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Monday, June 18, 2018

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

This is a regular serious ish....





STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
LYING AND CHEATING SPOUSE ISH


Good day Stella, trusts my mail meets you well. I'm a regular blog visitor and the only regret I have is not knowing your blog before year 2015. Trust my mail meets you well anyway. Now straight to business...


I've been married for 2 years now and i must confess it hasn't been an easy journey for me. My husband is a cheat. So there's this girl he's been dating just shortly after we got married that was 2years ago. I got to know when I snooped on him. I found out they've been exchanging constant WhatsApp messages, text messages and calls. I confronted him with my evidences and he was totally unremorseful. 

He told the girl he was single and never had a child. I confronted the side chick too and she threatened me that was after insulting me with all my biodata, thanks to the p***y nigga that told her.

 When I saw his actions, I neglected him in the house. We just greet normally, I serve him his food and continue like he doesn't exist. After 2 months, he came back begging me that he'll change. I foolishly believed him not knowing he changed his strategy and we've been living peacefully ever since then. No more calls or texts from the girl, no more hiding of phones and all.


Now to the issue, I was working on my laptop yesterday and I decided to login my Instagram details which I don't do on a normal day because I'm a very busy person. Something just told me to check the girls IG page, only for me to find the girl and my husband's current pictures at different times and locations. 


Stella to say I was flabbergasted and at the same time infuriated was an understatement. I managed to control my temper till midnight when I had a discussion with him. Firstly, I made him know he's still seeing the girl and he has been making a fool of himself and not me for the past 2 years.


 Secondly, I made him know I won't condone such behaviour so I'll be moving out of his house anytime soon with my baby and till I do that, we'll be living as flatmates. Now he's saying he wants to call family meeting on my head and I honestly do not care. Please I want to know if I have made the right decision. Thanks.



*SOMETHING TOLD YOU TO CHECK INDEED..Madam you went to snoop...lol

You wanna lave for the side chick to move in?Why dont you ask your husband if he has married her secretly?cos i dont understand why she would flaunt him on the social media like that without fear or remorse.

Ask him well cos it smells like you already have a co wife or shes loading already!
Good luck and remember not to be physical or use swear words.

81 comments:

  1. Na wa o. What is it with men and cheating? Can't they just be loyal for Christ's sake! I am tired mbok.

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    1. Poster, just take trip to Benin and padlock him...remember his pocket and dick will be padlocked as well. Don’t move out,please teach the side chick a lesson too...maybe give her small madness🤯🤯🤯

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    2. Poster please I am your super fan, I love your courage, let him call the meeting you can tell them where you stand, (don’t be rude) just be formal, you can even lie that you have been treating of std after the other and that you will not wait until he infects you with hiv or bring in a second wife cus you know your worth.
      Tell them it’s up to him, abi can’t he give up on pussy for your sake, let them know you will not share him after all the option is his. Also let him know you will find out if he gets other means of dating her.
      Also let them know he told an outsider about you, like he gave the devil easy access to even kill you.
      Nawa for all these girls dating married men without shame, even to the extent of putting him up on social media, like are you not scared abi you no get conscience?

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    3. Yes, I wrote it yesterday that a lot of girls don't care if the man is married on not.
      They actually scheme to scheme the wife out and drain the man of finances!

      Na so e be!

      Madam, if you don't pray and fast, you will lose your home, including that child.
      The side vulture don wash put for ya husband o. She don spice the thing up in mediums.
      Your husband don browse enter python hole oooo!

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    4. @Miss Ess,no b only man dey cheat here o, wat do u call a lady knowingly dating a married man, is dat not cheating too? @poster I think that man is not ready to change, I doubt if that if he will stop even if u end up being able to separate him from this present one. So if u know u don't have d strength to cope with him as a cheat, maybe u just step aside.

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    5. The woman outside owes you nothing. Unfortunately, not everyone was raised with morals or scruples.... but the husband is the one that made the vows! Seriously, if I were in your shoes I would move on cos for that girl to have such effrontery , that means your husband has finishers you before her and has no iota or respect for you or your marriage with him!!

      Those telling you to kill yourself with prayers and fasting and submission and different styles, remember - cheating is a choice... and that girl is your 2nd wife!! If you live your child and your peace of mind, move on or stay a fool forever just to answer Mrs

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  2. Let all the team snoop come forward and give the poster a solid advice..

    Kpele @ Poster.

    May God fix it for you dear...

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  3. *chewing bitter kola*
    *sipping water n staring into space*
    Madam sorry....

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    1. I think it is very important to know what is going on regarding your marriage. So Stella, I am for team snoop except you do not care about your spouse. Never make a threat unless you are ready to carry it out. Now that he knows you know. You have to take a stand. Otherwise, you have given him permission to carry on. For the girl to be bold to insult you and download your data, your husband has no respect for you. I know a guy who called off his relationship with his side chick becos she said "...if it's your wife....." She asked him for money and he said he was broke. That she had the effrontery to mention his wife's name that was it o. Let him call family meeting. I hope you are working and have some money of your own. Tell them he idsrespected you by cheating, he humiliated you by sharing your details with a side chick. Tell your families that you no longer feel safe. Tell them about how she is bold enough to post pictures of both of them. Tell your husband your families you need time to sort yourself. Ask for seperation. The girl like someone said owes you nothing. I wonder what gave you the audacity to go and confront her. You lucky say you nor jam crase girl wey go beat you untop. She is not your relation. She is looking for an ATM and your oga fall mugu. You need to move out if you want respect and you guys can work it out thereafter. If he loves you, he will fight for you. If you remain in the same house frowning face, dude will be tired after sometime and will just face his side chick. But, if you move out, he will know there is fire on the mountain. Your choice really. Pretend to be a Mrs and live in misery. If your oga is comfortable, be sure the other girl ain't going nowhere. Most men cheat if given the opportunity but what should never be tolerated is disrespect ontop. I don't know how tough you are. Me. I don't threaten what I cannot accomplish. Make una nor dey draw rain if una nor fit stand thunder. (Isoko babe to the core)

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  4. Stay and fight for your marriage both spritually and otherwise.THATS WHAT I DID,IF YOU VE TO LOOSE HIM THEN NOT TO THE INTRUDER HERSELF.

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    1. Stay and fight ? Fight who exactly? This is one of the dumb comment.

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    2. :-D :-D Some of you are just pathetic. Fight for a marriage that is lost. These men only change WHEN THEY WANT TO.

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    3. @Don,comment made by Anon is not dumb. Is better she stay and fight the intruder than leaving her marriage.

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  5. Stella this girl can flaunt him bc he gave her that right. He has made his wife look small in her eye n has made the girl a queen over his wife. Madame b4 you leave, put that girl in a condition she won't recover from to even think of boldly dating another married man. When I was single I gave all married women their respect even if your horse is yanning nonsense about you. I stayed at my place n never trespass. All this single ladies who feel they can date people husband n flaunt it to the wife with no remorse need a cup of acid thrown at them. I am v angry right now. Who is given this girls such liver?

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    1. You are very stupid. Why don’t you throw acid on the man that has disrespected you so much and have given you so much low self esteem, that you go and buy acid and throw on somebody. When you finally enter jail for life for attempted murder, will the husband not still dump you and marry someone else? Big fool. If a man ever gets you to the point that you need to kill someone. For your own good, leave the marriage or you die of heart attack and mental illness. Don’t you think you are already running mad when you have to harm someone because a man does not love you? Lol. Pathetic...

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    2. And stella is trying to blame the woman for snooping.
      What is right stella? Not to snoop and get infected or snoop and know what's up.

      Secondly I am confused, she shouldn't leave because she will be giving the other girl chance to come in, but if it's the man he will walk away and not look back. Why must a woman be made to endure things like this in the name name of fighting for your marriage?

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    3. When I was single I gave all married women their respect
      It is women like u that encourage adultery. It is wrong and totally wrong to date a married man whether u give his wife respect or not.
      I am 100% sure that some side chick is also giving u respect while dating ur husband.
      Pls Stella we should discourage adultery because millions of young people all over the world read your blog.

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    4. If you have joined the Snoop Mopol and you don't have a solid backup plan, you are as good as a dunce.
      As single woman, I never dated a married man despite them surrounding me like ants.
      Any one who wants to date my man is absolutely free.
      Your reward is the huge live maggots you excrete from your vagina and the smell that oozes from you till the next state.
      Don't worry about my man.
      Leave that to me.
      By the time I'm through with him, even the wind whistling will make him piss on his body.
      The reason why single girls and your husbands are flaunting this nonsense is because you married women are looking at them like embalmed owls.
      By the time you use one or two for your 'showglass', they will adjust appropriately.
      You are waiting for God to move.
      God is waiting for you to use your common sense.
      Who has time for all this everyday noise,everyday constant warning,family meeting,attack,counter attack, another family meeting, prayer on mountain,prayer in the stream, press pause, rewind,repeat?
      Not me.
      I move in SILENCE.

      *PS: Am I the only one very irritated with these 'oh-my husband-is-cheating-on-me-what-shalai-do-scratching-buttocks-stories??You people do not have any real issues? Lucky you.

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    5. Lol tlk is cheap

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    6. Anon 16.31 I love you so much! In fact I cannot shout or argue with any little rat. I will gift you breast or cervical cancer, when next you come to this world you will run far away from married men. You small small girls getting married nowadays don’t know how to safe guard your homes from ‘strange women’ at all , you think it’s by just loving your husband? I laugh in ‘hindu’ , e ma sare si oro ara yin ni ! These strange women are muthafuckers and you must kill them in such a way that it will never be traced to you. Abeg I can’t shout.

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    7. Hear urself! Pls get a life before you die of hbp, bitterness sucks

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    8. You know your husbands lie about their status. You put on a curse on an innocent girl, it will fall on your home (i.e. your husband). Say amen...ANY MAN CAUGHT CHEATING ON HIS WIFE LET CANCER (since you think it is funny) follow him.

      See her mouth like dashing cancer. You, the women who write these annoying chronicles and these useless boys are all mad.

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    9. Abeg, no killing things here. Poster don't complicate ur life. U'v handled it well so far. Do the family meeting. Maintain ur lane and keep praying for ur marriage. It has worked for many. Urs needs not be different.

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  6. Madam her agberos to beat up the girl and break her bones. And get ready to pay the agberos well cos you'll need them for a long time cos that your dog of a husband will still go after other whores.

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    1. You’ve not jammed side chick that has soldiers and jazzman as friends and family. Instead of fighting her why don’t you deal with the direct source of rot in your marriage?

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  7. Marriage already short and so much wahala. You married an unrepentant cheat. He will never change, you will have to decide if you can live with it or not. He was cheating when you were dating, when you were newlyweds, when you were pregnant and still going strong. I would never trust anything that comes from his mouth, he is as much of a liar as he is a cheater. Men like this deserve to be cheated on in return, but you have a young baby so you can't even hit the streets and find you a muscular, big dick distraction.


    Since you do not desire to be in a three way marriage then separate and let him do as he chooses. Give the separation a solid six months, if after that time you really are happier and have no desire to remain married then go your way permanently. Listen to your guts!

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  8. My dear, you are on the right track. Let him call the family meeting. Your husband will never respect you or leave that girl till you leave that house temporary. That was what my sister's friend did, she left the house with the baby for sometime. The man later came back and begged and begged with all his village people before the lady went back. The man now worships the ground she walks on and the other side was never heard of again.

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  9. There is nothing to ask. If you stay with him, you've agreed to be with a cheat and it will never stop. The end

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    1. Gbammest!!!

      And that threat of family meeting is to threaten and frighten you. Because he really doesn’t believe you will leave! Leave before he does it. Is he the first to fuck outside that he cannot even respect you? If you don’t show him the marriage is not do or die for you, he will continue and even get worse!!

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  10. Why won't they flaunt proles husband when jaruma empire is openly selling charms to hook them.

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  11. Madam, you have taken the right decision. Your husband is a cheat, a man with no conscience, and useless. Any man who denies his kids is very very useless, no matter what. Let the side chick move in,those two useless fools deserves eachother.

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  12. Madam you are doing the right thing! Please do not back down!!!! Do not. If you stay with him you are saying to him "yes you can treat me like thrash and I accept." Madam move out. Do not allow family members get to you!

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  13. Let him call the whole community, it doesn't charge the fact that he is a cheat.

    Make sure you have something to fall back on when you leave

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  14. Why do married women confront their husband's side chick? Are you married to the side chick? Even if the side chick seduced your husband, couldn't he resist? Una dey get mind sha.
    Please let him call the family meeting. Listen to what he says to them. If you can't keep quiet, state your side of the story calmly and listen to what the people in the meeting have to say. I'd advise you not to move out. If you've been dressing like Christian mothers, go back to dressing hot. Live as a flatmate and ignore all. When he's tired, he'll either move out or fight to keep his marriage. Stop snooping

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    1. Very stupid comment. What has her dressing got to do with marrying a dog??? And yes why should a girl agree to date a married man? Can't she say no?

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  15. Them don open gate for them
    Oya 1....2....3

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  16. Guy man no even wait for marriage to enter 10 yrs before he starts cheating. Tufiakwa!
    For the girl to flaunt him like dat then they have really gone far. Doesn’t he have anybody he’s accountable to? His parents nko? Have u talked to any of his family memebers he respects? Let him call the family meeting first. Hope u have a good job to take care of u and ur Baby? If you don’t begin find one sharp sharp. It’s well with u

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    1. 10 years na life time na

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    2. 10years ke???....I believe this man was dating both of them before he got married to the man

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    3. 10 years???? Lolll it's like you've been reading too many romance novels. If they manage to stay faithful for 6 months it's a miracle.

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  17. This is how married men make their wives psychotic killers. My dear poster leave that efulefu husband of yours and go get some positive vide that would boost your spirit. Because if you continue with this man my dear poster you will become a murderer ooo. Men we should always respect our wives and treat them as the queen they are. For God's sake are you not suppose to protect and take care of your family? Men if we must cheat do it with sense and shame of being caught.

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  18. Some side chickens get mind sha o. So after confronting d side chicken, she still don't wanna let go. this one is strong. May God help you o. just two years of marriage and you're already having BP on top. na wah o. sorry ehn...

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  19. Stella,you make it sound like it's easy,poster please do whatever gives you peace of mind,I'm in the same boat as you just that mine sleeps with anything in skirt and the annoying thing is that he prefers to spend on these girls than on his family

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  20. This man is of the school that men get away with cheating and you have to make him understand that he can never get away with trampling on your dignity. I will encourage you to leave that house because it’s no longer a home. Let him know that you don’t tolerate infidelity and your life doesn’t revolve around him. If he begs and is truly remorseful you can take him back as your spirit leads. If he is not then move on with your life. Almost all the married men in my office who cheat will tell you their wives know but they can never leave them. It’s time to change that mentality.

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  21. na see finish cause this one so. even when I was a side chick I didn't behave like this, I knew my place wella and I try not to annoy my madam tho she didn't know I was fucking her husband. she doesn't even have time self. very cool lady and fun to be with. I even sent her bday wishes on her Facebook page using her pic as dp. to her, me and her husband are just friends and co workers. but she didn't know I was her Hubby's side chik. I gave her all the respect I could cos of the way d man respected her and the man never talked bad of her. if your husband respects you before his side chick, his side chick will still respect you and be afraid of you sef. anyway that was in d past. but side chicks of these days nor dey fear at all. na wah o

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    1. You made a woman miserable in her marriage by dating her husband. May misery not depart from you in your own marriage. Iseeee

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    2. Some men are very shameless. They don't have respect for their wives at all but will worship d ground their side chicken walk on just bcos of ponyor. Anon 16:18 hope say you don leave that married man sha. Na bcos you nor waka jam "gbagbati" woman. She for turn you to chewing stick. On d other hand, it could also be that the woman is aware of you affair with her husband. Don't take her silence for stupidity. Pls come back and give us d full gist of how you guys separated. Na this kind tori I dey like.

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    3. Anonymous 16:18 do you want us to clap for you? Bloody hypocrite. If you respected that woman at all, you wouldn't even be sleeping with her husband.
      May the Holy Spirit give you sense. You are worse than the side chick to this poster's husband. At least that one knows she is unashamedly dating somebody's husband. Poster knows who her enemies are.
      You are a snake; the devil itself; smiling infront of the woman, using her picture as dp; wishing her happy birthday and still sleeping with her husband behind her back. It is people like you that turn into murderers.
      If you do not repent; believe me you will regret your future. Remember that the wages of sin is death!!!!

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    4. Anon 18:46 can you just shut up before thunder tear you to pieces? Didn't you read what I wrote up there? I said that was in d past you lousy old fool. Before you raise your fucking hands to judge someone, make sure you are free from sin also you stinky judgina. Go and read my post again and make sure you understand the diff between present tense and past tense. Dullard! Am not d cause of your frustration you smelling piglet! @modella pls I don't think I can write d full gist cos some judginas here nor go allow me see roa. Just like stupid anon 18:46

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  22. My problem is not even the man cheating but rubbing it on the wife's face. How can u be discussing your wife with a side chick? And now the mumu girl has the guts to insult the wife. God help me, I don't think I can be able to confront any side chick, I married my husband not her so I don't have any issues with her. But God help that side chick to carry her matter come my domot, some side chick will even visit the man in his home...chai, make I hear say I no soak am for inside tub filled with acid.

    Single gals dating married men, do it with caution biko.

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    1. Ashawo, retired side chic. Go back and read your last line then give yourself a dirty slap. Mumu

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    2. I am telling you! Side chickens of these days gat no chill. They all wanna slay for the gram

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  23. You people don’t know what the man has been telling the girl. One married man has told me that his current wife was his bitter ex that wanted to suffer him. If not that I did spiritual findings I would have been conned into marrying him. So forget the side chick and face your senseless and disrespectful husband.

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    1. That was how I met one man like that o. He works at zenith bank. He was the one that helped me out when I was having ish with bvn then. We then exchanged numbers and he started calling me 24/7 telling me he likes me, he wants to have a future with me, bla bla bla. I asked about his marital status and he said he is still single. I didn't believe him cos it was too good to be true. Tho he looks young anyway. I searched for him on true caller and got his full name. Then I typed His name on goggle and I was able to get His fb and instangram handle only for me to find out that he his married. When he called md later in d evening, i told him about my findings. Na so guy man begin yarn me tori o, that he's sorry, his marriage is just 4years old, he doesn't love his wife, he was forced to marry her he wants to divorce her asap, his wife is a witch, bla bla bla. Meanwhile as a snoop dog that I is, I did my research again sharp sharp this time on the wife's page and found out that he has three kids already and d wife just put to bed self. They just did d baby's dedication two months ago. That was how i warned him seriously not to ever call me again. I blocked His number sharp sharp. Some men sha. Imagine all the rubbish he said about His wife, the mother of His kids. Who knows how many girls must have fallen for his tricks. Abeg it's good to snoop o. #teamsnoop

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  24. Leave him if you can stand on your own. Stop having anything to do with the side chick, respect yourself, you don't have any business with her.

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  25. Stella, respecting a partner's privacy is important but I have to ask...everytime you try to shame these women for snooping, it is in cases that has saved their lives. How again is this a negative?

    I say if you feel the need to check on a man, it is probably because he is cheating, but please he is your husband...look and make sure you are not with a foolish (like all cheats are) man who will risk the life of you and your children.

    What you do not know WILL kill you and fast too.

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    1. Wish I can like this comment!!!!

      God bless you to infirmity Anon

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    2. ***infinity*** is what I meant to write

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  26. I feel for you in this situation. Your husband is not and has never been trustworthy. Let him call a family meeting, he is trying to shake you up a bit. Let him know that this dirty habit will either die or he will risk losing his family/

    Do you work? I hope so, if not then moving out will be tough.

    Do not let any of these women with low self esteem tell you that you will lose the man to the woman. First of all he is not worth much and 2. they deserve each other. It is better to allow a pig go to his natural habitat.

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    1. Thanks, am really tired Of hearing statements such as "you will lose him", losing a cheat is an achievement biko, you letting the side chick come in to experience what you have gone through e.g pain, tears, shameful slurs,sleepless nights, hypertension,anxiety,low self esteem due to feeling of not being good enough is the best revenge if you ask me. Let her come in and feel the heat.

      Was it not on this blog a lady left her marriage and the side chick came in and married the cheat of a man, instantly the table was turned andthe wife made herself a side chick to her former husband while the untouchable former slay queen nagged her head off in pain everyday,while the then husband bought his old wife the new slay queen properties and spoilt yer everyday?.

      Personally if a man cheat I port, yes am not really keen on marriage anyways,so dont tell me how many men would you leave?.

      I will play my part, be a good wife but won't act the fool never.You cheat,you bear the consequences when i file for divorce simple, however my God given husband won't cheat anyways in Jesus name Amen .

      The best is to marry a God fearing man not someone who is simply religious(because there is a difference people miss out on)but someone who truly has a personal relationship with Christ.

      Someone who is Christ-like won't bother you for sex before marriage, won't embezzle money at work, won't short-change a customer in business, would see a misplaced phone no matter how expensive, he will return it.

      Yet when a man does opposite
      of these and much more, please don't expect him to be faithful, why?, Because he lacks conscience and the presence of the holy spirit is lacking in him, else, the holy spirit would have made him restless and he won't indulge in all that to begin with.

      Am sorry for what you are going through poster, but single ladies please marry a man of character.

      For all those little things determines how he values his relationship with christ which invariably determine how he behaves with you.

      My big brother has been married for 10 years and he told me " baby not all men cheat, so don't ever tolerate a cheat, if I can do it, other men can".

      I use him as a point of reference most times,and trust me he is a man of great character.

      Why won't I forgive cheating, because for me sex is not just sex.

      There's something called "transference" so I will never let you transfer negativity, setbacks, failure into my life by acting as a point of contact between your side chick and myself.

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    2. Thank you Anon 17:35! Well said. A man who is surrendered to Christ and is led by the Holy Spirit will not serially and unrepentantly desecrate his marriage bed. What the world sees as normal are what we redeemed and renewed believers know are lies of the devil. As for us ladies, let us try and have a holy walk with God (we are not perfect nor without sin but we acknowledge the truth and strive to live by it) so as to attract better into our lives.

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    3. Well said, Dre.

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  27. I don't understand what is happening in this our generation and how ppl view marriage. Stella, I also don't really understand why you see it wrong to go thru your spouse's phone and belonging. Why do we call them our soulmate? We share the same bed, the same bathroom, I give you my body and you give me yours, we birth children and start having a family, then I can't go thru your phone, something that is mundane. When spouses don't allow their SO to go thru their things, then that's a red flag. Pls ladies, these are what are to be discussed and sorted out in courtship before venturing into the real marriage. I don't know what you ppl talk about more when courting, I guess it's just humping like two rabbits 🐰 in heat.
    Poster, so sorry that you are going thru this in an early marriage. Take heart. You can leave that house for a few weeks to sort yourself out, and allow him time to think and know what he really wants to do with himself. , that is, if the family cannot resolve the issue. Some ppl are not just ready for marriage, then why go into it. Allow him to invite the whole family into this matter.
    Are you sure this is not Karma romancing you back, what you did years ago to someone else(just thinking aloud)? I won't advice you to divorce him cos I don't believe in it, except in extreme cases, where life is at stake. I pray he changes though. Make God help us to find a faithful and loving spouse.

    Anon :

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  28. Madam just get ur own side hen & stay put in ur home you will get ur groove back

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    1. Please done take this advice. When you get caught script will flip. The whole blame will be on you and you will loose everything. Pls leave officially before you start thinking of side hen.

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  29. Stella your cookies and cream is busy o!!! Madam no snoop.

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  30. funny that when a man complains about cheating 100% of commenters including stella tell him to leave the marriage. Yet when tables are turned, the woman is expected to ignore and manage, even when she is financially independent and suffering serious emotional abuse. I put it to you that the highest number of untreated HIV carriers in Nigeria are married women. The men and side chick know and treat themselves but the wives will be enduring and war room when their real enemy is untreated AIDS. Not sure why but Stella really hates women and I wonder if she knows it

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  31. Is only a foolish woman will leave her husband becos of cheating and enter
    into another man house becos he is a saint to her,,
    your ancestors married more than 5 wifes and still there are alots of unmarried
    ladies then,,and BIBLE HAS TOLD US THAT A TIME WILL COME WHEN WOMAN WILL
    BEG MEN TO FATHER HER CHILDREN,,,,you want to change the words of GOD right?
    you can only leave your husband when you catch him sleeping with his fellow
    man,expose him public and leave,,
    and never leave a man that is taking good cares of you and ur children becos
    he was cheating on u with ur fellow woman,,,
    cheating are increasing now becos men no longer want to marry more than 2 woman,,is only a man with true fears of GOD may not cheat these day,,,
    and is only a foolish woman will cheat cos her husband is cheating.

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    1. Only a foolish person tells another what they should settle for in life. Thank God there are women like Meghan Markle who chose to divorce and still showed the world she could go on to better than what they had before.

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    2. GOD forbid for you o, that’s how you will be following your ancestors until you join them from hiv

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    3. Most of you married women on this blog are suffering in silence, from low self esteem all in the name is of marriage and to be called Mrs somebody.

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    4. Only a foolish fool, will expect everyone to have low self-esteem like them.

      My dad was a chronic cheat I wished my mum had left on time. He slept with people who hawks, my mum's friend, neighbours, church member. Just name it.
      I am a very beautiful light skinned chick but I have spots on my body, do you know why? My dad slept with one girl like that when I was little and he got "scabies" i mean kraw kraw from her( no time to form posh).
      My mum was still married to him but as a little child I and my brother would jump on him, hug him, play with him together with my brother but I never knew why our mum would tell us to keep our distance like she did.
      At the time she slept in our room After sometime I and my brother had this same thing on our skin pus filled raised blisters that hurts. We couldnt sleep at night always crying,till morning, as a child then believe me it really hurt. It was contagious by skin contact and our classmates we played with, got one or two blisters on their fingers.
      Imediately I and my brothers were sent home till further notice. He didn't even have enough money to take us to the hospital.
      Anyways we later went but it was too late and as I speak I have healed spots scars all over my body same as my brother thanks to my promiscuous father who sleeps with anything in skirt.
      Do you know I also have herpes on my lips, though am a virgin never kissed never done anything before with anyone, it comes out on my lips and its so embarrassing thanks to my father who gave my mum for she always chewed hard meat and gave to me when i was little then. only I have herpes even my married siblings don't have it.
      I am not sure I will ever forgive my dad most times I wish I was dark skinned because of the spots. Also remember when I had to go to work with swollen upper lips thanks to herpes, what did I do to deserve this?
      If you want to stay with a cheat your call, but hope when he gives you Aids you say thank you. Rubbish!!!

      Anonymous I don't know you, but I hate you. I hate you.

      If you want to cheat don't get married, marriage is not for you, keep your distance from the altar.
      Stella pls post this.

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  32. Madam, go Kenya and get some certified magun portion. That will STOP your cheating husband to change his WAYS.

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  33. Poster forget about the side chick she will get her reward. I know a girl who was a side chick to plenty men. Even one prof was among then she was living large. One day one of the wives sent thugs to disfigure her face still she no stop. Later one man wanted to marry her they were even done with church counselling, it was during test they discovered she was hiv positive the man luckily was negative he took to his heels. Asoebi had been sewn cake paid for hall and even cow was on ground na so wedding no hold. Later she got one guy who had a crush on her way back. Hook the guy by force none of the guys family member came for the wedding. She had a daughter last year. I saw her last week and I was told she was battling cancer and I pitied her what a sad way to end. Side chicks don't ever be the reason someone suffers or shed tears. Poster it is well with you.

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  34. Poster kpele,some men are like that. Don't leave your home for another woman.

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  35. Your horseband who is supposed to be your shield left you open to danger. I know some married men who will tell side chicks their wives and families are no go areas. The day the side piece tries their wife, the end that's if they don't deal with such side chick. Still doesn't excuse cheating. Your horseband is just something else and how long will you continue like this? If you could overlook, you won't have sent this in. If you can shoulder the responsibility please walk for the meantime. If you stay like someone said, you have given him license to continue treating you shabbily. If you can't, blank him in the same house till something changes for real. Kisses to your baby.

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