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Thursday, November 08, 2018

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IN LOVE WITH A YOUNGER MAN


I;m in love with someone 5 years younger than I am. I am Igbo, he is Edo. He is very rich, loves me, adores me, treats me like I'm the best thing after slice bread. We met in July and I was hoping that he will just give up and let me be. He knows I'm older, but, this guy has been making future plans. 


I have not introduced him to my friends or taken him to my house because of what people will say, he says he can;t wait to meet everyone. He has introduced me to all his friends, taken me to his parents house and invites me to ALL his company;s functions, he works in a big company on the island. I don;t know what to do, 5 yrs is a lot and I feel like I'm taking advantage of him. 


PS: he gives me everything I ask, even when he knows I work and earn well too. I also feel like I will never meet anyone like him again if I lose him...... 



*Drop your Nigerian mentality please..Age is nothing but a number...Enjoy your relationship,you are already giving him booty so why hide why he wants to come out?Enjoy and make plans...ENJOY!!!

55 comments:

  1. Hmmmm.....the choice is yours. If your heart wants him, that's it.

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    1. Poster if u are on d small size and look younger than your age pls go ahead and try not to put age in every thing he does, give him your age and take yours so that u will respect him

      Cheers πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

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    2. Please forget about the age, I made this great mistake in my life which I still regret till date. I left an almost perfect person just because he was four younger, to marry someone else and I am not enjoying my marriage one bit. Please don't make same mistake, if could turn back the hands of time I will surely marry my ex without a second thought

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  2. The only problem is if this guy don dey drill hole already

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    1. Before nko? How many Naija girls dey date without their holes being drilled?
      Very insignificantly few that are truly God-fearing.

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  3. Stella has said it all... Poster pls don't leave that guy. Forget about what people will say, nobody really cares about you. Even if you marry an older guy, people will still look for a fault to talk about.your happiness matters most, so don't let anyone take that away from you.Mind you, a lot of people mocking you will kill to be in your shoes. That is life.

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    1. "nobody really cares about you" got me. Unfortunately,it is very true. An overwhelming number of people we relate with are very selfish and self-centered.

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  4. When you’re introducing him to people will you say “Hi. Meet my boyfriend. He’s five years old?”. You can as well add his salary, and details of his bowel habits. Why do we need to provide so much info about ourselves and loved ones to others? As long as he adores you your relationship is fine.

    If he’s done a good job of relaying your personality and how much he adores you to his family there’s no problem. I don’t think he even needs to tell them your age. Nobody needs to know about the age difference. No headache here.

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    1. You have said it all. You don't need to tell his age. Besides even if a guy is older than a lady with 20yrs if she lacks manners she will disrespect him in public and bring him down. Be humble, forget the age, focus on the love and be happy. Look at that president that married his teacher. And a whole lot of our folks are married to their juniors and they won't say a word. Be wise.

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  5. Let’s even forget the “he is very rich”, what has age got to do with maturity? As long as he knows you are older and okay with it then I don’t see the big deal. Unless of course his age makes him underaged to date then no or else you better enjoy the relationship and see where it leads.

    If it leads to something great good and If it doesn’t the world won’t end. A lot of men are married to older women knowingly or unknowingly and it hasn’t affected their relationship. What matters is that you both respect each other in the relationship.

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    1. Gov Akeredolu of Ondo State is married to an older lady. One of my mentors is married to an older lady of 4 years plus. No big deal about age abeg

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    2. Alot of people people are married to older woman and nobody knows. For example, me. Am older than hubby with 2yrs. He knows but nobody else does. I am a size 8. Small statue and I respect him like kilode so others outside will have no choice than to be respectful to him
      he is bigger and acts matured.

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  6. By the way, you didn’t explain why you feel you’re taking advantage of him. Because he’s nice to you? You feel he can do better? Don’t let your Nigerian mentality and inferiority complex keep you from enjoying what seems to be an amazing relationship.

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    1. Maybe he doesn’t know she is 5years older that’s why she feels she is taking advantage of him. I say be open and let him know and if he doesn’t have a problem with that, why should you or anyone have a problem with it?

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    2. The poster clearly said that he knows and doesn't care.
      As for me I married someone who was older and from my village. All those things don't guarantee any good. I ran from the marriage. Now I look for real love. Age, race etc don't matter.

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  7. Give it a shot as it seems you have banged him n he's still neck deep into u...albeit, go slowly.

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  8. Like Stella said , age is nothing but a number. Go ahead and introduce him to your people. Don't miss your chance at love all because of age. All the best dear

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  9. Poster start making future plan with him joor. What's this age, age thing self.

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  10. Go for him dear.

    I wish you all the best. I love love.

    That's why I'm hopelessly in love

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    1. Nobody asked u if you were in love.
      BBK

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  11. Poster I can imagine how you feel.Since your boo isn't worried about the age difference, why not relax, give him a chance and see how everything works out. It's well

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  12. Age is nothing but a number but you want to make it something.
    Enjoy and enjoy the flow,besides you don't have to tell people his age,except you want people to judge you.

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  13. Edo hmmmmmmm no comment

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  14. Ask yourself what you like poster if he fits in then you don't have any problem.

    Me i like older, wiser, and more experienced men I won't even lie.

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  15. Babe please enjoy your relationship & if he wants marriage go ahead with it. You are even lucky to find someone who loves you, many are searching,this guy is rich, nothing wrong in the age difference. I once had a fling with a guy that is five years younger I had to let him go even if he wan be wan die put for the mater,because I don't have a single feeling for him,just an adventure,about the sex & how he worships my body plus the fact that he is broke. I can't come & be doing broke things...I don't need that kinda man, thankfully immediately I left him I met an older guy about 14 years older (wife dead,has just a son)he pays my bills down to recharging my phones, can't remember the last time I bought airtime, he pays me salary join & my sister said he is too old I sharply told her please be on your lane I'm not like you that is looking for yuppie dudes.
    Always enjoy what you presently have working for you. Don't go & use your own hand to spoil things.

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    1. Did I write thisπŸ€”

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  16. Please enjoy your relationship jare

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  17. Poster as long as you respect him, can you respect this guy in future when your love is shaking, will you be able to hide his age difference with you to your family, friends? If you are sure you will cope with him in future without robbing the age difference between you both then you can go ahead.

    Assuming this guy is not rich, he is not working in a big company, will you still say yes to hom

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  18. Dear poster pls kindly drop his digits below my comment, am just 20yrs old,he may like me and my age. Thanks and God bless you as you do so

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  19. Dear I am in this same situation, I just discovered that I am older than boo with 6 months, we were born same'year. He lied to me that he is 2 years older until last week when I accidentally saw his birth certificate, I confronted him he said yes it is true that he knows that I won't date him if I know. He loved me so much and treats me like an angel, I have been giving him attitude for lying to me and he has been begging .we were planing to settle down next year but am discouraged . I don't know how his parents will feel if they find out plus all my life I have dated people that are older.

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    1. Lol six months. Marry him

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    2. You don’t have any problem unless you intend to go about with a public address system announcing to the whole world your age and that of your husband.

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    3. If you can respect him with his age just go ahead and forgive him. If you lie to me about your age, the day I get to know about your real age I will end it up. To me I don’t know if I can respect a guy younger than me as my husband, I prefer older guys..

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    4. Mtscheeeeewwwwwwww ok look for a sugar daddy and marry him. Nonsense

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  20. My brother got married to a woman who was almost 10 years his senior. It's almost 20 years now and they are still together with children and very happy as well. Love is about who you are comfortable with.

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  21. Is the age differences written on your faces? Does he respect you and honour you? Poster, the number is just in your head.

    Relax and enjoy the flow.

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  22. This chronicle is not complete nne. Please drop his phone number and Instagram handle. My choir mistress asked me to tell him something. Since God gave you awoof on a platter of gold but you like plastic plate. It's people like you that are delaying other people's prayers. You have collected your share but do not want to leave the queue for others to collect. Be there causing unnecessary traffic on prayer request line in heaven. Biko commot for queue osiso. Your coconut head like 5 years age difference suzuki there. Be waiting for Oshiomole or Tinubu to come and marry you inugo? Let me hear that you didn't send WNB before Easter, you will see how I will deal with you on this blog! Itiboribo.

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  23. whatever will make you happy in the long run, pls do it. this age is nothing but a number, i never fit accept am

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  24. Will you go about telling your friends and family he is five years younger?? And what if they know?? Wetin concern them?

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  25. There is no iota of love from your chronicle. All you wrote relates to money and a man showing you off. If you still think about the age difference then it's a NO. Let him be and go your way. I don't think you love him. You have not said anything about his personality and it seems like you can't cope with the age difference. Let him go abeg. 5 years is a bit too much in the Nigerian context sha. Also he may not even love you. He might want to mess around for a while and then be done with you. Don't let your guard down or better still get to know him well.

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    1. I guess she related well with the money more than the guy's personality because these days most Nigerian ladies substitute love with money.

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  26. Why do some women find it hard to embrace happiness bikonu? Poster, don't lose a good man because of age. I am very proudly four years older than my husband and our family and friends know it and no one bl**dy cares. Some dudes are simply Macrons and do not date their mates. My friend's younger brother just married a lady that is five years older and he is the rich one with American citizenship sef so it's not like he's gold digging. If a guy believes you are more fabulous than his mates or those younger than him, you should be flattered. My husband will say I may be older but that he looks older which is true. Who even dash you mouth to be reminding him of your age when he is acting more mature than you sef. Poster, please enjoy like Lola Okoye, Adeola Art-Alade, Kaffy Ameh etc. Such guys are fiercely loyal to their wives more often than not. We wholeheartedly welcome you to our fabulous club. Enjoy!

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    1. Wooooooooooooooooooo
      Woooooooowooooowoooooo
      I just can't keep calm I love i love πŸ–•πŸ–•πŸ–•πŸ–•πŸ–•πŸ–•

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    2. Okada drop me here. Poster come and see o. I too dey gbadun u amebo. Dare's wife is about 8 to 10 years older. Same wt Kaffy and Lola Omotayo and their marriages are solid. Older DH is more acceptable here in Africaa but who older DH epp? Na age go pay school fees or rent? Marry a responsible man who loves and respects u. Shikena.

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  27. For your peace of mind, maybe you can mentally reduce your age abi?

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  28. Older or younger, never an issue. Mutual Respect ✅ then we are good to go.

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  29. I'm 3 years older than my husband and he knew this before we started dating. We have 2 beautiful kids and he looks older than I am.....bottom line: we're both happy

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  30. Lol Stella "Drop your Nigerian mentality". Enjoy like she said.

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  31. can you stop thinking about the age differences

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  32. Please follow your heart if you truly love him and accept him. Who age EPP?

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  33. Now I feel confident. Thank you all.

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  34. You need to ask yourself,
    1. Do I really love this guy?
    2. Am I ready to be his wife and spend the rest of my life with him?
    3. Do I feel confident to be with him in public and within my inner circle?
    4. Am I ready to respect him as my husband without any form of bias?
    5. Does he love me with all his heart and Is he ready to be with me for the rest of his life?

    I think you have answered no. 4 from your submission......supply candid answers to the questions and go ahead with the guy. Age ain't nothing but numbers, but it really depends on you. cheers!

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