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I woke up Hungry..Shout out to all those fasting...E no easy!!!No time to rant,shout or bark...
E go be!!!
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Sunday, May 27, 2018
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Good morning everyone
ReplyDeleteNa real tragedy happened in nnewi on Friday. 7 years old twins were murdered and kept inside their freezer, chai!!!
Their brought them home from school on Friday evening, took their younger sister to her shop and asked them to change their clothes as usual and come to the shop, mummy waited and didn't see the boys and came back home but couldn't find them, they were searched for the whole night and everybody thought they were murdered, not knowing that they were strangled and kept inside the freezer, oh what a wicked world!!!!!. The boys were later found in the freezer in the early hours of Saturday morning, this brings me to my questions, I know their dad, the man is just a struggling mechanic, his workshop is near ibeto factory, he is not a rich man so I don't know what he is dragging with anybody to warrant this? And to the heartless killer /killers, why didn't you harm this guy if you had problems/beef with him, why kill the innocent kids? OMG!!!!! Some people are heartless oh. I can't imagine how the poor wife is feeling now.
I have warned my children and my husband's niece living with us never to open my door to strangers, I even told them to hold their ears so it will sink well, we are truly in end times
Truly we are living in the end times
DeleteWhat a wicked world
Pure wickedness,the innocent kids
May the killers know no peace,so sad
This is so sad... May their souls rest in peace
DeleteThis is so sad.
DeleteAnd you are the pathologist that carried out the autopsy that confirmed they were strangled?
DeleteInstead of you to buy padlock and call a carpenter to put a lock on your freezer so you can be locking it anytime you are not home . The kids won't have access to use it for hide and seek or use it as a bed,you are here yarning dust. Ignorance is a disease indeed.
Rip to the poor kids
Nawaaaah,things are really happening. May God continue to protect us his beloved.
DeleteI hope those children didn't enter the fridge themselves during play? Bcos a times kids can be very inquisitive. That's why mother's should never leave their little ones alone without anybody looking after them.
Sdk may God continue to bless your hustle for all these plenty giveaways you're doing.
What!!! People are heartless OMG.. .
DeleteI can't even imagine the pain those twins had to endure before they breathe their last.
And the parents and siblings, may God console them
Eayaaaa, I saw the video.couldnot bear to watch it.
DeleteMay God rest their souls
Eya this is so sad, I pray they find justice. May their souls rest in peace.
DeleteI knew they can't just carelessly play and enter the freezer,RIP to them and may God comfort their parent
DeleteAnon 08:33, lemme elobarate further, my husband and some people I know saw their corpses, they had some marks on their necks,those boys were strangled, trust me I would have gone to see them too, but I went to school ,some kids have been dying by entering the freezer but this is not the case
DeleteRIP to them, nwachukwu take heart
@intelligentsia princess, it happens but this is not the case, the people that saw their corpses said they had marks on their necks ..hmmnm. lemme prepare for church Biko
DeleteAnother ignorant one @dada toyosi
DeleteIf you have freezer at home, don't lock it you hear?
It is well with their parent! Goodmorning bvs
DeleteSo young. Only God and if possible the culprit knows the truth. May their souls RIP
DeleteIf it was hide and seek gone wrong they would have been screaming and probably hitting the fridge and they would have heard dem
DeleteRip to them
DeleteAmanda people spread false rumours a lot when something like that happens. They should be taken for an autopsy, only then will the real cause of death be established.
DeleteAnon 09:16, tell one of your kids or even an adult to enter the freezer, close it and start hitting it while also screaming at the top of his voice, then you come back here and tell us how far the voice and screams went.
According to Amanda, no one was at home with them. So it's possible they entered the freezer to play and got struck, since no one was at home, they died of suffocation in there. The door of the fridge and freezer is hard to open from the inside when it closes hard. Let all parents be safety conscious pls
I saw the video but could not watch because I didn't want to have a sleepless night. May God console the parents and may the killer be brought to book. This is a trying time for the family, it us not easy to loose a love one.
DeleteThis is end time please we should be careful whom we associate with. The man's enemy is the member of his household according to the word of God.
The Bible says watch and pray in order not to fall into temptation. The end is here already... We are just waiting for the trumpet to be blown.
What exactly are you arguing about anon?? The news is on most media outlets. She has mentioned that scratch wounds were on their necks and you are still arguing they entered the fridge and got stuck there. So people don't know the difference between suffocation and strangling? Please keep it moving itk. People that saw them saw that they were strangled. If you see someone that is strangled and one who suffocated, can't you tell? Mtchewww. Trying to sound smart on a platform
DeleteWhat kind of hide and seek, is it not one of them that should hide and the other will look for the person, how come the two were now hiding, something is wrong clearly.
DeleteKimberly
If there are scratches on their neck, they were definitely killed by somebody.
DeleteThe Police knows how and who to interview in the neighbourhood to get valuable information. Somebody must know something.
In hide and seek, one is supposed to enter the freezer and the other will come seek him out, or has the game changed? The key latch on a freezer jams when closed so they can't open it from the inside, and screaming can only be heard by anyone real close to the freezer, else the boys died inside.
RIP Twinnies. The darkest days for the parents are here. God give them the fortitude to bear the loss.
Hala Hala Hala Madrid 💃💃💃💃💃
ReplyDeleteI knew history will repeat itself.
Congratulations to all Madrid fans👏
BALE remain my man of the match. 😁
Sorry England,Sorry Liverpool.
Row Rowland, I told you bro💃💃💃💃
And Issa beautiful Sunday 😘😘😘😘
Yes oh. Aunty Mi olori Orente of life you said it. But then you have to give it up for Bale and Judas is Karius they really tried. Lol.
DeleteHappy children day to all children
DeleteThe shouting of yesterday due to the match no be here
DeleteHappy Sunday all. To the chronicle poster on Friday,I just read your chronicle about your mum. Zikora has just told you all u need to know.Your mum is depressed due to the effect of her marriage to your dad. Your dad isn't the understanding type,so your mum has bottled up many things. She isn't doing so on purpose,please. She's bipolar. Many bvs thought she's just wicked but she needs to see a psychiatrist and shld be on drugs. If she becomes lonely,it will worsen,neighbours will always call u people to come take care of her. You will leave that house too one day but pls,look for some one to stay with her and monitor her. I watched one movie some Sundays back titled Orisa Mimo...Try watch it too so you can understand your mum better. Have a nice sunday
ReplyDeleteMorning lovelies,issa cold morning,thanks to my neighbor who turned the whole house to viewing centre last night,na him end his friends enjoy d match,na we co tenant suffer am,God bless us all,do ve a blessed Sunday
ReplyDeleteFirrssst!!! Give me some accolades!!
ReplyDeleteOya take some accolades 🙄
DeleteWowaaaaaaa
DeleteI know I've not been the best daughter but I thank you for one thing Father YOU LAVISH YOUR UNFAILING LOVE UPON ME" This and more I do not take for granted. You made this possible for this I'm grateful🙏
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to me
Happy Birthday!!
DeleteHappy birthday Darasimi
DeleteHappy birthday to you dearie
DeleteMay God bless your new age immensely
Happy birthday Darling Simi...... God's blessings always babygeh
DeleteHappy birthday Simi . May God bless your new age. Age with grace
Deletehappy birthday to you, age gracefully
DeleteHappy birthday to you dear.
DeleteHappy birthday!! Live long and prosper.
DeleteHBD
DeleteHBD
DeleteSorry
DeleteHappy birthday Darasimi! May God continue to bless and uplift you.
DeleteMay He stretch out His right hand of blessing upon you and all that concerns you
Have a nice one 🎊🎂🍾😘
Happy Birthday to you Darasimi's, may you achieve what no one has ever achieved, may you be celebrated now and always. Have a lovely day.
DeleteShine brighter than a diamond
DeleteHappy birthday Simi💖, may God bless your new age.
DeleteHappy birthday Darasimi,age with grace
DeleteHappy Birthday dear!!!! Wishing you the good things of life.
DeleteHappy birthday
Delete🍺 to a new year
Happy birthday dear
DeleteHappy birthday dear
Deletehappy birthday dear, more of God's blessings. Enjoy your day!
DeleteI woke up with terrible headache this morning.
ReplyDeleteMay today bring forth lots of awesome blessings in our lives in Jesus name. Good morning & happy Sunday to you all.
kpele... take some drugs
DeleteHappy Sunday blogfam, may God's blessings fall on us all.
ReplyDeleteI don't know why people call me oyibo but my melanin is popping anyhow. I don't know if they are colour blind or I don't know my skin colour again. Each time I look at the mirror all I see is an Ebony handsome man.
ReplyDelete#CharmingPrince
#SweetGuy
#BlackIsBae
#ChikiChi4Eva
M.U.M.U
DeleteEbony handsome man 😄😄😄😄😄
DeleteHappy Sunday
As for me all I see is a man that can cook at the age of ten.
DeleteHahahahah.funny you
DeleteOdogwu nwoke ututu oma.
DeleteMorning everyone. We thank God for the blessing of another day. Happy sunday to you all.
ReplyDeleteHappy children's day to all the children. God's blessings upon them
ReplyDeleteHappy Sunday to you all beautiful people of SDk blog
ReplyDeleteOH my soul magnify the Lord
My spirit praise His name
For death could not hold Him a captive
Even in the grave Jesus is Lord
Even in the grave Jesus is Lord.
My Cristiano Ronaldo did it again
Hala Madrid.
Love you babe
Champions of life
Lengends
OH My Zidane, I've watched you play, I've watched you win and I've watched you coach and win again and again.
I love my Zidane
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏅🏅🏅🏅🏅⚽⚽⚽⚽⚽
Help me tell all those saying Liverpool will win. I just pity that Anonymous that said her boyfriend will buy her a special gift if Liverpool wins. OYO is her case. Lol Zidane is the G.O.A.T
DeleteYou have said it all
DeleteZidane is the Greatest of all Time
Yes ọ @Rowland,my love for Zidane is on another level, when you read his life story; the guy is a Miracle.
DeleteOH, and my Cristiano, I just love him like that.
I know Benzema and Bale scored the trophy 🏆 goal, but they all did a great team work.
Thinking of going back to the training ground but life and work wouldn't let me now.
Happy Sunday BVs. Stella maybe you should provide a platform to discuss about our environment and the appliances we keep carelessly that can harm kids.In Nigeria alot of kids die bc of our carelessness. We should stop accusing enemies and village people for something we can avoid ourselves. The Nanny and mother's eyes can't be on a baby 24h on 24. Let's keep our home safe for our kids. It breaks my heart to see kids die. Just yesterday it was a kid found inside a well, death. Just suggesting.....
ReplyDeleteI concur.
DeleteStella Kork...please consider.
I screamed my heads out the day I found LO and BEHOLD trying to climb into our 18kg Top Loader Washine Machine. They had already pushed down the surf on the stool beside the working machine,and were climbing and struggling up, our housekeeper had to get something to rewash a dirty collar off a shirt to continue the wash, she left the double flip open and that was it. Will never forget that day. If one had got in and the other tapped the soft button on, haaaa God.
Till today after using, we place a big wedge on the loader. I no fit shout.
Please secure your top loaders. It's a disaster waiting to happen.
Pls I need help. My guy lives in far away from me, and lately we are having some up and down in the relationship,so he invited me over to his base and I told him send the transport money he said no that I should use my own money.
ReplyDeleteThis someone that is comfortable as a young man he not poor, he uses flight anytime he visiting home to show you he has, and he hasn't told me any difficulties in his financial state so he very OK. I told him never that I'm not that desperate na that him sending me transportation shows acceptance and that he wants me there, Just know he pays my trans and this the first time he saying this, next thing he said is if I love him enough I will be eager to see him, I do love him in a way have never done with another and I'm surprise he basing his love for him on that.
I'm a great giver and do give him gifts with the little I have so testing me is out of it.
Bv pls what should I do, know we are into serious relationship not joking around type, should I still stand my ground of him sending me transportation before going. He a very comfortable man that can afford my flight to n fro if I was to use one. And also know he a very great giver n far from stingy guy.
Something is amiss. Sounds like the beginning of the end to me. Sorry
DeleteIf you have the money why not just go expect you don't Have? Since it's the first time it's happening I see no big deal
DeleteUse your money. He will pay you back. He wants to know your kind of person.
DeleteLet me just tell you the truth,he doesn't want you to come.
DeleteThese are just stalling tactics.
One you can get into the mind of a guy you'll understand him pretty easily, but y'all decide time is better invested in 3 hours makeup. Dunno why, cause even after most of you still look wack.
Happy birthday Darasimi.... Wishing you heavens best
ReplyDeleteThankful for another Day....
ReplyDeleteLord please draw me close to you...... Pull me by fire by force!!! You're always present before I ever need you, help me not to take it for granted..... Thank You for your many blessings!!!!
Thank you Jesus....off to churcb
ReplyDeleteAm just down wid a dislocated joint..may29 is my birthday..anty stella dnt forget to wish me hbd..i dnt wnt my pix to be display..thanks in advance.
ReplyDeleteNo time to fast for now, who fasting Epps? At the reception for complimentary breakfast, service is by 8am and the driver is not yet here to pick me up to the church. Happy Sunday to everyone our there,am attending a friend's anniversary Thanksgiving service this morning, will hit the road back to by base later in the day. I really enjoyed this hotel Services.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy, safe trip.
DeleteEnjoy your life, no time to worry about shenanigans.
DeleteThe earth 🌍 is ours and its fullness thereof.
Pray for us.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my kid brother Egbodion Ihenyen-wishing all that's good and wonderful upon ur life. 😁😁😁 from mama - ibhade and mummy.
ReplyDeleteHbd to ur bro
DeleteIs the Ebegbe your kid bro a blog visitor? Why wish him happy birthday here if he won't see it? Mstcheeeeeeeew
DeleteGood morning people it's a bright new day and it's Children's Day,wishing my children and all other children all over the globe happy Children's Day they shall continue to grow in wisdom,knowledge and understanding the Lord shall take them higher in Jesus name.
ReplyDelete#When you are offended at any man's fault, turn to yourself and study your own failings. Then you will forget your anger*
ReplyDeleteI haven’t been to church in months. I wonder what happened to my faith.
ReplyDeleteYou somersaulted. Its OK but don't be afraid to find your way back. He is a loving father
DeleteIs it your faith, spirituality or the denomination?
DeleteI haven't been to church ⛪ for months and my faith in God is still intact.
I have chosen to be more spiritual than religious.
But for you to choose this, you have to have the Word (Christ) inscribed in your heart.
I pray you find your way back to Him
Me too😭
DeleteGuys I don’t know what exactly it is o. Is just that church seems to feel more like a sanctuary when I go there on days that mass is not going on.
DeleteDuring mass the last times I went, the plenty donations and givings, just had me rolling my eyes all through. I didn’t feel like I was in a sanctuary, 70% of the things talked about all boiled down to bringing money for one thing or the other.
Then I wonder if I’m being judgmental, because I just keep noticing things that I shouldn’t. At a point church started to feel obligatory, I guess that’s why I stopped going.
Reasonable Doubt.
DeleteFocus on your spirituality.
Has God ever asked you which church you attend?
And He never will.
Focus on your spirituality.
"Where two or more are gathered,He is there in their midst,
DeleteSeverally,when Jesus was preaching there were power present to heal and to set people free.
Upon mountain Zion,there shall be holiness,the children of Jacob shall possess their possession.
The bible didn't say your house or your heart but upon mount Zion,
Your spirituality(relationship with Christ) is as Important as going to church.
The fire of your spirituality is kindled in the presence of God.
If you are not feeling your church,find another church that is why there are plenty of them.
Don't say it does not matter that you are not going to church,it matters.
When you don't go to church,you gradually die(spiritual death) and might still think you are alive.
I told a friend of mine who has not been in church for a while now and even when she goes,she is always too busy with her children to listen that her spiritual life is waxing cold,she kept denying it until she started experiencing somethings before she realise it.
It hard to find out you are dying until you are dead. Don't play with going to church it is very important. It keep your fire burning.
Don't let these lie from the pit of hell deceive you. It matters when you don't go to church because you are dying slowly.
Errrrrm so I decided I am to wear a palazzo to church today. After breakfast while trying to clear the dinning table the following conversation happened between I and our help
ReplyDeleteHousehelp- steffy is this how u want to go to church?
Steffy- bfor nko?
Househelp- this one NA skirt abi NA wrapper abi na trouser?
Steffy- how that one take make am bad?
Househelp- abeg go change this clothes. See the way you look like Chinese traditional healers.
Steffy- errrrhn which one be that one na? U never see person wear palazzo go church before? I wont change it (after so much tot I decided to go and pull it off) now am sitting in the floor with my butts naked not knowing what to wear. And to think I was really looking forward to rocking this particular one just made me sad.
My mom is sitting on the dinning laughing her ass off. E come be like say NA plan work. I am suspecting my mom gingered the help to come spoil my mood this morning. Coz if NA she I no go kukuma hear her.
I no go again. Make una pray for us.
Lol
DeletePele
Na palazzo dey reign here too.
Seems it's gradually coming back into fashion
I won!
ReplyDeleteGod won!
My BV family, please follow me and thank this awesome God for me.
He has turned my sorrows into joy!
I passed my Bar finals good people of God!!!!
I can't keep calm ooooooooooo!
I have been dancing like King David since last night.
Oooooooooh ,this is truly amazing!
I once ranted about how frustrated how I was becoming. Married to a rich man but I no dey see money. He commissions people to buy food stuff or he goes shopping himself. If I want to shop I go to his friend's boutique and collect whatever I want and he clears the bill. But Oga, give me money to send to my mother come see plenty stories!
No he's not poor, he has 4 landed properties and we are living in our own house in a very posh area in the State that we reside.
But yesterday, God rewrote my story!
For a starter he transferred 100k to my account in the night.
100k may sound some to some of you but it is a big deal/one for me. Coming from someone that has less than 4k in my account!
He said and I quote, we will paint Abuja Red on the 10th of July (call to Bar)!
Now wait for it, this morning, he said I should ask my mom to make out time that we all will be travelling to Abuja!!!!
My dear people of God, he promised to send mom something to buy new clothes!
Indeed nothing succeeds like success!
To my friends that maybe that didn't pass, please don't sink into depression, God will help you to scale through next time.
To Chikito and Lagos Shopper that commented on my post that day, thank you. God has heard our prayers.
signing out as the latest Barrister in Town😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Congratulations 🎊 to you! May you be prosperous.
DeleteCongts to you my dear-more blessing to u
DeleteI'm so happy for you, congratulations. You shall continue to move from glory to glory in Jesus name.
DeleteAwwwww
DeleteCongrats
Happy for the turn around
Ensure you save money oh
Congrats on your call to bar
Time to get a job o.
DeleteNothing sweet like your own money. Any other one na extra
Congratulations dear, more suprises for you....
DeleteCongrats on your call to the bar. But I am not getting, if you didn't pass he would have left you without money? Why?
DeleteThank you my beloved friends, I appreciate.
DeleteExactly, getting a job is quite easier now that I have qualifying Certificate.
Thank you and Amen to your prayers.
Congratulations!!!!
DeleteLovely. Congrats dear
DeleteCongrats....
DeleteU are really married to a stingy husband
Congrats dear
Deletecongratulations dear!
DeleteI remember your story!!! Hehehehe. Congrats and enjoy.... 😎😎 it’s a new beginning for you
DeleteHalleluyah,enjoy!!
DeleteIt's a rainy Sunday
ReplyDeleteHappy children's day to my kids and kids all over.
May your future shine bright always
I just woke up now...thanks Stella for the about out, it isn't easy.
ReplyDeleteHappy children's day to all of us.
Happy wedding anniversary to bv Sharon Aminu, may God continue to uphold your home and grant you your heart desires.
Tomorrow is the day, birthday and 2nd wedding anniversary, momore
Beloved, hope u were not too disappointed? Hala Madrid,#Baleissamanofthematch.
Happy children's day to my kids and all the kids in the world. Raining here in lagos.
ReplyDeleteStella unaa dey enjoy for that Germany o. I no fit count how many times you don announce holiday this year.
ReplyDeleteAll these plenty holidays no dey affect the economy so? If na for Nigeria, them for talk say na too much holidays dey kill the economy.
Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa
So I'm still rolled up under my blankets. My daughter is still snoring too.
This early morning rain just gave me a reason not to attend church again today. Let me keep pressing my phone o jare. Instagram here I come!
Hmmmm.
DeleteBecause of small rain?
"Wrinkles nose"
Yea. It's my birthday today. I am so grateful lord.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to me.
And happy children day to all the lovely kids out there.
Happy birthday Justy.... God bless you always
DeleteHappy birthday to you justyswt! May God bless you and all that concerns you.
DeleteGo and prosper.
🎂🎊🎉🍾😘
Happy birthday Justy
DeleteMay today bring you good tidings and all you will ever want. Happy ~ Birthday.
DeleteHappy Birthday to you Justyswt. May this day bring you open doors. May you never lack and God's infinite mercy continue to be upon you. Have a great day. Cheers.
Deletehappy birthday beautiful
DeleteHappy Birthday!! Have a great one!!!
Deletehappy birthday dear,more of God's blessings, Have a blast!
DeleteHappy birthday Justy
Deletewow.... losing our baby few weeks ago, was thinking today I will be moody or crying all day.. But no,iam so happy.. Waking up to be blindfolded to my surprise (a washing machine) after just getting a new 📱 two days ago..
ReplyDeleteAm happy, for giving such a loving family.. Thank you,i must have really done something right for loving me this much that u bless me with him... Happy anniversary to us... And it childrens day... Double blessings 😍😍😍😘😘😘❤💋💕💞💝🖤💜💛
Congratulations dear!!
DeleteHappy Wedding Anniversary Mrs. Sharon Aminu. Worry not, God hasn't forgotten your address. Something great is coming your way.
DeleteAwwwww
DeleteCongratulations my dearest Sharon
May you both celebrate silver, golden jubilee in Jesus name. Your children's children will surround your table.you shall testify soon. 😘
Happy wedding anniversary.
Delete*smiles*
My mind is telling me something*
Congrats Sharon, you will carry your children.
DeleteI like your positivity, you will make a good mum.
congratulations sharon dear,Your barren days are over,be fruitful and multiply in Jesus name, Amen!
DeleteAmen
Delete@xp.. What is ur mind telling u?? 😂
HWA Mrs Sharon. God will bless you with loving children.
DeleteHappy children day to the kids around the world.
ReplyDeleteGood morning BVs, happy Sunday morning. Heavy downpour here ooooo.
ReplyDeleteGoodmorning sweet people.
ReplyDeleteThrough with service, had to offload the little ones somewhere with a friend and her family, they need to catch some fun. Headed to work and the road is as easy a Sunday morning. Shutdown is 7pm, oh gosh!
Happy children's day to all the young ones. It's a wet wet day in Lagos, pray the parents live up to their responsibilities. Do the children right!
Congrats to Real Madrid.
Zinedine Zidane, 3 times in a row. Wow! Honor well deserved.
Liverpool did well and I still insist that their keeper "knows something" he didn't keep the ball, he enabled the ball. God is watching!
Need me some piping hot tea. Dang!
I celebrate with all the celebrants today, make an honest wish and see it come to pass.
ReplyDeleteHappy children's day to us all. I pray the Lord keep and preserve all our kids in Jesus name
ReplyDeleteHAPPY SUNDAY TO EVERYONE. HAPPY CHILDREN'S DAY TO THOSE INVOLVE
ReplyDeleteThis piece of advice is to the lady expecting transport money from the BF and to all the young women in Nigeria. I know most people below 40 grew up to be ladies in the era of runs and complete dependence on men. It is not normal. One common thread I notice throughout my reading of various blogs is that the women now expect the men to buy them everything, from transport money to Peruvian hair to even giving you regular stipends. It's very sad. The reason may be that you saw some of my age group, 50s and up who were completely dependent. They looked for paid employment but could not find. They didn't plan to become like that. The internet hadn't opened up a world of opportunities like this and so they started traveling to buy and sell shoes and purses etc but still depended on their men for big ticket items.
ReplyDeletePlease do not cheapen your womanhood. My parents used to tell me not to take a dime from any man unless we are planning marriage. I don't blame your generation. Our role models were Prof Bolanle Awe, China Achebe, Mabel Segun and all our profs in the university. I was fortunate and blessed by God with good jobs as places that you now need long leg for were merit driven and I got good jobs. My boss in a popular organization actually wanted to harass me and the race I ran that day was unprecedented. I quit the job but God vindicated me with another one, even better. Please don't sell yourself. If you respect yourself, the men will respect you too and you will find a good guy as you don't know who is watching your behavior. Stop glorifying these actresses and folks whose day job you don't know. I'm a mother of grown up children, fortunate to leave and raise them in the country with the most talent on earth. You have worth. Seek God for favor. It will carry you farther than your private part.