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Sunday, March 13, 2016

Chronicle Of HOPE - 37

Dearest Stella,I am sure you've had tons of encomiums so I'll just say God bless you for using your platform to meet many people in their times of need.I am an ardent reader of your blog and I must say you are doing a good job.





My chronicle of hope goes thus:Seven years ago exactly 7th March 2009 I got married to my friend and lover of almost 6 years.Yes we courted for almost 6 years without having sex with each other need I mention here that it was an uphill task for us especially for me?My husband was a virgin but I wasn't so you know how very challenging that would have been for me

To God be the glory we kept ourselves until our wedding night but the very first thing I noticed was hubby had erectile dysfunction I was disappointed,angry at God and confused but because we have excellent communication we talked about it and waded through that huddle.


I wanted to start having babies immediately but hubby wanted us to start after a year.I had to oblige him since he hadn't been in to premarital sex that was how my TTC journey began.


I never in my entire life thought I would TTC since I had been pregnant when I was raped at age 18 but was advised by my cousin to abort that pregnancy.I started going for tests and check up after one year of marriage.I can't start narrating all the things I was advised to do to aid conception.From raising my legs with a pillow after love making to not drinking cold water and so many other absurd things but when you need something  desperately you will do the unthinkable.


Worthy of note here was my husband's support and encouragement not for once did he put me under pressure to have a child neither did he allow anyone else put me under pressure whether my family or his.After 5years and nothing I had begun to accept my situation because we hadn't enough money for IVF or IUI.All I prayed was Lord your will not mine be done.


One thing I never did was going up and down visiting one man of God or another neither did I do anything out of the ordinary.I told myself I will be like Hannah in the Bible who took her problem to God  herself without even telling Eli the high priest.In April last year I became pregnant during a very challenging time financially for my husband and I without even knowing. The surprising thing about the pregnancy was that I met my husband just once that month after the pick of my ovulation.On the 8th of January 2016 I had my miracle baby a beautiful 7th wedding anniversary gift.


To every TTC woman out there please educate yourself on infertility,pray and trust God cos He alone knows the right time to bless you with a child.If you have the money please seek medical help through IVF or IUI.I'll keep praying for all of you out there.
Blessings!




81 comments:

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    1. Hmmmmmmm, Joy is all I want to hear, no sorrow

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    2. Who send u to no test?? Meanwhile her husband is still not able to keep an erection oh..... Whrs the yeye hope???? Mtcheeew.

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    3. Anony 13:40 rejoice with those who rejoice

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  2. Congratulations to you and your family.
    May your baby grow up to be a source of joy to you.

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    1. Praise God for u poster.


      Ehen, how can one know a virgin guy?

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  3. LOL...I have so many wonderful things to say about this chronicle, but let me just praise the Lord and jump and pass.

    Whew!
    Praise the Lord.

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    1. Better, because you never see good in any, always negative and bitter, if we see your piz now, u will be looking like bag of beans, like the stupid miss aboki who was cussing everyone, nut looking like kogi masquerade, and some fools here will be applauding you crying I love your bluntness, keep on insulting people and looking for error where there is none, until you meet your Waterloo.

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    2. Hahahaha like where she said she met her husband during her ovulation. What type of village expression is that? Can't u write u had SEX with him??? All these deeper life bvns.

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    3. But ur husband still can't fuck na, so whrs the hope there? Ok i see.... The miracle is getting pregnant after 7yrs abi? Mtcheeew, rubbish

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    4. Me i must talk o. So your husband decided not to have premarital sex for six so you wont find out about his wahala and run abi? Glory be to God for the miracle child

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    5. Hahaha, Pretty G, you are in the spirit. I refused to talk I
      Hahahahahaha 😂😅😛

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    6. Aiiiii!! Brutality in d house, I feel am from under ma sheets

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  4. Glory be to God.


    Madam, you could have saved yourself all the stress. If you had tested and tasted ur erectile dysfunctional horseband b4 the marriage .
    Agile men don't run away from sex with lover unless there is something wrong somewhere.

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    1. Fooooooooooool always displaying folly

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    2. Fooooooooooool always displaying folly

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    3. Shut the entire fuck up! You swine. Can you not pretend to happy for her even if you truly aren't.How did you allow yourself to get this bitter that even good news to you still needs criticism? I'm sure it's been ages since you had any good news to tell thats why but if you continue this way, good news may NEVER visit you because you will in your usual manner find fault with it.

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    4. You really are mean. Just shut it for once and praise the Lord.

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    5. Agile men
      Or men who take the sin of fornication seriously and it's consequences

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    6. Heartless and mannerless being

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  5. Thank God for your testimony, this baby 'll bring about all round prosperity.

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  6. God be praised I can relate with you as I had my baby 2years after TTC. It was God's doing all the way

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  7. Praise God for your life. I pray other women ttc shall receive their miracles ijn

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  8. May the good lord continue to bless and keep your home.

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  9. Congratulations. Can we change Topic from TTC? I just feel talking abt it all the time might increase the pressure most of those TTC women are feeling. When something is talked about for a long time it becomes a problem. I know it's sort of encouragement but it's also a reminder. All I know is that God is going to give Each TTc woman children from his child filled abode. Rejoice and I say again rejoice because by December we are going to dedicate children and celebrate motherhood in Jesus name.

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    1. I agree with you ... Anytime I see chronicle of hope what comes to my mind is TTC and they never disappoint

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    2. It may help keep hope alive for some

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    3. God bless you. ..I recently lost my mom and anytime people keeping talking and making reference to her or keep asking me questions it just makes it harder for me to bear the lost

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  10. Please would like to know what TTC means.

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    1. It means trying to conceive

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    2. Trying to conceive

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    3. @smart Angel, you are everything but smart. Smh
      Google is there for you 24/7

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    4. Trying to conceive

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    5. Take TohToh To Charles.

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    6. Anon13:37 u be pure mumu

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  11. I tap from your blessing my sister. Mine is on the way. Amen

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  12. I tap from your blessing my sister. Mine is on the way. Amen

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    1. Amen!!!! It must come to actualisation soonest

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    2. LadyP, is that really wat u want to tap?? Conceiving after 7yrs with an Erectile dysfunction husband?? Na u sabi sha... Make una de tap de go..

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    3. @atheist abeg no make me laff

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    4. Lmaoooo... let her keep tapping. 😂

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    5. Lady's runaway boyfriend13 March 2016 at 16:44

      In summary. Killed a baby, got raped at 18, dated a man for six years, married and conceived after seven years to an impotency husband.
      Very interesting ladyp

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    6. Impotent not impotency husband!

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    7. Rabatararabada!!! Auch .. Mm mm
      Any fuckup for here no dey go unpunished

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  13. Praise the name of the most high God. This baby will bring open doors into ur home. Amen

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    1. You are fucking lying! I know you meant to say a blow job, so for 7 years you were just sniffing and eating her pussy while she "kulobo in money makers' voice" another man's dick. Was she a virgin? You a fool!

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  15. Wow! Wow!! Wow!!! I am happy for you poster. God bless you and your family

    452 comment 2016

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  16. Congrats, may your testimony be permanent

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  17. Congratulations
    More of God's blessing
    To God be glory

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  18. He's a faithful God #stillsmiling#

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  19. Congrats Sister! This our God is Awesome! Hosanna in the Highest Lord.

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  20. Oh thanks it's also my case and I tap from her blessing too

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  21. God is indeed Faithful... All Glory belongs to God. For all other ladies looking up to God for the fruit of the womb, your season of laughter is NOW...

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  22. What a great testimony, may God perfect it in Jesus name. To every TTC here my God will surprise you all

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  23. God never fails and he is Always in time! Thank you Lord. Congratulations! I am next in line for a miracle, this is my time.

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  24. God never fails and he is Always on time! Thank you Lord. Congratulations! I am next in line for a miracle, this is my time.

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  25. Waoooo, thank u Jesus. God bless n kip u n ur home, provide for ur hom n bless u with more Children. Amen. U av encouraged me. I am just going on 2yrs of marriage n its really a trying tym, buh i believe n trust God.

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  26. I've been blessed by this blog and maryjane blogazine. Kudos ladies you are doing great jobs in your respective blogs and I can't stop saying it. Ok bye, Just passing by and helding to maryjane blogazine for my daily dose of her posts.

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  27. God be praised. May the lord bless nd keep ur baby.

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  28. Congratulations. God's name be praised.

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  29. I am happy fr you...enjoy ur bundle of joy

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