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Thursday, November 03, 2016

Domestic Violence Cry Out For Help Concerning Chidinma Udensi

THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE TO SDK BLOG

Chidinma Udensi,wife of Sir Chikwe Udensi is presently trapped and under lock and key in her Husband's house and he has allegedly threatened to kill her.This is what she currently looks like because she is constantly battered by the man she calls husband.
This is a cry out for help.
PLEASE I URGE ALL HUMAN RIGHTS GROUP TO STEP INTO THIS CASE
AS THE HUSBAND IS A PUBLIC FIGURE.




''This is an exclusive and call for help for my aunt.
She's almost dying and under lock and keys in the house.

Her husband Chief Chikwendu Udensi who's the former ALGON national chairman and former PPA gubernatorial candidate during the 2015 elections has made it a constant habit to beat my aunt and abuse her in all kind of ways.

Her name is Chidinma Udensi and he strips her naked at every given opportunity! He beats her everywhere office, at home, in front of the kids, the staff and threatens anyone that dare speaks up.


Chidinma before abuse

She has asked for divorce and he beat her to stupor, photos attached, he has locked her up in the house with instruction to the security not to let her out after beating and almost damaging one of her eyes.

He's influential and has a good relationship with the Nigerian police and threatens and bribes anyone that has ever tried to help her get out.

My aunt is dying and she's a shadow of herself and too afraid to move a muscle.

I'm calling on the general public, human right activists and you Stella to PLEASE help free my aunt and disgrace this abusive man.



Please help her leave that house with her kids,cos she has tried to leave severally and he won't let her.

Please help broadcast this so she can get help because he has threatened to kill her and we can't have access to their house.

PLEASE POST TO SAVE A LIFE, This is a call for help!!!

Thanks and God bless.

Mrs Irene Arojogboye
(Her niece)
ireneamos2000@yahoo.com



250 comments:

  1. Oh my goodness



    God
    Such wickedness


    Why can't we live in harmony

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    1. I thought it was only yoruba men that batter their wives. Let's just pray not to end up with a beast.

      Considering the age gap, one will think this idiotic man will be pampering her.

      I pray you find help and get out of that hell hole. Udensi or whatever you are called, it will never be well with you.

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    2. To the topic on ground, how will Nigeria be better when matured men behave like secondary school boys. Instead of the idiot to try and resuscitate his dead political career, he's taking his frustrations out on his beautiful wife. Please someone or people should try and get her to safety. God please deliver Abia men from wickedness. 70% of them are violent towards their wives and yes, my late dad was one of them. It stopped only when my mum took charge and challenged him in 1997. It stopped immediately. Madam please tell your aunt to purchase strength from wherever if she's not strong and fight back like a warrior and tie him up and run for her life. I know someone will show him this post and he'll reinforce his bribery tactics and add more security guards. Or, she should arrange her own kidnap.. I don't know what to say again.. Hmmmmm this life.

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    3. So this tout was actually campaigning to be Abia state governor seriously? Thank God he didn't get near.
      Niece u guys go visit her. Have some able bodied men or the police or soldiers hide outside around then u guys inside overpower the security and let her sneak out
      Big shame, even if a woman commits the worst evil, there would never be a justification for domestic violence DV

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    4. Let me state this here! Any man that can afflict this manner of violence and body harm on someone CAN actually kill. The impact of this injury can actually kill someone. Chidimma, if you are reading this, this is the time for you to take back your life. Cast your Ajebota coat into the bin and put on Rascal jacket, sreet boots, Ghetto moves, hustler spirit, tout energy and everything aggressive and forceful. It is now a battle of life and death. The treadmill is on now with this post and the stupid man will want to intimidate you, don't think twice, you might not have a second chance.
      Do not think about how you will survive, how you will cope, what you will miss, the luxury and all of that. You will have a life after, a sweet one, a better one. Seize this opportunity and change your story. God is with you and help will locate you soon.

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    5. And Irene is writing letters? Where are the boys and MEN in your family or this battered Lady fell from the sky?

      Who collected 'the ngรณ' when she was given away in marriage?

      This Beast up there will kill this lady while you are busy writing to blogs. Let the men tie koboko at their backs and cover with shirts, then proceed to his house.

      Look at the damage.
      Jeez.


      Xhlrted P

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    6. I pray he will be arrested.

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    7. I don't support domestic violence in anyway bt dis fast food girls @ times deserve to reap wat dey sow is it nt d same way dat glorified Ashawo said she is wearing man nt boys cloth/top to d club make Una no go hustle to be financially independent & be lukn 4 already made men up & down I still respect shewe hustling to raise money for scholling or to start a business dan all dis bitches lukn 4 men to milk all in d name of beauty or being sexy ur day will always come

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    8. Her family needs to get involved. They also need to hire a lawyer and get the police involved, this is not just domestic violence but a threat to life. This is why I despise nigeria... You can get away with shit like this. Try this in the us, he would be getting jail time, paying the woman alimony and child support and facing the risk of losing half of his property and wealth to her upon finalization of their divorce. Men stay behaving like animals in nigeria and I'm sure the idiot isn't in good standings either, I'm sure he cheats on the wife with small small girls. Madam u will come out of this one, when u do, divorce him sharply and never look back. The fool doesn't deserve u. Other women facing same, learn from this

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    9. ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฏ
      I really don't know what to say!
      I hope she gets help here.
      So sad.

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  2. Chai, see fine gal. But this man is old na. I pray she gets d help she seeks.

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    1. No mind them.. When he was luring her with money they no talk o.. Sugar daddying things gone hay wire

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    2. Hmmmm what is dis world turning into, husband turned wife into his punching bag. What a good for nothing man.

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    3. All I can scream is JESUS CHRIST!!! Please, this woman should get justice!
      This is the reason female Justices are busy taking bribes up and down and allow stupid men like this to have the effrontery to even contest a public position.
      Ngozi Ofili Ajumogobia, you lot are a shame to womanhood.

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    4. Ohmygoodness!!!

      This is the height of wickedness. Why batter the mother of your children like this.

      If you don't want her boyfriend more, why not let her go?

      I pray she gets help ASAP.

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    5. Oh my goodness. What did I just typed?.

      This auto correct will not let me be great.๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

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    6. What did I just typed??? Keep lying on auto correct oh you hear.

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  3. The man looks like KOK.

    The man is simply a monster!

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    1. Some Useless Igbo men beat up their wives a lot.
      And the stupid woman will want to die there because of money

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  4. I guess this is the Anonymous that is alway posting that he beat his wife!

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    1. Amebo niece you better mind your business.

      Am sure the girl married for just the money that she isn't even getting.

      She'll come out to deny this later when they settle their differences.

      Amenities niece MIND YOUR BUSINESS.

      IF SHE REALLY wants freedom,she'll do it herself.

      Post please o Stella

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    2. Wow! Ideato Ilaje today I'm convinced that u have serious psychological issues. U really need help. What a pathetic damage.

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    3. Did you read this post at all?...birdbrain.

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    4. LMAO @ amenities niece
      Autocorrect egbugo mmadu

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    5. Chai!
      A lot of mad people are roaming on this blog and you Ideato is one of them.

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    6. Hahaha....ideato why evils!!! Na true u talk when she free na,she go go back.

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    7. All of una wey dey insult ideato,no be true she talk??? take for instance that Yoruba lady that was murdered by her horseband,even after she was taken away from her horseband house, she went back and ended up dying.

      Abeg make una leave her alone ooo...

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    8. I'm confounded at your stupidity @'ideato. Yo reek of low self esteem and you are a disgrace to your self, because you obviously don't understand what your basic human rights are. Else you won't make this warped statement. So a woman who also has money, and lavishes the money on her man should also beat the man and the man also deserves the beating because money is been given to him. ... No matter what Finiacial responsibility that has been offered to you, as your human right , no one deserves to physically abuse you. .. Go back to school and get yourself educated. I feel pity for your mentality. Don't disgrace the women specie . Stop dignifying an assault .

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  5. Blood of Jesus.
    She should poison him na.
    If a man constantly beat you and you can't leave poison him.. Or when he sleeps at night carry heavy stick knack his kpa, he becomes weak, then tie him up and beat the living daylight outta him.. ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ

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    1. Your stupidity knows no bound
      Be forming Linda eze u hear?
      Rubbish!

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    2. Seconded! The man looks like a beast sef.

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    3. What happens when he regains his Freedom and strength? He will surely send you to hell.
      Best thing to do is LEAVE.






      *hangs leg on the cupboard*

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    4. My dear you too make sense jareee!!! What nonsense!! When you beat him finish you snap naked pics of him and post all over the Internet and tag him a thief beaten mercilessly!! Vandalize all his property,as go crazy on him!act like a mad woman then steal enough money and leave the country with your kids!

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    5. As in seriously, just put sufficient tututmi inside hot fish or goat meat pepper soup with plenty cameroun pepper.
      Or she can go online and learn how to locate a vein for an injection. You can lace his pillow with an inhalational anaesthetic, diazepam spray sef. Once he is tired, give him an IV anaesthetic and go dig a grave and burry him alive, let him wake up inside grave and beat himself.
      Imagine what he has done to this woman. Mistakenly, he hits her as usual and she dies, nothing will happen to him. He will become a gov tommor and marry another wife.
      The amount of blow that left that face like that can kill if it was given at the back of the head.
      My dear, leave him. Even if you don't have anywhere to go, just leave with your life.

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    6. If he doesn't let her go out, where would she buy it? Besides she would go to jail If she is investigated

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    7. Even a common Aboki girl was able to kill her husband and his friends with one meal.
      I don't know what you are waiting for, cook that last supper now.
      If the security man is stubborn, cook him his last supper too.

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    8. @gwen you must be mad. Who is Linda Eze? Wetin consign me with anybody. U think I lick ass on sdk blog.. U r really stupid. Must u make a comment under my comment? Come don't let devil use u ti receive insult from me this morning. Stay on your Lane bitch!

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    9. @lucile oil noted ma'm am just angry on her behalf ni.

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    1. Sad but how I wish I'm her.Is better to be like her than to be single, lonely and frustrated.

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    2. Ajk, are U for real???!

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    3. Ajk please you need to build your self esteem. Seriously??!!!! Please go hang out with friends or get a responsible flatmate or something. What you have said is not normal ah ah! In short, please go for counselling.

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    4. Anon 11:48 as long as people are derisively called gwez yes people will make wishes like Ajk. BV s should repent from using that term.

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  7. He bests you and you still stay there? Why? Leave this animal and go to your parents.

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    1. Did you not read where they said he locks her up and she can't run is that not the reason why SOS mail was sent?

      I pray help comes her way

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    2. Because it's better to cry in a limousine than in a keke Napep.

      But the article actually said she has made several attempt to get a divorce.

      Money and power is good to have and ladies should properly assess the rich men well before you get your destinies locked up in mansions where you will be beaten to stupor in the name of marriage.

      Let God guide your choices so you don't end up with beasts whether rich or poor.

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  8. Evil man seeking political power

    Cant believe the pictures are of the same person. God will send you help

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    1. Next elections, the idiot of a man might change to either PDP or APC and come out out to contest and gullible Nigerians will vote for him.

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    2. I hope she is not in more danger now that the news is out. I pray help locates her immediately

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    3. Dino Melaye style

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  9. Chai! I pray she is helped.

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  10. If it's only security guard that's stopping u from having access to her, can't u arrange all these touts to go and get her out? Look at the beast of a husband. I'm so pissed this morning. Just like that man that isn't even my father will be beating shege out of me. Not possible. If it happens once, there will never be a repeat.

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    1. See as omission of just comma change entire sentence for me. Chai

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    2. This kind of man don't gave normal security men. They have police with guns as security men. How then will the touts challenge the security?

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    3. That kind of man has the touts loyal to him. The only way is to brainwash this woman and equip her with the necessary weapon to kill that bastard of a man or get a coffin for her to bury her dead body when he eventually kills her.
      How strong is the man sef? Find a suitable weapon inside that your house and kill the fool like a rat.

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  11. Na wa ooo, what is marriages these days turning into?

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  12. Mhh, God will save her. But poster, what went long? For how long has this been going on?

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    1. Is this new English? What went 'long' kwa?

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    2. Since we got married sir. Lol

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    3. What went wrong? Auto correct egbuna mmadu.

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  13. Some men can be so callous....am just so shocked, how can a man beat his wife. Well all I know is that any man who lays a finger on his wife is an animal.

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  14. She saw money and entered inside, now she is crying, fine girl like her.

    May God help her. For the man to hate her and beat her everywhere, that means something is wrong somewhere. I hope she no use jazz marry the man.

    God paralysed Mr. Udensi hands in Jesus name Amen.

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    1. God will not paralyze him. You don't know the Genesis.

      Serves her right. See the old man she married

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    2. You are so stupid for this comment. So a woman can't marry a rich man in peace again? It's people like you that make dv women remain in their bad marriages. And to think you are female, shame on you.

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    3. I suspect dis ideato of a girl, seems she knows sumtin abt these people(maybe sidechick to d lunatic man) cos d way she takes it personal, who knows she might be d one manipulating d man to abuse his wife so using her yoruba jazz(fear d yorubas).

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    4. God bless you Ideato for saying the truth. Money lured this babe to that old man nah! So, shd Should endure o jare. See age diff nah! Greedy lots.

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    5. Ideato, go and take your medication
      U sound stupid.

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  15. I just hope he doesn't see this before the right authorities take due actions! People who beat up their spouses should have their privates cut out.. Sheer wickedness!

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  16. Intelligentia princess loves chikito and the queen.3 November 2016 at 09:17

    Nawah ooooo . Iheneme nobodo
    Just imagine beating up someone's daughter like this? May help locate her asap. Am speechless and don't even know what to say.

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  17. Nawa ooo. Whois to be blamed for d BOYS of dis generations? D mothers who didn't train his son well or father or even d son who lacks or refuse training. If u ask me, na who we go blame

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  18. Jesus!...
    Nobody can beat me like this and go scot free!...
    I will make sure I kill you slowly with poison!...or even stab you in your sleep and face the consequences!...
    With a good lawyer,I will stay in the prison for some time and come out!...
    I don't know why my type don't jam men like this...
    Tell your aunt to leave the children for him and flee!..Unless she wants him to damage this her fine face!...
    The children must surely look for her when they grow up!...
    Useless men everywhere!..

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    1. Na money she find go there, just like you

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    2. You did not call him demon, cos he's igbo?

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    3. Idiot.sebi you said na other tribes dey do dis..Igbo Terrorist @ work๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰
      You smelly cunt.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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    4. Idiot.sebi you said na other tribes dey do dis..Igbo Terrorist @ work๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰
      You smelly cunt.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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    5. But u always advised women to marry for money and forget love. This is the result facing you here. Nobody should ever take your advice serious. Though I still rove u bcos u've got a.mind of your own

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    6. I wonder what type of brain formats your head has got??she should leave her children? If she must leave then it must be with her children, may b they left u that's y ur comments and reasonings are too shallow for my comprehension.

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    7. How will she flee when she was locked up in a room.

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    8. @Queen and Boss I will straggle you with my bare hands in the night if you fuck up as my wife.Empty barrels make the highest noise

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    9. I would have given the fool Insulin overdose. Wet a towel with strong formaldehyde and get him weak first. Or find an antifreeze.

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    10. Ur beating already @queen

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  19. Jesus christ!!!this man should be caught and dealt with ASAP,i don't care to know if the woman was at fault or not

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  20. See the irony in his poster: Abia must be better yet his home is a zoo. I hope she gets help.

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  21. Jesus!!!

    Penalty for domestic violence should be passed into law and adhered to strictly no matter who is involved.

    That's why I love the whites, they send even celebrities and minister to jail for wrongdoings. Not here, all nah man knows man.

    See this beautiful lady.
    Thank God you spoke out, I hope she finds the help you seek for her.



    Chop knuckle Stella.

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    1. @TeeDiva,
      Its already a law.

      Section 19 of the Violence Against Persons Act 2015 prohibits spousal battery and provides thus:
      “19(1) A person who batters his or her spouse commits an offence and is liable on conviction to a term of imprisonment not exceeding 3 years or to a fine not exceeding N200, 000 or both.”

      If she wants to help her sister, she should file a complaint/petition to that appropriate authorities

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  22. This is so cruel y battered your second half like this, human right please step in before he finish her o.

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  23. Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars3 November 2016 at 09:19

    What about her relatives? Can't they demand for her release by returning the bride price? Marriage is not by force? What does he gain by keeping her against her will?

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    1. They probably sold her to the beast.

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    1. Something...

      She doesn't deserve the beating

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    2. Highness, add stupidity to your name please I beg you- Highness stupidity Gwen is more like it.

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  25. Please something fast should be done about this. This is such a cruel act.

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  26. Useless men everywhere... mtcheew....

    Nonsense ๐Ÿ˜ฎ.. i pray she gets help fast.

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  27. Nawaoooo.... Some men can be evil. God Please save her from that animal dat calls himself husband

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  28. Every woman should learn Taekwando before marriage incase he tries it.

    If she leaves today, tomorrow, she would start begging the man to let her come back. Is it today he started beating her? If you don't value yourself, no man would. How can you allow a man batter you like that? Don't you hold yourself and your kids in high esteem?

    No, you are not staying because you love your kids or because you are a Christian. What kind of kids would grow up in such volatile environment and not have issues? While in marriage, do not ever let a man know that just because you have some kids for him, that is the end of your life, so he can do trash and get away with it.

    I don't blame that animal of a husband because obviously the woman does not have enough self esteem in her to walk away. Tomorrow, she would tell everybody her niece wants to destroy her marriage. Smh.

    That animal of a man is suppose to be in jail but I trust Naija police and the depth of corruption in them.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  29. Nawaooo. Some men can be evil. God Please save her from that animal dat calls himself husband

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  30. Nawaooo. Some men can be evil. God Please save her from that animal dat calls himself husband

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  31. This man is too young for such lifestyle, no matter the offence beating her takes the blame off her and lands on you

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  32. Heeeiiiiiii....Lord have mercy! Please do not let her die in the hands of this coward, keep her alive for her children and her family oh Lord, let her come out victorious in Jesus name, Amen.

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  33. She's not ready to leave, placed under lock, na prison? Can't she feign peace n act all lovey n dovey plan ur relocation secretly,then wen taking d kids to school, they branch airport n disappear? Mbok! She never ready to pack out.

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    1. Act lovey dovey with an old frustrated man?
      It does work like that n besides,nobody knows is she has a source of income.
      How she wan go dey do passport when she is locked up.
      Is not that easy ooh

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  34. Wow i cant believe its the same person.

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  35. Too bad.I want to marry a rich man!.I very sure she is not his first wife.

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  36. Story for the gods.She does not want to leave the marriage. She prefers to die there.

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  37. Oh my goodness!!! May help come her way in time before the worse happens.

    Mothers beware of the monsters you create by allowing your sons watch you endure abuse from your husbands.

    This man most probably watched his father abuse his mom.

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  38. What does she always do to annoy d man? Does she always run her mouth? Does she always challenge d man that he cannot do anything?

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  39. This is pure wickedness, same thing my neighbors husband did to her, thank God she ran out when she did. Beast in the form of men.

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  40. This is pure wickedness, same thing my neighbors husband did to her, thank God she ran out when she did. Beast in the form of men.

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  41. Evil men everywhere. This is how oluchi mbonus ex hubby beats her blue black, yet she still shows up at work with it. He comes to our branch to abuse and digrace her in front of customers. When she finally filed for divorce and moved on, he them framed her up for attempted murder. Who gave birth to all this beasts? I rather remain a lesbian than be a ghost because of marriage . Oluchi is innocent

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  42. Madam wetin you do???infidelity??? Sharp mouth???or what.Moreover that man is too old for you sef.I know Chikwe Udensi for umuahia.After the NGO don save u finish,you go still go back.

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  43. Ds is really nt nice cumin frm a public figure.hw cud he do ds to d moda of kids?
    Alot of women see ds signs yet go into it.
    Some decieve demselves tinkin they can bear so long theres moni.
    Wil wait for d mans response.

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  44. She marry rich man nah Lol.

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  45. Stella u shdnt have published the name and email address of the sender...the man will hack her down for daring to put up his private shit in public domain. If not now, later. Politicians can be very vindictive.

    I feel so sorry for Mrs Udensi...maybe he wants to use her for...and her spirit is too strong and he is probably running out of time...he will eventually kill her if her family doesn't intervene wt force.

    May God help her

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  46. I don't want to believe that the beautiful lady on the second pix is the lady with the black eye. All this influential people are bad news. They look reasonable outside and very terrible inside. Who would think a man of such calibre will be a beast? Kill the motherfucker and serve a little time in jail than spend the rest of your life with a beast who beats and still fucks you on top. What rubbish.
    Some people deserve a special place in hell.
    #SayNotoDomesticViolence







    *hangs leg on the cupboard*

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  47. I don't think Mr E Money and Mr Oladunmi Churchill will showering their wives with expensive gifts if they are always disrespectful to them.It is rude women that don't usually enjoy their marriage.

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  48. Abeg make we hear word. If she truly wants to leave she for don leave tey tey. are we babies?? the man no dey comot for house? after this one, when things settle a bit she should pack her box inside her car pack stuff for the kids hide in the booth on saturday night. Sumday morning bright and early she should prepare like she is going to church normal, prep her kids, dress up real good and carry bibile, NNe, enter ur car and drive away!!! off your phone, change ur kids sch, and leave jare. Its a weak man that beats up women, cursed men

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    1. Must she go with d kids?
      Can she cater for dem?
      Its going to b very clumsy n rough to start a new life as a single, with children.
      Let her find her way 1st, if she really wants to leave him.

      But God forbid if I were her, I wld mk sure I leave behinde an irreversible damage(preferably on d man).
      Ma han lemo.๐Ÿ˜€
      I pray I don't land an abusive partner, if not d two of us are jail bound.

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    2. She doesn't have money to do this.

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  49. These are the leaders we have in Nigeria. See the way he turned a babe into a monkey, just like our leaders turned our beautiful country into a nightmare. Just look at his nose like funnel. My dear,I salute ur courage for sending this out on behalf of ur aunt. I pray u get the help u seek. Just look at the rock of ages this beautiful woman married,probably becus of money,and peace of mind and still yet na suffer she jam for hin hand. Tufia!

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  50. The man is a beast, but I'm sure the signs have been there before they got married and she ignored them. This man is way older than her, so I'm sure he's been "Daddying" her from the onset. Lots of things contribute to dv. He's treating her this way cos he knows she obviously married him for money and not love, so he feels he can treat he as he wishes cos he has th money to get away with it and she'd be too ashamed an scared to leave cos many people warned her and she'd hate hate humiliation of proving them right. Niece if you can read this, storm his, storm his house, if the security tries to stop you, beat him up, break down doors and free her

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  51. nobody wants ask Wetin she do to get this kain beating, y'all single n frustrated mother be asking her to leave the man almost immediately n join y'all in begging everyday here on SDK. the poster has already given condition on how she is to leave... with her kids! whose name does the children bear? was the bride price paid for you to get pregnant, give birth and leave with the kids? retarded female folks! women of nowadays confusing equality and equity.
    Enough of the rant! the family/relations should come together and look into the matter... ladies often get blinded by wealth n swear the oath of marriage... till death do us part. why has she been looking for divorce? because she's after what she'd get from the man! beggers here AKA single mothers, please say nothing in reply to my comment.

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    1. LMAO anon 10:02 u hit d nail on d head. The only intelligent fellow on this forum

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    2. They will beat you daughter like this and I pray you will be sane enough to ask her what she did to deserve the beating. ..If you don't ask her and then advice her to go back to her monster of a husband...then you must be a two faced hypocrite...no matter what she did, no woman deserves this sort of treatment..potential wife beater like you!!

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    3. Anonymous please keep quiet and go get an education. There's nothing anyone can do to deserve this kind of beating. The man is just a bully, a wimp that can't stand toe to toe with his mates but is quick to show his superiority once it comes to his wife.

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    4. U who are calling single mothers out, do you have a father? Bastard!!!


      It is poverty stricken narcisistic phsycopaths like you who would marry and start looking for excuse to abuse their wives.

      Go and seek help before you marry (if u havent already started beating up your girlfriend) because you have all the traits of an abuser.

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    5. ... talking about nobody want ask wettin she do. Your reasoning is so sickening.

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    6. I am a married woman and I am stating it here that no woman should be beaten by a man for any reason. You are looking at the fact that she might be broke if she leaves, but she might die in a bid to enjoy the cursed money of this man. My sister, go do your research. Go look at what children that grew up in the midst of domestic violence are saying, then come back to comment.

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  52. Na wa oo, things some women see in marriage.. some men are animals truly.
    Mrs Irene, you better go and get her family members to act fast before that lady dies there, what about the man's family?

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  53. Hian, ur aunt is not a sharp woman, why hasn't she poisoned him, useless old man, am sure she's not the first wife.

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  54. I stopped being sympathetic for some dv women a long time ago. I didn't understand why they always went back but after seeing what some dense women did on sdk, ah, I just lost hope. Madam sorry. Just hang in there, you'll be fine eh.

    Human beings have survival instincts. We know when to run from danger. Unfortunately, some Nigerian women flush it down the toilet the moment they get married.

    These days, all I have to offer is "sorry". My 10 kobo help ain't going nowhere. The ones that receive help are actually the ones who never appreciate it.

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  55. If a man is hard working and rich and he takes adequate care of his family, his wife should always listen to him.

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  56. Was he forced into marrying her, I just don't understand the rationale of wife beaters. Useless man, showing your manhood by beating your wife, the mother of your kids. This is soooo wrong. Men pls divorce your wife or separate from her if you get tired. Your sons will grow up and think this is the norm

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  57. I know dis man o!vry mean,stingy and vry greedy modafuka! His so mean!vry greedy!u can not do deal wit ds man without him cheating u!d guy must cheat u and collect d giant share in d deal!dat hw he dealt wit a senior lawyer colleugue friend of mine!dis udensi man is a devil!ders absolutely nothing good about ds man!i wonder wat ds lady saw in him dat she went to marry him cos d guy is darm too stingy!na wa for babes o!u suppose de shine ya eyes o!all dat glitters is not always gold o! His has contacts wit d Nig police cos he a vry big police contractor!very useless man! Mscheeew!

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  58. OMG!
    Poor poor girl! Come take a hug darling!
    Couldn't believe u were the one in the second picture.
    Oh no! I am sooo soo sad!

    This poor excuse of a man should be hung by the testicles.

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  59. Go straight to office of the public Defender (OPD).. Its @ ojuelegba beside national staduim... Its under d ministry of justice lagos state... Dey'll attend to u asap.... I've interned dere befre

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  60. After all this wahala...this woman will go back to this beast! I have seen worse cases than this and it always ends up the same way...

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  61. I've only read about domestic violence online till i met a victim recently
    Very pretty woman that wanted to die in her husband's house
    The Marriage has lasted for just one year and she has ran for her life with her kid
    Thankfully she's financially independent
    This woman should leave o before she dies in that marriage
    I won't even advice my enemy to stay in such marriage
    Jeez!!!...see her eyes

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  62. Where are the 'I must marry a rich man' ladies?
    Nne sorry, use hot water. It is better to cry inside a Range than laugh inside a keke napep according to some people..

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    1. The royalty....I must marry a well to do man.
      I cant suffer abeg!๐Ÿ˜€
      And yes he wld be well mannered if not ehn.....

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    2. Even poor men beats their wives!...
      Theirs are even worse sef because you will have nothing to console your self with...
      The husband of my children's nanny used to beat her blue black untill I intervened and teach him a small lesson!,.....
      This is a man that does not provide for his family!...
      Very useless man!...he is a vulcanizer but used the small money he makes to marry another wife!...

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    3. Poverty makes the poor ones beat their wives even more than the rich ones...DV is not by financial status....marry a rich man my sister.it is not a crime!

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  63. CLICK ON THE DOMESTIC VIOLENT DIARIES ON SDK BLOG

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  64. Please the relevant authorities should act as soon as possible. May God never let us encounter this type. Tufiakwa!


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  65. Everyone here thinks one direction. A lot of these women nowadays used to fight everyday in their fathers house before marriage. They are fighters. They fight their sisters, brothers, neighbors, colleagues in school etc violently. They have terrible mouth. Cursing and cursing and cursing. Now they are lucky to get married and instead of changing, carry the same bad mouth and violence to their husband's house. Not realising that the man is also human and will retaliate when you abuse and curse and physically attack him. This is what you get. Black eye. Also, so you people just want her to leave the house with the mans children abi? very funny. Who paid for the mothers care during pregnancy, child birth, welfare, home expenses, feeds and clothes the whole family. So just because she performed her biological duty of carrying belle for 9 months she OWNS the children. You are too funny. The children at best would be shared custody. If old enough, live with the father, she can carry baby now but must return child to father when old enough. I don't know what exactly happens between husband and wife (only the two of them know 100%, even family will only be hearing one-sided half-truths and lies and exaggerations)> But spare me, y'all make these probably-violent women into saints. You get what you give. You attack me and curse me, you get the beating of your life, Everybody should respect themselves, even during quarrel.

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    1. Anon 10:33 well said.The second intelligent fellow. I hv said it many times ,it is rude uncouth ill mannered women that receive beatings in their homes.

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    2. Akuko!!!story story!! I will stand and watch you pummel me Abi? The reaction you give a man the first time he hits you, determines if he will hit you again or not...frustrated man everywhere....you did not know she was a fighter before you married her? You did not as the signs early enough to walk away? I pray you jam my cousins type...she will give you and 5 other man the beating of your life and at the same time for that matter...

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    3. So u have d guts to say bad mouthed wives deserve to be beaten? Nawa oo... Oga abeg change ur fishy mentality!!! Who even gave u d right nd audacity to beat ur fellow human not to even mention ur wife*opens mouth* pple like u shuld be sepatared from humans...

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    4. Anon 10:33
      You are a very stupid man!
      Very stupid for saying who paid d hosp bill? Welfare n feeds.

      Who pregnated d woman?
      Some of u men, d opportunity for u to av sense, u wasted ur options by releasing into latex condom.
      Are u an infidel?
      You for wait mk govt help u cater for d woman who u paid bride price over her head na.

      So bcos u married a woman, she must endure suffering as result of ur bad upbringing.

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    5. Like Ruth iyawo Dele Alata.

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    6. Just negodu this person!...
      You think being pregnant and giving birth is beans?...
      Shey you read labour room drama here every day and see what women pass through to bring forth the child...
      I don't blame you!...

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    7. Oga welcome ooooooo Oya run back and punch the other eye!!!! Imbecile๐Ÿ™„

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    8. Go and read replies to anon 10:02. The same goes to you. You have all the traits of an abuser. SEEK HELP

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    9. You are a lowlife. Animal!! All this justification just to abuse your wife sures how sorry a man you are.

      Don't know why Stella keep enabling animals like you by posting your sicking comments.

      I'm sure you have beaten your mother.

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    10. As a follow-up to my original response at 10:33. I am in no way encouraging domestic violence. All I'm saying is everyone respect the other. You curse and abuse and physically abuse me I will give you the beating of your life. You stay your own and control your mouth..no beating. Chikena. Many of these girls pretend to be angels before you marry them and then change to fighting and cursing demons after marriage. Its a two-way street. Quarrels will always happen in marriage, but quarrel with sense. You curse and abuse you will get beaten. Chikena. Most of these women before they are lucky enough to be married, pray and fast and roll on the floor for husband, pretend and pray for children. After marriage and children, they do as if they did the man a favour by having kids. Its your damn biological duty. Nobody owes you any apology for carrying pregnancy. Just like nobody owes me apology for providing for my family. Its my duty. Everyone should respect themselves. However, if you curse me during quarrel, I will beat your ass up. And by the way, the kids bear my lastname. By the way, I have many kids all American and my wife is well read internationally She's not a stupid feminist, Rational. And understands my position. We respect each other when we argue. Disagree with respect. Physical and verbal abuse by both parties is no-go area. Learn women. learn.

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    11. A man does not have to beat his wife. He can leave her or go to the courts for a divorce. Simple!

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  66. This was me last year, Thank God and my family that brought me out alive. They will cheat and spend late nights out drinking and commiting adultery, when you complain they will beat you up and accuse you and your family of all sorts.

    It is against the law to hold anybody hostage, with pressure from family... he will release her but he won't let her have the children.

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    1. Thank God for your life. Please never go back to the devil again

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  67. I remember this chief udensi growing up in ajao estate, he used to be very calm and has helped alot of people, that was before his first wife passed, maybe he was nice then because they were ttc, when God finally did it she didn't live to train her kids.
    How do men feel when they beat their wives, does it make them feel happier or fulfilled, cos its strange beating someone you know cant fight back. Na wa oh

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  68. No matter what happens, no human being should be treated like this , totally unfair..dear niece, Pls do as Deola said Go to the office of the public defender at Stadium Hotel Bustop and tender this awful act of animalistic behavior , you also go to Alausa to report If the first office does not respond..

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  69. It is better not to pass judgment based on one person or one party s account of event.
    We should all remember how one shameless lesbian girl few days ago said that a man is blackmailing her with a sex video which later turned out to be a false accusation.

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  70. As a psychology profiler and just looking at his face, I can tell you for certain that this man is a psychopath.

    He suffers from "anti-social personality disorder". Also known as sociopathy. Google to learn more.

    The young lady should run as far from him as possible because such men can never be treated or changed. Ladies pls watch out for this signs before you say I do Manipulative, lack of human empathy, shamelessness, pathological lying, extreme self centeredness, financial and verbal abuse aka stinginessetc..... .no amount of prayer or therapy can change such men.they are always the victim and the villain. They were born that way.

    I won't be surprised if he goes into full war against her and her aunty by using all his political might and clout, rather than be ashamed for his callous deeds. Monster tueh!

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  71. When you see a man marrying a girl young enough to be his daughter, just know that he has control issues.

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  72. Chai this ugly old monster ๐Ÿ‘น did this to you and you are still waiting? Your family had better return his money he paid on you and set you free.

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  73. Hmmm! I've seen enough DV to know that the sender is crying louder than the bereaved 90% of the time.

    Let them open the gates of that house now and allow her free passage out, she'll still come begging after she starts missing the goodies. Igbo gals and money!!! That woman' ll rather die there than leave.

    Financial independence and contentment; every woman needs these two things in this life

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    1. Your write up was sensible till I got to the "igbo girls and money part" so girls from other tribes forbid money? Some comments on this blog gives you an insight into people's thought process....tufiakwa!

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  74. It's better to be beaten and battered blue and in a a latest jeep, fortress and mansion than to live with a broke are man God-fearing man. Who broke are help. Money answerrth all including assault, battery and house arrest

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  75. By the way, is he related to dike udensi ifegwu,I remember that family's brouhaha not long ago

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  76. NAwa o. Tot dey said older men pamper small gals, Power of money. Guess she married him cos of his money. Anyway may God come to her rescue

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  77. Why do igbo men always beat their wives. And igbo women refuse to leave a dv marriage because they were sold into marriage and cannot pay back the money. They really should look into how they marry each other because being sold into marriage is not good.

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  78. I'm totally against men that beat women,its cowardly n plain stupid, wf exception of men DT would beat the likes of queen n boss abi loss n DT stupid gahna gal,arrrgh!!!!!!!

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  79. Only woman body him get strength, he couldn't even fight his fellow men to contest under a political party, he had to settle as face of a birthday party... bloody weakling

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  80. financially independent is the answer. learn to equip yourselves women. any man that abused you, you walk away n live ur life. Be financially independent, women. Arise women, take your destinies into your hands ASAP.

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  81. I watched Zaaki Adzy or so on his programme saying abused women should speak up and I was shocked. This is the man that was reported to have been abusive to his ex wife or is it a case of 3 sides to a story? He even mentioned men being abused can not speak up because of shame citing himself as an example and I became even more confused. The long and short it is that when a marriage becomes bedeviled with violence, it is as good as dead.

    Madam for your sake, I hope you are his 1st wife.

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  82. Anon 11:21 ,U r correct. Lekan Shonde and Kolade Arowolo are Igbo men

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  83. Third world war taking place In families now. The devil knows when a family is in God, he (devil) has lost. If he succeed in destroying a home, he has destroyed a generation. and d trend will continue until someone stands up in d spirit and defeat the devil and his cohorts.

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  84. Nah wah ooooooh. .....dats really bad oga, why not go meet May Weather

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  85. Nah wah ooooooh. .....dats really bad oga, why not go meet May Weather

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  86. I see some of you saying she got married to her sugar daddy. Let me state to you all that no human being deserves to be beaten like this or at all, she should leave that house asap, the man is a wolf, my neighbor beat up his tenant (A widow with two little children) yesterday morning and I was in tears. May God fight for the helpless...

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  87. This ideato is a nuisance.
    Are you sure you are a woman at all. Even if she Married him for money does she deserve such a treatment? Has he not been sleeping with her and impregnating her. Is it for free?
    Even if the man is tired of whatever behaviour she has, can't he throw her out? Is marriage a do or die affair?
    Ladies pls look out for d type of men you date. D old man probably feels he owns her and her destiny when he married her.
    Sum parents won't do background check on dere daughters prospective husband, they will just give dem away when they see rich man.
    We all know d tribe dat does that. Stop selling your kids for money.

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  88. Babe where your brothers at? The day one idiot tried it with my oldest sister, Hmmm! Na so me and my brothers go track the guy for house o, lock gate. Come see begging. He now had to guts to send someone to come to the house and harm us. As the guy enter na so we tell Yakubu "lock the gate" na so the guy sef begin beg say na send dem send am ooo. Lie down for ground dey cry dey beg. I love my brothers.

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  89. Madam pls leave that house now. Maybe you find the help you seek.

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