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Thursday, September 28, 2017

Thursday IHN

Awwwwwwwwwww............How far?

Today is a good day and I cant complain....What about you?
About fry plantain,I am blogging from my Kitchen today and I am hungry!

Catch my Hugs and Kisses!


Madam Stella, may God bless you richly for the good works you've been doing. Here is a picture of my baby nephew his name is Emmanuel and he's 6 months old dis week. I know he over qualify to be the face of IHN  ‎ God bless SDK and all the wonderful beevees.

OMG OMG OMG.............I love love love Emmanuel....I use this baby as a point of contact to those trying to conceive,I pray that as you look into his eyes and bless him,may your blessing spring forth and manifest before your eyes..May you celebrate in nine months because you celebrated Emmanuel.
Kisses to you baby boy...

My boys dont allow me kiss them anymore as frequently as I used to,,they say they are no more babies and if i need a baby to kiss so bad i should make one or buy one...I asked them make one how and big baby says ''mama make one same way you made us''...END OF DISCUSSION!...Hahahahahaha



Today Thursday September 28th is Ifechuwu's first birthday and his parents and his aunt Stella who is a BV wish him all the best as his begins to manouver his way around on his tiny

happy birthday darling Ifechukwu from SDK and all blog visitors.



QUICK ONE -On Saturday there will be a post for second sales and/or giveaway.if you have anything used you want to sell or dash out,get ready!

Beloved please remind me tomorrow evening.



Dear Stella, I am the Lady who sent in my chronicle on the 21st of August because of my relationship with my mum and the strange bird cry at night.

 Pls I didn't get any tangible advice and I can't confide in anyone around me so as not to put her in bad light.  She has been calling and I have not picked in a long while.  I am a mother now and I am aware of reaping what you sow. 

Do I continue to pick her calls and bear the witchcraft attacks or do I avoid her and inherit curses for myself later. Remember, there's no visible proof and anyone who hears her complaints will term me a "WICKED CHILD" and I can't tell her to her face what my suspicions are. 


Babe why dont you confront your mum?it will be better please cos you might be wrong and if you are right may GOD save you and your child...Confront her abeg..her mama no chop her so why she go wan chop you?Someone in the family might be manipulating this and if she is the one she might be scared and stop once she knows people...This is a big gamble but its the only way..tell her everything.



Hi Stella,

You're doing a wonderful job!! I'm new to your blog ( few weeks). I don't have a name yet but I'll be getting one soon!!

I want my fellow readers to say I word of prayer for me. I pray and fast and I find myself praying for people from the blog. 

I'll also love for people to say a word of prayer for me.

My name is Motunrayo. I'm  believing in God for a God fearing man. I'm 27 and my last relationship ended when I was 19. Nothing since then.

I'm taking my GRE test on NOV 4 and applying to grad schools. I want God's favor to go ahead of me in all my applications so I get into a great school. I'm applying for screenwriting and creative writing.

I want I want God to take my writing to the world and use it to positively influence the world. I trust God for a beautiful long-lasting career.

To my fellow guys make my day!!! Thanks for love, prayers, and funny comments!!

Much love,



Hello Stella,

I trust you are doing great. I have some used baby girls clothes I will like to give out to someone who can't afford to buy, there are in excellent conditions. I saw a comment where a lady said her Neighbour gave birth and didn't have clothes for the baby.  Pay anyone in need can contact me on 08121112777.



Hello Stella,

I want to apply for a graduate program in Canada, finally got the approval to begin a formal application. Now, I'm having issues paying the application fee of 90CAD, with my Nigerian debit card. It has been exhausting to say the least.

Please, I need a reliable person, preferably in the US or Canada, that can help me with the transaction, at a rate I can afford. I could be reached on 



Hi Stella, 
I have a mini-flat in Yaba to sub-lease. Location is Iwaya road. Flat has a sitting room, bedroom, kitchen, 1bathroom, 1 toilet, balcony on 2sides and a back door. I have lived here for 6months and i have not had cause to buy a generator because there is constant power. Bore hole was also recently installed in the building.

Rent amount is N400,000.00 for a year.
There is no Agent wahala or Agreement fees as that has been taken care of.
Anyone interested can call me or send whatsapp message to 08032727772.



Good day Stella, plz hide my name and ID.. Thanks for the opportunity u av created to ease the burden on your viewers hearts, love u so so...
So down to the matter, I'm a young lady in my finals who happen to come from an average family, with our major problem being my elder sister's presence in our house, lemme break it down. 
My sister was married for a few years b4 herself and her hubby parted ways (due to her bad character and ungratefulness). The union produced 3 kids,  all boys. Due to my parents financial incapability to get her a place to stay,  she moved in with us.

Long story cut short,  my sister is now d new head of our house.  She works but never supports the house.  she doesn't contribute to anything instead she steals from us (i have more than enough evidences and witnesses). She'd rather spend her income buying shoes and clothes than to buy a single cup of rice, considering the fact that they make up the bulk of the family.  There is just too much to b said. No matter how much we endure and make her feel loved (becoz every little thing she will say it is becoz she is no more in her husband's house), she still calls family members to narrate to them that we are not good. She lacks shame.

She is wasteful and i repeat very wasteful! In this difficult times, she doesn't care how d food gets to the table, all she's concerned about is sneaking back into d kitchen like a rat to steal d remaining meat, thinking we don't see her. How can a woman of about 42 years still do things like that. When her ex used to complain about her, we thought it was the usual shifting of blames between couples, we didn't know what he was passing through. But now we know whatsup. D story is just too long. I need no advice or sorts, the outburst is just to clear what has been eating me up. And i want u all to help me pray for her becos this is more than ordinary. I pray money comes and she finds a place soon. My parents are really patient and the best.

*Na wah ooooooh



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  1. I miss you all
    Been MIA for a while now hmmm…
    Una no say wife wey no see prick chop no dey function well lol.
    My dearest SUNSHINE, thanks for the call.
    Stella I love you.

    1. Welcome back to your position JHW.
      I heard that you have a work now, that you are no longer jobless... Lol

    2. Good to have you back. Enjoy jare

    3. Wow Baba God you're too much o, Your Grace is sufficient for me. Stella & all the beautiful angels on this blog, May the Almighty God reward you all abundantly. I'm eternally grateful.

    4. Please BVs, I need a good divorce lawyer and it is urgent. Kindly send a mail to

      Thank you.

    5. Please BVs, I need a good divorce lawyer and it is urgent. Kindly send a mail to

      Thank you.

    6. Glad to have you back JHW!and you came back in style to claim your spot!!!

    7. Chike teflon, she've never been jobless ok. Hapu ihe edere na moto banye na moto.

    8. Thank to the angels blessing the rant post commenters. May ur pockets never run dry.
      In other news, pls what can I use to remove stains from the tiles, it's like rust stains and hypo bleach did not work for it, it should not be harmful to a pregnant woman biko. This thing made the woman I worked for today not to pay me my complete money, she paid me 1500 instead of 2000 that we agreed on.

    9. @the wife I really don't know what you can use to remove rust-like stains from tiles......but please be very careful not to inhale while using hypo bleach,it could be harmful to the baby.Biko always try to cover your mouth and nose tightly with clothes.May God bless the work your hands in Jesus name.
      Bv moyour

    10. Please try vim

    11. I feel "thewife" is replying her self lol. U need money, come out and say it. Someone might just help u.

  2. Where my sweethearts at, pls take just 1😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

    1. Taken one already..... Thanks baby

    2. Why can't I take more than one


    3. Firstly I am Taking 4.
      One for Diva sexiest,one for Iphie,one for BLOGGIE and one for me😘

      Then 3 for Chike Chyko Nwana InternationalπŸ˜‚

  3. Hello IHN.
    Good afternoon Lovelies. Believe me, no one can stop what God is about doing in your life.
    Love you all.

    1. Amen......

      Afternoon Ada!!!

    2. Ada na eri bolokos ewu!Ndewo Nnem!

    3. Ada Ada!
      My Ada Ada!😘

      Ada di mu nma!😍
      Nne kedu Ije?

      Baby Emmanuel is soo cute😍

      Congrats Once more JOSTIFIED MOM!😍
      You deserve all the blessing and happiness that there is!πŸ‘
      Enjoy Darling!😍

    4. Nwunye G nwannem, oku di ova. Kedu nemenu. You know I love you so much, say hi to General and the kids.
      Onye Nna di sexy, kedu maka anyanwu Ututu gi na akwa nwa
      Cookie darling, weldone dear.
      Lady Bug my buggling baby,loving you.
      Surest Boo @Emjay, love you immensely.
      Hi Promising Star

  4. you take a girl to the room tell her baby undress yourself


    1. Remember to fvck yourself by yourself. Anu!

    2. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

      Shantelle ooo!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      LMAO @ anu!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

  5. The hardest lesson you will ever learn will be to love yourself. But you can do it. There will always be days when you hate yourself, days when you wish you had never been born. But you are beautiful, and if Shakespeare had met you, you would’ve inspired his 18th sonnet, and if Monet had known you, he would’ve given up painting water lilies and chosen to paint you instead. I know it’s hard to love yourself, but sometimes it’s okay to be a little selfish with your love..Live for the life you always wanted but were too scared to pursue. Live for you. Live for every person who has ever loved you. Live for the fire that burns in your soul, that tells you: keep going, you’re almost there, just a little farther.

    - M.K.

  6. Stella i am so sad....What is this country turning to? Today someome called my mum that one of her customer is battling for his life and his wife too.
    The wife want to market yesterday and bought rice and cooked for all of them. After a few hours the first 2 children died immediately, one died this morning in the hospital remaining the husband and wife.
    So beacuse someone wants to make gain they will import all type of rice to this country and the government are as useless as a zero before a decimal point. It is well, one day things would change.

    1. Ya salam!! God have mercy. Why on earth are people wicked like this. What does this plastic rice look like. Won't they know when chewing?? Just curious.

    2. Jesus!!! God have mercy!!
      May God heal them and may the soul of the dead RIP.

    3. It's not the rice persa,it's that sniper they apply to them to preserve them,may their gentle soul Rip.

    4. Nawa o this is really painful. May God comfort the family & give them the fortitude to bear the loss.

    5. The way I inspect what I eat this days ehhhh you will think something is wrong with me,in few years time the number of sick/dead people will be on the increase because of all the rubbish China rice,egg,fish they import and fill us with chemicals. So sorry abt your Neigbour

    6. Omg..what kind of rice did they buy? Where did it happen? Have they strted any investigation as regards that? God have mercy!

    7. Well are you sure it's the rice, let's be sure before we raise false alarms over a staple food that is been consumed by every Nigerian household.


    8. Are you sure it was the rice that killed them? Have they ran an autopsy?

      Wasn't there other ingredients in the food they consumed?

      This isso sad.

    9. What? What really happened? Someone poisoned them or what? End time world.

  7. Cute kid😍

    1. Yes,emma is so cute.
      Happy birthday ifechukwu!

    2. Beautiful baby Emmanuel, so cute for days. Gid bless you plenty baby, i tap into this blessing in Jesus name, Amen. Baby dust to me, next year, i go born beta baby boy. Happy birthday baby Ifee, kisses😘

  8. Since the Okoye's can't manage a little situation maturedly. It might be safe to say to them, "fly away Peter" fly away paul

    Cold afternoon!!! Welcome IHN

  9. Replies
    1. He is very cute.
      Cute Emmanuel.
      Handsome Ifechukwu Happy birthday. May God bless your new age... Igbo amaka πŸ™Œ

  10. Replies
    1. Your comments na just hello now😎

  11. Today's weather be making me feel good. Cool weather + Ac is bae. Lemme face my work jaree. Jesus bless my hustle and double my income. Amen.

  12. Hahahahahaha oya make one more baby so you can kiss and leave the big boys alone. So funny i tell you.

  13. Good afternoon house

    I am here to say Emmanuel,God continue to be with you
    I use you as a contact to all GTC mothers
    This kinda gift is our portion in Jesus name

    1. Yes the Lord will visit all Bv's waiting on him for a child this year, just hold on and keep believing.


    2. Emmanuel you are blessed. You will grow in the wisdom and strength of God n you will be a delight to your parents. This time next year I will be celebrating n so will everyone looking to God for a gift like you

    3. Amen
      Stella Amen to ur prayers
      Emmanuel God bless nd increase u in Jesus name Amen

  14. The general's wife, thank you for making me laugh so hard in d morning,I laughed so hard that one would ve thought I had finally gone mad...hahahaha
    Kai! Wehdone ma'am πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    Oh...and again,u are a good narrator, u knw how to narrate a story very well,I comot cap for u πŸ˜€

    1. Azinnnnnn ehennnnnn.
      Nor be small laugh this morning ohhh.

    2. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
      TGW na talented comedian... No wonder I call her Ijele dike.

    3. Hahaahahahahahaha
      Glad u enjoyed the storyπŸ˜‚
      And thank u for the complimentπŸ˜‚

      CHke Chyko!
      Onye Olu himself!!πŸ˜‚

    4. Off to Sp. Nwunye G no dey dull at all.

  15. First to comment

  16. So cute a baby,God bless you Emmanuel!
    Hey Justified mom,im so happy for you,may more hands bless you!
    Been home all day lazying around!!

    1. Amen & thanks alot @LagosShopper, Baba God don pick my call.

  17. Baby IFECHUKWU happy first year birthday, you are so cute.happy birthday too to baby Emmanuel, shine and age gracefully.

  18. Cute Emmanuel 😘😘😘

    Happy Birthday baby boy

    @Ungrateful sister... Dear poster, tell her to leave your and give her time to do just that! Maybe living alone and catering/fending for her kids alone will help her learn her lesson.

  19. Wow! all I see are those lovely babies!

    God bless the givers!You will never run dry and congratulations to the receivers!

    Eehn,I know this is old sha,who has the phone number of that beautiful light skin lady that acted in the movie 'weeding party'

    One guy told me to help him get her number, and I think the guy is talking marriage. Lol

    Have a fab day dearies!

    1. you mean, 'wedding party'? Is it Adesua you are talking about?

    2. 'Weeding party'? Where is Lady bug? OK, they have given it a query hahahahaha

  20. Happy birthday Ifechukwu
    God bless you Emmanuel

    I pray for all reading this, you will not carry your 9 months pregnancy for nothing. May you not loose your baby to the cold hands of death. You will not bury your children. You will not experience still birth. May your children bring you joy.

    To all pregnant women, may you deliver your baby without stress, may you not labour in vain. Death will not be your portion

    To all seeking for the fruit of the womb, God will bless you with twins in Jesus name

  21. Some days I can conquer the world.
    Other days it takes me five hours to convince myself to shower.

    Cute baby Emmanuel, may God bless and keep you.

  22. Very beautiful today. Congrats to our babies up there. Happy birthday Emmanuel and happy six months to our lovely.

    Congrats to justified mom and others. God has really heard you people's cries. Justwyt congrats again. Please cry no more because God is not asleep.

    Thank you to the blog visitor gifting them. God bless you plenty Amen.

    Today is just too good. God is good, i cant lie.

    The lady that the senior sister is causing problem for the family, I say Amen to your prayers so that she can have her space and allow your parents and you to rest well.

    Thank again to the lady gifting baby girl's clothing. God bless you too.

    God is in this blog. So make una dey good and stop causing. You see all these anons abusing people, una own don finish. Make una dey abuse, nobody will hear una cry even if una cry too much. You cant give curses and expect good things to come. MBANU.

    Going for another free food. This week has been free food all the way

    1. Princess Yori!!!! 😘😘😘

    2. Thanks u yori yori princess.

  23. Happy birthday baby Emmanuel and Ifechukwu....God bless you sweethearts immensely....

    Hope today is treating you well?

  24. The lady having a problem with the elder sister,what exactly is the problem here?,is it her stealing of meat or not contributing to the house upkeep?,if your parents don't have a problem with her,why you?😎

    Emmanuel is a fine baby😍

    Jostified mom congratulations!

    1. Thanks alot @Lady bug of life.

    2. ahn ahn, lady bug. how will a woman of 42 years not know how to take responsibility for her life. She is married, what she should be doing in her parents house and not contribute a dime. If it was my dad, he won't even allow u come back home as long as it is not a case of domestic violence. Staying in ur parents house and causing kasala because you have parents?
      C'mon gerrout and go and build ur own home.

  25. Good afternoon house
    I want to appreciate Angel Judith for the 10k she gifted me this morning. She rescued me me m kids from hunger this morning. May her pockets never run dry. May she find mercy always. Stella thanks for your platform

  26. Congrats to those whose names were mentioned up there...
    As much as I'll love to rant, I'll just stay calm and keep praying to God to bless the work of my hands.

    Have a blessed day bvs 😚

    1. No need ranting,wait for the next episode 😎

    2. In as much as you want to rant and keep praying to God to bless the works of ur hands. Dont keep calm but Give thanks. Gratitude is one secret that opens the gate of heaven.
      Sing, praise and dance to him so he will bless you to give unto others.

  27. I. H. N
    Rainy day.
    God truly bless and replenish the givers.

    Bye πŸ‘‹ πŸ‘‹ πŸ‘‹.

  28. Emannuel and Ifechuwku is all I see😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘. Boys too cute. Jeez!

    1. BLOGLORD the real MVBM I clear road for you πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ
      Ekene ooo

    2. Boolicious!😍😍😍!😘

    3. Nwanna international πŸ™‹
      Odogwu nwoke
      Di Chiki fire😁
      I love your ginger.
      Continue being your witty playful self.idi too much.πŸ‘

      Dara, I am here naa😁
      How IS u?😘

      TGBaibayyy my baby girl,
      my booest boo
      My one and only onye alaπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      You never fail to crack me up.
      BTW kiss my aspiring masquerede. Infact I owe him a pressieπŸ˜‚πŸ˜

  29. Beautiful babies . In house news is bae. No shoki for a very long time...... Poster your sister reminds me of one naughty cousine i have . Only difference is she has never been married . Some people sha.

  30. Cutie baby Emmanuel, may God bless all the TTC women out there just like cutie baby Emma, Happy birthday cutie Ifechukwu may you grow in God's wisdom and Knowledge, poster please try and pick your mum's call and talk to her. Good luck to all the choosen ones and thank you to the givers. Good afternoon all

  31. IHN baby. That bobo up there is handsome.
    Congrats to justified mum and the others who have been favoured. I know my own angel too will show up someday.
    Hopeful and grateful.
    #positivevibesonly #olowogboroisonmycase

    1. Thanks alot, don't worry the God that did it for me will do it for you too.

  32. Appreciation
    I am grateful for the 10,000 alert this morning by a wonderful woman. Thank you ma. May God reward you for your kindness and bless you beyond human imagination. Thank Stella, God bless you too.
    To the giver up there and others who wants to bless the new mum that I talked about with baby clothes, she now has more than enough clothing for the new born. Neighbours and church members bombarded her with clothes. What she needs now is food to eat. Thanks.

    1. You're welcome

      How are you sure she has more than enough clothes?

      Didn't the neighbours and church members give her food?😎

      Let those who want to still give her clothes do so!,clothes are not too much for a baby😎

      No make your story get kleg 😎

    2. Ladybug, she herself told me she's had enough clothes. Also, I saw the clothes myself. Whether they did not Give her food you say? We all know how this country is these days, is it not somebody that has enough to eat that will give out food?. Mind you the clothes are mostly used clothes that these people have at home and that are still nice looking.

  33. Hello People........ πŸ™‹πŸ™‹πŸ™‹πŸ™‹πŸ™‹πŸ™‹πŸ™‹πŸ™‹

    I witnessed something that made me cringe today: Please let's be careful with how we treat people, some of us take advantage of others because we are in the position to help them, you make people scared of being Abel to tell you the truth simply because you'll use what they benefit from you to punish them, Life is really deep, tables turn, God works in mysterious ways, he sees all that we do and he's watching..... The fact that you have today doesn't mean others won't have tomorrow..... It's just so hard to see people mistreat others because they are higher than them!!!! Crazy stuff.....

    Ehen, any gist?? So Peter and Paul have started again??Mscheeeeeeeew..... I'm hungry Biko, lemme go and eat

    1. Thought you wanted to tell us the gist and u are asking us for gist😠😠

  34. IHN is here.........

    Lovely Baby Emmanuel

    Happy Birthday Ifeanyi

    SOS Lady, please confront your Mom once and for all and get this load off your chest.

    Moturayo, may God meet you @ the point of your needs.

    Lady with the wicked Sister, that your Sister does not need prayer. She needs beating and disgrace to reset her brain. Agadi like her.

    God bless the Angel reaching out to the Rant Post people. May you never lack.

    Shout out to all the Yummy peeps on this Blog

    1. Lips darling how is you?
      Do you care for oha soup with goat kpekus?

    2. Oburo so so Agadi. Agadi nwanyi. mean while reply your mail. Thanks

    3. I bam Teflon.

      Sexy D, isi gini, goat kpekus? As i like goat meat reach, kpekus no follow biko. Looool

      My Darling GL i have replied your mail

  35. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere AKA Mrs Always RIGHT28 September 2017 at 14:29

    Baby emmanuel is such a cutie pie

  36. Omg! Is that my name I am seeing up there? Infact, I am speechless.

    May God bless u ma. And u too stella.

    Those babies for face of ihn, are cute for days. Happy birthday baby Emmanuel and Ifechukwudi.

  37. Cute babies 😍😍😍😍😍😍

  38. For yesterday's chronicle poster... 27th September.
    I understand what you are going through because I have been there... Oh! Yeah!

    Let me tell you my story and what I did afterwards.

    Being the first daughter of my family i went through a lot after the death of my mother when I was only 13yrs old. Stepmother wahala family wahala infact I stopped schooling by the time I got to jss 3, I returned to school after a good Samaritan paid for my schooling till waec. After that life became really hard as I had to work as a sales rep for 4 yrs to take care of myself, brother who became mentally ill, sister, father, evil stepmother and my half siblings, I no be mumu Na God get reward for everyone.
    As I see am say no money for school no fit save I had to enroll in part time while working too. God saw me through Na long story
    Let me not waste your time with my story cos e no go end today.

    When I got married at 23yrs my hubby's mum felt threatened I understood her cos my hubby is like her second husband being her first child with the nick name she gave him dede. She was also calling like yours is now, my father-in-law remain small make e ask "you don fuck your wife today?. They felt we were kids that needing control, the wedding organisation was done by her infact I had no say in anything. Even my baby dedication and house warming she cover kitchen with her siblings, chased away the cook I brought, his brothers shared the drinks and pastors foods to whoever they pleased. I told him pls talk to your mother, if I do she go see as insult but if Na you she no go talk much hubby kept quite comot face. So I just went stairs with my baby and left every thing for she and her people. Maybe she was just playing the role of a mother but didn't know she was over doing it. Cos she be good woman and I new it.

    After our wedding 2yrs later I became pregnant and it was like all doors and windows of heaven were opened on to us as wealth came in from all over.

    My people Na there my nightmare start oh!. Come and see brothers, cousins aunties with their children, uncles even friends. my hubby is the first among nine sons. I became a shadow of myself, I had no say in my own home, no one to talk to just my younger sister cos I was badly treated by friends I trusted so no gossip mate only God and my sister who was so ready to fight for me even though na small girl.
    My hubby will buy properties and the father will sign as witness without me knowing untill I find the papers.
    I started nagging and my respect from my hubby dropped more, even the younger ones I old pass stopped greating me, even when they finish food I suffer cook alone oh! No thanks after eating from them hmmmm. I nagged and nagged it resorted to beating.
    Mind you hubby's love was 80% while my was 20% before belle come oh! So he felt you can't run away again and being who i'am I never considered divorce and my cos of evil stepmother too make she no laugh me, so that was his power over me.

    The first day he put his hands on me I left my home even though my running mouth follow cos am.
    When I got home with my baby my dad said ,see you are married now and have no place here even though you are the one paying the rent, I have married you off so go back. When I showed him my legs he said what! you are not going back till he comes here.
    So my hubby came and with his dad and my father told him, look I can take everything from you but not beating my child e no go work.....

    So we went home, i saw my mother in a trance and I cried to her, what she said to me "ARE YOU NO LONGER MY DAUGHTER? HAVE YOU FORGOTTEN YOUR MANNERS AND GOD? ASK HIM FOR WISDOM......



  39. For yesterday's chronicle poster... 27th September.

    So I did and stopped nagging infact whenever he said I want to do this I will say do it double, i want to kill one cow ha e too small Na make am two" pls remember this person children's​ school fees we never pay o! ah cooking for them? Na them run Na for food, meat everywhere make una Chop money they. I was even joining my own money self. Married wives for two of his brothers, paying their rents etc...... But I never stopped praying to God cos my own needs were being taken care of by myself.

    My people untill recession con reset my hubby's head.oil company con dey close our boats were cold starck, Not just only recession own, he suddenly became ill.... And everyone's true colours came out except his parents they stood by us. i noticed he was urinating and drinking water somuch and lossing weight same I tasted his urine and it was all sugar, oh! yes I did that!. I was the only one with him all through, never taking my bath, driving all through the streets to and fro hospital, taking care of him and getting our daughter ready for school. My daughter and myself slept on the hospital floor taking care of him. Even to eat no way. On that same issue high blood pressure set in. Cha! See me turn to prayer warrior. I became sick with my daughter after we left the hospital.

    He got back and was just looking at me crying. Guess what he said to me?
    I'm sorry for all the pains and things I put you through. I said, I understand the load is much on you that is why I work hard too to help you out.

    My people we started praying and things turned around for good, now we are comfortable again and they are back.

    But guess what Na me dey in control now oh yes! Anybody that goes to my hubby now for help dey waste time cos you won't get it. He will tell me about it and I will give reasons why he should give as long as we have it. I will call them and tell them not to worry that they will get what they asked hubby for and they will be surprise how I knew about it.

    Now they know the secret so when they need something they ask me. My mother-in-law will be like my queen!!!!
    Even when she and her hubby get issues she will call me to call her hubby to order Lol! Me I be peace maker but I make sure I stay in the middle cos no be me husband and wife go take settle.
    I will be like npa leave that thing your babe dey die for you. Mama cha! Women wahala oh! Npa said you be babe oku.

    They see see me as their first daughter and I'm glad about that cos I prayed that since I don't have a mother, pls Lord let my mother-in-law be my mother. I make sure they get their monthly pay cos they are not so old but old. Though my mum died when I was little I made sure to go close to early and Godly young couple as to learn things from them.
    Today no one believes I was raised in PH. Even the ones that were not greeting me then are trying to adjust to greeting me first, but me I greet everybody if I see you first. The other wife that was also joining forces against me with her hubby no dey even fit visit my home again.

    One of the ones staying with us the 36yrs old wanted to start putting me low before his girlfriends. I told hubby he said what do you want? I answered pls give him money to find house, we don try is 3yrs now we carry his responsibility for head. Now he is pleading to me. But I still dey respect everyone (wisdom)

    So my dear why these long write up? is for you to learn from my experience no man is better trust me Na how you package your home matters.
    Just use love respect and care feed your man. Don't nag about his closeness with his mum is normal, give them time and work your way into his heart and their hearts too. Work hard and have your won money.

    Most times I give my own money to my in-laws and they pray for me it goes a long way trust me. My hubby suppried me with a gift one day that I have a good heart cos he knows I send money to his parents. That doesn't mean you should over do it just be yourself.

    1. Nice write up.THANK you for sharing.may more wisdom be your portion, amen.

    2. May God continue to bless your marriage.

    3. Nice read!
      Thanks for sharing!
      And happy you are in a beautiful place now. Remain happy girl😘

    4. Amen!! Thanks everyone and may God bless you all too.

      We learn everyday. Life and marriage are schools no one graduates from is only by the grace and love of God towards us all that puts us through and makes us stronger. Thank you somuch Stella you are a rare kind of blogger, you interact with you BVS and that is great. God bless you for torching lives the way you do.

      Thank you for chatting with me again...... Was nice receiving those responses from. God bless you and your family.....

    5. Nice write up. And a lot to learn from it.

    6. I am so glad it all ended well.
      You are a determined and strong woman.πŸ‘

  40. hahahahahahah stella i see what you did.

  41. Those kids are so cute. God bless you both. I love babies meennn!

    Good afternoon everyone.

  42. See my long epistle to Chronicles poster just vanished.

    Poster confront her. She might deny or own up to it like some did when confronted., but trust me you she won't disturb you again.

  43. stella is that how you use to do? why did you swallow my comment? whats wrong with you?

  44. Hello People,It's been awhile I came down here.
    Living in lagos is not easy at all and this economy has only brought out more negative thinking in people that usual.

    Lovely kids in IHN today

    Sos for advice, invite your mother over to your church and in the midst of people and your pastor question her. Let her know that if she doesn't stop you will stop her from ever connecting to you as family again.


  45. God works in mysterious ways,I opened IHN just now and say my rant was one of those that was picked for the 50USD giveaway and I didn't know when tears came out from my eyes. God bless the giver immensely and also bless Stella for being the vessel through which my blessings came forth. I am still in shock.

  46. Thank God for the gift of life
    But this country is really messed up
    This is more than reccession o
    And imagine having innocentbabies who just want to feed
    Yet no enough food to eat to supply adequate breast milk and no money for formula and my baby cry keep reminding me that she disnt beg to be born but am so helpless. God help us in this country o

    1. But you have data??????Stop it!!!

    2. Double Hmmmmmmmm

  47. Awwww Emmanuel is so cute, God bless you dear as you keep shining in God light and love
    And happy birthday to my nephew ifechukwu we love you sweetie and Stella thank you so much I really appreciate.

  48. saw*, forgive my typos, I'm still surprised

  49. Please how do I get a blog ID o

  50. Dogs love their owners. When a dog sees its owner, its brain releases the same hormone as humans when we are in love.

    Awwwwwwww! How sweet!

  51. saw*, forgive my typos, I'm still surprised

  52. Thanks to Madam Judith for the early mormor blessing. The 10k alert was recieved this morning. May God enlarge your coast ma'am.
    More blessings fall on you SDK, you are the bomb.

  53. O my God! Today's face of IHN is so cute! A wonderful blessing to us TTC, thank you for the prayers Stella.

    I receive!!! just like it in OCTOBER for me before, it will again.
    God bless you little soldier. I cover your future and destiny with the blood of Jesus! You have found favour in God's sight so men and women will have no choice than to favour. Heaven, Earth, Sun,Moon and stars shall work together for you good handsome.....
    God bless you!!!!

    1. God will bless you with good children

    2. Amen!!! Thanks chike, is well with us TTC....

  54. God please remember me financially as You are remembering others. I really need a miracle this weekend. No place to go.

    Its a good day, I thank you Lord because you have answered my prayers. I know I am not where I want to be but am thankful for where I am.

  55. Shout out to Ibukun for all the ebooks she sent to me. God bless your hustle bea and increase you in all fronts.Thanks

  56. In House News is here.. VOILAπŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸΉπŸΉπŸΉ

    Those babies are so cute. Happy sixth month to Emmanuel and Happy birthday to Ifechukwu. May they be a source of blessing and upliftment to their parents respectively.

    Motunrayo, May God answer your prayer request in Jesus Name, Amen.

    May God bless the givers, may they never know sorrow, lack in Jesus name, Amen.

    They shall be like a tree planted by the river sides and bear good fruits at the right time, Amen.

    Stella, your sign out MEME is BAE😍😍😍 as usual.

    Blessings biko fall on me too, I need to look back on 2017 in the future and smile like I did in 2016 and smileπŸ˜†πŸ˜…πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜Š. God is on the throne forever.

    Job fall on me biko, Chukwu nulu onum.

    1. Chukwu ga aza gi maka na obu omelu onye mgbe odiya na mkpa.

    2. Awww........
      NWANNE mmadu... Dalu so.

      Yalee ka is we kwu.


  57. All I see are those cute babies!

    Happy birthday πŸŽ‚ baby Ikechukwu, may you continue to be a source of happiness and joy to your parents. Grow in good health and God's wisdom.

    I've missed this blog so much, I only read posts late at night sometimes.

    It shall be well with you all.

    Hello Greatlady, a big congratulations to you sweetie. Keep excelling in obvious excellence. Kisses and hugs. πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ€—πŸ€—

    Stella Dimoko, give those your lovelies what they want. A little cutie.

    1. blog mummy, where have you been? I have been searching for you the whole place.
      Welcome back. I guess u have been busy.
      Thanks ma'am. Will go and work harder. Hope to talk to you one-day.

    2. Hey Greatlady, we'll sure talk someday. Love you😘..

      Hello Chike, not fully back yet. How are you and your Ugebe doing? More sweetness to your love.

  58. Who else has caught the WAGS MIAMI, I am so digging it right now.

    I 'm not a huge fan of reality shows like keeping up with the Kardashians and others .

    I find WAGS MIAMI very entralling. I didn't get to watch season 1 except episode 8 and season 2 Episode 1 2 and 3.

    I like darnell ( nice, outgoing, her BOD is terrific)
    Ashley is fine like a MODEL....
    Farven is Spicey in a sweet way
    She has her friends back like Γ–GΔ°NΔ°?

    Stella, biko post ooo

    1. CEO Empresssss!

      I looove Faven!😍😍
      She is hawwwt! And her make-up is always flawless!
      She is got style too. And knows how to have fun!😍

      Darnell is cute but after she got into fist fight with Astrid,mehn I kinda took a back seat. Again I didn't like that she seemed to be soo desperately for a man. Like it's sooo ewwww. Did u see how she was all over that young guy? D model-like one?😳

      Omg! Then I love the Jessica-Simpson look-alike!😍😍😍😍 I think she is my fave! Boy!!! Girl is lit! Fun! And takes no prisonersπŸ˜‚ Like u wouldn't think she was u know cray,wild and fun!

      I like the baby-curled-hair chick too😍 Can't remember her name now. And Jessica-Simpson-look-alike's bestie.... she is fun,sweet,fiesty and got a great smile😍

      I just love the show!

    2. The General's wife

      Wow...... drumrolls for you.

      I started with the season 2(Two) a week ago, I just watched season one episode 8....

      Lawdddd...... I am hooked hook, line and sinker ....

      The gals are cute but I dig Farven, Ashley and Darnell a lot then the others.

      My first impression of Farven didn't really sit well with me, I eased shaa on her and now I love her.

      She's a go-getter, Generous (she made darnell's day by hosting her birthday) she's got her friends back, a no nonsense and buisness savvy, her walks (steps) got me all the time. I call her SPICEY cos she's the smallest but girl doesn't give a BLEEP.

      Darnell seems to have a cute heart and kinda have a child heart in a good way.

      @The general's wife, I'm happy you love the show because you are a passionate someborri from your blog persona.

      I love you ... No Homo😍😍😍

    3. Darnell started fist fight ke? Are u sure it's not Hencha u mean ? Lol .. she's my fave , even though she get some kain touchΓ©

    4. I'm a big fan of WAGS Miami!!!πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
      I like Ashley the most. Smart, young, very beautiful & also brave too. U know she's also an army officer in the Marines. A Captain or Lieutenant?
      She's so real & no fake airs about her like all these posh girlfriends & wives of the rich would normally do. She talks real accent of a Georgian (southern) girl that she is & enjoys her black American foods etc.
      Never afraid to confront anybody, even the devil, no matter how afraid or scared she is. And she speaks her mind too, unlike the other conniving Claudia, Metisha especially who will get close & then stab in the back or betray another person.
      This new white girl now is also fake (mischevious character) & Darnell is very dim witted, but very fine (nice body & face) gal!
      Unfortunately no brains. I like Hencha, for her real attitude! Lol!!!
      But Hencha is very....CRAZY girl!!!
      Dat one na Haiti ogbanje (voodoo witch) full of spirit dey there oh. (Hencha) Kai tufiakwa!!!
      She a type u like to know from far...far away. Na deadly evil spirit in human form is that girl...oh!

      Faven, i don't know? I just don't trust her. But I respect for being a hardworking (successful business) woman!!! Despite having a husband, fine young boy who is filthy rich & crazy in in love with her.

      Astrid is another foolish, but very beautiful girl! She always scamming & acting as if...good & correct person all the time. But clearly u will see she's shallow & very desperate silly girl. However she's not evil! Or even as smart as Claudia.

      Ashely is the best!!! For me any day, anytime I can bet my money that the girl can represent (succeed & shine at end of the day) in any crowd or environment she finds herself in. And I'm happy for her she has a man who also truly love her & she happy (her family) with him & their son together.
      But that MIL is another story..oh!
      She dey behave like all these our typical naija MIL. Always out there to frustrate & annoy their son's wife. Although she's black American, but she's very condescending & nasty towards... poor Ashley. Wicked & shameless old woman!

  59. Jostified momma congratulations
    When you ask with sincere heart, God will definitely bless one.

  60. Just too busy nowadays. Congratulations to all cash and kind recipients. God bless the angels touching lives here and also, God bless u abundantly Stella for a platform like this.

    That baby up there is a cutie. *kisses* to him

  61. Happy 6th month birthday to cute baby Emmanuel. I use you as a point of contact to me and all other TTC mothers in the house.

  62. Oh cute babies. ..cute emmanuel, fine Ifechukwu, may you two be hidden under the shadow of the Almighty God. You shall grow strong and be good children to the society and your parents.God bless and keep you both.Happy birthday Ifechukwu.
    I love babies and would ve had one but the mere thought of pushing it out of my V scares the hell outta me. 😭😭😭😭😭

  63. Congrats @ Jostified mum and others.

    God bless the givers in da house.
    God bless you Stella..

  64. All I see is those handsome young great πŸ‘ men up there, Emmanuel you will be great in this world, happy birthday ifechukwu Solomon's wisdom and knowledge is your portion because i see greatness in you.


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