well with healthy children, you just have to be prepared to take a PND test everytime you conceive.
    God help us all.

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  69. *face in palms*
    When will Nigerians learn that withdrawal method is not a form of contraception!!!!
    The man does not need to "pour inside" you before you can conceive! Sex education is really needed in Nigeria....the things I hear/read lately are ridiculous!
    You will just be producing dumb youth is you do not educate them early enough!
    This is something that is taught to children in primary school in the UK. So to hear married women make such statements baffles the hell out of me.
    I'm still trying to get over the person that said the pregnant woman masturbating is allowing the devil to posses her child.....WTF!
    God gave you a brain and free will...please please use it!

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  70. (Genuine) question: Why is it only in Nigeria I hear about the need to find out ones genotype? Is it because of the bad healthcare?
    Genotype is never discussed in London...so when I see the insults towards the couple for not checking, it leaves me confused.
    Please enlighten me.
    Why the big deal?
    why do churches get involved?
    why the insults?

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    1. Genotypes are only peculiar to Africans. No other part of the world is classified as AS, AA or SS other than in Africa. Make Google your best bud.

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  71. Poster3 Am afraid you might have cervical stenosis. You can Google to read more about cervical stenosis. Since you have been diagnosed of having closed cervix and your period did not come out. I will advise you not to waste time to go and see your gynecologist during your time of menstruation let them do another scan to know the problem. This same thing has happened to me before.

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  72. (Genuine) question: Why is it only in Nigeria I hear about the need to find out ones genotype? Is it because of the bad healthcare?
    Genotype is never discussed in London...so when I see the insults towards the couple for not checking, it leaves me confused.
    Please enlighten me.
    Why the big deal?
    why do churches get involved?
    why the insults?

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    1. U jz spoke my mind, they can't keep shut if and let those with fit knowledge comment. Poster 2 u can do the prenatal test in sickel cell centre opposite LUTH it cost #280k

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    2. Sickle Cell Foundation Nigeria
      National Sicklecell Centre,
      Opp Lagos University Teaching Hospital(LUTH),
      Ishaga Road, Idi-araba,
      Lagos. Nigeria. Jz go there d pregnancy shud not b more than 3 months

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  73. for the lady with close cervix, that gyna. is not being truthful. IUI can be done try and see another gyna.

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  74. For POSTER 1 (whom I suspect isn't married at all) *side eyes*
    COUNT 15 DAYS INCLUDING THE FIRST DAY OF YOUR PERIOD
    MARK THE 15TH DAY
    MARK 3 DAYS TO THE 15TH DAY
    MARK 3 DAYS AFTER THE 15TH DAY
    THE 7 DAYS MARKED ARE YOUR OVULATION/FERTILE DAYS
    THERE'S A 90% CHANCE OF GETTING PREGNANT IF YOU HAVE SEX THESE 7 DAYS...
    I'VE BEEN HEARING ABOUT THIS 'BILLINGS METHOD'
    LEMME GOOGLE

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