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Monday, February 29, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives..

Today we have three serious Narratives and i am back to commenting..LOL






NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

ABOUT TO SAY YES BUT....

Stella love dalu soo.

Please hide my ID and post as soon as possible cause time is ticking.  The advice am gonna get here will aid me with my decision and I have just few days left. Cause he has being patient enough waiting for my final reply.

Please I have something bothering me and would like to share since I have no body to share personal issues with.


Am 23, he is 37. We met online and we have not seen physically though that's not the problem.  

This guy in question is very homely and caring to my taste, he notice my every slightest mood swing and won't stop till am back to normal. Currently he is in Pakistan yet 24/7 he is on call with me. Talking with me gives him the joy,it's not just forming cause I can feel it. Communication flows very well between us.

 He is asking for my hand in marriage and he keeps saying that the worst thing that will happen to him is if I leave or reject him.
 OK of recent he started talking with my parents and they are cool with him. He says he is coming back this Easter finally to settle down. 
This guy in question was totally sincere to tell me about his life and the sufferings he went through and he told me the business he is doing in Pakistan is drug business but that he is only doing it to raise enough capital and get assets which he has and also raise enough capital to start a genuine business. 

He also said or rather promised to leave the business once he is back. 
Now my problem is , I don't know if the age difference Is too much.?

Two is it possible that he will leave the business as he said? 

This guy in question though his nature of business is bad  he claims he doesn't play with church and Christian activities over there. Even before we end our call every night we pray because he insists we do and he leads it.
Am a young girl that hasn't seen or experienced much in life so I would love the bvs here who have seen life to help and put me through. 
Do they really stop the business once they get enough capital?  Is the business that bad?
Please make una no too curse me cause I won't be asking if I know. 

NOTE:  he has not being married before both Nigeria and abroad. And apart from the two questions i asked I don't have any problem with him.


My Dearrrrrr nah one chance you wan enter so!..Infact ONE CHANCE!
Hopefully they dont catch him before he retrns or after he marries you and decides to go and do a last one.
My dear,if you were my sibling,i would discourage you from getting involved with someone who does this for a living,they always go back when they are running out of cash.


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHEN KARMA CATCHES

Trust your doing great honey.
My heart has been troubled for a very long while, each time I try to get it off my mind, thoughts keeps coming. Could this be conscience? Why do I feel bad? Or guilty.

Early last year I met a great guy, he was everything a girl would want in a guy, but something just wasn't right. He asked me to be his girlfriend, I agreed. I told him no sex and he was very ok with it. Things went on well, but I wasn't feeling him, I tried all I could no way, there was no likeness. Physically he was the tall dark and handsome dude, and had asked me out one month after we met. But overtime there was no connection, he was quiet, he never complains, ready to bend anyhow I ask him to, does everything I ask him to. His phone didn't have password, he was open, honest and all. 

I could swear he wasn't even looking another girl in the eye,He would call me to pray in the morning, call me to pray at night. Always said I was the best thing that ever happened to him.he was in love with me.

Fast forward to 4 months into our relationship, I tried to see if my feelings for him would change, it didn't. I started telling him honestly how I felt. Each time I told him I wasn't feeling the relationship and didn't want to lead him on further he would cry and beg professing love. On my birthday 7 months into our relationship he asked me to marry him. Stella I couldn't deal, I said NO. 

Thank God it wasn't a public proposal, just the both of us in his house. That's how he cried, he cried, I followed him to cry o, telling him i couldn't marry someone am not in love with, I don't look forward to cheating on my husband, I want to be the best wife and mother, and marrying someone I don't like would not help me. That's how we cried ourselves to sleep.

Next day I left his house, the problem is my mind isn't at rest. I hurt him so bad, I know so. I can feel his pain. He is not giving up on me, he still has my picture on his Instagram page. After the breakup he left Nigeria and has not been back since then. He stills sends me messages, Everyday I feel bad for hurting someone this bad. How do guys break so many girls heart and still be able to sleep at night?. Just one and I can't find peace with myself.

Please I do I call him to apologize? How do I get him to take my picture off his page? How do I find peace with myself like I didn't do anything wrong? Was I wrong ? Why do I feel bad each time I think of him? Is it normal? Now am in love with someone who doesn't love me back, could this be karma? 
Please post as anonymous...thanks Stella love.


Stupid girl...you dated a man who oved you and didnt ask for sex and you let him go and now you are dating someone who doesnt love you and probably giving booty.Why dont you stay single and do some soul searching?
Dont call him,leave him,when he gets over you,he will take off your photos,dont torture him further
Dont apologise,dont call him...stay quiet and let him get over you *tongue click*


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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE
CAUGHT RED HANDED


Good day Stella,I am an ardent reader but rarely comment.please hide my ID...I don't know where this fits in but please post my story.
I have been dating a guy now for a 1yr plus,he is 35 while am 25.

3weeks ago I saw a video of my BF having sex with a girl,the girl is someone I know and she knows my boyfriend and I are dating because we are pretty serious.so I saw the video and I was so shocked I started crying,he was taking his bath so when he came in and saw my mood he looked at the laptop and saw that I have seen the video,so he wanted to start explaining of which I shut him up and left his place.


The night of that day I saw a text from him apologising for what happened but I didn't reply,my boyfriend started calling me and was begging every blessed day.he told our close friends what he did and they not happy with him,he kept on begging and I finally forgave of which I know he was truly sorry.two weeks after am still angry at him for what he did.i dont know if I should forgive him fully or move on.please Stella your red pen is needed.thanks and God bless you


Why did he record their nacking?He slept with someone you know?SMH.
I dont know what to say really!




188 comments:

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    1. Let's get this sorted out. I was the one using just Amazing. No need to call Blogbrity out. Enough of this nonsense criticism. No need at all at all. Remember I told Stella that I will change ID and put her husband's name as Monika. I just want to gain ground before I continue. Is Alarm Tm even a name. Mtcheeew.

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    2. Jhw, let me help you with a comment. ..

      Poster one, please quit the relationship, is not worth it, he will never stop. Plus the age, he's going to treat you like the kiddo you are.

      Poster 2. You no love am baa? Am glad you called it a quit so that better person go come and occupy. #nohardfeelings, you did the right thing.

      Poster 3. Wetin be your chronicle sef,
      Recording gbenshing...lol please any dude wey dey record gbenshing no be better person, please ooo, receive sense and trade with caution or better still leave him in peace. Forget that begging things, na today?

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    3. Poster 1, the age gap is much o. That's just number one. Number two you've not seen him in person. Marriage is a serious issue and until you meet him face to face and know him personally over a considerable period, I don't think you should be talking about marriage. Thirdly, I think this guy knows that time is no longer on his side and he wants to come back and settle down, it is really possible that he wants to come back and start a new business. See eh nne, I really dunno. But I just think there's something fishy about it. I'm not in support as a result of his business and the age difference

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    4. Poster 2, ehyaa. I get how you feel. Maybe he's moved on. You'll never know. Just call him under a ruse of catching up and knowing if you can be friends. If he loved you he'll still feel something for you unless he now has babe. If he does, just go. But wait o, you don't sound like you even like him, you're just missing the feeling of being loved. Nne ndo. As you make your bed, so shall you lie on it. As for the pictures, you could just tell him that as you guys are no longer together, you're not comfortable with being on his IG. However, that's his decision. It's his IG. Lol. Ndo

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    5. Poster 3, you know the answer. You just need justification. It's bad enough that he cheated on you, he even recorded it. For what now? Please you're not even married to him yet. Biko leave that filth. Forgive him but don't go back to him. You deserve better.

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    6. Poster 1, I suspect the guy is ibo. Most guys who claim to be 37 or 38 are already in their 40s...if not late 40s
      Talking from experience. If he is caught doing drugs there, consider urself a widow. Ppl doing that biz hardly ever stop. Which God fearing guy does drugs? You are young and naive that y u r believing what he is saying. Your parents may put pressure on u cos he will have money but u will be making a terrible decision.

      Poster 2. I go like see a guy crying for love. Damn... however, I feel for you guys. If u date a guy who doesn't love u, u will battle with infidelity for life.

      Poster 3. Endtime boo

      *lights weed*

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    7. Say something
      1. Guys hardly leave drug biz alone.
      2. You are not serious
      3. The next will be both of you. Na wa o, at his age for that matter.

      the 3 chro posters are with wrong guys.

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    8. Poster1pls I dnt knw wot to tell u. Im even scared on ur behalf.
      Poster2 I pray u don't end up regretting let that guy go.
      Poster3 you will never completely trust him again. So its better you call it quits.

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    9. Poster 1, hmmmmm... if u follow ur drug pusher, trouble. If u abandon d relationship trouble. U don buy 'makeeeti'.

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    10. Poster one, He won't leave that business and one day one day, he'll be caught and you'll be in deep shit.


      Poster two, It's very normal to love someone and the person doesn't reciprocate, it's not karma. It's good you told the dude your mind and not allow him waste his time. Leave him to heal and get over you, that guy that you love, just get over him also. This is life and you have to deal with it. You won't love every one that loves you and not everyone you love will love you back.


      Poster three, Forgive him but give yourselves break. Who knows what he has done again? See why snooping is good? Why does he even have that video?

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    11. I just have a word for Poster 2. Youre a damn fool honey. I dont know wer ladies keep getting the idea that they most be head over heels in love bfr they marry. If u find a man that meets certain physical and financial requirements, loves u, puts u first, prioritises ur needs above his and has an unconditional desire to make you happy, u best grab him, put him in ur bedroom, lock the door twice and put the key in ur pata because u r very lucky. U will learn to love him. In the meantime appreciate the love he gives u and bask in it cos take it from me, there are too many he-goats, assholes and sheep out there parading as men and if they get u, no be pesn go tell u cos difference no go dey between u and who trailer jam.

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    12. I just have a word for Poster 2. Youre a damn fool honey. I dont know wer ladies keep getting the idea that they most be head over heels in love bfr they marry. If u find a man that meets certain physical and financial requirements, loves u, puts u first, prioritises ur needs above his and has an unconditional desire to make you happy, u best grab him, put him in ur bedroom, lock the door twice and put the key in ur pata because u r very lucky. U will learn to love him. In the meantime appreciate the love he gives u and bask in it cos take it from me, there are too many he-goats, assholes and sheep out there parading as men and if they get u, no be pesn go tell u cos difference no go dey between u and who trailer jam.

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    13. Poster one, your story reminds me of a friend's friend. Met her when she and one of my best friends were serving together up North! They used to do all these phone prayers, the guy walkways traveling thru one European country to the other. Then he came home and they got married, she went over to live with him and was back in Naija in 3 years with 2 kids telling one sketchy story.i really felt for cos she's s a really nice girl. Now a single mother cow that guy doesn't contribute shishi to anything...hian!!! Na one chance she enter oh.....yours might be different but I doubt!!

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    14. Poster one....Kikikikikikikiki na laugh I dey laugh o. Na real makeeti you buy like the anonymous said. I never pay finish for the one wey I buy. lol.

      Poster 2, that's life for you. A bloody rollercoaster. It's not karma, it's just life. Forgive yourself please. Would you rather marry him out of pity?

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  2. Monday chronicles is here, chopping pop corn while reading chronicle.

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    1. Poster 3 he is not sorry for what he did trust me. He is just sorry he got caught. The next video will be urs. He will never stop cheating sha

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    2. End time chronicles
      Mrs korks, fantastic replies.
      Some girls can b funny with der end time decisions shaa.

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  3. Yay Chorincles don land oh!!

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    1. Poster 1, Stella please not all goes back to it if sincerely quit, I have a living witness, the guy went doing it cos of money and God was so much kind to him, he acquired wealth and finally quit for life, now he's doing genue business, married with kids now.

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    2. Ify ekunie,the guy,his wife or kids will still pay for his sins,there is something about drugs business that haunts them,they never go free because a lot of them kill and they have destroyed destinies

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    3. That's what he told you abi??? Stella is right they always go back when they are broke

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  4. Will read comments

    Jesus take control

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    1. Poster 3, move on abeg, he even had the guts to record. Poster 2, karma is a botch right ? Poster 1, Pakistan ke? Just negodu

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    2. Monet 19:40 is sooo right I wasn't totally in love with my husband before we got married but he met all my requirements but after marriage o don't think I can do without him I keep imagining if I let him go. God forbid

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  5. @ last poster at 35 he should be married.

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  6. Hmmm. These ones pass me.







    Jesus is Lord.

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    1. Ihn news is here
      Pls my blog family, I'm still on the matter o,and it's now causing sleepless night,please my people, I need make up kit, to be able to start my make up biz,ive already gotten a space at ksu anyigba,and all I need is to start my biz is make up kit,please help to make dream become a reality. God bless us all

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    2. Poster 3 the dog may sleep with your sister soon. Live him and move on biko
      Poster 2 hope d drug dealer is not from imo state, I know u are carried away by his ill gotten wealth but babe be careful.

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  7. poster one your age difference shouldnt be a problem. it is better to date a man more matured than you than to date small small boys. About his biz, if he is serious about stopping the biz and doing something else then y dont you hold him to his word??

    poster two you had a nice guy and you just let him go just like that??? many women are prayiing for a good man and you just took advantage of the guys feelings for you. na wah.

    poster three that your bf and that girl omg! i can't take that. if you have to cheat, cheat with someone i don't know and who dsnt know me. he just insulted you. if you take him back, he will do worse. he has no respect for you. he can beg from now till thy kingdom come, don't take him back

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    1. Poster 1 why do u want to destroy urself?ure still so young,i mean why do u want to take up a baggage this heavy,why?look girlie praying with u many times a day dosent lessen the evil,what he's doing is wrong and no its not better than robbery,its on the same pedestal so don't go consoling urself and he claims he'll stop hmm baby listen to me,once u play dirty deres always a liklihood of going back wen ure pushed to d wall and don't even start giving me dt he's from a poor home story,a lot of young men and women started struggling from d scratch and dey didn't have to get their hands soiled while at it,wait,hes even 37 and dts nt a problem to u?baby yes someone will marry a kidnapper,a suicide bomber,a drug dealer but sweetheart dt person won't be u,u have a beautiful life ahead of u,wait for it#nohurries

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    2. Poster 1, I think he's honest enough to you. How many people will disclose such? You don hear say na condition make crayfish bend. I have a feeling he's actually going to quit. My only problem is that online proposal. The age is nothing as long as he respects and loves you and vice versa. Don't let bad belle people on this blog influence your decision. Pray about it. If your mind is at peace with it, be grateful. I wish you all the best

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    3. A lot of all this drug dealers can't handle the pressure of legit business because of the stress he will. Surely return

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  8. Poster 1 OYO it's always easier said than done and giving up something you are used to is very hard.
    You are 23 and in love with a 37year old man who is dealing illegally.
    May the force be with you o and have you told your parents what he does for a living?

    Poster 2 please let me have his number so I can console him. I am very good at consoling people...LOL.
    I am just here looking at you like his your beans no done. Go and use koinkoin with black soap and wash your head. You village people have done you strong thing and you don't even know it.

    Poster 3 go back and check he doesn't have a recording of you two going at it.
    You have a pig for a boyfriend and still wasting your tears. It wasn't bad enough that he cheated on you with someone you know, he kept evidence to remind himself.

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    1. How is Boki your lebso partner doing?

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    2. There was a guy that wanted to marry me with yahoo yahoo 419 business I pack my leg fly..drug is even worse don't believe his lies

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  9. POSTER ONE:

    You do not deserve a curse, you deserve flogging. At 23, you do not know that drug dealing is evil and the money is blood money. Which blood money will set up a family? After wasting the lives of others, he wants to "settle down"; to what? And all you are concerned with is if he will leave the crime? Which prayer is he praying; to which god? Except it is a prayer of repentance; nothing is acceptable to the God of all flesh! Have you told your parents the criminal they are cool with?

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    1. You've told her. Anyone who can deal drugs can kill. Add most are murderers coz that bizness is only for those who have their hearts behind.

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  10. poster one you are sitting on a long thing, for me o I just can't marry the guy cos his line of business is deadly, what if they catch him on your marriage day or something? his mouth has gone wide d guy can't stay to manage life. even if he quit he may be tempted to go back, the last decision is on you.

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  11. Poster one u r so naive. Is it that u r blind or desperate or what? I don't understand. Drug in Pakistan? Hahahahahaa...until he's caught or uses u as a carrier.

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    1. Are u minding the little greedy girl.no morals. for the fact u have no problem with his work scares me.he has used money to block ur senses. That guy is bad news, how can u agree to love and marry someone u have not seen, haven't u learnt at least one thing from tHis blog.desperate girl.if there was no drug money would u have danced to this same tune

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    2. Drug business is one thing. Has it even crossed your mind that he might be using? You really want to have children around someone like that?. Wow!

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  12. Hmmmmm! Nawa o. Receive sense abeg!

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  13. Two in one is better biko!
    You want to empty your chronicle pot?

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  14. Poster two. Stop deceiving urself. Stop stalking his instagram page. Stop thinking of him.
    It's not karma!
    It's mumu.

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  15. @Poster 1, I will tell you marry him if he's no more into that business, but since he still insist on doing it till certain time, please stay clear him.

    @Poster 2, your case is that of a Karma coming to haunt you, follow your mind my dear.


    @Poster 3, if you can't forgive him, abeg free the poor guy.
    So we still have ladies that allow their bf record their 'Action' and still sending nude pix, how are we to tell them to listen to our campaign of 'No to Nude Pix and Sex Video?





    *Larry was here*

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  16. Poster 1,
    Most people that are rich in this country apart from politicians made money from "ngwongwo"drug business or fraud...
    They do stop the business though except some few greedy ones!...
    Trust me that business gives HBP mehn...egwu onye okara Obi!...
    For those that didn't invest well,Today they are rich and goes broke tomorrow when there is a flop!...
    Advise him to invest,invest and invest!!...
    And finally,marry him joor...age is just a number!...

    Poster 2,
    Let him go joor...dude is a broke ass!...
    Move on and don't apologise anything...
    Look for a bigger fish mehn...

    Poster 3,
    Forgive him If he is rich and he spends on you...
    Don't leave your man because he fucked some random chick!..

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    1. You stink.. mofo

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    2. who so ever take ur advice will be lead Astray. you are so dumb #foolish queen

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    3. Queen and King of this blog!
      I swear i love ur comment die

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  17. Poster 1.... countries like Egypt, Pakistan etc. I will not allow even my enemies to rove them like you dey rove this guy. Dont be tempted ooo. Drug money is sweet but if caught, you are on your own. If you really love him, tell him to come to Nija and establish himself with businesses here.

    Poster 2... abeg send the guy number, i get my sister wey go need him since you foolishly left him.

    Poster 3.... Why are you crying. I hope the guy never chop your kpekus. That guy is stupid ooo. Videoing his love making. Hope you have not given him, so that he wont video you. Guys are bad. What is his gain in videoing.

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    1. Poster 3
      He isn't even young (at 35 guys are married with children)
      So not a juvenile
      He's a delinquent
      Childish, foolish, disrespectful, careless, amoral attitudes ARE WHAT HAS BROUGHT SOCIETY SO LOW.

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  18. You last poster, are you alright at all? You want to forgive him and take him back just cos of what exactly? Don't waste our space here with your mumu question...mtchwwww

    poster 2, if he is not your type of guy, your attitude towards him alone should make him run. I wonder the kind of feeling you think you have for him in the first place. Cos if a guy is not my kind, he would smell my NO from a very long distance.

    poster 1, drug pusher in pakistan??? RUNNNNNNNN

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  19. Poster three, that guy doesn't respect u. U n d knacked are playthings to him!

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  20. Poster 1: please don't marry him. There is a diff between a church goer and a Christian. And no, age dosent matter in marriage.

    Poster 2: leave him nw, abi is it more than breakup? Abeg he wld get over it. Karma? I ve no idea but I knw it's better for u to marry someone that loves u better than u do.

    Poster 3: you didn't forgive him cuz if u did, u wld ve put it past u. Besides why do I think he wld still do such again? If he did it to someone u knw, then he wld with someone u dnt know. Berra go and look for 2nd option.

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  21. lemme read comments today...chronicles of life

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  22. Poster 1:
    Let him stop drup pushing and start something else sustainable.
    Also let him come home, date him physically for sometime before you decide.
    Poster 2:
    Girls don't know what they want. I guess the other one has started knacking your akpako

    Poster 3:
    This is what we call "the handwriting on the wall" it's clearly written. But the visual signals will only be received by your fishbrain receptors. Goodluck

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    1. Don't mind her, she knows nothing about him physically but wants to marry.

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    2. Start business with what money?
      Bloody cursed and acidic money?

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  23. @poster 1 if you like yourself, better run for your life because any day he is broke he will go back to drugs forgetting his promises, na love dey catch am now.
    @poster 2 you should be happy a guy loves you more than you love him. Your loving him will come with time or you don't know that, Kpele oh... for letting a good guy go.
    @poster 3 if you can forgive him do that.(Note that forgiving means forgetting by not bringing it up when issues comes up) if not WAKA after all you are not yet married.

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  24. Poster 1
    Marry him at your own risk. There's no one Jesus cannot touch though.

    Poster 2
    Please leave the poor boy and face your loveless relationship, going back to him is not a nice thing to do..I'm begging on his behalf,leave him alone!

    Poster 3
    Mtscheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!
    Suit yourself!

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  25. Arrrr..

    Poster 1. You are 23?! And you are desperate like this?

    Poster 2. Let the guy heal, don't contact him and stop feeling bad.. person wey get head no get cap, person wey get cap no get head na hin be your matter.

    Poster 3. They only beg when they are caught, better check well your own videos might be there too. Then FLEE.

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  26. POSTER1: run for ur life!!!!! Don't be naive.

    POSTER 2: u don't know what u want. Pls give d guy space and allow pple who appreciate good things take over. Feelings ko feelings ni. Allow him get a serious prsn while u wait for ur own.

    POSTER3: you have a philandering bf & a pervert. What was d recording for? He'll sleep Wt ur sister if opportunity arises. Run!!!!

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  27. This guy in question is very homely and caring to my taste, he notice my every slightest mood swing and won't stop till am back to normal.
    Poster 1: u have convinced urself what you want to believe.Do you know if he is a cripple based in Pakistan? If u find out he's cripple and he comes to marry u will u marry? Girls, let's stop convincing ourselves about what isn't. Men will tell you any and everything to keep u glued to him till u have no option and all these men who are away are good @ it.Is he going to drop the business? Nne till u marry him and things fall apart then you will answer the question yourself.Think,think, think do you want to become an accomplice to a drug pusher? Please do not even consider him besides how are you sure you are chatting the exact dude?

    Poster 2: Aghotaro m ife I na ako, both of you have tears in your eyes keep crying.

    Poster 3:Anyman who records himself having sex with a girl doesn't respect you, he sleeps with another girl and has the video in the same house where you are? He doesn't respect you if he likes he should roll himself in mud from Ajah to Ijesha my dear say no.

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    1. Are u minding her,she has been scammed,mugu of life.that her talk of mood made me laff,she sounded like a toddler

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  28. Chronicle no1, I don't want to hear stories of domestic violence o, that's how these drug dealing dudes will come and marry from naija only to return and we'll start hearing stories of how the guy beat her till she dropped dead. Flee my friend.

    Chronicle no2, Ibu amusu!!! Witch!!! U probably will ask this new guy of urs to marry u and he will turn u down after day and night fucking, then u will know the true meaning of HURT!!!

    Chronicle no3, how sure are u that another gal hasn't seen ur sex tape with that animal, I mean if u saw his with another gal there's every possibility he must have taped you in the act too.
    Anyway... my candid advice is that u forgive and FLEE!!!

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  29. waiting for comments.....Narrarive 2, You need Jesus.

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  30. Poster A. Better run, face your life and stop visiting online dating sites it does more harm than good. Ok o
    Poster B, ntorr good for you, you haven't seen Anything. Don't you know you can grow to love a person? Instead you are looking for the who you love but doesn't care one bit about you.Congratulations on turning your soulmate to your ex boyfriend
    Poster C:did you check that system well to ensure your own video is not there, don't deceive yourself and think you are the main chick. He has your video too,he is a psycho

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  31. 1. I concur with stella but drug money is d bomb sha ooo
    2.My dear, been there b4, would gladly donate kidney 4 dis babe but she says she sees me as a frnd, i just moved on after i saw she wasnt budging. Just be mute and move on and love urself instead.
    3. See, its already bad enough he slept with sm1, worse is that its someone u know and the height is that he recored it, he doesnt respect u and shldnt be ur bf.

    NB. @P2, WHY DO GIRLS SAY NO SEX? hw about boys start saying ok lets date but no affection, how will u feel?
    Dear future bae, dont even imagine telling me such ooo, i cant even do it sef cos the moment u say it, its a super turn off 4 me. I will respect u nt to rush into it but it wont be funny d day that locationa nd time wld be perfect 4 it u wee now say no sex...

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  32. Poster 2:

    You did something wrong; you were living in with a man who hasn't paid your bride price and whom you did not love. You led him on and now? Leave him alone to heal.

    Poster 3: why you girls cheapen themselves by living in with a man that hasn't paid your bride price? And you are complaining he has a sex tape; you think he doesn't have YOUR OWN SEX TAPE? What do you think he needs to masturbate? You girls having extramarital or premarital sex are giving boys free pornography! When you leave him, it hits the internet!
    WHO opens legs for sex?
    Who get's pregnant?
    Who bears the guilt of abortion (the man shares in the consequences though; see Proverbs 6:16) and cries every second/everyday?
    Who is heartbroken and shattered and confused?
    Who has insecurity and low self esteem?
    Who is seen as the whore?
    Who has suicidal thoughts (yes you murdered a human being or more see Gen. 9:6)?
    Who sulks even a decade after the man has moved on, married and had kids?
    Who is dumped?
    On and on and on.
    LADIES, WHY NOT CLOSE THIS HOLE CALLED VAGINA UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED? THE TEST THAT A MAN "LOVES YOU" IS THAT HE IS ABLE TO RESPECT YOUR BODY TILL HE PAYS YOUR BRIDE PRICE.
    When the man finishes with you he moves on to the next "gullible victim"
    Leave such men who are only interested in you body (no; just interested in your vagina and breasts) alone and face your life and make it right with God and do not kill kids etc.
    Jesus says; "whoever comes to me I will not cast away". Matthew 7:6 "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.


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  33. P1, who knows aside the drug business what again he's hiding from you. Any drug dealer has the ability to kill. NNE find another lover. P2,abeg leave him alone, love will find him, after all your true love have found you, concentrate on him and make him love you, ndisime. P3, that one na boo so?

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  34. Poster 1: you've not seen yet you're confused if to marry him or nah? Use your medula

    Poster 2: I know that feeling of being with a good guy who loves you but you don't feel same. I will wait for comments on this one cuz I need to learn too.

    Poster 3: your boo has a boo who. Video what??? I can't deal. He has a very dirty mind. No time jor, accept his apology if he is worth it. Men can be crazy but this your own video maker is crazier.

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  35. Poster 2= Dnt mind stella and her judgemental ways, marriage is a serious thing and u shud love d person you decide to get married to even if its 40%, u must still love the person.
    You didn't do anything wrong by breaking up d relationship
    D reason u feel guilty is because u put ur happiness first before his, which is very ok because if u had stuck to d relationship to the end, u wud have destroyed urself in it.

    Time heals all wounds, let d guy be, ge will cope well without u n stop wishing u did things differently, u only did what was best for you


    My 2$


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  37. 23yrs against 37?. 37 yr old druggie. Abandon ship!

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  38. Poster 1
    Don't marry that man,u are too young for such a drama biko.

    Poster 2. NTOOR........

    Poster 3. biko leave that cheat ASAP.

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  39. Poster 1
    How can you be ready to marry someone you ve never seen before, even if its once?
    Yes you can really get used to someone over the phone but marriage?
    What if he is not what you saw in pix?
    What if he has mouth/body odour?
    What if he has lied to you from day 1
    Berra give yourself brain,
    Poster 2
    No biggie,
    Are you feeling bad for him cos you regret loosing him or what?
    WTF are you blabbing about karma
    You are your own karma then cos you make bad decisions
    Kindly gerrarahia
    Poster 3
    Scrolls up,
    Dump that nigga

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  40. P1...a man is going drug business and you think he will quit when he has to do honest work? At 23 you are too young to involve yourself in something so dangerous. Please do not be deceived by the praying, armed robbers get their guns blessed before operation. God is not a good of chaos.

    P2...If you don't like him, leave him but don't follow a man who doesn't like you. You are not wrong, its how women hate a man leading them on. Thank you for being honest. If he is yours, both of you will get back together and the affection will grow if not yours will come.

    P3...this man is an irresponsible goat, he slept with your friend and recorded it. The only reason he is sorry is because you caught him. Be rest assured, they won't stop and he will keep breaking your heart. Of at 35 he does not know how to be sensible, then you are in for a lot. Love yourself enough and wait for a man who respects you and himself. Your friend followed a man who has no control. She is wrong but she is not the one dating you, it's your man and he has no respect for you.

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  41. Hmmmmmm.
    Na wa o
    Serious Chronicles up dere.
    May God give u all answers, peace and understanding needed in solving all these issues.

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  42. Poster 1,please don't marry that man abeg.
    Poster 2...please stop fornicating
    Poster 3...Don't be surprised he used to have your own video of Una knacking.Leave such man...kinda irresponsible.

    Bv Nwa Amaka,u sent me a mail concerning smtin on January 16th (IHN)...wanna help you out if you are Claris Chiamaka as the anon wrote on Ihn.Check your inbox.

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  43. Girl with Porn star boyfriend.... I bet you $100, that idiot boyfriend of yours also has a sex tape of you, which he has been passing on to his friends. Borrow brain and dump the rascal!

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  44. Poster 3.....Please take a walk and never lool back.That was not his first time.E do so tey e record am..He is a dirty person.

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  45. Poster 1 :
    They never leave the business
    I tell you.
    Odikwa risky.
    And you're just 23.
    Tell him to give you 3 months to seek the face of God.
    Lol.
    Don't be in a rush.


    Poster 2 :
    Hmm.
    Nne ...I can't marry someone I am not in love with , but...I pray God gives you wisdom.
    Don't marry put of pity.

    Poster 3 :
    Run.
    Desist from fornication
    Run
    And rUn
    Illicit sex + sex taping = double disaster



    Byeee chronicles

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  46. Poster 1: that man is bad news and you're still young enough to find love with a decent man.
    Poster 2: you know why ur heart is hurting? its because you let a good man go,sometimes you should think with your head not your fickle heart.
    Poster 3: what kind of man are you dating? This is the height of disrespect,sleeping with somebody you both know and recording this "great" feat, he is a bold cheater and he will do it AGAIN!!!

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  47. Na wa oo , very confusing chronicles, you all should follow your heart.

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  48. I don't know what to say either, will read comments.

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  49. Poster 3,why are sounding as if a man something never enter deep inside your something and pour inside?

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  50. Poster 1: please forget about that guy. Even if he stops the drug business, you will be with him when he is reaping the fruit of his drug business. He is ruining lives somewhere.


    Also like Stella said, they will always go back. Let me tell you a true story:
    My aunt had a boyfriend in the early 90s who used to sell drugs. They really had a lot of money. One day my aunt decided to stop and using the money from drugs, she relocated to Italy. Started a genuine business there and even got married and got a son.

    Come 2010, after the recession, my aunts business was not doing well. She was so used to plenty money, she needed money and fast. Guess what she decided to do? She came to nigeria and started selling drugs again. One day she was caught on her way to Italy with the drugs and now she is in jail there.

    Forget about the guy. You cannot be selling drugs and be serious with God.

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  51. Poster 1: is he as rich as Bill Gate? Coz if he's not, there'll always be a 'last' business that never ends and he might get caught.


    Poster 2: where do u guys meet all this 'over' good guys self? Ha!

    Poster 3: mtchewww. Why did u tell him you've 4given him when you've not? Forgive him.

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  52. NN1.u better run for ur life in dt r/ship,i had a as similar case n went as far as marrying d idiot. He changed n i thank God i had on child for him,i divorced him n reggeted ever meeting him. He is Jst acting but pray to God abt it,though i don't see anytin good cuming from dt r/ship.
    NN2.u be pure mumu,u beta go back to dt guy dt loves u dearly n make amends.Wht is wrong wit u children of nowadays? U had a good tin n threw it out for sumtin less.u like suffer ba.
    NN3. I don't even knw wht to tell u but a failed r/ship is beta dan marriage.
    I rest my case

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  53. For poster two, treat a girl like a bitch and she will fall in love ... Treat her with love and she will take u for granted . I guess u are still a kid , by the time you grow, ur eye go clear when you don c wetin u do urself... My advice for u is that opportunity comes but once... Better search for that guy and beg him or ur life will be in ruins believe me

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  54. poster two deal with the karma, you saw Someone that lick the ground you step on and you let him slip off your hands. if they guy has not moved on, you can apologise and accept him that is if you love him now o, if you don't love him just stay off.

    poster three if you cannot forgive just move on with your life, why did the guy keep a video of what he did with the other Lady for you to see it? the choice us yours.

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  55. Poster 1
    Trust me, this is not what u can cope with. A drug guy? At 23? Yet to see him? Bring ur eyes down small find ur mate, not age mate, I mean someone with better source of income
    Poster 2
    Stay ur lane & leave d poor boy, u want to apologize becos he don travel out abi? Alabuku!
    Poster 3
    Ur 35 year old bf is a monkey

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  56. Poster one: Even if he's not short on cash, he'll keep going back to do the 'last one ', till he's caught or becomes truly born again.

    Do you think that someone who makes such money easily, would be patient enough to make money the legit way, which is usually stressful?
    I think not.

    There's nothing wrong with the age difference, if it's okay with you.
    So, it you agree to get married to him, don't expect him to stop o.
    He's told you what he does and if you get married to him and complain later, he'll remind you that you were aware before you agreed.
    Your choice.

    Poster two: * smh *
    Please, leave the good man alone for someone who loves him abeg.

    Poster three:
    He's just sorry he got caught.
    Mtchewww.

    #WhiteDiamondOut

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    2. Lol.

      If she can read in between the lines, she'll see the advice.

      It's somewhere there.

      #WhiteDiamondOut

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  57. Poster 2:

    You did something wrong; you were living in with a man who hasn't paid your bride price and whom you did not love. You led him on and now? Leave him alone to heal.

    Poster 3: why you girls cheapen themselves by living in with a man that hasn't paid your bride price? And you are complaining he has a sex tape; you think he doesn't have YOUR OWN SEX TAPE? What do you think he needs to masturbate? You girls having extramarital or premarital sex are giving boys free pornography! When you leave him, it hits the internet!
    WHO opens legs for sex?
    Who get's pregnant?
    Who bears the guilt of abortion (the man shares in the consequences though; see Proverbs 6:16) and cries every second/everyday?
    Who is heartbroken and shattered and confused?
    Who has insecurity and low self esteem?
    Who is seen as the whore?
    Who has suicidal thoughts (yes you murdered a human being or more see Gen. 9:6)?
    Who sulks even a decade after the man has moved on, married and had kids?
    Who is dumped?
    On and on and on.
    LADIES, WHY NOT CLOSE THIS HOLE CALLED VAGINA UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED? THE TEST THAT A MAN "LOVES YOU" IS THAT HE IS ABLE TO RESPECT YOUR BODY TILL HE PAYS YOUR BRIDE PRICE.
    When the man finishes with you he moves on to the next "gullible victim"
    Leave such men who are only interested in you body (no; just interested in your vagina and breasts) alone and face your life and make it right with God and do not kill kids etc.
    Jesus says; "whoever comes to me I will not cast away". Matthew 7:6 "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.


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    1. Mtcheeeeewwww...
      What happend?you have stopped carrying my matter for head...
      Kwakwakwakwa...

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  58. Just in a thinking corner. 36 in April, no bf. no husband. no child. no good job. I am 5.6 fit. chocolate, good christian, Nothing enters my hand without thinking of sharing with the needy. Oh God of host have mercy on me. show me kindness.

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    1. Na wah oh!...Tell your spiritual husband to leave you alone!...
      Go and settle him...

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  59. Some girl's brains are full of potatoes. @ poster 3 You think say the boy no get sex tapes where him de fuck you?

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  60. Poster 1- How can you date someone over the internet, who does drug business and whom you've never seen? Its the most stupid thing I have ever heard of. You actually don't value your life, or your self. And your family is cool with this? Smh. You are about to enter the darkest pit of your life. Marriage isn't like that girl. This is a No No anyday.

    Poster 2-What was that your story again? When Stella posts too many Chronicles at once you tend to lose track. I'm sorry.

    Poster 3-You let a man who loves you go and now you are in love with someone who doesn't love you?
    Both situations only mean one thing- You aren't ready yet. why don't you just chill for a while. True love will find you. But its always better to marry a man who loves you than the one whom you love and doesn't love you back. Speaking from twenty-three years experience...

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    1. People meet and marry daily from the internet...so how is she entering the darkest pit of hell?...
      Mtcheeeew...

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  61. Poster one pls marry the guy. Poster 2 pls marry the guy. Poster 3 pls marry the guy. All of u seem stupid so I think that's the only advice u deserve. Good luck

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  62. Postal 1 run with ur leg touching the back of ur head•postal 2 karmal for real dey ur side u b big mumu•postal 3 if u can't bring urself to 4give him leave abeg

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  63. #1 You're still young, take your time, let him come back, get to know him well before you accept. Forget about the praying side even thief/assassin/babalawo pray. You need to be careful.


    #2 Babe rest your mind joor and free the guy.. If na him leave you, you think say him mind go bother aam ?.


    #3 You are dating a bad guy..Forgive but move on. Leave his a**.
    Pls let the other lady know in case she doesn't or have him delete it and check well if him never record you too..

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  64. Poster 1,the truth is that he won't change, drug trafficking is addictive, except he really means to stop and has fear of God if not he may go back when broke and get caught bringing shame to u & ur family.
    Poster2 abeg move on and leave the guy to find someone who knows his worth, if na rich guy nw u for Don jump enter love or no love, the guy is probably still struggling but remember no condition is permanent.
    Poster3 receive Sense!

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  65. Today I experienced temptation of the highest order. I envied a runs girl and almost gave in to the impulse of going out with her. I'm broke, jobless, depressed and frustrated bt is runs really the way to go? Iv promised myself not to judge so quickly ever again

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    1. Anonymous, please don't dare. Your first time might be your last time. Look for something to do please. Do you know where she has been? Can you walk on her shoes? Please be careful.

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  66. This is my second time commenting on this blog but I will call it as I see it.
    Stella, why call someone stupid just because the person is confused and is asking questions for directions? Even if the person makes bad choices, is it your place to insult her? Now I know why your blog visitors are very insulting and give acidic comments instead of constructively advising a person.
    See, people make mistakes as all humans do and when they come to your bog with their stories, it is not for you (or your BVN's as you call them) to judge and condemn the person. Many people sen their stories for your blog chronicles a a means to clearing their heads to either see the big picture or find a way out of the quagmire they sometimes find themselves in. You and your BVN;s should stop making it look like you are perfect and the people that send in their stories are the worst of the worst decision makers.Its bad enough that they have directly or indirectly put themselves in that position, must you and your BVN rub it in and make it worse for the person? Its the same harsh approach you all took to the Cyprus abi na dubai woman who cajoled a man to marry her. You all told her to practically go f**k herself and live with her mistakes by laying on the bed she laid for herself without even giving her any useful advice.
    Stella, sometimes you give sound and matured advice but today as you harshly judged and condemned people. There is a thin line between brutal honesty, constructive criticism and demeaning people with harsh condemnation.
    My own advice for you Stella is that you make the blog chronicles a genuine platform for people to receive objective, matured and emphatic comments. Dont forget that you are dealing with people's lives. If you like, dont post my comment oo. Atleast, you will read it.
    As for the poster II, In my own opinion, decide whether you want a good man or a man that will constantly swim your head in the cloud and give you butterflies. As someone said, sometimes, what is good for us may not be what is best for us. on the one hand, A good man might give you peace, take care of your children and value you. on the other hand, a good man may not give you the happiness you dearly crave for in a man and thats why some women cheat, cos they are not with men they love. Ask yourself what it is you really want before you finally let go of that good man. Twenty year down the line, all that matters is a man that was there for you, loved and cared for your children and supported you. Love comes and goes. If you do decide to let go, then tun your back without looking back to make it easier for your concience and him.

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    1. Are you sure ur a regular bv? Don't worry, the more Chronicles you read, the more you will begin to understand Stella's commenting style. When I started reading this blog, I shared your sentiments but after a while, you grow an acerbic tongue coz that's what some people need.

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  67. poster one talking from experience, they never stop even if they have the best intention to, if it's not drugs it's a quick rich scheme they get into. they might for a short period of time but when it gets tough they can't endure and keep at a slow and steady rate or keep a regular job because it doesn't pay as well as what they are use to with much less work. and you the wife bears the grunt, because when they have they are very giving but when they don't, they are also very selfish in the sense that , they would say i can't kill my self and you will have to carry the home alone cos you can't watch your kids suffer, you being the mom and dad,you will come to resent him.


    poster 2: let him get over you is the picture disturbing you or biting you abeg you just calling him to apologize or ask ur picture taken down is a passive aggressive and sneaky way of giving him hope and keeping that door open. let him heal jare wetin you no go chop no use am as smelling toy

    poster 3: no words

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  68. Poster1,,did u just say 37year old drug dealer which u haven't met? Na wa ooo,u sound like one desperate for the M word or is it cos his in the diaspora?babe please if u marry drug dealer,yr own life is at stake oooo.its very difficult for some of them to come out of it even after investing and being established.we just came back from villa after burying one of our extended family member living with her husband in the diaspora.Wetin happen.? My dear ,fellow drug associate after a deal wanted to kill the husband,unfortunately the man wasn't at home that night and that's how they killed the beautiful young wife we went to bury.you need to see how those guys were throwing money when it was their turn to go in for condolence.money can't bring back the dead and I'm sure pretty soon ,the man go marry chassis again
    Poster 2what do some girls really want?God please send Good guys my way ,u know I can't even hurt a fly
    Poster 3 use ur tongue count your teeth,can u handle the situation ?if no,abeg find your square root

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    1. Poster 1 please read this daily. don't allow greed take u to the grave

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    2. Drug dealers don't just kill their business partners except you swallow their money...
      So swerve!...

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  69. I dont know why people will decide to stay in abusive marriages .Its not by force na. Dont you value your life? hian. Just like this lady I know that her hubby Jideofor Williams beats and publicly disgraces her at the slightest chance yet she is still there! Say No To Domestic Vilolence.

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  70. @poster 1 at your own peril ooo

    @poster 2 leave him alone and keep loving who no love you, mind you guys hardly marry those that love them more than they do, it always ends up working fine if the guy is crazily in love with you more than you are with him..

    @poster 3 if you cant get it out of your mind move on already, as for me its another thing to know and its another to see it, i guess it flashes into your mind anytime you see him or the girl,give yourself time or move on if you cant deal.

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  71. poster1: you have been enjoying the money and now you want to marry him and do not kno wat to say to ur parents wen dey ask wat kind of business he is into..u now want advise from us abi?ori e o pe! like seriously..if u don marry am na u go dey tk d drugs travel for una belle.i dunno wat to say to u sef

    poster2: just wow! you had a man who loved u that much and with that 'im age u mentioned he go dey very matured and caring and u let him go? just wow again! I don't kno why u pple cannot just find a heart to love sm1 who loves you back. Its just like how a lil baby loves his mother,d baby grows to love the mother because she had loved him first!
    Well now he is gone. Nne well done for chasing him away!

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  72. poster1: you have been enjoying the money and now you want to marry him and do not kno wat to say to ur parents wen dey ask wat kind of business he is into..u now want advise from us abi?ori e o pe! like seriously..if u don marry am na u go dey tk d drugs travel for una belle.i dunno wat to say to u sef

    poster2: just wow! you had a man who loved u that much and with that 'im age u mentioned he go dey very matured and caring and u let him go? just wow again! I don't kno why u pple cannot just find a heart to love sm1 who loves you back. Its just like how a lil baby loves his mother,d baby grows to love the mother because she had loved him first!
    Well now he is gone. Nne well done for chasing him away!

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  73. P2: I think you did well by letting the poor guy go. It is no sin if you let him go because you genuinely know you don't love him. For his happiness and your happiness, it is the best thing to do. I don't understand Stella most times. Love is love! You can't force yourself to love someone just because they are nice too you, the heart isn't like that. I think you did well...I think you should be proud of yourself for not marrying out of pity cos that will be worse.

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  74. Poster one, please go ahead and marry the guy jor... so many people on this blog will ask you not to bec they are jealous. They want same thing but the opportunity is what they don't have.

    There's a reason you are in his life my dear and you can actually change him. Babes please go enjoy the drug money. Poverty na disease oh! you don't know what it feels like to suffer from poverty. Na Chukwuemeka for village you wan go marry abi? Every day you go dey go farm or you will be the one spending your hard earned money oh your hubby.

    Tell him to strike a deal with you that he will quit the bizness as soon as you guys get married. Let him start up a business for you. If you like miss your golden opportunity.

    Poster two, My dear it happens. I'm sure so many people have experienced the same thing you are experiencing now. I'm married but up till now, I still feel guilty for not loving the guy that loved me so much. He chased me for good 8years even proposed I no gree. Before I got married, I dated a guy that did exact same thing to me so I concluded it was karma but God being merciful, brought my sweet hubby to me; which I will forever remain grateful to God for.

    My dear relax and move on with your life. shit happens. This is the only way to make you appreciate what true loves is and also appreciate those who sincerely love you. I didn't have feelings for my hubby when I met him but my experience thought me a lot that was why I accepted him and with time, I grew to love him bec I couldn't miss another golden opportunity like that. So relax, things will fall in place for you at the right time....Just keep praying.

    Poster three, Please dump that murder fuc.er and move on with your life. This men can never change. Anything you see that is not good please respect yourself and let it go before you start to regret at last. If you like no listen.

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  75. Poster one, please go ahead and marry the guy jor... so many people on this blog will ask you not to bec they are jealous. They want same thing but the opportunity is what they don't have.

    There's a reason you are in his life my dear and you can actually change him. Babes please go enjoy the drug money. Poverty na disease oh! you don't know what it feels like to suffer from poverty. Na Chukwuemeka for village you wan go marry abi? Every day you go dey go farm or you will be the one spending your hard earned money oh your hubby.

    Tell him to strike a deal with you that he will quit the bizness as soon as you guys get married. Let him start up a business for you. If you like miss your golden opportunity.

    Poster two, My dear it happens. I'm sure so many people have experienced the same thing you are experiencing now. I'm married but up till now, I still feel guilty for not loving the guy that loved me so much. He chased me for good 8years even proposed I no gree. Before I got married, I dated a guy that did exact same thing to me so I concluded it was karma but God being merciful, brought my sweet hubby to me; which I will forever remain grateful to God for.

    My dear relax and move on with your life. shit happens. This is the only way to make you appreciate what true loves is and also appreciate those who sincerely love you. I didn't have feelings for my hubby when I met him but my experience thought me a lot that was why I accepted him and with time, I grew to love him bec I couldn't miss another golden opportunity like that. So relax, things will fall in place for you at the right time....Just keep praying.

    Poster three, Please dump that murder fuc.er and move on with your life. This men can never change. Anything you see that is not good please respect yourself and let it go before you start to regret at last. If you like no listen.

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  76. Poster 2....uhmm,I normally dnt comment,but after seeing people(including stella's comment)I just had to. Get this and get it straight into your head,you haven't done anything wrong.absolutely nothing,he's madly in love wt you?big deal,doesn't necessarily mean you have to force yourself into loving him. You've given yourself time and the love hasn't grown,don't force it,d heart wants wht it wants.and yes,am a guy but I'd sure as hell prefer a lady like you,best u b honest than u feel compelled to reciprocate a feeling that isn't there. Good guy or not,the basic thing in every relationship is tht there shld b love. So dnt mind stella and all giving u crazy advice,you did nothing wrong,as a matter of fact,you did the best thing.you gave him a chance to find his better half,as you did just for yourself. It aint as if you cheated on him,d love just wasn't there. Sleep well,like a baby.

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  77. Poser 2 you want to marry a drug dealer? What's the difference between the mexican drug lord and your guy? Will tell you,the Mexican drug lord is at the top of the food chain while your bf is at the bottom. Soon he will get to the top and you will become his right hand man. The same jail time awaits you both. Put on your running shoes and run like Usian bolt.

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  78. Poster one.
    Pick race! Nne, how una dey contract marriage over the phone? What kinda parents do you have fa? They're 'cool' with him. Hian.
    Poster two.
    First, let me begin by asserting that love is not a woozy feeling. It is a commitment to care for. That said, the heart wants what it wants. You don't love him, keep walking and don't look back. He'll find someone truly deserving of his devotion. Don't be so thirsty that you drink from every cup handed to you; that's how you get poisoned.
    Poster three
    Ogini ne me gi? You be learner?

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  79. How can you even contemplate being with a drug dealer? In Pakistan for that matter, where death is the penalty. He has strong mind kwa. Run away from crime and criminals, nothing good comes out of it.

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    1. Odiegwu!...
      Poster,don't listen to the hypocrites on this blog!...
      Most of them don't do genuine business...

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  80. Poster 1 You wan turn Mobile Carrier. d Guy go use carry drugs from city to city. That is d reigning things now. It just happened to someone i know last year. The Guy was introduced to a lady who is Abroad. They ask him to come over. He got his passport ready. Approaching the time to buy his tickets. The person who introduced him to the lady started telling the guy.He should accept the woman like that once they meet physically. The guy ask dat he was only coming abroad to buy thing and come back to Nigeria. Not knowing the guy and lady abroad are planning wedding for my friend nd lady immediately my friend lands abroad. He' s Visa was only for 3months. When my friend found out he was going to be forced to marry the lady, He aborted d plan of travelling.
    Once u land dat Abroad when ur husband to be dey claim. They will collect all ur document. They will make it look like without them u cannot survive. And use u like jackie.
    My Advise to Single ladies m Parent no be every person when dey Abroad dey make money legally. Omo u are still young dat why d guy dey manipulate ur brain with marriage. No be matter of we speak on phone. Better pray wella unless na Modern Day Slavery ur wan waka enter.

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    1. What are you guys saying?...
      How can a confirm drug dealer use a Nigerian for courier?...do you want his business to flop?...
      Am sure you have never leave the shores of this country to know how they search people with a Nigerian passport!...

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  81. Poster 2, u didn't do anything wrong,infact I respect ur honesty, some girls will just keep leading the young man on, and it's OK to fall in love som1 who doesn't love u back, dats life, and it sucks, u can only pray and hope that true love finds u, don't beat urself up.

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  82. Poster 1 you are too young for that nonsense, please beware of scam. i had one like that but thank God i was just playing along and because of that i was able to detect fowl play. the guy wanted to dupe me. 2ndly, i had a boyfriend in the UK then he always called day and night to pray with me, but when he visited Nigeria i got to know after 1week after spending it without another chick. thank God i was nice to a waiter who later told me. so my dear leave this abroad people alone, its not by calling morning afternoon night to pray with you. moreover you are still too young for such a man age wise, job wise and what kinda country is that. please do not settle for less.
    Poster 2 I cant believe you did that to a good man, a man who loves you despite you being celibate is rare, trust me i know what I'm saying. what happened to that saying that a man should love you more than you love him? you just disappoint me big time. please send me his number let me call him cause I'm also a celibate, single and very pretty.
    Poster 3 i dont know what kind of a guy you are dating, honestly. but with your write up i can authoritatively say he is an irresponsible man. Sex tape Gossssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssh i cant deal

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  83. Just lookat all of you missing the gist...
    poster 1....now listen carefully...that guy you met online will gain your trust, promise you marriage, come see your people, then invite you visiting..albiet using you as a drug courier without your knowledge!
    You wanna bet? Just telling you since you sound genuinely ignorant...that's their newest trick...fleeeeee!

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    1. You are a joy killer!...
      You lied!...
      FYI,drug dealers don't use Nigerians for courier...

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  84. He who is without sin should cast the first stone. The pursuit of money comes with evil decisons Bola tinubu made his first millions through drugs. Go with your heart.

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  85. ehweeeeeeerh.....see chronicles oo.just got into this blog and am loving it.....@stella, ds your red pen sha,u no dey hide ur feelings at all.lol

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  86. Poster 1. Firstly: He opened up his business in Pakistan to you. Yeah. He didn't really have to do that but cos he trusts you,he came clean.
    Secondly: He is 37. He is experienced and I can beat my chest dude is a good planner with a focus. Of a man at 37 tells u he is done for good believe you me he he is. I think he is done or will be done with the illegal business like he said.
    Lastly: He that is without sin please and please cast the first stone.. your man is remorseful of his dealings and is ready to quit.thats a good and matured man right there.
    My advice will be let the condition of u marrying him be that he quits totally and re invest.if he does that please marry him.

    Poster2: u said no to him right? And u claim u feel nada for him. Then stop stalking his Insta page. Let the young man heal. U love someone now right? Focus more on him and less on your ex. Like u told him,u feel nothing and still feels nothing for him except perhaps pity or should I say self pity. Let him go dear

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  87. Pls blog visitors help me out.i have been married for 5years n am bored in this marriage already.pls I need a side boo I will get an adventure with.pls note that hobby n i loves each other n he has his own side chick so I need my own side n loving bobo.marriage no easy oo.sometimes I wish I am single.

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    1. Hahahahahahah...
      Kwakwakwakwa...
      Hohohohohohohoho....
      Lwkmd!...
      Accept one of those people that ask you out nau...
      Ride on if you have finished giving birth before you make the mistake of having someone's baby for your man...
      Infact,na condom sure pass but the thing no dey sweet...
      Enjoy jare!...

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    2. You sound like someone who was peer pressured into marriage. Stolen bread is sweet. But afterwards..the mouth is filled with gravel. Are you ready for the consequences of your action? If you choose to have an affair then be ready to deal with what will come after. And you will pay the price. If your marriage is boring why not discuss with your husband? Perhaps you havd both stopped making effort. 5 years is too short. 5 yrs into my own marriage i was still feeling like we had just got married. I didnt start getting bored until after 20 years of marriage! But i knew that having an affair was the wrong route. So one day i discussed it woth my husband. And i was surprised that he actually started making effort to do things differently. With time i began to feel happy again. So dont go down the affair route. There are so many complications on that route. STDs, lies, humiliation and shame when you are caught and the total destruction of your marriage. Think about it. Best of luck.

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  88. Poster 1:pls don't marry that guy, am currently in the same situation as am writing, the guy promised me he was going to leave the business when he brought me to Spain, but my dear, he never did, it has been from one prison to another and am the one suffering, did i mention the domestic violence involved? Story for another day

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  89. This guy never misses church every Sunday, even the pastor is aware of his kind of business, i just pray for God to deliver me from this bondage cos right now i don't even know what to do or where to run to

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  90. This guy never misses church every Sunday, even the pastor is aware of his kind of business, i just pray for God to deliver me from this bondage cos right now i don't even know what to do or where to run to

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  91. Poster 1, the future of your relationship is too risky and not worth it, quit it now! Poster 2, leave your ex to heal, he will move on after that. Stick to your current boo, since you love him and that is what matters to you most. Poster 3, your boo is not just a cheat but a low life, drop him now before you become his next victim of nudes or sex tape.

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  92. Poster 1, the future of your relationship is too risky and not worth it, quit it now! Poster 2, leave your ex to heal, he will move on after that. Stick to your current boo, since you love him and that is what matters to you most. Poster 3, your boo is not just a cheat but a low life, drop him now before you become his next victim of nudes or sex tape.

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  93. **coughs**
    Poster 1,There's a high probability that he'll go back to the business once he starts having issues, if you're ready to go through all that stress, feel free.
    Poster 2,you were with a guy for more than 5 months and you knew you didn't feel anything for him yet you kept loading him on, now you're in love with someone who doesn't love you back and as stella said you might even be giving booty, karma has found a targer*sips tea *
    Poster 3, is there anything like forgiving someone halfway? If you want to forgive him do it and try n forget but if you can't carry on with your life o.

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  94. @ Anon 29 February 2016 at 17:51...marriage is boring. Go take a vacation, go back to school and take a course, or have a baby if you are ready for motherhood. Who told you it would be exciting to wake up everyday to the same face and voice for the rest of your life? There will be periods of complete boredom, so you keep going on dates, vacationing and doing things together and apart to keep you contented.

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  95. P1: I think you are carried away by his money but trust me you re headed for doom if you marry him. @ 23, u should be more concerned with achieving things with your life, not marriage.

    P2. Abet free d guy for someone who deserves him. Don't contact him ever and pleaseeeee it's not karma. We re usually drawn to those who don't love us as much as we love them. It take God to order our steps n emotions so we don't lose those who really love us. Pray for d right man to come it way.

    P3. what was ur issue again?? O cheating..and you want us to advice you to do what exactly??.. #ReceiveSensr

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  96. Poster 1: contemplating marrying someone you haven't seen before? It's a big No go area. And all u knw is based on what he tells you not what you have truly observed for urself??? Run for your life.
    Poster 2: it's good u let him go. Marrying out of pity isn't right. U'd regret later esp when u feel like u did him a favour. Yeah, u love someone who doesn't love u back. Move on. U haven't met him yet.

    Poster3: move on with ur life.it ain't gist, u actually watched thhe video. How can one erase that? Forget sentiments ooo, face facts!

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  97. Hehehe....
    Chineke!

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  98. Poster 1 I hope it's not chinedu in Pakistan oo! He is from aguata and has been saying that story since I was in university. He was in jail for 3yrs and came out. He's been planning to leave drug business since. Hope it's not him sha,if not na one chance and if he's not please leave all those Nna mehn drug guys in Pakistan,they can't stop that business.

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  99. @Poster1: i'm a bit sceptical due to the fact that
    1:you have never met him
    2.he is divorced.
    3. He is a drug pusher.
    What does he want to invest in when he comes to Nigeria? These are key questions you should find out because one thing abt drug pushers like Stella said is if the business he invested in isn't as rosy as he thought,he may be tempted to go back one more time and that one more time may be the end. If probably you are going in becuse of the money,please rethink. You are a young girl and you have your future ahead of you.dont decisions of marriage bcos of feelings alone or money or what you stand to gain.I pray God to guide you as you decide.
    Poster2:

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  100. Poster 1. No need to comment. The majority has said it all. Just remember that if you make this mistake, you will pay for it dearly.
    Poster 2. I've been in your shoes. Me I dated him for 3 years all coz I was waiting for the love to develop and just ended up hurting him badly. Just let him be for now and let time redefine your relationship.
    Poster 3. I wanted to insult you but held back coz you may be young and naive. This your boyfriend is bad news. I would've just said break up with that guy but maybe you are one of those who can only learn the hard way so continue dating him. (at your own peril)

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  101. First time talkers be like ,I don't usually comment but.....



    Poster 1:drug business???lol Pakistan??...37 yrs??Talking with you gives him the joy??/you nko?? He come format you with prayer session all the way from paki...biko,Jara e men! You r still young.Don't rush this thing.Free the bobo..meanwhile if you really wanna do that Bonnie and Clyde shit,go for it..You sound too feeble to roll that way anyway.Please
    for your own betterment,FREE!

    Poster Stella no try for the response.That guy loves you but you feel nothing for him..e dey happen.Girl don love me like that after she no gree go,I told her I wasn't game,she stick to me like tattoo ,men..I gatto chop her money o..She make way finally..You can't force love..Yu weren't feeling the guy,he was too dull,u wanted a bad boy...now you are scared thinking you ve lost..If you marry the bobo you no love you ll cheat on him.let him go for his own sake if you like him.....Abi na because he dey foreign..sparks come dey again?



    Poster 3:He ll still cheat again.we are wired like that,he loves you..so far he no be Big bulldog..forgive am,The only ish..why did he record that stuff??Sure he hasn't recorded you?


    one babe say she need adventure for here.holla 5c2ed159

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  102. Poster 1 please what goes around comes around. Even if he makes an investment with that money, trust me it will crumble. That's how u will get married to him and start experiencing different problems without knowing that the past has come knocking on the door. You better detach yourself from that old man while you can

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  103. Poster 1 : I don't know what to say to you but I know drug business is bad news.
    Poster 2 : OMG!!! You had a totally amazing man and you let him go...well, your loss.
    Poster 3 : At 35 your boo is recording sex sessions, errrrr...does he have a job? 2 words : childish & loser!

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  104. Poster 1 : I don't know what to say to you but I know drug business is bad news.
    Poster 2 : OMG!!! You had a totally amazing man and you let him go...well, your loss.
    Poster 3 : At 35 your boo is recording sex sessions, errrrr...does he have a job? 2 words : childish & loser!

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  105. Okay real quick...poster 2...marry someone who loves you more than you love him...trust me,if he is as charming as you claim he is...you will learn to love him...Love grows...call him,apologize and start all over...you will be glad you did...ehen ehen...poster one....abeg you are too young for the food you are about to eat....what happens to dating/marrying the man that is rooted in God...Drug dealer?? Is a no no....poster three: sex tape or no sex tape....The question is:Do you love him?? If yes,abeg forgive and take him back...but open ya eyes well well...eye when dey cry dey see! If you no love am,abeg waka...na only you know wetin your heart dey tell you and how you feel....For me..its God over everything...his will is final...So says belle.

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  106. Poster1: You are dating a Voice?? Youve NEVER seen him and you are contemplating marriage? At 23 you are very young. Hes a drug dealer?? All the factors to make you unhappy for life are already there. Pls pls cut off from this "Voice". You know absolutely NOTHING about him and you shouldnt mortgage your life so cheaply. How can you even be thinking of marriage??
    Poster2: Its good you were honest with him. Even though it may work out to marry a man who loves you more than you love him, the best is to marry a man who loves you and whom you also love back. So just be patient. Love will find you. If you now love a man who doesnt love you back, then you still havent found the right equation. Dont force it. Just let it go. Give yourself more time. Do other things... True love will find you
    Poster3: That man is NOT a good man. Please drop that relationship. The morning depicts the day...

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