A Chronicle with a wedding invite..lol
CONFUSED GIRL
I love my fiancé, he's the best man. Been together for 5 years now. Wedding is this year. Puts me above heaven and earth. Very Godly, though he has his fault, we all do but he's such a good man. Takes care of my needs pretty much in all aspects.
Why am I sending this in? Well because I don't entirely feel s3xually attracted to him. (I'm not encouraging sex before marriage, but I'm being honest here) when we have s3x, I just lay there. He's my first by the way (I don't have another to gauge him by) but I believe I should be hell over heels with him s3xually.
I have a s3xual problem, I'm guessing that's the issue as I was molested as a child and s3x has never been a big deal for me and to me, but I fear that I'm boring and s3x with him will be boring for the rest of our lives.
I love him so much though, I've just recently came around to having s3x with him, but I lay there like a bag of rice waiting for him to just come and get off of me. I (we) don't engage in foreplay because I think it's a waste of time and I just want to satisfy his immediate need so I won't have to hear another word of how I sex starve him continuously. I'm just tired. I need rewiring or something 😂.
Stella DARLING, bikonu post let me read comments and tap into you and bv's knowledge. And oh I love you so much Stella DK. God bless you and your oh so lovely heart. I'm inviting you to Yankee for my wedding. Hoping you'll honour it when I do send the invite.
I love him so much though, I've just recently came around to having s3x with him, but I lay there like a bag of rice waiting for him to just come and get off of me. I (we) don't engage in foreplay because I think it's a waste of time and I just want to satisfy his immediate need so I won't have to hear another word of how I sex starve him continuously. I'm just tired. I need rewiring or something 😂.
Stella DARLING, bikonu post let me read comments and tap into you and bv's knowledge. And oh I love you so much Stella DK. God bless you and your oh so lovely heart. I'm inviting you to Yankee for my wedding. Hoping you'll honour it when I do send the invite.
Kisses my boothang, and big thanks in advance.
LOL...Send the invite and i will attend if it doesnt disturb another appointment.I am even planning to visit Hilfiger shop there cos na there orisirisi dey...So mail me what state you are in and lets see.
good luck with the advice blog visitors will give...CHAMPAGNE never clear from my eyes so i n fit advice for now...lol
Lol...
ReplyDeleteEmjay help am nah
DeleteUr adv is compulsorily needed.
Not end time adv ooo
Yawns again
ReplyDeleteStella you have posted this before.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteI have read it here before
This chronicle has been posted before
ReplyDeleteYou nor hear say champagne never clear from her eyes? She's tired jor..she must ve posted it by mistake.una too dey like amebo job dey correct person..by the way.Stella pass some champagne come my side make i high like you.😎😎😎.
DeleteThis chronicle is old
ReplyDeleteYou have posted this before,Sdk.
Hian!!
ReplyDeleteThis Chronicle again??
This is the 3rd time oooh
you posted it last week or so, guess Chronicle box is empty, lol.
ReplyDeletestella this is a repeat post na? you posted this either sunday/monday abeg repost another Cobv
ReplyDeleteThis chronicle was featured here. Which day again???
ReplyDeleteStella, this is a repeated chronicle now
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Aunty Stella we have already read this chronicle before
ReplyDeleteYou need rewiring true but your answer lies in what you are refusing to do. Foreplay! It plays a big part in love making except for those sex maniacs that eat sleep and dream sex lol they enjoy it anyhow.
ReplyDeleteDo dirty talk before the deal it might work.
Thank you!
DeleteHaven't this chronicles been posted before?
ReplyDeleteHave you told your hubby about your molestation? At least, let him be aware that there's a problem. In your chronicles, you didn't state of dh is complaining, so I take it that he is not complaining. I'm not trying to scare you but most times, when a man doesn't complain about a bad sex life, he's probably getting it elsewhere...
I don't know how, but you just have to try to have good sex with your husband.
In other news, I have missed commenting on this blog; school starts very soon!
Dear Poster, you need to work on your mind and leave the past behind.Dwelling on your being molested as a kid won't take you anywhere.Its happened and you need to totally move on.
ReplyDeleteReality is that you are getting married soon and you owe yourself/ hubby to be the right to enjoy S3x. Tell him to teach you how to pleasure him and in the process learn what turns you on too.
What do i even know sef? Wishing you marital bliss and please send in hot WNB.
Go see a counsellor...its because of the fact that you were molested as a child. You deserve all the happiness
ReplyDeleteThis is familiar.
ReplyDeleteYou don't even have a problem dear, open your mind and learn to love him. Exploit ways in which he can make you happy, let him know about the situation and you both can try some crazy not deadly stuff and that should be after wedding lol. Goodluck.
ReplyDeleteDidn't I read this chronicle yesterday ..... abi na dream?
ReplyDeleteStella you don post this chronicles before na
ReplyDeleteMake she tell God to help and show her what to do to enjoy sex with bae
Lol
ReplyDeletePoster, you sent in this just few days ago na. The advice on that post never still do you ne? Lool! Issorai!
ReplyDeleteStella don high for real. I can tell from the chronicle.. This na old one, come back and paste the one for today. 😁😁😀
ReplyDeleteStella stop repeating chronicles pls
ReplyDeleteAwon adviser over to them
ReplyDeletePoster, anything that makes you have doubts about the man you're to marry should be tackled before you say "I do". Don't leave any issues disturbing you untouched.
ReplyDeleteHaving sexual intercourse before marriage is bad, that not withstanding; you have already indulged in it and you don't feel sexually attracted to your partner.
Sex is one of the most important things in marriage. (God Himself ordained it. It's to enjoyed), so you see, you can easily say that it doesn't matter for now, but it'll matter later.
Have you tried talking to your partner? Tell him you are not enjoying it and that you're not sexually attracted to him. Maybe you both can go see a doctor and go through some therapy. Sex is not overrated, it plays important role in a matrimonial home.
Talk it out with your partner, don't enter a marriage that you will regret later, because you might want our later and put all the blames on him.
Maybe you should give it a second thought.
Stella why now? You posted this same chronicle last week na
ReplyDeleteThis is making the 3rd time I am reading this chronicle, Stella kedu makafia?
ReplyDeleteBeing molested is traumatizing. Since you are in the US you have access to good therapist. See one and research on sexual stimulants.
ReplyDeleteHuh??? Repeated
ReplyDeleteStella it is repeated o, you have published these before. If chronicle don finish tell us, so I can send mine
ReplyDeleteThis chronicle was posted last week
ReplyDeleteMadam Stella u don post this story b4 na!
ReplyDeleteIndeed, the champagne hasn't cleared from ur eyes cuz u posted this chronicle before...lol
ReplyDeleteStella this is a repeat chronicles
ReplyDeleteGood to know
ReplyDeleteSeems I have read dis kronikle before maami
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ReplyDeleteYou are a joker.
DeleteStella, you posted this story last week. Champagne never clear from your eyes true true. Lolzzzz
ReplyDelete👀👀👀👀👀👀👄👄👄👄👄👄 no comment
ReplyDeleteChronicles
ReplyDeleteStella where the rest chronicle dem? as this one na number 1??? truly champagne never clear for ya eyes! madam chronicle nothing do you jare
ReplyDeleteRepeated chronicle.
ReplyDeletePoster, what state will your wedding be held? Make I show face too biko.
ReplyDeleteScrap that no foreplay thing, try to do foreplay before sex and when at it try to concentrate on it, all your mind and thought should be about sex with these you would begin to enjoy sex and find him attractive
ReplyDeleteStella, na true.. Something dey your eyes.. You posted this last week or thereabout..
ReplyDeleteU have put this story before nau
ReplyDeleteI have read this here before. Right?
ReplyDeleteThis has been posted last week ...
ReplyDeleteRepeated chronicle...😒
ReplyDeleteAnyway just passing through 🏃🏃🏃
Stella u repeated this chronicle.
ReplyDeleteVery boring chronicle
ReplyDeleteMake that Champagne clear o BOSSMADAM stella cos I am sure I just read this chronicles few hours ago even though it was posted few days back.
ReplyDeleteOK I don't want to sound slutty but the truth is you are just scared enjoying orgasm. Free your mind,close your eyes and let him do what nigga knows how to do best. You just have to recondition your mind to enjoying sex. Hope you aint the rigid type? If your are open minded i will advice you both watch porn together, it helps trust me.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahhaahah you don't know what you are missing girl.
The champagne never clear for ur eyes truly cos you've posted this in 2016
ReplyDeleteHe put you before heaven and earth,so he won't make heaven, why the chronicle just leave him for another girl who will attracted to him sexually. No wonder chronicles dose not end,
ReplyDeleteDidnt we read this last week here? Stella yo pot is empty abi?
ReplyDeleteMy darling finally posted my chronicles, yaay! Lol. Thanks Stella. I got you Hun, will definitely keep you posted. Summer wedding loading. Let me read comments.
ReplyDeleteWhat state are you poster, make we come chop free desert.
Deleteso you didn't see the one she first posted?
DeleteCome Georgia my sister
DeleteBut you are anon naa,
DeleteCongi na bastard. There are so many godly sex starved fornicators roaming about our cities.
ReplyDeleteStella I don't know if I've been to the future and back,but you posted this chronicle either ydy or 2days ago ... please go back and check
ReplyDeleteThis chronicle has been poster before.
ReplyDeleteStella we don read this chronicle before na. Abi na my eyes?
ReplyDeleteWooow ehen I suspect am. Some people send their stories so many times that I don't remember posting before. So sorry bout that everyone.
ReplyDeleteStella na because you love me much. lol I sent the mail once though
DeletePoster, I'll land in Georgia for your wedding.
DeletePoster, I'll land in Georgia for your wedding.
DeleteI am in Georgia!! I need to make friends oo hola me , I go come oo. What's your email! I don't know if Stella will post my email if I add it to this comment. I stay at Decatur and sometimes in Dunwoody.
DeleteU ar forgiven. Go and post this chronicle no more
ReplyDeleteI hope the poster get to read it, I think its more of a thing of the mind, he is ur 1st and ur subconsciousness knows premarital sax is a sin, was exactly same with me. I got married last year to the man everything was perfect but my not enjoying sex and not sure if I was d problem as he was my 1st. After marriage, took a while for me to set my mind that am married, he is my husband it not a sin, relax and enjoy it, and I tell you my sis, I started enjoying it. So I believe you wld enjoy it, try to take time to do foreplay, explore ur body and teach him what to do. All d best.
ReplyDeleteStella don high o! She no see road type or post new chronicles ABI chronicles don finish? Lolz
ReplyDeleteI think if you claim you love someone, you will DEFINITELY be attracted to him and you will do what it takes to make him happy. You will also discuss your deepest feelings and fears... You probably just love him LIKE A BROTHER... That's y u are not attracted to him. I bet he is really comfortable financially. Also The fact that he is not saying any thing should even get you worried sef. COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR LOVE. I think that's d quickest way out. Where there is a will, there is a way. If u sincerely wanna feel d nigga u will.
ReplyDeleteHmmm😁
ReplyDeleteYou read articles about sex and sex position and please make effort to practise them. Nobody was born a sex pro, we all make effort to improve our knowledge. God is your muscle
ReplyDeleteLolx
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