Tough ones.....Hmmm!!!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
19, PREGNANT AND CONFUSED
Stella ,
I am 19 and in my 3rd year. I met my bf in my 1st year. We got close this year and started dating. He's my first and now i'm pregnant and he wants me to flush it because it's not yet a month.
He gave me something to drink the day i tested positive and since then i had been praying my baby is ok. I did another test today and still tested +ve.
I made up my mind to keep it but he sent me a message saying he doesn't want us to keep it. I feel bad knowing it would destroy our families. He says we'll have others when we get married and all. He says i'm selfish, and that something will happen to me during the course of the pregnancy or during labour (i was diagnosed with ulcer and appendicitis this year. I haven't treated both because of fund).
I can't cover a sin with another. I want to keep my baby. I won't ever forgive myself. I won't forgive him either and will break up with him if i do it. Please help me. I'd rather keep it and give it out for adoption.
What do i do?
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
SPIRITUAL LESBIANISM
Queen of blogosphere, I greet you! Without much ado, I'll like to go straight to my story.
I'm a lady in my 20s without a boyfriend and it is quite worrisome. Maybe because of what I've been through in the past or simply because I'm scared of the future. I never imagined I'll be sending a chronicle but at this point I need to let my heart out,knowing well that the only advice/solution to my problem is prayers.
While I was growing up, I was molested by a girl and she was a family friend. Whenever I go to her house to play she would touch my genitals and ride on me. I can't say I enjoyed it because I was too young to understand and oblivious of the implications. At that age I found myself practicing the act with some other kids, and I stopped after a while.I felt really bad, I didn't know who to talk to probably because I didn't even know the meaning of what I was doing.
To cut the story short, shortly before I finished secondary school, I started having nightmares of me having sex and it was really frequent, I still didn't talk to anyone about it, to be honest, I thought it was normal (just a dream). I was a virgin then and because of the frequent sex in the dream , I had to pop the cherry thinking things would change, since it was more like lesbianism in the dream, I thought having an actual penetration would change things (I was naive). I was wrong again, I think I worsened the situation because the dream became more frequent.
I didn't think it was spiritual husband or anything spiritual because I thought in that case, it was meant to be a man appearing to whoever in the dream, but mine was faceless and there was usually no penetration just riding like lesbianism(I'm not a lesbian, infact I detest it). I got into Uni, same thing.
Truth is i meet guys, but they leave for no reason.
At my worst, they leave,even at my best they leave and that was when I realized my case is spiritual.
Brethren, I have prayed, fasted, gone for deliverance,what haven't I done? Still no serious relationship, no boyfriend. The ones I like are not interested, the ones I don't like are head-over-heels in love with me. I know everyone would say PRAY! But in all honesty, I'm tired. Sometimes I feel like God is not listening to me, year in year out, same thing. No boyfriend, no love, no relationship. Even people that promise don't keep to it. I am lonely and it's driving me nuts.
Sometimes I just wish I could see God and ask him questions. I know He has the power to undo what the devil has done, so why not now? Is it until I'm too old? (God forbid). My darlings, I just thought to share what bothers me with y'all because i have no one to run to as this is very sensitive, and I'm frustrated.
I've already taken the blame, I'm not even going to blame the girl that got me into this mess, so no one should make me feel worse than I already feel. All i ask is for everyone to pray for me because it seems my prayers alone aren't enough. I'm certain by the time everyone prays for me, God would show mercy and answer me.
Thanks y'all , and sorry for the epistle.I had to put in a lot of courage to send this. Thank you Stella.
God bless everyone.
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there's nothing my Shepherd in the lord cannot do. just accept to wear the white of cele for 7 days everywhere you go. no slippers. everywhere you go you wear it. you will be ok. then light candle on the altar and spray st micheal perfume and turari and be shouting ja micheal , ja micheal! mi mo! mi mo!! up and dan. all is well
ReplyDeleteYou are a clown!!!
DeleteKwakwakwakwa...
DeleteThis deception has come again...
Hahahahahahah..
OMG!,,.
I've been very very unhappy since I read yesterday's chronicles. My dad is going through the same sickness, he's been battling with it for over 6months and since last month, he can't go anywhere and his skin is beginning to change.
DeleteWe've spent all what we have on him and my brother is suggesting HIV test but dad didn't want to hear that. Please is HIV Test free or how much is it? My #12,000 salary can't just go anywhere. I'm deeply hurt and sad, I'm just crying here, I need someone to tell me all will be well.
I di daft! Eziokwu.
DeletePoster 1, pls keep your baby, give birth to the baby, give your mom to train and continue with your schooling . Poster 2, prayer is the key
DeleteDeception, oo da.
DeleteYoung lady please leave the pregnancy God will see you through.
Ja Micheal ko,ja Fatai ni.
DeleteBuhahaha funny you
DeleteBut on a serious note try Cele church
May the good Lord meet you both at the point of your needs.
DeleteLol.. Is this for real?.
DeleteWhat did i just read? What will walking barefooted do? Better don't mislead the poster
DeleteBuhahahahaaa. Are you serious?
DeleteLol.. This just cracked me up.
DeleteBehold!! Another character has emerged..
Lol.. This just cracked me up.
DeleteBehold!! Another character has emerged..
Hahahaha. Decepticon, no be small thing!
DeletePoster one, birth de baby o. Ur boyfriend is de selfish one. Haba, I have seen many cases where very broke boyfriends end up marrying their girlfriends due to pregnancy... And often times, they stick together bcs the love they have for each other is genuine. He doesn't love you, hence the excuses. Anyway, na una sabi.
Poster two.. Hmmm. It's well with u oo.
Dear poster2:try locate sovereign word church egbeda, that's if ure in lagos or Abuja. Pastor Antonio okoh is the man God can use for you, I like him cos he will shoulder your problem till ure free, a lady with a similar case from Cameroon gave her testimony and she has gone back. Best of luck
DeleteI'm a celestial
DeleteAnd I never do any of these things wey u mention befr
Na only to fast and pray by myself I sabi and God dey follow me talk like that
See the way u just talked about it as if that's all we do
Biko stop it
Are u kidding or for real. Cos seriously u cracked me up
DeletePoster 1: pls don't listen to ur useless bf....keep that baby no matter what,God will see u tru.
DeleteAbortion can damage ur womb n it comes with orishirishi infection.
Pls speak to ur mum n tell her u wnt to keep it......
Poster2: chi exotic will advice u accordingly
I'm so sorry to say this but poster 1, go to the hospital and remove that pregnancy.I'm advicing u like a sister.U are not emotionally, physically and spiritually ready for a baby yet.It's not easy to be a single mum, trust me.Think about ur future, dream, ambition e.t.c. Believe u me, this baby will tie u down. Abort it and close ur legs like a mermaid.
DeleteYou no well.lol
Delete😒😒😒😒😒😒😕
DeleteBlood of Jesus!!!
DeleteBlood of Jesus!
Please only Jesus can save.
Like seriously?????? R u for real?????
DeleteNawah for u o
Spare me that piece of shit. Michael don turn Jesus abi? Get the fuck out of this blog
DeleteHappy birthday to u Stella..I wish u every good things u wish urself..May God bless u now and always..U are truly a mother of all(nne ora)..Thanx for touching lives with ur blog..U are loved! Enjoy ur day!
DeleteLmao...real deception
Delete@ non 15:01 HIV test is free in government hospitals
DeleteSo your father wants his kids/family to spend their last cent on him knowing fully well that he's got His complications? (cos that is what it sounds like to me). That's very very selfish and you all should find a way to get him to do it. He knows he's got HIV yet he wants his family to suffer needlessly..... Very selfish.
Deleteno be small thing.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,What is wrong with you? You're pregnant at 19 and you want to keep it,are you mad??? You can't even afford to treat your ulcer and all,it's a baby you think you can cater for? You think you can actually give that baby up for adoption when the time comes? You're a joker!!! Better go and remove that baby and face your studies.
DeleteNo one should even come in here to talk nonsense about abortion being a sin.Y'all sin everyday.
@ poster one what were you thinking,having sex with a guy without protection,what do u expect to get,my dear at 19 you should thinking about a whole lot of things and not having a baby now,I don't know what to advise you sha,but dnt abort the baby and for your bf,he is immature and running from responsibilities ,cause I believe he can't cater for the baby yet DAT is y he is asking u for abortion ,so dnt give in to him for DAT.
Delete@ poster two ,you need Jesus,I know u have prayed,but cmtinue to and God will see you through.
Poster 1 i also pray your baby is born sound, you can do this, dont abort for any reason.
DeletePoster 2 do you watch porn? do you think about it all the time? Yes you need prayers but you also need to see a therapist. Goodluck
Poster 2 locate any winners chapel around you on Sunday, it's our covenant day or marital breakthrough.your case is small compared to the ones we have seen.there s nothing God cannot do.and also try and get established dere.I feel God is about to change ur story.
DeleteHmmmmm so tough!
ReplyDeleteLmao...ur comment cracked me up big time.
DeleteI'm sure you haven't read the chronicles.
What's so tough? Still laughing...
Indeed the world is more spiritual than physical. My prayers are with you poster 2
DeletePoster1. ..God will make everything beautiful in His time, Keep the baby.
Linda Eze will advise both of you.
ReplyDelete2nd narr: It's not just about fasting & praying, do u study God's word? Have u been baptised with d Holy Spirit? Sometimes in situations such as dis we need the Rhema.
DeleteI was in a bit similar situation and it took years before i was totally delivered.
Surrender totally to Jesus, He is your deliverer no one else.U may not get d expected result immediately but keep praying, keep studying the word,(meditate on it daily, let in sink in) keep believing, don't ever loose faith and I assure u, u shall surely conquer.
Ps:
Do ur best to live a righteous life, dat is the only way u can be totally set free. All the best.
poster one keep it.
ReplyDeleteHad similar case,mine no one molested me niether am I a lesbien or actrated to girls, but each night I sleep I find my self having sex in the dream with both boys and girls expecially girls, would wake up and wonder why?? Cuz physical am not a lesbien.. that thing brought me bad luck oh serious one, fine girl like me no boyfriend wasn't a traced to boys nor girls was just like that leaving a sexless life could stay for month or years no sex the highest thing I did was to musturbate which is once a while..and any guy who tries to tell me about marriage i actomatically hated..my life change when I met a powerful man of God who prayed for me and everything stop so am also using this platform to testify to the Goodness of God..right now I have 3 suitors all very rich and wanting my hand in marriage don't know which to pick oh don't wanna break anyones heart.. so my dear The God that delivered me will do urs. . My wedding is taking place this Dec. . But got to choose
DeleteHad similar case,mine no one molested me niether am I a lesbien or actrated to girls, but each night I sleep I find my self having sex in the dream with both boys and girls expecially girls, would wake up and wonder why?? Cuz physical am not a lesbien.. that thing brought me bad luck oh serious one, fine girl like me no boyfriend wasn't a traced to boys nor girls was just like that leaving a sexless life could stay for month or years no sex the highest thing I did was to musturbate which is once a while..and any guy who tries to tell me about marriage i actomatically hated..my life change when I met a powerful man of God who prayed for me and everything stop so am also using this platform to testify to the Goodness of God..right now I have 3 suitors all very rich and wanting my hand in marriage don't know which to pick oh don't wanna break anyones heart.. so my dear The God that delivered me will do urs. . My wedding is taking place this Dec. . But got to choose
DeleteYour wedding is three months from now with the suitor you haven't chosen. I carry yansh for una o. Aeon eyan lie Mohammed.
Delete# anonymous, who is your pastor*?? Pls I need his contact
DeletePoster 1 if you want to keep the baby then you should let your parents know and stop drinking anything this your so called boyfriend gives you. What if what he gave you was poison to kill you.
ReplyDeleteYou're so reckless, you aren't even scared of your own life.
Whether you keep the baby or not, he is not going to marry you. I'd day have an abortion but since you think bringing a baby into this world is just to push and bring it into the world then all the best.
Poster 2 you worry too much.
Take your mind of your past. God has forgiven you you should do the same too.
Everything will fall into place in time.
Pipol still knack raw??? Nne mistakes happen but sit down and check pocket, you 'll find d answer you want
DeletePoster one....
ReplyDeleteA baby u have attempted to flush u still want to go ahead and birth.
Your baby may be born with defects.
And I hear naija economy is bad...u still want to go on and stubbornly bring a child to suffer without support from baby daddy.
It's obvious u enjoy suffering.
Ask single mums how far...
No man will look your way again.
U may even end up single and sad in life.
After one is horrible.
Poster 1, heed to this suggestion.
DeleteYou have already started 'tampering' with pregnancy. Imagine birthing a handicap, you can't even fund the surgery you need, how can you cope with a child(slight chance that it might be a handicap, no thanks to wetin you don drink). Be true and honest to yourself, you don't this baby drama right now. Since it is barely a month, borrow sense and do the needful. And then close your legs and pretend to be a mermaid. Wishing you Wisdom as you make the decision.
Poster 1 no sane person will advice you to have an abortion
ReplyDeletePoster 2 your chronicle turned me on a little. Just draw closer to God, he'll guide you
1) Don't you dare abort that baby. You will keep it! You will birth it! You will suffer to train him/her, just as your mother suffered for you.
ReplyDeleteI really hope for your sake that baby is very okay and whole, as you yourself don't know what the guy gave you to take. He won't marry you, neither are you going to die. He is just saying all those things to pressure you into aborting the baby. I wish you luck o cos it won't be easy for you, motherhood no be beans. Esp in this Buhari times
Sweet Holy Spirit come take charge of Poster 2's life, she needs intimacy wt her. I just wish i could get her contact... Its well sha. I pray it ends in praise for her.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteSince you wanted to keep the baby,why are you disturbing us with your chronicle?....
Carry your cross abeg...
When you were spreading legs,collecting prick,you didn't tell us...
Don't come here later and beg for baby stuff!...
Idiot!...
Poster 2,
You have been initiated to a serious marine spirit!...
The only remedy to this your problem is to become a born again!...
Oh yes and I mean deeper life kind of born again!...
Poster 2.
DeleteSee Ehn.
Just locate the nearest Dominion City closest to you or kuku send me a mail.
You don't have anything to lose.
Click on my I.D, My e-mail is there..
God will help you Ehn.
Nice one Queen
DeleteHahahahhaha@deeper life kind of born again
DeletePoster 1: Keep The Baby.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,u hv not treated ur appendicitis and ulcer due to lack of money.So U have been spreading your legs and opening your toto for him to fuck skin to skin without any responsibility. Shame on you. Fool
ReplyDeleteLmao
Deleteposter 1 if you are strong enough keep it. You dont know if it is only 1 child you might have. That baby is very strong, that is why he or she is still there. Carry your parents along with you on this. Shame that they will advice you children to go to school, na prick you all will be thinking of.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... You need good deliverance from this spirit of lesbianism. Sorry about your molestation. Keep believing and praying to God. Go to a good man of God that will deliver you from this pain you are going through.
The devil is really working 26 hours on people's life. Where did you do your deliverance. Not every Pastor has the power of deliverance. If it still continues that means it was not deliverance that was done on you.
It is well with you
Pray in faith! And let God do his work
ReplyDeleteOmo 19 years old to n gba ponron, ta lo fi jo?
ReplyDeleteUna two no even get money, and una dey do fucking spree?
Ok, you said you tested positive again after drinking concoction
You may have lost the belle but because ur blood still carries the pregnancy whatever
It will still show positive.
Whatever the case may be, we won't advice you here to terminate it.
Keep your baby and tell your parents.
Na book them send you go read
Wetin u carry come?
I'm in a good mood today, I would have konked you from here...
Poster 2 has a bad odour.
ReplyDeleteMen don't leave at your best and worst.
Forget spiritual and attack the physical.
Groom yourself.go to Instagram an see how sweet girls should package.
We all have one head.
U only dream what u think and since grinding is the only sexual thought stuck in your head...u dream it.
Lazy Africans attributing everything unsolvable to spirituality.
The Best and most sincere comment so far!!!!I second you
Deletepray that such never happens to you. Even Instagram can't save you. Looking up to God, and no am not d poster and was never molested but I know what the poster is talking about cos I hv been there. I hv stopped thinking about sex and these days, I can't even remember my dreams. Hv u ever dreamt of Some1 having sex with you and you u woke up and it is still happening.
DeleteU will know when witches and agents of darkness speak. Imagine tryin to deal with smtg in 2016 without checkg from the spiritual angle first so as to save time and life...as if "oyinbo" no get their own deep spiritual problems. Did Jesus NOT cast out demons? SHAY JESUS TOO NA BLACK MAN?!?!?!!!!!
DeleteI pray it never happens to you or your loved ones, only then would you know the world is more spuritual than physical.
DeleteI pray it never happens to you or your loved ones, only then would you know the world is more spuritual than physical.
Deleteposter1 you are just 19 and you have starting gbenshing already? without condom sef? chisos! na wa this life get as e be. imagine this small girl oooh. ok na shebi na you spread leg make him enter why you come dey ask us this yeye question? you already know what to do. flush it out as the baby might come out with deformities. next time i hope you will be wise enough to use a condom or swallow a pill mumu girl.
ReplyDelete@ poster 2, please continue to make use of war room and also anoint your punani with coconut oil then thank me later.
ReplyDeleteErm anonymous abeg no come change pad under my comment. I already know I have coconut head thanks😁
poster 2 use psalms and faith in God to sort out yourself psalm 57,91,131,141,143
ReplyDeleteHmmmm Stella ya red pen don finish???? Anyways poster one, welcom to motherhood. Btw wot exactly do u want us to advise u. The very day U hung ur legs @ 180 degrees like Bv Steffysofyn(I hope I got her name correctly) n u were collecting u dint write in for advice.... Mschew pls carry ur cross... Young girls will keep letting dia hormones override dia sense of reasoning. *smh*
ReplyDeleteDear Spiritual lesbo girl, i faced same but today im delivered in Jesus name Amen. The key is to continue going for deliverance, can't count how many deliverance i did, lesbian spirit is quite tough to battle. Go and pray to God in the mountain, basically just keep praying, there are times u will go for deliverance it will seem worse but don't give up. It's a gradual process, once they see you are about to be free the battle will increase The lord will def deliver you dear. Mine was our house girl that was touching me as a child. Parents should watch their kids well please.
ReplyDeleteposter two allow lovemejeje to give you her pastor's contact.
ReplyDeleteyou need to stay away from sex, chew the word of God on daily basis, anoint yourself before going to bed on daily basis, separate yourself from any bf or man for the main time. Read your bible daily, go for deliverance again, after deliverance make sure you do not sleep with any body, God will help.
2) Well.. so many have asked themselves the same questions over and over again. You are not alone
ReplyDeleteSometimes you'll just sit and wonder why your own case is so different that God has refused to heed to your cry, it's so disheartening.
My dear you get spiritual wife, that's the gospel truth. And what you need is serious, ogbonge deliverance from such spirit. Mind you ooh, it's not every man or woman of God you see is capable of handling this your case cos all these spirit husbands and wives are usually wicked! Like seriously wicked and they won't stop till they destroy you.
So you need to be directed to people who specialize in such deliverance. Ask around you, you are not alone in this fight. Shey bible say..give Ceaser wetin belong to am?
You need to fight this spirit in whatever way possible before they completely destroy your life. But be sure that the person knows what he/she is doing oo because if you anger them, you're in serious trouble. I wish you luck
poster2 go to a cele church am sure they can break the curse or whatever it is. or you can drop your contact for love me jeje to connect you with her bishop. *side eyes at loveme jeje* that your bishop ehn? make i kukuma keep quite.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteBut steffy why cele church😂
Poster 2: I know how hard it can be. But as long as God is sitter on his throne. You will be delivered. Keep on praising the Lord and quoting the Bible. There is nothing I repeat nothing that our saviour cannot do. Proclaim that you are victorious In Jesus Name. Even during the day you can reject spirit wife or husband. Just say you divorce and undo any spiritual marital vows that you have made. Use Galatians 3:13-14. And Colossians 2:14-15. I have been experiencing same issues. Loveless life. Mine is not about lesbianism. God is our strength and I know I have been delivered. Make sure you confess as well that you cannot be cursed. It is well. God pick my calls. Bless me with my husband IJN. Poster 2: Do not relent. You will soon testify to His Glory...
DeletePoster one, pls keep the baby, I hope what you took the first day doesn't harm the baby.
ReplyDeleteStay away from that guy, because if he finds out you really don't wanna go with his plan he might wanna harm you.
Please tell your mother, she will be hurt yes...... but she will take care of you.
The guilt of abortion sticks forever.
Please don't cover a sin with another.
Abortion is deeper than people think, pls don't shed the blood cos one day you might need to pay with your own blood.
Don't worry about the shame or stigma, it's better than committing that sin or murder.
Please be strong..... that child in turn might be the person to wipe ur tears tomorrow.
God loves you.
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteYou've made a decision already, keep your baby, it might be hard/tough/rough but in the end, you'll be happy you did.
Poster 2
When you pray and it seems like whatever you are praying about is not going away, then you should know relenting in your prayers is not the answer but doubling your aggression. I as a person believe there is nothing prayer/God cannot solve. If you are not seeing results, then you really need to check yourself. Trust me, God has no faults and is still in the business of answering prayers, check yourself, what are you doing wrong? it just might be that thing that seems minor you need to let go of. Check yourself and pray, pray, pray.
Sex in the dream is BAD, it prevents marital breakthrough. You need to conquer it once and for all, don't go halfway.
As a result of this kinda dream (if not conquered), even when one eventually gets married, all forms of marital battles from barrenness to finance etc, God forbid!
My dear, pray o!
Bless your heart!
Poster one: What advice do you want? You say you wanna keep it, not so? So, what exactly do you want BVs to say? There are two options dear, to keep or not to keep. Each comes with its own pros and cons. Dwell on each option, and take whichever has more pros for you. Goodluck
ReplyDeleteHmmmm that's all I can say
ReplyDeletePoster 2 U need to marry a real ,energetic and endowed man like me that will hammer 🔨 ur Toto so well every day and night and lesbianism will be the last on your mind.
ReplyDeleteThis is the real James.
DeleteOmg😃😃😃😃😃ur crazzzzzy!!!!
DeleteKeep it until he kills u. Better break up with him else he will.
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ReplyDeleteWow! Jesus fix it
ReplyDeletewhen they say abstain you guys will say bla bla.. sorry for ur predicament ur decision to keep the baby is right although it's difficult with u being in school and at such tender age.. all d best dear..
ReplyDeleteposter 2...please go for deliverance. mountain of fire are on 70 days fasting and prayers , today is the 15th day it's not too late you can join them. please look for mountain of fire miracle ministry around you and get the prayer book for the fasting and prayer believe me all your problems will end even before the end of the fasting In Jesus name Amen.
ReplyDeletePoster2 pls go for mfm deliverance at Ajangbadi if you are in Lagos, there is no case too difficult for our God, all will be well n God will definitely say AMEN to your prayers
ReplyDeletePoster 1. It is well.
Wow am speechless don't know what to say
ReplyDeleteP1, you've told us your mind(I.e keeping it)N that's cool.... But don't give it out for adoption after delivery.
ReplyDelete2. Go n treat yaself of whatever infirmities you've got so it doesn't affect the health of the baby.
3. As for your useless bf, he's crazy... You just break up with him already.
#We all make mistakes in life, how we handle it will tell if we deserve a second chance.
Poster 2,God will take control of ur case. Poster 1, biko follow ur heart
ReplyDeleteP2. Rom 9:16 ... It's not of him that willeth or of him that runneth but of God that showeth mercy...
ReplyDelete1. Search your heart well, is there anything in there that could hinder God's hand of deliverance to touch you?
2. Make an expensive pledge to God in exchange for ya deliverance.
Cnt say more cus I'm some kind uncomfortable right now.
God help us.
Hmmmm tough one indeed. Poster 1 that boy doesn't love u and after the abortion he would dump u. Find out if the appendix would affect child birth and all.The decision to keep ur baby should be yours, pple are looking for children everywhere and u want to take off one. That thing wey De sweet u do wey u no use protection, make e sweet u to keep am.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I really don't know why people find it hard to use protection. Didn't you take biology class? As long as you have reached puberty and you have unprotected sex, you will get pregnant. It's not rocket science! Anyway, you will never forgive yourself if you go ahead with the abortion so dont do it. Nothing will happen to you, start antenatal and tell the doctors about your ulcer. Keep going for classes as long as you can manage and then take permission to give birth. Leave the kids with your folks and go back to school. The Best thing you can do for this child is to give yourself an education. Under no condition shld you drop out. It will be hard, very hard but you aren't the first and you surely won't be the last. Your parents will be dispponted but when the see the child, that will get over it. Leave the idiot boyfriend alone. He will still come find the child in future. Make sure you are a successful woman when that day comes.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Yh it's probably spiritual. Why don't you like the guys that come your way? If they aren't mad or born with a handicap or already married what's the problem? Is it looks? Or they arent financially stable? Better don't pursue your future husband .
Ist narrative:
ReplyDeleteSTOP RECEIVING EDIBLES FROM THAT "TOYFRIEND" OF YOURS. NEXT IS TO KILL YOU BY POISON.
There is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.
Poster one, please don't touch that child.
ReplyDeletePoster two, what if this is your psyche?
It's possible your problem isn't spiritual, you know?
You've probably talked yourself into believing it is, an as a result, don't make any effort to work on yourself, and your relationship with people.
That's what I think though. You're not the only girl in her 20's who is not in a relationship.
May God help you, as you help yourself.
#WhiteDiamondOut
POSTER 1;
ReplyDeleteWhen you began to have sex in the name of dating; were you expecting a blank check?
I work in a hospital and the most cases of "septic abortions" (abortions that get infected etc.) that we see is usually during the first quarter of the year; a fallout of vaginal pounding during Christmas and valentine. Chai, come and see beautiful dead girls, lost wombs, bedridden ones and so on. What pains me most is that these girls will continue denying that they had abortion as if the doctor is a magistrate that will sentence them to death. One denied aborting till she breathed her last only for the nurses that were to prepare her body for the morgue to pull out a mangled baby's remains from her vagina.
And these boys just continue to prowl on the next victims -any vagina that opens! Girls, there is no "rest in peace" if you did not let babies find peace in your womb when the "mistake" of premarital sex was made. If this is your case and you survived it; repent, we all make mistakes.
The guilty ones who do not want to repent are those that will come under my post to rant. Having said it, they will perhaps hide under anonymous and talk about how "nothing happened"! It takes just one day for the thief and murderers to be caught!
Poster1- Keep your baby. Do not drink any harmful medicine and inform your parents of your predicament. Also wouldn't your life be drama-free if you stop fornicating?
ReplyDeletePoster 2- I think your dreams are as a result of you being molested as a child. And if you think it's spirit feed your spirit,soul,body with the word of God. You are a new creature,old things are passed away.All things have become new. Medidate and always speak this to yourself.
Poster 1,do not abort the baby. You are wrong to have sex at dis early age when you are not yet financially independent but the deed has already been done. Keep the baby and talk to your parents about it. They might be disappointed at first but they will later accept you. You are almost done with school.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Your problem is not that men are not coming to you but that the ones you don't like are the ones coming. My advice for you is, start dating one of those ppl asking you out even if you don't like him. Love will come later when priorities are right. Love grows when it's watered. It doesn't just sprout up.
Poster 1,do not abort the baby. You are wrong to have sex at dis early age when you are not yet financially independent but the deed has already been done. Keep the baby and talk to your parents about it. They might be disappointed at first but they will later accept you. You are almost done with school.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Your problem is not that men are not coming to you but that the ones you don't like are the ones coming. My advice for you is, start dating one of those ppl asking you out even if you don't like him. Love will come later when priorities are right. Love grows when it's watered. It doesn't just sprout up.
Serious issue @ poster 2.
ReplyDeleteGod fix it for you
Poster 1). No comment.
ReplyDeletePoster 2). Pray and fast for forty days and forty night.
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DeleteYou're so young, pregnant at nineteen, I feel sorry 4 u. Like u said, u can't cover 1 sin with another so Hav courage 2 face dis on ur own since it's obvious d guy won't b in d picture.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 I dnt understnd hw ur case is spiritual, u r nt in a relationshp yet u said u dnt like d guys dat r head over heels in luv wit u. The only problem I c here is u wanting/chasing d dudes dat dnt want u back. Change focus.
A beloved sister had this same challenge. She was constantly being raped in her dreams. sometimes she will scream and wake up and found out that she had "semen-like" substance between her thighs and sometimes she will be bloody and sore down there for days. She dismissed it as her "wetness". Her's wasn't that guys will leave, they will leave when the wedding has been fixed; for no reason at all. She went to "several deliverance" and received so many positive prophecies. It was when she hit 36 and nothing was shaping up that she decided to seek God out. What actually triggered it was that a man abandoned her at the altar. She foremost fasted 3 days at a stretch and continued 6-6pm for a month. It was during this fasts that the "evil man" came again to do it, and they fought. In the course of the fight, she broke his erect penis and that was it. The evil spirit never came again. She got engaged, married and was pregnant the next month. Whenever she is not pregnant, she eats once a day and still prays at midnight.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 you enter a covenant consciously or unconsciously the moment that agent call family friend of yours touched you. Pray and break every covenant she has with u,in fact if u can kill her spiritualy. By prayer eg 12am for seven days( nude) your life will never remain thesame.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 u need deliverance. Please go to SCOAN!
ReplyDeletePoster one, don't keep it, it will alter your entire life, is that what you want for yourself? Do you think God will smile on your sin of fornication just because you kept the baby? My dear its not his life that will be on pause, its yours, I've been there, I had the baby but sweety trust me, this is not the kind of life I wanted for myself, I had to settle for this. Don't make my mistake, do what you have to do, and don't listen to anybody telling you shit about killing, just put yourself together, and leave the boy, relationships are fun when you're ready for it and my dear you are not ready, if I had a little sister, I'll tell her the same thing, don't keep it. There are sites online where you can get prescriptions from qualified doctors, it has never killed anybody.
ReplyDeleteAnd you think you are wise?
DeletePoster 1, please do not harm that baby.. Millions are out there searching for the fruit of the womb. The deed is already done, no need adding another sin to it.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,i won't judge u,but why won't ladies close their legs? But I will advise u to keep the child,u never know what the child will be tomorrow,u won't regret keeping the innocent child instead of soilin ur hand in blood,ask God for forgiveness and grace. Poster 2: dat dream is serious, u are possess, u need deliverance in a church,,that spirit husband will scare away ur husband in the real life,without u knowing,sex in the dream is really bad,dont take it lightly,God I serve will deliver u,how I wish I know u, I would av taken u to fellowship,u need to cut the bond of that spirit realm for u to be free,its a mustoo,if not u might end up no marrying or marrying and loosin the man to death,is the spirit husband that is makin men hate up,u need the holyspirit of God to guide u at dis dark our,seek the lord dear, he will deliver u.(the devil came to steal and destroy,but God came that we av life and av it to the full) all hope is not lost
ReplyDeleteThis is what you get when you have sex with small boys or students, they are not ready for children but love SEX like recharge cards. Nothing to offer, calling you selfish girl and probably he will deny you soon. Tell your mum about it and equally inform him that your family will come and see his parents for the marriage rite.
ReplyDeleteIts high time parents got involved with things like this so that these small boys will play with caution.
Poster 2..You have a strong spiritual husband and the earlier you go for deliverance the better for you.
Not flush it. You should only have an abortion if you want to. They baby is fine
ReplyDeleteBV Deception! Ewoh!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 talk to your parents about the pregnancy but KEEP your child. It may be tough but not to worry you will pull through. Poster 2 shall pray for you as requested
ReplyDeleteDear '19 and pregnant' did you take whatever your boyfriend gave you before doing a second test? If yes then go for a scan and see a doctor so you do not bringforth a deformed baby if you go through with the pregnancy.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: nothing to say. Like u said, u want to keep ur baby abi? Good!!! Keep him/her. After all, u fucked without a condom. Just get ready to drop out of school and be a single mother coz that ur bf is not just ready at all and he's a goat
ReplyDeletePoster 2: do correct fasting and go for deliverance.
My dear it is written that the entrance of the word bringeth light. And when the light comes darkness comprehendeth it not.truth is sometimes prayer is not enough. U need the word of God to sink into ur spirit and renew U...if you are in port harcourt ill advice u attend salvation ministries Word of Life bible institute and I assure you will be equipped with the right words to overcome this evil...Same advice for that brother with Gay tendency.!God is able
ReplyDeleteIf u have faith as christ preach in matt 21:21-23, den u should be celebrating ur freedom & stop crying.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 a big congrats to you. Now you will understand the meaning of life. Okafor's law gone bad. Poster 2 sorry for your predicament but don't know what to advice you.
ReplyDeletePoster.enuf sin committed already...that baby is innocent,its a tough one but please keep it. Poster 2. This is one step in the right direction.thanks for sharing. Keep praying bout it.God that answers prayers will turn your situation around.
ReplyDeleteOya hanlele to MFM prayercity. Dat spirikoko must die
ReplyDeletePoster one since he already gave u drugs to take I will suggest u flush it. Because my fear is the baby might be deformed. Sorry just my thoughts. I might be wrong though.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, no touch that baby oo, is the result of your good times, so no long things.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. I no get comment
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ReplyDeleteStop watching porn, and be at alert when that the sexual urge comes, be it in the day,night or in your dream,pray against it,send the spirit behind you.let the evil spirit experience sexual starvation forever and u will see all things working for your good. Thank me later.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2: i had a similar dream too, many years ago and i think it contributed to my not been able to keep a man. i do girls at times but it ain't my specialty. I love men but i am yet to meet anyone special. i cant emphatically say i have been a meaningful relationship before. they all come we play around it and everyone goes away just like that. I keep praying though for a change of situation, so dont relent effort in ur prayers too.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 keep it had my baby at 19 am still single just pray and ask God for direction as well as forgiveness.God knows best.You just have to be strong,hardworking and courageous.Its been 8 years it not a smooth road trust me.But I'm thankful still.Looking my story you won't want to know what the guy would do @ the end of the day.i advise you pls and pls don't differ any semseter in uni just keep pushing. First time commenting because it's Stella's birthday 😃
ReplyDeletePoster2 you are not alone, I understand you perfectly it's even worse when everybody else thinks your life is perfect .Have faith in God. Luke 1:37
ReplyDeletePoster 2 the lord is your strength
ReplyDeleteI know u
DeletePoster 2: Please go and look for a reputable Celestial Church of Christ (don't go to fake ones). They have series of prayers for your situation.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, It's not a enough to pray. Are u a born again? If no, then u need to be born again and surrender completely to master Jesus, leave the wheel for Him, and let him do the job of separating d light from the darkness. It's well with u dear.
ReplyDelete@poster 2, be persistent,dere is nothing God can not do,keep on praying and try to read these psalms b4 u sleep psalm 3,91 and 57. It's well with ur soul d devil is a lair.
ReplyDeletePoster one are ur parents aware of it? Poster two just keep praying.
ReplyDeletePoster one, don't listen to your bf. Keep the baby. Your bf may still end up marrying another girl and by then you'll be without a child. Trust me you'll never forgive yourself. Keep it!
ReplyDeletePoster1, My dear I feel really sorry for you. I will not judge you bec this is something that can happen to anyone. In fact it happens mostly to those who are most careful about it. I really hope you the consequences of keeping the baby and the consequences of losing it too?
ReplyDeletePlease whatever you decide to do with the pregnancy later make sure you don't return to that guy and never open your pussy for him again. He is a son of a BASTARD!!. I really wonder the kind of children women raise this days.
I just wish you do the right thing but make sure it doesn't affect your education. All the best.
Poster2, God is ever present and very much alive. He can never change and he is not man that he should lie. He has spoken and he will do it. You need to go for serious deliverance in a more powerful church. Most of these new generational churches use charm so they can attract more members... so tell me how one can use devil to drive out devil. You need a stronger man of God.
Again, I feel you are not positive in your thinking. Our thoughts explains who we are and it has a way of manifesting in our life. There is this saying; "As a man thinketh, so his he". Stop believing you have spiritual man or woman troubling you. Even if you have such dream, wake up and begin to rebuke them. They are not greater than you, you are greater than them. In the name of Jesus, every kneel shall bow and every tongue shall confess that Jesus is lord. If u know who really you serve, you wouldn't be sending in this chronicles.
Don't tell God how big your problem is, but tell your problem how big your God is.
I wish you all the best.... Above all, think in a positive way.
Poster2 May God answer your prayers and deliver you speedily!
ReplyDeletePoster one,please keep the pregnancy.It won't be easy but it will be worth it.If you need someone to talk to anytime,I will send you my number through Stella.I will support you in the best way I can.
ReplyDeleteAbeg go to MFM Prayercity for deliverance. By d time ur enter two n half day fasting dat demonic power go catch fire. Mostly Spiritual husband/wife cases are evil spirit from our ancestors which one was dedicated to.
ReplyDeletePoster one, go see a doctor just to ensure ur baby doesn't develop any abnormalities because of the stuff u took. I pray God sees u through.
ReplyDeletePoster two: e-hugs.
Poster 2,it is spiritual husband.go to mfm headquarters or scoan and get deliverance.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Beautiful Soul! God bless you!
ReplyDeletePoster one:Though it's gonna be tough,keep it and don't mind your boyfriend,i wish I kept mine,still thinking of what could have been..
ReplyDeletePoster two: lesbianism is a spiritual thing, cos it was naturally ordained by God.dont give up yet,everytin wld be fine.
Hmmmmmmn, hard one
ReplyDeleteMy dear pray about it seriously! Ders nothing absolutely God Can Not Do!if u are a catholic,Visit d blessed Sacrament!pray and Talk To God And Our Saviour Jesus Christ Wen u go der!Say psalm 86,89,91,121,69,77,146.God Wld Definitely Deliver U In Jesus Mighty Name Amen!
ReplyDeletePoster1, I understand how the guy feels, and I also understand how you feel... my advice for you is, if you're scared of abortion, then keep the baby, just know that it will really be difficult and very trying for you, but in the end you'll be fine.
ReplyDeletePoster2 I think that girl who did those lesbian stuff to u is possessed and she possessed you! Where's she now? Do u know if she's married now? Well, it's only deliverance that can help u!
Abeg don't go to any garment church I take God beg you. Na warning,no be advice.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 I will advice you to keep the baby I was just like you though younger when I got pregnant. You are lucky you are even in your 3rd year for me I just got into uni. And I knew I would not forgive myself if I abort d pregnancy.Nobody knew I was pregnant. Our parents found out when I was already 8months gone and my dea my plan was to give my baby up for adoption after birthing her but after our parents found out they had to accept it and I birthed my beautiful daughter and my dea that girl brought loads of favour to his family. Today shes 10 and am 27 though we are no longer together but am happy and superproud of her
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I really feel for you. I know its hard but I think you should keep the baby. I won't lie to you there will be a lot of tough times ahead but turn to God totally and he will hold you throught it. I wish you the best. Please don't cause more problems for yourself by drinking anything. I wish there was a way I could contact you.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, how can we contact you?
Deletekeep the baby poster 1
ReplyDeleteur mind is playing tricks on u,reject all this negative energy u are depecting all around u,dont u know it follows u around.please start to change ur mindset and talk with God.
@ Decepticon lol
ReplyDeletePoster 2 it is spiritual,i haven't heard of same sex spiritual spouses but nothing is impossible.surrender your life to Jesus,arm yourself with the word of God only with the word will the yoke break.grow spiritually so the devil can't reinforce
ReplyDeletePoster1:My darling dear, I would advice you not to abort the pregnancy. Even if you abort the pregnancy now, the guy will still leave you for another person. You don't have to abort the pregnancy to please him, my dear by so doing you will hurt yourself greatly and you might end up regretting each passing day of your life. No be you be the first person wey don carry belle and you can never be the last. God will protect you and your child. God bless you.
ReplyDeletePoster2: My dear a break in prayer is a break in Christ Jesus. Continue praying to God, He will surely give you answer to your prayers. Satan just want you to stop praying so that he can continue to take charge over you. Don't stop praying, God will definitely answer your prayer.
Real chronicle
ReplyDeleteIt's all in the hands of the Lord, keep seeking His face till you find him
ReplyDeleteIf you are a Virgin, stay a Virgin. If your bf is not man enough to wife you then he should not have access to your privates. Poster 1, Your bf is a horrible human being and should take 95% of the blame in your situation. Please close your ears to everything he says and tell your Mum about your dilenma as soon as possible.
ReplyDeleteposter one,I wnt advice u to do anything to the baby,since the deed has been done.pls be strong and stay calm,confide in a matured adult around you,The person might have one or two assistance to render
ReplyDeleteposter two,since you already thinks its spiritual,and he/she that wears the shoe knows where it pinches,I think you should get a Bible believing church around you,meet the pastor and seek for deliverance.nothing is too big for God to do.I also pray God intervenes
@ poster1 make sure u see a doctor to find out if ur baby is ok, talk to ur mum or dad the one u think would understand you. Keep the baby.Leave that guy jare, cos u abort u no abort the guy go still leave u. @ poster 2 u need the Holy spirit.
ReplyDeletePlease poster don't touch that pregnancy as it can affect you in future. I'm still asking God to forgive me for the one I did.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 ve been there bi buh i had a supportìve bf den he want d baby buh i didnt i hate d dicission i took den 7o pl7 keep d baby in future he/she would be ur pride
ReplyDeleteposter 2 i share same story with u buh 2day am married with a son. I wnt say d dreams have stopped completely but i rarely have den this days. I had a bf whom i confided in and he asked me to pray abt it n confess ma iniquities to him n promise neva to go back to them . I did as i was asked i slept n in d dream i told d spirit to stay clear dat i dnt belong to her anymore i knw its a lady cos her touches where mild n would turn u on in d dream since then i hardly have such dreams. N i neva mentioned it to ma hubby am just 23
Don't keep the baby
ReplyDeleteposter 2. pls buy or download the book. Battle of midnight by I.G Newman. pray the prayers there. Also buy the Power of Mind by Rev. Chris Oyakhilome,. This book will renew your mind and recreate your spirit. Pls come back to this blog and give testimony.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.This is my first time commenting on this blog but i have been there so i can relate.Mine was spirit husband.It is a very stubborn power but God is greater.You built the foundation hence this attacks.Go to Opm-Omega Power Ministries you would be given prayers to pray for 21 days midnight.I battled with it for more than two yrs.But after my prayers those dreams stopped.
ReplyDeleteWe all should be careful of what we do masturbation,oral sex invites marine spirit.Even watching porn.And i can tell u that Marine attack is the worst attack anyone can have.It is stubborn than even witchcraft.But God is greater.