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Sunday, February 28, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SIX YEARS DOWN THE DRAIN....

Hello Stella
I'm a big big fan of your blog .......

I have an urgent matter I need advice on from you and my fellow BVs as I'm in a crossroads at the moment. Sorry my tale is a bit long.
I'm a guy of 29, been in a very complicated long distance relationship for over 5years with a lady I love dearly and thought I will marry someday but I'm in a deadlock at this moment and can't move things forward. 

Things started out smoothly when I began dating ope 5 and a half years ago, she was fresh out of secondary school and was all I wanted. We were both in Lagos then as she stayed with her sister and mum was in Kaduna. We communicated regularly multiple times a day as every new relationship does and couldn't get enough of each other. I wasn't a saint as at then but we decided to stay clear of sex as she told me she got raped when she was younger and that pain has never left. I understood. I loved her that much. 

I had streams of side chics but I always made them understand I had a "fiancee" and wasn't looking for anything serious so the girls that wanted to stay and be my side Chic stayed and those that couldn't left. I was living the life. I loved ope above the all even without the sex, she was everything to me.
All this while she kept trying to get admission into a university but kept flunking ant each attempt. I encouraged her to never give up hope and pushing her to get a higher education. 


I stood with her till she got administration into a school in the north about 2years ago and she changed. She started avoiding my calls and messages and when she eventually picks my call it'll be to tell me she was busy with school, test, lectures and assignments and she'll call back never which she never did. I kept trying but this persisted for months. I always tried to remind her that relationships end when communication cease but she never seemed to understand what I was saying, I was emotionally unstable and this pushed me deeper into my side girl Ada's arms. Ada was always available at that time to fill the void ope created. But I always made her understand I had ope and she was okay with it.


Along the line ope had problems with school and had to drop out. She was devastated but realized she had neglected me all this while I was happy to have my old ope back and we communicated more than ever before. Note that all this while she had moved back to Kaduna to stay with her mum and we only saw a maximum of three times a year usually around Christmas when she came to Lagos to stay with her sister. 


Ada got her number from my phone without my knowledge along the line and called ope introducing herself as the side chick and being pregnant with my child which was a lie to end things between me and ope. Ope confronted me and after weeks of apologizing she took me back and I swore never to have a cheat again and I haven't broken that vow till today. I ended things with Ada.


 She got administration into a school in Ghana early last year and this changed again, communication stopped and she started forming busy again. I endured. One day while we chatted she playfully said if she ever cheats on me I should forgive her like she did me, I was surprised at her statement and asked what she meant but she playfully brushed the topic aside saying I should sha forgive her if she ever cheats on me.
 Only for her call me about a week later crying on phone asking for forgiveness that she cheated * she said she would cheat and she went ahead and did it* .... 


She threatened to commit suicide if I didn't forgive her so I did, or I told her I forgive her. But I just can't get my mind off this betrayal.... I keep asking her why she cheated but she can't give me any reason or answer. 
I can't get my head around how and why .... I stayed in a 6yr relationship with her without sex only for her to give the cookies to someone else in Ghana... 

Now her excuse is that her pastor told her we are not meant to be together and we truly decide to stay together we must be ready to fight for the relationship as we will have a million challenges along the way. On valentine's day her phone was off she didn't bother to call or drop a message but she was on Facebook all through.
 Now the questions I need advice from my fellow BVs from is I'm relocating to the US in a week, should I just end things with her and start a new life afresh in the states. Cus at the moment she isn't making effort to save this almost 6yr relationship. 

Please BVs I need urgent advice.
Thanks Stella.

P.s do hide my details before posting my chronicle.



THE HANDWRITING ON THE WALL IS CLEAR,CAN YOU READ OR NOT?
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145 comments:

  1. Replies
    1. A player just got played, why are you angry that she cheated on you?you started it so deal with it my dear
      And there is no need for you to be asking if you should start a new new life when you get to uk cos she is not coming back to you

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    2. What i still dont understand is how a guy will tell a girl he has a girlfriend but if she is willing to stay as sidechick that its okay. Wow. I would slap the bloody hell outta your stupid face. Imagine the stupidity. Or i will call up a girl and warn her about a guy. Hmmm okay o. Meanwhile, poster are you ready to marry her right now? No. Her phone was switched off on Val's day? Hehehehehe Rounds of sweating that didnt need disturbance from an ex that isnt aware he is one yet.

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    3. Ope does not want you, she never wanted you.

      This is not her first time of cheating, she only told you because she knows about yours.

      Free her biko. Anything that has reached "my pastor said......" please run away. Just let her enjoy herself.

      Move to the US and start a new life.

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    4. Well please, it's visible that she wants to move on, but you are the one fighting to keep her. She didn't give you they cookie but was willing to give someone else under a year. Just relocate with the intentions that it's over, cos she won't stay faithful neither will you, or maybe she would change back when she hears USA so u can invite her over some day.

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    5. Give it up and start afresh,cos distant relationship isn't for everyone.
      MOVE ON guy.

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    6. End things with her, relocating would also help heal you. Pele

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    7. It's over. As hard as it is. Please move on without her. Even if she apologizes let her go. She never loved you. Have a fresh start.

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    8. Poster
      Nna...repent, crawl back to Jesus , run an STD test and learn how to live for Jesus.
      Leave opes whatever ...and find a solution to a global problem.
      Build a company and be great

      That is my advice
      Bye

      See ya

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    9. Whad about your side chics? Forget about ope n use em to get her off your thoughts. N besides you weren't faithful so why this?

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    10. I'm not pitying u at all. You have been cheating so it's good for u to know how it feels.
      However, if she keeps ignoring u when she gets freedom, it means she doesn't love you. She has been managing u. Deal with that too. Use your tongue to count your teeth.
      Maybe she fell for someone in Ghana who broke her heart.
      If you tell her u r going to the u.s., I suspect her love for u will grow again. You are a friend with benefits.
      Why did you put her real name? This is supposed to be an anonymous chronicle. People who know her will know it is she u r talking about but u want them to hide your email


      *chews weed*

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    11. 6 years down the drain?

      Now you know how I feel
      After wasting 6minutes reading this chicken shit. (No offence)

      But honestly are u like fuckin retarded? (no offence)
      The way this story goes..or the way I understand it

      You were a graduate (cos u dint mention) dating a secondary school girl in absentia for 6years..and in that time you were sleeping with assorted girls and now you are heartbroken cos she slept with another man?

      You are a very stupid uncle

      And yes! ..I do mean every alphabet of that last sentence.

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    1. The Lord is working on it

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    2. Guy you cheated on her steady and she cheated on you too, una just dey deceive una selves for 6 years. Now you are relocating you want to continue the deceiving party. Guy send her and message and tell her e don do. Reason is LDR no dey work and you will meet plenty babes & side babes in US so you can continue your cheating ways, just remember babes in US get craze for head o.

      That na my 2cent

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  3. Sunday Chronicles!
    Brb.



    ******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******

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    1. Awwwwwww!
      Ope why nau, I don't why good guys always jamb bad girls, and bad guys to good girls, oga why did u keep a side chick in the first place, girls will be forming no sex, mean while their pant dey catch fire, i know of a girl den, who told his boyfriend same, d guy luv d girl, to d moon and back, if he even visit her in skul den, he sleep ova his frnd's, only for madam no sex aka "virginer" to give it to her neighbor, when I heard I was just laffing cos I knew miss "viginer" was not virgin at all.

      Well brotherly, for the luv u have for Ope, call her and talk to her hrt to hrt, tell her u knw she is playing games, but do not tell her u will be traveling soon, then watch her after d discussion, if she refuse to change, abeg go ahead and let her be, start your life afresh, and I bet u will get d very best girl, good luck dear.

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    2. Does this poster looks like a good guy to u? Cheat meet cheat. Deal wt it poster.

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    3. Who is the good guy here ????
      This cheating slimy individual ???
      Una just dey type wetin I no understand

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    4. Mumu emjay.....very daft, can't spell and forever mixing tenses.....so in your mumu mind this poster is a good guy abi? So a guy can cheat but a girl cheats and is a bad girl.....shut up emjay,now I know y people are always on your case

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  4. She is in love wif someone else

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    1. Lol
      Stick around dude, babe still loves you
      Meeh this is funny

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    2. The truth is u are a side boo, lmaooo.karma is knocking on ur head.u were chopping outside,so y is it paining u.u are very dull.u were keeping urs and chopping others, now rat Don chop food way you no gree eat.I can't stop laughing. That girl won't marry u,find wife in America, period. Don't do long distance relationship and stop having side chicks

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  5. Ope has moved on... Please, face your front dear brother.

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    1. Hahhahahahahahaha,this has got to be one of the funniest chronicles in recent times.Warahell?? You cheated countless times and you can't seem to wrap your head around the fact that she cheated? Ogbeni,get over yourself biko!!! Babe has so moved on to someone else and you know but you just refuse to accept it.Niggur move on already.Next time,don't do distance cuz distance is tricky. Talking from experience here Bro.And if you can't cope with a sexles relationship,say so from the word go so as to avoid stories that tickle the bum like this.

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  6. You have been cheating on her for years and yet you can't get over her betrayal? !

    Ogbeni, are you alright?

    Move on already. She doesn't want you. Go marry Ada or Simbi.

    Both of you sef and your administration.

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    1. Hahahahahaha @ 'administration' I wondered why he kept on making that mistake.

      Poster, it seems like Ope has lost interest in you. I think you should forget about her and start afresh. You are still young you have your whole life ahead of you.

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    2. Lol @ administration...

      Poster, talk true abeg. Wetin de pain you na say, last last, you no sleep with the girl.
      For BV's that always say women should learn to move on when a guy who they've slept with decides to leave, please learn. See how the babe just face front easily after she heard about a 'prophecy'.
      Meanwhile the guy de here de ask foolish question, even though he cheated on her severally, all because he did not get to have a taste of what he had been waiting for.

      If it was a female that sent in this story now, everyone would have said "women get fish brain".

      Poster sorry ehn...

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    3. Hahahahahahahaha,u r funny oliviasilk

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    4. Princess, your head dey there!!! The guy is only pained because he didn't get to bang her too. Nonesense!

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  7. Mr man, how old are you? You talk like a kiddo, free the small girl and let her flex. Many years without sex or with sex in a relationship, this is how it normally ends.

    God will provide a better boo





    *Larry was here*

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  8. This poster is very selfish oh!...
    You cheated on her with many girls and she forgave you but you won't do the same...
    Well,the relationship is dead on arrival...move on with your life since she told you what her pastor said...
    Mtcheeww...
    This chronicle is so childish!..

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    1. Too childish jare.Stella,is the chronicles folder empty?

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    2. @queen what pained the guy most is that she gv sm1 else first

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    3. Exactly ! @ Tuscany. He just can't get over the fact that he wasn't her first. Lmao!
      After all his toasting and waiting a sharper guy with better game beat him to it. Dude got served.

      I need to give Ope a high 5!

      The foolish boy went ahead to chase Ada away, the girl who loved him enough to fight for him. Olodo!

      Ogbeni writer, the truth is you were not good enough to take away her virginity. Did you expect her to hand it to you after enjoying several women?


      You better forge ahead. That your crush you termed love is dead in the water. Receive sense !

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    4. Abi o
      Queen I can't believe u wrote the right thing for once in ur life. 2016 , d year of change

      *weed*

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  9. Long distance relationships never work. Or very rarely work. The girl just didn't like you enough. If she could sleep with someone else but not you. But you Mr poster, if you cheated and she forgave, y can't you forgive her fully? Or don't you think what is good for the goose is also good for the gander? Men think only of themselves. Anyways, that girl dsnt care about you. Move on with your life

    Xxx Trinity Xxx

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  10. U cheated on her and she cheated back so what's your problem, why are men so selfish.

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  11. All of you are cheaters! God created sex to be enjoyed in marriage but you continue to browse every vagina in the name of "side chick", eventually, you want to settle with chaste one. She has just dribbled you and that's the game.

    Whether you are relocating to US or to "You Ex." carry that penis and put into a lock. Let me warn you that apart from STD's, US, babes settle your kind of bluff with a bullet to the forehead, just one bullet. And if you impregnate a girl, you will be working all your life to pay child support.

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    1. Dem no de hear. If you say it non stop for the next one year, he will still go there and believe girls are the same everywhere.

      Such people learn from their own experiences.

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    2. Preach it sister !!!!
      Illicit sex complicating lives since 1700
      See how you've been mixing body and spirits all in the name of enjoyment
      Continue my dear brother
      U.S ladies go show you pepper
      Lol

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  12. Ope doesn't want to be in a relationship with you
    Hell what you people have isn't a relationship to be honest, sounds like secondary school romance.
    Ope had been cheating and would still cheat
    She is in school and unless guys won't approach, I don't see why she would keep herself for a guy who would do the same and she doesn't get to see as often as those who are in real relationship do.
    Allow this girl concentrate on her studies, be her friend from afar and if you both are meant to be then it would happen.
    She is already bringing in prophecies and I am pretty sure she doesn't want to be with. Stop forcing it.

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    1. *Ope has been cheating.
      *she doesn't want to be with you.
      You've been brozoned since 1900, you just don't see it.

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  13. Poster I am not going to mince words. Let ope go, let every woman, girl, lady etc go. Wen u arrive at the u.s, start life afresh! Ope is using you, she was not raped, she only comes back to you wenever she needs help and knwing fully well u will always be there to be her backbone. Time without number she has shown it to u bt love is covering ur eyes to see it, pls start over. Not all relationships must lead to the alter, all this we have been dating for 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 etc yrs be making pple tink that qantity is quality. Bro, wen u find u spec, u will definitely knw.

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  14. All I see here are desperate girls sharing buttocks and player guy, "living what he called life". But know that "houses and wealth are inherited from parents but a prudent wife is from the Lord."

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    1. Do not inform her of your plans to relocate. Stop the calls n messages. After relocation do not post pictures got a while.
      After a month, post and watch how she'll bug you with calls n apologies.

      She has a me boo there, you need to move on

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    2. Guys and their arrogant mentality!
      You cheat for 6yrs and u think the fact that u tell the sidechicks abt 'ur fiancee' makes ur actions alright.
      But a girl cheats just once and u are finding it difficult to wrap ur head around it???
      Come and take this gele....perhaps u will find it less difficult 'wrapping it round ur head ' Anumpam!

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  16. You don't need advise.. ..trust me when you get to Us your eyes will open.. Those guys I loved when I get to abroad my taste changed.. Seeing clean fresh guy, sharp sharp I forget about my ex

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  17. guy forget that babe and go your way. This kind of stuff happened to me back then but i moved on .
    WTF. You are supposed to open the cork naa. #shootatsight

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  18. You don't need advice. Oga pls take a walk jo

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  19. Hello dear,

    You alone can make that decision, you don't expect us to tell you to leave her???

    If you know there's still hope........its your choice!

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  20. Bia poster u no get problem,u re still asking if u shuld end d relationship? Jst negodu

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  21. Guy, forget the babe..Come for me!!!!!! Lol!!!!!!
    The babe has been listening to "Psquare 's Do me"

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    1. Do me I do you ..God no go vex....

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    2. You also want to send in your own chronicles? An insatiable cheat is who you want? Women and stupidity

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  22. Who are you deceiving guy? After sampling all the vaginas on offer, you want to step into a home with a chaste girls. She is wiser than you are and God cannot be mocked! You are a disaster waiting to happen to any girl. You folks do not understand that premarital sex is a spiritual bondage. You think that when you get married, you'd stop? Nay, that is when you change to a cruising gear seeing that the coast is clear. Only Jesus can save you from this jail if you call on him!

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    1. Lmao. Most men are of the mistaken belief that they can whore around and then go scot free. Even if you marry a good woman eventually, you will never be free of that vice coz the bible says lust is like an unquenchable fire. Keep on poster. Keep on.

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    2. Smh.
      World people
      Sex creates a very strong bond between people ...They don't understand.
      I may have made mistakes in some ways...but now I understand better , I wont continue

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  23. Why do men cheat and are forgiven??but cant forgive women if they do same??

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  24. Why do men cheat and are forgiven??but cant forgive women if they do same??

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  25. Na mumu question you dey ask. Dis no be chronicle. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew, gerrarahere...

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  26. If this is how the story truly is then she seem like a confused person. She initially was Probably trying yo decide between you and someone else.
    She has made her pick and indirectly broken up with using the pastor excuse. That's what I this think.
    Well, forget about how long you've been together and move on. It won't be easy but move on you must!
    You can't continue to hope on uncertainty. Good luck!

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    1. Exactly my thought. Plan B things... She never truly forgave you after Ada revealed herself and you became a backup incase Plan A doesn't click. Plan A or whatever plan has obviously clicked. This is what happens when one is celebate and the other active, e come be long distance join. Move on bro

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    2. Poster, when you get to the US and see fresh girls, u will forget her.

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    3. She was never confused. She just didn't want him to be her first. The poster is a learner.

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  27. She is using you as a backup plan. Please move on.

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  28. Are you serious. Is ther a foolish man like this. She foes not want you.

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  29. Kai!

    Onye a n'eri gi mugu n'isi.

    In other words, she's just using you.
    Whenever she's in a happy place, she forgets you, then remembers you only when she's in trouble, or needs a shoulder to lean on.

    She was probably infatuated with you, you know, teenage stuff.
    Now, she feels she deserves better.

    Whether she gave out the cookie to somebody else or not, you both cheated on each other, not so?

    Now, you're travelling out. Just let her know and see the clingy, loving gf come back to you.

    Pastor ke? Rubbish!
    No pastor anywhere said anything.

    Meanwhile, she seems like someone who is not serious, no offence.
    Instead of facing her books, she's busying going to 'pastors ' for relationship prophecies.

    Una doh o!

    Please, move on and stop being drawn back to a past which holds no future.

    #WhiteDiamondOut

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    1. Lol @ Instead of facing her books, she's busying going to 'pastors ' for relationship prophecies.

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  30. Administration? Lmfao. At 29,your mates have started families, making hay while the sun shines, and all you're worried about is ope's cookies. Alright. My advice to you goes thus:






    Ahrghkknvxsdvgjjncssaachujnbwetyiiknnmllkhsawdvbhyjlpkgwqzcgijbnlpllwqcbj.

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    1. So funny, Poster hope you understand this Gibberish advice lmao.

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    2. PL THE GREAT you got me rolling on the floor. Mehn this is the funniest comment so far

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  31. Abeg go to America forget bout Ope, I don't think she loves you.

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  32. So sad, she gets easily distracted, she wants u as a last resort while she explores. Youthful lust, the year is still fresh to start afresh dude, u will find love again.

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    1. Princess wow! I am shocked by this apt deduction. You just said it all. She wants you as a last resort.

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  33. Wait I don't understand. Through out your relationship with the said lady, were you not cheating on her?

    So once that she did it, you want to die??? So e dey pain men like this?? Lmaoooooooooo

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  34. Leave her....u are her side cock....move on bruh!

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  35. Move on.

    That's all I am saying.

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  36. Nonsense ure claimin saint"i stayed a 6 year relationship wit re without sex
    U stayed without it cos u gat syd chickz

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  37. Ope doesn't love u the way u love her.. it's nt even abt the cookies.. she has probably met sumone else... u shud let her go.. it's not how long the relationship goes but how well.. and plss if u knw wats gud for u.. dnt tell her u r moving to the US.. she has left u since.. move on already.. sorry she dumped u...

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    1. He doesn't love Ope either, if he did he wouldn't cheat. He knows he can't stay with sex, don't be with a girl who doesn't want to have sex with you. See his cheating head

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  38. Admission= administration

    Felt like a punch in my neck every time I saw it.

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  39. Please Biko leave her,she told you she cheated because that guy dumped her sorry ass,she is not in love with you, you are just the side guy.she has been cheating on you tey tey
    But you know stupid love is blind, you can take her back so that tomorrow you won't marry another lady and still be loving this one like last week chronicle. If you try it I will personally curse you

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  40. Shantelle loves Tuscany28 February 2016 at 15:23

    Lol.see talk....
    'I had streams of gf's torh! You were also cheating na. Na you teach her bad thing.
    She did it just once and you wan die.nawa! Men be dishing out what they cant take.
    Pele shogbo?

    SHantelle

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    1. The guy is just a sad case. Very annoying.

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  42. Relocating to US and u r asking questions? Just leave and don't tell her. If she mistakenly gets ur number, just tell her the moment u left naija was the day everything ended. Finish.

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  43. So until she marry place the pictures for fb before you know that she's no more interested in you. Guy, babe has moved on long time ago, travel and start on a fresh note.

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  44. Selfish guys...U play games and when same game is played on u, u begin to whine. U tasted ur own medicine...
    May I add that distance doesn't help relationships. There will always be a void. U either stay and be in a relationship for real or end things. This is a "situationship".

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  45. Things ended while she schooled in the north, am sure she had sm1 then also. Shes gonna be getting soo much attention frm people that are right there with her compare to u who is far away.
    Just focus on your new life in the states and get a corect babe and move on.
    I never supprt distant relationships except theres total commitment, honesty and openness and the person is the partner of ur dreams and sef, it shouldnt be distant frm the beginning but after a foundation has been built.

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    1. So he can cheat on the new babe ???!
      You people won't advise him to mend his evil ways
      It's really a man's world isn't it ?

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  46. 6 years she has been cheating unbeknown to you. This Ope was not loyal from the beginning, but she believes that you are an opportunity she cannot do without. My advice will be for you to forget about her cos she give you pepper. Her legs travel North and South, believe me or not! The pastor was right in saying that you are not meant for each other. Your other half is yet to introduce herself to you. Good luck!

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    1. He got served plain and simple

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  47. I feel u guys should just split. This off n on rship, ejo ,me I dont understand it jare.

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  48. Bobo yi o serious. What questions are you asking when you can see things clearly your self the relationship has gone bad. You cheated, you felt it should be easy for her to forgive you so she lied by pretending all is well again but this gave her courage to confess to you because you are once for given too. So that you two will not waste each others time, let her be left alone while you move on too.

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  49. Its clear she doesn't love u.bros na by force leave her she obviously is using you.she isn't in love with u.but ur written English so poor. Hmmm admission or adminstration. Didn't no Pple r adminstration into d university.

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  50. you both cheated.... you especially started the cheating.... she has cheated back and now you are talking about betrayal.... both of you sha need to break up.... no love found!

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  51. Wait, what are you asking about. You cheated numerous times and you are acting hurt now? *hiss* Boy, please! What is this? When you were cheating, you thought it was only something boys can do? Both of you have no regard for yourselves or your relationship. I am not sure what the vex is about now.

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  52. Buhahahahahah. Dude move on biko, stop wailing.. but you also cheated on her na abi.. hahahahahaha

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  53. Hornyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and bored.
    I miss my boo

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  54. But you were cheating na. Can't take a bit of your own pie?

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  55. Poster is still a child at 29.

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  56. Most comments are so silly.People don't read to understand.
    He wants the relationship but the girl is not making any effort.

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    1. We understand perfectly. She's not making any effort because she doesn't love him, ergo her cheating.
      The dude should stop crying over spilt milk.

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  57. Mr man, please move on, she doesn't love you!

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  58. Poster you are an idiot...you cheated on her and she forgave you; now she cheated you can't get it off your mind? *yimu*

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  59. Do me a favor, go run a test for me (Stds), when you are done, then you can come back for advice. Mtcheeeww

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  60. No, please stay. Love is blind and stupid.true love will always stay in the rain, sun, moon, start, etc. Ode!

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  61. Poster it is too clear that ope doesn't love you, she is just using you to met up, please don't force yourself on her, let her go and try to get over her, start a new relationship over us.

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  62. I love it when girls treat guys this way. You deserve the rejection. Move on loser.

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  63. She has cheated on you before she asked you. You both cheated on each other by the way, so don't bring that stupidy of she can't do the same to the table. Both of you should move on.

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  64. You are a just a side guy to her, that's all. She isn't into u n she is trying to keep u dia, till she sees something she wants.

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  65. guy d babe has move on, pls do move on also. good luck

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  66. guy is time for you to move on, your ope has moved on already. all the best.

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  67. Poster, all this rant because a girl you constantly cheated on gave you a dose of your own medicine? You either forgive her and start on a fresh note or you move on. But learn to be faithful next time, if cheating on you feels so hurtful, then don't cheat. so ti bo?

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  68. She loves you. .she just did it as a way of revenge. .. Hoping it will make her feel better. .trust me, am speaking out of experience

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  69. Mtchew go to the US and start your life

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  70. Mtchew go to the US and start your life

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  71. How can you say you love someone and still have sidechicks in the background? Dude check yourself, you never loved her. Period. You only wanted a good "virgin" girl, while you had your trips with others. You forgot you can't eat your cake and have it? Deal with it! You just got served. If you want a good girl, then be a good boy. Copied that? Good riddance to bad rubbish. Mtschewww!!!

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  72. Lol! Poster darling, you got served, swallow the same mashed potatoes you dished her, go to the states and cheat no more.

    Ozichu

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  73. Thunder fire that your dick poster.....so in your stupid mind a man can cheat but a woman dares not......ole am happy she did not give her virginity to you....u shared your dick with other women and u want to marry a virgin.....thunder fire your head....ewu Gambia

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  74. Bros, that gal is not ur mate @ all better go look for ur mate out their so you can live long.

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  75. In your heart,you know you do not have peace with this girl.
    There's too much drama.
    I hope you haven't told her you're travelling o.
    Just travel and cut off ties with her.
    Start afresh when you get to u.s.a

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  76. Long distance relationships are bullshit. For a young couple it's very impractical. Also hate the thing where you're not fucking each other but y'all are fucking around outside. My advice to poster; get over it or break up but not without beating that pussy up bruh. 6 years is a long time to date only for some other schmuck to get them cookies before you.

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  77. Hi Dear,so sorry about this all.
    first, you met Ope when she wasnt exposed, she met other guys on campus and distances wouldnt help, she needed a company only that she got lost in it.
    secondly, side chic(friends with benefit) kills.pls avoid them(its hard,but possible)
    Thirdly, ds 6 years relationship isnt going anywhere. pls Call Ope and End.if she can get this distracted, she will in marriage too.
    However, why you still feel Ope is the one is because you are yet to taste the cookie.The moment ope gives it to you,she becomes a past tense to you
    lastly, take some time off in relationship, your next minute girl now might be you rebound girl. you dont need it. All the best starting all over

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