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Sunday, November 15, 2015

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

Chronicles ti de!









NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

WHAT WOULD YOU DO WHEN THE EX MOVES ON WITHOUT TELLING YOU? 

Hello Stellz And BVs.......
Let me cut to chase. Me and my first boyfriend (who deflowered me after 4 years into the relationship) reconnected after a very long time due to lack of communication.

 I'm married with children. 

We never made any attempt at rekindling anything but we were constantly in
touch. We got closer than we were while dating. We discussed freely
but never made time to see.
Let me take you down history a bit, he wanted us to get married but he
wasn't ready when i was and he had trouble letting go then. He kept in touch when i was newly wedded but DH was uncomfortable and told him
so. That was the reason we cut all ties.

Soooo, where were we? 

We became close again. I used to tease him about settling down and all of that. He told me a lot of things. Yeah, I know his darkest secrets, fears, ambitions and more. He's not chatty and finds it difficult to confide in people. So opening up to me is a big deal. We've always had that kinda relationship.

The bone of contention is that..a friend sent me his pre-wedding shots and I was stunned but Of course i was happy that he was finally getting settled. He  married to the lady he dated before me. 

They broke up for a long time..no he didn't cheat on me with her. I'm really burnt because I can't wrap my brain around why he didn't give me a heads-up.

I congratulated him and deleted him off my BBM and WhatsApp. It's ridiculous that i'm hurting, right? But that's exactly how I feel.
None of my anger/emotion is directed at his wife but Why did he find it difficult to inform me?
Dear BVs, is it something you would do? Knowing she's totally over you?? Should i see it as no biggie?

Yeah, don't tell me to "face my home". I've got this. Anticipated
cusses back to sender(s). Over to the brainy ones.


HUH?
Abeg Forget the man and ''face your home''.
Good that you took him off your chat applications,now he can face his wife.He probably didnt tell you cos he didnt want you to know....and if he didnt want you to know,might mean he wasnt as close to you as you thought.........and oh,all those deepest secrets might not be secrets at all.LOL
Abeg get over it jor.


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
THE CONFRONTATION AND THE BEST WAY TO GO ABOUT IT

Hi Stella,I am an ardent reader of your blog and i want to say you are doing a really good job. I need your advice and that of fellow bv's as i would like to remain anonymous.

So there is this guy i've been dating for some months now whom i really really love. the issue here is i recently found out he has a girlfriend somewhere else. i havent confronted him about it yet. 

I started suspecting he was hiding something when she sent him a message and he was hiding it. i have been snooping for a while now and it confirmed he is dating her. The funny thing is he plays it so cool and acts like a saint. He usually gets angry anytime i confront him with the truth so i dont know how to go about it.
And to think that i actually fell in love with him and he is playing with my emotions just makes me sick. A part of me is just telling me he is only with me for the cookie *FYI I havent given it to him yet*.

 I dont know if he is doing it because he knows am in love with him but now when i look at him and i remember he is playing me i just want to punish him. 

Please Stella and other bv's who have been in this kind of situation i need your advice. 
please use your red pen.



Well,there are two things here..It is either you are the main chick or the side chick and whether he gets angry hearing the truth or not a confrontation is Unavoidable BECOS YOU HAVE SNOOPED.
*side eyes at #Teamsnoop*

All the best and let us know how it goes honey!

109 comments:

  1. Reading comments first!
    Brb.


    *******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******

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    1. @poster1 : why are you jealous?
      If you're truly happy in your home n hubby , you won't feel the way you are feeling.
      You still have a soft spot for him.
      Just move on.
      @poster2 : are that ugly that you can't get a new frost guy?
      Y u wan die put......
      Girls with their little brain.

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    2. Poster1,move on,forget him and face ur home madam.
      Poster2,snoop more.

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    3. No em Jay you don't read comments. You just try to secure 1st place with short comments and come back to comment your rubbish. FYI I am not your anonymous besties.

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    4. P1,wat I can read is u both did Tit for Tat,
      P2,jst trust ur instinct. Dont hang on hoping it will get better. If u feel u are d side chick. Abeg av a rethink and re strategies. In every situation there is always an option

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    5. Poster 1: leave mr ex alone and face your family, don't tear your family apart while brooding over mr ex and come here to write us another chronicle. He is playing with your emotions, be wise, respect your husband and marriage, move on.

      Poster 2: hmmm your matter get as e be, you may be side chick ooh, shine your eyes.

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    6. Stella on point especially for first poster.
      P1 face your home. Wetin u wan hear again?Mtcheeew... U are like yesterday's poster.
      P2 is he the only fish in the sea? You still want to go on with someone u have confirmed is not faithful. Na u sabi, wareva happens na ur biz. Mtcheeew...I am sure you gave him ur cookies. Dats y u wan die there, don't lie ooo...lol.

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    7. Poster 1, how on earth would you get too close to your ex and you still get angry and you want the "braines" (I hope I got the spelling well) to advice you on what really. I so love Stellas epic response to you cause that's exactly what you deserve. Obviously what you want is to be laid by your ex, please cut me the innocent excuses. Obviously you lack respect for your husband. I would have respected you more if you say that you still have feelings for him rather than hide under this post.

      Poster 2, yours is simple. Let him know that you know his games. Main chic can turn to side chic tomorrow and vice versa. You probably need to reassess the relationship and probably give yourself a break for now till further notice. You sound like some pretty and brilliant girl hence you will not have so much problem finding some other guy in a worse case scenario. Good luck.

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    8. Na wa oo, e be like say chronicle don de finish from ppl mouth be that oo, this one join for line. Madam face ur home, all I can see is jealous from ur side. Ndi ono na di na acho di.

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    9. Na wa oo, e be like say chronicle don de finish from ppl mouth be that oo, this one join for line. Madam poster 1.,face ur home, all I can see is jealous from ur side. Ndi ono na di na acho di.

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  2. Poster 1,
    What is happening to you is normal...biko move on!...I know with time,you will forget about him and yes,face your home..

    Poster 2,
    Why are you jealous?...dude has not married any of you so let the best girl win!..

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    1. Poster1... It's normal... Poster2... Do not...I repeat do not give him any cookie...infact wrap it and leave it where it belongs... In as much as some idiots will say sex is so cheap and can be gotten anywhere... Wrap yours..atleast he ain't getting yours... And oh...do not confront him...leave d relationship ...I mean let your heart leave d relationship... Focus on other things. Go out more.. If possible give another person a chance and string him along like a side boo... Ain't nobody gat time for unfaithful men... You will see that he will b wondering what was wrong..infact you will win this one. Just play it smart!

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    2. I didn't expect dat Ur advice to narrative one, it was too cool though lol!

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    3. I love your comment.
      Stella, it's "normal".

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    4. Wait o.....did I write narrative 2?I am seeing sum1 who jst acts saintly buh sumfin tells me he hs a gf sumwhr else.i am teamsnoop buh I havnt had d time to snoop,not yet,not just yet.

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    5. U 4got 2 add "becos u still ve a reserve space 4 him" in ur advice 2 poster1.


      P2: confront n stay, confront n walk or simply walk bt if I were u ill remain silent but vigilant.

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    6. Exclusive u are on point. Why waste time to confront him wen he will lie? I like ur advice Esther.

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  3. Poster two, I don't get it. You babes will spend years with someone who obviously has no love and respect for you tolerate this nonsense, pet it marry them and come back with more narratives.

    He cheated you are thinking of how not to hurt him by confrontation na wa oh. Zero self esteem.

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    1. I wonder o .you are obviously afraid of losing him already.be der and give up ur cookie u hear.rubbish

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    2. God bless you anonymous and they're the reason these men will proudly come out to utter rubbish statements like 'it's normal for a man to cheat' of which some people will agree, condone and the cycle continues. God help this world! What advice do you really want to hear? Ask him in a loving manner? Mtcheww! Break up with him! Any man that cheats on you doesn't love or respect you! I don't care what anyone will come here and say. You need to get your self love back first (loving yourself in such a way you try not to take things that will hurt you like still being with the cheating bf) then you work on your self esteem and then remember there are many fishes in the ocean!

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  4. Poster one..

    Woman get over yourself already..! O si no gini msheww

    Poster two..

    Move on already! Abi u wan die untop boyfriend matter? Odiegwu

    Chronicles these days mehn.. ike gwukwa

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    1. Poster 1, abeg move on! Face your front.
      Over to the brainy ones ko.
      You sef, you get brain so?

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  5. Lmao. The secrets are so deep they'd leave you gobsmacked. My afternoon ceases to be boring henceforth. Bring it on, lovers.

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    1. Poster one just inform your husband that u r feeling hurt cos ur ex didn't inform u he's getting married. Ur husband's reaction will cure the hurt in your heart. It's that simple. Lol

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  6. #TheSecond... just let go jare.. you staying means u dont knw ur worth


















    my private part is wide..

    I have always been that kind of gal that wants her man by her side 24 hours . I got Married last year to my husband , because he has been in the UK, allow did was online dating . We made love on the phone, talked and enjoyed our selves , but we agreed that as soon as he comes back to Nigeria , we will get married without making love until after our wedding .. After our wedding , we could not wait for the explosive love making, even while still at the reception, my husband was already putting his finger under my dress. We finally got to the room, he did not even allow me take a shower , he just dragged down the wedding dress, grabbed me and ...


    CONTINUE..











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  7. Poster one:
    Nne hapu that thing.
    You're still strung up on your ex. Else, you would have shrugged this off and it wouldn't have found its way to chronicles.
    If you think your fretting isn't a big deal, just imagine it was your husband getting this worked up about his ex getting married?
    What will you think?
    That he still has feelings for her, right?
    And you wouldn't be wrong.
    So,yeah, face your home, let him face his.
    Leave him in the past where he belongs.

    Poster two :
    Main chick or side chick, you're still one of two chicks, and that's not right.
    Thankfully, you've not given him the cookie.
    I will suggest that you don't, and then, be very sure that he's really cheating.
    If he is, you either walk away, or you put up with the cheating, depending on your school of thought.
    I won't.

    #WhiteDiamondOut

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    1. Poster 1: You know I never used to believe guys when they claim some girls bother them. But I am beginning to have a rethink with what I read here. Women are now so cheap and easy. The other day it was a girl in are relationship of over 5years(from her lame story,chasing a guy who is planning his wedding without and shame or pride. Now its a married woman hurting cos an ex didnt tell her he is getting married. Mumu oshi,I bet you discuss your hubby with him and you are burnt cos u realised he wasnt sharing any personal things with you. Busybody,respect ur marriage and urself. Have some fucking dignity. I cant wrap my head around how women go about discussing intimate things with guys,especially ex's. It shows u r bored in whatever relationship you are in.

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  8. No comment for both chronicles today.
    Just passing by...

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  9. Poster 1, connect with him.Spend the whole weekend with him. Make him to gbensh ur Toto all night.
    After dat u can easily forget him.

    Poster 2,u love him.And u are denying him ur Toto. And u are not a Virgin.How can u prove ur love if u don't give him ur Toto to colabo?
    If you 've a bomb Toto, he might forget d other girl.

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  10. Mtcheee.... Poster !, abeg move on and FACE YOUR HOME jare...
    Poster 2: believe me, u're the side chick. i hate men who cheat~ I think u should pour acid on him! He's a big fool

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    1. Holup!holup!!holup!!! Easy does it @Ada riches e never reach like that.

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  11. Poster one,i feel ur pain and like hell yes there is nothing wrong with u 2 feel that way...let him go,he's just lost a good friend...

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  12. Poster one, if you weren't married now ehe, I would have understood your anger. You are married. Leave him alone and focus on bringing up your children in the fear of the Lord. You still have tiny winny feelings for him
    Poster two, see eh, it's really difficult to see singly single guys nowadays. Please know where you stand before as early as possible. Even if you are scared. How long will you continue to be scared and still feel comfortable in the second position? My dear let him not surprise you with IV

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  13. Poster 1 face your home, what's with some married women sef, u leave a guy cos u feel he isn't ready and get angry for him not telling u he was getting married, babe should he be tied to u forever, he has moved on, move on, if u were dt important he would have told u.

    @poster 2 since u know there is someone by d corner, guide our heart, its good u snooped so u know how to go with him, if to take him seriously or not, just be on d watch, so u exit before u get heart broken.

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  14. I dnt understand d kind of chronicles we'v been having lately.

    @poster1---truth be told,u haven't moved on and no matter how many times u get 2say it,it won't turn out to be true. U claim to have moved on bt yet angry @d fact dt he refused telling u he was getting married abegi!!!
    you'r acting like uv got some form of entitlement.
    FYI,he didn't tell u cos it's none of ur business. If i were u,id take a cue and mind my business


    Poster2---what was it i read again,cant seem to remember what ur problem is...no vex

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  15. Poster 1: how can a married woman who left an ex bcos he wasnt financially ready to settle down get angry over an ex who is getting married too? Abi, were u planning to rekindled the flames?
    Poster 2: Share with him your concerns. Use to strength as a woman. If it doesn't work out then walk

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  16. Poster 1, it's okay for you to feel the way you do. You have to move on from thinking about his affairs and face your own family. He was never sincere with you.

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  17. Poster one: typical example of a married hoe! A clingy ex. Move on pls, guy probably was hoping for a fuck.
    Poster two both of u are sidedishes.

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  18. Poster one: typical example of a married hoe! A clingy ex. Move on pls, guy probably was hoping for a fuck.
    Poster two both of u are sidedishes.

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  19. Poster one: typical example of a married hoe! A clingy ex. Move on pls, guy probably was hoping for a fuck.
    Poster two both of u are sidedishes.

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  20. Poster 1,don't kno wat to say
    Poster 2,just follow ur heart cos I can't tell u to leave him..

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  21. Bless you, Stellz.
    You get mouth.

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    ***Every woman deserves a man who'll ruin her lipstick NOT her mascara!***

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  23. Poster 1. I know you are happily married and I also know you are still have feelings for him somehow.. And you enjoy the fact that you enjoy a special place in his heart. Madam, he has to move the hell on abi you are ready to leave your husband and marry him. It s a good that you deleted him and you can REALLY MOVE ON this time. I cut all ties with my exes the moment we scatter cos I can't bear to wake up one day and see updates of pre wedding pics.. Especially now that I m yet to get myself a cool Bobo.. Lol! Not that I don't wish them well. I know God will make it happen. I will shock 'em. Amen!!!!!!
    Poster 2. You are yet to finish your assignment.. Find out if you are the main chic or the side chic and don't let him near the honeypot so that when you find out you are the side chic, it will be easier to move on.. Hugs!

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    1. Except you don't have mutual friends with ex bobo, you go see introduction, pre-wedding, traditional and white wedding pics on facebook, IG, bbm. If they are the social media couple, wedding blogs will carry their stories too. Sweetie, just harden your heart nw so when u see it, you'll smile, pray for them and move onto the next picture

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  24. @narrative 2) punish him for what exactly? s he married to u? Now go back and read d first narrative and see war a married woman is doing under her matrimonial home...... Abeg make una leave young men to explore! If u can't take d heat get d hell out of d kitchen.

    As d guy never kpansh now Ur eye no go clear hissss

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  25. Nothing to write home about on these chronicles... zero joy

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  26. St Stella don start.How come you have your ex's contact details for the hellochallenge stuff?You guys dey keep in touch be that.Practice what you preach madam.

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  27. Poster 1, you are a very selfish woman. I know ur type,one day you will still sleep with this so called ex. So you are married with kids and u don't want someone else to get married abi. You better face your marriage and stop bringing devil into your home. People will have a good marriage and start using their hands to spoil their own marriage. So you don't have female friends to get close to and confide in, na man who don taste ur toto ur doing best friendship with. When your husband finds out and starts maltreating you, or have his own side chick, but don't send another chronicle. Selfish woman. Poster 2, abeg leave that man alone. Or continue dating him, chop his money very well and start looking out, when you find another man, dump his sorry ass. The truth is most mean are never really single, it's either dey are in a relationship or they are on a way out of a relationship. I can only take dat shit from a rich guy anyway, a broke ass can't be two timing me. It's possible he may be figuring put who he wants to be with, dat girl may be an old girlfriend, he's still trying to chose btw both of us. If you are not a sharp babe, and ur heart can't take it, leave him den. Also leave him if he's poor. Being a side chick to a poor man makes absolutely no sense, any correct babe dat dos dat needs her head washed in barbeach.

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  28. Poster 1

    FACE YOUR HOME I don't no how you people go back to been friends with your EX
    Your husband told you he is not comfortable with you friendship with your EX you didn't do anything about it
    Now that you find out that he is married you now deleted him from ur bbm and Whatsapp
    Why didn't you do it b4 now?

    Poster 2

    I PUT IT TO YOU THAT YOU'VE HAD SEX WITH THIS GUY

    You better confront him b4 you put your hope on him

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  29. Hahahahahahaha poster 1 ur last sentence cracked me up __ 'Yeah, don't tell me to "face my home". I've got this. Anticipated cusses back to sender(s). Over to the brainy ones' yet Stella nwunye Korkus still went ahed to tel u to "face ur home....' Hhaahahahahahha

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  30. Stella leave #teamsnoop o!! I found out my husband was about to runaway and marry second wife and leave me alone with my three kids. #teamsnoop gave me a heads up and I was able to prepare myself.

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  31. Poster 1: ushe, face ur work nau. Lol

    Poster 2: are u a learner? Confront him and if he's trying to play smart, just dump the moron. Imagine the rubbish!!!

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  32. @Poster one
    Wait ehn,apart from your hubby,work,maybe kids....and even coming to this blog.. you mean to tell me that you have time and energy to do this?
    Wow,you must be super woman raised to power 50.

    It is apparent that this guy is not your "bestie"
    If you like,go and be confiding in someone about your "darkest" secrets you hear?

    Num 1,you are rude,you are coming to disturb some people's afternoon here,so you don't have the right to return cusses,you lost it immediately you spent some precious minutes sending in this.

    Num 2,you want us to tell you the dude loved you so much that he didn't have the heart to tell you he's getting married? Am sorry hun....he just didn't tell you.

    Num3, why are you deleting him on your bbm? Why so hurt? Bitter?

    Num 4,why are you making it a point to include that he never cheated while you were with him,does it matter to you?

    Num 5,you are not generous...how could you take the space of someone that might actually have a problem? This world is just not fair.lol

    Lastly,i concluded from your chronicle that you are a busybody....and yes,face your home,enrol as a teacher in sunday school or volunteer to clean streets.

    Please you are welcome to join other chronicle senders that didn't get kisses and hugs from me.troll!! Don't currrr


    Thank you.

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    1. Inspector Bediako, I bet you didn't read where it was stated that the cusses are right back at those who cuss. Your own comment sef don reach do chronicle. For some reason, I'm sticking with your #2.Sweet innit?
      Hahahahahahaha
      SDK's BVs are the bomb mehn.

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  33. *Singing* even ur boo gat a boo so kindly gat a boo so dt u won't be booed out of dt r/ship. *singing* poster 2: read my luscious lips, in other to avoid sending in anoda chronicles or lamentations kindly guard ur cookie wt all diligence n then frend zone him. If anoda guy comes arnd fall in love wt ur head n not ur heart.

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  34. Poster one Pls face ur marriage

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  35. Poster 1~you said and I quote'don't tell me to face my home oo'ok now!please don't face ya home ooO,,keep hurting for Somone who has already droped you like a bad habit,selfish lady!!I just don't understand why some ex are just plain enemy of progress..you moved on by dumping him and even. Brag about ya hubby not wanting both ya relationship together and now you hurting*mcheeew*you're high
    Poster 2~even ya boo get a boo..we are in a relationSHit,don't put them to heart
    Good to be back o jawe,boring weekend as usual..

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  36. I wonder what u pple do wt hovering exes. keeping I'm touch Wt one another and talking about the past means u havnt moved on. U're married and ur ex is still hovering around u. For what exactly?? To know if u're still getting better sex or to know who's doing better or not.
    Madam, face ur husband & leave someone else's own. Dude has moved on , u should do same. Deleting him is smtn u should hve done since. It doesn't make u enemies.

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  37. Stella, mi I'm tired of all dese guys o. I'm celibate now abeg.

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    1. Kudos, me too. And I am gaining back my self respect & dignity.
      #Godknowsbest

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  38. Poster 2: if you wanna solve everything, snoop again, and get the girl number, meet up and talk about everything.... and u can plan to confront him together..... just like the Movie Other women.

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  39. Poster one, yu have no right in his life as long as you are now a married woman, Pls just deal with that fact

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  40. Poster one y are u so hurt??? I don't get it. Isn't he your ex???? Move on abeg

    Poster two every guy always has a main chic and different side chics. Figure out which you are and when you do, still play it cool. Get into other relationships too

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  41. Poster 2
    No need confronting him,he is not worth it.

    I tell you,if you are looking to settle,you must make sure you are not afraid to confront the man you are getting married to..you should be friends dear... If a man makes you consult strangers to be able to ask him what the hell he is doing with some other girl...smh!

    You sound sweet,May the gentlest,kindest man locate you. Xoxo

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  42. Madam Stella Kork, please post my chronicle nahhh

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  43. P1-I would do that if I felt you would be hurt. You are keeping a close relationship with a non-relative who is not your husband. I would not allow you near my marriage. It could also mean he wanted to get something from you before you found out about his wedding. I am not sure why you are hurt, you probably still like him a lot. All the defenses you are putting up show this. Yes, face your marriage and pray your husband does not emotionally cheat on you like you have done. Emotional infidelity is very dangerous and can break a marriage faster than physical infidelity.

    P2-If your man is your man, you would not have so many questions. Take this as a message and go to were you are cherished.

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  44. hey poster 1
    You should love d man you have married and stop lusting after another woman's hubby. The issue is this, when one of any former "sin partners" get married, it's better the married one let go of his/her sin partner and face his/her home, when this is ignored, the lust will lead to anger and then hatred when the other sin partner wants to get married.

    You cannot eat your cake and have it, you want your hubby and ex-sin partner to yourself? When you moved on with another man, you were happy teasing him and making jest of his single life yet when he becomes complete, you became angry and jealous. Channel your love to your hubby, okay?

    Poster 2:
    Single/separated/divorced ladies should understand the word DATING. It's only a refined word for sin partner/s - thus there can be more than two peeps involved. Ladies, if any man has neither paid your dowry nor put a ring on your finger OR signed a dotted line with you (for those that do not exchange rings), he is free to browse as many websites as he wants including yours. Let this sink well in your skulls ladies.

    Anyways, I don't even know tomorrow, do you?

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  45. Poster 1: what you're going through is normal. Get over it and FACE YOUR HOME.

    Poster 2: confront the dude abeg. Som1 is putting sand in your eyes and you're scared to confront him??? Tah!

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  46. Chronicles! !!!
    Don't have anything to say today,
    Tired much.

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  47. Poster1 move on and face your husband;or where you thinking of sleeping with him before,i don't understand why married women always get back to their ex, what do you want from him hian
    Poster2 All of we say,i have not given it to him,be deceiving yourselves,na una sab. If you can't stay bounce

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  48. Poster 1 , your end note shows you must be a rude person .. Why cuss out people you want to hear their opinion about your situation .. Gerrarhia mhen , nd yes, you better face your home .

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  49. Poster 1. Hahaha hahaha. I laugh in swahili.
    Even the Bible says we should not think of ourselves more highly than we ought to think.
    I like what the guy did. Please face your home.

    Poster 2: don't put all your eggs in one basket. Kapish?

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  50. We should learn how not to build our world around 'BoYfrieNd..

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  51. Poster 1. Hahaha hahaha. I laugh in swahili.
    Even the Bible says we should not think of ourselves more highly than we ought to think.
    I like what the guy did. Please face your home.

    Poster 2: don't put all your eggs in one basket. Kapish?

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  52. why do women treat their pussy like gold, tthen get mad when we fucking elsewhere


    bitch u had ur chance

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  53. Lmao. Poster 1. You moved on, got married and still jealous your friend is married?? What were you expecting?? That he hasn't moved on??

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  54. N2 don't confront anybody. Move on silently.

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  55. Poster 2 offcourse you might be the main chick as Stella said... just remain cool

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  56. Poster 2
    Wen snooping on him, Wat were u expecting to find out, a clean, all holy guy....lol. Dearie if u want to win give him some cookies... only joking,,HE IS A CHEAT, face and accept d truth, you only told us about ur love for him but how sure are u dat he feels the same way for u. Think girl

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  57. Yet anoda fairy tale...abi tales.
    Wen will u guys learn to rise above water?
    #dragseatmakeireadcomments

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  58. Poster1, pls just move on. He probably didn't tell u cos the wife got to know about u and was not happy.

    Poster2, like Stella said, u are either the side chick or main chick. So confront him and see the result!

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  59. Emjay always the first to comment *side eye

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  60. Poster 2.
    U only told us about ur love for him but Wat about his, oh maybe it doesn't matter cos u so love him, if Dats true y keeping the cookies to urself. The thing is u have a rival which u are aware of becos of ur busy body. One advice for u girl it's either u back out or b ready to win ur man to ur self

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  61. Poster1, he obviously doesn't want you to knw coz he still wanna eat more of your cookie... pls stay off him. Poster2, snce he hasn't had sex wiv u yet, its ntt too late to leave him.. once a cheat will alws b a cheat..

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  62. To both: You both know what's wrong with the relationships you're keeping. You virtually mean nothing to them. FYI, once you laugh with an ex, he thinks he can play with you again. Meanwhile, you can never be like you were with your ex if you reconnect again. So move on!

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  63. 007 pow pow. shorts fired.15 November 2015 at 17:40

    N1, your pussy is scratching you abi? Ok go and commit adultery so your eyes go clear. Foolish married woman, don't go and face your husband. IDIOT.

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  64. Poster 1, I sense jealousy oooooo..... he doesn't owe u any kind of obligation okay...... mind u, he's not close to u as what u just described...
    Poster two, he's not married yet n as such if u are not comfortable with him..... take a bow

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  65. YES, BUSYBODY WOMAN ...... FACE YA HOME !!!

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  66. I think poster one is hurt he didn't tell her he was getting married cos she considered him a friend. He probably felt you would excommunicate him since he's wedding an ex, and didn't want that. I could be wrong tho

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  67. Anon 17:05 you must be the poster . Married whore . Face your home and leave the guy alone .

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  68. Dear Mrs,

    You asked for the brainy ones to advise you .
    Here I am .but before we do (world people and I) let's get to the motive behind your hurt/ anger

    1. Why are you hurt ? Would u be true to yourself and admit it's because he is finally getting hitched to one who waited with him? Are u beginning to have doubts ? Have U been wishing he was yours instead ?

    2 . You found out and deleted him off your bbm - there in lies ur answer . Why did u do that? He was matured enough to be friends with you , knowing fully well u were married ..Infact u guys shared lots of 'deep stuffs' , now that he is finally tying the knots , u didn't even think to accord him the same friendship and respect he showed you . You deleted him straight . Why? Because he didn't tell you? Is that enough reason ?did you bother to ask him why he did not ?

    He must have known this is the reaction he would get and was trying to delay the inevitable for as long as he could . reason being , you had started to emotionally invest in that 'so called friendship'. You were just a sounding board to him . It was fun while it lasted pls move on and yes face ur home .

    Turn the table around and imagine if it was ur husband getting all riled up cos he's ex is getting married .

    Imagine asking him the reason he's upset and he says something as stupid like ... 'My ex is getting married and she didn't bother telling me' and then he tells you he proceeded to delete her off his BBm . What would u think? how would u feel ? Knowing that the reason for ur husbands sully mood is because his ex is getting hitched .

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  69. Poster 1: The problem here is that you loved him more than the man you are married to and he loves you too but you can't have each other again, I guess the reason he could not tell you himself, he did not want to hurt you the second time, but this is good for you both or else you will cheat on your partners, just build your home for now with time you will learn to live with the fact that you can't have him. He will always be in your heart sha.

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  70. Poster 1 please face your family and forget about the guy. Poster 2 the choice is all yours. Maybe you should confront him or better still pretend and also don't give in to sex when he makes a move towards that area. Monitor him and catch him red handed. He might deny if you confront him.

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  71. I think I am the main chic of Poster 2's bae...... Lol16 November 2015 at 01:55

    Poster 2: Does this guy's name start with a 'V' and is he in Lagos? I think you are talking about my boyfriend. I can gladly leave him for you if you confirm this gist. I suspected for a while. And yes he does act like a saint and doesn't like being confronted with the truth.

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  72. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay16 November 2015 at 01:56

    Poster 1- you're childish honey! Really???

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  73. Poster 2 is this guy into sports and his name starts with I his middle name with M and his surname starts with I too? Is he from Abia state? That's a total description of this guy am dating now and he is so quick to anger at any given time. You can't tell him your mind he flares up. Painful thing is that he is so broke with pride.

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  74. i think I'm the other girl, poster 2. It's really complicated

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